Comments by "Ian Arn" (@ianarn) on "Unbelievably Cringy: The Trap Of Chronic Dissatisfaction" video.

I’d just bought my ex girlfriend food in a pub and while we were waiting she continued berating me for imagined grievances and picking fights out of nothing as she’d done all week! She screamed at me “are you emotionally stable” I said sure are you “she screamed back with her teeth clenched that yes! I am emotionally stable”. Needless to say I was kinda self discarded after this! When I went back the abuse just got worse. Now I don’t date her but it’s still just total abuse and provocation if I see her at social venues.
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@jcnlaw Thanks with the help of your channel and others like it i intend to. I was soo embarrassed in front of all those people to be sitting opposite to a 34 year old woman with the emotional control and tantrum in public of a toddler.
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Yes my ex is quite pretty and sexual and men think they’re really onto something and she has such a cute public persona that men and women love but in private she is like the woman in the bed in the exorcist! Really something wrong with that Histrionic woman. The first night I was with her and kissing her she maliciously started biting my lips really hard in bouts until I totally stopped. I guess she was checking me out as to how much abuse I would take from her.
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Yes I had those sensations from my ex girlfriend over very trivial things! My family members ex wife gave silent treatments and of course the abuse and cheating got to him in the end despite him providing her with a sumptuous lifestyle! He filed for divorce in Connecticut and she materially has a fantastic life that she didn’t deserve. I don’t have that type of lifestyle but I remembered how badly eggshell stuff ended for him and vowed not to end up like him!
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@thomasbehrend7562 She could be very loving intermittently and make you feel like the world’s most handsome man and by far the hottest physically that I’ve ever dated but her outbursts over really small childish things such as liking a female athletes Facebook post were hard to deal with but i always felt i could fix her. In retrospect she was just trying to get rid of me for a bit but avoid the blame while she tried out another guy but i didn’t know that till i looked through her phone when i got back with her. There were many crazy incidences of total strange men turning up while i was out with her expecting something and i realised after many occasions that she’d given them a lewd glance covertly. My bag for work was at her apartment so i was a little trapped till we got back there where i left and she smirked at me.
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