Comments by "Yo2" (@yo2trader539) on "What’s it like being Half Japanese in Japan ?" video.
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@mon_avis2978 I've met and worked with a few Japanese-Canadians, -Brazilians, -Peruvians, and -Americans. Honestly, having Japanese ancestry isn't anything special for us, because we all have Japanese parents, grandparents, great-grandparents, etc.
Having Japanese ancestry doesn't mean we click automatically either. And a lot of Japanese immigrants don't speak Japanese or know Japanese culture, so it's not like we can speak to them in the same manner.
But the person who I found most fascinating was an Indonesian lady with a Japanese grandfather, who fought for Indonesian independence and later permanently resided in Indonesia. Her family history was beyond interesting.
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Imagine Japanese nationals/students living in your country. Some adjust easier, others find it harder to adapt and make local friends. There are many half-Japanese kids who live in Japan and have successful careers, from famous celebrities, actresses, Yokozuna, politicians, athletes, etc.
But they all have one thing in common. They are fluent in Japanese language, culture, and mannerism. Most foreigners in Japan cannot read Japanese menus. They are basically illiterate from a local perspective. The flip side is, you will not be an "outsider" if you can communicate like other Japanese people.
In reality, many foreign-nationals in Japan fail in social and cultural integration, which is why they are eternally foreigners/outsiders. They spend most of their time in expat bubbles with no connection to Japan. Basically they're just long-term guests/tourists from a local perspective. Depending on your bringing, it may be easier for you. But without sufficient knowledge/fluency of Japanese language, culture, mannerism, or norms...most Japanese will not know how to interact with you.
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@xoseoa It makes me happy that you're fluent in Japanese and proud of your heritage. The more time you spend in Japan, the more local you'll become (whether you like it or not). The opposite happens too, when Japanese nationals live outside of Japan they start to change/adapt. Everything from choice of clothing, hairstyle, mannerism, make-up, facial gestures, body language, food preference...all those small things start to slowly diverge.
Your current assumption is that your physical appearance is why you're initially treated like an "outsider." (Being assumed you're an "insider," without being able to speak Japanese is tough too.) While I have no idea how Japanese/Western you may look, I have a strong suspicion that locals are judging from the other stuff. Eventually, you'll end up just like the rest of us. You'll be able to identify resident/visitor by how they walk, behave, dress, talk, etc.
I actually think it's rather presumptuous to assume that you'll be able to fit right into Japan without having ever lived in Japan. This process of cultural assimilation (i.e. "Japanization") will take a few years minimum. This is a common struggle for children of Japanese nationals who've spent their entire lives abroad.
Perhaps you know of these people. While not every one of them has a typical Japanese appearance, none of them will get the "outsider" treatment because most of them have been in Japan for a very long time. For example, Arashi Rina is half-Iranian, Michibata-sisters are half-Argentine, Haraka Christine is half-Swiss, Takigawa Christel is half-French, and Becky is half-British...and they carry themselves with Japanese aesthetics and beauty standards.
After some time in Japan, you'll know what I mean. I'm sorry that you're living in a sauna like the rest of us. I always recommend spring/autumn for visiting Japan.
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For us, it's not about whether you're half or not, it's about how you're raised. The famous Yokozuna TAIHO was half-Ukrainian, Gold Medalist MUROFUSHI Koji is half-Romanian, DARVISH Yu is half-Iranian, and Governor of Okinawa TAMAKI Denny is half-American.
There are many half/mixed people who are successful and well-respected in Japan. And nobody would consider them to be foreigners or outsiders because they were raised in Japan, educated in Japan, and behave/think like the rest of us. (We also have naturalized politicians who have no Japanese heritage like ARIFYA Eli who is half-Uyghur and half-Uzbek...but again she has Japanese mannerism and identity because she went to Japanese school in Japan.)
Conversely, even if both of your parents are from Japan...if you were not raised in Japan or attended Japanese school overseas, you will not be considered ethnically Japanese by most people, because the language/culture fluency is missing. In a way, we can sense who is Japanese and who is not from mannerism, behavior, mindset, etc. The way we talk, walk, sit, laugh...everything is different.
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