Comments by "David Small" (@daveeyes) on "Wife DEMANDS Open Marriage, Learns How Fast Her Husband Can Replace Her" video.
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If my ex ever asked for an open marriage, I would say I'll think about it, consult a divorce attorney the next day, and hand her divorce papers as soon as possible. I'd hide assets, sell stuff off, and tuck them into a Cayman Islands bank account. Bitcoin is also good. I would drain the household of all the things she'd get in the divorce. Finally, I'd drain the bank account.
My ex was bizarre. She used to wait for me to go on business trips then buy expensive toys. A kiln for her "clay work". She only used it a couple times. A new Mac compatible portable. Again, never used it. It was her way of cheating on me. Whenever times got rough, she'd go read science fiction and withdraw, never facing up to the problems and helping us.
After our divorce, of course she got the house and custody, she had to actually get a job to make the house payments. Her drug addiction by then was so severe she was arrested and put on Methadone maintenance. Her new addiction became Romance Novels. She made a three layer stack window high in the bedroom! Bodice rippers where the man treats the woman like shit throughout the novel until the last chapter, when it is revealed he had to, because he was a secret agent or a Prince undercover. Then they kiss and make wild love.
Her work became her addiction. She maintained old legacy code for a travel outfit. That job would have driven me insane but she thrived at it. She made her house payments, incredibly, but was too stupid to refinance during the era of low interest rates. She finally paid off her 30 year loan.
The house has turned into disgusting shit. There is black mold all over the basement. The kids had no toilet, she never got around to installing the new one she bought. The skylights leaked and literal curtains of spackling are falling from the ceiling. Her unanswered mail is 4 feet high in the kitchen. She was arrested and spent two weeks in the slammer for ignoring a judge's order to appear. She's still on methadone.
Her kids despise her and have nothing to do with her. I'm pretty good friends with them and am taking one to lunch tomorrow.
Thanks for letting me ramble.
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What a tragedy. The man felt she was his one and only. He could have spent his life with her. Her "friends" "opened her eyes" to a new, "exciting" world she had never experienced, being a 304. She soon learned that once the guy bustedva nut, he was over her. That's the hole that sinks the ship.
She should have had kids. That would have given her something to live for and put her energies into. Of course womanists would be horrified that I'd say that, but its true.
The man came out of this mess in better shape. He sure got a tough lesson about 304's trying to keep his wife "happy". I hope he finds happinesd with his new girlfriend. As for the ex wife, she has probably ruined her life. She will probably spend the rest of it regretting her wild youth and end up alone and bitter. It's amazing how many girls will settle for being unhappy and bitter.
People never cease to amaze me. The Bible says, "There is nothing new under the sun." Ecclesiastes was one bright dude, and his sayings provided The Byrds with their hit song, "Turn, turn, turn".
"To everything, there is a season, and a time to every purpose, under Heaven..."
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