Comments by "" (@ganndalf202) on "Japanese Girls Describe Their Ideal Guy" video.

  1. Well, western men might be a little bit more gentleman like and there is a lot good about them but to me personally Japanese men have their own charms. I don't feel comfortable when the man I'm with is too forward, passionate and puts me above everything else, I feel smothered and my traumas are being triggered so even though I wasn't with a lot of Japanese men, just two because I care more for friendships than relationships and I'm not looking actively for anyone ever, they were the best relationships I ever had. They weren't too focused on me and too much gentlemanly yeah but it made it more comfortable for me. All the teasing and respect I got from them was absolutely beautiful and with the second guy I'm still with, I never felt the same way for anyone ever before. I'm happier than I ever was. I'm basically the loud foreigner that makes him laugh and he is the reserved Japanese who grounds me when I don't know what to do with myself and we complement each other so well. So yeah, international relationships are a lot of work and hard but it's hella worth it from my personal experience, if both people are willing to learn about different cultures and grow together.
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  2.  @daniellemonte1228  Thank you
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