Comments by "Ian Arn" (@ianarn) on "Beware of the female covert narcissist | You will NEVER be enough or do enough for her" video.

  1. “You need to fight for me! You need to fight for the relationship! Be a real man and do as i say without any negotiation to my plan.” Or what i got “i love you but it’s over as you can’t even tell me that you love me ”. Then the phone was slammed down and shared pictures of us were deleted by her from social media before i could give my explanation. Nine months of stone walling has followed but i keep my distance now anyway just not worth the endless try harder and give more for me with the constant threat of ending “the relationship” at any moment plus the romantic triangulation that became progressively worse. I’ve heard that if you travel abroad with a narcissistic woman she can just abandon you on the trip and just hook up with some guy on the trip. Highly disordered and disturbed people.
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  2. Yes she’s nice to everyone else but you and the others can’t see that and even sympathise with your abuser.
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  3.  @visancosmin8991  Well i only took her on 3 or 4 day trips but each time i was walking on eggshells to her temper tantrums, I would be triangulated with men in totally unsafe isolated areas so that she could belittle me. Frozen out for silent treatments for several hours. In between i would get theatrical sex where she would literally scream the hotel down. But in the end the drama and lack of peace and lying and total disrespect in front of other men just made it not worth it at all. She felt entitled to total commitment from me in a very short time and after only 3 months was saying things like “we’re going to be together forever”. Good riddance to her.
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