Comments by "Sebastian Rubio" (@sebastianrubio928) on "Japanese Women on Dating White Men [ENG CC]" video.

One of the most realistic videos, got a lot of decent opinions. I still think they have a distorted view of "Western" men, they expect way too much, they also base their opinions too much on movies (those who havn't travelled abroad) During the entire video, I wondered: ok sure, but what do you bring to the table? Some women have high expectations, looking for the prince, yet they are very far from princesses themselves. Some People will call me an asshole, but here's my honest opinion on what Men expect from their Woman: be pretty, be loyal, be submissive and don't cause problems for your man. That's the trade off we want for all your demands and all your expecatations. Men don't care about your degrees, don't care about how much you make, don't care about you being independant. A women could be working at MCdonalds earning minimum wage, if she is super hot, men will want her. Personally, the one thing that bothers me most about Japanese women isn't the culture or the language barrier, it's something that didn't come up first here: how much the guy makes. I've heard from plenty of guys who dated in Japan: it's one of the first questions asked. That really makes them seem like golddiggers which is such a turn-off. _________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ It is pretty clear which ones are open to this idea and who aren't. The ones open minded enough are the only ones who have a decent shot to date & marry a Westerner.
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@ilgiallo0 I'm latin american, same culture with the touchy & friendly part, but I live in a half Germanic country, so I'm familiar with more coldhearted logic and a colder society. It is true, the more I go into Japanese culture, the more flaws you find. Dating is hard for Japanese on Japanese, that's why their marriage rates are lower thna ever and why their birth rates are also dramatically low. I was Germany recently, I noticed how cold hearted they can be.
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@kangtheconquerortheninth3826 very sad to hear, but yeah there's many horror stories with kids, mom or dads fleeing to Japan and not much can be done, then there's the alemony & costudy rules in Japan which are just..so wrong. Japan has so many societal problems and not many people want to recognise them, fixing them is not for any time soon. Yeah, at one point I thought it would be hot to date a native Japanese women, but now, very likely I might go as far as to actively avoid such a situation. As for Korean, personally never been attracted to that country or that society. No offence to Koreans, but their women seem really fake and money hungry, 2 things I hate.
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@MrPurge11 Yeah, attraction alone is for a one night only, but if you want something longtherm, you need 2 things, it has to happen naturally and second, there needs to be genuine desire, both ways, but honestly most from her. Basically she shouldn't be looking to date per se, but somehow you still get together, that a good start and then basically she is heads over heels in love with you. The hard part is keeping that feeling intact, otherwise that's just a fling, it may be intense at first, but it's just a fling. Like I said above she needs to be open minded and probably shouldn't be too tied to Japan and the Japanese way. Realisticly seen, a longtherm relationship with Japanese women is probably VERY unlikely. I'm not saying it's impossible or that you shouldn't do it, but very likely it's not happening.
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