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I have to say this is one of the best “frugal” living posts I’ve seen so far. Most of the ones I’ve come across talk about buying cheap food (unhealthy full of chemicals and preservatives), and giving up basically everything (no car, no entertaining, etc). For me, being frugal is about making smart choices and setting your priorities straight. I watch what I spend, keep a spreadsheet budget, shop sales, use coupons, and refuse to follow trend. I select healthy and fresh foods, make A LOT from scratch (both good and hygiene items), and love to get together with family and friends at our homes. Every once in a while I do fun activities outdoors, but try to find ways to save by using coupons or rebates for example. When I travel, I purchase my plane tickets with frequent flyer miles I accumulate throughout the year, so my personal trips are all very cheap. Over the summer I flew to Europe from the US, round trip for $70.00!!! There are so many ways to stay on budget and still enjoy life.
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One of the biggest financial mistakes anyone can make is not taking care of their health, especially if you live in the US. (because of our insurance system). As a retired nurse, I can say that most of my patients had either completely preventable health issues or issues that could have been mitigated by simply eating unprocessed whole foods, regularly exercising, not smoking or drinking, getting enough sleep, and adopting other healthy lifestyle habits.
The cost of treating the effects of being overweight and not doing the things I mentioned above are astronomical, yet many refuse to do them. I can't tell you how many people I talked to who were in denial about the toll bad health habits was taking on them. You may have good vital signs, labs results, ect for awhile if you are not taking care of yourself, but I guarantee it will catch up to you and nothing will drain your bank account like medical bills.
I understand that not everything is in our control and some illness is not preventable, but so much is in your control and is your responsibility to take care of.
Please, if you want to be financially secure, TAKE CARE OF YOUR HEALTH.
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57 year old ER doctor. Like so many of my colleagues, I pursued medicine because of my passion for science, medicine, fascination about the human body, and wanting to help my fellow humans. Fast forward 20 years, and like all of my colleagues, I am pretty miserable. Medicine is not what it used to be and it has become such a miserable, high pressure grind. When I walk out of the hospital, the last thing I want to do is read about medicine, disease, etc. And 20 years of working on the front lines of our society in the ER has, well, frankly tarnished my love of my fellow humans. Nowadays, I look forward to my precious alone time and the time I have to immerse myself in my hobbies like language learning, fitness, guitar, and quiet time with my beloved dog. But at least it does pay well and I will be able to retire comfortably in a few more years. Thanks Nicole…great video and great topic. You nailed it.
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As a fairly newly retired person. I think working for other people, period, can be a big scam. Many of my positions in my work life were for a university. The benefits were great, yes, but the salary schedule was fixed and really far below market value for my skills. Also working in the non-profit sector, which was my preference, was unfortunately on the lower end of the pay scale. Doing something good is never appreciated in the way that earning a shitton of money for a corporation is . . . sigh. Now that I am retired, I have confirmed to myself that time is truly worth more than money to me, any day. I am happy to work on my art and spend my time my way, without answering to anyone for it. Hallelujah. BTW, I retired without a nest egg and am mostly living on social security and my freelance graphic design work, and art sales when they happen. Another scam to me is all these you tube videos that scare the shit out of people saying you will never have enough to retire. If you want something bad enough, in my experience, you will find a way to make it happen. Love your videos and look forward to them every Sunday!
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I could not resist asking Siri the cheap vs. frugal question just to see what it would say. 🤣I also reuse aluminum foil and parchment paper, price match, wait for items to go on sale, coupon search, do laundry before 7 a.m. weekdays or on the weekend because of the rate change during peak times, make my own almond milk, hummus, nut butters, cleaning supplies, air dry most of my clothing, stick to a classic style wardrobe, utilize the library instead of buying books, only use streaming services during the trial periods and walk anywhere that I do not have to drive to save on gas.
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Also, you really sell yourself short. You "might only have a high school diploma," but you are one of the smartest, down-to-earth, honest people I've ever come across!
I have an Associate's Degree (2 years), and I am now doing something related, but not my major, and I believe college is a scam for anything OTHER THAN Medicine, Law, Engineering, and Science degrees. Basically, if you're not going into a Law or STEM career, why are they trying to force college on people?
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The destruction of the third place is intentional and malicious.
The most dangerous thing for the ruling class is for the people to congregate and start talking to each other. coffee shops played a large role in fueling the French Revolution - people of different classes mixed, forming bonds of kinship, had an opportunity to see their similarities, complain about taxes, and eventually organize.
I went to a coffee shop every day for 12 years. It had been a gathering place for at least 40 years. Every day by 3 PM there would be a cloud of smoke and several groups of people that would intermingle, drifting from one table to another. It was a tempting place to stop for strangers walking out of the adjacent movie theater. They were open till 2 - perfect for people leaving the adjacent bar to sober up before going home.
Around 2012 that shopping center was bought by an out of state real estate company who raised the rent, built a chain coffee shop in the middle of the parking lot, and sneaked into city hall to pass a smoking ban that was only enforced at this shopping center. The tone changed over night and the vibe was dead; by 2014 there was no significant population of regulars. I spent the next couple years exploring public gathering places. As a home health nurse I spent A LOT of time working on my computer in random places so I had daily opportunities to loiter in public for hours (before covid).
Maybe there's some dive bars that survived the last decade, IDK, I don't drink, and couldn't afford to drink at bars if I did.
Maybe there's some active church communities that survived the last decade, IDK, I'm not religious.
But I know for a fact that in the south silicon valley, there are no secular, class heterogeneous third places to just loiter at and meet strangers.
I used to think this loss of third places was wholly a product of social anxiety's cure - social media. But as I become more politically educated I can't help but notice how devastatingly powerful this loss is for the ruling class. We may have been nudged towards isolation by the inevitability of technology, but public policy pushed to guarantee our isolation. I'm not claiming a huge organized conspiracy. Just a thousand little cuts - a real estate company here, a starbucks there, a news report about how unsafe we are, an anti-ergonomic bench placed by a city to move the homeless. Like Carlin says - there's no need for conspiracy when interests of the powerful converge. The opportunity to live a full human experience and connect to our community has been stolen in order to protect the status quo and keep people out of public unless they're rich enough to drop $100 minimum on a night out.
Because I promise you - if you are so poor that you need to consider the value of $100 for a couple of hours on the town, then your interests are 100% counter to those who make the decisions; you are dangerous and can not be allowed to congregate.
PS - one venue that seems to have survived is Vietnamese coffee shops. I didn't know this was a thing! The baristas wear bikinis and serve middle aged guys playing card/dominoes as they watch sports on TVs that cover every inch of the walls. If only they spoke English and played Magic: The Gathering I might still have a reason to leave the house :(
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I was the “perfect” daughter, student, worker, etc my whole life, until one day, at the age of 45 😱 I realized that I will only live once and that one life I was living was very fast coming to an end. Then, I decided to say YES to all and any adventurous offer I received that year, so I had my first tatoo, I smoked pot, I paid for a mammal reduction that changed my body to the best I had have in years, I traveled, I kissed every men that wanted to kiss me, I learned to paint and had a a lot of fun. For the first time in 45 years I allowed me to start living without double checking my decisions and regretting about doing things that I considered as irresponsibilities before.
Happy birthday Nicole!! I am so happy you had this realization when you are so young.
Now Im 50 and living my best life. Im still a hard worker, a good person and a responsible woman, but now I allow myself to feel free and happy every day. Equilibrium is the word I was missing in my vocabulary.
Hope you find it and feel better soon!! ❤
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Hi, I’m a Boomer from the PNW (🇨🇦). I’m a high school sewing teacher, and am also WFPB and, like you, I spend a lot of time at home. I live with my partner in the northern wilderness and we have a simple life. Although we are not minimalists, we are conscious consumers and are very money-aware and planet-conscious. I stumbled across your channel recently and have been binge watching your vids and loving them. I love the Canadian content and your intelligent perspective. I think the main take-away that I get from your videos is the concept of making priorities and being extremely mindful of one’s spending habits. In today’s video you asked what we spend our money on? Well, everyone is different and we all have unique hobbies and life interests. Because I have had 6 orthopaedic surgeries on my body, I am no longer a PE teacher and my days as an athlete and coach are behind me. That said, my three main hobbies are plant-based cooking and baking from scratch, wild swimming (the lake is near my house, it is free, and much more healthy to swim in than a pool), AND… skill toys. Yes, you read that correctly… skill toys which, for me, predominantly include yoyo and kendama, as well as knuckle bones and begleri. YoWzA… as with most hobbies, one has to be careful to purchase items that will fuel their passion and advance their skill set, and not get caught up in the mindset of “building a collection”. Thanks for asking about this. Tbh, most people are completely shocked to hear of a middle-aged woman who plays with skill toys but that’s my passion!! Additionally, skill toys align with my values since they build skills, and are affordable, portable, not reliant on tech or batteries, and they are a great way to interact with others who are curious. Lastly, I was stoked when I watched one of your recent videos where you mentioned you were into Lego!! I friggin’ love that! Have a great Long Weekend and thanks for making these thought provoking videos. Ⓜaryo🪀
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Right and remember folks corporations are ruthless leaches, except for the upper management, When working hard and giving 110% effort, they will want 200% and it never ends, so Never ever give them your full knowledge and effort. Also HR is not your friends, They have to ensure the company's best interest above all. Not very many cushy jobs remain, except for Government jobs, and even @ the Gvrmnt level you see the most incompetent ppl on top. It's who you know, especially in Canada! I gave up on those mega-corps long time ago and doing my own thing now.
A good side-hustle and smart investments will get you further, quicker and in relative peace. It may mean hard work, but you will manage your own time and most importantly you can avoid the A-holes with ease. Nothing worst than going to work every morning to a place where there is a lot of resentment, tension and favoritism. Companies will want you whenever it's convenient for them or their consumers and care lill about your personal availability. Remember the time you spend at work, making someone else rich is time you will never get back, ever! Just my 2 cents, Thanks Nicole
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I think with age things do change a bit. Guys are still largely the same with their friends, but they have also learned (the hard way) that their female friends are not necessarily romantic or sexual potentials. This doesn't change the fact that they might still harbor "feelings", but they are perhaps more cautious about acting on them. This is not true in all cases, of course. But I do think it is a problem that men fall into thinking that an open friendly environment means that probably something more than friendship is happening and will begin to put out feelers, which can be uncomfortable. Also, I think that, particularly men in long term relationships that are not as exciting as a new relationship, will turn to other women for understanding...like we all need from friends. And it becomes so confusing because suddenly his partner feels less and less like his "best" friend to him, and the new female begins to take that place in his head. Boundaries get blurred and friendship feelings become conflated with romantic feelings. I mean, in toxic masculinity in the deepest sense guys who DO hug their guy friends might be called the dreaded "gay", which is obviously conflating friendly affection with sexual desire.
And I agree with you that, contrary to the popular narrative, this hurts men as much, or sometimes more, than it does women. We at least can get emotional support when our worlds are confusing.
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As a natural big spender and maximalist like me, I became inspired by minimalism a couple of years ago. I threw a lot of stuff out, sold them, gave things away. And I'm still looking around how to declutter some areas in our house. But........... but........ there is one thing I would like to say what I read once and what really resonates with me and that is (some) stuff can makes you happy. If you're working hard, it is can give you a good feeling to spend it on something you really want, and which makes your life much more pleasant. I am sketching and I have the most high quality paint while I'm still not good at it and still never made really progress. But that's okay. It's okay to treat yourself right if you (think you) earned it. And with a family life I love to have some happy clutter here and there. It makes it cozy home which I never had myself when I was young. And with my changing personality and thousand and one hobby's I have, I simply cannot downsize cause sometimes I have a project in mind, and then I'm digging into old stuff I kept for years which comes really handy at that moment. So for me, minimalism inspires me a lot to get rid of unwanted stuff which keeps your mind in a constant chaos and I can be inspired by videos like yours but also sometimes (guilty pleasure) I watch also videos about people with the diogenes syndrome to let it be a warning never to become like them! And a little note: your videos made me to want to give my dying Youtube channel a new life and two days ago I made my first silent vlog about my life in France and I'm so happy that I did it. You have no idea that you put me in the right direction and I would like to thank you for that and also having responded to my email and being totally honest! Cause I tried to experiment to talk like you in front of the camera but however I can be a good public speaker, in the absence of an audience to interact with and to react, I was having a hard time and it was not pleasant to watch myself speaking. So I decided to make simply videos about my life, because that is what I want to share through visuals and not by talking anymore. It is great to have this community and to be inspired and to support each other! You go Nicole! I love your videos.
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1. Lattes / local businesses
I literally piss away money on lattes! However, I consider this to be an investment in my mental health and my neighborhood. I work from home, and escaping to the local, independent coffee shop is my chance to read, relax, and connect with other shop regulars. This was a daily habit, but I cut back to the odd weekday and weekends. My favorite local coffee shop has a garden (open as weather permits), and if the cost of admission is a latte, I am happy to pay it.
2. Personal care
Massages - I have a monthly massage membership, which gives me access to a monthly massage at a discounted price. This serves my physical and mental health.
Sunscreen - I no longer buy loads of skincare and makeup, but the one area in which I spend more freely is sunscreen. I cannot tolerate "chemical" sunscreens, and too many physical ones impart a pasty zinc face would have charmed a 20-something Goth me, but I'd rather have a mineral sunscreen that blends a bit better. I pay a bit more (but look for sales) on "cosmetically elegant" sunscreen.
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I think back to my once big credit card bills and what I had to show for them and to this day, can only think of very few things I spent a lot of money on that was worth it. Most of it was shit I didn't need and well, I don't remember what it was, so it wasn't important in my life. I cut out so much and am so much happier for it. I am going to keep my cars for as long as I can, and I think that can be many many more years if I take care of them. The new cars are not only too expensive, but they have too many bells and whistles that can go wrong for my liking. Cars are just insanely expensive and so are cosmetics. Wtf. I went into a very nice box store that sells everything cosmetic, looking for lipstick. The one I thought I liked was $35.00. There were some for even more than that, one tube of lipstick. I ended up at the Dollar store (now buck and a quarter store). I didn't find the exact color I wanted, but for a buck fifty, it will do. Anyway, home cooked meals are best, not only cheaper but you control the ingredients. Some of the food you buy today has a shelf like of...several years.
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i am definitely "your people".. tho i am much older, my life and living philosophy has mirrored yours- (i even lived in your city for a few years back in the 90's).. if i may, some advice, if you want to guarantee future income, concentrate on number 4- but yes, first you need to earn actively before earning passively, and the one way to guarantee that is to stay where you are..a place like Toronto will never run dry of ways to make active income, if it did, that would mean everything's gone to shit and it wouldnt matter anyhow.. when you are able to live anywhere you wish, without money worries, that is when you've made it- according to our philosophy..
love your vids..
thanks Nicole
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History Note: Even tho there were challenges, women have ALWAYS worked throughout human history! It’s just we weren’t allowed or were discouraged from working lucrative trades that men worked (doctor, lawyer, banker, etc.) but there were hardworking women in many jobs and even successful businesswomen. My great grandma worked in a WWII bomb factory and post war became a manager at a facility (not the propaganda ideal 1950s stay at home mom). Women worked as maidservants/scullerymaids, farmers, in factories, textiles/seamstresses, teachers, nurses, secretaries, writers (tho sometimes anonymous to hide that they were a woman) and gross poverty jobs like picking up poop to give to tanners.
Yes there were laws/restrictions at a point in history on credit cards and bank accounts… but that didn’t stop us! Women always found a way to make money and tuck it away “F you to the system.” I’m the first lawyer in my family and am kind of a history nerd esp with the often untaught history of peasants and women :)
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I think that the educational system doesn't teach many people about finances because if they were truthful about most economic structures, it would lead to lot of people being very angry and very disillusioned with the project of the US/Capitalism as a whole.
Home ownership isn't "impossible" for most, but the real reasons it has become more difficult over time are connected to the reason we lack financial education that teaches us to manage finances.
(For reference -- I too was in a similar situation, and was able to accrue a six figure net worth by 25 after being in college debt of about 32k. I saved 80 percent of my income and started a relatively high income job at 23).
Creditors always benefit from debtors.
What benefit do the people in power have in empowering and essentially enfranchising more and more people?
I hate to be so cynical, but as I looked back and became more educated, it becomes obscenely evident that it's at least somewhat on purpose -- or at the least it's an organic outgrowth of the assumptions and behaviors of the system at higher levels.
College in particular is an income-gated, bank-owned enterprise now that essentially tells most young people to take on 100k in debt in order to even have a slight chance at cracking into the economy at all -- at least if you wish to make more than minimum wage.
You know how insane that is?
But it's incredibly useful for employers because that way they have workers in a vice grip. It's leverage. If you don't have a degree, they can throw out your application.
It's either take on the debt, or accept much worse conditions in the broader world.
On top of that, private equity funds full of hyper-rich people are now buying large tracks of homes wholesale in cash so that they can rent them out to others instead of allowing younger people to begin to accrue any type of equity themselves.
Despicable really, and something that has to change in the next century.
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When you work for yourself, it's hard to make boundaries. There's always one more opportunity...and then another, and another. I think working smarter, not harder, is better. If you work and work and work, what happens is that you get so tired that you cannot bring your A game to each opportunity. But you will most likely try to, and you either burnout or hurt yourself or both. Also, when you do too much, your performance WILL be lacking in ALL the opportunities....no matter how hard you try.
My husband literally worked himself into choices he felt ashamed of and then to his death. 30+ years of maximum exertion. And for what? He didn't die happy with himself.
The truth is that you absolutely MUST balance your life. Tell yourself that whenever the guilt gremlin pops up. This shit isn't a sprint. In order to keep doing your best, you have to take rest.
But please do invest in your future. At your age, one dollar saved is exponentially more when you are older. I sure wish I had listened to people who told me that when I was younger.
I wish you much luck on your burgeoning channel!!! Great job!
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I know this would be a contentious subject to some people (especially to Americans...), but you made no mention of the biggest scam of any, one that has conned gullible, naive and ignorant people for millennia on almost every continent. It is of course religion, in all its repugnant forms and guises. All religions are laughably silly nonsense, but two transcend mere silliness and can only be described as perniciously evil: one of them is islam, and the other is, need I say, christianity. Let's not kid ourselves here - religions have been, and still are, responsible for more human suffering and oppression than almost any other man-made factor, as one would expect from something that is simply about power and control. It doesn't reflect well upon the human race that it has subjugated so many of its people to something so unnecessary and so harmful, and still does so even in the present age of universally-available information and knowledge. What would a visiting alien think of us if he/she/it were to surreptitiously study us and our seemingly-infinite capacity to inflict evil in the name of religion? Would we be thought of as a civilized and intelligent populace, or a brutal thuggish people hiding behind a thin veneer of religiosity and civility?
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I always agree with your videos in this series, but I will argue one point: the zero waste movement is not a crock of crap. Yes, some of it is. But you missed a HUGE reason why it's a scam: the price. I touched on this on my blog, about how if they really wanted change in the world, they'd make it affordable for all people, but apparently being sustainable is mainly for rich people (though poor people can still do things that makes a difference).
Here's why I disagree on your one point about plastic bags in the zero waste movement, you say you have to buy plastic reusable bags, but why? There are other options. I have Bag Pods from Amazon, they are washable and I think nylon? I've only ever thrown one away (my cat peed on it!), and have had them for many years. As for the plastic bags not being offered in your area anymore and now you have to buy garbage bags? No you don't. Nobody "needs" garbage bags. A) Paper products: recycle or do I what I do and burn--no, not great for the environment, but I don't claim to be 100% awesome. B) Wet Garbage: your food comes in bags, does it not? Save them to put wet garbage (and cooked food waste) in to throw away. C) Dry Food Waste: compost. It's not that hard. I use a huge garbage can on bricks (and make sure there's both brown and green waste and water in it and make sure to turn it). D) the rest of your garbage does not need a bag, just throw it in the can. E) Recycle things like cans, metal, glass, and other things that aren't bad for the environment to recycle (unlike plastic).
You don't need garbage bags at all. And you don't need to buy plastic-based shopping bags either. And if the zero waste movement wanted to get real about actually making a difference, they'd make it affordable for all.
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The root cause is oligarchy. Billionaires work with lawmakers to reduce competition and that relieves a lot of the pressure they feel to keep prices low and quality high.
More and more money, and more and more businesses, are in fewer and fewer hands. Sectors where the government regulation has the most influence are already basically scams - healthcare, higher education, credit, etc., but other sectors are following - housing, entertainment, food - as competition is reduced.
Why did lawmakers want to ban TikTok in the US - to create a “fire sale” where their billionaire donors could pick it up cheap. A nice healthy dose of fear-mongering propaganda helped cover up what was really going on. Now having at least temporarily having dodged that bullet, the folks at TikTok know where their bread is buttered and will make sure they don’t anger the new powers-that-be. Fine for them, but not great considering how many young people are getting their news from that app.
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Sounds reasonable to me 🤷🏾♂️
You made the case well. Your friends are a priority in your life and you honor them; you see your dog as an actual deserving being, like he's family, like you LOVE and CARE for him.. and because he is and because you do, you act like it (how most people should treat their animals but shamefully don't) So i got nothing but respect for you. It seems pretty straightforward!
You know who you are, what you want, and you clearly got your shit together on that (again, things that most people can't claim about themselves) I couldn't judge you if i wanted to. And I don't. Want to.
Maximizing yourself, your friends and family, and your time, and minimizing the extraneous things that otherwise get in the way, doesn't sound especially weird to me. Nothing to see here.
Do your thing, homie. Love and respect. Say hi to Levi! 👏🏾🥂🔥
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If you are going to buy from FB market, CL....or some other place similar for a car .. having knowledge of good cars to buy (plus a pre inspection from a mechanic friend- is it leaking any fluids?, are the fluids full?...visual plus TEST drive, ) is helpful. This is risky, because you don't have a warranty. (buying from the general public can have risks...BE SMART).
Here are some clues to a good car:
Garage kept- NO RUST (or a small amt.)
Service Records- carfax (no accidents, was the oil changed every 3-5k miles?)
# of owners.
How the car was used and maintained may be more important than # of miles on the odometer. ( a car with super low miles could have parts that are rubber/plastic that get brittle and dry out from non use of the vehicle).
IF you are going the "Dealer" route, with a CPO (certified pre-owned) car:
Purchasing a Certified Pre-Owned (CPO) car can be a wise choice because it usually offers the buyer an extra level of quality assurance. KBB states that each manufacturer has different standards for CPO vehicles, but they're typically less than five years old and have less than 75,000 miles on them. Generally, the dealer has checked all major systems and reconditioned the vehicle. Many dealers also offer these vehicles with warranties.
ALSO:
To help ensure you're buying a car you really like, take the time to do your research and negotiate.
OK- In this last paragraph ...
"Take the time to do your research"
THIS IS WHERE YOU CAN GET CONFIDENCE- For my last vehicle purchase (Feb 2024)
I had a few vehicles in mind... AFTER many hours of researching the internet for "good used cars" ... even Toyota and Honda have certain years/make/model to steer clear from.
Hope this helps someone.
(ended up with a Toyota with 175k miles- absolutely cherry- garage kept- service records- and got it for low $ from CL - in 4 months, just oil change and inspection. She's a creampuff.)
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