Comments by "J. Abildgaard" (@Jetmab04) on "How to deal with toxic people" video.

  1. Sadly Patrick, most often these things most often comes from family...it's about envy, jealousy and sometimes pure hate and most often grounded in their own fear. They are unhappy and, want you to be like them.. The hardest part is to let them go, to split with them once and for.good. It hurts but can be something we have to do in order to save our own life!! The good part is, even though it may feel like it, you are not alone...never forget that 💕
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  2.  @crusadershuakbar  your comment could have been mine...and, you are right. One evening a few years ago, I wrote a comment in an online debate with people from my former country. My comment was one short sentence...less than ten words....a comment/fact about our common History..and wow... The following morning I printed out - no less than 16.pages...filled 100% with pure hate comments about the person me who at the time, had lived abroad for 20 years.. These hate comments were started by one person (former family) and, during the night, the hate had escalated into completely insane levels... The one person who started this hate against my person, I last met back in the mid '90's...all other participating in all this hate against my person, were people I've never met, spoken with or seen.. I decided to print these pages...showed them to a friend who asked me never ever to go back there with the comment "they'll kill you if you go there"...exactly - kill me for their own anger....I don''t think most of these toxic people actually ever read my one little comment...they just needed someone to blame for whatever they were angry about and, it showed me - who slept happily during their angry writings, - how little it takes to make people hate...hate for nothing 😪
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  3. This sure IS a good tribe Bob...you made me smile big time with your comment here 😊
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  4. @ShimmerySound yes or, your mother, father, sister, ex-husband/wife... I feel sorry for these toxic people - so willing/eager to destroy - often forgetting they are destroying most for themselves, by being a person others have to let go -, in order to have a life.. Fact is that, no matter howuch it hurts, when we've turned our back to them, we can continue our lives..many of these hateful people will find others to hate.. To live a life full of such hate must be so hard...
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  5.  @exoticwater  Thanks - I'm happy if it can help you 😊 Fact is, you are not alone - far from - as you can see, if you just read the comments here.. Stay strong and, love yourself...and, you'll meet other good people - there are so many lovely and good people worth meeting in our world!
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  6. I agree 100% 😊
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