Comments by "Richard Jones" (@EE12CSVT) on "Legion Of Men" channel.

  1. There's a growing movement here in the UK to not cooperate with the system, if not actively bring the whole lot down. All point the finger at the corporatocracy as being to blame for most of our ills together with their close relationship with the political parties. People here are sick and tired of slaving away and get abused in the workplace for peanuts pay and worsening conditions. It's falling apart rather rapidly.
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  2. A relatively new girl with a bottle of vodka? Oh no no no no no. He'd have been lucky not to get arrested for gRape.
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  3. Average men aren't worthless. My paternal grandfather was a quarryman here in the countryside in the UK in the 1920s and 30s, with a pickaxe and a shovel. He and my grandmother were dirt poor on their smallholding. They raised 6 children. They loved each other until he died of old age. My late father was a forester and later a warehouseman. As a forester, he planted trees on vast swathes of land. You can still see his work as you drive through the country. He was a good man who was loved. But he didn't earn much. The feeling I get is that a lot of male content producers whip hard working men because no matter how hard they work, it's never enough for those men. Obviously my paternal ancestors were failures because they didn't earn a million quid a year and weren't shredded, nor did they have a side hustle. My grandfather was a simple man who lived with nature.
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  4. Yeah, when I see senior female management consider themselves to be the 'victims of patriarchy' and that their heroic efforts are holding up the oppressive male maintenance guys who fix the leaking gutters on a salary far less than they enjoy in their comfortable offices, it makes me feel queasy. I don't get involved with people, male or female. There are very, very few men out there who don't simp, and even fewer women who don't see men as free utility. I guess I've only met one woman to date in 23 years who appreciated me as a person and not for what I could do for her free of charge, and that was in 2007, and she lived 400 miles away. I get to meet plenty of women, but it's all the same. You're there to be used, and if you're happy with that or blind to it, you can date quite easily. Most men seem to be happy to be happy in one-sided relationships with their kweens. I look at the women around me and wonder what it is I'm supposed to like about them apart from seeing some holes, an ass, and t1ts. There is one woman who's still trying to get with me and tells me why she likes me and wants me. She's married, and I know the guy well. Go figure.
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  5. I'm in the UK and even at 5ft 8in at 52 I get attention from women. I'm in great physical shape for my age, jacked, I dress well, I now have a thick head of hair after I grrew it out. I'm very confident around people and dominant - I have to be, professionally - and I immediately command respect from men and from significant people in society. Women, though, leave me alone when they get to know me, because I'm not an Ohmygod emoshunul feminine guy, You OK Huns, who talks to women as women talk to each other. Women here get OBSESSED with men like tbat, and they're the men they date. I know several other masculine men and none of us date. Dating is pretty much exclusively done by men who women can control, use, and emasculate, and ideally they're at least slightly feminine and submissive to the dominant ones. Decades ago, women adored masculine men, and my dating dynamic was like 007 and Vesper Lynd in that train carriage in Casino Royale. You never see that here any more. The 'men' are fidgety, they have poor posture, zero presence.
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  6. I'm 52. Never married. I know several other bachelors. All say they can't find a woman who doesn't take, take, take, and neither can I. I also can't find a woman doesn't try to control, use, or emasculate.
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  7. If you want a good idea of just how laughable it is here in the UK, nursing home jobs are priced at minimum wage. For that, you get the privilege of clearing up sh1t stained bedding, and administering medication for which you'll be held criminally liable for any harms from any errors you made, and in any errors you made in their basic care. Not to mention the qualifications needed. Meanwhile, supermarkets have vacancies at above the miilnimum wage for stacking shelves. Nursing home staff notice this and are leaving the sector for easier, less stressful work for much better pay and conditions.
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  8. Ah yes, the ponzi scheme of internwt grifters training men to become downstream internet grifters to train more downstream internet grifters until YouTube is filled with men doing side hustles on top of side hustles, bro.
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  9. Yes, and it was deliberate. See Foucault and his Postmodernism.
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  10.  @SunDogGod  Correct. They very much know they're garbage.
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  11. Agreed. I've always found that being in a pack has slowed me down as I have to move at the pace of the slowest.
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  12. I'm 50. Who would I have had children with? A good 99% of men have been crushed by their partners/wives. Simply for the 'opportunity' to have children. There's only one father I know who hasn't been crushed, and that took a huge effort on his behalf to train his wife. I realised a long time ago that my options were to either be one of these crushed men, or to have to spend a huge amount of time and energy to train her to put her on a very tight leash and keep her there. And that in itself is a full-time job. Release your grip and the dragon is back out.
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  13. I'm 52, I've lost count of the bullsh1tting 'bro' hustlers trying to hide their insecurities behind fake loud laughs and fake back slapping to their fellow hustler 'bros' down the bar. So I shake my head at them.
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  14. ​ @DanPittel LMAO they're no different anywhere else. Jeez, you haven't lived.
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  15. But hey, he's a jacked Chad, and Chads get treated with respext, right?
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  16. A woman to me: "Hey, you should use Tinder. It's easy and you get plenty of matches. Women would love to see your biceps in a pic. You'd have loads of them after you." I couldn't stop laughing.
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  17. I lost something like 40% of my body weight in fat, then gained in lean muscle. It brought more attention, but it just brought out more useless users than before.
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  18. It doesn't make any difference if you're rich, ambitious, have a great career, tall, handsome, in great shape, well socialised, well travelled, great with kids, you've still no chance of meeting a woman who doesn't take, take, take. Sure, the more you improve yourself, the more interest you get, but they still use.
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  19. Leopard doesn't change its spots
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  20. Nope, it's a car crash in the UK as well. Divorce is rife, child custody is skewed heavily against the father, family courts are corrupt and biased. Nearly all married men I know have been turned into a shell by their wives, all life sucked out of them. The women are undatable because of entitlement, narcissism, and gross personalities.
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  21. “One NHS doctor, said adverse reactions in staff and patients are contributing to ‘vaccine hesitance’. She said: ‘We have all noticed the adverse effects in our patients. Many of us have become vaccine hesitant after seeing the debilitating health issues our patients are now dealing with, and those we are dealing with ourselves. No health professional that I have spoken to wants any more boosters.” You were saying?
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  22. I lost a lot of fat from 2018 onwards and then bulked up at the gym. I've got a superb physique that women notice. All it's done is bring me to the attention of even more 304s and users than it did before. No amount of self improvement will magic quality women out of thin air nor will it wave a magic wand and improve the gross personalities and remove all the fat, the tattoos, and neon hair.
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  23. Remember, those girls vote. And their vote cancels out yours. The yoof's vote here in the UK cancels out mine.
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  24. We had a general election here a few days ago. Guess how many million women voted for the Uniparty to continue this mass import.
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  25. I've been going to the gym for over 5 years. I've met some great guys there. The women are still narcissistic users. Real life is no different to apps.
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  26. I know a few successful businessmen bachelors. No matter how tall, handsome, well dressed, well groomed, how smart a car you've got, how well travelled you are, how much you socialise and are seen to, how well you get on with your relatives' children, how much your smile lights up the room, how much people like you, you still will only meet women who take, take, take. So they've given up. On paper, they're everything women need to settle down with and raise a stable family with, and he has kids to bring up in the family business. But nope, if those men can't be used or manipulated, she has no use for him.
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  27. Here in the UK, feminine men are much more likely to get dates than masculine men.
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  28. ​ @priestesslucy She's completely unhinged
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  29. Sadly, it's why I've hardened to the point of looking like a cold hearted psychopath while not turning into one. People will pounce on any sign of weakness and begin to exploit, unless you're eeally lucky. I can get along with men quite well as they respect me very quickly, and only a few either try to cause trouble or decide to back away when they realise they won't be able to. Women hiss and seethe that they can't use or control me, so vanish very early on.
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  30. Not just divorced women, it's nearly all of them. You're hard pressed to find a woman who doesn't have that attitude. It's etched on married men's faces. The only men who don't have to deal with this are those who keep away from women.
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  31. My father worked in a warehouse. He was born in 1927. I always remember just how strong and fit he was, well into his 50s.
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  32. That thumbnail is nearly all married men I know
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  33. It makes me laugh when I read women say "If he was a real man, he'd go after women and ask you out." That only applies to Chads. They're allowed to go out and 'get what they want,' because Chad. Any guy who does that and he isn't a Chad, cue Me2. Homestly ladies, you're a parody of yourselves.
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  34.  @ivan_says_hi  It's her last port of call if her emotions and manipulation have failed to produce the required result. You see them sweat at that stage.
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  35. @11:30 – the woman starts the relationship. More than that, she runs the whole show up to marriage and into divorce. She sees a man she likes, she presents herself to him hoping he'll notice her and want to start dating, so she'll act around him in a certain way to get him to ask her out. Once they start seeing each other, she'll offer sex. She'll then manoeuver herself to prompt him to suggest they move in together, same with getting him to propose, then starting a family. Women drive the whole process, but the man thinks he's in control. Yes, he takes the lead by doing the overt asking, but only because she's covertly pushed him into a situation she wants him to be in.
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  36. I've seen a few like that. In contrast, I look physically better than I did 20 years ago. Certainly I'm much slimmer and much more muscular and leaner. The women in comparison dropped off a cliff.
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  37. Not just young guys. I know plenty of men around my age who are very, very timid and apologetic. There are a few other guys like me who aren't, and we recognise each other by our body language.
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  38. Oh yeah, they start to appear, but they still expect you to simp or that they can control, use, and emasculate
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  39. ​ @GearForTheYear I lost my high level professional network cultivated over many years because I refused to disclose my vaxx status. I wasn't allowed access to my contact list to say I was going. I was thrown out abruptly. I think they might assume I'd dropped down dead, unless someone else managed to notify them I wasn't there any more due to HR reasons.
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  40. This is a very poor attitude from Bo. Yes, this guy could easily improve his fitness and physique in the gym, as I have done over the past four years. But it doesn't do anything for my warmth for the rest of the human race, so I isolate myself more and more purely to minimise my nausea from dealing with people because of the insincerity and torrents of BS. I'm guessing this guy has a form of autism, possibly HFA, and he'll have a hell of a shock when it comes to dealing with women. But rather than understanding HFA and how it affects how you interact, I guess it's easier to ridicule.
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  41. Yes, this guy likely has either significant past trauma, resulting in C-PTSD, or he's very high on the autism scale and is very likely to have had a very sheltered upbringing. But I guess it's fun to make fun of him for how he was treated by his parents. He's as he is because he likely wasn't given the opportunities that most others take for granted. This guy could easily improve his fitness and physique in the gym, as I have done over the past four years. But it doesn't do anything for my warmth for the rest of the human race, so I isolate myself more and more purely to minimise my nausea from dealing with people because of the insincerity and torrents of BS. He'll have a hell of a shock when it comes to dealing with women because of the level of insincerity and downright evil codes of conduct that both men and women operate by. I have very, very few male friends because of the amount of BS they try to push on me, and they're not impressed I don't believe in their conspiracy theories like flat earth or chemtrails or whatever. I also find that a lot of men – typically the blue pilled ones – are still children. I also found that if you socialise, you're with men who have been completely ground down by their female partners, and if you're in a mixed social group, it's even worse because of women's boss babe attitudes and men's reluctance to call them out or stand up to them. So it's rather like a large marriage with multiple wives around you and multiple crushed husbands. And you're the only uncrushed man of the lot. The other problem I have regarding socialising is that unlike the senior or retired academics I sometimes socialise with, I have pretty much nothing in common with people. I haven't had the same life, and I certainly don't have the same interests. Men assume I have an interest in sport or soccer – I don't. They assume I have an interest in cars – very little – or movies, TV, that sort of thing. I don't watch TV. What I do is read a great deal on history, politics, theories of mind, and I like to go hiking. I also don't have an interest in women, and all these men are blue pilled. So there's nothing for the majority of men to find they have in common with me. It's different with my academic friends because of their depth and breadth of knowledge and how they're able to find relationships across the different topics. I learn from them, and their perspective, as they do from me. They also feel shame, and not just in being ignorant on topics. Shame is something that's been lost in the West, and we see complete hedonism being pushed as the standard to aspire to, and people feel no shame about lying, having no integrity, or being an ignorant dumb idiot. Hence the nausea. This guy has swallowed the Disney blue pill so he's in for a rude awakening regarding what women really are like, and men for that matter. It'll be brutal, but if he wants to get his end away, he needs to hit the gym and look like a lean stud, and just treat women as fleshlights on legs. His chances of finding a sincere woman who'll love him as he thinks women love men are virtually zero.
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  42. Re disloyal woman, I've been on the other side of that. One married woman I know occasionally sends me DMs about her praise for me, how she'd like to date, and that's after having been around her. After she does this with me, she posts on social media about how grateful she is of her husband 👀
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  43. Sure, but this is what the vast majority of women are like. If she can't control, use, and emasculate, and you don't simp and pedestalise for the Kween, she'll go after a guy who does. You either simp like this and get crushed, or you don't bother with them except ONS from a bar.
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  44. ​ @shanecle Sure, he'll get more attention, but it won't be any good. I know tall, handsome, very successful men, full head of hair, drive expensive cars, they travel, socialise, they're well liked, they're great with their relatives, great with nephews and nieces. They're single. They don't date and have never married. For all the attention they get, they can't find a woman to date who doesn't take, take, take, emasculates, and controls.
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  45. It's just as well I've never been a nice guy. When I used to bother with women, back in the 90s, I had a lot of choice of very beautiful, fit women who treated me well, and I wasn't an A-hole to them, nor did I pedestalise them. Something changed after 2000. Professionally, I have to be dominant, assertive, have charisma and confidence, know how to charm significantly important people. That carries over well to my relationship with men. The sad thing is that women see that professional charm, intelligence and competence - which works extremely well in the high-level relationship building I've done - as an indication they can use me as they think it means I'll be her simp and that I have no boundaries, and that she can play games. The end result is that I've walked away from every woman I've met since 2007, so when you meet countless women who all behave that way, you lose all interest. In the 90s, that assertiveness, charm, competence, and Intelligence had women hanging around me and treating me extremely well, and they got treated well in return because they earned it. Ive lost count of the women who've admitted to me they love the bad boys in 'trackie bottoms' and expensive Nikes. They're a dead loss.
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  46. As many men have discovered from me. And it's not from my outright anger, but from the size of the sword that I carry and that I have it by my right hand. They scuttle off back to the shadows. Women just get hostile when they realise they can't use me as they do other men.
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  47. Same. I found that people's insincerity went into overdrive from 2020 onwards and more and more are quite willing to stab you in the back and trample on you to get a small advantage in life.
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  48. Yes, because women know they can use those men with ease because of their naïvety. I used to know several but grew tired of them, especially when they were urging me to simp. They couldn't understand why I'd need basic requirements in women like integrity and sincerity. They didn't care.
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  49. Same in the UK. It changed hugely 1998 with the Spice Girls and the ladette culture. I remember a male colleague talking about it with a female colleague, mid 20s, who had gone down that route, sadly. There were other women who hadn't, and they were great to be with. But the 304 thing with young women has been around since the early 90s if not earlier. We had a magazine here called "More" ("Smart girls get more") in the early 90s onwards which was all about promiscuity, being a boss babe, and so on. It destroyed women. It used to be so nice going to bars and meeting women.
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  50. Silence, 304
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  51. Aside from some elderly relatives, of the couples I've know well, I can only think of five where the woman let the man lead the relationship and without complaint. Two of those were mine back in the 1990s. All other women I've met assumed she would be in charge, or that she was expecting to have supposedly equal leadership parallel to mine. The same is true of all the couples I've seen apart from three. Those three women are happy. I met a Welsh passport bro a couple of years ago, a retired gentleman who went to Thailand some years ago, met a gorgeous woman out there, married, and had a daughter with her. She's as the Asian lady in this video.
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  52. Yes, but women aren't watching videos such as that. If you look at the comments on it, you'll see that it's pretty much all men writing the same comments as on here. And yes, I agree that women don't give me any reason to care about them one bit. I'm just indifferent to it, while I watch other men walk straight into the meatgrinder and get manipulated to shreds.
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  53. ​ @aldaoroman That's what happened to me. I saw that a woman waa starting to engage in damaging behaviour, potentially putting third parties at risk, so I had to tell her to stop. All hell broke loose. I then found out that I was called all the buzzwords about being aboosive, controlling etc etc. I then pieced together what had happened in her marriage and what the husband had to do. Sure enough, he was also called all the buzzwords. Rule 1 of relationships: a woman must get her way all the time, every time Rule 2, all women are single. It's just your turn.
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  54. Same happened to me from 6 years ago when I started losing weight and then getting jacked. I've been around here a long time so women will have seen the fat me and barely speak, then the thinner then the jacked me. I'm suddenly not invisible, and they start to be much 'friendlier' and approach me, even if married. The fat husbands of some of them I know now look nervously at me while their wife now gives me a sly smile. It brought out other women in my area that it turns out were always here but obviously I wasn't aware of as they were as invisible to me as I to them, because it's only now they come into my orbit. Most of them married as well.
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  55. The amount of DMs I had during lockdown went through the roof, and they were the late night ones as well
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  56. When I'm regularly around women in their late teens/early 20s, I get attention from them but it's very clear they're looking for a sugar daddy and I seem to be an option for that. No thanks.
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  57.  @JohnQPublic345  Unvaxxed here as well, and campaigned in the streets and outside vaxx clinics
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  58.  @MMA-CLIPS2  I can pretty much guarantee that in the UK you'd be married. Sure, you'd be completely under her thumb, but you'd be married.
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  59. Boredom. They've got to have that emotions from you. They want a guy they can fight with. Why do you think they go after Mr Bad Boy.
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  60. Yep, they either explode like the Tsar Bomba or they have a monumental sulk, or they just look at you like you've kicked them in the guts. Just because you politely but firmly showed her you have boundaries, or told her she has to stop doing something that is going to harm her, you, and third parties. Then all the words start, aboose, controlling.
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  61. By the looks of it, I've been doing all of this for the past few years, except for jourmalling. I do much of that in my head anyway. Thanks for suggesting that men do all of this and putting a programme together.
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  62. That guy is one of the luckiest men in the world. It's such a contrast to what I see around me.
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  63. He looks, sounds and acts more masculine than the vast majority of married men I can think of. That's his problem.
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  64. ​ @justsomeguy2943 Oh no, they get upset that you don't care, because it means she's not got good enough technique to retain you as an orbiter. If she finds out you don't care, it's a big ego bruise that can only be healed by recruiting a new orbiter to give her more free narcissistic supply.
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  65. ​ @chesster423 It makes me laugh when I hear Bo wax lyrical about seeing men in cities being self employed through having a camcorder and filming videos for YouTube, and that men need to strive for self employment through looking into a camera to hopefully earn 6 figures. If men would strive for that, society would collapse. Society depends on average men doing average jobs. We've had a lot of flooding here recently. The council workmen have been out in all weathers, in the dark, digging out drains and unblocking culverts. They also have decades of experience knowing where the water is cascading from, which culvert to clear first, and so on. Obviously they're failures because they're not self employed sat behind a desk.
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  66. If I told anyone why I don't date, I'd get arrested as a terrorist and thrown in jail
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  67. Correct. Men learn very quickly to not disrespect me or they'll get dumped out of my life. I've only had to do that with one of them who refused to listen. When I'm in a new situation, I make it clear in how interact with people how I expect them to treat me, and I'll do the same with them. It works. I have to do this because of my professional background where if I didn't, I'd get walked over. Women, though, still try to treat me like they assume I have no boundaries even though they see what everyone else sees. They do it because every other man has bent to her will, right? They discover very early on that I don't tolerate her behaving badly. They don't hang around and modify their behaviour, though. They go crying off and look for a simp with no backbone. People in the groups I'm in know I have a reputation that nobody talks to me like that, and they don't. Women I attract on a 'romantic' level think they still can, and discover they can't.
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  68. ​ @Eye_of_Horus When I figure out I've got a child in front of me, I talk to her like she's 12, because that's what she is. Oh boy, they don't like it. They want to be treated as an adult, but they're incapable of it. After all these decades I still haven't figure out a way to happily deal with these children. You can only have a healthy relationship if both are adults, so you can both take each other seriously. The last woman I met who I could take seriously was 24 years ago.
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  69. ​ @allseeingotto2912 Up until 55 or so..
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  70. I don't know about you, but I find women in their late teens/early 20s to be far more agreeable and nice to be around than the older ones.
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  71. I've heard much the same from another woman around our age.
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  72. @kevinkihn9852  She makes money selling dating courses to lonely men
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  73. Average men aren't worthless. My paternal grandfather was a quarryman here in the countryside in the UK in the 1920s and 30s, with a pickaxe and a shovel. He and my grandmother were dirt poor on their smallholding. They raised 6 children. They loved each other until he died of old age. My late father was a forester and later a warehouseman. As a forester, he planted trees on vast swathes of land. You can still see his work as you drive through the country. He was a good man who was loved. But he didn't earn much. The feeling I get is that a lot of male content producers whip hard working men because no matter how hard they work, it's never enough for those men. Obviously my paternal ancestors were failures because they didn't earn a million quid a year and weren't shredded, nor did they have a side hustle. My grandfather was a simple man who lived with nature.
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  74. Correct. For many years it's either be a doormat or stay on your own, and the vast majority of men who date are a doormat.
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  75. You honestly believe that? The more successful you get, the more it exposes you to users. It doesn't magic decent women out of thin air. Why should successful men tie themselves down to one of those when they can do what Leonardo di Caprio does. That's the smart way to do it.
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  76.  @Eye_of_Horus  Every woman I've met over the 24 years, bar two, has resented that she can't break my frame, that I'm not the pushover she assumed me to be. This happens very early on. When I did used to date and have girlfriends/partners/affairs in the 1990s, they all knew how to adult. I didn't have to treat any of them as a child at any point because if they had that quality, I certainly never got to see it.
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  77. I'm 52, never married, don't date, though I meet plenty of women IRL. I'm well respected in my field by my peers who are authors, academics, researchers, and so on. I'm an experienced public speaker, I get asked to deputise for our CEO at drinks events and awards ceremonies to build relationships with other attendees who are in our sector. I get instant respect from pretty much every man I meet. I'm dominant. Women see all this. They learn very quickly that they can't control, use, or emasculate, and that's when they lose interest. I'm also not femimine and dont talk to them as women do with tbat Ohmigod emosh - women get obsessed with femimine 'men' like that. From being around women all the time, I realise that dating is completely pointless unless by a miracle I met a woman who was turned on by masculinity and didn't expect to CUE me.
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  78. That's what I did from July 2019 and I haven't looked back
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  79. There are three I talk to on a semi regular basis, and they're nice people. Other than that, I only have short, civil, polite conversations and don't get into knowing them and vice versa. Because of the narcissism, the insincere personality, the games the vast majority play. I give them as much energy and attention as I need without it looking rude that I ignore and that they can't use any energy I give them. Which they all attempt to do if I do give them more energy.
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  80. ​ @OriginalTodzilla I agree with you. I'm 51, and after hitting the gym over the past 4 years I'm in great physical shape, I dress well, I'm well groomed, I'm an experienced public speaker, I've done PR marketing event work to build relationships with authors, publishers, politicians, so that sort of people interaction is easy. I used to get lots of women in the 90s, but that was when they were actually decent human beings who didn't play games. It's bren 24 years since I last met one i could take seriously. Bo is very blue pilled in this video. He seems to think there are plenty of decent women out there to meet. Women come on to me, they even ask me out, but the games and manipulation are there from the start.
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  81.  @SargentNittro  True, but she still wants a Chad to settle down. He still probably won't.
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  82. They've been like this since the late 1990s. They were a relative rarity then, but in the years since it's dramatically worsened. I don't tolerate these women, which is why I'm single. This is all there is to meet. Sure, I could lie and manipulate like the bad boys do, but I'd have to overcome my nausea to do that. It's only now that it's coming to people's attention.
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  83. And if she's married and is persistent about getting to know other men, always on his case, it's over. And if that guy doesn't take her up, she'll try other men until she finds one who will. It isn't the who she's cheating with, it's that she's actively looking and won't stop until she achieves it.
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  84. Sure, getting in shape gets you more attention, but you're still expected to simp and pedestalise. It's what I see the huge Chads do before they then decide to date a 2 or a 3 because she's not fat and not a SM. Until 6 years ago I was very fat and very overweight from eating crap and doing no exercise. I then slimmed down to 145lb or so, had a 6 pack in my late 40s, then bulked up slowly and I reckon I've gained 40lb in muscle in around 5 years. I've a V taper, big back and shoulders, flat stomach still, and dress well. I appear to be stronger than 98% of men older than 30 in my gym, by a margin. I've elite cardio. I dress well. It means I get a lot of attention. From men and women. A pity I'm not gay or bi else I'd be doing something with the fit gay men in their 20s who try to pick me up. But I don't date, because I don't simp and women discover they can't control or use me. Most of the attention I get is from younger married women. If I had no morals and I lived in a city... Dating is dead unless you simp and you either are naïve or pretend to be.
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  85. It's not just that they don't want you to succeed, it's that they don't like more talented people, so will do anything they can to prevent promotion because it shows them up in a bad light. Hence why incompetents get promoted above the bright, because the bright, ambitious, talented employees represent a threat to management on different levels, and those people are best kept out of harm's way where they can't change the comfortable status quo. I've witnessed it so many times over the decades.
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  86.  @MultiBannanaSHITTTT  Translation: you have to control and manipulate modern women and spend years training them through violent arguments and then take on a second job of managing her as a resentful employee. I witnessed this take place over a period of 10 years. Unless you meet a unicorn, that is.
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  87. ​ @omar-uu8qo Nope. Once you understand narcissistic personality disorder and Cluster B in general in depth, you begin to see where people sit on the spectrum. And for women it means the abandonment of humility as a baseline.
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  88.  @likearollingstone007  Mentally, they're 12
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  89. It's not just corporates who take the piss and treat staff like sh1t, SMEs do too. All forms of manipulation by desperate staff trying to avoid the place going under. I filed an additional time slip for extra work they gave me to do, and it caused a stink. I was expected to work for free. Sure, they paid, but they didn't make that same mistake twice. After that they just didn't bother doing other tasks in the company and let it slide rather than pay someone to do it.
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  90. I sometimes have strags drift in my direction, and they either already know I've never married and/or that I'm single, and they ask why so. Because women discover very early on that they can't control, use, or emasculate, and that I don't pedestalise or simp. That really puts their nose out of joint. That's women's baseline for a relationship.
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  91. A lot of men are getting red pilled without the Internet, just through their personal experiences of women. It's what I did around 2000/2001.
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  92.  @BM_100  Noooo, men are interested in introverted women, just not the extremely introverted ones we can't get a word out of
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  93. Those 18-25 women want a sugar daddy. I sometimes have a few who hang around me, and jy becomes very clear that's what they're looking for. Their eyes light up when they see the brands of clothes I wear, my jewellery, that I read a certain broadsheet newspaper (the Daily Telegraph) so I can see them doing the mental calculations on my wealth and they suddenly become warmer. So I'd be taking on a parasite.
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  94. Because adult women are unicorns...
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  95. @3:25 'it's the innocent card'. I used to spend some time around women and that was the trick they used to try to play on me all the time. For want of a better way of describing it, I'm an academic (though not in higher education), and I come across in my speech, mannerisms, presence as one. Because I have to be in order to blend in with my peers. Yet the women out there are 304s or had a 304 past. And when they meet me and get to know me, they play that innocent card, or the 'sophisticated high value lady' card, assuming I can't see through the act. Only they don't have the energy to sustain that act for very long, so they soon slip back into their former 304 mode and you think you're in a red light district. But the lengths they go to in order to pretend to be 'high class' in order to try to impress me is hilarious.
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  96. Same thing happened in the UK to care home workers who everyone celebrated to then being deemed as walking plague carriers if they didn't get the juice. 45,000 were sacked because they refused to. Over 100,000 in the health service here also threatened to resign instead of being forced to get the injection. The government then backed down. Again, they were treated as heroes shortly before, then they got booed at for not wanting the arm injectable.
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  97. Because they know they'd get arrested for harassment if they did. Same in the UK, it's very rare to see men approach women.
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  98. ​ @susanhaines7358 LMAO 🤣
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  99. It's the same in the UK, but I wouldn't say it's because they feel safer, it's because she can control the feminine man, who'll give her a free pass. He also gives her the female emotions she wants. Something I learned the hard way was that women expect men to relate to them as woman to woman, and if a guy does that to her, all emosh, he's in. I've seen Chads relate to women in a woman's manner. Women initially see my dominance and masculinity and are attracted to it. They assume they can emasculate me as they have done all their other men, but I don't allow it. When she discovers this, she's off. I have to be dpminant as part of my work, and I'm successful at it. I also find that even at 5ft 8in, I'm more dominant than most men out there, including much larger ones. It amused me 5 years ago to learn just how easily dominated most men were, and how little presence they had. But they're the men women date.
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  100. ​ @MichaTheLight That's what most women are like these days. You start talking to someone new and within minutes the tests start and they try to needle you to see what competition they can find to beat you over.
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  101. ​ @HollAnna They sure do. I know a few very successful businessmen or men in very good csreers, in their 40s. They're about the same - tall, handsome, well dressed, well groomed, they socialise, great with kids, they're all the things. None of them date. They can't find a woman who doesn't take, take, take. Once women discover they can't use them, can't manipulate, can't emasculate, they run away. The only thing "wrong" with them is what's "wrong" with me - they have a backbone and women hate it.
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  102. ​ @delroyterrelonge6085 It's called childhood emotional neglect
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  103.  @kingrubbatiti1285  @Kizz217 I've seen it too often over the past 30 years for it to be a coincidence. When I was at university in the early 90s, I had a friend I'll call Dave. He was somewhere between Larry Grayson and Dylan Mulvaney. He'd flip his head quickly, flip his fingers down in speech, sit with his legs tightly crossed, he'd talk with that gay lisp, talk like a woman does, and though he was tall he had as much meat on him as a butcher's pencil. I'd had a couple of dates with a girl - it didn't go anywhere. Then she met him, and it was love at first sight for her. They very much had a physical relationship as they were over each other in public, and he'd still be this gay man in public with her, so it wasn't an act. I don't recall them splitting up. I can think of many other examples of soft, effeminate, weedy men having loads of dates with fit young women. The trend I've noticed over the years since is that the men who talk to women as a woman does, with feminine emotions, feminine energy, patterns of speech and so on - and men who very much aren't stoic - are the men that women get besotted over. I used to know an older divorced guy who had the masculinity and leasership of a 9 y/o boy - I had to spend all day with him in London once, and it felt like I was dragging around an indecisive, whiny small boy. On twitter, he'd be Sir Simpalot around the younger women in our group, constantly white knight for them, and constantly be their free court jester. Despite/because of this, he was never short of dates in his home area (we had a mutual friend) and had a striing of girlfriends. He married one. I declined the invite for the wedding as it would be a farce of a marriage.
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  104. They certainly are. There's one I currently know, who had a huge amount of affairs in his past while he was married, and I observe him around women. He simps. Women love it. I used to know other men in the past who used to be PUAs and they couldn't understand why I was single. They were trying to urge me to simp. One was a mega simp who pedestalised all women, and the single women in our group expected me to simp after them in the same way he did. They had a shock to discover I don't. Same way that they were shocked I didn't white knight for them as he did. He got married nearly 2 years ago. I declined the invite.
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  105. 12:40 'You Get rewarded for being fake.' Well, yes. I could put on those psychopathic traits, but if I get close to doing so, I start to want to throw up out of disgust. I'm very, very short (tempered) with women. In order to avoid losing my temper out of being jaded at them, I try and avoid or minimise contact because I can see how they expect me to behave, and I see how they're fake with me in return.
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  106. Spot on. That's the analogy I use. Most people only see the projection of the Wizard, the big face in the clouds, the big booming voice, the flashes of lightning, but I also see the little old man behind the curtain pulling the levers, pressing the switches, turning the dials, speaking into the microphone. It's what I mostly see when I talk to people, especially women. I see what I now understand to be comparable to software routines running on primitive AI consciousness. I find it hard to interact with the illusion of the Wizard any more.
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  107. Same experience from the gyms I've used. I see the same guys, and get to know them superficially. The outgoing men who do little but talk with anyone and everyone are very feminine even if they're straight. Being very social like Bo seems to advocate is a feminine trait and the men who women in social settings hang around are very feminine in how they talk to peoole, not just women. They talk to me in the same female way, with the same female emotions and how they switch from one emotion to another. If I didn't know it was a hetero man, I could swear I was talking to a woman. I also see it's generally gay men who socialise a lot like at people's gardens, or these feminine men, or it's a family gathering of some kind. Men just don't get together like that unless they're working on a car project, or they're railway engineers, or are building a model railway. Men get together to do something with each other by getting their hands dirty together, not stand around chatting with a drink. I'm happier giving a friend a hand with his car and chatting with him than standing still with just a beer. The masculine men prefer to be working on their hobbies, or working out. I prefer to go swimming or on a long hike.
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  108. Oh, it certainly has failed in the UK, very spectacularly so
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  109. There's no dating, full stop. Casual sex via hookup or picking them up in a bar, OK, but dating is long since over as they don't know how to behave.
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  110. ​ @c.m455 He's just another manosphere grifter
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  111. For bad boys, no means yes, and she won't report him to the police for sexual harassment. For 'good guys,' no still means no. If he takes it as a yes, as the bad boys do, he's in a cell on a charge. Words have different meanings for women depending on who they're saying them to. One man's no is another's yes.
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  112. That's easy. It also repels women like two north poles of a magnet. What they're attracted to are weak men with no boundaries who they can and do use. I've watched it play out since my teens.
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  113. Sure, getting in shape gets you more attention, but you're still expected to simp and pedestalise. It's what I see the huge Chads do before they then decide to date a 2 or a 3 because she's not fat and not a SM. Until 6 years ago I was very fat and very overweight from eating crap and doing no exercise. I then slimmed down to 145lb or so, had a 6 pack in my late 40s, then bulked up slowly and I reckon I've gained 40lb in muscle in around 5 years. I've a V taper, big back and shoulders, flat stomach still, and dress well. I appear to be stronger than 98% of men older than 30 in my gym, by a margin. I've elite cardio. I dress well. It means I get a lot of attention. From men and women. A pity I'm not gay or bi else I'd be doing something with the fit gay men in their 20s who try to pick me up. But I don't date, because I don't simp and women discover they can't control or use me. Most of the attention I get is from younger married women. If I had no morals and I lived in a city... Dating is dead unless you simp and you either are naïve or pretend to be.
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  114. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You honestly think that magics decent women into existence? Oh boy....
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  115. ​ @evernew23 That guy is on roids. Stop pushing it. Oh, and "boy", before you with a witty comeback, I've been going to the gym since July 2019, something like 8 hours a week, lost 40% of my weight in body fat, then regained 30% in lean muscle with elite cardio. So, that guy is on roids.
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  116. @16:30 agreed, as men we're made to have stable monogamous family relationships where the man has equal input into raising his children over a lengthy period of time in the one same family unit, one which he provides for and protects, and with a wife who'll follow his lead and will be loyal and a positive force in his life. That's the desire most men have, I'd say, and it was the norm for such a long period of time. Today, it's unobtainium unless you're really, really lucky to hit the jackpot. This has always been my dream, but after decades of experience, and after decades of watching other men get completely crushed by women who think they could've done better and regret having to have settled for the poor sap they married, I realised it just wasn't going to happen. I guess I could've got a woman pregnant after seeing her casually, and as far as I'm aware I have no chlidren running around as I wasn't always careful, but the white picket fence you describe that men would kill for, with a wife the man is certain wouldn't divorce him or crush him through psychological torture, is today a myth.
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  117. Gen Z? Try Gen X as well. They're only able to relate to women, be it in a woman's body or in a man's. If you're a man in man's body, good luck.
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  118. I know the risks. They're hugely stacked in the direction of it being a shitshow and with little prospect of peace and happiness.
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  119. Not just the US but anywhere in the Anglosphere courtesy of Western mass media and consumerism.
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  120.  @malirk  Nope, very few people are 'people' because they don't act like it
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  121.  @learn2rideVIDEOS  Ha! Cathy Newman still hasn't lived that down, yet she still pretends to be one of the smartest on TV.
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  122.  @tonyngo9200  I've never married, and I don't go out there looking. Women occasionally try to latch on. When they discover that I expect them to reciprocate, they're gone. The Princess syndrome is everywhere, and I refuse to feed it.
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  123. Within the first few minutes of talking with a new woman I meet at a concert or event, she's trying to crap test and she's getting her mental calculator out to try to figure out my net worth and my salary based on questions she has about my lifestyle, to see how much disposable income I have. I'm never questioned about my values, morals, or perspective on life. It's 'how much has he got and how much is he willing to spend on me by taking me nice places." So even if they give me their number, I don't follow them up.
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  124. Yep, and what my relatives also expect me to be
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  125. LMAO, you think 'right women' exist
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  126. Sure, there's plenty of leech 304s out there. Decent women, zilch, nada, none.
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  127. Back in the 90s I had an on/off affair with a woman as we weren't able to see each other often or stay in touch because of distance, lack of phones etc, but when we were, she was delighted to see me and just me. Same thing happened with another woman a few years later who lived distant and whoomp, she was all over me when we did see each other.
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  128. ​ @georgeascunce3142 I salute you sir
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  129. "... bubbly smile, asking questions, can't help look at just you" doesn't mean attraction. It also means she's baiting the man by pretending she's really interested when she has no desire.
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  130. Uk, 52, like this guy I work out a lot, go hiking. I keep myself to myself. I don't socialise. I find that the vast majority are insincere. I keep a few men close to me. They're also loners. The ones who use and who are insincere and are the ones who socialise. I'm fine with the people who are sincere and don't use and aren't an anchor, aren't materialistic. But there's hardly any of those.
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  131. I've found that to be not so much of a problem as people just being insincere with me and others, and expecting me be insincere back. I'm 52 in the UK. I keep a few close friends who I know are sincere and decent, but I do pretty much everything by myself. People don't try any more to use or be insincere as I just give them my coldblooded look and that gets rid.
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  132. He's most men in relationshits and marriages
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  133. ​ @allseeingotto2912 Not really. When you get to a stage in life where it 'sticks' you don't have to worry about it any more. The trouble is, Bo is incorrect when he says women respect men with frame. Only unicorns do. Otherwise, it's a big turnoff. Women hate it that they can't break my frame, and I see them go running off to other guys whose frame they do break. Men try testing my frame - as I expect them to - but when they discover they can't, they then respect me for it, and I respect them back. The only men who don't respect me for it are narcissist and psychopath men.
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  134. Correct. Bo expects men to pander to them.
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  135. They are, and sadly Bo just enables it all. He's giving men the message that they have to tolerate all this crap, play these stupid games, pander to these wretched train wreck women. Because, guess what, in the past, dating was fun, light, carefree, enjoyable. Now, your cortisol levels are through the roof because apparently we have to 'handle' women we should be running away from faster than Usain Bolt.
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  136. ​ @sawris7294 I still see people. There are those I know around me who are the same as us, and I get on fine with them, but with the NPC others, I'm very short tempered, or have the psychopath dead face on me. It earns respect from men, and they don't give me any trouble, probably because they think I could F up their lives with no remorse.
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  137. Yes, he's a grifter who supplies us with entertainment value
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  138. A woman I know had just that in her early 30s. Horse drawn carriage to wedding, huge reception, no expense spares in any of it in a huge mansion. I happened to see many of the photos after having to sort through some folders on a server. It didn't stop her asking the office Chad to remove his shirt to gawp at his muscles nor did it stop her flirting with me and wanting to know details of my performance.
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  139. Correct. The trouble is, being masculine, having a solid ftame, having boundaries and not afraid of enforcing them drives women away. Sure, it's initially attractive because they see you as confident, competent, dominant, but they assume they're going to be able to break it and that you'll let them. Once they discover that you don't, they lose interest very quickly. I'm lucky that I have three female friends who respect my masculinity and don't expect me to be feminine around them or that I'll be feminised. One of these women is very much on my case and falls into line if I disagree with her on something I want to do. The other two are more distant but didn't try to feminise me or expect me to relate to them as a woman does. Other women I know are acquaintances because they didn't like that I wasn't going to be feminine around them. I've met ao many women who I've initially attracted who then drifted off fairly soon because they too recognised I don't simp, pedestalise, nor do I emasculate, nor do I give them feminine emotional energy as I talk to them. But what I notice is that plenty of men talk to women (sometines the same ones I've driven away) in that feminine way, as women do, and with that emotion, and women love it. As other guys have said in the comments here, women want feminised men, or men who talk to them as women do. It's very, very rare to find a woman who hangs around you over time and respects your masculinity and doesn't expect you to be feminine. It's a great feeling when you've got a woman like that around you, who knows what masculinity is, will automatically follow your lead, and doesn't see the need to challenge your frame. As far as hanging around with men, the vast majority have been feminised, including the tall, well built men. I've found for several years that it's very eaay to be the most dominant guy in nearly every situation, or to take over as that guy, that men automatically give me respect, or if I meet someone else on my level, we give each other a head nod of recognition and we won't challenge each other. But there's only one guy in my area who I talk to regularly and I don't regard him as being a feminised man, and he knows it, because he sees the legions of feminised men around him as I do around me. We're the odd ones out, and why we get on. It's sad.
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  140.  @ruckin3  I'm 51. I've yet to meet any woman who doesn't need drama, like the guy yelling back at her. If you don't, it unnerves her because you're not giving her the attention, and shouting back shows her that you 'care'. So they'll create drama and fights out of thin air for the sake of it. When she discovers I don't fall for that trick and I'm not going to be giving her that energy, she's off. I never married. I don't date and haven't since 2007. I don't deal with train wreck women.
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  141. Same in UK. A few friends of mine are bachelors, and they socialise a lot in a big town. They've given up on women because they can't find any who take, take, take. It doesn't matter how rich and successful you are, how tall, handsome, well dressed, well groomed, well travelled, well socialised, how good you are with children, it means nothing. You still get used.
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  142.  @HollAnna  Deflection, as expected
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  143. Here in the UK at least, I can only think of possibly three women in LTRs/marriages in couples under 70 who allow their man to lead. Three. All the others I've seen very much lead the man. It's impossible to meet a woman who's willing to follow a man.
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  144. ​ @tonyngo9200 I live in a small town in the countryside, but if I find myself in a bar in a city in a weekend, like after a conference and I'm getting a drink before I catch my last train home, I find I have much younger women over me and it's clear they want to hook up. This happens within a minute or so of them noticing me, how I dress, carry myself and so on. I guess if I lived in a city like that and went to bars in the evening, I'd be screwing my way through the city. It's not something you do in a small town because you can't PnD without them tracking you down or ending over their cousins to rearrange your teeth if you upset her.
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  145.  @ElJefe0719  Because I was born here and it's where all my ancestors are from and where nearly all my relatives live.
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  146. ​ @ElJefe0719 and the disturbing thing is that you notice just how many men don't do this
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  147. ​ @lilbrother45 Same age, and did the same several years ago, coincidentally when I joined a gym. Most of the 'friends' I had don't bother with me now. Most of the men I know or knew are married. Of the single ones I know or knew, most are blue pilled, simp, and expected me to do the same. Most of them got the chop. There's a few decent men I know, but most don't live around me. An advantage in being assertive/borderline aggressive is that people know not to BS me so keep away. A few make it through and they're good people. But I'm completelt withering with an awful lot of useless and batsh1t woke people. Women like that dominance but don't like it that I don't tolerate their BS nor their attempts to control and use me. I'm not a weak simp.
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  148. ​ @nimblehuman I appear to be the only guy under 60 in my town without any tats. Men in the gyms I use are plastered with them.
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  149. Import the third world, become the third world
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  150. Cope. We know the stats, thanks.
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  151. Take s look at what Hungary are doing. It's what Bo describes.
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  152. They don't have it
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  153. Schools are closing around me because of falling pupil numbers
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  154. I lost nearly 40kg in weight in around a year in my late 40s and now at 50 I'm pretty jacked, and visible muscular with great tone. It's brought me a lot of respect from men for having done it, but no enjoyment of people's company because I can see the web of manipulation and identify when people try to BS me as they successfully do other people. The people I do enjoy spending time with are very senior or retired academics, purely because they're honest and don't try any of these insincere tricks with each other, nor with me, and they have excellent morals. But they're the exceptions in life, sadly, and they only tend to mix among their own as well for the same reasons – they isolate themselves from the cesspit that is human nature. If people didn't attempt to manipulate me or others, didn't attempt to BS me, had integrity and honour, and could speak by being able to string together a coherent sentence, and the men hadn't been crushed by their wives because they had a backbone, then yes, I'd probably enjoy socialising. But I've tried many times over the decades and give up because the nausea becomes overwhelming after a while. It just doesn't improve my life. Getting jacked also has turned out to be a curse regarding women because of the attention it brings. It's unpleasant, because of their conduct, and I have to spend effort to eject them from my life.
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  155. Look up childhood emotional neglect and isolation
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  156. I feel sad for guys who didn't get to date/have affairs/girlfriends in the 1990s when it was fun, there weren't anywhere near as many 304s around nor entitled narcs.
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  157. His best antidote to wanting a girlfriend is to be the only or one of a few male emplpyees in a company that employs mostly women. You learn in months to steer clear of XX.
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  158. Or worse have the police called on you. We have signs here in the UK to not even 'stare' at women lest you get arrested for something so there's no way I'd talk plainly like that to one. Women's paranoia is now enshrined in law, so if you're not in the top 5% of looks, you're only a phone call away from ending up in handcuffs for 'having the balls' to talk to her like that.
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  159. 5ft 8in, 51 y/o, 185 lb, no idea about BF but I've excellent muscle definition, flat stomach, V taper, a chiselled back and shoulders, belt of adonis coming along nicely, broad chest and shoulders, so I'm going the way of Daniel Craig in Casino Royale. Most of the attentiom I get is from much younger married women. They treat me well. Single women like the eye candy but don't stop playing games. The other group of women who are good to me and lay out the red carpet are in their late teens/early 20s. Very attentive. Fit men in their mid to late 20s also come on to me, but that's another story.
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  160. If any guy thinks that being or becoming higher value brings out the decent women from the woodwork, it doesn't. The better you become, the more garbage you get exposed to. Highly successful, tall, handsome, well dressed, highly social, well travelled businessmen bachelor friends of mine have given up because they can't find a woman who doesn't take, take, take. On paper they're what women say they want and are the high value guys that men's channels say men should become. Yet they still get treated like crap.
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  161. When I bothered to have relationships or affairs way back in the mists of time, I didn't mind having control over most of what went on. I'd never close off the woman completely, but she understood her role was for me to provide that masculine leadership for most of the time and in most circumstances. It didn't burden me to do it, and I didn't regard her as a passive object that was dragging around. I could trust her to be capable and competent on aspects of her life, but when she was with me, she trusted me to be able to make the decisions and the leadership. It was the same in various jobs I'd had at the time, and since, where my bosses would have to delegate responsibility to me and they'd allow me to have a huge amount of agency to Get Things Done, which I did. And I'd have various staff under me whom I'd delegate tasks to or they were others who knew they had to do whatever I told them. But these days, women flag out refuse to allow the man to lead. I can only think of three marriages of couples under 60 where the man leads. In all the others, he's that passive guy she's dragging around, not because he doesn't or didn't know how to, it's because the woman flat out refuses to relinquish any power, as it means patriarchal oppression, she's his slave etc etc.
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  162. Thinking back to my relatives here in rural UK, my uncles would be something like a caretaker, forestry man, water engineer, drive a road sweeper, that sort of thing. They might live in a modest house in a small town or in the countryside. The wife would be a SAHM, stay at home all the time to raise them, then send the kids to school (they might walk in those days), then if she had a job, she'd work in a newsagent or small shop. She'd leave ready to meet the kids from school if not walk to meet them. Same with the other families they knew. She'd then prepare the meals, and do the cleaning and laundry. He'd get home sometime before 6 to a hot meal. Those were solid marriages with no divorces or infidelity. Today, she's expected to hold down a full time job on top of trying to get young kids to school, picking them up, and if they get ill, she has to take time off. I've worked with married women who struggle to do all this and they have to call in all sorts of favours from their parents or even neighbours to help out. It's a mess they have to spend so much energy managing.
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  163. By and large, I avoid people - I'm not quite a hermit, but not far off. I have zero regret about doing so because there are so few people I've met who I can say have ended up with my quality of life improving through knowing them and doing things with them. It turns out to be a big net negative where the quality of my life nose dives with them in it, so I learn from experience and isolate to prevent my life going downhill. And then when I watch their interactions with others and see how fake and manipulative the whole thing is, with only a superficial friendliness that hides a sea of bitterness, envy and so on between people.
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  164. Confidence makes little difference. The ability/wilingness to manipulate/be manipulated is a much bigger factor. Confidence without manipulation and using people leads nowhere.
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  165.  @leftistnpc5417  Guess what, we all die alone. It's a myth that people with family pass away peacefully with family beside them holding their hand is somehow the norm. The worse thing is being stuck with people you can't get away from.
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  166. That's my feeling as well. If I was to have a 'relationship' where I wasn't ground down into the dirt, I'd have to keep her on such a tight leash and keep her in check so tightly, treating her like a POS that it would be a job in itself, and other than sex and children wouldn't improve my life. And she'd be someone for whom I'd have to support financially. I get an 'ick' feeling when I'm around a LOT of women these days because of the child-like aspect. There's one girl who stalked me for 18 months – she's much younger, and she developed an infatuation, but she was and is pretty crazy. She's got severe daddy issues. She's glued to her phone watching TikTok videos of complete garbage. Hey, she's smoking hot with a gorgeous backside and pair of tits, but she's still a 12 y/o child in adult skin, with the emotional maturity of a 12 y/o girl.
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  167. Bo, I'm surprised you hadn't heard of Casey earlier. I've been watching him off and on for some time and he comes across as a great guy. He's also chronicled how he transformed his physique over the years of training in the gym. He used to be a very skinny teen and I guess only started to bulk up in his early 20s. He's a gigachad to look at as well.
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  168. None have managed to in 24 years, and those are of being a basic, responsible, trustworthy adult. They cant achieve the bare minimum, including married women I know.
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  169. @fluxonite  He's materialistic and only thinks in terms of money, success, and women. Several have seen through his grift. He'd write off as losers the men who made sacrifices during WW2 to keep the show on the road.
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  170. 25:00 If you're not making momey by 40, you fucked up? Oh boy, you've not lived. Hmm, try being a full-time unpaid carer for elderly relatives for well over a decade and then have to start from scratch, and you'd still be a carer if they hadn't died.
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  171. Basically, yes
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  172.  @lzl3lol ... except he didn't say everyone is a narcissist. Would you like lessons in English comprehension?
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  173.  @ΔΗΜΗΤΡΙΟΣ-λ8γ  Yes, but many have returned. A LOT of Poles have returned home from the UK, and from what I hear from a Slovak friend over here, things are pretty good back home. The differential is closing steadily.
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  174.  @forgottenfuryan  Um, no, I didn't preside over anything, sunshine. I'm involved with various groups to rebuild civil society, bring back accountability to politics and the public sector, influence politicians to bring back manufacturing, to scrap woke legislation. As such, I'm a regional organiser of one of these organisations here in the UK to undo alllll the damage you see in these videos. Tell me, what are you doing on a practical level to push back, apart from showing us your irrelevant millennial griping and bitterness?
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  175. ​ @forgottenfuryan I didn't realise his construction business failed. I do know that he's a grifter who makes his cash from men.
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  176. He ran away to Romania then moans about how bad the US is 😅
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  177. ​ @anneb889 See Aldous Huxley's Brave New World
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  178. Sadly, a lot of men contribute to this by inflating the egos of so many women
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  179. It is. That's your regret speaking. Tick tock.
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  180. But what are we improving ourselves for? It's all very well for Rich Cooper to say to attract women, but that's not what happens. It sure attracts even more 304s than usual, but it doesn't create decent women out of nothing.
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  181. Self employment? Ha, around here unless you're an electrician or plumber, it's not well paid. Very little demand for carpenters. Some demand for agricultural contractors, but again not well paid. Most of the self employed jobs in my region are at the bottom end, because there aren't numerous employers here other than the public sector. Hence why it's most people's dream to get a job in the council as it's secure, comparatively well paid, and has a pension scheme. The private sector is much smaller in comparison and pays less on average than the public sector. Wages here are something like 80% of the UK average. In other parts of the UK the salaries are even lower. Thus most of the self employed are scrabbling around in the dirt to find something to pay the colossal bills here, even if it works out less than minimum wage after many years. What you describe as people sat with cameras and laptops for their self employed job would be laughable here. The economy here is mostly poor people trying to exchange money with other poor people for low skilled basic tasks as that's all the economy will support. What is flourishing is self employed parcel delivery drivers, using their own battered cars, working 14 hours a day for sh1t pay, with no guaranteed hours. 'Follow your passion' is great in an expanding economy in an area where people and companies have money to spend. SMEs are slashing expenditure, if not going bankrupt. Business confidence - by various metrics - is plummeting. I guess a growth industry will be debt recovery agents.
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  182. I've just found it. Many thanks for the recommendation.
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  183. And if he's not willing to do that, simp men will call him an incel with no 'game'
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  184. IME women only start to show humility from around 55 and older. Younger than that, they still think they're Scarlett o'Hara. Their delulu is comical to watch when they try it on with me.
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  185. 15:17 the difference between self improvement and sculpting yourself to be used as a tool to be used by women? Depends on whether or not the guy wants to meet women and his intention on improving. But no matter how much you improve, it's not enough and you get used anyway. The only married men I can say I know who aren't being used, and their wives are with them because they don't use them and were there right from the start and built something with him from nothing are in their 60s and older as are their wives. The other men have life parasites attached to them.
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  186. It's already going that way in law and accountancy. "Do the work, become a professional in law and accountancy, and you'll have women after you." Those careers are now going the way of AI. The only long term winners will be CEOs, programmers, and blue collar men doing the 3D jobs.
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  187. Again, the young, tall guy in glasses at 11:12 is right. High value is character, not wealth. Only in the materialistic west do we associate a person's value with the size of their bank account and not their wisdom, insight, kindness. Buddhism appeals a lot to me.
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  188. 27:00 It's only a recent phenomenon that women feel able to go for and share the top 1% guy and ignore the 'average' men, because of government assistance since WW2. Here in the UK prior to the welfare state, such women would end up in the poor house or otherwise end up begging for assistance. It was drummed into women bery forcefully by the father to keep her legs shut until marriage and to stay with the man, because the father and mother weren't going to bail her out and neither was the state, as the welfare programmes didn't exist. Women had no choice but to 'settle' for the average man because if she went after genes that she saw wasn't sub-par then she'd be ostracised from society, her baby forecefuly taken from her soon after birth, and she'd be a recluse. This existed right until the early 1960s if not later. It's Government welfare assistance that's distorting families.
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  189. They're no better, sometimes they're worse than this because they try to compensate for their lack of looks
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  190. Novelty and dopamine highs
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  191. @donaldvonglitchenberger4108  You need glasses. I'm 52 and about the right weight for my age, I have a V taper, flat stomach, toned muscles and elite VO2max. You were saying, "dude"?
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  192.  @donaldvonglitchenberger4108  Who said I did, "dude"?
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  193. 10:25 Oh dear, Bo can't see that the guy is being lovebombed by a narc who tried to recruit a new simp. But then, Bo's a child.
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  194. I'm 52, and I'm not invisible. Trust me, it's better to be, because they allllllll expect to be able to control, use, and emasculate. The further you are away from 6ft 6in Chad Thunderstroke, or a very visibly rich sugar daddy, the more you've got to be a spineless ATM who says "yes dear" all the time.
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  195.  @howiesfunware  They discover very early on that I'm going to expect them to reciprocate and I don't allow women to control, use, or emasculate me, and that I have boundaries. That sends every one of them packing very early on.
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  196. ​​ @StevenB7146 I don't have your height or long hair and don't do gymnastics or karaté, but I've been working out for 5 years and transformed my physique. While I also own a decent house, I also don't have a fantastic salary. What I do have is national status in my field, and as a result I carry myself with presence and dominance. I have to, because if I lose grip, I'd get eaten alive in my competitive environment. Like you I have morals and principles, and that's a turnoff, as is their inability to manipulate or use me. I'm in the UK.
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  197. Oooh, no, that's a sign that the Queen has been rejected, and causes a massive ego bruise. She then goes to her orbit cloud and picks out an orbiting simp who won't dare walk away or show little interest.
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  198. It's baiting. All women do it. I know they're doing it. I sometimes go along with jt, pretending to be naïve, then just stop. They then realise I'd seen through them from the start.
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  199. Exactly that. As we've seen from other videos where he talks about hid dating, Bo allows women to walk all over him and says it's necessary in order to date. He's a child.
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  200. Believe me, he's typical for his age, especially as he's been a university student. I can see the soy dripping off him.
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  201. Yep, they're in competition with their frenemies over the hottest and most successful guy they can get and pin down, and emasculate. It's pathetic.
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  202. It's all cope on Bo's behalf because he's getting increasingly desperate to sire a few of them with a trad woman
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  203. Undatable as well. They're utterly repulsive.
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  204.  @joeswanson733  I don't follow books of fairy stories written by sand dwellers high off their tits on psychoactive substamces
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  205. ​ @joeswanson733 Very, very few. In the early mid 90s when I was a church oeganist, most people went there only for the social connections. When you got to see bow they lived their lives, religion played no part in it and they were clearly immoral.
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  206.  @alexisc7565 I can't tell you about how many much younger married women hit on me, ask me out, grope me, or eye me up. And I get to see them do the same with other men while disrespecting their husbands behind his back.
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  207. Just be 6ft 6in bro, just have a lantern jaw, bro. Thanks to inflation, we'll all be earning 6-7 figures pretty soon 😄
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  208.  @JohnQPublic345  Might have replied to tbe wrong person by mistake, without my glasses on, then. Apologies.
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  209. @h2t26  I find the opposite. Little or no drama and insanity among 18-25. All that comes in later and omly gets worse over time. But they all expect the guy to be a wallet in one way or another. As I and bachelor friends know, if they can't take, take, take, they're off. Last time I met someone and dated them because she wanted to be with me because of who I was and not what I could do for her was in 2000.
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  210. It's laughable you can have all the sixes and still get treated like dirt
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  211. Women who come on to me recite the same script, use the same approach, the same act, that of a Trad woman trying to impress, and they all assume I've not seen it alllllll before dozens and dozens of times. And when their back is turned and they've gone somewhere else and they think I'm not watching, they're back in street girl mode, then when they come back to me they put on the Trad act again. It's pathetic.
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  212. You're lucky to have such a good wife and I'm glad for you 👍🏻 I've never married. I guess the last woman I met i could take remotely seriously was some 24 years ago. All the others since have been a nope, and the delusion and entitlement gets worse year on year. But we've no way to check their behaviour except leave them if we're involved with them, or more preferably to just ignore them when it shines out of them when we first meet them.
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  213.  @AgeofCraccadilliaassent  It costs men with the looks a lot of money as well
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  214. 💯
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  215. 22:10 'it's your job as a man to get it to the deeper level of the argument.' Yes, I know. So why can't the 'emotionally mature' woman do that? Why is it the man's job to fix a problem of communication?
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  216.  @Eye_of_Horus  Yes, it's likely I didn't get to see it. But there are women whose husbands have told me they've never had to 'handle' them because they didn't go out of control.
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  217. 34:20 Nope, I know the rules, I know the game. Very well. If you're 'enjoying' playing a 'game' with a child who has no idea how to communicate, then you've failed because you're tolerating a train wreck. Those men that Bo denigrate who say that women need to behave better are right - those were the women I dated or had affairs/relationships with in the 90s. They were feminine women who knew how to behave, were psychologically very well adjusted. There was no 'game' to enjoy playing. I was me, they were them, we enjoyed a bit of flirting, we liked the look of each other, and we got together. None of those women were the 'men' that Bo seems to think they were. There were several other such fit, feminine women orbiting me hoping I'd give them a chance. Those men are right. You just don't tolerate the women who don't behave like that.
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  218. Oh no, if you stand firm, it's a huge turn off. In the vast majority of marriages/LTRs/relationships I see, the man most certainly doesn't stand firm. He's been trampled underfoot a long time ago. Only three men 'stand firm' and their wives respect them for it probably because they're decent women. With all other women, 'standing firm' against her is the quickest way to get rid of her.
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  219. I do, wirhim hours or days or meeting her. Every. Single. One.
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  220. Bo has been a simp for some time. He tries to 'teach' men how to put up with garbage women, and that they should because if they don't pander to these pieces of trash they're 'not a real man' or something. You just don't get involved with these entitled little girls, but Bo seems to encourage it.
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  221. Your confidence, your inability to be thrown off course by any person or life's events. Women must exist within a man's frame of reference. Think of it as containment. She will test it to see how strong you are, to see if she can destroy your confidence. No, they shouldn't, but they do. And hardly any men in marriages/LTRs have a strong frame that their woman hasn't shattered. Contrary to what Bo says, women don't like men with a strong frame. They're repelled by it. Once they see a humorous, confident, outgoing, dominant guy, that'll attract her, and the tests begin. When she realises that nothing she does throws him off course, doesn't make him psychologically weaker and thus able to be controlled or used by her, she's off to find a guy whose frame she can break. Men test each other's frame, and they need to. That's how it's strengthened. I only know of three men with a strong frame that their wives haven't demolished. Three. All the other men have been crushed by their wives or girlfriends.
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  222. She stood as candidate for Mayor of London for the SDP
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  223. Amy Gallagher is very, very smart and well based. Check out her video for the New Culture Forum about how children are being transitioned in the UK.
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  224. Ah, that's Amy Gallagher of the New Culture Forum. She's quite a lady, who's been speaking out against effinism for some time. I'm glad she's getting a bigger profile outside of her profession in mental health.
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  225. He's experienced, and listens to experienced, older men
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  226. It's only because we're not allowed to keep them quiet
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  227. From 2020 to 2022 I had people shouting and screaming at me, or being utter c-u-n-t-s because I did wear a mask, was out on anti lockdown marches, openly criticised the policies, openly criticised and called out medics hypocrisy and lies, and campaigned against the vaxx mandates, and loudly announced I'm unvaxxed. Then they slowly turned round and acted warmly towards me as though they didn't say any of what they'd said. That includes relatives. None of them have said why they feel they don't need to care about not social distancing, not wearing masks, not caring that I'm unvaxxed. It's as if they're assumig I've forgotten their hysteria. I have an old 'friend' who in November 2020 invited me to a pub for an evening drink. This was when pubs had those flimsy plastic tents so people could sit outside to avoid spreading the pLaGuE but people could still sit inside if they wished. It was a cold, wet and windy night. I said we'd sit inside in the dry and warm. He refused - it was outside in a draughty tent exposed to the gale and rain coming in through the entrance, or not at all. Fair enough. I didn't go. We haven't met up since. Naturally, he Obeyed everything to the letter, is vaxxed and boosted and made sure his teenage children also are. They were constantly ill with the Coof despite/because of the vaxx. I was untouched by it. His mother was off the wall paranoid over the Coof.
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  228. ​ @solomonktl6 I'm 52. Oh boy oh boy, you've got a lot to learn. It'll be painful.
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  229. No, your sky daddy is your hallucination
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  230. It's not. That's you having fallen for the hoax that is the Protocols of the Elders of Zion.
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  231. There are a few, but far fewer than before
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  232. You sound like a simp
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  233. You seriously think that most of us haven't had women in our lives, and haven't figured out a long time ago that it doesn't improve our lives to do so? Carry on simping for rhe 304s. I'm sure she'll see this.
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  234. I work around a LOT of women. I'm also around them very often in other parts of my life. I also know several men, married and single, most not dating. I know exactly what the grass is like because I can't avoid it.
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  235. It's not just feminist women who are like this, the calmer ones without bright hair and nose piercings also have the same hoeflation and entitlement issues. I see them all the time, and they come on to me and expect me to start simping, because that's what all men do, right? When they see I don't kiss their ass and that I expect reciprocation, they go off me. Never mind, plenty of other simps for them to go after. It becomes clear very early on that they're not going to be able to provide me with any sort of companionship. Sure, I could take her out for the day, but I'd be expected to give her a good time while she does little or nothing in return. In that case, they're nothing but a walking fleshlight that cries and can ruin your reputation. It's been like this for nearly 25 years in the UK but worsened over the past 15.
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  236. Highly educated women less likely to divorce. Ha, that's a lie.
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  237. ​ @CB12345 Bless, you're assuming that women can be trusted to be loyal. Most weekdays I find out that they can't. I speak from experience as well as observation.
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  238. Divorces peaked in 1994 in the UK and have been dropping since. Marriage rates peaked in 1970 and dropped sharply afterwards. Might have something to do with the 1969 divorce laws reforms?
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  239. Yes, they're Chad simps. I used to know plenty like them. They used to try to cajole me to simp after women like they did, and not have expectations of good behaviour.
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  240. 🤦🏻‍♂️ he's a child then
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  241. He's one of these 'spiritual' men who's also likely into joss sticks, incense, astrology, ley lines and all the rest of the woo woo. Women love all that crap and get wet for any guy who's as much into it as they are. It's a surefire way to get coochie.
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  242. 13:00 oh yes, do what Bo says and they'll still leave you. Be Tom Brady and they'll leave you. Just expect her to.
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  243. ​ @jrod0515 Same here. 'He' goes down when I hear them speak.
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  244. A few years ago, I got into a very interesting mixed group for anti lockdown campaigning. Most of the women were 30s or early 40s and single. Two men were prominent with me. One was mid 30s, engaged, and a Chadsimp. The other was a few years older than me, dicorced. He was Sir Simpalot, and would simp after and white knight/pedestalise the women in our group and any others he met. He had a string of girlfriends who'd dump him after a few months, but he'd then get another very rapidly. Rinse and repeat. He married 2 years ago. From how the women reacted, it was plain to see that they loved how he treated them. They assumed I'd be the same, but I wasn't. That drove several away. I had to spend a day with Sir Simpalot in a city, and though he's older, divorced, and with grown up kids, it felt as though I was leading a small boy around the place. Both he and Chadsimp couldn't understand why I was single, didn't date. Both tried to urge me to simp as they did. I haven't done much with either since. I turned down Sir Simpalot's wedding invite as I couldn't stomach being around him.
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  245.  @terry9238  Yes, and marry. These are XY who to all intents and purposes are women, or at best as masculine as the average 9 y/o boy. I remember over 30 years ago at university getting to know another lad in my year who was quite a lot like Dylan Mulvaney. Tall, no muscles, very effeminate. He'd cross his legs tightly and wrap one foot around a calf muscle. When he talked, he'd flounce his head around, and wave his hands. I'd just had a couple of unsuccessful dates with a girl in our year. Then she met that guy. She was besotted with him. Every time I saw them together he was like Dylan Mulvaney, so it wasn't an act. I don't ever remember them splitting up.
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  246. They sure are, because it's pretty much only those guys they date. They're attracted to masculine, dominant guys until they discover they can't control, use, or emasculate him. Then they go to a less dominant, less masculine guy who allows her to.
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  247. My father was a forester, then a warehouseman after he had to change careers due to illness. His brothers were either forestry, carpentry and farm contracting, or worked in a flour mill. All married with children. His father was a quarryman with a pickaxe for a tool, living in a rented smallholding. He also did road repair for farmers. Beyond that, the men were peasants scratching a living from the soil. My maternal grandpa was some sort of internal accountant for the council. His ancestors were also quarrymen and above them land peasants. The other side were labourers and peasants. Obviously all married with a brood of kids.
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  248. I live 30 mins away from a rural town of 80,000 people. As such, it's the region's nightlife hot-spot without travelling much farther away. Before lockdown the bars, pubs and clubs were heaving on weekends. People would have to queue to get in. I'd sometimes go in for a concert in the evening. Looking around now at 10pm I find they're much quieter, there's no queues. I also notice that the young people are generally staying away. Those out drinking are the older sort like me.
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  249. 6:10 chasing career - that's not new. Years and years ago I met a zoo vet. We hit it off. I found it odd why she was single and unmarried in her 30s, then it became clear. She was married to her career. That was pretty much her entire life. She claimed she wanted to get married and have children just like her siblings, but I couldn't see what she was prepared to sacrifice in her career to achieve that. I met another woman a few years ago who was also unmarried in her late 30s. Again, we hit it off. But again, her life was her career, and again despite saying she wanted the whole family thing, she wasn't going to be able to make sacrifices in her career to get it. She's still unmarried and childless.
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  250.  @baronhelius4596  Yes, I was in a major UK city. The nightlife in that city contributed to these girls' attitudes. Didn't know that about Sex and the City.
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  251. We're in bars. But we don't buy XX drinks. Entitlement, no thanks.
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  252. It's also why women in established relationships like to feed their man so he gets fat - it lessens the chances that he'll stray
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  253.  @DiegoB0525  I used to use a vending machine from one of the local dairy farms 8 miles away. They'd pasteurise at the farm then bring down a 200l tank to the machine. They stopped doing that 2 years ago, but I sometimes instead do the same at another farm's vending machine if I have a chance. I'm in the UK and our standards are very strict.
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  254. My late father had a collection of volumes of electrical engineering books he'd bought in the late 1940s from his first job. They had pride of place om his bookshelf, which he made himself. One day he got back from his crummy job in a warehouse to find that my mother had put them in the bin that morning and were already on their way to the council tip. It was done out of spite. He went incandescent with rage.
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  255. I just want to live. I don't want to lead anyone nor do I want to manage anyone. I keep on hearing how men should learn to lead a woman. Great. Except I have no desire to have a someone follow me around on a lead. I had that experience a couple of years ago when I was on a demo. A guy I had gone there with was completely passive to the point that I had to plan everything for him and drag him around the city. I don't like people hanging off me like that - I expect adults to make up their own mind about doing something and not keep on looking at me to decide what they should do on an outing. It's why I go everywhere alone if I can possibly help it.
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  256.  @havoc5319  You mention that Rob's content is tailored towards alphas. Yes, sort of. It comes down to moral purpose, and mine isn't materialism or staking my place in the world or to be in society. I shun society. I prefer to be hiking alone, for instance. My purpose, though, is to understand, and on the most fundamental levels. Hence I read a lot about the philosophy of mind. Something may come out of it. If you want a good example of an alpha channel, take a look at Rich Cooper's. He's obsessed with materialism, and has a mentality that the more ostentatious a man's display of wealth means they're somehow a better person. I think that's a very sad attitude.
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  257. Yep, the concept of meeting someone who understands and will show compromise and sacrifice to build a life with you has long since left the building. All that's left is temporary hookup under the pretence that she's going to be loyal and in it for the long run. My experience of women, from both sides, is that they're all single, including the ones with a ring.
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  258. I'm not tall, and I'm middle aged, but I've now got a good physique for my age. It gets attention. However, I'm not the 'Jack the lad' that Bo seems to think men need to be. I'm not soft spoken, but I'm well-spoken. I'm a historian linked to academia and therefore my peers are researchers, archivists, retired professors and so on. Before the coove disrupted holiday patterns, I used to socialise with a group of senior academics, lecturers and heads of university departments. To get accepted into groups of people like that and be able to develop and maintain relationships, you need to speak the same as they do. As I've done for decades because of who I've mixed with in the past. Those were also the women I used to date in the past, the women who spoke in the same way and dressed accordingly, as well brought-up ladies, not 304s who end up passed out in the gutter at 2am. Sadly, women today have no idea what to do with me because of my polite and well-considered speech. Speaking like that and having the charisma and confidence that goes with it opens doors for me to speak with CEOs and politicians, for example, but for the vast majority of women, it's lost on them. Bo would have me down as socially awkward because I don't drink p1ssy lager out of the bottle, because I don't play pool, I don't go out with 'the lads'. I'll have a beer in a glass, but prefer a decent cognac
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  259. 33:00 improve your body - oh yeah, that's a great help. Not. After over 4 years work in the gym, I've got a damn good physique for my age, and one married woman has tried to get her hands on it. Sure, it's exposed me to more women, but I wish it hadn't. I wish I was invisible, because the only women out there to meet are manipulative 304s who think they can use me. Same with other fit men I know. No matter how much you improve yourself, you'll only meet women who take, take, take (their words, and they're rich, tall, intelligent, handsome, well-dressed and well-groomed, well-socialised, highly social successful businessmen in great shape). Improving yourself doesn't magic decent women out of thin air. It just makes you a bigger target for more women to notice you and then attempt to use.
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  260. The reason why the game works is because you have to consider women as having a form of primitive AI where they run software subroutines which don't communicate that much with each other. It's a basic input > output process. A biological robot with primitive AI. Another way of looking at it is from the angle of autism, but it's not quite the same as ASD. This primitive AI is not something I can take seriously and not something I could build a future with. A small number of women have a male brain or they've used their significant cognitive ability to get over this, and you can spot them. The upshot is that women won't respond positively to a normal guy living his normal life, with a healthy psychology, with all the various worries he has.
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  261. And that's what turns my stomach about it. Same as when women start playing games with me.
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  262. I told a very fit much younger woman to FRO our of my life when I saw she was playing games. When she finally realised I wasn't joking, she was devastated and looked as though I'd betrayed her in the worst possible way. Just because I'd rejected a Kween.
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  263. What I've found with wimmin is that they put in an obvious act for me that's far away from their real personality, and they expect me to do the same in return. I can, and it gets results, but I can only do it for a short period of time before I have to throw up in disgust at what's going on.
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  264.  @shanepatrick641  I've heard the same from women I know here in the UK who have sons in their late teens, early 20s. They're smart, intelligent, from very good professional backgrounds. They're swearing off women at that age because of the rampant narcissism. Their mothers are both upset and furious at these 304s and are worried they'll never have grandchildren.
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  265. 27:00 Bo talks about how men can be 'successful with women'. OK, successful with what? With a woman you either have to stifle a laugh at, or you rub your eyes and the bridge of your nose thinking "not you as well" for scores upon scores of women. The last time I met a woman I could take seriously and who had her head screwed on the right way was nearly 24 years ago. The last time I met a woman who had humility, sincerity, didn't play games was nearly 17 years ago, but she turned out to be a rabid Lefist who probably now has purple hair and is all the woke things. Alllll the women over the past 24 years - with her in 2007 as the minor exception - have been nothing but a joke. The attempts at control begin very early on. They put on an act. Yes, I'd like to meet women like that smart one I dated back in 2000. I know what they look like. They're extinct. I can't date or hookup with someone I can't help but laugh at.
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  266. 32:00 Yup, Bo is in white pill normieland. Nearly all the men around me are blue pilled. Some of them try to get me to simp and worship worhsip women as they do, to be the simp servant. I don't know anyone who understands female nature for what it is. I'm a hermit because I've pretty much nothing in common with people, so topics of conversation are pretty much nil. My own interests, such as classical music, reading, hiking and so on are very far from nearly everyone else's life. Before the coove I used to know a group of retired academics I used to get invited over and sit down and chew the fat with, but several have died, and the most of the rest are getting quite old. Men can't relate because I have no interest in sport. I'm a historian and researcher, so pretty much none can relate to my academic life. I can't relate to their careers in business. After trying to socialise over the decades with the normies who get their opinions from MSM, I've found i think very differently. I identify very heavily with Prof Matt Goodwin, and he's someone I could have lengthy chats with. But when trying to listen to the normies with their NPC views of the world, either I interject and spend 10 minutes correcting them on where they're wrong and how and why all the downstream assumptions they make are wrong, or just sit there mute to avoid upsetting everyone. The alternative is that I lie to myself and pretend to agree with what I know to have a far greater depth than their shallow or incorrect understanding. It's impossible to find people to be around with whom I don't need to lie in order to fit in. Hence no phone calls, and only a few DMs from three women who know me very well and understand all this. Having a wide social circle is only possible if you're willing to numb your brain to the diarrhoea they come out with and to lie to them and yourself about who you are and what you stand for.
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  267. You mean simp for trash...
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  268.  @ElJefe0719  I can understand that. I'm in the UK and I guess I've been doing that unconditioning for some 10 years, and it's another reason why I have very few friends. Almost everyone to meet is BP or soy. I'm not liked because I'm that moose, or bull as a few men have called me. Soyciety expects me to be that feminine, unoffensive guy. I guess I live unconstrained like that for the sake of my sanity and because my patience snapped a long time ago with the spineless simps and soy men.
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  269. Yes, because they're highly sociopathic at that level, ego centric, very highly narcissistic
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  270. And like you, I'm positive and people generally like me. Sadly, for a LOT of people, they think that means I'm weak and I can be used and manipulated. The discover to their horror that I can't be. I give a very firm hint to begin with and 90% either back away or change. Some don't, and they get the full treatment. Most people know not to try anything on, and I get the immediate respect of pretty much every guy I meet. Women don't like me because I'm not weak and feminine, which is what they want in men. Some will give me a grudging respect if they've failed to manipulate.
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  271. I'm quite a lot like that for many similar reasons. What it's brought out in me is that I can see through people pretty much immediately - it's a curse in many ways. People have said I have avoidant attachment, but I guess it's not. I see far sooner and quicker what most others do over much longer periods of time, if at all. I'm always vindicated. I just don't understand why so many people tolerate being around so many evil people. I'm not afraid of talking wifh them, but I sure as hell don't let them into my life. I see other people making the same mistakes in getting involved with nasty people then wondering where it went wrong. Yet I'm considered the odd one for refusing to put uo with crap treatment and sociopathy.
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  272. The hoeflation is real
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  273. He's lonely because he's married
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  274. 9:00 Um, yes, you can blame something external, if you're being psychologically abused by a spouse or partner. The point is to get the awareness that that's what's going on and to get out, if you can. I've known plenty of men over the decades who were trapped with wives from hell and were only able to escape when his parents pulled him out of it, or she'd divorce for the prizes. Yeah, Bo shouldn't pass judgement until he's lived a bit more.
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  275. That was my childhood. My mother was a covert narcissist until the day she died. My late father was one of her obvious victims. It took me decades to work through it. My relatives had also bought the lie about who I was, so when they got to know me after my parents died, they found out I wasn't the same personality. They still haven't processed it, and we have no relationship. This guy has been left with complex PTSD as a result and I bet he's alao being abused by the wife. I've met many, many divorcees like him, and many men brought up in such a way.
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  276. Importing immigrants to make up Labour shortfalls because of an increasing elderly population is a ponzi scheme that'll go bust
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  277. Read Douglas Murray, The Strange Death of Europe
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  278. When I first meet them, it becomes apparent that they expect to be able to use me somehow. That's when I stop all contact.
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  279. ​ @TheCyberguy101 Oh boy, she isn't
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  280. I used to have 'friends' like that. Both were simps, both couldn't understand why I'd never married and don't date. I explained it's because I have a backbone and women can't use me. One tried to persuade me to 'love' women, which meant openly doing that Romeo and Juliet stuff, buying flowers, and so on. The other was a Sir Simpalot who white knighted and pedestalised all women we had in common. It used to make me sick. In person, though he was an older divorcee, he was like a lost 9 y/o boy with all the masculinity and leadership such boys have. It was pathetic. Despite/because of this he had a string of girlfriends before marrying his 2nd wife. He was as soy as they get. I turned down the wedding invite. The single women we had in common also expected me to simp after and white knight/pedestalise them in the same way he did. They all got a shock to discover I don't.
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  281.  @spartanghost9713  I used to know some men around my age. They didn't understand why I'd never married and don't date. They tried to persuade me to 'love' women. I saw what that meant: simpinh and pedestalising. One, an older divorcee, had a string of girlfriends, and I could see why. He was a Sir Simpalot in his armour on his trusty white steed. He'd also be their free court jester. In person, he was about as masculine as a 9 y/o boy and it felt like I was leading such a boy around a city when we'd gone out together for the day once with our mutual friend, the other simp.
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  282. You compte against other men for the woman? She means out simping other men.
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  283. Does anyone know what we're supposed to do with these modern women? I mean, they're not wife or LTR material, and P&D just means she's another set of holes and you're just another guy in the middle of a long line before and after getting access to them, and she's got no pair bonding left. The only conclusion I have is that they're there to be used.
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  284. ​ @gmoneymac23 Same. Also, when I place a boundary, or when they discover rather quickly that I've got a backbone, they either have a tantrum or a sulk, and they quickly leave my life. Every time, except one married woman I know. I appear to be the first man that's ever stood up to them and their squirrel brain can't handle that their servant dares say no or calls them out.
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  285. been close on 16 years since I lasf asked a woman out. I've had lunch or dinner with single women a few times since then when we happened to have been doing something in a grouo and we needed food, and it was natural for us to do so. But each time I've been around them like this over the past 24 years I've noticed that they fish away to find out if they can use me and what they can use me for, and if they can control me. Usually all this happens when I first meet a woman, and the attempts at disrespect come along the same time, so it's impossible to get a date out of them as they all assume they can CUE me - control, use, emasculate. Here in the UK women pretty much only date simps they can CUE, feminine men who pedestalise them.
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  286. ​ @falatalane I know some Slovak girls here in UK. They're completely westernised and huge narcissists and game players who try to bait men to become their orbiters.
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  287. I see it as being constructive with people, male or female. I havr a personality similar to something betweem Cary Grant and Richardson's character in Brazil (1984). Nearly all men see that as someone they can work with and respect and they don't try to use me. Women on the other hand think it paints a target on my back that they can use me. They discover to their cost and horror pretry swiftly that they can't.
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  288. Good god, it's even more generous than the UK
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  289. Incoming single mom with a black kid, rendering her undatable for the rest of her life
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  290. Of course not, she's living in the moment
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  291. My father was in the house the entire time, but apart from teaching me how to change the oil on a car, or the spark plugs, or the tyres, or the fuses in a plug, etc etc etc he taught me nothing about masculinity and people. But then the guy had been completely cucked by my covert narcissist mother. Heck, they partly raised me as a girl because they were pretty twisted. There are other things I won't mention in public. I had to learn the male things myself from scratch from my early 20s, and only started learning a lot of things after I turned 46. I witnessed much the same thing in another family, and I've heard about it in other families where the parents neglected and isolated the child/children. The other family was that of an ex of mine in the 90s. She was still at home with her parents and with her younger 18 y/o brother but she and I were going to be moving in together. The father was completely cucked by the covert narc mother, and he wouldn't stand up for either child when the mother humiliated either of them for lolz. She was a sadist. He sat there and watched it take place and not raise a word to stop her from disrespecting his children. The brother hadn't been taught much at all by his father, except to minimise himself and never stand up for himself.
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  292. Yes, bad nurture can and will bring about traits of autism, even if the person isn't on the spectrum. The genetic link is that genes might make someone more predisposed to developing autism, but that depends on how they were brought up. Someone can develop significant traits of autism even if they didn't inherit the genes that made it more likely that they would develop ASD. That's from a discussion with an ASD psychologist a few years ago and on research I've been doing on ASD. In this man's case, what I think has happened is that he was isolated by one or both parents, one or both parents psychologically tortured him, there was also likely emotional i-n-c-e-s-t if not outright s3xual abuse that he hasn't talked about. There's a LOT going on this in man's past that I can only guess at.
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  293. What if they absolutely hate sport with a passion, and find watching it to be like watching paint dry? You can't force people to like something they don't. Perhaps we should recognise that people are very different?
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  294.  @rdor011  I deal a lot with younger women. The desire also isn't there because of their attitude and entitlement. So while they're physically attractive, the rest of them is pretty repulsive.
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  295. Because he doesn't simp and isn't feminine. Women only respond to feminine energy from men, even if the man fakes it.
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  296. It's entirely possible if he was deliberately isolated from other children his own age while growing up, not allowed to socialise, get locked in the bedroom, not spoken to by his parents, criticised or punished if he hung around too much with anyone at school.
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  297. ​ @brianmeen2158 He obviously wasn't simping hard enough or being feminine enough
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  298. Translation: giving a woman endless feminine attention and energy. Yes, I know. Simp ex friends of mine used to try to persuade me to do the same, as it got them strings of dates and girlfriends. They were hopelessly easy to dominate, and it felt I had 9 y/o boys hanging around with me.
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  299. Here in the UK at least, there are 3 types of men who date. 6ft 6in Chad Thunderstroke who has or can have a string of obedient, hot, young women. The older, very rich sugar daddy who throws money at them for an expensive lifestyle and doesn't care about it, in return for them getting their legs open. Or the feminine simps, even if they think they're 'masculine'. They aren't. These 'men' have to give unlimited free time, energy, and attention, and especially female energy. He's got to talk to her as a woman does, be emosh as a woman is, so when you hear men talk about needing to give a woman 'energy' it means being a woman with her. They don't respond to masculine energy or stoicism unless he's 6ft 6in Chad Thunderstroke. If a woman discovers ahe can't control, use and emasculate a normie guy, the attraction vanishes.
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  300. ​ @MGTOW_HELLRAISER Is Hammer still around? I think Joker is also dating, at least he admitted in recent years he was.
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  301. 2:00 I've never heard a guy tell me that a woman has had that raw attraction to rip his clothes off. Not one, and they'd have told me of one woman in their past who did it. It's always been negotiated attraction through wearing her down.
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  302. I know a younger woman who's a ND. Married. She's been angling me for an affair for some time. I assume she's not your wife as I'm in the UK.
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  303. 7:40 They're always seeing other people, even if they say they aren't
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  304. Among most men, say 25 and older, in the UK, I don't really see outward feminisation to be a problem. I do see a lack of courage to rock the boat, to not be an NPC to be a MUCH bigger problem. Regarding men under 25, I'm starting to see a problem regarding feminine behaviour and some dress. But it's nowhere near as bad as the US. OK, we have that wretched Harry Styles, and popular music perpetuates boys simping after girls (Lewis Capaldi's 'I wish you the best' is a good example of that). But women love all this. I guess that boys and men are giving women what they want, ie malleable manchildren who are willing to be castrated just to be in a relationship or bedroom fun.
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  305. Before I started exercising nearly 6 years ago then joined a gym, men teeated me pretty decently, but since then, it's very clear I'm regarded as being highly dominant, I get instant respect from men, and it's generally made my life smoother. I get treated with more courtesy. But I get no dates because I'm not soft and modern, nor do I put on that act as other men try to persuade me to do.
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  306. Yep. Unless you're well over 6ft, you're still expected to simp and pedestalise and be feminine. "Social skills" simply means "being feminine" and talking to her as women do with each other, being an Ohmygod emoshunal guy. Those men talk to me as a woman does. Women only tolerate dominant masculinity in very tall, jacked men. Ideally, he'd be feminine and Ohmygod emoshunal, which is why women go gaga over jacked gay men.
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  307. ​ @shabba7829 My terminology for that is a 'decent man'. But I otherwise agree with all you said.
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  308. 10:00 men asking their wives' permission to do things is the norm in the UK. I can count on the fingers of one hand the number of men I know who are married or are in LTRs who don't do this. Alllll the others do. It's been like this for generations, and it's a standing joke among men. It's astonishingly rare to find a married man who's not in that position.
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  309. Boundaries? Ha, that's the easiest way to get a woman to leave your life. Set a boundary and they have a tantrum or a sulk, and they're gone. They want weak men they can control.
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  310. @capo4270  A man who wonders what life would be like if he was attracted to men, but he isn't. Is that your envy speaking? It's understandable...
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  311. And the bit he keeps leaving out is that it just feeds women's entitlement and hypergamy
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  312. He contradicts himself to get the views
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  313. Only a tiny number of people are real around each other - fakeness is the overwhelming currency, as is communal narcissism to maintain or elevate one's place in the hierarchy. The whole thing makes me sick. Because I'm now a decent size, I get respected automatically. I have a big presence, I'm very charming, an experienced public speaker, I have to cold approach VIPs at trade events I get sent to in order to network. Confidence isn't a problem. People beijg narcissistic selfish pricks is. Thankfully, they don't cause me problems, as most see I'm not worth trying to con - I'm a lot like Ron Swanson. There's some younger guys I know from the gyms in town and see them around town - they're great to talk to because at that higher level of build, fitness, dominance and testosterone, they don't tolerate fake either, and neither are they fake. It's the lower men who are the yappy dogs and more likely to act like whiney women, and that's who they socialise with. But all men my age have long since been crushed and betatised by their wives.
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  314. Correct. Women don't care much about abs. As long as you've got a flat stomach, big chest, lats, traps, delts, biceps, triceps, arms, then that does most of the work if you dress well.
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  315. @wolfmanradio  I live in a tiny town in the countryside. You know it's bad when you see the jacked and confident 6ft 6in Chads in their 20s who are built like a brick outhouse, with lean muscle and slim waist, simp after plump, older single mothers. They're great lads and they earn a good living. But it means at 25+ years older than them, I'd have to out simp them, but I watch other men do just that.
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  316.  @donjohnson5123  Well, you wrote an excellent summary of him and what's going on 👍🏻
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  317. Many of us have known for a long time that the guy is a grifter
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  318. The worst thing for me is that I keep on meeting the same woman time after time who try to manipulate me in the same way. It's as if they all went to the same school and apply the same techniques when they meet a man. I know what's going to come, and it does. Their appearance, age, voice, and some hobbies vary, but the personality is the same.
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  319. This is why I'm reluctant to have anything to do with women, even though they present themselves as only having that one use, and they present themselves to me just for that. I'd just be creating even more of a problem.
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  320. I couldn't agree more with that if I tried. This needs to be placed in the centre of political parties' manifestoes.
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  321. I used to be in an anti lockdown friendship group on FB. It quickly turned into an astrology, crystals and healing woo woo group. It was also apparent that the few men in it who were preaching this stuff - droning on about shamanic rituals as well - were being adored by the women and were openly being asked out. A guy with beads and a knotted beard and a man bun who discusses star signs is the sexiest man live to women.
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  322. A small town is great for the skinny boys - with 3% body fat - who are also meth heads or some other substance addiction. The guys with missing teeth who start fights in bars and who walk around the town shirtless. They run the teenage girls through and the women in their early 20s. Sure, they're couch surfing as they've nowhere to live, but they're in soms girl's bed anyway.
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  323. You're more likely to find crap like this in small towns these days. Look at Llanidloes, Todmorden, Littleborough for a start. They move from bigger towns and cities. A good indicator is the number of vegan cafes in the area.
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  324. Politicians certainly know this
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  325.  @watchdog6619  How do you enjoy something that for the most part grosses you out ? I'd genuinely like someone to teach me how to 'enjoy' these wretched train wreck manipulative 304s who try to use me and who have no idea how to behave.
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  326. I find they look at me quite upset and confused for months on end. Some might get clingy and light up my phone and get upset. Others might ask if Im shy. No, I'm not, I just find you repulsive.
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  327. He's got the same schtik in every video that men have to simp and pedestalise what is very highly likely a garbage human
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  328. Ha, it's not fear or cowardice, it's repulsion and understanding that I'm always in a losing situation because she's incapable of compromise or sacrifice. I get attention from women, but when they hang around me, it's like lying in a bath full of slugs, because of their behaviour, attitude, and out of control neuroticism. They're so grim that even their husbands tell me that their women do their head in. Yes, I know, I can see, she's a train wreck.
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  329. Women don't want men to take charge. That's just a trap - bait - to lure in a man before she does the switch.
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  330. I see it all the time. This is women's ideal - a feminine mind in a Chad body. I'm only 5ft 8in yet all these feminine Chads yield to me or are otherwise socially submissive.
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  331. 25:45 Nope, those men aren't delusional. Men still have the work ethic, and if they've been busy on hobbies with marketable skill and training in the background, there's no reason why they couldn't be employed. The only reason they aren't is because employers want cheaper, naïve workers they can more easily manipulate. Emplpyers are open about this.
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  332. No, they only relate to women or femininity. They only tolerate masculinity in 6ft 6in Chad Thunderstroke, or the immensely rich sugar daddies. All other men need to be feminine and give her female energy, and be the Ohmygod emotional guy. They get obsessed with these feminine 'men,' and these 'men' also talk to me in the same way women do, and if it wasn't for their pitch of voice and sometimes the things they talk about, I could be fooled for thinking I'm listening to a woman. Yet women love them and love dating them. These 'men' are also p1ss easy to dominate because they've hardly got a shred of masculinity or testosterone in them. I see stunning women all the time with soy, low T men who struggle to grow a patchy beard.
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  333. Correct. That dread is all that's needed. Just enough to put doubt in her mind that she could lose you, but you don't do more than that, like flirt. He doesn't get it.
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  334. Yep, 'you've got to constantly improve' and all that crap just to keep her from straying. Sure, improve your life on your own pace, but notice Bo doesn't anything about her improving. It's just a constant treadmill where yiu flog yourself to death for a Kween. Something none of my ancestors did, because there wasn't anywhere near as much narcissism around back then.
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  335. Exactly
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  336. That's a good summary. Welcome to one of the most bitter red pills. You can have a constructive relationship with a submissive woman, who was brought up to be submissive to her man, not to have slept around before marriage, and pretty much remained a virgin before she met the husband. So, a unicorn. But even then she needs to be kept on a tight leash in this society to prevent her from testing. So she needs to fear her husband to a certain degree to allow that to happen. Fear is the root of respect. She also needs to know she's be destitute if she left him, and there would be nobody else to monkey branch to. Once you understand female nature, you see that there was a very good reason why our Elders kept women under tight control for thousands of years, until around a century ago. They don't have the mental capacity to hold themselves in check.
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  337. 15:00 'keep grinding, keep improving, more hobbies, become more interesting' - and that's on top of working an 80 hour week, plus at least an hour in the gym a day, plus working on a side hustle, plus being a father involved with your children. That's simping. Sure, improve yourself at the pace you would do if you were single but don't do it to keep a woman around. It's just feeding her entitlement. Relationships are, you know, actually pretty boring in the long run. It's not the constant chasing of the new, the dopamine hits. Only a child thinks that. If a man or woman in a relationship can't put up with the ordinariness of a LTR, they shouldn't be in it as they've not grown up. And yes, you can keep things going in the bedroom but the deep bond that develops between two healthy people over time begins to overtake the in and out.
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  338. Gynocentric programming. I'm a Brit. Most men are blue pilled. I used to mix with a few, and they couldn't understand why I was single and why I didn't kiss women's asses like they did. I've seen a lot of cringe simping stuff from them. But every woman you meet expects you to act the same way, and it's a shock for them to discover I have boundaries and I expect them to reciprocate. There's a couple of women here, maybe 3, I know who are OK and automatically pick up my cues about boundaries and they reciprocate. They're not romantic interests though. But other platonic women I know, or used to, would try to use, until I told them to FRO. Girl Power!
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  339. I had a chance at the white picket life here in the UK in 2000 with a woman I was seeing, who wanted us to buy a place together and settle down. It turned out she was 304ing around the city behind my back. That was the end of that. Haven't dated since though I've met a few women. Do I trust them? No. Plenty come on to me but pretty much none are sincere. They run away when they see I'm not a naïve BP simp they can manipulate. I've met several boss babes who are killing it in corporate and they come on to me. But the delusions apply and they don't make the time or effort for any relationship, so they're still alone and childless with empty ovaries by now. If divorce laws, child custody laws were changed, women not being shitty personalities, would I still want the white picket fence life? Probably not as I can't trust them to not be loyal. And I need my peace.
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  340. I concluded a while ago that the vast majority of XX can't be regarded as sentient, that is have a continuous or joined up consciousness. I view them as having siloed experiences, some parts of which leak out into others, but don't enough to form a coherent over-arching consciousness as it does in men. This explains the solipsism, among many other things. Ive been doing research on autism, theory of mind, consciousness, and Intelligence for over 20 years, so construct models for behaviour. That's my model for women. I have a feeling that our ancestors going back to cave man and tribe days figured this out but in their own language, hence put severe restrictions on women. The problem is, how do you date someone with a discontinuous consciousness, when what you see take place in front of you is this siloed behaviourr of what looks like a form of artificial consciousness?
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  341. That guy in the top left now has a conviction for sexual assault - Jack Densmore. He's about to be sentenced for it.
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  342. I wonder what sentence Denmo will get...
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  343. I'm in history, so I don't do anything useful like you do. Because I go to the gym, there's always plenty of men to get to know, and also in this small town. Same when I joined social grouos. But it's always the same. Soccer, soccer, soccer, cars, sport, sport, family, family, kitchen renovation, schools, drinking, soccer, investments, smashing it in the office, women, sport, and so on. All pretty much irrelevant to me. Before C19 came along, a group of mostly elderly academics used to come up a few times a year to stay at the holiday cottage just down the road from the estate office. I'd get a call and I'd go down for tea and home made cake, and we'd have a lengthy chat. It was wonderful. It was also partly work as it helped to maintain the relationships as they were also clients, and a large part of my job was to develop friendships with academics, authors, musicians, and sometimes I'd then get private invites to lunch with them. I'd sometimes also cover private events in place of my CEO where I'd have to meet politicians as well as authors, publishers, etc. But I don't go out to bars with "the men" because of what I described.
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  344. I've been single for decades. I've sometimes had dinner or lunch - on the spur of things - with single women, but every woman I've met over the past 24 years has expected to be able to control, use, and emasculate me, or they've played games. I don't tolerate any of that. I also realised that women go after feminine men and men who mirror who they are - the "ohmigod emosh" types. I'm lucky that I've a few male friends I can talk to, but we don't hang out. I have a few female friends I can talk to as well. But what I found after I joined the gym 5 years ago was how many left my life when they realised they weren't going to be able to manipulate and use me. My phone has gone very, very quiet these past few years. All of the men I sometimes talk to are masculine, and not feminine. The 'men' I know who socialise are feminine - it's pretty much a requirement here in the UK if you want to fit into soyciety.
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  345. @Miley_00  There is, if we can get manufacturing back, get rid of the Left once and for all, and also restore something like the patriarchy by repealing all this feminism going back a century or so.
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  346. No, there are very few 'friends' to make because almost all men are blue pilled NPCs and feminised. Yeah, go to a gym, but you see the same thing, except maybe in some men from 70 upwards who haven't lost that old masculinity and see through all the BS that the younger 'bros' can't. Men need to swallow a whole load of red pills and understand that their dream of the faithful wife, two children and white picket fence just isn't going to happen, not until manufacturing is returned to the West and a whole raft of feminist laws repealed and we can have a very, very strong patriarchal society with the threat of complete destitution for women who cheat and get thrown out - ie no social security.
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  347. 😂 Ohhhh boy, talk about blue pilled. The vast, vast majority of XX are a write off.
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  348. I wonder what he's going to do now after his conviction
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  349. You have to find peace within yourself. You won't be able to find it in others as most people will lie to you as much as they lie to themselves internally. Thankfully, I have a demeanour that stops such 'bro' men in their tracks so they know to not bother.
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  350. Correct, and that's where I've been in life since many years after having seen it all several times over.
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  351. That's what I did in the 90s while rather poor and even unemployed. Women didn't care as long as she was getting regular action from me.
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  352.  @dpolitoaaa  Same here for the past 5 years in the gym
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  353. I wouldn't say the vast majority of E Europeans were accused here in the UK, but certainly when it came to organised begging, it was found that Romanians were disproportionately involved.
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  354. She is one. She sells dating courses.
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  355. No different in their 50s
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  356.  @chiapets2594  The few women who comment attack her in the comments for hating on women blah blah blah
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  357. My summary of what these wimmin vomited out of their mouth-hole: oarilsfn glsrlgusnv,jxnlthagjfds,vn sektn dvvh gnfxn xvbmns,gtse jjdfb ,jxdn fg,s etgh s,ergn,xdfjbn,dfgnjgmxc v,bmx,m bxdfjg n,xmfnvmzdbfg.zjhs fgwkgtl4te5oithl4thjkdf gzdfbv,mzxfbnv , kzjsdf z,jbv,nxz v, ,dfgb dfjkz b,z j,zxfmbv It was human static. White noise. I could have a more thorough, entertaining, and constructive conversation with an AI Chatbot than with these. And I doubt these chicks would ever pass a Turing Test.
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  358. I sometimes try to raise contentious issues with a senior female academic a few years older than me. There are many topics I flat out can't discuss with her without sending her into a child-like emotional reaction. It's exactly like watching Veruca Salt having a good sulk, but with the eloquence of an academic.
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  359. I started to get fit a few years ago, and I've changed my routine so I have better cardio and strength. A very well-connected friend of mine has taken up Brazilian JJ. He feels the same as I do that here in the UK we're going to be resorting to fighting in the streets for resources.
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  360. Same in the UK. Which is why our government doesn't want to stop the invasion.
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  361. I just laugh at them
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  362. ​ @HCforLife1 She's only here to troll.
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  363. Disney, that's why
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  364. Here in the UK, women only go 'off' feminine men around 55 or so. If you've got a shred of masculinity, it's only older women who appreciate it and who don't like feminine men much. Women, say 25 to 55, are drawn to feminine, even slightly gay, men like moths to a flame.
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  365. I'm 52 and the same. I'm dominant with no approach anxiety because professionally I have to be in order to build relationships from scratch with VIPs. I'm also exceptionally fit for my age and dress well. I get plenty of attention from women, but over the past 20+ years it's always been about how can she use me. That's one of the first things they look for. My bachelor friends report the same. When I used to date in the 90s, women wanted to be with me for my company, but since then they all try to see if they can control, use, and emasculate, and I watch them do all this to other men. I also appear to be the first guy they've met who has boundaries, and who also doesn't simp or pedestalise.
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  366. I meet women, and it's very clear from the start that they're not going to put any work in, and expect the relationship to just 'hapoen' courtesy of my simping and pedestalising and being her free slave and court jester. Nope.
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  367. ​ @feedyoureyes Found the castrated Harris voter. Cope and seethe.
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  368. I agree. I know what's out there to meet. I guess by Bo's metrics I stand out. Wonen come up to me. They give me their number without asking. But it's grim. Their personalities are revolting. Also, younger married women proposition me, or ask very intimate questions just as h0rny single women do, because when they're out of their husband's eyesight they consider themselves to be h0rny single women.
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  369. The guy at 2:35 said it best, it's Western materialism
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  370. Yes, tossing aside morality in pursuit of $$$$$$££££££ just to have a chance with a gold digger user is the Western disease.
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  371. She is one
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  372. "You can't handle an older, wiser woman". Gotta love the shaming tactics. Why should we. I get plenty of attention from slim, attractive, much younger women. Why should I bother with anyone around my age?
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  373. A much younger female cousin told me some years ago to do that (a) because she knows my financial and asset status (b) she knows what women are like.
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  374.  @howiesfunware  I vet them. They all turn out to be 304 leeches. My bachelor friends - also in very good shape for their age - report the same so they too don't date.
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  375. Sure, having done all that, got the V taper, dressing well does get you more attention, but it's a myth it brings decent women out of the woodwork. It doesn't. It just exposes you to more 304 leeches.
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  376. Hint: they're still after your wallet. They're only after your wallet. They're just concealing it for now.
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  377.  @deadpatriot4437  When you have married women ask you if your 🍆 is pierced, if it grows big, what you like to do with women, that they freely admit to asking a younger hunk office guy to remove his shirt so they could admire and prod his physique, it makes me feel sorry for their husbands who toil away to give them a good life.
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  378. Yes, but such unicorn women are being chased by at least 80% of us single men
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  379. I guess I did back in 2000 when I could see that things didn't add up
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  380. 18:00 Funny, isn't it, that none of my ancestors were 6ft, except for one great grandfather I think. Funny that they all had good, lasting marriages of decades that only ended when one or the other died.
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  381. In terms of presence, posture, confident swagger, energy, etc, I'm much more imposing in a room than much taller men than me, but because I'm 5ft 8in on paper, none of that means anything. But anyone who sees me in person among other people, especially among men, they easily notice how dominant I am, because I have to be because of who I mix with in different areas of my life.
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  382.  @StevenB7146  It's not get eaten alive by other men I'm supposedly competing against for women, but in my sector of politics, by the people in the top of the hierarchy. I will now have to rub shoulders with them, and I can't do that if I don't appear as capable and outgoing as they are, and have to match their presence and energy. Just to stand still. If I display myself as weaker, I won't get respected as much, nor allowed any further in. I don't do this to get to meet women or impress them, it's to try to chamge politics and also it's good for self development.
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  383. I'm 51 in great physical condition. I have professional status and am respected by my high profile peer group. I'm also now a regional organiser for a national politics group and will be expected to rub shoulders with a different group of high profile people from the events I organise and attend. All this comes across in how I carry myself. I sometimes get to meet women in my every day life, but every time, they expect to be able to use and manipulate me. Rich, successful, tall, handsome, businessmen bachelors friends of mine, who are well dressed, groomed, socialised etc etc find exactly the same problem and from being exposed to more women than I am. They don't date. They can't find a woman who doesn't take, take, take.
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  384. The interviewer admitted in another video that his GF wanted a break from him. The soy is strong in him.
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  385. Ha. Rich, successful, tall, handsome, businessmen bachelors friends of mine, who are well dressed, groomed, socialised etc etc find exactly the same problems as I do and from being exposed to more women than I am. They don't date. They can't find a woman who doesn't take, take, take. I have status in a national organisation and also among my high profile peer group. All this is evident in how I carry myself. Women either don't care or it flies right over their heads. All they care about is whether or not they can use a guy.
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  386. Oh heck no, no relationship with a woke feminist woman will ever be healthy
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  387. They don't. They go after a convenient simp to flirt with to get an ego boost, then either date him or another simp from their orbit cloud. Treating a woman like that is always terminal to the 'relationship'.
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  388. Nearly 50, been pretty much isolated my entire life after my parents deliberately isolated me from other children while I grew up. My main source of contact with humanity was books. I'd been forced to socialise over the decades, but hated it. The older I got, the less I had in common with others. No siblings, no contact with relatives, no children. I know a few locally but rarely see them or talk to them. TBH I feel no desire. Yes, I've tried doing common hobbies with people, but I feel nothing. I'm typically alone in these groups while everyone else talks to each other. So I give up, and I then stop bothering looking for groups to join. There's just no enjoyment. My passions are reading and hiking. Do I know anyone I could take hiking with me, able to sleep out on a mountain at short notice like I did last week? No. The books I read aren't newly published, and aren't fiction. They're all very obscure and published decades ago, about philosophy, psychoanalysis, history, politics, AI, engineering. They're all big chunks of intellectual red meat. Nothing comes close to that joy. I don't mind being around people, it's just that I've nothing in common. A friend tried to twist my arm to join him in a Zoon evening chat with drinks with mates of his, like a virtual pub, but I saw no point. I have no interest in sport, no interest in woman, I've never married, no children, I was a carer for my parents for many years, I have little interest in cars, and never travelled. In short, I don't have any of the traditional things in common with men, which is why when men try to strike up conversation at the gym to make friends, they find there's nothing there that I can reciprocate with. I find nothing in them I can relate to. Various women I've got to know over the past couple of years respond with anything from curiosity to shock to surprise that I do everything alone, go everywhere alone, don't celebrate my birthday, spend every Christmas alone. They can't wrap their heads around the completely isolated way I live, and I can't understand why anybody wouldn't want to live that way. Creating a social circle just doesn't work. I've lost count of the groups I've joined and ultimately left without getting to know anyone and not hearing from anyone since. It just doesn't work as a method to make friends. I don't feel sad about it, probably because it's almost impossible for me to feel much for people except indifference. I live for art, culture, music, hiking, exploring, and reading. I have to keep my mind stimulated, but people just get in the way.
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  389. It's all cope on Bo's behalf because he's got a lot of anger issues eating him up
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  390. ​ @FullCircleTravis How do you do this and not find them repulsive? I'm 51 and get plenty of attention, but I cant get over the nausea from their personalities and behaviour. As a result I'm not at all nice to them. I can br charming, but that's to what I see as something pretty gross and I can only keep it up before she discovers I consider her to be trash because of her trash behaviour.
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  391. Yeah well, he's just using religion as his cope
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  392. 22:10 Every man dreams of having a submissive wife and children? Really? The hell we don't.
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  393.  @Thatdude64317  Church women are some of the biggest swingers around
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  394. I'm 51, never married, never had an LTR though I've had some nice affairs. I have some basic rules for a healrhy relationship: I don't simp, white knight, or pedestalise I only give them as much energy and attention as I see them give me or work out they ever will - I expect them to reciprocate They can't emasculate me, or use, control, or manipulate I don't tolerate drama or disrespect I don't tolerate their crap tests - see emasculation above I expect accountability and responsibility, and clear, honest communication These are very basic things all adults should be capable of. Over the past 24 years, no woman I've met has come close.
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  395. Correct. I get to observe this around me.
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  396. 9:00 Men I know of like that lawyer go to a bar, pick up a fit girl, move her in as a play thing, pay for her hand bags, go on a few holidays, plenty of meals, then ditch her when she becomes a problem. And then pick up the next fit girl and do the same.
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  397. None of this is new. 30 years ago, a hideously ugly, skinny guy in the year above me at college with the most awful hair would have a string of girls. He had a flash car, would drive them 150 miles to London usually on a Friday evening to see a show, take her out for a meal in a top restaurant afterwards, drive her back to campus, drill her, then go home to do his weekend job before classes on Monday. Rinse and repeat with a different girl every weekend. They had a good night out in the West End in return for dropping their knickers or going on her knees.
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  398. For most women, online is their reality. That is their dating scene so expect everyone else to go along with it.
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  399. Regarding getting in shape, everything Bo says is correct. It also stands you out from other men and gains you respect from other men who also look after themselves. You also get more assertive if not aggressive and learn to put down lesser men with ease as you don't tolerate BS.
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  400.  @JohnMiller-iu2sx  They sometimes talk to me about the things they've seen women do to other men or how they've been treated by them, and I'm wondering if they're talking about the same women I know. Their experiences and observations are pretty much identical to mine and they've come to the same conclusions as me without the help of YouTube channels like SSM, Joker etc. They know as well as I do how women and people in general should behave in order to have a successful stable relationship, but they can't find a woman capable of doing it.
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  401. Because of the permanent victimhood complex the XX have
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  402. Same
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  403. Taiwan's going to be a great place if you like communism
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  404. 51/M/never married, it makes no difference if you source your women from anywhere other than OF/IG/bars. They're no different. I've met very highly qualified women in very responsible careers behave in the same way as common 304s found in bars, and I met those women at high profile social events. No matter where you look, you find the same behaviour and attitudes. Maybe a young librarian might be uncorrupted, unless the university system already did that.
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  405. Dr Orion Taraban, Psyhacks
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  406. Have you tried not being a pain in the arse in the first place? Maybe give that a go?
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  407. Yes, but it's nearly all LTRs and marriages, unless you can find a unicorn who doesn't do it, along with all the other negative things they do. Women try to goad me this way within minutes of meeting her.
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  408. ... except pretty much all women in marriages/LTRs break the frame of the man they're with, and they absolutely, definitely, categorically have to be in charge from Day One, boast about it regularly, and are very satisfied to. It's been this way for decades in the UK. It's part of well accepted national comedy that the man is under the thumb of his wife, and he has to ask her permission to do things as a boy does his stern mother who runs his life. The married men who 'hold frame' are vanishingly rare.
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  409. You just don't. IME it's not about the thing they're shouting about or anything from the past, it's to goad the guy into shouting back and reacting negatively. Which is why just shrugging your shoulders and saying whatever when she starts it is the worst thing to do as it pulls the rug from under her feet.
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  410. Yes, and they'll explode with rage, have a sulk, or look at you with disgust or crushing disappointment. And that's the last you see of them.
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  411.  @JohnSkyLey  The guy's a simp who tries to teach men to put up with and 'handle' garbage women. The vast majority of men in LTRs or marriages have had their frame broken very early on. I can think of only three married men who haven't been crushed, and in one case it's because he has to keep her on a tight leash. The experience of bachelors I know mirrors mine - once women realise they can't break their frame, they're off. It's so prevalent here in the UK that it's part of the national sense of humour and forms many jokes for decades. The woman disrespects her husband, or he has to grovel to her, or constantly apologise for nothing. Women love it. I also found the same in the workplace when several female colleagues tried to 'test,' I'd pass in Bo's terms but fail in theirs. They hated it and they then had animosity towards me because they couldn't break my frame. Ty X Worldwide on YT is much more on the money.
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  412. 25:30 onwards, yes, Bo is correct about what frame is and how to get it. But, he's wrong IME and observation when he says women want that in a man. They don't. It's a turn off. Men test me. They fail, and that way I get their respect. I get the respect of the bigger, younger Chad bodybuilders at the gym and I have a good relationship with them. I'm dominant around people and in situations. I charm people very, very easily, to build a rapport and in the service sector, they're very helpful towards me because of how easily I've buipt and maintained thosd relationships from a position of authority, presence and so on. A few years ago I started talking with a local businessman who out of the blue said that I was the new CEO who'd just been appointed at the place we were discussing. I had to let him down and say I wasn't. He assumed that from my presence, confidence, charisma, erudition, dress, grooming, etc etc. To me, that's effortless. Same happens online. I've just been appointed volunteer regional organiser for a national politics group I'm in, and I guess my current 'patch' is some 3000 sq miles. I've much to organise for it. I suppose my background in public speaking and as a tour guide has a lot to do with it. But, but, but, women see all this. I see that they test me. I pass the sh1t tests by Bo's définition. I don't really notice they take place much of the time, but what I notice is that it causes women to lose interest. All this must intimidate them. They figure out that because in their eyes I've failed (ie I don't crumble) they can't manipulate, use, or control. Therefore I'm no use to her. This has been every woman I've met over the past 24 years except for two. So yes, you need to 'pass' the tests from a masculine perspective, but from a woman's POV, it means you fail. She wants the weak man who's on her chain, who's her slave, who'll never speak up against her. That's the vast majority of marriages I know. They've passed the woman's test but utterly failed it from Bo's point of view. Women don't want men. If you want a woman, you've got to show that you're a pushover, that you'll grovel at her feet, that you're her free simp servant. I turned down a wedding invite from one such man.
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  413. 2:20 If a guy is stoic in the face of her emotionality, if you say 'we're not doing this any more', if you're not getting upset because of her antagonism, she leaves. She HAS to have a guy who fights back at her the same base level she fights at him. Sure it's unhealthy, but guess what Being stoic and not rising to her tantrum or her goading you, and telling her calmly but firmly that you're not doing that simply results in an even more epic tantrum before she storms off to find a guy with no backbone who'll fight back against her. You've got to give them that emotional energy back. If you don't, you're no use to her. In my life I've only met three women who respected that stoic approach. All other women were turned off by it.
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  414. Bo has been on this simp grift for some time, so it's not recent. He advocates in many videos that men have to learn to 'handle' garbage women, and then tells us that any man who refuses to want to date these train wrecks isn't 'man enough'. He seems to be quite content to pander to these garbage women just to have a relationshit with them, so he's still leading with his little head. He clearly doesn't have the experience he claims he has else he'd know to walk away from these useless XX right at the start, but he seems to enjoy putting up with that garbage.
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  415. What you describe is how co-dependents have to operate around narcissists they've been sucked in by. Guess what... Apart from a few exceptions, the only men I see around the place who are happy and spontaneous and who are themselves are either bachelors like me or divorced men who got over their divorce and are single. It's rare to find a unhappy bachelor. The men who are married/LTR have long since been crushed by the woman, and you can easily see it in how they carry themselves. I stand out among them because I'm cheerful, engaging, confident and assertive. When I did used to date or have affairs in the 90s, I was able to be cheerful, happy and spontaneous and have women around me who didn't detract from that. It's now pretty much impossible. When I meet a woman, she tries to test me in the first few minutes to see if she can control/use me. I maintain my frame with every woman I meet. They hate it. Women don't want men with a solid frame, they want men they can crush, a man who folds when she starts giving him her treatment.
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  416. Couldn't have said it better myself
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  417. 'Yeah, she'll.treat you like sh1t, but put up with it bro. You don't want to be a loser to gives up on them and their gross behaviour, do you? Man up, let yourself be crushed or learn how to fight her.'
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  418. ​ @Barbarossa97 Indeed not
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  419. Amy Gallagher of Stand Up to Woke. She's extremely based.
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  420. With three exceptions, every man unser 70 or so I can think of who's married/in a LTR has been crushed by the wife and is her personal slave. Only three men have retained masculinity and actually lead, but I found out that even one of them now admits he has to ask his wife permission to spend his own money, even though he's subsidising her life as a SAHM. Women's minimum dating standard is a guy they can control, use, and emasculate, and he should be her free slave and court jester while she relaxes on the settee. So when women discover very early on after meeting them that I don't do that, that she'll never be able to CUE me, she's off to find a spineless simp who will.
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  421. They're not human. They have a primitive artificial consciousness over which is a thin veneer of 'humanity' that's only there to fool the naïve.
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  422. Ok simp, your wife's boyfriend wants his dinner now as he's tired after fucking her all afternoon
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  423. No, they're experienced and not naïve
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  424. @boriscovidscamson2911  In men under, say, 70, in marriages/LTR, I can only think of 2 who haven't been completely crushed by the wife, where he's a shell of his former self, or he has to ask permission to spend his own money, as the primary wage earner, and he's very well off. It used to be 3 men, but I now see that one of them is getting betatised by concessions, and I thought he'd successfully trained his wife. Women despise masculinity. The only tolerate it in 6ft 6in Chad Thunderstroke, and immensely rich sugar daddies they might date. Ideally, they'd be soft, feminine pushovers.
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  425.  @bigfoot3866  Capo was directing his reply to r.1.336
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  426. ​ @D00msdayDan-c1z Nope, it's Olaf Scholz
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  427. Well, your coalition government has just collasped, so who knows what happens nexf
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  428. 7:00 yes, people do settle down for societal pressure. It's been like this for decades.
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  429. OK Mr Blue Pill
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  430. Most of the attention I get is from married women who want something different compared to Beta Bob back at home
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  431. Oh nooooes, did it touch a nerve?
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  432. When you're the only guy in an office full of women, you get to see just how disloyal they are
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  433. No, that's your hallucination
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  434. What do you expect when you want to be ambitious, want to get involved ut have doors slammed in your face all the time because when asked for proof you've been vaxxed you say you aren't. When you're told by society repeatedly that you're unclean and not wanted, I don't blame anyone for telling society to GTFO.
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  435. Same here. I noticed that I was getting shafted and criticised by my fellow human for working so hard to oppose lockdown, masks, and the mandates. I stated at the time that I'd be vindicated. I have been. Before it all kicked off, I was enjoying being a public speaker, tour guide, front of house, doing sales work at privatr events on behalf of my CEO. But the new one then demanded to know my vaxx status, along with everyone else. I knew how the law stood, so refused, and pointed this out to him. He wouldn't back down, so I got removed from all positions where I'd meet external visitors. He couldn't stop me if I was visitor myself, but he could if I was staff they were meeting. Since then I lost all respect and goodwill for society.
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  436. Silence, anti-semite
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  437. I had a reasonable relationship with my relatives before March 2020. Then I became visibly involved in campaigning against lockdown and the vaxx mandates, posting it all on Facebook and elsewhere. All my relatives are NPC normies who slavishly follow the MSM. Things then dropped off a cliff and I rarely interact with them now.
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  438. What I found is that from 2020, more people are more open at screwing you over
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  439. Nope, people are utter c-u-n-t-s in real life. Sure, 'dating' is taking place, but in reality it's women using men. Here in the UK, the only men who date are feminine men with no boundaries who allow women to use them, or hugely rich sugar daddies, or 6ft 6in Chad Thunderstroke, who can date without the woman using or controlling him.
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  440. Yep, I noticed that as well. It especially came out in my relatives as well. I ended up cutting contact with a lot of people over that period, but sadly I've had to adopt a lot of sociopatbic traits to protect myself against many people. It works, and I get to see just how scummy people are when they realise they can't get one over on me.
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  441. That happened to 15,000 care home staff in the UK. Now, the sector is chronically under staffed, and they haven't been apologised to nor compensated.
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  442. You're not missing anything much if you don't socialise. I used to until a few years ago, and it's OK provided you kiss the right people's backsides, you're woke (or pretend to be), and you don't mind insincerity and manipulation. I'm happier working with a group of men - and a few women - on political projects.
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  443. Noooo, socialising is a feminine and effeminate gay man trait. To 'fit in' in group settings - especially mixed - you need to lie and manipulate as women do. The men who enjoyed socialising like that when I did it were feminine, and a few were gay. The masculine men hated it and you'd pretty much never see them again. Hanging around with feminine men - without women around - is hard work. Male dominated groups, with masculine men in them, and only a few women who don't sesk to feminise and emasculate them, are much, much better, but very difficult to find. Which is why men prefer to be alone if they can't find such a circle nearby. Men are expected to have set interests, like following sport, and apparently if he doesn't, he's not considered to be a 'man'. Grow up.
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  444. Because Bo is a manchild
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  445. I have a few good male friends I talk to and sometimes see very infrequently, but such people are rare. They don't use or manipulate, and I've found that they care as well. Most of them are solitary themselves. What I've found is that to be likeable and to like many is that you've got to be feminine in how you relate to people, that you're either blind to them manipulating and using you or you don't care, and you have to be blind to the insincerity. Women do all this magnificently. They'll mix with a large group of other women even though they al can't stand each other. So men who do the same play the same social game of lies. Bo seems to think any guy not willing to do this isn't a man.
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  446. What makes me laugh is all the attention I get from married/taken women, including physical attention if I can't get away fast enough. One woman I know has left her husband. I think I know what she's going to do pretty soon.
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  447. They're not human, they have a primitive artificial consciousness where different conscious events can run independently, and only one is in the foreground at any time but doesn't pass experiences on to the rest.
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  448. 1:30 want to tame the stallion. Yep. Every woman I meet thinks she can emasculate me. Everything goes well until they discover that, and that they have no control, that I have boundaries. I meet plenty of women but don't date as it doesn't get that far. They only want to date men they see a potential in him that she can use and emasculate him. Same goes for my bachelor friends. Thus, the only men dating are willing to be emasculated and are being. There is one exception, a woman I've managed to train to not do this. But she's married.
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  449. Try living in a town of 5,500 or so in a very rural area. It's positively incestuous here. You've no chance of a private life.
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  450. Projection
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  451. Same here, especially in a very small town. The only way they could inprove it is to drain my balls on a regular basis, but that's dealt with on temporary arrangements. I mean, as someone who's going to be planning events for invited guests, I'd love to have a sane, presentable woman I can send out in the crowd to meet and greet, get to know the women, do a bit of mild and personal PR, report back to me, but nope, not a chance in anyone under 55 or so. I'm not going toxic to get them or attract them to date, but as I've worked towards more status in different areas of my life, I have less and less time for people's BS, men included. Though I'm not a CEO, Im still expected to come across as one as far as leadership, presence, decision making, and so on are concerned. Sure, it attracts them, but they're the gas station variety. The others are married women, and they're very persistent. I've one who mothers me and won't leave me alone, but we're not having an affair. There are several other orbiters, and I know what would happen if I met them in a bar, because I know what happens when I'm in a bar where women are present. The prospect of having a kid with any of these modern women has filled me wirh dread over the past 20 years or so.
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  452. ​ @Fangroth It's why I isolate myself from women for the most part. The less you listen to them, the better you feel.
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  453. Yes, and she then goes looking for a new bad boy while they've got the tamed one at home providing the income and doing the chores
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  454. And you're still alive after having it? There's still time. Have you had your 23rd booster yet? Off you trot.
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  455. huMan is a good example of that, and he shat on his subscribers who called him out on it
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  456. There's plenty of married women who act married around her husband and their family but act like h0rny single women on a Chippendales night out when his back is turned. I've been on the receiving end of it. I pity those men.
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  457. That whole 'game' stuff is only necessary if she's manipulating you. If a woman has genuine interest, she shows it, and you ask her you and you start seeing each other. So many women like to waste men's time and like to see him jump around like a puppy trying to reach a treat the owner is teasing him with. They act like girls I remember on the playground.
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  458. Lockdown threw airline captains out of a job. Many became baristas or waiters in resuatrants just to bring in a wage. Then lockdown again closed that down, so they got made redundant again. Obviously they should've worked harder on their grind, have a side hustle before sleeping before flying back over the Atlantic with another 300 passengers.
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  459.  @dbnx1701  Agreed. These wimmin discover that I don't simp and that I'm not goijng to be kissing their a$$ like the rest of their orbiters do, and they look at me rather dumbfounded and can't figure me out. Fortunately I know other bachelors who don't simp. They stay single because ni matter how tall, handsome, rich and successful they are, they still can't find a woman who doesn't take, take, take. And they refuse to give endlessly to get and keep the women who come on to them.
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  460. Ha, 'alcoholism' - alcohol consumption has been declining in the UK steadily over the past 20 years, particularly in all age groups up to the mid 40s. So yeah, that's not behind it.
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  461. ​ @nocturnaljoe9543 Chads are some of the biggest simps and inflate women's egos
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  462. 4:10 It's not just bozo men who get walked over by hotter men. That also happens to men who are hotter than their women by a margin. It's widespread. From what I see, women only date spineless men. It's only spineless men who date. Men with a backbone get a hard pass.
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  463. Just feed hee hypergamy, bro, just carry on simping, bro, unalive yourself through work for your Kween, bro
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  464. 3:30 'It's a hellish existence to be with a woman who thinks she's better' But they aren't. Nearly all women think they're a 9 or 10 and act like it. When you see it, all you can do is laugh at them.
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  465.  @GidarGaming  Yes, the moment a woman discovers you might care about her in a relationship, she's off. She only wants a relationship/marriage/children with a man wbo doesn't want her, but why would I want to be with a woman I don't want to be with? But women flip this when they discover a simp they can use. Pretty much the only men who date arr simps. A woman's ideal LTR is where she has a simp at home who haa no boundaries, pays all the bills, yet gives her the freedom to live as a single woman.
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  466. Exactly. Which is why the man needs to look at women as being little more than objects, because the moment he views her as a person to be respected, she'll disrespect him. Women only respond positively to being treated as a potentially disposable item. It's sad. Women discover from the way I talk to them, and what I talk about, that that's how I view them. It attracts them even more.
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  467. In March 2020 I got in with a mixed group of people on twitter. They were all highly intelligent and most worked in professional fields. There were 2 guys from the same city, one mid 30s, a DJ among other things, and engaged. He was quite a Chad. The other was a divorced older guy, 2 grown up kids, and I'd now say mid 50s. About my height, though somewhat fatter. I'll call him Tim. Both men knew each other and were great friends. I met up with Tim in the summer, but noticed something was off. I noticed he'd pay a lot of attention to one of the women in our twitter group, and on that day he wanted to take a shot of us both to send to her. But I then noticed that he'd come up with a joke and post it at midday, every day, and even admitted it was to get laughs out of the women in our group. More, he'd simp after and pedestalise them. The three of us - Chad, Tim and me - went down to London one day. Tim drove, though he was a terrified driver. Chad went his own way when he met up with friends. We met up with others from our twitter group, one of them being one of the younger women he was simping after. It was pure cringe. I then had to kill time in the city with him, and it was like dragging around a small boy, though a 9 y/o boy would have more testosterone in his veins than Tim had. After he droveme back to my car 200 miles to the north, I vowed to never see him again. The kicker was that Sir Simpalot Tim had a string of girlfriends, though none of the relationships lasted. He'd find a new one pretty soon. I figured out why: he simped, simped, simped, pedestalised, and white knighted as though his life depended on it. He couldn't survive without female validation. He married 2 years ago. I was invited, but didn't attend. Chad also simped, but as Chadsimps do. Neither he nor Tim could understand why I didn't date. Chad tried to persuade me that I needed to simp (he didn't put it that way, but that's what it was). I told him I don't do that, and prefer to keep away from wimmin than do it. The women in my group also expected me to simp after and white knight them as Sir Simpalot Tim did. They had a shock to discover I don't. These days, if men want to date, they have to white knight, pedestalise, simp, and havd no boundaries or a backbone. That's the minimum of what wimmin expect.
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  468. Women realise very early on that they'll never be able to pull me down, so they leave well before dating 😄
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  469. We've established this a long time ago. He wants to keep men on the treadmill of inflating women's hypergamy. If you listen to his tales od his previous relationshits you get to hear of the constant S tests he defends and were necessary. I've no idea why any guy puts up with what he claims to have.
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  470. Same. That's nearly every married/taken man I know, and men who date. There's only one guy I do anything with because he's not a simp. He's a bachelor as well, who can't stand being round simp men.
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  471. Try 12 y/o girls in adult bodies. 50 y/o women are the same.
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  472. ​ @factsdontlie4342 I'm 5ft 8in, 190lbs or so, in visibly very good physical shape for my age - 51 - and full head of hair which I now grow out and styled by a barber. I go to the gym 5 days a week, I dress well, I'm very confident because of what I do, I meet plenty of women in my every day life. Their initial interest vanishes rapidly once they discover I don't simp, pedestalise, that they can't use me, that I have a backbone and boundaries, that I'm dominant, ans that they'll never break my frame or emasculate me. My bachelor friends have all found the same. If we were weak men who simped, pedestalised, and allowed ourselves to be used and walked over, we'd have no trouble dating.
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  473. LMAO, you think the obese, ugly women are any better? Oh lordy, please tell me that's satire.
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  474. and cause unnecessary drama and conflict
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  475. He says these things very often
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  476. Agreed, but it's worth it to laugh at his cuckiness. It's not new. He's said plenty of times before about how he's let his girlfriends test him and how he dealt with it. FFS.
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  477.  @terry9238  Even if I wanted to, I wouldn't know how to allow them to
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  478. ​ @AS-ok8hi Yes, I constantly see and hear women disrespect their men. I think that objection to dominant men is fear only in the neurotic women we should already be avoiding. In the others, it's because she's been brainwashed into the strong, independent boss babe Slay Queen mentality.
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  479. There's a younger woman I've known for a few years who's the same. She also mothers me, and is always there. She's even turned up unexpectedly at my place, though I'm not in. It looks like I've taught her my frame and she knows not to challenge it. But, she's married, and we're not seeing each other. I do know though what she'd like to do because she's tried it. There's nothing much I can do to escapdle her though.
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  480. ​ @capo4270 Most of the married/LTR men I know are hopelessly alone with the women right next to him on the couch or next to him in bed.
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  481. That's very commom
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  482. I did meet a humble, sincere, selfless woman back in 2007. She was 5 years or so younger than me. Sadly, she lived 5 hours away, and LDRs never work out. Other than her, the only women I've met who have a half decent personality have been over 55. Women my age still think they're the Princess who deserves the moon on a stick. And sure enough, there are plenty of simps out there to do it. If you're not prepared to simp for very low value women, you don't exist. Nearly all women under 55 think they're a 9.
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  483. You've not heard of monkey branching due to hypergamy, then. I have a status in the hierarchy of a national group. This is based on competence I've demonstrated elsewhere in life, and various aspects of my personality. Both men and women see this. It attracts women. It doesn't attract any quality ones, though. Even women around my level of experience/competence/leadership/status still think they can manipulate me to use me, because, entitlement. Because that's the cultural norm here in the UK. Men of higher status and competence than me get used and manipulated by their women. I've been filtering out for decades the women who have attitude have no humility, accountability, integrity, sincerity, and who play games. In other words women who don't know how to be a basic functioning adult. I was left with only one woman. That was back in 2007, briefly. Of the married men or in LTRs I know, only three haven't had their frame crushed hy their women. All the other men I've met and got to know have had their frame destroyed by a woman. It's so commonplace here in the UK that it's part of our national sense of humour since generations. The woman is rhe boss babe in the relationship, the man is emasculated, and everyone laughs and congratulates the woman.
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  484.  @truthtelleranon  Quality men intimidate trash women. Me, I'm a historian and researcher. My peers are professors, heads of department, authors, archivists and so on. I'm an experienced public speaker. I get pushed out to do PR work to establish relationships with prominent people. Off the back of the circles I mix in, I get invited to have lunch or dinner with senior people in our establishment. I've been mistaken for our new CEO by a local businessman, before the name was made public, purely on how I dressed, spoke, charisma, dominance, assertiveness, presence, confidence, charm and so on. These qualities also mean I've now been asked to take on the role of a regional organiser for a national group I'm part of, and I now need to organise an event for our prominent HQ staff and directors to attend. Everyone sees this personality. Men respect me for it. Yet all I get to meet anywhere is trash women. Even those in high professions. It's the same broken personalities and sh1t attitudes wherever I look.
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  485. It's called manifesting. It's what nutjob women believe in, and their male 'spiritual' simps.
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  486. If a guy values his sanity and wants female company, PnD is all that's left. Unless he can find a unicorn. The vast majority of single women aren't dating or marriage material in any way shape or form. They're essentially a bowling ball with t1ts because that's all they present themselves to men.
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  487. See Jeff Bezos
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  488. "painted nails" - sounds like femboys. Have you and Sofia looked into that yet? It keeps on cropping up that young women want thin, lean men with hardly any muscles on them, who use makeup, style their hair for hours, and paint their nails. It makes me wonder if they want a woman but with a hint of a male body, ie no breasts, and instead a C&B. I know of one such femboy who got married recently to someone the size of a garage. He couldn't punch his way out of a paper bag. But it's what the girls seemingly want.
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  489. It's the dual mating strategy. Here in the UK, women pretty much only date low T simps and the 'nice men' (same thing in their eyes). Meanwhile, she's still pursuing high T Chad behind her low T dates' backs. Beta Bux alpha Fux is very much a thing.
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  490. Not even an alpha out of the house. These supposed dominant alpha men very rarely are, and those who are don't date or have relationships - they just hook up.
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  491. 6:50 Polyam, cheating and situationships is where it's at. There's little or no loyalty in couples any more. If I had no morals I'd do something with the married or taken women who orbit. It's best to view relationships in the West as a human soup where some men go from hole to hole and women go from D to D, just all drifting around.
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  492. 2:30 I'm old enough to remember how pleasant women were in the West, and it was fun. Now it's a joke.
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  493. ​ @city_of_coompton6832 Apart from ONS and I'm twice his age, that's me, and also several male friends a little younger. I and they get to meet women regularly - we're not invisible - but once we see that 304 or entitled skank behaviour, we're out, or the woman notices we have a backbone. XX resent a guy they can't use or manipulate who isn't afraid of saying no or telling her to stop. Here in the UK, it's pretty much only simps who date, and the more feminine he is and more lilely he is to be a male feminist, the better.
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  494. ​ @drachenmarke Nope, the gym makes little difference. He'll get most attention from gay or bi men. He'll become more visible to women, especially if he dresses better, but it doesn't magically make decent women appear out of thin air. It just exposes him to more and more useless entitled narcissistic XX who want to use him. Part of me regrets getting in shape because of this attention I get from a vast array of cluster B XX. It's another reason I don't socialise.
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  495. ​ @HollAnna Yes, women abuse children. It's very well known just how much abuse XX carry out on their children, but of course an XX would deny it.
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  496.  @Kizz_97s  It's common
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  497.  @kingrubbatiti1285  I keep on seeing stick thin men with straggly beards they're struggling to grow, arms like uncooked spaghetti, socks under their sandals, T-shirt tucked into their shorts, in relationships with stunning women with slim waists and big perky t1ts. All these men I've described are ridiculously eaay for me to dominate in social situations, or queueing in a bar, or anywhere they'd give way to me. They also talk to me as women do, but not about women's topics. These are almost exclusively the men that women will date. The other type of man women will get involved with is the neighbourhood thug, but generally speaking, if a woman discovers she can't control a guy, she's off to find a weak guy who lets her. There's one group of women who aren't turned off by stoicism, masculinity and don't run away when they realise they won't be able to control, use, or emasculate, and that's women 18-21. They treat me very well. Women from 25 upwards flat out won't do anything with a guy who isn't feminine.
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  498.  @Kizz_97s  You're right, it is about only responding favourably to feminine energy from a man. I concluded a long time ago that their 'ideal' relationship is with a woman in a man's body. So smart men give them a woman's personality.
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  499. OK lawnmower, back to your silage and leave the sane carnivores to eat what we please
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  500. It only started to become common fod the father to be present for the birth from the 1980s onwards. Before then, he'd be busy working his shift in the factory or down the mine, and he'd get laughed at if he wanted to take several days off for rhe birth. That was her department to sort out.
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  501. Nothing wrong with bananas, though be careful eating 3 or more a day regularly because of the potassium.
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  502. 11:06 Nope, nothing wrong with dairy, at least here in the UK. I probably drink around 2 pints a day, full cream. But then the US dairy industry is a joke.
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  503. BS, it was rare to find a dad bod decades ago. I used to be fat until 46, then I went to the gym, lost that fat then gained toned muscle. I look vastly different to nearly all other men my age.
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  504. But sadly it's correct in too many cases. I know two very well. I've no idea what the function of the guy is in the family, because he does F all. In one of these couples, he doesn't know how to drive, cook, clean, decorate, sort out the family finances, and so on. If she's got a basic question, she asks me and not the husband because she knows he hasn't got a clue. I don't mind answering because she's helped me in the past, and still does. The overall impression I get is that he's just a fat couch potato who does nothing but sit on his backside smoking weed.
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  505. My gym has this quote from Cassius Clay: “I hated every minute of training, but I said, 'Don't quit. Suffer now and live the rest of your life as a champion. '” I agree with him. It's soul crushing boring, but it's necessary and I feel high after my 90 mins 5 days a week. After doing it for 5 years, I'm in great shape for 51.
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  506. 6:05 expectation that it's OK to be a fat couch potato - same here in the UK and that's most married/LTR men I know, even if they don't have kids. Women I meet also expect me to be like that and don't particularly like it that I'm not, and that I'm active.
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  507. ​ @barryaaa5909 and as someone who lost close on 40% of his body weight in fat alone in his late 40s, it was very hard, and I cringe at who I used to be. I've lost more in recent months so I need to buy smaller swimming shorts as they're falling off my a$$.
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  508. Nope. I lost a lot of fat through drinking around 2 pints of full cream milk a day, eating plenty of cheese and butter, and I still do the same now to keep fat off.
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  509. 11:20 I would sacrifice everything in my life before giving up going to the gym, goiing hiking, and going swimming. Getting to peak fitness, strength, and endurance for my age to keep my finely tuned machine ticking over nicely is my main priority. Without that, everything else is so much more difficult.
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  510. 2:45 LMAO women won't even date a traditionally masculine guy, let alone marry him. Dating and marriage is now the sole preserve of soy 'men' because the Boss Babe can use and manipulate them. When they meet a masculine guy, they discover to their horror that he won't let them, so they go running after a soy instead.
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  511. Men haven't told me to not marry, but I see the regret in their faces. When some get to know me, they look at me with envy and nostalgia and sometimes say that I'm lucky.
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  512. 6:30 I've been the 'other guy' and I currently have one MW in orbit - without me asking - and another slightly further out. They don't care about loyalty to their men.
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  513. He found out the hard way that central and eastern Europeans, slavs, and Russians really, really don't like black people. At all. A woman I know well comes from Belarus. I can't type on here what she thinks of black people or says about them as I'd have my account deleted.
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  514. It's hilarious that anybody thinks that women in central and eastern Europe, and Russia, are somehow trad. They really, really aren't. Ukrainian women arr notorious gold diggers and hang out in Poland and other countries looking for a sugar daddy to bring them into the EU.
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  515. Agree with that entirely. Ukrainian women also have a reputation for being gold diggers.
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  516. Tyrone found out the hard way that central and eastern Europeans, slavs, and Russians really, really don't like black people. At all. A woman I know well comes from Belarus. I can't type on here what she thinks of black people or says about them as I'd have my account deleted.
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  517. Staceys in training
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  518.  @beatricemartha8951  Good men are everywhere. They're invisible to women, though. Only the bad boys are visible.
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  519. I know of a marriage like that. He has to treat her that way because of her hysteria. I assume the children are the reason he hasn't thrown her out.
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  520. Notice the middle fingers. In the UK we call people like that chavs. There's so many red flags in that family.
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  521. Thing is, her 'attitude' would be very much known to that guy before she blurted that out, so why's he with her? I guess because he doesn't want to be alone.
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  522. Good luck with that. I'd rather saw my balls off with a rusty blade than date a feminist.
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  523. "What it really is, is an over-reaction to the way men are feminised" Very well-said
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  524. Same here. I give very little, because I have very little MEAT left at the end of doing everything I need to do. I found that women seem to expect me to be their entertainer - even Rob has said that you can't be boring to a woman. Tough. I'm not their entertainer. I entertain myself. I'm not going to change just so I entertain them for little or nothing in return. It's not up to each partner to make the other happy. They have to do that themselves. They also need to be psychologically self sufficient.
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  525. I get groped by women. They squeeze my ass, put their hands in my pockets, run their hands over my muscles, play with my chest hair if I'm shirtless with other men at an event on a hot day. This foreplay means nothing. It's baiting. They also touch my fingers and look at me the way lovers do just before they have hot s3x, but refuse to then spend time with me. The variety of baiting is superb.
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  526.  @jollyjames30  Nope, there's no difference in female behaviour across the range of looks/physique. The average or below average women are just as entitled, and tend to have a bigger attitude and anger problem than their prettier sisters. Sure, women want to be asked out, but it's only to feed their ego. They'll bait men in order to achieve that.
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  527.  @BlackishBear  I don't know if you're veing deliberately obtuse or you just can't read. The production prices are increasing, pushing producers to sell at a loss or to close down. It's been going on for years. Please for the love of god learn some basic economics and common decency. "Many producers are in a “really, really terrible position” and are making a loss on each bird, says Mottershead, who as chair of the National Farmers’ Union (NFU) poultry board represents many of England and Wales’s chicken and turkey farmers. “It’s getting to the stage where these producers will have no option but to shut the doors and stop producing chickens until things like energy start getting back into a better position and they’re not locked into a contract, with high energy costs,” he says. He and his fellow producers are being paid more for their birds than before, but he says the “liveweight” price is linked to the cost of feed, and does not take higher energy bills into account. It has risen from about 95p a kilogram before Russia’s invasion of Ukraine in February 2022 to about £1.05/kg currently, an 11% increase. This comes at a time when the price of feed – which accounts for almost three-quarters of the input costs for poultry production – has risen by between 20% and 30% over the past two years and energy costs a kilowatt have increased five fold." But yeah, mUh ProFiTaBlE. JFC 🤦🏻‍♂️
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  528.  @BlackishBear  In general, yes. I was referring to eggs and dairy here, 'bro', though the costs of beef, pork, and chicken farming has also risen. The costs of fertiliser has shot up, and things like oil and component shortages are all adding to increased costs.
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  529. 25:00 Nope, it's no cheaper to produce eggs or milk. Margins are getting tighter. In many instamces, egg producers - farmers - have been selling at a loss because of supermarket predatory pressure. Same with dairy farmers. The costs for both are rocketing as they are across the rest of agriculture yet they're told to keep costs down.
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  530. Women in the UK aren't much different. I was discussing this with a Yank friend and we were comparing women in our countries.
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  531.  @shanepatrick641  The sad thing is the hoeflation. Back in the mid to late 90s, when I was in my mid 20s, I used to date women in their early to mid 20s, pretty, thin, firm, you get the idea, or they'd be hanging around me dropping hints. It was unusual to find one who had no humility and who played games. You'd filter them out. But those girls had a realistic view of their SMV. Fast forward to now, and nearly all women, including those my age, act as though they're much hotter than those magnificent girls I knew. I just look at these women today and think 'you really are hopelessly deluded'. None of them are as remotely hot as they think they are, but unless a guy sucls up to that delusion, he won't get anywhere. Hence why I just laugh when I see all this. They're a basket case. But there are plenty of men who simp after them.
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  532. I used to be one of very few male members of staff in an office. The way many of the women behaved when their husbands were on site or on the phone to them was vastly different to how they behaved when he wasn't, or the call was hung up. H0rny single women on a Chippendales night out who think nothing of asking men questions about their 🍆, his sex life, admitting to asking an office Chad to remove hi shirt so they could stare at his muscles and give them a good prod. Also the married women who've come in to me elsewhere, and taken women I see chasing other men, but start to behave while their guy is around. If you get into a relationshit, there's a very high chance she'll be this disloyal.
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  533. A guy in the bottom 95% is an incel today
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  534. What I've found is that if I give wimmin energy, they just attempt to use. So I only give them as much as I dare to the point that they figure out they can't use me. Which is a very small amount.
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  535. The same as me. Every so often a new woman tries to latch on to me, and I see they're lying to me and putting in an act - I can even see their real personality - and they expect an act from me in return. I can't do it. I'm pretty brutal back to them if I need to, especially when I tell them to either drop their knickers for me or FO out of my life.
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  536. I get asked out by women who come on to me. They immediately ghost me if I agree. I haven't been able to take any of them seriously in nearly 24 years. I just laugh at the train wreck that is their personalities. You haven't got a hope of a meaningful relationship with the vast majority of them. I'm at the stage where I consider them to be a primitive form of artificial consciousness.
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  537. Odd, as I never did. I didn't have to bother to do anything, except sit down, tired at the end of a long day, and there was a woman sat next to me, or on my lap. And shortly after into a bedroom.
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  538. I've concluded the same as you that they're not sentient creatures. My working assumption is that most of them are a collection of software routines that respond to basic inputs. Think of a primitive artificial consciousness. I'm doing some work on this to see if I can use it to my advantage.
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  539. Spot on. That's the analogy I use. Most people only see the projection of the Wizard, the big face in the clouds, the big booming voice, the flashes of lightning, but I also see the little old man behind the curtain pulling the levers, pressing the switches, turning the dials, speaking into the microphone. It's what I mostly see when I talk to people, especially women. I see what I now understand to be comparable to software routines running on primitive AI consciousness. I find it hard to interact with the illusion of the Wizard any more.
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  540. ​ @LennyCash777 Thanks, I'll look it up
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  541. 33:45 In my 20s I had no trouble finding women. I had no money, and women knew that. They were very pretty, slim, and great in bed. None were cougars, none were horny girls in college. They didn't care dating a guy with pretty much no money. Because in the 90s there were decent women to be found who valued personality and decency in men, not his utility.
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  542. I've heard several stories like that from men I know personally
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  543. 30:00 It sounds like Bo is ignoring the elephant in the room here regarding what's going on. It's less the lack of game or experience among men, it's that the vast majority of wimmin out there to meet are utter trash. I'm not short of attention, but because it becomes clear to them I'm not going to simp, I'm not going to be her servant, I expect reciprocity, I have boundaries, she can't control me, I won't put up with her games, off she goes. She'll often look at me with a mix of disappointment and confusion. I mean, her 'game' has worked on all the other men she's gone after, so why hasn't it with me. I look back thinking "not you as well".
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  544. I have women coming after me on a regular basis. They even ask me out. They sometimes spend months simping after me. None of this is sincere. They start playing games if I show interest. It's clear it's only so they can try to bait another orbiter.
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  545. ​ @NotEvenDeathCanSaveU Yes, the Austrian painter. Unless you're a konspiraloon.
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  546. This guy is married. The likelihood is that he's being psychologically abused by a malignant narcissist wife. I've seen men like that many, many times and the common thing is the wife from hell.
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  547. I get the impression Bo doesn't have many, if any friends
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  548. He's married. That's his problem here.
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  549. Yes, I bet he's been betatised by his controlling wife
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  550. 4:00 It takes effort to make friends. Sure, I can get to meet and know new men regularly. Is it worth it because some just might not end up using you? No. I used to socialise in different groups and found the same thing, that married men were completely crushed by the wife. Almost all the single men were blue pilled simps who were aghast I didn't simp and pedestalise. Once you cut out the users and the simpalot weak men, you're left wifh very little.
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  551. Wait until you realise that Bo tries to tell men to flog themselves to de-ath to feed women's hypergamy because he wants men to simp and worship them
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  552. I see this all the time. A couple of years ago I saw one of the gym chads I know - a great guy in his mid 20s I know pretty well - rather shyly chat up an overweight single mother older than him. It was embarrassing to watch. He found himself a GF a little while later. She's a 3.
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  553. Bo is pretty clueless I've found, and he's got a pretty warped idea of masculinity. I think he's also overcompensating for something.
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  554.  @legendx3117  In other words you didn't do anything. Thought so.
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  555.  @legendx3117  Nope. I set up and ran a group to fight the vaxx mandates. We attended many mass demonstrations for this. We came to the attention of the police in doing so and we know we're on a police file. We got kettled by them at one stage in London. Tell me, what did you do to fight lockdown and the vaxx mandates other than type on the Internet?
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  556. Did your imaginary friend tell you to write that?
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  557. He's married. That's his problem right there.
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  558. Ha, nice one. Nearly all married men I know are trapped in marriages with dysfunctional wives who control and emasculate them. As I knew the chamces I'd find a woman not like that were close to zero, it's killed any motivation I had to marry. Most married men, when they hear me say I'm single, tell me they envy me.
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  559. ​ @michaelwatson9089 To do that, you have to be naïve to people's manipulation or not mind, because they sure as hell will be as well as wanting to use him. I give people as much positive and friendly energy up to the point I see them want to manipulate and use, which means I give them very, very little outside of being polite acquaintances. If I could trust people to not be manipulative users, I'd give more energy, I would. And I then notice such people as that fat Albert get used and used and manipulated to high heaven. I'm good friends with some cheerful and open people who got burnt badly in this way so they're only superficially friendly with most people, except for a very small number of people like me who have noticed the same. The reason fat Albert is liked by people is because they interpret those traits he displays as being weaknesses to exploit. I can do the same from time to time, and every time I do, my fly paper gets full with people who assumed it meant they could use and manipulate. They get one hell of a shock to discover that unlike fat Albert, they can't, and that's where it ends, and it's nearly everyone I attract, and I then have to spend effort in getting rid of them or engage in open warfare when they resent my bpundaries. I've had to do this with several women I've attracted.
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  560. The reaaon why he's talking like this on camera is because he's married. You're looking at somebody who's being psychologically abused by a malignant narcissist wife. This is what such women do to men. It's up to him to realise what's going on, if he can, and to get the hell out, if he can. I've seen married men like him get destroyed by such women, and they sounded like him.
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  561. Bo is just a grifter, and a contradictory one at that. It's all about hot takes to justify this image he's some guru to sell his courses to naïve and hurt men.
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  562. Yeah, right. Of course we are. Sounds like copium from a 300lb soy 'man'.
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  563. Same here, except for a few close friends. Most of the others just want to talk about their careers or what they spend their wealth on.
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  564. That's the mistake that people make with me. Men generally don't, because they're smart enough to see I've got my right hand on my sword by my side, but women don't. They see any guy who isn't thrashing that sword around loudlly as being weak. They, and a few men, then discover just what an A hole I can be verbally and screw them into the ground.
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  565. I think he's being abused by his wife. Those are the signs I'm picking up, rather than HF ASD. Either way, you don't just get over it. With HF ASD, he might be able to learn to mask it.
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  566. 18:00 '38 no friends, no drama' yet Bo dismisses that comment from that guy as a cope. Manchild Bo is himself overcompensating for something by dismissing someone's statement. Is it now the law that all men have to have lots of friends and socialise regularly? What happened to masculine freedom of choice? Socialising is a feminine thing. A guy working alone on a project, or a craft, is more masculine.
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  567. He's married. He's like this because he's married. He's a poster child for so many married men. Women don't want masculine men. Here in the UK they pretty much only date feminine men tbey can control, use, and emasculate. Sure, masculinity is more likely to attract to begin with, but to get dates, the guy needs to be feminine and emotional in the same way a woman is, mirroring her emotions. It's been like this for decades.
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  568. No, I wouldn't say gay, this is how a LOT of men are these days. I know countless heterosexual men in hetero relafionships who are like him. They're all crushed by their wives. It sounds like he's being crushed by his wife.
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  569. 6:40 All that chamges is behaviour and thoughts. Guess what, Mr Naïve, it still doesn't change how utter shit the population is, how utter shit women are, and how utter shit they all are to deal with, a tiny number of people excepted. So, in order to socialise and be liked by a lot of people, you have to lie to them that you like them, you have to lie them that you take their BS seriously, you have to talk to them with a straight face when all you want to do is laugh at their absurdity, their lies and manipulation. I'm not prepared to lie, lie, and lie, and be very feminine around them, but you do you Bo.
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  570. 4:20 Ah, "high energy men wirh lots of friends" Oh boy, Bo is naïve, but then he's a child. What he's not saying is that those men have legions of parasites around them. He might be aware, but usually not. Being open, outgoing, life of the party, and friendly like that paints a target on your back to be used, especially by women. It's also feminine social traits. It's seen as a sign of weakness, and typically it is which is what women want. Those social, outgoing, happy, jokester men are p1ss easy to dominate. They're also very strong BS merchants that I can't help but laugh at. The strong, masculine men I know are liked by people and put a smile on people's faces, but they don't socialise much and only have a few friends, because they're despised and hated by so many people for their views and that their masculinity can't be challenged. It's those men I respect, not the feminine, outgoing, life and soul of the party ones. Women want female men and have for decades. Because of what I do, I don't have approach anxiety and will immediately talk with ease with any VIP I might meet, so the average Joe is very easy to deal with. But I'm stoic - as are the men I know well - and that drives people away.
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  571. It's very likely because he's being abused by a toxic wife. I've met so, so many men like him and such a wife was what they had in common, and they didn't used to be like that until they married the witch.
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  572. I'm in my early 50s and the same as you. In my early to mid 20s I didn't smoke, didn't dress well, but I drank quite a lot, I goofed around, and I had plenty of friends, and I'd just hang around a bar and I'd have a nice woman next to me. Even when I was getting fatter in my late 20s I had very smart and thin women around me. 25+ years latrer I have the odd cigar, the odd beer or brandy, I dress well, I'm well respected by my academic peers, I'm very well built and pretty lean - with a belt of adonis and a body that looks decades younger - after hitting the gym for 5 years. I don't date. I'm not invisible, but I'm not a goof ball nor am I a simp.
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  573. 3:30 Ha, try caring for a covert narcissist full time who manipulated everyone else into thinking she was a permanent victim and see how you get on, and see what you think when someone tells you to 'man up' for having no choice but to be abused by someome you have no choice but to care for.
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  574. Which is why Bo keeps on bigging up those false extrovert men, because I suspect he's just like them. I've found that all that type of man are completely full of BS and they get pretty aggressive in a weak way.
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  575. That's nearly all men, sadly
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  576. He ran away, because it's easier to shit on everyone else from a nicer, safe country with a good lifestyle than doing the same in the West. I'm one of a group of people in the UK actively at the coalface trying to turn things back round rather than running away and living in luxury to shit on those he left behind.
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  577. No, the likelihood is that he's being psychologically abused by a malignant narcissist wife
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  578. I'd like to get to know this guy, talk to him. That's how you do it instead of using him to sell your grift.
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  579. I ended up in the situation this guy in because I had to be the full time sole carer for both my elderly parents, including a covert narcissist mother who tortured my father until he had to go to a nursing home, and then guilt tripped me. It only ended when she died. I didn't attend either funeral.
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  580. ​ @Koi_to_Dragon You're right
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  581. Also research the Cologne new year grape issue
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  582. Yep, the imported army intent on taking over the country
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  583. What we've found by throwing the doors open to wefugeeees is that we've allowed in the unemployable. Many are illiterate in their own language let alone English. So they remain a drain on the taxpayer. The MP for Hartlepool is now speaking out against it, saying her office in the town is being besieged by angry foreign men demanding to know the status of their asylum claim. Her staff feel under attack from such a large number of this army we've imported.
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  584. A lot of the illegals who turn up in the UK vanish into hlthe black market. You hear of them being picked up by police and border force officials working in takeaways, barber shops, and hand car washes. Thousands of back gardens in Acton and Ealing have been turned over to sheds housing many men in bunk beds in each, all unregistered and invisible.
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  585. If Donald Tusk becomes PM of Poland, he'll open the borders to the 3rd world and turn it into Sweden
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  586. Also research the Cologne new year grape issue
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  587. I've no idea how to like them any more. I mean, I used to, because they used to be nice to be around and do things with, but that went out of the window over 20 years ago. Whenever I've got one of these creatures coming on to me, I just feel cringe from their behaviour. Women think it means I'm shy. No, I think you're a train wreck and I'm being polite in not telling you. The women 30 years or so younger than me come on to me and make clear they're looking for me to be their sugar daddy. Nope, I'm not doing that. Find some other sucker to leech off.
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  588. All of these problems would be solved with an application of Sean Connery on a regular basis
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  589. And this is what Swedish women are trying to prevent their men from doing
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  590. Your imaginary friend been talking in our mind again? Been having hallucinations about a God?
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  591. 22:50 'the bleak fatalistic view of the world'... The nihilistic death cult of the woke.
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  592. I saw a comment a few days ago on one of John Anthony's videos that was clapping up a guy who had a date with a girl, paid for her drinks and meal, and she ended up dating him because of this. And they thought it was a good thing, and they didn't think it was simping. That's your problem right there.
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  593. Guess what, that's most of them. Most XX have a primitive artificial consciousness where individual conscious events take place in silos with limited interconnect with other such silos compared to men.
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  594. It doesn't
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  595. Women asking for it, or bulls advertising to offer it?
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  596. Irrelevant, unless you're an anti-semite
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  597. I've been fighting sociopathy for a long, long time
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  598. OK Flerf, put your tinfoil hat back on
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  599. I'm a well built guy in my early 50s. Because of what I do, I have to have a dominant presence, and that applies everywhere. Most of the attention I get is from younger married women. They're very open about what fhey want. Some will be suggestive when they're standing next to their husband. Others will give me the bedroom look while they walk past me when she's hand in hand with the husband. The husbands are completely unaware. All women are single.
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  600. ​ @Scotty_Bo0m What I find with women is that they pretty much all think they're a 9, so unless you go along with that delulu and you simp and pedestalise accordingly and have no boundaries, she'll lose interest and go after a simp she knows who is thirsty. Here in the UK, she'll go with 6ft 6in Chad Thunderstroke and she won't expect him to simp or pedestalise. The other type of man she'll cling to is the older, rich sugar daddy, but only because he's very generous in how he treats hee = simps to pay her to open her legs. As far as every one else is concerned, it's only the feminine, soy men who simp who date. Once they see you're not a cuck and you've got a backbone, they're off.
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  601. So, men who don't play sport are automatically cucks? Er... Men who don't compete agaimst men for corporate promotion are cucks? Er... There's plenty of successful men who don't compete against anyone in their careers, because they don't need to or there's nothing and nobody to compete against.
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  602. There's a LOT of men out there like this. Most married/LTR men I can think of are completely cucked by the wife and nearly every woman I've met assumes I'll be the same. Both men and women realise quickly whem they get to know me that I'm not a guy to be Fked with, and in men that means I get very quick respect. Women seethe tbat I'm not a weak ass guy like all the rest, though most of the time they show me grudging respect.
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  603. She looks like she's from one of the Baltic countries, Latvia, Estonia, Lithuania. She's not Slav.
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  604. ​ @phoenixtoash2396 Here in the UK they sure do. Unless you're 6ft 6in Chad Thunderstroke with a 10in peen and a body chiseled from marble, women will only date a guy she can control, use, and emasculate, a guy who simps, pedestalises and white knights. It helps to have such little testosterone you struggle to grow a beard, gain muscle on your skeleton frame, and look like you'll fall over in a strong breeze. It helps enormously if you talk to them in a feminine way, as women do with each other, give her female emotioms (they hate stoic men). I used to have male friends who dated extensively who simped, pedestalised, white knighted, were her free court jester, and tried to get me to do the same. They couldn't comprehend why I didn't simp, white knight or pedestalise. I also found that these men were ridiculously easy to dominate, and one older one used to hang around me like a small boy if we had gone to a city with friends. He had no shortage of girlfriends around our age even though as a 53 y/o divorcee he had as much testosterone, masculinity, and presence as a 9 y/o boy.
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  605. That theory also doesn't work for good looking guys in good shape. The minute they realise they have to put in some work for attention, they're off because they know plenty of simps who will.
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  606. Correct. Bo is advocating that a successful man should allow a leech into his life. What you describe is building a life with a man.
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  607. 15:58 'super pursuing' - I told you, they only want simps, and I know men who simp after creatures like this
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  608. Because Bo is still thinking with his little head
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  609. Yep, just be Chris Williamson, bro, just be 6ft, 6 pack, 6" bro. Re energy exchange, stop chasing women and they come to you: I have little problem attracting them. Every single time they try to manipulate, try to use, start playing games. Very soon after women see that I ignore them and don't chase them, they get disappointed, and scurry off after a simp in their orbit cloud. It's a myth that women are desperate to be with men who ignore them and don't chase them. The moment she realises she can't use a guy, she's off. I've watched all this happen to other men beside myself. For the vast majority of women, if she's hanging around a man or if she's in a relationship with him, it's because she's found a way to use and manipulate him and he hasn't realised it yet. If he did, and if he had self respect, he'd boot her out of his life. The minute she realises he's realised this, she's off. The vast majority of women want naïve simps.
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  610. ​ @jwigley3835 No, in thd UK at least not all women were sluts in the 90s. Many were, but you easily filtered them out. Most were respectable, ordinary women who cherished their men. This was my and other men's dating life. It began to change from 1998 with the Girl Power movement.
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  611. It's a myth that being or becoming such the man Bo describes will magic options of decent women to choose from to marry. It doesn't. The higher your value, the more entitled useless 304s like these that you'll attract. I know several businessmen bachelors who are tall, handsome, athletic, well dressed, well socialised, great sense of humour, have a great relationship with family, love kids, drive expensive cars, have a shed load of money. On paper they're ideal husband material. None can meet a woman who isn't like these broads. They've given up.
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  612. 7:50 monologue, nope, that's not how it works. 'The better people see you doing, the more people magnetise to you.' Sure, you get more attention from people and from the past, but it's only so they think they can use you. It's rare that any of those suddenly coming into your life will respect you. Most will just want to use you, because most people use everybody else. Men and women. I talk to very, very few people, and don't socialise because of this, and that hardly anybody is sincere with me or anybody else. I have no problem talking with people, they find me charming, but as they find out very early on I can't be manipulated or used, that repels most of them from wanting to do anything with me. That and I don't respond to the BS they spew. What Bo talks about 'positive energy' means in plain English is that the vast majority of people interpret it as you've got a target painted on your back that means you can be used. 9:20 energy exchange, stop chasing women and they come to you: I have little problem attracting them. Every single time they try to manipulate, try to use, start playing games. Last time I met a woman who didn't do any of this was 17 years ago. Very soon after women see that I ignore them and don't chase them, they get disappointed, and scurry off after a simp in their orbit cloud. It's a myth that women are desperate to be with men who ignore them and don't chase them. The moment she realises she can't use a guy, she's off. I've watched all this happen to other men beside myself. For the vast majority of women, if she's hanging around a man or if she's in a relationship with him, it's because she's found a way to use and manipulate him and he hasn't realised it yet. If he did, and if he had self respect, he'd boot her out of his life. The minute she realises he's realised this, she's off. The vast majority of women want naïve simps.
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  613. On the contrary, I've known plenty of people with HFA – high functioning autism – who are married and have a good sex life. It's those on the bottom end of the spectrum who have less luck.
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  614. Hell no, if he's anything like me, he'll very quickly give up socialising because he'll see straight through people's lies and BS. You can only socialise properly if you're blind to manipulation and BS that goes on. I'll sometimes have tea and cake with senior academics I know because they don't manipulate each other, and don't manipulate me. But in the real world, that's the currency so I just grey rock everyone.
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  615.  @tomgeytenbeek2207  Well yes, if he found a purpose, as you say a hobby, could be woodwork, could be reading, but that doesn't mean he can or should socialise. I'm a very confident and accomplished public speaker. I can easily charm an audience no matter how big, and I have no fear of doing it. The same when I used to be a tour guide. But I don't like to socialise, I don't like to mix outside of that. I isolate myself as much as I can to get away from the toxicity of human behaviour which I see everywhere around me. Apart from a few senior and retired academics I know, that is.
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  616. No, once he gets a semblance of a career, and a good understanding of women and people in general (he becomes red pilled), and he teaches himself some masculinity, he'll likely become an excellent father. If he does all the personal development work he needs to, he'll become a much tougher guy than most of those around him and he'll have a much better grounding on what to teach his sons and daughters.
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  617.  @kevinfogarty5081  Let's just say that there's no agreement among autism researchers as to whether nature or nurture causes it, or what the dynamic between the two is 🤷🏻‍♂ But then, there's a lot about theories of autism and the philosophy of mind underpinning it that needs to be torn up and rewritten because it's contradictory or has huge gaps in it. Which is a task I've set for myself. No pressure, then! Have a good day.
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  618.  @kitsunecoownerofdemonblox3788  I can assure you, I hated it, and I've known many other men who similarly did
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  619.  @mortalwombat2001  I did, starting in July 2019, 'bruh'. You missed where I said I had.
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  620. 5:20 He's doing well to get dates. Women must be figuring out they might be able to use him for something. He's probably failing because he's not simping hard enough afterwards, and they're realising it. Being the funny guy isn't enough if he doesn't overwhelm her with time, energy, and attention, and give her feminine energy. Almost all the non Chad 'men' who date have a woman's personality in a male body. It's what women want to relate to.
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  621.  @stephengrant4841  I've been doing it for over 5 years. Iook better, I dress better, it's improved confidence, it's done all the positive things I was told it would. It hasn't brought out any decent women. It's just exposed me to more junk narcissistic, entitled 304s who want to control and use me, who I often have to tell to FRO and leave me alone.
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  622. 3:10 'Loses weight, get jacked. It'll bring the Chad effecf.' It doesn't. That's the constant lie from the manosphere. It brings attention from gay men, mostly. If I was gay, or bi, I'd be enjoying the company of some great gay men I've met. But I'm not. Any attention he gets from women will be more useless 304s out to use him. It doesn't rinse out the decent women, at all.
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  623. ​ @jonathancue1584 It's best just to ignore her
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  624.  @sarahalderman3126  Oh look, the sandwich maker is talking again
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  625. ​ @kingofnothing447 She's a feminist troll only here for the attention.
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  626. ​ @JJ-vp3bd 29ers (women from 2 and up who think they're a 9 and demand to be treated as such), women with attitude, masculinity, complete train wrecks of a personality yet demanding the man be trad (translation: he's a spineless simp), and feminism and victimhood complex on steroids. They're grotesque.
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  627. I'm in decent shape, had very attractive, slim girlfriends/affairs in my 20s 25+ years ago. I've had no hope of getting dates from women for many, many years apart from accidental dinners - and they fail - simply because I don't simp, pedestalise, and they realise I have boundaries, and they can't control or use me or emasculate. Every single time it's failed with a woman it's because of that. The men I see who do date and women get obsessed with are feminine, give them female emotions, and smother them with unearned time, energy, and attention. These men talk to me as a woman would. They're also p1ss easy for me to dominate socially. Professionally I have to have bags of confidence to cold approach politicians, autbors, publishers, and so on at corporate events to build relationships with them on behalf of my CEO. I have to hold myself with my peers who are professors, authors, and so on. Those character traits are a turnoff. Women want submissive, feminine men wbo can barely grow a beard. I figured out years ago they want a woman in a man's body.
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  628. ​ @stephengrant4841 He has to give them feminine emotions or relate to them as women do with each other. I've hypothesised for some time that women for the most part only want to date or sleep with women in either a male or female body. The men I know who date talk to me as women do. The men I know who don't are masculine and talk as I'd expect a man to and how women don't.
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  629. All that will do is expose him to even more useless 304s who will try to control and use him. It doesn't rinse out the decent women. He doesn't know how lucky he is if he's invisible.
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  630. I hit the gym 5 years ago and even only 12 months in I had fit men in their 20s trying it on with me in the showers. A pity I'm not bi. 4 years on it still happens at my age. Women seem to think it means I have a harem. They're stunned when I tell them I don't do anything much. Getting a good physique only rinses out even more useless and time wasting 304s than it previously did and the occasional gay man.
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  631. Most of the attention I get is from married/taken women who want extra attention from another guy. I sometimes get attention from single women who want more free attention. Basically, nearly every woman I've met over the past 24 years has tried to recruit me as a new orbiter. They fail because I'm wise to it.
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  632. Going to the gym and getting a fit body makes zero difference unless you're way over 6ft, and even then I've watched jacked, lean, tall men in their 20s - who could pick me up and throw me to the other end of the room with no sweat - simp after fat single mothers. Getting a good physique only exposes you to more entitled 304s than before.
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  633. He won't be unless he allows a woman to control, use and emasculate, and shows her that from the start. Most of the attention he'll get is from gay men.
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  634. No he won't. That's the most common manosphere fallacy that needs to be taken down. It only rinses out even more useless entitled 304s than before. He'd then have to spend time and energy getting those parasites out of his life, probably losing his temper at them in the process.
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  635. Yep, trakkie bottoms as we call them in the UK. The lazier they are, the dirtier, they live in a pig sty, don't bother to shower or shave, and women love them.
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  636. Absolutely right. The only reason why young girls get on board the CC is because fathers aren't around or are unwilling to teach them how to behave with men.
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  637. Which is why this advice of geonaxing is BS. The rot has spread globally.
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  638. Yes, but we're up against the tyranny of feminised and woke HR so you've got to keep your mouth shut. Oh, the women can do and say what they won't, and do and say things that if I did the equivalent I'd get thrown out and prosecuted for sexual harassment. I also found out that HR were spying on me in social media and didn't like my political views, so got a reprimand to not link myself to them. I'm involved with a political movement though to abolish the woke and restore freedom of thought and expression. I've also found that I'm alone among men for speaking out against the woke orthodoxies and I keep on shedding 'friends' because I have a spine to say the unsayable but undeniable things and act according to that frame. Most men just say and do the 'right' things at the right time to not get ostracised from their peer groups.
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  639.  @sauter1  I know, a very light touch – or no touch – from the authorities
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  640. You're right. I started changing things around 5 years ago and I'm now in a much better position than 99% of men my age. I'm lean, very strong for my height, excellent fitness and stamina, testosterone has increased. This is also something a friend started doing roughly the same time, and for him it was for the forthcoming Fight. For me, that was a coincidence. Things are going to get brutal here in Europe.
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  641. 2:50 Go lift 😄 I've been doing that for the past 5 years. I lost some 40% of my weight in fat in around a year, then gained 30% back in muscle. I need to update my profile pic. I've now got a V taper, excellent definition, dimples of Venus, rock hard buns, chiselled back, solid guns, broad chest and shoulders, belt of adonis coming along, flat stomach, pecs bigger than many girls' boobs, and I dress well, and well groomed. Most of the attention I get is from other men, and if I was gay, I'd be slaying through chiselled gay men in their 20s. It doesn't bring decent women out of the woodwork. It just exposes you to more useless 304s who think they're entitles to control, use and emasculate. I get much more attention from younger thots at bars though. As well as bored wives in their late 30s/early 40s so around a decade younger. Physically, I'm in my best shape, even at 51, and look better than the vast majority of men around my age and generally only challenged by guys in their 20s.
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  642. ​ @chickenmadness1732 Well, in my experience over the past 20 years, they're now pretty much all experienced 304s going after a mark
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  643. Women do allll that - and grope, and press their b00bs tight against you while they talk, and ask out - just to recruit another orbiter
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  644. As well as the coaching calls
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  645. Feminism and the politics of victimhood. It brings out covert and overt narcissism.
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  646. He's relying on men being too stupid to see through that hypocrisy
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  647. Very few guys I talk to in the gym - jacked - do anything much with women even on ONS. A few date and have even married, but it's clear they're simps and they're already under the thumb of their women. Since I started working out 5 years ago in my late 40s and now look completely different, with thick hair, I get a lot more female attention. All the women, without fail, assume they can control, use, and emasculate, and that I simp, pedestalise, and white knight. To their horror, I don't, so they go after the nearest simp in their orbit cloud. Those simps are pretty much the only guys who date in the UK, outside of ONS.
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  648.  @nexstbob6911 ...except I do
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  649. Yeah, guys can do the improvement thing, but it doesn't win women over, unless you're: 1) 6ft 6in Chad Thunderstroke 2) An older ans obscenely rich sugar daddy willing to hose money on girls 3) A spineless simp who jiumps through all her hoops Me, I'm fit, I'm a very good cook, men respect me easily, I'm authoritative. I do that for myself. Women are a joke and complete liability.
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  650. Correct. It's all about utility. And if a married woman sees a much 'better' fit guy than who she's married to, she'll fancy an affair.
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  651. It still doesn't bring out the decent women. It just exposes you to more useless 304s.
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  652. You have to lie to their faces that you're naiive and that you're swallowing her endless stream of BS. There's no possibility to tell her to shut up.
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  653. "I love the Cheesscake Factory. It's pricier than one other place." There we have it. It's better because it's more expensive.
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  654. I only know of a few men who tell me they've gone their own way. If I look around what I see are men who simp like mad for women.
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  655.  @DNashvegas  How many times do I have to say it, women don't want men for a relationship, they just want emotional tampons. Right from the start. Get to know a woman and that's what they pour out.
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  656. Anyone who has to manipulate is being manipulated back, whether or not they know it. They're also putting on an act for others.
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  657. "... because women seem less likely to date men less intelligent than themselves." And there we have it, the assumption that the accumulation of credentials equates to high intelligence. It only sort of does in that it means you have an ability to cluster knowledge, but it's a poor indicator of broad spectrum intelligence. One of the smartest and capable people I've ever met is a roadside car mechanic - he drives a recovery truck for the AA. He doesn't know it, but I ran him through various cognitive tests over a period of a few months, in terms of reasoning, spatial awareness, speed of learning, recall, abstraction, and so on. He's way smarter than most people I know with Masters degrees, yet he performed very badly at school and left at 16.
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  658. Yep, I've been hit on a few times by fit gay men some 25 years younger than me in the showers and changing room. It's quite amusing really.
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  659. ​ @CGB.SPENDER She'll have an affair with him on his bare mattress but she won't have a relationship with him - that's reserved only for money and men they can control and use
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  660. ​ @winoodlesnoodles1984 He's right
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  661. 1) Money; 2) Status; 3) Money
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  662. 3:25 Oh dear, women do want a decent body in decent clothes if he's to pick her up in a bar, but when it comes to dating, it's irrelevant. They'll date Dylan Mulvaney. They'll date pregnant beer belly men and everything in between, as long as she can CUE him and ideally he's naïve and a bit feminine.
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  663. ​ @innavision1920 BS, women hate authenticity. They're drawn to inauthentcity and men who act - with a different act for each woman - like moths to a flame.
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  664. All you're doing is feeding her hypergamy and entitlement. Just have a 6 pack Bro becomes an 8 pack next year.
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  665. I lnow what 'game' is with women and what 'act' you have to put on, and that's why I don't deal with them - you have to put on a false act every day
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  666. Bo is still a child, and pretty shallow and materialistic
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  667. LMAO, nope, women still expect you to simp and pedestalise, and expect to be able to control, use, and emasculate. The only jacked men they allow to date them are guys who simp and who they can CUE, unless he's also well over which means he doesn't need to simp. A guy around 6-2 and shorter will be simping and have no boundaries in order to date, even if he doesn't know it. I've witnessed several 6ft 6in enormous chiselled jacked Chads simp after single mothers, and it's pretty disgusting. Having a good physique, and far better than other men around you, will get you attention from women, and they'll like to touch you up, but it only gets you dates without simping if you're very tall. It earns enormous respect and admiration from men, the sea parts, and younger gay men will hit on you and quickly undress if they see you about to go in the shower, where straight men don't.
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  668. Here in the UK, it earns you attention and respect from men. It has zero effect on women. In gyms here, you never see women hanging around the jacked men wanting to get to know them. It's only the other men who do that. Getting jacked is a huge magnet to pick up gay men, though.
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  669. ​ @CrimsonCapsule That sea parting is quite funny, isnt it
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  670. It attracts younger gay men. It also gets me much more female attention, but they still expect me to simp and pedestalise and they still play games. Meanwhile, they'll date the feminine men who look like Dylan Mulvaney or the pregnant men who down a dozsn beers every night, as long as they can control and use them.
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  671. Nope, here in the UK, the vast majority of men who date or are in relationships simp or pedestalise. That's women's minimum stamdards. If he won't simp, there's an army who will.
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  672. Here in the UK women sure date men with dad bods. A guy's physique is pretty much immaterial to women. They can be a low T 140lb weakling with matchstick arms and legs and he'll have a gorgeous women hanging off his arm, or he could be a waddling gut bucket and the same. As long as she can control, use, and emasculate him and he never stands up for himself. It's that simple.
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  673. I'm 5ft 8in, 184-189 lb, I'm jacked for my age. I dress well, I'm well groomed. I've been mistaken for our new CEO because of my confidence, dress sense, grooming, presence, charisma, and so on. I've found all of what you say to be true, especially from men, and women treat me better, but I'm still expected to simp and pedestalise, and allow them to control, use, and emasculate me, and to be fairly feminine. All the traits of dominance, presence which men recognise and are therefore submissive to mean little to women. I'm neither shy nor introverted. Women correctly figure out very early on that it means I won't tolerate their BS and that they won't be able to manipulate me, and that I'm not afraid of enforcing boundaries. That causes them to flee.
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  674. ​ @omarcook3663 We could be talking about the same woman. She too works at my gym. She spent a good 18 months stalking me, even admitting she knew when I was at home. She had a particular fixation about my body hair. She put in an enormous effort to get me to notice her and laid it on increasingly thick, because nothing she was doing worked. I eventually relented and started to pay attention, and she suddenly started putting up hoops, even after she flat out asked me to her place for a drink. A 'yes, I'd like to' answer suddenly resulted in coughs and excuses. That's when I realised what she was up to, and that she developed fixations on other male customers in the same way in rotation. I gave her the elbow over 12 months ago. She resumed stalking me, but by autumn she finally got the hint and got very upset about it and went 'polite hostile' to me as a customer. In December though she suddenly changed again, back to that old self, and recently has started getting tactile. I've had many women both before and after her who behaved the same way. They'll put in a huge effort to lure me in, they'll even ask me out, they'll plan dates, they'll suggest venues, then the moment I agree, they'll cough, splutter, make excuses, not reschedule, or flat out ghost. They just want to see what sort of guy will agree to a date. They're beyond saving. The women who don't behave like this just don't exist any more.
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  675. There were plenty of men before you, and will be plenty of men after you. The point is to manipulate her just enough to enjoy your turn with her before you get rid, or she does.
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  676. Annndddd another one who's fallen for the Chronicles of the Elders of Zion hoax. Back to your basement with your SS collection.
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  677. Nope, women will run away when they discover the man they've met is dominant and assertive, and if/when they discover he has boundaries and isn't afraid of enforcing them, she'll either have a tantrum, a sulk, or feel uneasy being around him, and peel away. There are a few old couples over 60 where the woman respects the man's leadership and his boundaries, but under 60, I only know of three. In all the other couples, the man has been steamrollered by the woman, and she'll typically smirk about it.
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  678. That's what I figured out about 24 years ago. Women simply don't know how to behave. You can't have a sane, meaningful relationship with someone that psychologically damaged. There used to be plenty of women to meet who didn't do any of this. I assume they're now all married.
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  679. ​​ @PNWPI-wy9is BS, women can't read men for toffee. They're functionally illiterate. If they could 'read men' they wouldn't keep on getting knocked up by losers who hit them about and run away, leaving them as single mothers. If women could 'read men' as you claim, they'd consistently choose good fathers for long-lasting stable relationships. They just can't, hence the epidemic of single mothers with multiple baby daddies hanging around. And BS that bad boys are more authentic. They aren't. They know how to manipulate and use women, and know that women like to be treated rough and in an inauthentic manner. Really, get some life experience before going on the Internet.
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  680. My understanding of XX is that the vast majority have a primitive artificial consciousness, where experiences are siloed from each other. It's a long, long way from the overarching intelligence of men. Which is why men successfully manipulate so many women, and so too does the government and media. They know which silo of thought to talk to at any one time to get the desired outcome. Thus, I don't regard them as 'human'.
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  681. The empty egg carton is moaning of the consequences of her actions of riding the rooster rodeo 🐓🎠 Cry harder, you cüm dumpster.
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  682. Author Mery Harrington has made all these points in her book "Feminism against Progress". You'll find interviews with her about it on YT.
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  683. What nobody tells men is that what 'being successful with women' means in practice is pretending to be feminine or pretending to let her control and use you. Women don't get with men they don't think they can't control or use, or aren't soft and feminine.
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  684. Here in the UK, only simps or men who women figure out they can control, use or emasculate are the ones who date. It helps to be feminine and have no boundaries. Women hate masculine men, and only tolerate it in 6ft 6in Chad Thunderstroke or immensely rich sugar daddies.
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  685. I went very lean and at lockdown was around 145lb at 5ft 8in. I looked gaunt, so then packed on muscle mass. I ended up feeling healthier and got more attention the bigger I got, but still with a flat stomach. I'm probably about right at this size and shape. Growing my hair out this past year - at the suggestion of my new barber - has also resulted in more attention. I just did that to see what it would look like.
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  686. No we don't
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  687. Glad I'm not the only one
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  688. Def this guy is on the roids. In my small town, men 6ft+ with 6 pack abs date overweight single mothers or women who are a 2 or 3 with no children. The hoeflation has been out of control for years.
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  689. You can't take them seriously anyway, so the point is to deal with them accordingly
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  690. When you don't pursue them, they go off to choose a simp from their orbit cloud. They can't not have constant attention from a guy, or more than one ideally. One or more to date, others to keep baiting.
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  691. I'm not an Adonis, but I'm in way, way, way better condition than the vast majority of men my age, and adult men in general in the UK. It brought a LOT more attention my way, but none of it from decent women.
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  692. God, talk about naïve, and peddling a blue pill utopia. That's not how it works in the UK. The various success stories you hear in the comments aren't representative, and they're the tiny number of exceptions. As such, the commentators are self-selecting, because largely only the success stories that reinforce this idea are going to be written. 'Apply for jobs to get a career, be diligent and turn up' - if you're a white European male, your application likely goes straight in the bin, especially in the public sector and largely in blue chip FTSE100 companies. If you are already in such a place, or even somewhere smaller, be prepared to never get promoted for the same reasons. Your competence, work ethic, proven performance, good interpersonal skills mean little. Whether or not your face fits does, so expect a victimhood Karen to be promoted ahead of you, even if her incompetence and emotional instability is well known. Same with the office Chad. He'll get promoted ahead of you because of his height, physique, looks, charm, even though he's as competent at the job as an office plant. You'll be expected to carry both these types of people, on top of your job. When lockdown came along, there was a mass exodus of men in their 50s who took early retirement because of the work culture of DEI, of carrying incompetents above them, and career progression turned off because they had the wrong genitalia and skin colour. The only place I'd recommend men apply for jobs at are male dominated industries - the 3D jobs - where wimmin wouldn't dare go near in case they break a fingernail. As for starting your own business, following your dream to make your fortune, even if the business doesn't fold, it's pure luck if someone makes oodles of money out of it beyond having a just above working class lifestyle. The ones who make a LOT of money are in the laptop industries which will go the way of AI. Some might cling on in a few niches - such as heritage - but those places won't be well paid. The well paid jobs and careers are going to be wiped out by AI. The safest bet for men is to go into manual work with good career progression, doing things that can't easily automated, if ever. The few very, very successful men I've met who aren't corporate employees on a payroll in some way are almost all psychopaths, and I get to hear of their work circles, and ditto, filled with more Cluster B psychopaths. What becomes obvious is that to harlve that level of success in life involves using others as disposable garbage, without remorse, even family, just for the relentless search for more, more, more. It's very rare to see financial and career success to get the lifestyle Bo advocates without someone having a Cluster B PD and without trampling on others or using them with no remorse. The friendships they have are with similar minded men, and it's pretty grim to watch. It's also hilarious when they find out that they can't treat you as they treat other people. Thus, though I get to meet such men, I don't develop friendships because I don't go along with their fake macho BS. The guys I know who have a decent personality and I actually like spending time with and talking to are plumbers, heating engineers, drain cleaners, modest men who aren't chasing the grind for the sake of it, just content with a happy, simple life and enjoying quality friendships with people and stressing over how to make the next billion. Regarding women, "that dude who got the beautiful girlfriend, he worked on approaching women every single day, he worked on himself every single day, he made himself more charismatic, he taught himself how to speak, how to behave in public, be interesting in conversation, he kept up his appearance,... he became a mini Chad" Talk about blue pill. Women don't care about that. They don't care if you have no conversation and you're as dull as ditchwater with pretty much no personality. It comes down to looks and height. Women also don't care if you have no ambition. You can be all of that list and women won't care unless you're 6ft 4in at least, and ripped. They only care if you're under 6ft and are out of shape if you're rich and you show you're willing to spend, spend, spend on her. I know plenty of bachelors who are all those things on that list, and they're tall, handsome, and all the other things, but don't date because they can't find a woman who doesn't take, take, take. Neither can I. Women don't care if you're "putting a dent in the world" (Rich Cooper). They only care if you're earning a huge amount, and if you do, you don't need to have conversation skills. A guy's success with women literally comes down to his ability and willingness to simp, whether he knows this or not, and essentially buy women. It's either that or manipulate the sh1t out of them from the start. It's aad that the Wear only values men - and men only value each other - in terms of money, how much you earn, your materialism, your spending, instead of higher ambitions like Enlightenment and developing wisdom. Sadly, that's the Western disease of making money for the sake of it. I have a few irons in the fire, where I want to rewrite a few areas of psychology as I notice that they're incomplete and have various errors. That'll be one dent on the world, but it won't make me much, if any money. Another area is my involvement in national politics, where again I can influence things, but again, it's highly doubtful any money will come from that. But if things go the way I expect, I can at least make another dent to changing society. It doesn't involve "be a businessman, bro" so I guess it doesn't count on the scale of this false masculinity thing of only chasing money at the bottom end of the pyramid of Enlightenment instead of changing the structures at the top to achieve wider changes that will benefit more people and for longer. I'm quite content with not being a businessman and dying regretting I didn't set up a business or something, even if I die with little or no money and didn't travel, because my efforts will have been in the field of political and economic philosophy and campaigning, political leadership and maybe rewriting a corner of psychology.
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  693. He's a gtifter and very much blue pilled simp when it comes to inflating women's hypergamy
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  694. The best I could do with them is to have short affairs, or just ONS with those I pick up in bars. The idea I could find a faithful women to have a family with is laughable. The idea that I could find a string of women to have in my phone that I could date is hilarious, because they're just not likeable. They all expect me to make her my #1 priority.
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  695. In December 2018 I was 98.6 kg. My March 2020 I was down to something like 62kg. I remained very thin until early 2021 when I started to gain mass again, but in muscle. I'm now back to 84kg or so and apparently I look better for it. I'm pretty lean with it, I guess I'm not far off a swimmer's physique. That was all done in my late 40s. I'm 51 now. So, it can be done, but discipline to death healthily is key, together with going to the gym regularly. In me, it was like a light switch. I changed my diet overnight. Literally. I cleaned out the fridge and most of my cupboards. The only chamge is that I now eat more of the healthy diet I changed to, so a lot more high quality meat like beef, chicken, pork, lamb, that sort of thing, and I'm careful on carbs. I eat plenty of greens and fibre and drink little alcohol. My T levels have shot up.
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  696. Yep, and if you don't, you're a failure, bro. Have a side hustle, bro.
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  697. Same here. This obsession with money and all the things that's necessary to acquire it is unhealthy. Note he makes no mention of spirituality or Enlightenment, or intellectual discovery or wisdom. It's money, things, spending, and women. Consume, consume, consume.
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  698. Bo? Did he? That's curious. I'd like to know some more info I'd you have it.
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  699. Which is why a colossal amount of men in their 50s in the UK took early retirement at the start of lockdown. The idea that the competent and industrious get promoted is a myth. The biggest quality is if your face fits, if you tick DEI boxes, and you can be manipulated. The talented end up carrying those promoted above them.
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  700.  @fakshen1973  I know, that's what I do. Every woman over the past 24 years, with one exception in 2007.
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  701. @19:08 'if you settle on a basic, average everyday woman, she'll get anxiety as you succeed' – back in the late 90s I used to date a gorgeous, well-adjusted, well-spoken, well-dressed woman even though I was in a very lowly position but was getting involved in other areas of the company through talent and determination. Even though there were a few other men there, I was the only one who had the insight and wherewithall to progress in the company structure and make myself known. I had loads of younger women colleagues around me at the time, but I didn't want to date them. This particular woman knew what I got up to, and knew of my industriousness and my reputation for progress. In class, she was quite above me, but because I was too young in my mid-20s to realise just how good a woman I found, I decided to drop her and see someone else instead – that one was a disaster. This well-dressed woman is probably the only one I've ever met whom I could introduce to the people I now know, attend the private dinners I get invited to, attend the conferences with me, where I wouldn't feel she wasn't going to embarrass me, and she wasn't going to feel like a fish out of water. Considering where I am now in life, I'm a very experienced public speaker, I sometimes socialise with a group of senior academics and charity trustees, I've been confused with our new CEO in the community by people who'd heard of the new appointment but who didn't know who it was, based on how I dress, how I speak, how I carry myself, my authority, and so on. I also speak to my peers – who are academics, professors, researchers, and so on – as my equal. I can easily have a lengthy and light-hearted phone call with a retired professor about our topic, or have a conversation with prominent politicians. All this bleeds into my every-day life. This is how I carry myself around other people. I have to act on that level because professionally I can't do anything else. It's lost on the women I meet, though. I'm also now getting into something new, and that involves getting myself heard among professors, university vice-chancellors, authors, prominent broadsheet columnists, cabinet ministers, barristers, KCs, economists, consultant psychiatrists and psychologists, and so on. I've thrown myself in to writing at their level, so I can be taken seriously in that company. Again, women can see what I get up to. It's always in the back of my mind what would happen if I got together with one of them who seem to hang around, and that anxiety by them is something I'd have to deal with. There's one married woman I know who I do know follows what I'm now getting involved in with keen interest – she's an academic – and I wonder if that type of woman, if unmarried, would be secure enough to not have that anxiety.
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  702. I used to work in an office full of women. I was the only guy there. I was getting jacked at the time. There was a guy in his 20s already there who left a few months after I started. I guess he was what I'd now think of as a Gigachad. He left to join the Royal Marines. After he left, one of the married women, while discussing my physique, told me in front of the others that they used to regularly ask him to take his shirt off so they could gawp at his body, and they'd then feel his pecs and biceps. The same married woman asked me if I had a grower or a shower. Another in the group asked me if I had a Prince Albert piercing. Other women on the site would give me and up and down look and make suggestive comments about my body. All married. All of the groping women were Boss Babes. Now imagine them on a girl's night out and how unrestrained they would be. I knew the husband of one of the women – he's very much on his way to being crushed. I've had a few married and LTR women give me a good grope and feel over the past few years. Marriage vows mean nothing to them. If there's prime beef nearby, they'll consider it their right to have a good look or a good feel.
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  703. @11:20 She doesn't think she's that good enough to begin with – again, this is the major problem with modern women. If a guy expresses interest, in other words reciprocates, she pulls back because she doesn't believe she's worthy of him that he's showing her this interest.
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  704. And humiliating their children in front of people. And the children – even adult ones – even play along. In retrospect, I should've dragged her out of that toxic household and found us somewhere temporary to live.
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  705. You're about right regarding the wifeable women out there. I don't know about you, but I feel nauseous when I'm around the other 99.5% of them.
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  706. Hookup culture is all that's left if a man wants to have a sexual relationship with a woman. They're beyond having a lasting relationship with, sadly. But going into hookup culture is only worsening the problem.
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  707. @3:10 was the father there, was he active in her life, leading his family, had his wife beat his ass into submission.' In the mid-90s, so not far off 30 years ago, I met a gorgeous, witty, and clever 20 y/o girl. Several months in, I made the mistake of spending Christmas with her, her parents, and her 18 y/o brother. Her father was a decent chap, kind, considerate. His daughter had been looking for a place for us to move in to together in her city, as there were far more opportunities for me down there than in my small town in the middle of nowhere. So, Christmas arrived, and that's when I got to know the family dynamic. The father was as you described – he was completely beaten into submission by his covert narc wife. She'd ritually humiliate my GF in front of everyone, and her father just sat there quiet, not interrupting to say that the mother was out of order. In retrospect, I should've told my GF that we were leaving there and then, and try to find somewhere else to stay until we could find somewhere to move in together. But, it was Christmas eve, and I'd taken the train down there, and not driven. A few days later, the mother told my GF to get rid of me, probably because she could sense I didn't like how she was treating her daughter. So the GF did as she was told, and was distraught about it. I pitied her father.
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  708. I think psychosexually they remain at the age they first get noticed in that dress alone on the dancefloor at a wedding, usually 14 from my experience of weddings.
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  709. Well, if that's all they present themselves as, it's little wonder that's what happens
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  710. @9:30 Yep, you're right about women making the move physically on men if they're in close physical proximity, especially if he's got good visible muscle tone. The trouble is, women do it these days to bait. In the past when a woman I sort of knew would come up to me at an event or we're all in a bar with other people, and she'd start playing with my fingers, caressing the palm of my hand, or if she'd start gently squeezing my biceps or my traps, I knew that within a few hours I'd be riding her all night. Today, women do this just to bait.
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  711. @14:50 – 'never lose your identity, never let her cross your boundaries, maintain frame.' Yeah, right. That's how to get rid of women from your life. There's only one married man or a man in an LTR that I know who's maintained his identity and frame and doesn't let his wife dictate to him what he does. One man out of dozens of couples I've met and known well over the decades. It's a standing joke here in the UK that men have to ask their wives' permission to enjoy their hobbies, or to go out and meet friends, or to buy a collectable piece of machinery they want to restore. In my various hobby circles relating to engineering, transport and so on, it's the same refrain – "how did you get your wife's permission" "what tax are you going to have to pay". It's unheard of that a man just does these things off his bat without asking his wife's permission. Apart from that one married man I know, the only other men who don't have to ask their adoptive parent's permission (ie wife or partner) are those men who are single. You also see men who have been completely crushed by their wives early in marriage, and they get led around shopping centres/malls like they're following on a lead. It's unknown here in the UK for a man to lead. This isn't a recent phenomenon, it's been going on for generations. By contrast, when I maintain frame with women I meet and refuse to let her cross my boundary, and I maintain my identity, whoosh, she's out of my life, and typically has a monumental tantrum about it behind my back (if I hear about it via backchannels). Women I meet discover very early on that I won't compromise my identity, that I expect to conduct myself just as you advocate, and that's when she loses attraction. Without fail. They almost always want to be with a man who will allow her to dictate what he does, successfully tell him he can't go to the gym and they must go for brunch. She wants an obedient simp, and the vast, vast majority of men are these obedient simps because they know that if they aren't, she'll leave him, or worse, call him abusive, manipulative, controlling, etc. That married man I know can only maintain his identity and maintain his frame with his wife because he spent years training his wife to allow him. I watched him do it, and heard of his various struggles doing it. When I was on twitter I also used to know a married woman around my age who admitted to me that she was a similarly wild woman whose husband successfully tamed into a happy, home-making wife. He's a very rich and successful businessman doing something in finance, and she was a SAHM while the kids grew up. But she had to be trained to let him lead and not be a simp. It's that rare. There's one woman I know whom I very strongly suspect has a very big crush on me is someone who'll allow me to maintain my identity and my frame, For various reasons that's a non-starter, which is a pity as she's one of the very few sane women I know.
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  712.  @carmelcutie1991  As somebody who was diagnosed with what is now MDD by various psychologists, it turns out I didn't have it after all. What I did have was another complaint/issue that brought along those symptoms as a secondary factor. Most men in what's called the manosphere also aren't hurt - they have good insight and look at it with cold logic. Which is what I do thanks to my detachment.
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  713. Because most men know that therapy is a crock of junk. Psychologists know absolutely sod all about recognising various issues let alone how to treat them. The only person who can do that is the patient.
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  714. No, beneath that ego is the insecurity. Or rather, beneath the narcissist's mask is self-loathing and a creature that demands to be fed validation. For women this is from simps. They outwardly present themselves as secure, but it's only based on the narcissistic supply that the simps give them. This is why they go fishing for more and more orbiters to keep the ego fuel flowing. Without it the insecurity would crush them. This is what happens to post-wall women, and even more dramatically to ageing narcissists.
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  715. You're right. It's a guaranteed way for her to view you as another simp and beta orbiter.
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  716. Regarding what to do with modern women, or those out there to meet today, I've still no idea. Considering that pair bonding is toast after 5 different Ds inside them, and that they're typically already up to 10–20 by the age of 20, there's pretty much noting left to meet for any man of any age. So, what do you do with them? If I find myself in a city bar in an evening, I find much younger women appearing around me and very much giving me the invite. If I lived in a city again, I'd probably do what I previously did and pick them up, but all I'm then doing is ruining her pair bonding for other men who she's probably making jump through the hoops.
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  717. You have to try it to see whether or not any or all of this true, and where it differs, and whether or not you can handle it without compromising your identity. You need the experience of dealing with women, flirting and so on, even if not dating.
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  718. Oh dear, the child doesn't know the difference between loneliness and being on one's own. Most married men are lonely in their marriages.
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  719. He's trolling them for profit
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  720.  @chrislong8559  You've not heard of it? There's this search engine called Google. You might have heard of it. Give it a go. You might like it.
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  721. Agreed. All the men I've seen who talk about star signs and chakras and healing are drowning in clunge.
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  722. The opposite. He'll be drowning in clunge.
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  723. These sort of people escape to the country here to our small towns and villages from big towns and cities in England. They set up communes.
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  724. Correct, there's only three marriages/LTRs I can think of where the man is in the lead and she's submissive to him. In all the others, she emasculated the man.
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  725.  @watchdog6619  Ugly, plain, and obese women are no better in their attitude and gross personalities
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  726. Nope, women will only date and marry the men with no boundaries who don't stand up to her. That's nearly all marriages.
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  727. ​ @Redbird4912 Back in university, some 30 years ago, I knew a plug ugly guy with bad acne, the world's grimmest pudding basin haircut, and he always looked malnourished and a walking skeleton. He had a string of girls around him despite looking like Quasimodo's long lost brother. He had the swagger all right, and made girls laugh, but he had an open wallet at the bar. He'd drive his dates to see shows in the West End in London on a Friday night or a Saturday matinee, have a meal, drive back to our city, drop her off, then drive 150 miles north overnight for his Sunday church and teaching commitments before driving back south on Sunday night for college on Monday morning. He'd sometimes keep the same girl for a few weeks but often he'd cycle through them. He complained to me at how much they were all costing him, but it was worth it for the bedroom fun. I don't know if he ever admitted to himself he was buying the services of escorts, just undergraduate girls in the same college who liked being taken to see shows, wined and dined, in return for opening her legs. I can't stress highly enough just how hideously ugly he was, with his front teeth arranged in a random manner.
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  728. "I feel like he kicked me in the gut" because someone had to tell her to stop her damaging behaviour putting others at risk
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  729. So men being unaccountable for their 'inadequacies' is what's created tgese legions of trainwreck 304s? I think you need to get your testosterone checked.
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  730. Women don't want men to lead in the relationship. I can think of only three marriages/LTRs where he does, and in one marriage it took him around 10 years of pitched battle in front of the children for her to accept that he will lead. In all the other marriages/LTRs, the woman has lead from day 1. It's been like this for generations. You see it etched on married men's faces.
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  731. Glad someone else is saying it
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  732. @Cryharder-k2d You need to be less naïve and live in the real world
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  733.  @lukaxxlunchpailguyxxdoncic9293  Well, you're the mangina crying over DJT's election
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  734. You're salty? 🧂🧂🧂🧂🧂🧂
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  735. Wellllll, here in the UK, almost all the men who date are that type. If you aren't, you've got a mountain to climb. You have to put on an act that you're that type of sensitive guy.
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  736. Many people have asked that
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  737. That's exactly what it is. It's a power dynamic that the man has failed from day 1. If a woman respects the guy, she doesn't test. He'll have made it clear to her from the start that he doesn't tolerate BS games like that. The trouble is, over the past 20 years or so it's near impossible to find a woman who doesn't think she mustn't test. Nearly all see themselves as the superior in the relationship, and won't tolerate any man who makes it clear he doesn't tolerate disrespect or games. So, you have to put up with such a woman who tests you constantly or you eject them very early on - all of them - as I do.
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  738. What's she doing in return?
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  739. Agreed. At that stage you're only in the relationship for the sake of having a relationship, but that's a LOT of men that I've met. They're willing to degrade themselves and put up with all sorts of bad treatment just to not be single, as they can't cope with that. Those constant tests are a form of emotional abuse, and should've been stamped out at the start, or give her the ultimatum to leave. Which is what I do. Women discover I have boundaries, and they don't like it.
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  740. 💯
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  741. ​ @hereforthecomments258 Correct. A woman only continues to test a man she doesn't respect, and likely never did. And respect comes from fear. That's why wimmin don't S test bad boys and the felons they throw themselves at. That fear brings respect.
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  742. It's the same in the UK and has been for years. I'm the same as you that I've been conditioned to pedestalise women, but most men I know still do, and they expect me to do the same. Women also expect you to behave that way and when they discover that you're a guy who doesn't, she's shocked because she's never met one before who doesn't.
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  743. And what's the reward? Maybe her being sweet 5% of the time? Some starfish sex?
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  744. It's likely they numbed themselves on many men and a whole suite of toys. You could bring them off quicker than that in the past if you wanted to, then go again for round two soon after and carrying on after that. It depended how h0rny she was.
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  745. What makes for a successful relationship and marriage is pretty simple: both parties need to be selfless, give more than they expect to take out, be sincere, have humility, be accountable, have good and clear communication skills, be loyal, not have a victimhood complex either about themselves or groups in society (toxic sentimentality), show each other respect and don't disrespect. The only couples like that I can think of are over 60. They have successful marriages as a result. I'd love to find a woman with those qualities. I haven't in 24 years.
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  746. Because he's a simp who justifies female hypergamy. In saying the man has to always improve, while not saying anything about the woman, he's pedestalising women.
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  747. I had the same nearly 30 years ago. She was very highly resistant, but also had her hands over me. I took her back to my place, we were kissing and undressing each other, she had her hands on my jewels, I put my hands in her knickers, then all of a sudden she bailed, got dressed very suddenly, ran out of the door, and left the campus that night, and missed the last day of her course. Looking back, it was a miracle I wasn't reported to the course staff and then to police. That was very much a case of 'yes' (and her being very wet and really enjoying doing things to my gentleman area) being a 'no'. If I was another type of man, I'd have pinned her down and made sure she went through with what she started, but even then I knew what would've happened.
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  748. He's not ugly. Decades ago at University, I used to know a plug ugly guy - absolutely hideous - with a god awful haircut, short, emaciated, but had tons of women around him. His trick was to drive them to Central London on a Friday night to see a show in the West End, a meal afterwards, drive her back to our city, spread her legs, then repeat with another the next weekend. He hosed money on these university girls. He thought they were his 'girlfriends' and not escorts he was paying them via a night out in London.
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  749. ​ @PrettyGoodLookin Silence, ignorant troll
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  750.  @richbrewer8121  No, unvaxxed and campaigned against it
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  751. Put down the weed, eh
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  752. ​ @PrettyGoodLookin It is, because that's what they want from me. They assume I have a harem and would like to join it.
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  753. They exist in the UK, and seemingly Australia and NZ
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  754. That's another reason why I stopped socialising. All the men are blue pilled simps.
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  755. Guess what, it's what women think I do, and I'm 51. It's what they want, and it seems they want to join my mythical harem.
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  756. I concluded a while ago that the vast majority of XX can't be regarded as sentient, that is have a continuous or joined up consciousness. I view them as having siloed experiences, some parts of which leak out into others, but don't enough to form a coherent over-arching consciousness as it does in men. This explains the solipsism, among many other things. Ive been doing research on autism, theory of mind, consciousness, and Intelligence for over 20 years, so construct models for behaviour. That's my model for women. I have a feeling that our ancestors going back to cave man and tribe days figured this out but in their own language, hence put severe restrictions on women. The problem is, how do you date someone with a discontinuous consciousness, when what you see take place in front of you is this siloed behaviourr of what looks like a form of artificial consciousness?
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  757.  @ham7357  An acquaintance of mine from the UK lives in very rural Bulgaria some distance from the nearest town which he cycles to. He runs a dog boarding house for clients. He loves it over there having moved some years ago. We get to see his life in great detail, warts and all.
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  758. Eastern Europe is VERY attractive, if it wasn't for the EU. I fought very hard to achieve Brexit, and there's no way on earth I'd consider moving to one of the EU27. It's a pity because Slovakia, Czechia, Hungary, Poland, Romania, and Bulgaria appeal to me. Many trad women, socially conservative society, stunning scenery, and good food. But I'm 50. As far as other men are concerned, I'd recommend looking into it. Don't believe the guff you read in the media about the farr-wright in E Europe. It's vastly blown out of proportion, and as far as the MSM are concerned, farr-wright is any politician or party which rejects the postmodernist orthodoxy.
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  759. Oh noooes, how dare we take the spotlight away from the biggest victims 😄
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  760. You honestly think women are worth talking to and getting to know? 🤣
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  761. @king49334  It's both
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  762. @brianmeen2158  Because he makes €€€€€€€$$$$$ selling the 'solution' through coaching
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  763. Indeed, Jack Denmo/Densmore is about to be sentenced. He's one hell of a creep with wandering hands.
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  764. Yep, and is due to be sentenced now he's been convicted of it
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  765. @forgottenfuryan  I don't have a nice house (it's pretty modest), nor do I have a family. Nor am I afraid of the dark - why should I be 😄
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  766. Exactly my sentiment, which is why Im involved with some libertarian men and we are planning how to organise a good society, either in parallel with this sinking one, or to put it in operation once it falls over for good. Most of them are outside the 'grid'.
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  767. @yuriy5376  YouTuber convicted of sexually assaulting McMaster student Jack Densmore was found guilty of raping a student on a first date. Updated July 27, 2024 at 6:16 a.m. A controversial YouTuber who encourages university students to have sex with multiple partners and sells advice on picking up women has been convicted of sexual assault. Jack Densmore, who goes by Denmo online, was found guilty Friday of raping a McMaster University student on a first date.
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  768. That guy Denmo has just been convicted of sexual assault
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  769. @JohnnyMn4monic  Yes, I know this. That causes them to run away to find a guy with no boundaries, usually after a tantrum or a sulk. Here in the UK, the only guys who date are some 6ft 6in Chad Thunderstroke, some immensely rich older men who become sugar daddies, and a vast legion of the remaining men who simp and pedestalise, and allow themselves to be walked over and used.
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  770. You think only women and non-masculine men live in a house 😄? Ohhh boy, my uncles and other male relatives would howl with laughter at that before tanning your backside with some choice words.
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  771. You just need to clamp down on any hint of femininity coming out
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  772. ​ @johncarlo2630 He isn't, that's what they did. They hung out their members to dry. Unions only exist to enrich their leadership while bleeding their members dry.
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  773. He got prosecuted for it. He's due to be sentenced soon.
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  774. Ah yes, praise jeeeebus 😄
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  775. Oh grow up and dry up your remoaner salty tears
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  776. 10:45 Right guy, right time, right place - no comment about my life over the past 30 years... Most of the attention I get is from married/taken women.
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  777. I live in the UK. The women here are less aggressive, but the other traits apply in spades and have done for over 20 years. Woman after woman I've met just in my every day life has an ego the size of Jupiter and entitlement to match. Their delulu about how valuable they think they are is laughable. I found that women expected to be able to CUE me - control, use, emasculate - as they had every other guy, right? It also helps if I'm feminine. Except they can't CUE me nor do I or can I give her feminine emotions and feminine attention. When they discover they can't CUE me, they're off. Other than Chad Chaddington, the only men I see dating here are the feminised simp men who pedestalise. Women LOVE 'men' like that, and they've as much leadership and dominance as a 9 y/o boy. You also have to put up with their BS and nod along to it like that meme of Nicholas Cage.
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  778. I'm in the same position as you. I fight a battle pretty much daily - if I'm in an environment where Im around women - between both my heads. I get attention, and while I very much like their outside, what I know of their psychology is what turns me off stone dead.
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  779. I get plenty of attention. Women come on to me frequently. Imagine you've been working in the sun all day and when you finish at 5 you want to get to the bar for a cold soda or a cold Czech beer, only to find that sold out just before you got there and had a price of 50% of your day's wages. The other option is a limited amount of tepid water which men are fighting over, at 45%. After that there's an unlimited quantity of buckets of vomit that's been standing outside in the sun, at only 40% of your day's wages. Does that sound appetising to you? Of all the marriages/LTRs I've got to know well under, say, the age of 70, I can think of only three men who haven't been crushed nor had their lives made a complete misery. It's even more horrific if I remember just what those men were like when they were single. The more successful businessmen bachelors I'm aware of just pick up a disposable bimbo at a bar, keep her around for a few months until she gets to be a nuisance then get rid, and swap for a new one. It costs them to rent each one ovee that time, but that's as close aa they dare get to these XX. It's been decades since I met a woman who could have improved my life by her being in it rather than not. And I've met a huge amount of women. Most of the attention I get these days is from married women looking for a fling behind their husband's back. I see other married women openly flirt with and chase other men. If I lived in a city again, I'd probably be hitting the bars every weekend and picking up these married women who go out with their girlfriends. If I find myself in a bar on a weekend in a city after a conference, it's these women who launch themselves on me and start getting physical.
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  780. 8:00 Pretty much all taken women are single. Women don't have to go to a club to scout for male attention. They'll give me the come on and look me up and down as they pass by hand in hand with their husband.
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  781. I wouldn't say that Strauss is gay, but certainly very feminine. That's a VERY big turn on for women. It also helps if you give women attention in a feminine way, with female emotions just as women do with each other (ie dramatic). I've witnessed plenty of men do this with women and women get hooked on those men as a result. Those same men also talk to me in the same feminine way. They'll talk about male topics, sure, but the way they do it is just like a woman does. It's very different to how masculine men talk to each other. When such feminine men then get into a relationship with a woman, it's like watching two women, or even the woman might be more masculine than he is. I used to know a guy who wasn't far off being as camp as Dylan Mulvaney. Women went potty over him - they adored him and he had plenty of sexual dates with them. It waa bizarre.
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  782. 2:25 'Let status do the job, it comes out of you, people around you treat you differently.' Yes, that's what I do, but I have limited status in society but quite a bit professionally in my niche. I also have to come across as a CEO in order to fit in with my people, though I'm not on the business side of things. So those CEO like qualities of dominance, competence, pathogical confidence, no approach anxiety, taking charge, dressing well, being well groomed, is what everybody sees. Think Ian Richardson's character in Brazil, with Cary Grant and Tommy Shelby thrown in. And that's with very limited social status outside my field, which nearly everybody doesn't get to see. It means I earn people's respect very quickly, most men are submissive, the boss men I see around me treat me as one of their own, all with little or no effort from me.
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  783. 5:19 Yes, there's a vast gulf between how I have to act to be attractive, and who I am and that I have keep up an act for time immemorial when I'm around them. And I spot other men who slip away from a bar, alone, and they often have a quite pathetic personality on their own compared to the performance they put on for women, and what women love.
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  784. It was the same for me in my early to late 20s when I was unemployed or quite poor. Women didn't care. One wanted me to move into a flat with her in her city when I was unemployed. I'm only 5ft 8in as well, back then probably 150lb.
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  785. Height helps, but it's not essential if you've got dominance, personality, you're in good shape, and so on. If you're tall, you can rely less on the other things.
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  786. LMS? Ha, when I was in my early to mid 20s, women didn't care I had very little M or S. I remember one gorgeous GF, who kept on grinding on me every chance she had, not caring that for for a while I was unemployed when we were together. She didn't mind paying for things because she was riding my meatstick. What does that make me?...
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  787. 9:00 men can't draw boundaries with their women - that's nearly all married men
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  788. Equally cringe is when you see obese women in their late 40s with more dimples in their saggy skin than a Chesterfield sofa, with a kid or two in tow, being told by the sisterhood that they deserve the 'best' after another guy ghosts her. Less 49ers, more 09ers.
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  789.  @andradeb2695  Oh no, they liked me enough to bait me - I now realise they were thirst traps, before I figured out within a matter of weeks it was all an act. The women I did used to date were sincere, and they kept themselves in better shape than I did at the time. I did something similar to David Goggins and lost 40% of my body weight in fat starting when I was 46. And yes, it was a switch I threw, and women who know my story are astonished. There's one woman I know who's now also starting to fo the same as me, but I'm still trying to show her that she needs to throw the switch.
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  790. 8:40 the ethnicity and country of origin is still recorded here in the UK, but the details aren't released to the public lest it set off an explosion and calls for mass deportations. The Home Office have all these stats but dare not release them.
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  791. It happens. I've witnessed it plenty of times in London
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  792. France doesn't have any colonies in Africa, sunshine. Study after study has shown that the most racist countries on earth are India and also across Africa.
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  793. Yep, whole streets in various English towns were taken over by them
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  794. Annndddd another ignorant mong who leaves out countries such as Sweden and those in E Europe.
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  795. The only demonisation against blk men in the USA is the 13/52 which they cause for themselves
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  796. Bullshit. Show me where Sweden and E European countries colonised the Mohammadeens' countries.
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  797. Annndddd another ignorant mong ignoring the fact that Sweden and E European countries had nothing to do with that. It very much is the problem of Muslims not willing to integrate. We know this from social attitude surveys. They've no intention to integrate and never will. Mass deportation is the only answer.
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  798. 13:18 the homeless Romanians are in the UK selling Big Issue
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  799. Nope, it's specifically a problem caused by north Africans and has only started over the past 10 years. Your 'racism' accusation has no meaning any more. Try another meaningless slur. Viva le Pen.
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  800. Erm, do you include Sweden in that? The various E European countries as well? There's still time to delete or edit your comment, or leave up your ignorant comment for the world to see.
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  801. The AWFULs
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  802. The street variety, not the tree ones
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  803. Tell me you didn't watch it without telling me you didn't watch it 😉
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  804. Looks at dropping birthrates. Hmm. When it gets extreme enough, extreme solutions will be required to contain female behaviour. We're going to have to look at stripping public welfare support for unmarried mothers such that they face the threat of destitution. Also reform alimony laws for the same reason, and further tighten the unborn infant ending legislation. Something a dictator would do when faced with societal collapse would be to entice 304s abroad with the pretence that it's from a Gulf State prince, then after she arrives at the destination, capture their passports and rescind their US citizenship leaving them stranded somewhere. I'm sure they can always make a living in the paddy fields. The publicise, and keep on doing it until either the 304s stop or you've exported lost of them. Like I say, extreme problems face extreme solutions.
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  805. It's no different in small towns and in the countryside in the UK. It's identical.
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  806. Sure, Jan 😄
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  807. I work out in an office in the remote countryside. Several farm women here, whose fathers still work on the farm as do the husbands. Ditto my relatives in the countryside. All the women are boss babes, not sweet, feminine nurturing ones.
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  808. Ah, grifter Anna. What's funny is that if she gets comments from women under her videos, 99% of them are calling her out for my soggy knee blah blah blah.
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  809. The latter
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  810. Why don't I date? Simple, every woman I've met over the past 25 years has tried to control, use and/or emasculate me from the start. That's the point of their tests and games. Even in 2007/2008 on the apps, divorced single women in their 30s or 40s were demanding rich men step in to take over from where their high earning husband had stopped. Even back then you'd have 2s thinking they were 9s.
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  811. I used to know a couple of bachelors in my area in their mid 50s. OK, one was a divorcee with grown up kids. Both were tall, the life and soul of the party, that sort of thing. The divorcee was a very successful consulting engineer and had his own lab. From his lifestyle, he was earning a fortune. His partner was a divorced teacher in her mid 50s, the crabbiest, sourest woke liberal harpie you would ever hope to meet. The other was a businessman in the B2B sector. Never married, no children. He had a fleet of classic cars and would holiday regularly. I used to work with one of the women he dated. A typical single mother HR Karen with a foul attitude. Yeah, "do the work to build your business, build your wealth so you can date quality women." That's fairly typical of the quality of single women in my part of the UK.
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  812. Very much so
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  813.  @lucyjane1183  I know a very fit 35 y/o who constantly posts thirst trap photos on her Facebook and Instagram. In the summer, it's bikini shots.
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  814. That's because she's very much purple pill
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  815.  @456882  He lives in Romania
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  816. @shawnmcdaniel435  She's a damn grifter. She sells a dating program for men called WakeUp2Luv. Her aim is to keep men on the plantation. She's purple pilled.
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  817. ​ @jamesschroeder1174 🤣 you honestly think that women in real life are any better? Oh lordy. It just makes the manipulation easier and quicker to spot through their body language and I enjoy letting down those useless wimmin when I don't respond to their manipulation or I don't simp as expected. Talk about naïve...
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  818.  @MaryJKelly256  Oh look, another XX isn't happy that there aee fewer simps around
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  819. Why do you think the elites control the media. It's utter dross here in the UK with the effect of dumbing down the population. I do my best to firefight it on Facebook by debunking the common stories daily to let people know the context behind what's reported and calling out the mistruths and the vital pieces of missing information, to show them that they're being continually lied to. A few are waking up.
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  820. Makes me glad I enjoyed the company of good, clean, modest women in the 90s, and not one of them were tattooed. Looking at their naked bodies untouched by ink and only small ear piercings was an absolute delight.
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  821. Is there a collective noun for bowling balls? Because that's all they are, of varying sizes.
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  822. Robotics have become incredibly life-like. I wonder if she's self-cleaning.
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  823. I'm 50. It's been no different with the vast majority of women I've met over the decades. I prefer to do much of those things from that list than sit down and vegetate listening to such garbage.
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  824. Neither do they in the UK. There are several million hidden unemployed here who don't appear in the unemployment stats. It makes me laugh when I see commentators in the newspapers that the UK is facing a shortage of employees to hire and that's driving up wages. BS. It isn't, and there's no shortage whatsoever.
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  825. You've got to laugh at the MSM's inability to understand the cause of the changes they observed from the 60s
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  826. Ha, women in the UK and Ireland are no better. The Hoeflation spread via US popular culture. Continental Europe is a write off as most women there are catastrophically woke, except for France possibly. Here in the UK it's pretty much impossible to find a woman under 55 with humility and who's not a narcissistic boss beach and has a pathological need to control, use and emasculate while she considers herself to be the Kween and you her free slave and court jester. Also, all women are single, including the married ones. Beta Bux, Alpha Fux is very true over here. If a woman is interested in dating you, it means she sees you as a beta. If she invites you over for a beer while stood pressing her tits against you, it means she sees you as an alpha. Same if she's married and she comes on to you and doesn't leave you alone, pestering you for attention and company.
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  827. OK simp. Women don't want masculine men - 'game' is being feminine with them and giving them female energy.
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  828. ​ @aeggeska1 I used to know a 19 y/o women who treated men her age like dirt, constant disrespect they couldn't do anything to counter. However, she used to roll out the red carpet whenever she saw me. It's a strange experience having them simp after you.
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  829. OK simp
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  830. At least you admit you buy hookers and call it a relationship 😄. Or maybe buying occasional hookers would be cheaper.
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  831. @alexisc7565  Nope, it's got nothing to do with looks. Try again.
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  832. I and many others are involved politically here in the UK to try to reverse the course of direction of so many things in society (ie to scrap woke policies for a start) but our politics and civil life has become completely feminised and run by sentimentality. Even men subscribe to this ethos. Very, very few men are prepared to put their heads above the parapet.
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  833. As an atheist, I actually agree 👍🏻
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  834. Correct, the same as Rich Cooper and others say. It's the West's obsession with money and materialism, and videos like this just feeds women's entitlement. The problem isn't that men are somehow failures for not being gazillionaires for working all hours God sends (for what?) but even if you do it's no guarantee. I know plenty of rich and successful bachelors who have all done what Bo and Rich Cooper advocate. They gave up on women years ago because they refuse to be used. Sure, they could get plenty of girlfriends if they were willing to be with a woman who just took, took, took, but they don't want that. I was advised by a younger female relative to keep quiet to women about my financial status and to not flash it in my lifestyle as it would only attract entitled women who wanted me for my resources and not my personality and wisdom. She believes men should be wanted for what the guys in the beginning of the clip set out. She also knows that's not what women want. In the past I was wanted by women for my sense of humour, personality, and interests. That's vanished. It's now solely about financial resources. Basically as a guy you're a walking ATM.
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  835. Sadly, I sort of figured out women some time ago, then it clicked into place a few months ago. I view the vast majority of them as having a discontinuous or fragmented consciousness. In short, their experiences and thoughts are siloed off from each other. It explains the solipsism and the lack of accountability. You can think of it as a sort of AI that is quite far away from being functionally useful. Sure, provided women can operate within the confines of their silos, they can be and are successful. The problem I see us men having is that we expect women to have an over-arching consciousness that connects the experiences in the silos, but it just doesn't happen. The reason we have to lie to them is because they're ruled by the limbic part of the brain. They're also reliant on dopamine addiction to find attraction in a man. I know what I have to do to get and keep a woman, but it makes me nauseous to think of doing it.
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  836. I go to the gym most days. It's the middle aged and older who talk with each other as we don't have earphones in. A few of the younger guys who work out together also don't have them, and a few guys who work out in their own. So it's possible to chat with people, and many go there for that social element. There's a few thots who turn up in their bras and spray on leggings.
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  837. Yes, but also men are amplifying that by simping after these women and treating them like they're a 10.
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  838. He really isn't
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  839. Women on the apps have no idea they're being lied to. Hell, women in bars have no idea that a guy might be lying to them to get some action from them at her place or in the toilets.
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  840. Agreed, it's another eye opener
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  841. And what undermines that is that women often will ignore that social strata and sleep with the unemployed guy who plays video games all day and maybe has a side hustle to bring in some cash, if he's tall and jacked enough.
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  842. 2:20 "having zero standards, accepting less, treating women like Princesses, not holding them accountable"... That's how the vast majority of men in the UK behave. It's very clear that women discover I'm the first man they've met who doesn't do any of that. It's a huge shock to them. Then they go back to their line of simps to pick out a new one. Worse, it's hard to socialise with these men. I only know one RP guy. Two others are magenta but everyone else I've met is blue. The BP men don't understand why I'm not BP like them.
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  843. 14:00 The problem you've got in S Korea is the 4B movement, where radfems are refusing to get with men or have children because they think it means they become victims of the patriarcjy. Quite simply, S Korea has to take drastic action to eliminate the cancer of gynocentrism.
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  844. Nope, it's not communist to criticise corporatism, which is what he talks about. Here in the UK the marriage rates are crashing for similar reaaons to the US, and financial ones are a big factor. Most unmarried men I know just can't afford the big wedding she thinks she deserves, and she realises she'll be very lucky to meet a guy who's able and willing to afford it. Those sort of men are players who won't marry because they're having toouch fun. Our divorce rates and laws are also stacked in the XX's favour so that's a big financial disincentive.
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  845. 9:00 notice how effeminate Mr Valentine's day marriage guy is
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  846. Women don't date or marry men who lead or expect to
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  847. That's relationships and marriages, folks. If you're not prepared to be a cucked walking ATM at some point, women won't date you.
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  848. You're not married to an attracrive blonde? What do you mean you don't want to? Are you a low T incel? You've got to make at least 6 figures, keep yourself in shape, and then she'll respect you, Bro.
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  849. I can only think of three married/LTR men under 70 who have avoided this fate. Three. I'm lucky that in the past, the women I dated respected that I wasn't beta, but these days, if you're not like this guy, women don't want to know. I'm glad things are going well with your Senorita.
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  850. I'm just wondering how impressive and firm her rack is
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  851. 😂
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  852. ​ @khamiterimat418 She's a troll. Don't feed her.
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  853. "Happy wife, happy life," like the vast majority of married men I know
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  854. Bo is a child, that's why
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  855. I'm your age, I eat very healthily, I work out 5 days a week, I have elite VO2max for my age, very impresive sttength and fitness. I haven't tolerated women's BS or games since my late 20s. I also find that women only tolerate masculinity in 6ft 6in Chad Thunderstroke and would prefer it if he was feminine. For all other men, masculinity is a monumental turnoff. The vast majority of men I see dating are feminine or feminised and talk to women as women do with each other and all Ohmygod emoshunal.
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  856. Yeah, you're not 'dating' them though, are you. You pick them up for a while, bang them for a while, and replace. Then she moves on to the next eggplant. Women 18-23 or so are damn children. It's who I used to have around me when I was in my mid 20s. One very fit 20 y/o gave me the creeps when after seeming like an adult, it turned out she was still into stuffed teddies, dolls, Disney, and all the stuff 12 y/o girls like. I then realised I'd been f--king a 12 y/o girl in an adult body. I had much more in common with older women 30-35.
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  857.  @Rocksteady246  My profile photo is old, as I've now grown out my hair. I'm early 50s and my new barber persuaded me to grow it longer, so it's now uncut since February on top. I don't know if it's a good thing or a bad thing that I'll never go bald and I'm stuck with very thick hair that grows like I've been feeding it fertiliser.
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  858. Because Bo thinks it makes him look cool
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  859. @MFZ0dd  I've done all that since 2018 at 46, for myself, "LMAO" 🙄
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  860. Annndddd another one who thinks that improving oneself magically makes decent women appear out of the woodwork. It doesn't. It brings you to the attention of even more narcissistic entitled 304s than before.
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  861. There really aren't. If you think there are, they're successfully manipulating you. If you think that men are single because they don't get attention, you haven't lived or you're spectacularly naïve.
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  862. If you aren't 6ft 6in Chad Thunderstroke, or you're a Poindexter she can see she can keep on a leash to get her pregnant and keep her in luxury, you better be paying for what is in all but name an escort you keep around for several weeks or months before replacing her for a new model. It's what the very rich unmarried guys have done in the UK for generations.
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  863. You honestly think women his age have a better attitude and are less entitlement and narcissistic 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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  864. Nope, women only date men they can control, use, and emasculate
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  865. Correct
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  866. Same on all counts
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  867. Don't date for long term. They don't want that. Throw your cash around to sugar daddy them for a good time. Even short, ugly guys get women if they do that.
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  868. ​ @Andrew-iq5ud Yep, they sit back and expect to be entertained free of charge and have everything on a platter just for existing.
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  869. Correct, and I cringed at that point. We face a population crisis because women aren't breeding, mainly because they see it beneath them. I suspect only a ground war with major civilian casualties will get them back to being home makers again as well as resetting the economy so families can survive on one wage.
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  870. ​ @alfaisaac024 When you have frame, they run away because they realise they can't control, use, ans emasculate. That's their bare minimum for a relationshit. All but three men I know under, say, 60 have been crushed by their women. One of those three is a sociopath.
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  871. I'm 52, unmarried. That's how it works. What I've found over the decades is that they're leeches, as have bachelor friends of mine. "cHoOsE bEtTeR" - guess what dumbasses, they don't exist any more. There is one woman I know who does reciprocate, but she's marrried.
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  872. ​ @HollAnna Insufferable doesn't equate to 'strong woman'
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  873. Women I meet just don't understand why I don't bothet and haven't since I was forced to attend my 18th birthday dinner with relatives. They, meanwhile, push the boat out. It's a feminine thing, and feminine men also celebrate it.
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  874. ​ @UnstableYT-u7k Yes, those men are being used. They just don't realise it. I know a lot of these men. They don't understand why I'm single and I never married. They try to encourage me to treat women as they in their blue pill world do - as a Princess who gives little back. The funniest thing is that if you're around a lot of married women for a long time, you spot the disloyalty in so many of them, where they act as the sweet docile wife, then when his back is turned or they just put the phone down after a nice chat, they're back in h0rny single woman on a Chippendales night out mode and chase after other men to physically flirt with them, ask him questions about his male junk, ask guys to take their shirts off to stare at their abs and pecs, or flat out proposition guys for an affair. Just because you see two people together and seemingly happy doesn't mean she's not 304ing it behind his back or he's been castrated by her.
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  875. It's no different in the UK. When we had grammar schools (until the late 1960s) there was a mechanism for bright kids from poor backgrounds to get far ahead in life, but they were mostly shut down. Since then it's been much more difficult to get ahead, while the very rich kids have all the connections and everything else given to them to stay at the top regardless of merit. I've met hugely capable people doing nothing other than menial jobs, and people as thick as mince doing highly responsible jobs and failing badly at it, but are unsackable.
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  876. 16:11 'if you're not the alpha simp, move on' - yep. No matter who you are, unless you simp or pretend to, you're worthless.
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  877. But he gives her the tingles most strongly
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  878. Having more going on than is easy - they've added up to me coming across as a CEO, though I'm not one, because of who I have to mix with, the professional impression I have to give to my prominent peer group, existing and potential new clients, and now as a regional organiser for a national political group. I have to carry myself as a high calibre man else those I deal with would very quickly and easily call my bluff and lose their confidence. It would be game over for me. This is how I carry myself everywhere, because I can't afford to not drop that appearance, and neither can any of them. But to women, it's pretty much meaningless unless I'm prepared to simp after and pedestalise women far below me in status. Looks wise, after I started to hit the gym 5 years ago, I'm in great physical shape, I'm well dressed and well groomed, because of the above, but again, women below me in looks, appearance, figure/weight, dress and grooming think they're superior. Women in the 90s treated me very well, and they were all very attractive, slim, intelligent, agreeable, and so on. And that was when I had a fraction of the status I enjoy today and thus very little to project onto the world.
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  879. ​ @smithsmith1956 I'll have to look up thespeechprofessor
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  880. Height means nothing, neither does how handsome you are, how rich or successful, how good a physique, how well socialised, how well groomed and a good dress sense, how well travelled, how much you get on with your nephews and nieces, it means nothing. The only thing that does is if you allow her to take, take, take. If you have a backbone and you set boundaries, and you expect reciprocation and you don't tolerate their games or BS, they're off. No matter how high your status is, if you're not prepared to let her have her own way all the time, they're off.
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  881. 14:30 'The only way to get the pin up model is to compete' 😄 utter BS. Yeah, I guess men can turn back time and choose different parents to create them, so they're 6ft 6in Chad Thunderschlong with chiselled abs and a lantern jaw. I know men like that. They can't find a woman anywhere who doesn't use them.
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  882. No way on God's green earth is he an alpha. I encounter children like this all the time, and they're all little submissive weasels who scurry around, submissive to most other men.
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  883.  @ikecreates  lol, welcome to the real world over here. That's what bappens, "lol".
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  884. Oh BTW, you're too naïve to spot that she was looking for a new branch to swing to, or she was looking to recruit a new orbiter. The latter is very common from married/taken women.
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  885. Nice girls to date don't exist. Only simps date. Any guy who thinks nice girls to date exist is being manipulated to think that.
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  886. Oh boy, this guy is soy and typical of early 20s low T 'men' here in the UK
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  887. It's because Bo contradicts himelf to appear 'clever'
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  888. Same here, but he's typical of 'men' around his age here in the UK and typicsl of the sort of guy women look for
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  889. They're cheaper than a wife
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  890. Nope, that causes them to run away out of your life screaming that you're toxic, abusive, and you get blocked. You never hear from them again, and if you ever see them around, they'll stare at with you hatred and disgust that the peasant dared stand up to the Queen. The only guys here in the UK who have female company are the ones who simp or pretend to, and either are or pretend to be a soft, modern, feminine 'guy'.
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  891. I'm older than you, never married, do very little with women even when they come on to me. I know they're lying to me, and I know the lies they expect me to say, and for me to have a false personality. It's not 'charm' they want but the fantasy that the guy is being feminine or is mirroring her femininity - so you have to be or pretend to be feminine and overload them with that feminine energy. Women also have to think she's always going to be the one in charge, that she can control, use, and emasculate. All that has made me feel sick for the past 25 years. I could tolerate doing it until I was 27 or so when I realised I wasn't dealing with a human but with a primitive machine. That's when I learned to pity them and I had to manipulate them from destroying my life, by keeping them out of it.
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  892. 🤣 Hilarious. Women most definitely don't want masculinity, muscular, confidence, presence, or dominance. If they did, such men would be dating, but they don't, unless he's 6ft 6in Chad Thunderstroke or an immensely rich sugar daddy. The vast, vast majority of men who date and who get women are either soft and feminine (like this guy) or they pretend to be. Over 30 years ago I had a college friend who was very much like Dylan Mulvaney. He met a woman in our year, 19, and for her it was love at first sight. They went on to have a very physical relationship, which she was completely in charge of. I don't recall them splitting up. I've met dozens upon dozens of manginas like that since who were dating strings of women even though they had the masculinity of a week old lettuce. I also used to know an older divorces guy who was essentially a tall and fat 9 y/o boy and just as submissive around masculine men. He too had strings of dates and girlfriends before meeting his now wife. I declined the wedding invite as that marriage is a farce. She married a weak little boy in a man's body, body women in our group all loved him because he was the group Sir Simpalot and free court jester.
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  893. He's a little boy grifter
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  894. Brilliant. I did much the same, from 98.6kg in late 2018 to 60kg in March 2020. I'm now up to 80kg from increased muscle mass.
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  895. There's a woman I know in her early 30s who was quite chubby after she had her only child 11 years ago. She lost the fat over the years and now she's pretty athletic with a flat stomach. She did it through sheer hard work. Another I know in her mid 40s lost a lot of fat the same way from being clinically obese to athletic. Both have that same iron will.
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  896.  @stonedsour9140  Yes, I am. I'm doing pretty much all the things that Bo set out a few weeks ago in his challenge, and have since 2019 or so. I'm prepping for a meeting in August with like-minded political people where I intend to make a splash with some of my ideas to progress. I know a few of them online, and it seems we're in the early stages of putting something concrete together. Hence why I've reprioritised my reading list.
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  897. 22:50 Anyone who thinks that people die surrounded by loving family has been watching too many Disney movies. If you've spent any time around nursing homes and hospitals, you'll see that it's very rare. Keep taking the copium pills.
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  898. Girls start using TikTok at 8 and by 10 they've been uploading raunchy dance routines for a while. How do I know? A guy I know sometimes uploads his daughter's TT to Facebook and worries what he's created. Yes, a future Thot.
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  899. I mean, I'm 51 and I think he's hilarious for how far odf he is
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  900. It doesn't magic decent women out of the woodwork. It just exposes you to even more entitled degenerates than before.
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  901. I can assure you it doesn't magic decent women out of thin air. It just exposes you to even more damaged 304s than it did before.
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  902.  @SL-lb6lz  'Dude' (seriously, are you even in the UK or did border security let you in?), yes, I get girls, thanks. Why, don't you? Let's say that I found out that several have a big crush on me based on how they react and fall over themselves. And no, they don't see me as a grandpa as I'm nowhere near old enough. I think you need Specsacers, that's a chain of opticians we have over here. Any more Beavis and Butthead mannerisms you want to share?
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  903.  @SL-lb6lz  Nope, it's also what men around their age and a little older tell me. Try again.
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  904. Here in the UK I find the opposite. 18-21 are the sane ones compared to older women. They're actually nice to talk to and don't have attitude and generally know how to behave. Over 25 it's a different story.
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  905. Even if you're in the top 5% it still doesn't magic decent women out of thin air. I get to meet plenty and they're all addicted to social media, they have the same type of frenemies, they're all corrupted. Even if she treats you well and the bottom 95% of men as toys to boost her ego with, that still makes her undatable. The only use men in the top 5% have for women is short term lease. Keep them around for a while then get rid when they get a problem. Rinse and repeat. There's nothing in a LTR for any men. The sad thing is, as you get older, you get the attention of more and more much younger married women, often married to rich, successful men. Yet they still want an older guy for a fling with.
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  906. I'm not an inkwell, nor are many of the other men calling out his BS
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  907. It goes back to at leasr the 60s with the Beatles. You've probably noticed 'Beautiful Things' in the current charts: "And I hold you every night And that's a feeling I wanna get used to But there's no man as terrified As the man who stands to lose you Oh, I hope I don't lose you Mm Please stay I want you, I need you, oh God Don't take These beautiful things that I've got" Of course women like that. He's a rock star who's begging a woman to not leave. That's distilled catnip for women, and they expect all men to behave the same, and I've met so many men who do, and who don't understand why I don't.
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  908.  @Jdb63  It's from having watched many of his videos and from being quite a bit older than that child
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  909. Because he's a bullshitter trying to deflect his anger issues
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  910. 'You need to be a Jeebus freak and have an imaginary fren and clap cymbals together like the mechanical monkey in Homer's head because you must be a blue pilled emasculated thing in order to not die alone.' Someone give him some testosterone, please
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  911. Read "Why American Women Are Undatable No One Wants to Play with a Porcupine Mark McDonald, M.D. Dec 22, 2022"
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  912. 9:30 Situationships is what women expect. Even in marriages. She happens to be in a situationship with her husband.
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  913. Social media use, women in their 30s, 40s, 50s are no different. There's a married woman in her late 30s (one of several) chasing me, and I found her online. Close on 600 friends. And when I see her, she's glued to her phone. Similarly a woman in her early 30s on reception is glued to it when not dealing with customers and posts thirst trap photos all the time for her hundreds of FB and IG followers.
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  914. My experience of churches over the decades is that they're a massive swinger's club
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  915. Ah, the whataboutery because the video is rather too close to the bone. You know, you could have held your hand up and say, yes, women have significant issues to address, but nope, head in sand and whataboutery. Back to the kitchen and stop whining you useless XX.
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  916. 12:25 'made men more feminine' - I'm in a sea of feminine men, and it's only those men who women date.
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  917. And when sky daddy doesn't give them thr results they wanted, they make excuses for it. The mental gymnastics are hilarious.
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  918. It's a cope because it's a useful way of deflecting agency by saying that Sky Daddy is in charge of their actions. I've seen tbat so many times from the god botherers. It's also a shield for a weak mind against many uncomfortable questions or realities, by again deflecting to sky daddy.
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  919. All men pay for it in one form or another
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  920. All men pay in one way or another. Women expect to be bought.
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  921. 11:00 yep, that's how nearly every woman I've met over the past 20 years behaved. No to and fro in conversation, they just expect to be entertained.
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  922. 20:20 an appreciating asset in my life? I'm more likely to bump into Lord Lucan riding a unicorn that's being led by a Saskwatch.
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  923. Guess what, dating is legalised prostetewshun. How to get plenty of dates: show women you have a very expensive lifestyle of hobbies and inviite her in, free of charge, like to your boat in the marina, to your livery stables, or taking your supercar regularly on track days. It's the experience she wants, and can brag about it to her frenemies, not your personality. If you've that sort of life and want a woman in it, be prepared to have a parasite that's only there for the free experience, not because she likes the guy that much.
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  924. Women will do anything except be accountable
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  925. Phone calls are OK but I much, much prefer to talk to people in their physical presence because of all the non-verbal communication that takes place. Sure, I'll have lengthy calls with my peer group and develop relationships with people I'm assisting in their research so they become our allies, same way my elderly boss does with her network of contacts. But nothing replaces physical contact conversation. Other than that the phone saps too much time in inane chatter.
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  926. It's not lies, mate. We've known for decades that they don't integrate. We've known for decades that multiculturalism doesn't work and leads to low trust societies and higher crime. We've known for decades that 82% of grooming gangs here are Pakistani migrants. It's fucking not ' waaaaaycism' you clown.
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  927. Well, 20% of the electorate voted them into government
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  928. This is pretty normal over here
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  929. ​ @catnapgee5357 Except there is. I'm guessing you've been vaxxed? As this is the sort of thing I kept hearing from them, in an attempt to justify to themsslves their decision to take the juice. Meanwhile, I won't suffer any potential ADEs.
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  930. Viva Israel 🇮🇱 and god bless Jews
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  931. @BM_100  I'm a man. I've never dated men, only women.
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  932.  @WinstonOnBoard  🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂 Oh lordy, how do I find something that doesn't exist? In 25 years, I've only met 2 women who didn't attempt control, use, and emasculate me. The other 2 just tried to play games like pathetic 12 year old girls. Tell me, where do these mythical unicorns exist?
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  933. Same. What little my father taught me was blue pilled Disney crap and naturally he had been crushed by mother.
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  934. Nope, the oposite
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  935. Hint: they're using you as they see you as their sugar daddy. I'm 52 and train for 90 min 5 days a week, for the past 6 years. I've elite cardio for my age and look to be stronger than 95% of men, and only exceeded by most guys in their 20s. I dress well. I'm quite a lot like Ron Swanson in terms of character. Women I meet all assume they can control, use, and emasculate me. When they discover they can't, they drift away. Much of the attention comes from women 19 to 23, and I see their eyes light up when they see the labels on some of my clothes. It's very clear when they come on to me that theyre looking for a sugar daddy. I'm not prepared to do that, though it's offered to me. Here in the UK, only simps, feminine men and men who are prepared to be used are the ones who date.
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  936. 😂 I hope she sees this, bro
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