Comments by "Gerald Montagna" (@GeraldM_inNC) on "[Response] 35+ Single Career Women Wonder Why They Can't Find "A Good Man"" video.

  1. I worked supporting NYC corporate attorneys for some 20 years, and got to know about some of their personal lives, mates, divorces, etc. Here are some of my observations: (1) No matter what they were earning, all the married female attorneys had husbands earning more than them and in more prestigious jobs. I don't recall any instance of a female attorney married to man who she was more or less supporting, or who was an aspiring musician, artist, writer or actor, no matter how much she may have loved those arts herself. So, why does her high income matter in dating? It's not used to help the mate, it's just spent on herself. (2) The vast majority over 30 were single or divorced. Some were in dating clubs aimed at people seeking high-income men. The older they were, the meaner and more frustrated they were -- angry at the world! (A few of them took delight in torturing me, just for being a man.) (3) They refuse to go with their heart, only with their bank account. Some of those female attorneys were very attracted to me if not outright infatuated, and I'm scarcely God's gift to women. There may have been some that I didn't realize, but three stand out starkly in my memory. All were attractive enough to bed, and the two divorcees were women I'd have even been interested in an LTR with. None ever did or said anything that this beta would interpret as "I'd welcome your asking me out", so I never took the first step. Nevertheless, in all three cases there was contradictory evidence indicating they were very attracted to me. Only long after did it occur to me: I had indeed captured their hearts and hormones, but their brains overruled their hearts and hormones because I wasn't a high value man. They weren't going to get involved with a man who isn't an exec no matter how attracted to him he was. I think this is probably typical of all these 30+ single/divorced female attorneys.
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