Hearted Youtube comments on Tom Bilyeu (@TomBilyeu) channel.
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1:03: 🗒 Alex Hormozi discusses the importance of controlling variables, changing environments, and building self-esteem based on traits like delaying gratification, having a vision, and having drive.
15:49: 🧠 People have a hard time holding sophisticated ideas in their head, but it is possible to develop confidence through evidence-based behaviors.
26:00: 💡 Success has physics and if you're not trying to do something that violates physics then you're going to be fine, and how you get there is somewhat irrelevant.
37:29: 🔑 Emotions are subjective reactions to perception, and by understanding this, we can take control of our emotions and make different choices that move us towards our goals.
50:35: 🔑 The key to behavior change is understanding the rewards and punishments that drive our actions.
1:03:09: 💡 Rewarding behavior is more effective in the long term, while punishment can change behavior in the short term.
1:15:23: 🔑 The key to changing behavior and achieving desired outcomes is understanding and modifying one's frame of reference.
1:28:14: 📚 The ability to break down complex problems into actionable steps is crucial for success.
1:40:47: 📈 The process of testing and refining a business strategy involves breaking down failures into smaller steps and focusing on measurable behaviors.
2:03:36: 💡 Leverage is the difference between what you put in and what you get out, and it can be achieved through skills, collaboration, capital, and content.
2:05:26: 📈 The key to leverage in business is to maximize the number of potential units sold and the gross profit per unit, while considering competitive dynamics and upfront capital investments.
2:17:33: 📚 Russell Brunson demonstrated the concept of his books through exceptional offers, achieving record-breaking success in online marketing.
2:29:20: 📚 The author explains how he used various methods to advertise and generate leads for his book launch, emphasizing the importance of building a strong brand and making and keeping promises.
2:47:49: 💼 Businesses solve problems and make the world better, and entrepreneurship is the way to solve as many problems as possible.
2:53:56: ✨ The concept of 'one of zero' is about defining your own path, keeping promises, and earning your own approval.
Recap by Tammy AI
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Ummmmmm ... my first reaction to this was NOOOOOOOOOOO. I've thought Tai was a scam artist for a while, and to be fair, his marketing does come across as extra spammy.
BUT ... I REALLY liked this episode. He even explained why he markets that way. And as Tom has said before, you have to be able to separate the message from the messenger. Even if you have preconceived notions about Tai, you should listen to this episode. There is some great knowledge in there.
I haven’t done this since the Inside Quest days, but I took copious notes on this one.
Some takeaways:
1. Start small. Get small wins. It will scientifically build up your brain. You'll grow the amount of dopamine receptors in your brain. If you keep failing, you lose dopamine receptors & you become less ambitious. If you succeed, you actually grow more. Just get a bunch of base hits. You can have a massive vision, but your daily goals should be small. Build. Macro patience, micro speed – shout out to Gary Vee. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XFzPuEEvnDU&vl=en
2. Multi Objective Optimization – it’s all BS. You can only optimize for one thing at a time. Don't try to start 13 businesses. Focus on one. Side note: Tai optimizes his life for adventure. Seems like a pretty good thing to optimize for considering we're all gonna die someday.
3. Nobody knows what they're doing, even the people who are rich and famous and seem to have it all figured out – they fucking don’t. Everybody is just trying their best. (This was an “aha” moment I had a few weeks ago actually – so this was one of my favorite takeaways). The ultimate adventure is trying to get insight and see life as a puzzle. Your goal is to seek the adventures that piece the puzzle together. So at the end you kind of get it.
4. Health, Wealth, Love, Happiness. There has to be a minimum amount of money in place to survive, that's why "wealth" is above "love". The absence of money brings unhappiness. Once you have the first 3 in place, you just get happiness. Happiness is like soup, it's a compilation of a whole bunch of stuff.
5. Conscientiousness is the trait most responsible for business success.
Formula for conscientiousness:
a. Organization - be a little bit organized. take 10 min and write out your goals for every day
b. Perfectionism - know how to double check your work.
c. Diligence (Hard Work) - hustle & perseverance. Put in consistent effort over time. Reps & sets.
d. Prudence - this is the kicker. It's the ability to make the right decision. Most entrepreneurs walk around the world to get to a point one mile in front of them because our compass is backwards. How do you adjust your compass? MENTORS! lol. You have to read, watch, & learn from people around you who have done what you want to do. Most people just take off in one direction without stopping to think about which way they're going. You have to admit you’re lost. Sit the fuck down and learn from other people. BOOKS! KNOWLEDGE! (LOL btw, this is an awesome video - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1jOKfU9uL5s )
6. Don’t discriminate who you learn from. Take the things you want and leave what you don’t like. You can learn from everybody, even if it’s what not to do.
7. After the age of 25, the way people learn is through massive trauma. So you have to let in some trauma in your life, but you don’t have to learn everything through your own trial & error. Use other people’s trial & error whenever you can. Unless you’re the first guy to ever use Google Adwords, then you just have to blow a bunch of money to learn lol. But hold on, the errors break most people. So you have to have a GROWTH MINDSET in order to grow from it and not let it break you. And we come full circle to the mission of Impact Theory. BOOM!
8. Tai won’t say who Kobe was trashing, but it was Ryan Kelly. LMAO
9. Be around people who make you uncomfortable at the ego level. Override your mind’s tendency to tell you you’re amazing. Humans learn through osmosis. Be around people who override their mind’s narcissistic tendencies and aren’t the bitch of their own brains – pretty much Tom Bilyeu. Keep watching Impact Theory fuckers. Reps & sets.
10. It’s almost impossible to lecture people into success, but you can inspire people into it. Lambos & Ferraris make 19 year olds read books. BUT …
11. Don’t try to become a millionaire in your 20s. Work on the circuitry part of your brain. Go on adventures. Reprogram your brain. Download other people’s years of experience into your brain. But get out of your house. Go to conferences & events. But don’t do 20 in 20 days. You’ll lose your voice.
12.. Sweep your own front porch (figure out the puzzle of life for yourself) & maybe you can inspire others to do the same. Go through the adventure of life with that mad scientist twinge in your eye.
13. Put $10 into Bitcoin.
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Tom, you are amazing, an inspiration! You're one of the people that inspired me to break my limits, to go beyond! Committing to oneself is a lot harder than it sounds. However, we are all capable of doing it. And once you are able to do that, you begin to live a more fulfilling life. So, the times you feel like you can't do it anymore, the times you feel like there's nothing more to give, just remember that this person right here believes in you. You can do it! And you have so much more to give! I, Tanvir Ahmed, believe in you!
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I love your podcasts, Tom! But I must admit, among the luminaries and brilliant minds that you’ve had on your show, this one was my favorite to date. I was looking forward to one day witness someone open your biologically focused awareness into a more sophisticated spiritual understanding. Up until this interview, the guests you had on the show, even the world renown ones, were basic. Dr. K’s insights and explanations were much more accurate. I’m looking forward to watch your curiosity unfolding into the deeper mind.
Full disclosure, I too studied with an enlightened Buddhist master for 15 years and am an ordained Buddhist monk. My teacher taught many eastern and western spiritual traditions and techniques for opening of the mind and intuition, so I think I understand the challenge of reconciling physical and spiritual insights and practices, including meditation, business, relationships and health. But I’m super excited for you to receiving the insights from Dr. K. and looking forward to more of your awakening.. or at least considering an exploration in that direction. It was a real treat! Thank you!!
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Today made me realize how far I've come, but how far I still have to go. As long as there are major problems in this world, my job is not done, there is still work to be done.
It made me realize that when I'm not trying my best, people suffer. I don't believe any worldly problem no matter how big, is unable to be solved. It's just a matter of putting forth effort, creativity, and time.
I am tired of living in a world where other's push off problems for others to solve only to have others hurt in the process. I'm going to try my hand at solving every world problem one by one.
I may not succeed, but nobody ever got anywhere for not trying.
I hope all of you reading this reflect on your life goals and never settle until you make them real. You can either give it your all to create a world of your own making, or settle for living in a world of another's design.
The hard reality, like it was for the sweet elderly people, is that nobody in this world cares about your dreams or goals coming true in this life more than you. Create the life you want or end up with the life you get. You decide.
Your future is in your hands.
Will you settle for safety or will you draw a circle around more than just yourself and make this world a better place?
Nobody else can answer that question except for you. Every action you take, every dollar you spend, every minute you live, is a vote towards the world you are trying to create.
Never settle for anything less than you deserve...
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Summary and Timestamps:
00:00 🌍 To bring order to life's chaos and find beauty, taking responsibility for your mind and life is essential.
01:27 🪴 Taking responsibility for yourself is crucial, even though there are people who can help and care for you.
02:39 💡 Trauma often creates false lessons, leading to shame and fear that hinder self-responsibility.
05:40 🏥 The healthcare system prioritizes speed over health, leading to over-prescription of medications.
06:51 🪶 Self-love and taking responsibility are crucial, even if society doesn't provide immediate support.
09:22 🔍 To put trauma in its proper place, individuals should assess their internal changes, defensive structures, and habits.
16:35 🔄 Trauma often leads to changes in defensive structures and behaviors that individuals may not be consciously aware of.
18:38 🧠 Trauma affects neurobiological pathways, influencing how we perceive ourselves and our behaviors.
20:15 ⌛ Trauma can accelerate biological aging, making someone physically older than their chronological age.
21:21 🧠 Understanding and addressing factors that cause inflammation, such as stress and diet, can be crucial for overall health.
21:36 💪 Developing discipline and the right mindset can help achieve various life goals, including better health, relationships, and career success.
22:28 🧘 Trauma can significantly impact a person's self-worth and ability to care for themselves, making it essential to address underlying trauma.
31:45 🤔 Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) can be a valuable tool for interrupting negative thought patterns and fostering positive self-perception but should be combined with other therapeutic approaches.
35:46 💡 Intelligence is not a direct predictor of suicide risk. The ability to connect with others and have positive internal states is more crucial in understanding and helping individuals in distress.
40:47 🤝 Positive human connection and understanding without recoiling can be immensely impactful for individuals who have experienced trauma, helping them regain a sense of self-worth and healing.
42:41 🤔 Awareness of goodness inside oneself is important, as it can influence how you respond to others and situations.
43:24 🧘♂ Understanding your own emotions and feeling states can decrease worry and help you make plans for the future.
44:05 🧐 Don't rely solely on what people overtly say; there's more to their experiences and feelings beneath the surface.
46:13 🧠 Logic often doesn't prevail over strong emotions, emphasizing the importance of emotional well-being.
50:25 💡 Radical recontextualization is essential in helping individuals with false premises or negative beliefs about themselves.
54:02 💊 Medication may be necessary in some cases, but therapy and recontextualization are key components in helping people change their beliefs and internal states.
55:57 🌟 Connecting with others and addressing extreme isolation can play a crucial role in helping individuals with trauma-related negative beliefs.
57:46 🤝 Compassion should involve accountability and helping people help themselves rather than just providing temporary relief.
01:03:02 🌟 Seeing people in a societal context and considering psychological, personal, and societal aspects of health is essential for improving healthcare outcomes and containing costs.
01:04:25 💪 Even in extreme situations like solitary confinement, humans need connection and interconnection to maintain their well-being and sense of purpose.
01:05:36 🌐 We are built to be interconnected and to make the world around us better. Deprivation of connection can lead to a loss of vitality and the ability to generate positive change.
01:09:00 📝 Journaling and talking to oneself can help maintain a sense of connection and make experiences more real, even in isolation.
01:11:14 💡 Finding meaning and purpose in life, especially in the face of trauma, is essential for resilience and perseverance.
01:13:25 🌈 Resilience often arises from finding meaning and goodness in negative experiences, without denying their pain or impact.
01:20:03 🚀 When faced with overwhelming situations or trying to push one's limits, acknowledging the need for self-care and logical assessment of demands is crucial to avoid burnout.
01:23:21 🤔 Emotion often drives individuals more than logic, and understanding this is crucial for effective communication and self-awareness.
01:24:30 🧠 Logic serves as a tool to convey details and information, but the underlying drive is often emotional, leading people to push themselves beyond their limits.
01:26:14 💡 "Doing less is always an option" can help prevent overwhelm and the dangerous game of valuing oneself based on productivity.
01:27:20 🌟 High-performers, like Lady Gaga, face pressures to do more, but the key is to push your tolerance, not your self-esteem, and avoid making yourself special in a negative way.
01:30:48 🌄 Balancing self-acceptance and self-improvement involves understanding that you can make your life better, even if you don't have all the resources, and that self-love should be earned through meaningful actions.
01:38:08 🧐 Self-esteem should be built on a strong foundation of self-understanding and constructing a narrative of self that integrates logic and emotions, including acknowledging the impact of trauma.
01:42:54 📚 Uncle Rango's story, as shared by Paul Conti, is an inspiring example of someone who overcame low expectations, expulsion from school, and anger to lead a meaningful life.
01:44:15 🎖 Uncle Rango's transformative experiences in World War II revealed qualities like perseverance and resilience that he and others didn't know he possessed.
01:46:00 😔 Despite the heroism and achievements, Uncle Rango carried the burden of having to order the execution of prisoners during wartime, causing him significant shame and inner torment.
01:49:45 💑 Uncle Rango's relationship with his wife, Aunt Rose, was anchored in their mutual respect, traditional roles, and unwavering support for each other.
01:53:36 📖 Trauma can disrupt one's self-narrative, causing individuals to perceive themselves negatively, even when they wouldn't judge others in the same way.
02:00:22 📜 Crafting a positive narrative around trauma can empower individuals to find meaning, heal, and move forward, even in the face of terrible events.
02:03:24 🤔 Understanding that the belief of being inherently bad, which many people hold, is often rooted in emotions and not necessarily logical soundness.
02:04:35 🤝 Taking responsibility for ourselves is crucial, as we cannot rely on others to do so. We should also contribute to helping those in need within our interconnected society.
02:05:33 🌐 Concerns about social media's impact on society, as it tends to create narrow, isolated tribes rather than a broader sense of unity.
02:07:32 💻 Discussing the potential benefits and dangers of AI, emphasizing the importance of understanding human emotions and trauma when developing artificial intelligence.
02:19:13 🧠 The role of trauma in human behavior, how it can lead to both positive and negative outcomes, and the importance of addressing and understanding trauma to reduce suffering.
02:23:38 🧠 Emotions play a significant role in human decision-making, often leading to short-sighted actions.
02:24:21 🌐 There's a connection between gene editing, intelligence, and emotions in the context of human behavior.
02:25:14 💔 Pursuing extreme intelligence alone can lead to dangerous consequences, emphasizing the importance of compassion and emotional intelligence.
02:26:09 🤖 Questions arise about how to align AI with human values, considering whether it should prioritize love, compassion, or another orienting mechanism.
02:27:33 ❤ Prioritizing cultivating meaningful relationships, such as a loving marriage, can lead to greater happiness and fulfillment in life.
02:28:44 🚗 Logic is important, but it is emotion that gives life meaning and drives human action. Gratitude and humility are key to happiness.
02:30:51 🌎 The affective or emotional aspects of life, rather than pure logic, are what truly matter and contribute to happiness and well-being.
02:32:16 🌟 Embracing health, understanding ourselves, and striving to be our best selves can lead to a more positive impact on the world and prevent destruction.
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Thanks Tom. Your words are so powerful. I love your conviction. I lost my little sister to suicide 7 years ago and it was the darkest period of my life. It took years to process the grief. Yet, she gave me a gift and that is that nothing can destroy me, because if I could be destroyed by pain, it would've happened already. Now, I can salsa dance with my pain. I've gone on camping trips with my own demons and they're really not that scary, now that we're truly acquainted, they have no power. Because of my sister, things that used to crush me can't, because by comparison they're nothing compared to what I've already lived through. Death is crushing, but it can also be incredibly liberating to truly feel, understand and know the impermanence of everything, including myself. Now, I'm living my dream and creating life on my own terms, bringing the vision into reality. Risk, schmisk, I'll be dead in 70 years max, so in the meantime I'll throw my hat in the ring at every chance. Best of all, I've never been happier.
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So many takeaways here! Of all the interviews you have done, I connected the most with what Jay Shetty has to say. Hard to pick a favorite thing about this interview, but his goal answers the question that always burns in my mind about how to reach people, but especially the young people. I have a 16, 18 and 20 year old finding their way in a world of distractions and addictions all around them, while asking who they are, what they want and what they have to offer this world. Thank you, thank you, thank you for introducing me to Jay Shetty
btw, watched this with my 18 year old son and he watched start to finish, no words until the end ;) Excellent!
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Notes:
Sometimes you say you want something and life tests you to see how much you really want that.
If you fail, don't worry, it doesn't mean you're a failure, it just means you didn't want it badly enough
When you set the bar low for yourself you're only doing enough to clear the bar
I made sure that she pictured herself being a cancer survivor before she actually was
If you ever want to leave the prison, you have to let your mind leave it first
When I was able to get her to start acting like it before she actually was, then it was easy
I may be in pain right now but I'm strong enough to overcome this
It's the lessons along the journey that make it worthwhile to climb the mountain
Whether you reach the top or not, the question you're going to ask is 'what's next?'
Once you take away the fun you've already lost, because you're no longer doing it for what you started out doing it for.
If we can control our emotions and not tie them to events, we can overcome this
When you show that you're weak people can step in and help you
Winning in the NFL feels just like what it would feel like if you reached your goals
When I feel the feeling that I would get from changing people's mindset, it'sgreater than the pain of walking away from the sport that I love.
You told me you were going to fight for four quarters, and I need you to keep that promise.
Know your worth
I already believed that I could because I'd seen other people do it
I know what I'm capable of and so it doesn't matter what you tell me, I know what I'm worth
When it's all said and done I'm gonna prove these people wrong.
You have to go out there and not only prove those doubters wrong but prove yourself right.
Be honest to yourself.
If you don't like your worth, you need to find ways to add value to yourself.
Some of the leaders started out in the back of the line, but they had the courage to step out of line and go up to the front.
Sometimes when we set a goal we attach a hidden 'if' to it.
Make your future bigger than your past
I don't even want a tombstone to remind people that I've been here.
Dear Impact Theory Ninjas - This episode was a GOLD MINE!!! Thank you so much for the great interview. If this style of notes is unhelpful to the community, please let me know and I won't post them in the comments. Thanks again.
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I love this channel but I think RobTouched a crucial (although less glamorous and marketable) first step that is missing from the show. BASICS passion is great but if you don’t have a savings account or a happy marriage (like myself..fixing ) oryou’re simply not executing to perfection whatever mediocre job of have right now (again me) ...Figure that shit out first. If you don’t have routine that encompasses making you’re bed brushing your teeth and washing your face in the morning, and a power down routine that set you up for the morning: Stop 🛑 and do those right first. Then focus on the following Personally this is the order Ihave chosen and Ithink its solid. Health ( water, vitamins, stretch in morning and evening, some work with weights 3days out of the week (variation of 5x5 routine)) Spirituality (Select 2-3 to do DAILY : affirmations, mindfulness, gratitude list, transcendental, yoga 🧘♀️ church ⛪ i do all but the last one) , Realtionships ( nothing crazy just be sure to hug a couple people a day and text 2 people a short fucking “you’re awesome “ or”Ilvoe you” (heartfelt: a noncreepy grateful for you being in my life thing) and post a 5 pointlist of how to deal with approach difficult or tense conversations (i find that thisistheshit that “suckthemostenergry” tophrase Rob)) FINANCIAL (google “personal finances review questionnaire/checklist” fill it out and look at it everyday right after lunch” if you’re so inclined also read one personal financial articles a day .... again google blogs) Organization (Dont get crazy these following areas : Bedroom DUH, Kitchen, Car, and Workplace. Tie it alll together with a Pwer up and Pwer down sequence that set u up for tomorrow) Pleasant Fun shit( keep it simple and cheap google it. Here are a few :Take a walk read youre favorite book hug youre dog eat a piece of fruit WHY: when you start working harder and if you start doing these things you will!!! you can PROMODO Technique (google it)youre day you willl have rewards that wont slow you down but speed you up unlike the black hole of cell phone you consistently use) and finally Career (why is this last because if you feel like crap, have no feeling of self love or gratitude, no good relationships, you can’t find shit, and youre not having some fun its gonna be pretty fucking difficult to take on the necessary hard work of mastering or even finding youre passion) Love you Tom but please start pushing these things, SO kids don’t struggle unnecessarily . Hope to be in the Justice League with you one day :)
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For me, this video highlighted something I have been noticing for years now on YouTube. Most YouTubers, Podcasters, Entrepreneurs and Writers I have encountered lately appear to be type A personalities. I'm not sure if this is a societal shift, or just a confirmation bias, but there seems to be an almost obsessive focus on maximising productivity, wealth and even "experiences".
I am not making a judgement that a type A personality is bad; I just wanted to highlight that lifestyle and career advice for a type A often isn't a good fit for a non type A personality. I my experience, if you want to learn the true value of something (time, money, possessions) then try to experience either too much or too little of them, then find the balance that best fits for you. A mini-retirement can be a stark awakening into how we spend time, money and our attention that is far more poignant than the greatest of productivity books and seminars.
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A flower does not think about competing with the flowers next to it, it just blooms. -Zen Chi
When you complain nobody want to help you -Stephen Hawkins
(There are million reasons to make exceptions. you have choice. love yourself.)
People face to achieve mastery not because they aren't talented, but because they aren't disciplined. -Daniel Pink
(People and things are small than your goals.)
(Think yourself as average, and than think that you can achieve more height.)
Pressure can bust pipes, but it can also make diamonds. -Robert Horry
(You have to work hard with more pressure you can't seek an easy life.)
(Fall in love with the idea that you know nothing, fall in love with the idea that learning is a superpower, never be tricked by the desire of being self satisfied, never be tricked by the desire to be great today, never fool yourself by who you are today is who you can become.)
(your future should be bigger than your past and to live how less you know)
What you dwell on is what you become. -Oprah Winfrey
if you don't like how things are, change it. You are not a tree. -Jim Rohn
there are only 2 ways to live your life. one is as though nothing is a miracle. the other is as though everything is a miracle. -Albert Einstein
we become what we think about. -Earl Nightingale
20 years from now, you'll be more disappointed by the things you didn't do.
-Mark Twain
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I think intelligence is extremely important for success. However, there are many ways to externalize intelligence to access more intelligence than you naturally have. The intelligence of people, as measured by IQ tests, has been steadily going up, especially in developed countries. This is due to the externalization of thinking into education. A person can be taught to think clearly through learning the discipline of logic and rationality.
You can externalize mathematical aptitude with computing, as long as you understand the concepts of math well, you don't need to be an exceptionally good mathematician to excel in the field of math.
You can externalize memory better today with digital imaging and sound recording and computing such as cellphones, than ever before.
You can externalize creativity and imagination by having access to an immense library of content for inspiration and processes such as meditation and journaling that has been developed over millennia.
I have a slightly below average IQ, I dropped out of school in 5th grade and only completed one year of collage, I struggle significantly more than I'd like to with the most basic self discipline. Yet I started computer programming at a very young age, I've been able to retain an insane level of curiosity, I educated myself almost entirely through the internet and old textbooks. I've done well for my family earning more than the national average, especially for my formal education level, and I'm able to have reasonably well informed discussions with well educated people in a wide variety of topics arguing a seemingly contradictory, though I'd call it a non-tribal, set of views, reasoned from a set of principles.
I've come to the conclusion that success is more about learning to make yourself make the correct decisions, often in opposition to the natural proclivities of our anciently adapted biology, to invest in the mostly likely outcomes you seek.
That skill set is almost entirely outsourced to a set of best practices that trick my brain into desiring something, you might almost say, is against it's will.
The id, the self, can have mastery over its self, to perform in the way that will give you the results you want.
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Not a lawyer, but where I live, that type of choke constitutes the use of lethal force. In my jurisdiction, the question would be: Was the use of lethal force justified? If yes, then from a legal standpoint not guilty. Morally, should he have held the choke for a shorter period of time? Yes. It most likely means that he (Penny) understood how to apply the technique, but didn't have enough experience to manage the use of that technique under duress. In other words, some one with more experience could have applied the technique, then released and re-applied the pressure as needed. Alternatively, a transition to a different type of restraint may have been an option. However, these are all just hypotheticals. Unless you are a person with very high level technical skill and massive amounts of real world experience under duress, your cognitive ability is greatly diminished and you end up holding the choke too long. If you don't have experience making decisions under duress it's very difficult to understand.
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@Tom Bilyeu The story goes like this, I'm the laziest person you will ever meet, but also the most passionate. You're never going to find someone who can cultivates a passion more than I can. However, I lacked drive. This has been going on for years. After being a very avid listener, reader, and someone who executes and applies I started to get better. So much so that I actually started to see real change. Like literally, the change was being seen before my eyes. I felt my mind grow! Connections being made.
So I applied for a company as an intern. I will work harder faster smarter than anyone in the company. I will do this for free. I will work long hours. I did. I started working so much that I was beating the sales of the people in the job. People who have been there for years. At some point, I closed more than twice the amount of accounts than the entire team. Team of 4. This was 6 months into the job. (3 months internship and 3 months actual job). I promised myself that I would stick here to develop my drive. Stick in the company until I'm prompted to country head. That way I can leverage myself to better be capable to start my own business with a group of strong co founder. The thing is, I was given the opportunity to be part of the founding team with a very strong group (literally a power team) way earlier. Do I lack drive for leaving the company this early, or is it just me speeding up the process?
Fun fact: only reason I was asked by this guy to join the founding team was because as an intern I called him up and really got to engage. I kept following up even after a no. Didn't get the sale, but did get offered to join the new startup.
Do I lack drive or am I just speeding up the process to move towards my goals faster?
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Hey Tom, like you, I'm very inspired by Bruce Lee, an all-time great. However, in an earlier episode (I think it was the one with Mel Robbins), you dissed the "be water" statement, which I believe to be quite profound. Could elaborate on that? What do you think of Bruce Lee, his famous quotes, and his "be water" approach (which basically means being flexible, not getting stuck, not being rigid because everything that's rigid eventually breaks).
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Thanks 🙏 GOD who created this amazing person with wisdom and knowledge and strength and courage and compassion and kindness and love 💖 and caring,,,,and speaks so well....this’s so educational,,,Gosh free tips ,,stay strong 💪 jim,,,just awesome 👏 ...thnx brother
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It's nice to finally hear someone who stands for discipline and honesty. I think that we live in a world full of sugar-coating, where popular/positive psychology is crippling us to the core. My methods are to some extent similar to David's, because I also started my self-discovery path in a hard way (and I'm still in the process). Other people think that my hard work is actually a torture and even when I tell them it's not, that I'm just passionate and driven, that I actually take care of myself, they don't believe me. Everybody has a personal way of shaking a comfort zone. I know many people who lead seemingly calm and moderate life, but the effort they put in their mental training, goals (music, art, languages and etc) is INSANELY passionate (not desperate). No one would guess what's behind those "cool" surfaces.
Thanks for sharing this interview, Tom. I'm glad I discovered this amazing man and your channel as well. You did a great job, you asked the right questions and I like how it all comes naturally to you.
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"You're so busy overlooking it..." Yep, amazed by him and his truth speaking it freely. Darryl, I used to live in rural MO where there were very few African-Americans and I heard more racist comments there than anywhere. My friends and I listened to Run DMC, The Sugarhill Gang, Midnight Star, Grandmaster Flash and Furious 5. I'm so glad you are still here. That music was a connection to something very different for us, and it was sort of transporting. Thank you for doing this interview and revealing so much, and thank you to Tom for getting him on the show. This was very stirring. I just made my first music video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wy_X8NMpGkg It is instrumental piano, no vocals. Thank you, Darryl, not only for your music.
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