Comments by "Richard Jones" (@EE12CSVT) on "Legion Of Men"
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Self employment? Ha, around here unless you're an electrician or plumber, it's not well paid. Very little demand for carpenters. Some demand for agricultural contractors, but again not well paid. Most of the self employed jobs in my region are at the bottom end, because there aren't numerous employers here other than the public sector. Hence why it's most people's dream to get a job in the council as it's secure, comparatively well paid, and has a pension scheme. The private sector is much smaller in comparison and pays less on average than the public sector. Wages here are something like 80% of the UK average. In other parts of the UK the salaries are even lower. Thus most of the self employed are scrabbling around in the dirt to find something to pay the colossal bills here, even if it works out less than minimum wage after many years. What you describe as people sat with cameras and laptops for their self employed job would be laughable here. The economy here is mostly poor people trying to exchange money with other poor people for low skilled basic tasks as that's all the economy will support. What is flourishing is self employed parcel delivery drivers, using their own battered cars, working 14 hours a day for sh1t pay, with no guaranteed hours. 'Follow your passion' is great in an expanding economy in an area where people and companies have money to spend. SMEs are slashing expenditure, if not going bankrupt. Business confidence - by various metrics - is plummeting. I guess a growth industry will be debt recovery agents.
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They are, and sadly Bo just enables it all. He's giving men the message that they have to tolerate all this crap, play these stupid games, pander to these wretched train wreck women. Because, guess what, in the past, dating was fun, light, carefree, enjoyable. Now, your cortisol levels are through the roof because apparently we have to 'handle' women we should be running away from faster than Usain Bolt.
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5ft 8in, 51 y/o, 185 lb, no idea about BF but I've excellent muscle definition, flat stomach, V taper, a chiselled back and shoulders, belt of adonis coming along nicely, broad chest and shoulders, so I'm going the way of Daniel Craig in Casino Royale.
Most of the attentiom I get is from much younger married women. They treat me well. Single women like the eye candy but don't stop playing games. The other group of women who are good to me and lay out the red carpet are in their late teens/early 20s. Very attentive.
Fit men in their mid to late 20s also come on to me, but that's another story.
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Correct. The trouble is, being masculine, having a solid ftame, having boundaries and not afraid of enforcing them drives women away. Sure, it's initially attractive because they see you as confident, competent, dominant, but they assume they're going to be able to break it and that you'll let them. Once they discover that you don't, they lose interest very quickly. I'm lucky that I have three female friends who respect my masculinity and don't expect me to be feminine around them or that I'll be feminised. One of these women is very much on my case and falls into line if I disagree with her on something I want to do. The other two are more distant but didn't try to feminise me or expect me to relate to them as a woman does.
Other women I know are acquaintances because they didn't like that I wasn't going to be feminine around them. I've met ao many women who I've initially attracted who then drifted off fairly soon because they too recognised I don't simp, pedestalise, nor do I emasculate, nor do I give them feminine emotional energy as I talk to them. But what I notice is that plenty of men talk to women (sometines the same ones I've driven away) in that feminine way, as women do, and with that emotion, and women love it. As other guys have said in the comments here, women want feminised men, or men who talk to them as women do. It's very, very rare to find a woman who hangs around you over time and respects your masculinity and doesn't expect you to be feminine. It's a great feeling when you've got a woman like that around you, who knows what masculinity is, will automatically follow your lead, and doesn't see the need to challenge your frame.
As far as hanging around with men, the vast majority have been feminised, including the tall, well built men. I've found for several years that it's very eaay to be the most dominant guy in nearly every situation, or to take over as that guy, that men automatically give me respect, or if I meet someone else on my level, we give each other a head nod of recognition and we won't challenge each other. But there's only one guy in my area who I talk to regularly and I don't regard him as being a feminised man, and he knows it, because he sees the legions of feminised men around him as I do around me. We're the odd ones out, and why we get on. It's sad.
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I lost nearly 40kg in weight in around a year in my late 40s and now at 50 I'm pretty jacked, and visible muscular with great tone. It's brought me a lot of respect from men for having done it, but no enjoyment of people's company because I can see the web of manipulation and identify when people try to BS me as they successfully do other people. The people I do enjoy spending time with are very senior or retired academics, purely because they're honest and don't try any of these insincere tricks with each other, nor with me, and they have excellent morals. But they're the exceptions in life, sadly, and they only tend to mix among their own as well for the same reasons – they isolate themselves from the cesspit that is human nature. If people didn't attempt to manipulate me or others, didn't attempt to BS me, had integrity and honour, and could speak by being able to string together a coherent sentence, and the men hadn't been crushed by their wives because they had a backbone, then yes, I'd probably enjoy socialising. But I've tried many times over the decades and give up because the nausea becomes overwhelming after a while. It just doesn't improve my life.
Getting jacked also has turned out to be a curse regarding women because of the attention it brings. It's unpleasant, because of their conduct, and I have to spend effort to eject them from my life.
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