Comments by "Tim Bucks" (@TimBitts649) on "Hilarious Reason for Why Woke Women Are Struggling to Find Men to Date" video.
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Life between the sexes is a deal. The Bible figured out the basics, in the Torah, Genesis 3:16. Men are supposed to protect and provide, women have life. That's the basis of most marriage, family, Western Civilization really. Of course the deal needs updated due to technology, but the basic deal is still the same. Nowadays: Poll data shows young women are trending heavily politically progressive, young men are trending conservative. Why?
These trend lines seem to indicate, men and women want different things, but appearances are deceptive:
Most young people want family, both men and women. Young men are trending conservative because that's the side most favorable to young men, who want a traditional life, family. Male biological interest is not represented in feminism. But young women also want family. So they have chosen feminism and Big Government to stick up for female biological interest...using Big Government money...
Interesting political fact that points to an explanation: 80% of young single women in their 20s, vote Democrat. Then married women over time, trend more conservative. And the overall political trend is, Democrats are becoming the Party of Women. Republicans are becoming the Party of Men. The question is Why?
My guess: The government has replaced the male role in marriage. How? Women like resources, young single women look to government for answers and resources. Governments are failing women, Big Government is a mess, doesn't help women have better lives. On the conservative/Republican side, our answers are failing women too. We need new answers for family formation. 5 years ago, Tucker Carlson had a video: The American Dream is Dying....outlining the problem:
Young women still prefer young men that are capable, economic winners. DEI reduces the number of young men who are winning. So women now have a shortage of mates. Our feminist answers don't work, because the genders only work together, so putting in place policies that only help women, end up hurting women in the long run...because we rise or sink together. Feminist policies like DEI help women...short term...plus hurt men. Then in the long run, the DEI policies hurt women, as they reduce the number of men in the population who are motivated and capable of having families. The gov't screwed this up royally, by only listening to feminists.
Vivek R. talks about the government role in this, in his recent conversation with Tom Bilyeu. Young women are looking to government for resources, to help them juggle work life, plus family. The real problem is that government DEI/Woke policy mostly benefits women, not men. We already tried that. It did not work. it was called The Great Society in the 1960s. Thomas Sowell talks about this, Vivek also mentioned this in his talk with Tom B. What's needed is help for young people....but only as a committed couple...to start a family, buy a home, build a life....rather than just helping one gender, over the other.
Young women & young men both want the same thing: family and a normal life. The American Dream. But the female Woke answer: involve big government, DEI, rig the system against men...it mostly doesn't work....because its a gov't attack on the people women need and cherish: men
And on the male/conservative/Republican side, our policy makers provide no answers to young couples. Proof? The birth rate is at an all time historic low. We aren't even reproducing Americans. Why? One of the great failures of feminism is they look at female interest only, not male interest, not the interest of married couples who want families.
Why did feminism fail? Why is Woke/DEI failing?
Feminism is about dissecting society into two basic genders, then villainizing half the population, putting them at war with each other, while replacing males in the work force. Feminist Woke ideology contains ideas that benefit females, not males, not couples. It's quite sexist, in the misandry sense...not liking men.
So what's the answer?
The answer to this all is public policy that benefits both genders, helps them start a life together. That will only work if family is restored. When I was a kid, almost all families had dads in the home. Today, 50% of children are born to single moms. And prison data shows 85% of men in jail....black or white...started life in a single mom home. We are failing.
Feminism is terribly divisive, it's failed answers are a result of only seeing things from a female point of view, then rigging the system around that.....rather than realize men and women only succeed if both genders succeed, we need answers that benefit both women & men. The answers, whatever they are, they are certainly not DEI/Woke.
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