Comments by "Yo2" (@yo2trader539) on "What’s it like being Half White in Japan?" video.

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  8. In Japan, there are more international marriages with Japanese men compared to Japanese women. Most foreign wives are women from neighboring countries. And most Japanese men will marry foreign women who are sufficiently fluent in Japanese language and culture, unless they plan to live abroad forever. Honestly, there is a lot of things men have to think about such as inheritance, family business, tombs, seasonal family gathering, etc. If your wife cannot function in Japanese society, it would be an enormous amount of inconvenience. From funerals to household finance to family trips to picking schools for kids, the women in the family do a lot of it in Japan. I would even say they arrange and organize most of it. So if she cannot read Japanese, it would be unrealistic and irresponsible to marry her. There is a famous UNAGI restaurant in Tokyo run by an American wife. She is more culturally Japanese than many Japanese. The other part is subjective and a matter of preference. Women from Eastern Europe and Russia appear to assimilate far better than those from Western Europe, North America, or Australia. Their Japanese fluency is far better than those from English/Germanic countries, and they tend to be more aligned to Japanese traditions and culture. The modern liberal woke American women aren't perceived as attractive in Japan. Japanese women marry foreigners from developed countries mostly because they are not perceived as attractive in Japanese perspective or they simply wish to live abroad. Most of their marriages are also with people from neighboring countries, mostly Koreans, Chinese, and Taiwanese.
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  14.  @Motivational-Mango  I beg to differ. It really depends on the cultural upbringing and education. We have half-Japanese politicians, athletes, celebrities, etc...but they're treated Japanese because they share Japanese language, culture, mannerism, and identity. Some Japanese people are also really sensitive with labeling and identity. They fear that "hafu" implies that they're not real Japanese or won't be full members of Japanese society. Some people like "double," others like "mixed." Interestingly we never use "hybrids." The reason why Japanese media tend to use "hafu" instead of "mixed" is because historically it had the same connotation as a "pure breed" vs "mixed-breed or mutt." These days people tend to avoid using "Mixed-breed" or "Mixed-blood" because it sounds derogatory, but "Thoroughbred" is still used in every-day Japanese language to mean "pure" outside of the context of horse-breeding. And things got increasingly more complicated after Citizenship laws changed in 1985 because children of foreign fathers were also issued Japanese citizenship. Before that only children of Japanese fathers were legally and socially Japanese, while children of foreign fathers were legally foreigners (unless they come from single mother families). The classification was clear and simple; they were foreign-nationals with Japanese mothers. But when legal boundaries were revised, I think media/society started using "half" to refer to the half/mixed kids with Japanese citizenship. To be honest, I don't remember Japanese kids with Taiwanese, Korean, or Chinese mothers to referred as "mixed blood." So I think it only referred to as biracial kids.
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