Comments by "Cottidae" (@CottidaeSEA) on "Koreans React To Spy Cam Porn Epidemic | ASIAN BOSS" video.

  1. The girl blaming it on patriarchy... no. It's just perverts being perverts. They objectify people, not because there's a patriarchy, but because they are simply perverts. Of course, whether or not there's a patriarchy is a different story, but basically, this issue isn't because of it.
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  2. sync, exactly. One is more predatory, and also more protective and territorial. The male. That has nothing to do with better or worse, that's just different traits.
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  3. YoungKirbystr8FlexinZoneCuh BrickSquadIMMORTAL, that is exactly what I'm talking about. I don't know what this person is on about regarding men inherently not being more violent. It's clear that it's the case, just based off of how testosterone affects our bodies, and that's just one reason. I don't really get why people start blaming things on patriarchy and whatever else it may be immediately. While society plays an important role in our lives, things are rarely black and white. It's usually a multifaceted problem, not just due to one thing. I also think that hormones are simply a much greater cause in general.
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  4. BBkPv "Society is just more lenient with men" Stop lying please. Look at crime statistics and see how men and women are treated differently. Women get a shorter sentence for the same crime, yet you're here claiming that society is more lenient with men? It's the complete opposite. Of course, a pitiful amount of sex crimes actually lead to anything, but the same rate actually get a sentence out of the ones who go to court. While the following number is a complete fabrication, it's merely to show an example. 10% of the crimes that go to court lead to a sentence. This applies to all violent crime. Including sex crimes. However, a lower ratio of sex crimes go to court, primarily due to lack of evidence which leads to the investigations being cancelled. That is the biggest issue in regards to sex crimes, evidence. If I claim you raped me but I have no evidence, I can't prove that you raped me. In the eyes of the police, it's simply unreasonable for that case to go to court, because it would just be you and me telling our versions of the story. Yet there's nothing to prove either. Even in court, they'd have nothing to go on and you'd go free, regardless if you had done anything or not. That's just the reality of how our justice system works. Innocent until proven guilty. If we are to automatically assume guilt, then the amount of reports would be staggering. Imagine it, just being reported and you're treated like a criminal, regardless of whether you've done it or not. So in short, no, the society isn't more lenient with men. I'll even add something like military duties into the mix just because that's another thing that women generally don't have to do. Yet men training to protect the country and potentially dying for that cause, that's being lenient on men? Of course, this has probably been said a billion times already, but since it's still relevant, it's still being said. So, if you want to claim that the society is more lenient on men, then you reeeeeeeeally need to provide examples and even better, actual facts. Whether what you're saying is true or not would depend a lot on the context. Even then, that particular thing would be difficult to actually defend since there are many things speaking against it.
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  5. BBkPv, what are you even talking about? I don't see how that's related to anything I've said. If it actually is, then please do tell me how, because I don't see it.
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  6. sync Of course not, people who do bad things should be punished for it. Explaining why something happens and whether it's good or not are two different issues, but a lot of people don't seem to understand that. I don't necessarily think it's the fault of my wording either, people simply assume things that aren't even said. You seem fairly reasonable from what I've seen, you don't assume things other than what is actually said and you respond to it in a decent manner as well. Like in this case, instead of saying "you justify poor behavior" you instead said that you hope I'm not giving excuses. That is a good way of probing for information without directly asking.
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  7. calico, I have little to say about those watching the videos, I just think it's terrible. However, what you're saying about "catching those pervs" is something I'm a bit curious about. Do you mean those who watch the videos, or those who record them? Because I think it's unreasonable to catch all of the people who watch those videos, there's way too much digging for information that would need to be done, and other countries tend to not want to give away personal information on a whim. When it comes to those who record the videos however, those are the core issue here. Catching them would at the very least reduce the amount of videos that'll be uploaded which is a good thing. While I'm not against porn, I'm against porn that is filmed against the will of the people in the video. Heck, I'm against most things like that. I think privacy is one of our most precious things, and to have that just taken away in that manner, that's just not good.
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