Comments by "Gerald Montagna" (@GeraldM_inNC) on "Article Finds Men Are REFUSING To Have Children With Modern Women Anymore" video.

My last roommate (in his 40s) knew a woman in her 30s who claimed she was infertile, and he stupidly took her word for it. She didn't even want to baby trap him into marriage, she just wanted the child support because she's a non-working breed. He paid 1,000 month in court ordered child support for an infant -- what infant costs $1,000 a month? -- and she still DEMANDED more and called him a deadbeat. They had never been a steady couple or lived together and she had lied to him in order to get pregnant. We lost our apartment when the virus cost him his job, and I don't know what became of him. She truly destroyed his life.
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No wife -- happy life
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No. If it had been Chad (who, by definition, has a good job) he would already have gotten the bill. The father was Pookie (who, by definition, only works off the books). I recommend the videos of Shannon Rice Lewis on "baby daddies".
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@celuiquipeut6527 I was denied access to my daughter because of all the outright lies that had been told about me, and even after she became an adult I was free to contact her she wanted nothing to do with me because of all the indoctrination. I tried to tell her the truth, but she didn't want to hear it. Like you I still wake up from dreams of her in tears -- 30 years later.
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I have no doubt of that conclusion.
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@donjohnson1498 I fought ferociously in court for years, and when I finally got a court order totally in my favor they just ignored it. As you say, the battle is so hopeless and the outcome so predetermined that it "is not even worth the fight".
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@celuiquipeut6527 There are battles in life that you can't win. My problem was that back before the Internet there was no way you could find out whether a battle was merely difficult or impossible. Now, thanks to the Manosphere, we see that most men have experienced the same tragic things, and we learn about the corrupt system that crushes men and enables evil women. Now I know for certain that I could never have won, as all the power was on the side of evil.
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I have known a number of guys who broke up with their woman because she insisted she didn't want a baby. In every case she got pregnant not long after they broke up. I realized then that it really meant that these women just didn't deem their man worthy of having a child with her -- not handsome enough.
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@edheldude However, "discretion is the better part of valor". There is no virtue in fighting a war that you are guaranteed to lose.
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You don't realize how unusual your ex-wife is. The modern woman is determined to do everything possible to destroy her ex-husband even if she was the one who broke up the marriage. The ex of Coach Greg Adams lives for the sole purpose of destroying him utterly, she can't stand how successful he became after their marriage. She's managed to alienate his children, drive him out of his home state, blacken his name (he used to win "father of the year" awards), and keep him constantly tied up in litigation (to collect half of his CURRENT earnings when she's only entitled to half of what he made when they were married). This is a lot more typical than your experience.
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@KFrost-fx7dt She gave her word that she was infertile. He was a fool to trust her word, but it was she who fraudulently told him he didn't need protection.
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@raytracer5726 They want way more than the court ordered. If you don't give them everything they demand, even if you are current with alimony and child support then they will go on social media and shame you as a deadbeat. That's what happened to Coach Greg Adams.
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@pokeman5000 They had never lived together, and they hadn't ever be a couple in any sense. She was living with her mother and didn't pay rent to her. $1,000 a month seems astronomical for a baby's expenses.
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If they appear to be decent, faithful and loyal it is just an act. Women are born actresses.
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Not "some" -- 100% of them
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Any man with common sense would choose a restaurant based on what kind of food he was craving that very minute. But vvomen don't go to restaurants to satisfy hunger or cravings, it's all about validation. They are dining out in order to feel good about a man spending lots of money on her at an expensive restaurant that requires reservations.
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@johnarcher6150 - I think there is a very slight chance that a child could realize on his or her own that the stories told about the father were all lies, simply by observing the behavior of the mother over the years. I have actually read many postings in which men said their relationship to a child was restored after an estranged child realized that his or her mother was basically amoral and a pathological liar. This appears to happen much more frequently with males than with females (although there are exceptions). The daughters have a much stronger tendency to side with their mother automatically. I think, for example, of Coach Greg Adams, who has a son and a daughter, both of whom were raised under the same circumstances. The mother managed to estrange the daughter from him, but not the son. The situation became so toxic that finally CGA just moved out of state and told the children to fend for themselves. CGA pays his child support and that's all. CGA's ex is the stereotype of a Baby Mama Terrorist. Her sole purpose for living is to destroy him, and she doesn't mind if that destroys the children too because every BMT "hates her ex husband more than she loves her children". Stephen King wrote a horror movie called "Storm of the Century", in which a supernatural man with almost unlimited powers demanded from an isolated community that one son be freely given to him to be raised as his own son and successor. In the final scene, many years later, the child's father sees the son, now in his 20s, walking alongside the supernatural man, and calls out to him. His former son looked at him with utter contempt and hissed evilly in the manner of the adoptive father. Well, when I finally got into contact with my daughter when she was of legal age (I was barred from contacting her before that because of the mountain of outrageous lies that had been told) that's basically what happened. I tried to tell her the truth about her background and all the fraud that had been committed to get me out of her life, but she wouldn't listen. I realized that there was nothing left of me inside of her, because she had been raised to be something else entirely. I felt exactly like that character from "Storm of the Century".
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@McNabbulous Coach Greg Adams says that "the government is her husband"
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Thanks for sharing that fact.
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Every woman says her ex (ALL of her exes) is abusive and controlling.
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She's already got another guy.
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@johnarcher6150 Unfortunately, many BMTs now raise sons whom Coach Greg Adams calls "son-husbands". They are raised to be daughters, and grow up with no backbone, no sense of responsibility, so direction in life, no goals. They end up in jail or on welfare.
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@johnarcher6150 100%
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@T Mac No conscience whatsoever. Not even women who claim to be religious.
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@1230mkelly - That's the weird thing about that situation, because it's so out of character. He's fit, muscular, handsome, easily top 10%, and normally he treats vvomen the way an alpha male should do. He doesn't buy them anything. I've seen him walk into a bar and pick up vvomen half his age. He trusted this particular vvoman because he'd known her for many years though they'd never been involved. It seems so out of character for him to have fallen for such an obvious lie.
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@1230mkelly The odd thing is that he's hardly a beta simp. He's top 10% in looks, handsome and very fit, and he goes to bars and easily picks up women in their early 20s although he's twice their age. He has a whole rotation, and picks up women wherever he goes. He never simpishly buys women anything, he just smashes. That's what makes this lapse in judgment so atypical of him. He let his guard down once for a casual hookup unprotected with someone he had long known, and she lied to him in order to get pregnant.
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@markdavids2511 Unlike you, I did give a fuck and spent years fighting it in court. Where did it get me? Bankruptcy and destruction of my career.
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@jasonwarren9279 He was lied to. Still, any guy with half a brain would have demanded proof that she was infertile from a doctor.
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@johnarcher6150 I have NEVER said women are evil. I have said they are predators by biology. Are lions evil? Are tigers evil? No, they just do what their program designed them to do. Just as lions exist to devour prey to stay alive, human females exist to devour men's financial resources and protection. That doesn't make women evil. But they are, like lions and tigers, super-dangerous, and should be avoided.
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@johnarcher6150 Brother John, vvomen may KNOW better intellectually, but their DNA and hormones override their intellect. Even if she is happy in her marriage and has a good husband, the moment Chad shows up in her life then her reptilian brain takes over. She turns into a cave-woman. I've been in the church all my life and see this repeatedly with women who have had good morals drilled into them for decades. There is no resisting Chad. Her brain shuts off. Every instinct in her DNA and hormones is telling her to give her body to Chad. It's not an "excuse", it's just the biological fact. A vvoman is programmed to mate with Chad.
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@MickeyMouse-lo4sy Actually, mine was a special case. My ex-wife turned our daughter over to the Social Services, and the Social Services refused to let me see her. This was in England, where the Social Services are run by man-hating feminists. They openly say that a man shouldn't have anything to do with his children. I got a court order for access and they just ignored it. I fought them in Court for five years and it left me bankrupt and destroyed my life.
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@iamaronman And stupid naive blue pill me, I believed them!!!
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Baby Mama Terrorist (BMT)
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This article is pure BS. The real reason married women hate vasectomies is that they can't get away with paternity fraud any more -- if the wife gets pregnant, she can't pass the child off as his.
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Gold-digger repellant!
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