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3:23 Beautifully put and soooOOoOoooo true. I let a clown into my world and she utterly destroyed it.
Now, of course, it's true, i chose her but come on, i was 19, no one taught me the things you can learn here.
Young men and women(if there even are any here), BEWARE of damaged people - you cannot change them, you cannot heal them. As to this toxic culture these days...
Ooof, just do your best & follow advice like this channel! I'm 50, have lived a FULL-ON life & I can assure u, 99.9% of everything i have heard from Griffin's mouth, is spot on.
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1st vid/woman - She's not wrong, at 1st glance. I have even met women who work in 'those' industries who are successful and seem happy....
BUUuuuUUUuuuuuUuuuT, it's EXTREEEEEEMELY EXTREMELY RARE!!!! Actually, tbf, i think it was only ONE! (Where i believed her, that she was truly happy...Stripper who was content being single and studying etc for her own career - Some ppl don't want family life or even a marriage or 'life partner'....)
If you work in porn, stripping, O/F, etc, essentially selling sex (even if u never have sex) - It ONLY 'works' for success AND happiness, IF U ARE PREPARED TO NEVER HAVE HAPPY FAMILY w KIDS etc. <^ This is the problem! - THE GREY areas, the way ppl get sucked in with the lie, that you can have ur cake and eat it too! YOU CAN NOT! You go down that road, u can't take it back!
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3:05 ANYONE WHO KEEPS SAYING "LIKE" for NO REASON - Avoid them like the plague!!!! Can we get rid of this stupid fad already?!!! It's advertising that you are low IQ ffs!
Give it a rest!
RE: 4:43: Yeh, the way some ppl leave if things aren't perfect in a proper relationship (living together, said the 'L'-word, together for over a year or 2), it's nasty but then again, that used to be me!.... ๐ฅ I had this idiotic belief, that my 'soul-mate' (the 'perfect one for me') was out there somewhere, so the moment i saw the tiniest incompatibility, i was off... VERY MUCH regret it now...Both because i feel awful for them and because, NOW, i would be glad to have settled down with ANY one of them - they were all beautiful women, through and through... I was just ridiculously fussy.
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Aprox 5:00 - I realise this time-stamp is named 'my experience' but you and the clip guy (i think u said his name is Tate?) - Saying DEPRESSION is not real. is WRONG and FALSE + in this case: Completely misunderstood.
What he's talking about and you too, is a MOOD DISRODER. When you feel sad, down, miserable etc, that is NOT DEPRESSION!
Actual DEPRESSION is real and it has nothing to do with feeling sad or tearful or miserable. It's almost the opposite, actually.
As someone with actual depression, i would be GLAD if i could feel miserable or sad! <- because then i would actually know something is wrong and that would motivate me to DO SOMETHING!
Anyway, Depression is being FLAT. Having ZERO emotions (that's why it's called 'depressed'...as in, all emotions are suppressed).
In depression, u have NO motivation, no energy, no feelings. Period.
Half the time it happens, i DON'T EVEN REALIZE I AM DEPRESSED!!!.... <-- Often it's only when i realise several days have gone by and i've done nothing, then it dawn on me, 'oh crap, i think i am depressed....
These days, i have a routine of exercise and rituals like going outside, running and doing stuff to minimize the instances of 'depression' and that helps reduce the frequency and severity of the bouts of depression.
^ BTW, everything else on your channel is AMAZING and spot on and it gives me hope, in humanity that there are younger ppl still out there with brains and sense!
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^ I don't think THAT example is a good example of not showing vulnerability - BTW, i notice u said 'weakness' - so i'm more talking to the other guys here in the comments.
I'm almost 100% sure,.. maybe 95% sure there were many other factors involved that lead to her leaving, NOT that you showed emotions once.
You said, 'struggling emotionally'....What did you mean by that?...It sounds like maybe a LOT more WAS GOING ON, than just breaking down, once, in front of your wife ONCE....
Being stoic in the face of trauma is not a BLACK and WHITE thing (not showing your emotions). It's a finesse thing. A 'grey' thing. If you show ZERO emotions, that's not good either!
(U'd be perceived as 'cold and unfeeling'. No woman wants that either!)
What Griffin and others are trying to teach is not to be 'WEAK'!...
E.g. if you kept on crying, over indulging in emotion, perhaps for many days after, leaning on her, expecting her to support u emotionally, letting it effect your day to day... <-- THAT is the 'weakness' that turns women off.... - THAT is what you shouldn't be showing to them - You can still 'show' it, just choose another person... If you need help, go to a professional or a mate. ^All that staunch or 'stoic' stuff doesn't mean you can't squeeze out a tear during a very sad movie....
Do you see the difference? It's being in control of your emotional times. <-- That is the key. (Women don't feel safe, instinctually, if you are not in control of your emotions)
Sorry if i'm not being clear, i think i just did a horrible job explaining it, so if you want to know more either respond or msg me!
Hope you are doing MUCH better now and to all here*, โ, โค & mung beans!
* It sounds like (saw some other comments later after i read 1st one) she was emotionally immature.....
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Oof! To u poor insecure beta-men, doing those surgeries to become taller: All that pain and rehab and what they don't tell you: RISK OF INFECTIONS + other issues:
Invest that time, $$$ and energy to just learn how to become more funny, attractive etc... BUILD ur 'value'... U can't really 'buy' value... Even if more women will say 'yes' more often, now, because you're not so short anymore, u still have to keep those women!!!!
Once they get to know you, they will still know if you are insecure, shady, boring, low value etc....
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