Comments by "rokko" (@rokko9195) on "Why Foreign Men Struggle Dating In Japan" video.

@b.p.5129 I don't see that AI guy's comments as they've likely been deleted. But, freedom does not automatically equal good outcome. In fact, in most aspects of life, having rules and systems in place is far far more productive and better for individuals and society, than simply letting people do whatever they like whenever they like. You'll notice this very quickly when you see a child with good parents vs a child with bad (or absent) parents. now apply that to adults, both men and women. And because of nature, women do in fact need more constraints to achieve the desired outcome.
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@b.p.5129 i replied because your reasoning is the thoughtless nonsense that gets repeated time and time again. you're projecting your insecurities.
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@maegalroammis6020 sad but true. the catch22 is: they expect foreigners to leave so they don't take them seriously, and foreigners ultimately won't waste there time staying somewhere where they aren't taken seriously (i.e. no future) the number of places with traditional women who want to marry and start a family at an appropriate age, is quickly diminishing. dark times ahead.
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@aubreyplazasuncle More choice, in many scenarios leads to a worse outcome. ever seen a child with only one toy? they cherish it. compare that to a spoiled kid with everything... they quickly grow bored and treat it all like garbage. dating/relationships are just like that.
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@ishie19.78 that's called wealth privilege. whoever has money, locals will learn some of their language to deal with them. most Europeans are multilingual. but you can't be expected to learn the language of every place you want to go. that said, i think most people are truly interesting in living/working/finding a partner is a foreign country will study their language. however, even if you study for a few years, the native person will likely have better English than your target language, as they've been learning English for easily 10+ years.
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@b.p.5129 you know what is destroying families and therefore societies? women depending on government assistance instead of on their husbands. relationships/marriages are to be beneficial for both, and then the family, and then society at large. this modern-day "we don't need men" attitude is absurd. and anybody with two brains cells to rub together would realize that. who built the society that keeps you safe and provides comfort? all the infrastructure? the sanitation? the goods? the food? stop promoting woke nonsense.
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@rose-yeah and it was society's job to constrain human nature for the betterment of all. now people want all the benefits of a safe and civil society, with none of the obligations or accountability needed to build/maintain it. american women are the most ungrateful people on this planet, hand's down.
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