Comments by "" (@budbas) on "TikTok Ruined My Husband Of 12 Years — Now He Wants A ‘Tradwife’ And We’re Getting Divorced" video.

  1. Following Maslow's hierarchy of needs, if the husband is able to fulfill the three lowest needs (physiological needs, safety and security, and love and belonging), then the wife should stay at home to care for their children. Upper need is secondary until he advances his career or builds his business. The problem in western society is that we rarely know the difference between needs and wants. While it's true we need nutrition, we want steak with golden flakes and think that's what we need. While it's true that we need a roof for shade (after we get nutrition for our bodies), we want a piece of real estate with a private pool and think that's what we need. While it's true we need friends (after we have a shelter), we want the jet set lifestyle of friends and think that's what we need. In the grand scheme, this is just another story about a husband who is finally enlightened to know what he needs. The tradwife is just one of it.
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  2. ​ @orlitohostosperez9656  So you mean now is a big yes yes for women to divorce?. I support you then. Let us glorify divorce, and help those men find tradwife overseas.
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  3. "options" is not a wise word. "enlightened" is.
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  4. > "It's called Mother Nature and Father Time." Nature has no HER or HIM. Our perception that calls it HER or HIM. The meaning of father time is that you getting older. Just go check to wikipedia look for its meaning. After all, human is far different species than chicken. Chickens falls under class of aves. Human falls under class of mammals. The closest relatives to human is chimpanzee as it share 98.8 percent the same of DNA. Perhaps you could take chimps as an initial examples for human. Everything in this universe works in cause end effect principles to the smallest part of it. Labor as you refer is a form of exchange, on which based on cause and effect principles. It is free for one to do labor or not and no one enforce you to do it. Just to know that there is no favor from the other party neither to you. Particularly for human, and as we are bound to the principles of the universe, it makes us in need to each other thus we create a community because of it. As community evolved, each of us gets specialized on something to contribute (exchange) with what community has provided. So, if you'd like to live among the animals, plants, trees, etc., please be free. It just mean that you are on your own and not be the part of community. That also explain why we don't plant fruit trees along the cities, because the city belong to community. We can plant any trees on top of our own land for sure.
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  5. Let's enlightened all those beta men. Alpha, beta or sigma, they are man by nature. It is not their sin that they do not know the way of truth. It is our sin if we do not preach enough.
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