Hearted Youtube comments on TAKASHii (@takashiifromjapan) channel.
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I'm African-American, my wife is Japanese and we have two children. I was always interested in the culture and spoke some Japanese before we met. Her parents didn't object to our marriage because I really liked Japanese culture. When we had kids however, I didn't want to force them to go to a Japanese tutor or weekend school but she insisted! I guess she realized knowing one's culture can ground a person. Both are polite, respectful and patient. They don't get frustrated like I did when they don't understand something they just commit themselves to practicing until they get it right. If you didn't understand algebra, for example, you don't feel bad or give up, you just get more practice. Same for any other discipline. If you're Japanese that probably sounds normal to you but in the US we handicap children with the idea that some people are "gifted". Some of us are just good at certain things. Now I'm watching my kids become better at things through the kind of sheer patience learned from Japanese culture.
And as far as their Black heritage is concerned, I make sure to talk to them about African-American accomplishments in science, politics and literature! I don't particularly like to drive but whenever I am forced to use the car (I'd much rather be reading a book on the subway), I'll play jazz or R&B. Sometimes hip hop. And when there are topics in the news about discrimination or civil rights, we discuss them and I try to give those topics historical context. I always think it's a shame when there are mixed children who don't know about one side of their heritage. We have a responsibility to give them both.
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I worked for a Japanese company for almost 12 years. The Japanese people that I worked with were very kind and respectful. My boss came to my wedding and his wife has dressed in a traditional formal dress. It was like she walked out of one of those japanese paintings on frosted glass. Absolutely stunning. She stole the show. That was such a sign of respect and admiration of me and my future wife by my boss. I will never forget him and many others that spent literally years working with. They were charming, funny, insightful and incredibly smart. Once they got a hold of English and could effectively communicate in a way I could understand I really got to get an insight of Japanese culture, traditions, hang ups opinions and such. There was a man in particular named Koji Nakai. He was freaking hilarious. The other Japanese that worked with Nakai called him " Machine gun mouth" because apparently he cussed like a sailor.....which I guess is unusual or provocative still in Japan. But he came straight to me and asked..."Ahhhh, Jim San. Please a, teach me a, American swear words...." 🤣 So I did. And he taught me Japanese profanity which I still use to this day. The day I thought him "M er F ing SOB" was one of the best days of my life, I swear. There were several of us screwing off at work and here he comes.....to screw off with us. He was hiding from his boss. The lesson ensued and literally we were all laughing to the point of tears listening to him try and say "M Er f ing SOB". And he knew exactly what he was doing and why were all laughing so hard and he just kept saying it in what would be the stereotyped way.
That was September of 1990. I think often of Koji, Koiso, Midori, Takashi and my favorite, Toshi Shibatsuji. Toshi saw something in me. I was 21 years old and he was the manger of this new department and he specifically requested me to come work for him. It was a big deal for me at the time and it put me on the track to eventually be part of the management team and really it was instrumental in how my career has developed over the last 40 years. I think of him often to this day. I doubt he even still alive because he was in his 40s back in the 90s. But he was a true gentleman and an inspiration to me. I will never forget those people. Ever. It always made my heart swell to think about how things were between America and Japan during WW2 and how they were in the 90s. The mutual respect and admiration and the almost apologetic nature that seem to just be there because of history made me so proud to be an American.
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