Comments by "Richard Jones" (@EE12CSVT) on "Legion Of Men"
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They are, and sadly Bo just enables it all. He's giving men the message that they have to tolerate all this crap, play these stupid games, pander to these wretched train wreck women. Because, guess what, in the past, dating was fun, light, carefree, enjoyable. Now, your cortisol levels are through the roof because apparently we have to 'handle' women we should be running away from faster than Usain Bolt.
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Correct. The trouble is, being masculine, having a solid ftame, having boundaries and not afraid of enforcing them drives women away. Sure, it's initially attractive because they see you as confident, competent, dominant, but they assume they're going to be able to break it and that you'll let them. Once they discover that you don't, they lose interest very quickly. I'm lucky that I have three female friends who respect my masculinity and don't expect me to be feminine around them or that I'll be feminised. One of these women is very much on my case and falls into line if I disagree with her on something I want to do. The other two are more distant but didn't try to feminise me or expect me to relate to them as a woman does.
Other women I know are acquaintances because they didn't like that I wasn't going to be feminine around them. I've met ao many women who I've initially attracted who then drifted off fairly soon because they too recognised I don't simp, pedestalise, nor do I emasculate, nor do I give them feminine emotional energy as I talk to them. But what I notice is that plenty of men talk to women (sometines the same ones I've driven away) in that feminine way, as women do, and with that emotion, and women love it. As other guys have said in the comments here, women want feminised men, or men who talk to them as women do. It's very, very rare to find a woman who hangs around you over time and respects your masculinity and doesn't expect you to be feminine. It's a great feeling when you've got a woman like that around you, who knows what masculinity is, will automatically follow your lead, and doesn't see the need to challenge your frame.
As far as hanging around with men, the vast majority have been feminised, including the tall, well built men. I've found for several years that it's very eaay to be the most dominant guy in nearly every situation, or to take over as that guy, that men automatically give me respect, or if I meet someone else on my level, we give each other a head nod of recognition and we won't challenge each other. But there's only one guy in my area who I talk to regularly and I don't regard him as being a feminised man, and he knows it, because he sees the legions of feminised men around him as I do around me. We're the odd ones out, and why we get on. It's sad.
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Same in UK. A few friends of mine are bachelors, and they socialise a lot in a big town. They've given up on women because they can't find any who take, take, take. It doesn't matter how rich and successful you are, how tall, handsome, well dressed, well groomed, well travelled, well socialised, how good you are with children, it means nothing. You still get used.
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5ft 8in, 51 y/o, 185 lb, no idea about BF but I've excellent muscle definition, flat stomach, V taper, a chiselled back and shoulders, belt of adonis coming along nicely, broad chest and shoulders, so I'm going the way of Daniel Craig in Casino Royale.
Most of the attentiom I get is from much younger married women. They treat me well. Single women like the eye candy but don't stop playing games. The other group of women who are good to me and lay out the red carpet are in their late teens/early 20s. Very attentive.
Fit men in their mid to late 20s also come on to me, but that's another story.
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When I bothered to have relationships or affairs way back in the mists of time, I didn't mind having control over most of what went on. I'd never close off the woman completely, but she understood her role was for me to provide that masculine leadership for most of the time and in most circumstances. It didn't burden me to do it, and I didn't regard her as a passive object that was dragging around. I could trust her to be capable and competent on aspects of her life, but when she was with me, she trusted me to be able to make the decisions and the leadership. It was the same in various jobs I'd had at the time, and since, where my bosses would have to delegate responsibility to me and they'd allow me to have a huge amount of agency to Get Things Done, which I did. And I'd have various staff under me whom I'd delegate tasks to or they were others who knew they had to do whatever I told them.
But these days, women flag out refuse to allow the man to lead. I can only think of three marriages of couples under 60 where the man leads. In all the others, he's that passive guy she's dragging around, not because he doesn't or didn't know how to, it's because the woman flat out refuses to relinquish any power, as it means patriarchal oppression, she's his slave etc etc.
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Thinking back to my relatives here in rural UK, my uncles would be something like a caretaker, forestry man, water engineer, drive a road sweeper, that sort of thing. They might live in a modest house in a small town or in the countryside. The wife would be a SAHM, stay at home all the time to raise them, then send the kids to school (they might walk in those days), then if she had a job, she'd work in a newsagent or small shop. She'd leave ready to meet the kids from school if not walk to meet them. Same with the other families they knew. She'd then prepare the meals, and do the cleaning and laundry. He'd get home sometime before 6 to a hot meal. Those were solid marriages with no divorces or infidelity.
Today, she's expected to hold down a full time job on top of trying to get young kids to school, picking them up, and if they get ill, she has to take time off. I've worked with married women who struggle to do all this and they have to call in all sorts of favours from their parents or even neighbours to help out. It's a mess they have to spend so much energy managing.
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