Comments by "Serenity\x27s Solace" (@serenityssolace) on "Being a Virgin Woman in Japan [ENG CC]" video.

I like this lady. The only thing that made me sad is that she would be ok with guys that have slept around with tons of women and that she wouldn't date a virgin herself. Men that had lots of sexual encounters are more likely to cheat because they would compare you to their previous experiences and wouldn't enjoy sex as much. She doesn't understand that building a serious relationship is all about pulling each other up. And she admits that she doesn't want to put any effort in herself. Also it makes me sad that she doesn't value virginity at all. You don't even have to be religious in wanting to give your first time to someone special Thank you Nobita-San for your hard work! Amazing video!
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@jesseking9254 There are studies that find there's a change in brain activity the more sex you have. The chemicals that are released from sex that cause emotional bonding will stop being sufficient resulting in less emotional bonding. But people still crave for that emotional need of bonding that sex generates. The rush of those chemicals is stronger when you have sex with a brand new partner for the first time. Thus the longer you stay with the same partner, the less the feelings of satisfaction becomes. (Under the condition that one had lots of previous sex partners). But it's also true and studies support that the urge diminishes with age in men while increases with age in women. I don't doubt your examples, but I believe they are on the rarer side. In the end it comes down to character and integrity. But most of the times men/women with a high notch count aren't famous for their integrity. Also what do you mean with less baggage with a virgin wife? Seems kinda hypocritical when the man had a sexual past and thinks of a non virgin woman as having baggage. It's like you agree with me when it comes to women but not when it comes to men. I think the best recipe is for both to be virgins and explore sex together. Of course it will be cringeworthy at the start, but together they can learn how great sex can be too.
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@earlysda Although I am not very religious, my views align alot with Christians, so I agree. It's best to have as less sexual partners as possible and to always be in serious relationships. Having 1 partner all your life would be ideal, but I also understand that sometimes it's hard to achieve this!
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@agentspencer7739 Thank you very much for your good words! I appreciate it a lot!
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@readyshrek2430 That's because our values aren't rational and scientific based. And there will always be a minority of women that appreciate virginity in males. I won't betray my values to conform to a majority that is decaying. And nobody should ever betray their values, morality and convictions
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@readyshrek2430 True. It always depends on the person👍👍👍
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