Comments by "" (@ganndalf202) on "What No One Tells You about Living in Japan" video.

I really agree with the french girl at the end. As someone who made Japanese friends, I can say that I like the way they do it more. Like she said, it takes a lot of time and effort but when they see you really care and really mean it, it's one of the best friends I ever had. I know it's something a lot of people can't relate to me but I was always very traumatized and I have extreme trust issues so I like the slow paced Japanese style. I always made friends fast but it was always the reason I suffered a lot. I agree it's a little difficult to make japanese friends but as someone who never trusts or likes a person unless I known them at least for 6 months. It's the reason i struggled a lot with even people in my own country because I won't open to people fast. So for those who struggle and want Japanese friends, don't give up, it's a very rewarding experience but it will take a lot of time and effort. The friendships I have with my Japanese friends are the most honest and best friendships I ever had. I believe we all should make friends outside of our cultural bubble, even if it's difficult. It's how we grow as people.
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