Comments by "" (@jyan127) on "Why I Chose Not To Have A Child In Today's Culture Environment Overpopulation And How People Reacted" video.

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  2. Your thoughts are profound and inspiring, inviting reflection. As a single mother who raised my child alone since infancy, I’ve often found myself pondering the reasons behind my existence and my decision to bring a child into the world. Unlike many who may have children without ​thinking—perhaps seeing it as a natural step or a source of personal satisfaction ​Besides bringing a life into the world comes with an immense responsibility​, we do so without consulting the one being born, and without ensuring we have all the resources to meet their ​physical, mental and inpiritual needs fully. ​T​he question is if I struggled to provide for myself, how could I ensure a thriving environment for my child? The difficulties ​are guaranteed, even within the most stable two-parent families, and ​essentially ​t​hey will face the diffculties alone. If I had foreseen the challenges my child would face, would I still have brought him into the world? ​I​ highly doubted it. Yet, looking back, I’ve come to understand that he has given my life a purpose that I couldn’t have foreseen. Because of him, I’ve stretched myself, taken risks, tried new things, and stepped far beyond my comfort zone. In a sense, while I brought him into this world, he came into my life to fulfill a unique purpose—to make me a better person. I’ve come to believe that each child enters this world not just to take from it but to fulfill their own mission, contributing in ways we may not immediately see. Ultimately, our value lies beyond the pursuit of our own happiness; we are each here with a purpose, a mission. And your mission, of encouraging others toward self-reflection, growth, and a peaceful journey on this earth, is an inspiring one. It’s wonderful to hear that you’ve found peace and joy—that’s where we are meant to be. You are leading the way, guiding others toward that same path. Lastly, if you’re ever open to adoption, there would be a long list of children who would be incredibly lucky to have you as their parent. I would not hesitate to ask you to be the godfather of my child.
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