Comments by "Commentary Talk" (@commentarytalk1446) on "What do Japanese girls Think of Western guys?" video.

@Namaster88 Exactly: "Read Between The Lines" which takes a minimum of (lol) 2 brain cells... +1 Also, the context is a PUBLIC interview, so if people have say 3 brain cells, then they can realize the lovely Japanese ladies are being 1) Polite about their commentary of Western people (thank you! agigato! from Western people for being so kind) 2) They are interpreting the question as in "your ideal version of if you were to meet..." 3) The positive of Western people you hope to experience if the opportunity arose to interact with them and it would then enhance your experience. It is true about height and then the "Ladies First" is often quoted too which is appealing as the clear rules and roles is appealing to Japanese sensibilities as well I would infer. My own opinion? I think Japanese often have much higher standards of good behaviour than a lot of Western people and so yes it might be disappointing meeting a lot of Western people. The straightforward in expressing "Love" is easily also "Careless in consumerist in relationships".
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I think Japanese women are very admirable. With that said, a "hack" for any human woman: They thrive if they are able to develop a support network of friends and family (and often female) PLUS their man is working hard and bringing home the bacon... . As I said if you need a simple hack. The thing I found most interesting with Japanese is their sense of "intelligence" how they apprehend the world around them is thoughtful. That is fertile ground for a life-time of good communication... I wish you a lot of happiness.
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@Peace4All09 That's not patriarchical that's their interpretation of being FEMININE. Both you people are projecting your own cultural filters of bias onto the Japanese! Give them some credit (oh they're victims or oh they're so boring!). Wow the enormous egos on display. This comments facility is a gold mine.
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That is a really nice question! I hope Takashii takes inspiration from it. It helps to crowdsource ideas to find original insights and Takashii does a good job striving to deliver this. A good idea as I believe computer video-games are popular in Japan?
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Yes! 100%! I believe you are right about this.
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@Long-Horse Did you look in the mirror?
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@Lincoln9118 Maybe there are some good JRPGs they enjoy that are not so well known outside Japan, as well?
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I think the ladies in this video are very self-deprecating. It is an admirable quality with respect to being so well mannered but equally I would say in response: If you are a kind, gentle and happy person, you will be a treasure to anyone around you in life and across any culture or language. I think in fact this comes across to foreigners and their attitude of the Japanese more so than perhaps their own cultures and their opinions of other cultures? The reason might be the thoughtfulness and considerateness in how Japanese behave: Being polite, well mannered may not be the above qualities but they help develop them. ;-)
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