Comments by "Michele Lyn" (@HRPFayetteville) on "Douglas Murray slams Keir Starmer for ‘pathetic’ wriggling out of gender questions" video.

  1. The problem. I have with all. This is they're trying to force straight people into their lifestyle and into the realm of where they live. I don't want to do that. I don't go to gay bars. Okay, I don't have to and I shouldn't be forced to feel shame because I don't want to go to gay bars. I don't have a problem with gay. People or lesbian people in general but no I don't wanna go to hang out in there. Gay and lesbian world. I just don't, so why do I need to be? Forced to do these things and then feel shamed if I'm like why I'm not. I don't believe in that so I mean you believe in that that's fine. I don't believe in that you're not gonna force me into believing in something I don't believe in. I mean, it's funny cause gay and lesbian people. Obviously they don't believe in being straight, right? Why is that okay? Don't tell you straight out. Ohh straight is whatever blah blah. I don't care. I mean, I'm very confident to tell anybody that I'm not gay I'm not bad. II am a straight opposite attract person. I'm not Sis. You're not gonna call me that in my presence. I can tell you that much and have any further conversation with me. I'm not gonna play the pronoun game. You can guarantee that I mean, honestly I don't even have to talk to you. I mean, if you're this much high. Maintenance as a complete stranger that I really don't even know. I'm sorry I would never be your friend.
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  2. And I may be straight and only attracted to men as a female but I come from a bad family. I have issues in my life because I don't have what I needed when I grow up. My mom wishes we weren't born. She's told me straight out that you know how. When you have your kids to young, you end up resenting them as adults. And that's how she treats me like I'm an emotional punching bag. So I'm sorry. I'm sure a lot of straight people have had a lot of childhood trauma. And we don't really appreciate. Having to battle for something as basic as our natural born sexes, which is our gender gender, is sex. It's nothing more, it's nothing less.
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  3. Why is it so horrible to say that? We have 2 genders, male and female. But there are people in our society who feel more comfortable and dress or present themselves differently. Than the generalized, male, gender or female gender sexes. Why so hard? What is so hard about trans people knowing that they're trans? In saying yeah, I'm trans. You can see I'm trans, right. What is wrong with that? I don't get it. It's like they say they want to be accepted. But then when you're like okay. Well, you're a transwoman. Everybody knows that you're not a real woman. You're a transman, everybody knows you're not a real man and that's fine, whatever you want me to call you? I will use that name. But I will not play pronoun games. I will not dip into this. Long spectrum of immature emotionally arrested mental state. Sorry, if you're a man and you want me to call you Jenny. Hey, Jenny, how you doing today? I don't have a problem with that. And usually with transgender people. I don't use pronouns. I use their name purposely purposely, but the whole point of the word trans was initially to let everybody knows that you are who you are. You are a male for whatever reason. Feels more comfortable presenting yourself. As a woman, I don't have a problem with that. It's not my business. I can't even relate. I can practice common decency. I can practice mutual respect. I can practice mutual civility. But if we're gonna have an honest discussion, and you expect me to honestly have a real discussion about the topic in general. That's not the same as a personal relationship like with the co-worker. Are even a family member. And to be honest I think we're doing a big disservice to people who have this struggle In our mental health care services are making it worse Not better
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