Comments by "Okunniger Volker" (@Okunniger_Volker) on "Goth Girl gets ROASTED by Men on Tik Tok" video.

  1. I view relationships a lot like children. So long as their needs are met (your own in regards to the dating world) then it should be fine. Imo your needs would be a growing savings account, ownership or progress made towards ownership of a house, basically just basic wise financial decisions. Beyond that if a woman is concerned with how much I make she's for the streets. Unless you're trying to be a Rockefeller (good luck, they'd off you if you ever got close) then stop trying to flex with their money, it's laughable. That being said, it's my personal opinion that a man should be seeking to be and do the best he can in every aspect of life, not for women, not for others, but for the pursuit of virtue alone. If it's for anyone, it should be for his children and or to lift others up and enable others to live more virtuous lives, not more gluttonous or materialistic lives.
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  2. I'm all for encouraging the best out of men, but not in any effort to appease other people, only in the context of the pursuit of virtue. Otherwise isn't that kinda the definition of a simp? 1950s metropolitan housewife is not a tradwife, give me the 2AD woman of virtue who buys land, plants a vinyard, makes wine and provides for the family like she's actually a leading part of it.
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  3. I don't agree with his cultural point, they aren't as traditional as they are made to seem, maybe a little more than the US. As far as politics go, that's bread and circus for the plebs.
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  4. This is one reason why I don't like the whole tradwife BS. Because the vast majority of history the vast majority of women weren't cooking on gas stoves, vacuuming nicely carpeted floors or hardwood floors with a swiffer, the house wasn't heated or lit with electricity and so on. Women were not just cooking, cleaning and taking care of baby, they were working their assess off. Only until about the 1900s did these things become a luxury with the industrial revolution leading to mass production and even then most didn't have most of those things until just prior to the 1950s when we began to see mass advertisement for those luxuries, and that is just in the western world. That aside, even the Biblical description of the ideal woman (the woman of virtue) is doing a ton of work from buying land to planting vinyards, doing so much work to the point it says her arms are made strong. That being said, there has to be a balance. If you require to little, she will have to much time and will lose respect for you. Every single human needs adaptive stressors in their lives or we begin to atrophied, morally, physically and intellectually, we are designed to work and stay busy and to have goals and a purpose. By saying a guy needs to make X amount in the context of dating, you're falling into their trap of having to be materialistic and provide a life of materialism in order to be worthy, and while I recognize that abundance is great, it can also be very destructive, one look at the western world proves this to be the case, even looking at history and myth and its obvious this is a well known and well documented fact about humans. Obviously, men should always seek to make the most of all their efforts, but NOT to the end of appeasing a woman's materialism. Now though we have all these women who saw the rise of this "tradwife" movement, see that it offers maximum benifit with the lowest investment and responsibility and suddenly we've got all these women who want to be tradwives just as much a a woman who's hit the wall... They changed their tactics but their agenda is the same.
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  5. The issue is these harpies took advantage of the tradwife movement to lower the bar. 1600s monarchies and 1950s kitchenaid adds are not traditional. Family oriented and traditional western values and virtues was the core of the trad movement before 304s realized they could make a branch (tradwife) and take advantage of men yet again.
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  6. If I need to make $80k so the woman can sit on her ass in the easiest part of human history, she's not the kind of woman I want even if I was a billionaire.
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  7. Typical western modernist bullshit. It disgusts us as well.
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  8. The issue is found in the definition of traditional. From the original trad movement sprang the tradwife Instagram movement, a bunch of essentially 1950s kitchenaid housewives who do little, this has nearly nothing to do with the traditionalist movement that began a few years back which had its focus on preserving the nuclear family and traditional western values and virtues of which a lazy stay at home wife was not among. That movement got highjacked within a few months by Instagram attention 304s and before it ever became popular, and as usual the woman made it all about themselves, not all obviously, but the ones that didn't stopped once they saw where it was going.
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