Comments by "Twist of Fate" (@twistoffate4791) on "Dr. Scott Eilers" channel.

  1. People don't check on me anymore, nor do they try to get me to go anywhere. I reach out to them less and less but I'm still the half that reaches out and that bothers me and adds even more to my depression.
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  2. I think I just caught a break via your theory. If resources are money, and the money is not plentiful, and my projects are getting finished at a snail's pace, and I haven't completely broken down over it - then I'm doing better than I thought. My projects are extremely important to me because they are the ONLY thing I have control over, since I have no control over my family or friends, who all let me down after my parents died. We control only that which we are able, but if the last thing I can control has grinded to a halt, getting angry at myself is just not the solution.
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  3. ​ @Purplesquirrels There was a time when it was thought impossible to put a man on the moon. We did that. Always remember that no man knows all - not even you.
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  4. Same. I need social security & Medicare to survive & Trump will take it away, as he has promised, and I will die. I am waiting for my last elderly dog to pass, and then I'm out
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  5. Well-stated. I agree. Spirituality is a significant part of my being as well.
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  6. Excellent point. I have an experience that proves your point. Your point is extremely important.
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  7. Same exact scenario here. Even though I don't know you, Vicki, I feel a kinship. There are certain realities that cannot be altered. Sadness and loneliness becomes part of this hopeless existence.
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  8. I no longer have many friends because my grieving and mourning became inconvenient for them. It was time to bid them goodbye, which I did.
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  9. I had to look twice at your name because I could've written your comment myself, word for word. But it was a brand new video, so it couldn't be possible. Thank you for sharing, as it makes me feel less weird and unreasonable.
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  10. I automatically have zero use for that nurse.
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  11. Perfect timing. Listening....
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  12. Peace be with you during this most sad time in your life. I have been there. Grief never ends, but one learns to live with it.
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  13. ​ @msbeecee1 I'm right there with you. I have two dogs left and am committed to seeing them through to the natural conclusions of their lives. After that, I'm done. My parents are gone, I have no children or grandchildren, and relatives live in other states and couldn't care less. Long-time friends moved away. I check in with them, but they don't reach out in return.
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  14. Wow. You're the only person who has explained the "we're different kinds of crazy" friends. I never looked or dressed like them, but yes, they looked on the outside how I felt on the inside. Yet I couldn't identify with the people who looked like me - the "girl next door" look. I was a misfit inside a misfit even AMONG other misfits. I cannot alter the life-changing incidents that occurred and others cannot see them in my face when they stand before me. I know they're not capable of understanding and so I try to "keep it light" but doing so feels like a denial. To make things worse, past therapists have told me they'll be with me through my journey of healing, but one by one, they quit.
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  15. I am in complete darkness today. Came here to listen to whatever Dr. Scott has to say to get through this day.
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  16. ​@francefradetjardineslacora8114 40 days of mourning? I am still mourning eight years out. I just keep it mostly to myself, because other people are hostile to people who are mourning and grieving, because we make THEM uncomfortable.
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  17. That's why I keep coming back. No other channel feels like therapy home.
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  18. I couldn't imagine a world without my dogs on my couch with me. They're my family; my world, and most of the time, my only comfort and happiness.
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  19. Somehow I don't find that believable.
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  20.  @gangstaberry2496  Thank you so much for your kind comment.
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  21. ​ @mightymouse1005 Same here.
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  22. This is very interesting. I have family in Iowa and Minnesota and spent time in the BWCA, guided by my parents, but particularly my dad. Those were the days.
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  23. @roseyc.5846  Your statement is false. I did my research. Clearly you're a Maga zombie punk. You have no decency. Conman Don has nothing to offer you except hat.
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  24. @learnbyheart7  Trump is a morally-bankrupt, draft-dodging, racist jerk. He has SAID he will place cuts on Social Security and Medicare. This is the man who mismanaged a pandemic and sent equipment we needed to Putin. I have done my homework.
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  25. I am going to buy his book. I have a small stack of already-read self-helps. Have higher hopes, however, for Dr. Eilers'.
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  26. You are the selfish kind of individual who wants others' grief to stop because it makes YOU uncomfortable. Please cease commenting under this particular video lest you do more harm than you already have. Move on. ​ @denisemerillat5407 
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  27. If you're going to talk about the torture of dogs on your channel, then I choose not to tune in.
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  28. This video couldn't be more timely. I am struggling with sleep. Part of it is not shutting off my brain and the constant stream of conflict and dispute non-resolution spinning and flipping. Part is also drinking Mr. Pibb, which obviously works against me.
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  29. That is very interesting to know.
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  30. It doesn't. ​ @estherclark820 
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  31. I'm too busy worrying about perishing in a mass shooting. We're not safe in churches, schools, libraries, malls, or anywhere else now. Every time I leave my house I wonder if I'll ever see my beloved dogs again.
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  32. Sick of the ad popping up right in the middle of the video.
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