Comments by "Mike James" (@mikejames2756) on "27 Yr Old Single Mother REGRETS Not Finding A Man Sooner" video.
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Ladies like to push that they're the compassionate and empathetic ones, and that, if you aren't on board it must be cause YOUR emotional intelligence is lacking. And yet...when they try to put themselves in the shoes of men, they tend to just spout off things from their own perspective (0:25). It's a hell of a characteristic for those that are the primary caregivers. If anything, men having to compete and hunt and see things from their prey's perspective grants a hell of a lot more insight into the minds of others. It's sort of like if you were told you were the best runner of all time and someone else was told they were the worse, so they put in the work and you didn't and then, when the two of you race, you get smoked, and, rather than working out why that might be, you instead go ON insisting you're the best. (Then again, if I were in the position to claim something and even if MOST people didn't buy it, those that did would leave me better off than if I hadn't said anything. Guys need to stop being thirsty, cause it only costs. As a man, telling someone you like them is like letting the gates down. It's why ladies pressure the L-word, it's not about the emotion, it's about what it can lead to. And don't act like women don't understand logic, it's VERY logical to use feelings. If someone pays it out it's like having a blank check -- of course, there's no way she could respect you if you don't have any boundaries...yet she could call you abusive or toxic if you DO, so pick your poison. Personally, I expect what's expected of me.)
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