Comments by "Gerald Montagna" (@GeraldM_inNC) on "32 Minutes Of Women Showing Why Men Are REFUSING To Get Married" video.

"Hundreds" is being generous.
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Having grown up indoctrinated by women's lib, I made this mistake over and over and didn't even realize I was making it. I was told that she wanted me to be vulnerable, emotional, and share my deepest feelings. When their love for me disappeared after I did so, I couldn't understand what happened. I looked for all sorts of other reasons. Now with those events so far in the rear view mirror, I finally understand. Women basically want a gorilla. Showing that you are emotional and sensitive to feelings is a surefire way to destroy any feelings for you that a woman ever had.
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@anklebreaka03 So true. Societal standards evolved because of observations made by society of how things work best and most efficiently. Society imposed restrictions upon young women because it saw that their hypergamy ends up destroying their lives; it wasn't meant to abuse them but to protect them from themselves. Now with those restrictions all gone, women are destroying their own lives voluntarily. My grandmother predicted all this when women's lib first came out. Everything she predicted came true.
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I could write a book about the number of times I destroyed LTRs that way. Until I discovered the Manosphere I didn't even realize that was the cause, and I kept making the same mistake over and over again. Now I feel it's much better being alone than having to act like a gorilla to attract and keep women.
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We may be a bit envious, but we aren't blaming you. Women are the ones who decided they would rather be in the harem of a Chad than have an average guy all to herself.
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@Tha One They will never last 10 years of abstinence. My ex-wife sincerely wanted to start again, but she was being tortured by memories of the CC months into the marriage, and she had a child from a hookup before the ink on our divorce was even dry.
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@Tha One Thank you for sharing that.
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Just accept that until you're in your 30s you're not going to have a love life, and focus on finding a career, living healthy, and amassing wealth. In your 30s women hitting the wall will be flocking to you, and even more so in your 40s. I'm also 5'4" and was a virgin until I was 30. Trust me, it won't kill you. In my 40s I had beautiful women in their 20s throwing themselves at me. You will too.
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That isn't love, it's lust. Modern women don't know the difference.
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Thanks for sharing that!
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It basically comes down to this irreconcilable dilemma. Women want a man in the top 10% (the norm in nature), but they also want him all to herself (which is practically unknown in nature). Originally the human species was like the higher apes, and the females got to breed with the alpha males, but they were unhappy that they had to share the alpha male with a hundred other females. So the human species, in order to please the females, shifted over to the bird model: one male and one female form a family together. But females were unhappy with that model of society too; they got a male all to themselves, but didn't get to mate with males in the top 10%. Now, in the 21st Century, females are totally miserable because they want it both ways: they all want an alpha male but they want him all to themselves. Ladies, you have to choose either the simian model for society or the avian model for society, you can't have the advantages of both systems, it's numerically impossible. The top 10% of the male population cannot provide exclusive mates for 100% of the female population.
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Evidently all men are losers and bums, since I have never had a date during which the female didn't say her exes were all losers and bums.
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Women nowadays spend the child support on themselves. Like my last roommate. Despite being poor because of the Covid restrictions, the court ordered him to pay the baby mommie $1000/month in child support. What infant needs $1,000 a month? Are her diapers by Gucci? Is her baby formula from Whole Foods? The baby mommie was spending the money on drugs for her and her druggie boyfriend. BTW, they had never dated in or been in a relationship, and she had told him he didn't need to wear protection because she is sterile.
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@twitchyrats5252 Are you saying the females are designed to be promiscuous? Well, I would respond: "In what animal species (especially one closely related to homo sapiens) are the females promiscuous?" None that I know of. The natural order especially in the Great Apes is for females to be perfectly content to be in the harem of an Alpha Male. Why would homo sapiens be any different? Women are sleeping around because they have a hive mentality and the queen bees are telling them that any woman who doesn't sleep around is betraying the female gender. And then once they start sleeping around, they lose their ability to pair-bond. But I'm willing to hear arguments to the contrary.
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