Comments by "" (@MayaTheDecemberGirl) on "How much Do Japanese Girls Cheat?" video.
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It seems that for interviewed Japanese people relationships or marriage is not about being really close to each other and to really care about your partner. Such relationships or marriages seem to be rather for reasons of social status or some economic interests, or at most only to have and raise children and to share a household - but not to be real life partners to each other. And if people spent most of their lives in their work and then after work they go to prostitutes or cheat on their partners, they in fact do not have much in common and are indifferent to each other, like strangers. They live not with each other, but only next to each other. That is no real partnership, relationship or family. In real, serious, adult relationship you cannot just separate such aspects as feelings, emotions, love, mutual trust, intimacy and sex as well, these all should just naturally go together between people who really want to be with each other and really care. And in this interview, it was so terrible when one of the girls was saying that she has a boyfriend, but she cheats on him, because she doesn't like him at all. It is so superficial and terrible to this person. Why she just doesn't not have enough respect to him as a person to break up with him. It is so fake and doesn't make sense at all to call something like that a real relationship and to stay in it. And also it is so cringe when one of the girls said that an important reason to go to a prostitute may be when men go there with their boss. In Europe, it would be considered completely unacceptable and just sick - having such experiences with your boss, having your professional and private, intimate life so mixed up.
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