Hearted Youtube comments on Sara Eaton (@saraeatononshorts) channel.

  1. If she ever says "hes just a friend" remember you were just a friend once too
    1000
  2. The best way to win is not to play.
    905
  3. Women want a servant, not a partner.
    861
  4. Not throwing a tantrum like a 4-year-old would also help.
    802
  5. 49 and wouldnt take a woman home if I won her in a contest.
    764
  6. One change: it's been going on ALOT longer than a decade.
    763
  7. Lets be honest. Men will approach her. Just not the men she wants.
    751
  8. Life for women: Disney Life for men: Resident Evil
    633
  9. Child support is for kids not supporting a adult
    550
  10. It takes a whole lot of nonsense for a husband to push for divorce.
    536
  11. Amen! I’d rather stay alone than have my heart ripped into pieces by a cheating woman and then have the “justice system” chew up and spit those pieces out by forcing me to still care for her… being single is the most logical choice….
    521
  12. Men are obligated while women have options? I need to go back and read the definition of equality.
    487
  13. She is absolutely correct. Protect this young lady at all cost.
    469
  14. Because she sounds like that
    465
  15. Preach on, Sara. Women love the idea of marriage, not being married. Your description sums it rather well.
    392
  16. Very few people can handle the truth 😢
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  17. "Since when was it the woman's job to...." Sounds awfully sexist and lacking in equity to me
    363
  18. Men are in love. Women are in business.
    357
  19. women keep women single
    352
  20. Phone calls, flowers, letters etc can easily be classified as harassment.
    351
  21. This is why men just don't care anymore .
    347
  22. Women HATE being responsible for their actions. It's a literal temper tantrum when you hold them accountable.
    320
  23. Nothing can be more evil ex wife who has your kids and brainwashing your kids to hate their father when the divorce didn't quite go the way she hoped.
    304
  24. You are appreciated 🌟⚡
    302
  25. It’s not what’s in the child’s best interests; it’s for the STATES best interest.
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  26. A woman unconditionally loves only her child or her pet. Men are loved only under the condition that they provide something.
    281
  27. You heard her, gents: Practice sexual discipline, don't try to buy scraps of affection, and if you have a low self esteem, don't date until you can sort that stuff out. Then, once you have sorted it out, shore it up. Become skilled. Become self-sufficient. Become self-fulfilled. When you do these things, you learn that you have value, and when you have value, someone seeking only to take away from that value is not a good choice for a partner. Someone who adds to your life - who wants to be there for you - is the right kind of partner. And when you meet them, be the same for them.
    272
  28. We men have learned from past lessons its better safe than sorry and avoid unnecessary mental, emotional and physical tortures
    267
  29. Yup. Did all this. Loved her unconditionally. Supported several job and career changes. Moved to the house she wanted. Etc etc. and she discarded me once she blew all our cash and her business failed. Blamed me for it all. Accused me of stealing the cash an emotional affair and never supporting her. I did love her. Now I just see a bitter unhappy person. Good riddance to the misery and no more walking on egg shells.
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  30. Social media women especially Instagram girls are the worst
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  31. “When people get used to preferential treatment, equal treatment seems like discrimination.” - Sowell.
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  32. And of course mocking that he only has a one bed apartment, while she got the house... as if that's not a normal part of separation.... She got to have a whole house, and he's no longer in a house, just a small apartment. If he could afford a house, she'd be complaining he's spending money on rent that he could be giving to her.
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  33. I'm a 56-year-old man. Never married. No kids. I like the idea of marriage, especially as I get older, but there's no way I'm gambling on modern marriage, state laws, and modern females.
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  34. Men stopped when women gave them 10 seconds based on looks.
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  35. Women: "We need to have equality." Also women: "Since when do you expect me to do what I expect you to do!"
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  36. They all want to be married but none want to be a wife and do wife stuff. Mg tow is freedom
    220
  37. It’s a one way street no win situation so only way to win is not to play the game.
    219
  38. Walk away, current BF. Walk away and don't look back.
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  39. I call it coasting. In the relationship, you are on a bicycle built for two. Problem is one wants to just sit there and enjoy the scenery while you are struggling to get up that hill. Things go better when you work together. Thank You Sara.
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  40. I will fund a single dad over a single mom every day....
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  41. I noticed this at my daughter's school. When she was younger. They would fund out she was being raised by a single father. The moms would try to ostracized her. They didn't want their kids around my daughter. What was worse in women's eyes. Was when my daughter was more behaved then their kids
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  42. Weddings have the same effects on women as constantly being on Social Media addicted to attention she receives. For the married Men, be careful when these words come out of her mouth; “I’m Not Happy!” Your marriage is now on Borrowed Time! Well said Sara!
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  43. Yes. Breaking up the family to get ran through.
    172
  44. imagine going for an interview and refusing to answer any questions until you're hired
    169
  45. "The good Men have given up" Truer words have never been spoken
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  46. You don’t have to be married (or be a Dad) to feel invisible as a guy in this modern world. Much of social media is a giant man bashing session.
    163
  47. You just mapped my life experience after 20 years of marriage. Never again, ever....
    162
  48. I love the commentary. No man ever just wants to walk away from his wife especially when she has kids. It is extremely expensive. She has done something to push him away.
    159
  49. Just gotta love the " k by" 🤣😂🤣
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  50. Modern women will act this way - and many men won't tolerate it - which is partially why that Morgan Stanley study concluded that 45% of women between 25-45 will be alone and childless by 2030, and has contributed to the stunning drop in marriage rates. Men despise being played with - it is a clear sign of disrespect.
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  51. The bare minimum point is so important, far too often will women expect the world, but give nothing in return.
    153
  52. My wife died due to heart issues and I had to go to therapy to be able to just see a picture of my wife (the greatest women in my life), so my kids can have the continued memory of their mother and how wonderful she was. Men have feelings too, just like we have skin and are human. These crazy women will never find us "good men", we can smell trash and just throw it out.
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  53. The same Women also withhold affection and remove sex from their relationships with the excuse of "that's all he thinks about" or "I am so tired from taking care of everything"... He works 80+ hours a week, helps out where and when he can - what if he withheld affection because you sat around all day?
    135
  54. I agree with you. Looking at this woman covered in tattoos from head to foot, I ask what the dad was thinking marrying her!
    134
  55. This is why men need to stop fighting or worse unaliving eachother over a woman. She will say all the horrible things just to get that thrill of drama. Men need to walk away and let her be with her own misery.
    134
  56. Thank YOU for thinking of us. (And being here) 🙏😊
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  57. Yes, it's the behavior that is intolerable. Nobody likes it. And yes, women just want someone who agrees with them all the time. Which is why so many end up alone with a pet, because most people cannot stand to agree with so much delusion. Married men often resign themselves to it, but they're deeply unhappy. It's the only way to keep peace. "Yes, dear ... whatever you say."
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  58. I approve this message. After 20 years of marriage, I learned these lessons the hard way, ending in a nasty divorce, 8 years of child support, and losing my house, $500k, and ultimately my kids because of parental alienation by my ex and her family. Never again...I am avoiding relationships with women due to the toxic environment our society has developed to destroy men. I'm out. Young men, please learn these lessons and go your own way...do not get married.
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  59. I used to do those things because I enjoyed it.💔 Until I could see it didn't matter anymore, and giving flowers actually turned into a bone of contention. 😔
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  60. Accountability is the modern woman’s Kryptonite
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  61. I figured out what women really want 1-More and 2- Something Else.
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  62. Where is our paycheck for all the unpaid labor a man provides to a vvoman all this time ?
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  63. It seems like some women never loved the man and only loved what he offered; peace, security, stability and a legacy. Found out the hard way myself in that regard. This shit breaks my heart, but it opens my eyes.
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  64. She didn't say that men don't approach. She said that they didn't want to be her boyfriends. Subtle but important.
    112
  65. One question derails the original video. Why the hell should we court you for what youve already given away for fun?
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  66. Well if the ex paid then she's doing him "favours" to pay him back. She should be dumped immediately
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  67. Women won’t lift a finger for their men but leave because the men don’t do enough. 🙄 love this lady! K by❤
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  68. Thank you so much Sara! I truly needed to hear this. I just got served yesterday, many know but only you, a social media content maker, has anything positive to say. I’m heartbroken because of my failed marriage but more failed nobody but one person gave a s&#*t. So thank you, I truly wish you many blessing and all the happiness you deserve.
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  69. I've seen this behavior firsthand. Even the tone of voice that women use when talking to their husbands is disrespectful.
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  70. All they want is a BANK ACCOUNT..😂😂
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  71. have two sons , full time dad , weekend mother was last seen 6 year ago. Dont ask how bloody it was, but now we have peace
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  72. "Youre a fully fictional adult, you need to help me" So are you, help yourself
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  73. Based on the DV rates and divorce rates of lesbian relationships compared to gay and hetero relationships, there's something to be said for Sara pointing out how much women on the whole dislike men and each other. When you're raised like a main character, and you encounter another main character, or even a secondary character that is better-written, you tend to clash. Oh well. Time teaches all people eventually, and some educations come with a steep tuition.
    95
  74. 'I want an expensive date or this is not going further' 'Did every guy so far have to give you an expensive date to get further?' 'No' 'Well im not paying more than the guys in front of me....'
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  75. That outfit attracts a certain type and repels another.
    95
  76. She is the best and the "k-bye" rocks!
    95
  77. Welcome to the concept of "male disposability"...I learned the concept in anthropology class and not the manosphere.
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  78. She's the abuser, it seems... She finally gave that good guy peace. ✌️
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  79. Thank you Sara. This is unfortunately, indeed 100% correct and I've lived through every moment of it.
    91
  80. Boundaries will be called abuse
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  81. These are the same women who say they want a high value man, yet bring nothing to the table/relationship.
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  82. Playing the victim as always. Even when you have the better deal.
    86
  83. Thank you for being the voice of reason in these fu**ed up times. Cheers to Sara 🥂
    86
  84. As the saying goes “a man is judged by the company he keeps” or in this case a woman
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  85. You are one smart lady, Sara.
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  86. Thank you for being here ❤
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  87. Yeah… It’s unconscionable. It is nothing short of abuse. Save yourself and let them go.
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  88. We do resent, only its because we wasted our time on someone we thought cared but clearly didnt.
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  89. Some women have mastered the art of hiding it. My ex wife was one. Only found out a year after the divorce she was having an affair with another man half way through the marriage. Some people are just plain evil.
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  90. If the courts would treat a marriage contract, like an actual contract. I for one will refuse to pay alimony. You want it? I gave everything I own to the local sports league. Put me in jail! I’d rather be there than pay for an ex. 😊
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  91. why court a 304?
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  92. Thank you for all your posts, Sara!
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  93. Sara, Thank you!
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  94. It’s also code for “but keep paying my bills while I’m gone” additionally.
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  95. You are one hundred percent spot on. I was married two times(never again) and I never once felt unconditional love from either one. I have until I had nothing left and they still demanded more. I left the second marriage as an empty vessel, nothing that made me who I am, remained. But I loved them both unconditionally. Men will never feel unconditional love from a woman because to them, men are disposable and are “loved” only for what they provide. Women have no clue what pure love is as far as them giving it to a man, only what it feels like to receive it from a man. Yet we men hope beyond hope that somehow we might be lucky enough to feel pure love from a woman, hence why we keep giving them a chance, only to end up disposed of over and over. Women truly are that selfish.
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  96. Translation: I'm miserable and you can be too.
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  97. Ha, ha, ha, ha. I love your last comment Sara. “….not just your looks, you actually have to have a personality too.” 😅😅😅😅. I must have been zonked out under a rock for the last 40 some odd years, but personality, kindness, honesty, and being present are the most important things I’ve ever cared about. A hot body? Naaaww, see how long that lasts after a few kids and you hit 40. Like Judge Judy always said, “beauty is temporary, stupid is forever.”
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  98. My wife went to therapy. The entire time the woman therapist tried to make my wife's problems all my fault. Lucky my wife called BS on all of this and did not go anymore. We did get her to someone that figured out her hormones were all out of sync because of menopause. This last month we have been married for 56 years.
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  99. Everywhere. Can confirm!
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  100. It’s CHILD support. Not baby momma support. Also, that whole, “he’s a grown adult he can work more” cuts both ways princess.
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  101. Impossible to please.
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  102. I always expect any woman I'm dating to pay for the evening out. She's lucky to have my attention.
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  103. Speak Sara! Real men still exist. We're just staying away from women like that 😂
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  104. If you are a "single DAD" what did she do to allow him to get custody? Only unfit mothers, or those who don't care about their kids, lose custody. The first woman is completely delusional and is a HUGE RED FLAG. She is ridiculous.
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  105. No lies detected. I've seen this happen. It's wicked.
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  106. She's right, after my divorce I truly felt empty, hopeless and alone. It took almost 7 years to refind myself, but once I did I've NEVER been happier in my life. You WILL survive and find happiness again!
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  107. It's nice to have a real Lady to tell it like it is.
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  108. Fathers are absent because of women only wanting kids and a retirement by the court.
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  109. MDCW because… some men get the very strong sense that some women don’t like men, they like the “idea” of being in a relationship with men, and what some women love is a relationship object but not the actual person. Okay bye.
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  110. In my day, that was called 'apron strings'.
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  111. A woman that loves the man she's with, doesn't allow him to suffer for her and others' sins. If she expects you to, she's using you.
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  112. Sooo...I constantly must watch her like a hawk & understand her mind games even in simple conversations. Naw, I'll stay single thx. My dogs provide me with lots of love & I understand them
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  113. Trust is destroyed with cheating/infidelity & it's basically impossible to ever get that trust back. The betrayal forever haunts.
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  114. LMAO!!! 🤣 Gal throws an F-bomb and expects to be treated like a lady. Nothing ladylike when vulgarity is used.
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  115. I used to do the hero, or captain save a h&& thing. It's done nothing.
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  116. They make themselves EXes and are bad moms to disrespect their kids dad
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  117. 100%
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  118. Just saying "thank you" isn't enough, but it's a start.
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  119. Men have the most to say? Have you ever talked to a women vs talked to a man? The woman will say 30x as many words to convey the same message. Now that i think about it, that doesn't really mean she has more to say, just that she won't stop talking.
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  120. You're a YouTuber now, Sara!!!😁😁😁 Let's get you a play button!
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  121. The best Ok- Bye on the internet, period. 💯🙌
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  122. I’ve learned women will walk past a winning lottery ticket to pick a man that just got out of jail for violent crimes or drug charges . I know what women want . And a good home isn’t it
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  123. TRUE! Thank you for keeping it real! ❤
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  124. A woman with a brain? Congratulations you are a rare gem. 💎
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  125. Men give women too many free passes, just because we care for them; nothing given for free is valued
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  126. Really glad you’re talking about this topic. I’m willing to bet that the majority of married men in America are dealing with emasculation.
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  127. Her mother will try to run your house and be in all of your business. It always ends in disaster.
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  128. With this video. You have described 95% of western women. The only option is become a passport bro. Fortunately I have had a Filipino wife since 1989. And have a lot of experience with Filipinos. And we have three children. They are 30 28 and 17. And have an apartment in Sucat. And I've been all over the Philippines. We plan on buying property in Quidolog Bicol province ( my wife was born in Bicol province ) and build our retirement house there. Not only are SE Asia women a lot more agreeable. But it also give you a beautiful retirement option.
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  129. Such a great view of modern world of dating and women . The single life cheers ! Canada 🇨🇦
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  130. Well said, dear lady.
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  131. She tore apart her own family over her feelings. Her opinion should not matter...but it does, sadly.
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  132. So, there’s a different playbook for a wife than girlfriend? Is that why my father always says don’t get married… women change?!?😂
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  133. Word for word my experience growing up with my mom and dad.
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  134. I was lmao at that tantrum, funny as hell. She looks pretty fine to me, but that's just it : it's only looks. She probably looks at Mr Average who isn't 6 Ft with eyes that say : "And what the F. do you want? Get lost." That's usually the case.
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  135. Logic and critical thinking is something else lacking in most women. If you want to be the weekend parent, arrange 50/50 custody with your ex. As Sara rightly points out, it's all about the money from your child support.
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  136. 50/50 custody? One year with each parent and alternating yearly child support? That would be true equality… but I don’t see the Boss Babes pushing for this.
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  137. So let me see if I got this right. If I make women face reality around me, they will dislike me and then leave me alone? You mean I would have peace and tranquility? Are you seriously trying to threaten me with a good time?
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  138. Between my ex wife and now my daughter, I've become immune to all the tricks modern woman use to try and use and manipulate men. Point of fact, I'll likely respond in the exact opposite way to what they expect.
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  139. Respect from Norway✌️
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  140. Bravo, Sue, for speaking the TRUTH about life as a man in 2024 America. THANK YOU, my dear!
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  141. Been there dun that,this lady is 100% correct !!!
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  142. I think it's weird and unhealthy to talk to your ex, 99% of the time, with VERY rare exceptions.
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  143. Stop the background noise. Irritated
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  144. We're getting great insight into what the mental health of perimenopausal women looks like.
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  145. I don't want to defend anyone, man or woman that does this, but there is a funny thing that my wife does that explains this: A person is never outside of their own head. That means my wife can start a conversation in her head, and forget that I wasn't included in it until she opens up her mouth. Knowing this, she will sometimes ask, "how much of that conversation was in my head?" If I tell her it was any part unspoken, I do have to sit through the conversation, but at least I get to hear all of it. When she says, "Kiwis are on sale," she had the rest of the conversation in her head, which was a request to buy a specific number of kiwis in a specific range of ripeness at the store where the sale is going on. Should she be mad at him for not hearing the rest of the conversation that went on in her head? No. Will she? If she's emotionally immature, yes. If, like my wife and Sara, she's emotionally mature, she won't get mad at you for not getting all of the story. We all should be seeking emotionally mature partners. Ladies, if you presume at any time that 'he should just know' or 'I shouldn't have to tell him', you are emotionally immature. I said what I said and I stand by it.
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  146. Step#1 - Know Thyself😇 Step#2 - Be Yourself 💪🏾 Step#3 - Rinse, Repeat
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  147. Excellent. Thank you 😊
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  148. This woman is a treasure. Protect her.
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  149. Attraction is the no.1 and only legitimate requirement for many (most?) women. If the guy doesn't cause the butterflies then there's a laundry list of requirements to compensate If however the butterflies show up, there's an instant rationalization for why the list isn't important.
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  150. Salut Sara. Wow! what a shot! 😝...some women are gonna be infuriate ! Sad but true
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  151. Bingo! Yes.
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  152. The vast majority of therapists get into the therapy field to try to figure out why they're so effed up themselves
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  153. My ex said that her first husband "didn't pay attention to her" while she was out cheating on him every weekend...with two small children at home! She did this for years, by the way.
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  154. We go out of our way to make women happy. Women though, they're pretty much out for themselves. A woman having to sacrifice anything is a step too far. They're almost always the ones to end things.
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  155. As a man, seeing a video like this, where everything is true, I feel like I should go get a cabin in the woods someplace where my nearest neighbor is miles away. That way I can't creep anyone out. Oh wait, doing that would probably also creep people out.
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  156. 1:12 as for the modern woman's side hustle or business, "my profits are my profits, and my losses are your losses..."
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  157. WOW! Did you hit the nail on the head with that!! Word for word! Mine did all she could to keep me from seeing my children, married a millionaire, yet took over a third of my pay, would’ve taken more if she could have. Fortunately I have incredible children, she’s no longer my problem! Worrying doesn’t help, moved on and doing well…..but DAMN, it hurt back then with the children!!!
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  158. I believe it’s a widespread issue. Lack of communication ended my marriage. She didn’t know how to express herself in a clear manner. Even going to counseling didn’t help. The counselor was a woman and she even said to my wife at the time that she needs to be able to express herself more clearly. She didn’t listen.
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  159. One of the nastiest, dirtiest, most dangerous, thankless jobs out there (often done in the middle of the night) is road construction. Like most industries, the gov't pressures road construction companies to hire women. The gov't now claims that up to 10% of roadwork crews are females, but if you pay attention you'll see that about the only women ever working on those crews ... are the traffic flaggers. Women simply can't do it. Yet the gov't acts like it's a women's success story.
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  160. Wow. Very well said
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  161. The problem is, we think they are kids. Kids to be raised or cared for. They are grown. Let’s em work.
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  162. Two key words - - toxic and control. A toxic woman must control
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  163. It’s called “revenge by her” when she doesn’t always get her way because “I’m Not Happy” and female hypergamy always scanning for the BBD over the course of the marriage.
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  164. And she hits it out of the ballpark again! Excellent work! 👏🏻
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  165. And some people actually wonder why I actively advise young men to walk away and live their own lives away from women. I've managed to save a few from a lifetime of misery.
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  166. You are correct and that this is indeed the most common toxic trait.
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  167. "mercury in gatorade" "macaroni in gasoline" “merlin is retrospect" "margarine is rihanna"
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  168. Too much truth! My face is melting. Listen guys, I left my wife finally after 12 years of marriage, two kids. I thought she hated me, she certainly treated me like she did. Turns out, she couldn't handle me being the one to leave and literally went apeshit, all of a sudden discovering this long-latent 'love' she had for me. Lmao. Ridiculous. Anyway, I had long ago grieved the relationship so it had no effect. My kids are with me 60% of the time and I'm happy as I've ever been. Good luck to all of you.
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  169. Still waiting to hear something I disagree with.
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  170. Sara...THANK YOU!!! THANK YOU!!! THANK YOU!!! THANK YOU!!! THANK YOU!!! GOD BLESS YOU! May whole generations of young to older women hear YOU and reject the social poisons that are destroying our society.
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  171. Preach!!
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  172. It's the gaslighting that gets ya. Leave for work on her day off and come home to the house still being in the same condition you left it, including dirty plates on the table from breakfast, and you're not allowed to say a single word without being accused of being controlling.
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  173. Sara your right, no reciprocation, mind games control plays and it's not worth the hassle being caught up in some woman's head games and then if you're not careful you can end up with legal problems!
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  174. Actually it's the opposite. When women see me with my son they think I'm safe, responsible and strong. My ex wife however dudes look at her as a train wreck who lives with her mom and dad
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  175. The devils will always use the weakest link to destroy everything and everyone
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  176. Been there and got the T shirt. .
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  177. If you have an abusive person in your life, give them the old "Kay Bai."
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  178. I find it funny how so many women complained about the male gaze and being objectified by men, and yet so many women not only post their naked bodies and sex acts online, but they want men to pay for the self-imposed objectification that was supposedly so bad. Make it make sense, as Sara would say.
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  179. Thanks Sara for fighting for us and speaking facts. I wish more woman would show care and understanding. Thanks again.✌️
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  180. @Serah Eaton Nailed it
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  181. How much money the corporate state cranks out of this societal level scheme must be mindboggling.
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  182. Big children. ...
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  183. if only i can get my hands on those ppl who hates on this woman, because she speaks truth, god bless you
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  184. God bless you Sara.🙏
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  185. "Need space" =she has other men
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  186. She forgot to say "THE MAN I AM ATTRACTED TO" because there are endless amounts of men if a good quality woman can along that was loyal, that prioritized him would be willing to do these things. However its all about the men she wants not wanting her.
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  187. This started in the Garden of Eden
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  188. Good advice Still here for a reason Every day
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  189. Spot on Sara
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  190. Family courts love women like this. It's all about the $$$. My ex walked away from our marriage, deprived her kids of a father and dragged them into a lower standard of living. Then, she gets child support and government benefits. There is something wrong with people like that.
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  191. "In San Diego there is a highly popular course called How to Marry Money. Note that the marriage is to money - not to a person. I inquired about the percentage of men attending... 'The course is really for women,' [the instructor replied,] 'it's not relevant to men.'" ~ Warren Farrell
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  192. Where are these modern women who have any accountability or morals?
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  193. Often the true toxic relationships are the ones married women have with their friends. Toxic enough to poison the marriage , themselves, their family; all the things that should matter the most.
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  194. This is incredible, never seen a woman cook this hard.
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  195. Thank you for taking time to raise awareness about the struggles that men are trying to navigate. I know that women have dealt with their own challenges with men and it’s important to recognize that but the reality is that very few women are talking about men’s struggles and it’s refreshing to know that other women can see it as men do. Thank you!
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  196. There’s an old saying that applies here. If it’s good for the goose, it’s good for the gander. You don’t get equality if you don’t apply it equally.
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  197. My Enquiring Mind wants The Rest Of The Story. Sorry for mixing taglines.
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  198. I remember a female supervisor I had always wearing way too much makeup and hairspray. She literally looked like Ronald McDonald. One day she came into work on her day off without makeup and her hair down, and she looked BEAUTIFUL. I was quite stunned. Kinda made me wonder if the makeup was some sort of workplace war paint 🤔
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  199. The nice guy gets left because he’s not toxic enough.. FACT .. because we won’t lower ourselves to those standards or be toxic with them .. that was profound and stood out to me. 👍🏽
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  200. I need to go find myself = I’m a walking septic tank 😷😷😷😷😷😷😷😷
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  201. That was the go to line in the 90s and also, "I need my space."
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  202. A well received message
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  203. They're envious of your beauty 😍 and intelligence 🧠. I love the rhythm of your voice. 🎵
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  204. A broken system takes these woman for a ride at the expense of men.
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  205. Her saying it's okay to leave a good man because she is not happy is equivalent of a man saying it's ok for him to cheat if he's not getting any at home.
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  206. This is 100% true. She is absolutely right. I've faced the same thing. All men should listen to her before thinking of a relationship. It would truly help us all to actually know the truth. Thank you Sara!
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  207. I get my boys every other weekend currently she’s stopping me seeing or even letting me speak to them unless it’s my time with them, she absolutely loves hurting me this way and it feels like it’s a little game with her and the kids are just toys for her to play with.
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  208. I needed a friend like sara in highschool and college. This type of info wouldve saved me time, money, and a lot of heartache. Nonetheless, im happy to hear this now
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  209. I was a stay at home dad for a number of years. The time I spent raising my daughter was beyond measure. My wife had everything waiting for her. Even a hot bubble bath with hot chocolate (did not drink), candles, and flowers after a bad day at work. I would not trade my time as a homemaker for the years I spent working. I loved it.
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  210. Sara dropping the truth bombs! I love her smirk when she watches these women bitch and moan.
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  211. sounds like a great father to me
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  212. Unless it's my wife of 29 years, I'm not lifting any woman up. That's their job. If someone's hurting my wife, then I'll do what I can to defend her. Anyone else, I won't, since I don't want to be sued by a Drama-Queen Karen.
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  213. "You need to work in yourself first and, find better partners that actually, want to build with you and both build together" Great video! Peace out
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  214. It's a facade. Correct. A dangerous one.
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  215. Oh yes. Take it from someone who was married to a compulsive liar for nearly a decade. They are good at it. We are so much better off without them. I love hearing these sob stories from women but we never hear his side of it. It’s always about them.
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  216. And many women wonder why men are staying away from relationships and marriage 🤦‍♂️ Excellent video Lady. Expose the Truth
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  217. Sara, Sara, Sara…you are making WAY too much sense (again)…
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  218. Thank you.
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  219. Thank you for the clarity. I recently had a couple of young women ask me why I was still single, (I'm 66. I was a single dad with three girls) I struggled to put it into words. Ive tried to find a female partner for years, then gave up. Now I have an appropriate answer.
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  220. Female employees don't get reprimanded for misconduct as much as male ones, especially in office jobs or healthcare, as a guy who was employed in that for 12 years I can attest to this.
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  221. Women make the same mistake, focusing only on how great the guy looks - guys who aren't 6 ft 3 inches with a slim build don't get a second look most of the time. Guys shouldn't be simps. Don't worship anyone. Don't chase anyone. Early dates need to be pay it yourself, don't immediately start spending $$ on dates. Sets you up to be a simp/friend zone. The woman needs to initiate and reach out some of the time. Good advice. If a woman uses and abuses you, leave her. Don't just focus on looks. Same advice as for women.
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  222. Thank you for validating my thoughts and feelings I have had for a long time!
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  223. World has lost its noddle
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  224. Women FeAr rejection. 😱 If they ask and he says yes, they feel loved. 🌞 If they ask and he says no, they're hurt.😩 BUT, If they hint and he doesn't notice, they can claim they asked without taking the risk of actually asking. 👿 Smdh😑
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  225. Ladies, before you get into a relationship, you need to fix yourselves. Do whatever you have to do. Go to counseling, get therapy, whatever. But just remember that if you get into a relationship and emotionally abuse him like this, it's not gonna work. He will walk, he will leave you, and I don't blame him one iota if he does. No man likes being denied sex in a relationship, then having his need for it weaponized against him. No man likes being emasculated, disrespected, emotionally abused, and essentially being told that no matter what he does, it's never good enough. If a man makes a mistake or shortcoming, we never hear the end of it. If the woman does something wrong, that's also the man's fault. Don't get me wrong, us men aren't perfect. But it seems like we're always held accountable, whereas am emotionally abusive woman never is. Why would a man knowingly walk into a snake pit?
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  226. I have one ☝️. Recently had phone call with someone and she said…………..if you have never been to Europe or overseas, then you judge people. I said well, my dad respected everyone equally, not based on job title or anything else and treated everyone the same…….and my dad made me who I am……so I’m the same. She was very narrow minded and saw the world in a very narrow view. Sooooo, it worked out……..not interested in her and I judge people because I’ve never been to Europe, according to her. It worked out well !! 😃👍
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  227. Thanks for caring Sara!!❤🫂
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  228. We need a rehab for feminism. But, they'd Shirley relapse. Yes I called you Shirley...
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  229. keep telling the truth for us decent men....screw the haters out there!!
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  230. I think money is more important then looks for women, but i get your point.
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  231. Okay, so you’re right. You are. And this problem is nationwide. But all this doesn’t reach those that need to hear it, whether they want to or not. The algorithm keeps us divided. So men see this, but we already know. And women won’t see this and if they do, they’ll refuse to accept it based off the magnitude of trending videos that support their ill behavior. Wild and frustrating.
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  232. Why doesn't she have a million subscribers? 🤔
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  233. Yup sounds like a bunch of drama bullshit lol No thanks ✌️
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  234. Sara is a Godsend.
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  235. A lot of women have an echo chamber of other women who push them into this type of callous attitude; but they have to be predisposed to it already.
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  236. 💙💙💙💙 love respect honor and grace Queen appreciate your passion and admiration. WE NEED MORE WOMEN LIKE YOU!!!!
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  237. Thanks for the video
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  238. Everything you say is so true, it's literally amazing especially coming from a woman. 👌
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  239. If your a broke lady just say so drizzle drizzle!
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  240. No up side and too many liabilities.
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  241. ..you're getting better and better Sara! 😊 very well explained.. hope as much females as possible will see this video..😉
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  242. ... "The Myth of Male Power" in a "Gynocentric" world...
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  243. Anytime you ladies want to mow and trim the lawn, clean the gutters, or put down new flooring, I have no problem handing those tasks to you, and I'll go do the laundry.
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  244. They don't call it the ball and chain for nothing
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  245. I totally agree with you, I was also married to such control freaky woman
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  246. Never conceptualized this as possibility, considered them professionals. Another scam to watch out for nowadays.
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  247. I love your example of a female Mechanic. I am a licensed agricultural equipment technician, I have worked with a couple women during my time in the trade. I worked with one women who to be fair was very intelligent, knew her shit when it came to the technical aspects of the trade but could not perform many of the longer, harder, heavier tasks. She ended up mainly doing PDI’s (pre-delivery inspections) and special installations. This is normally no big deal, however, we were paid a bonus based on personal technician efficiency. She would regularly get the largest bonus because PDI work pays well and does not take that long to do so her efficiency was around 120%. Meanwhile the rest of us did clutch, engine rebuilds, brake jobs. Things that do go sideways and take more time, but provide large value and $$. Our employer also received a tax credit for employing her so she got the job because she was cheaper cost to the company as well
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  248. I love the way you distill the facts down to easily absorbed bites without oversimplifying and destroying accuracy. Sara, that is an art! Keep 'em coming!! ❤❤
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  249. The drama never stops, even when they're gone.
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  250. Sara your on target! This is a a dangerous game and that's why many men decide to stay in single. Your better off with a good dog as a companion a real loyal friend !
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  251. Now that's ramblin'! Love it!!
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  252. Better to get a “work in progress “ who doesn’t value you. 😂. You will kiss the bad boys butt and get used. 😂. Being a good person might pay off in the afterlife but not in this life. 😊. Oh where did all the good men go? 😢
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  253. Hey Sara I came across your video and can honestly say on point. Unfortunately my son is dealing with these issues. In California it's the worst. Continue keeping us informed and more importantly your honestly. Cheers
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  254. Beautifully said. This is something I appreciate about my wife she does communicate but we have also been together long enough for me to understand when she is craving something but I guess that's one of the differences between a wife and a gf.
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  255. Ur Cool!! I like U. Thxs from a man that has done that only for them to need more and more. Vicious cycle....
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  256. Fellas, set your standards high for a relationship. This is something that'll make or break you. I wouldn't want to be in that position where you're having to fight her for custody of the kids. And ladies, remember; don't EVER teach your children to hate their father. Ever. That is absolute malice. Just because you don't love him doesn't mean your children don't. Doing that will do great damage to your children, and him. Never do that.
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  257. Most men are getting wise to women today and putting all their assets in a way the wife cant touch them, in divorce or death.
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  258. You are the best!
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  259. Great message Sara. I love your videos as they are straight forward and honest.
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  260. Women are "keeping up with the Jones's" wife. It's always a contest between them. Men just want what they need and a few selected items of want that usually benefits everyone in the house. Women need what other women have for bragging rights. Men do also, but men consider the new saw that allowed him to build a new deck as bragging rights. Women want a bigger diamond and a Mercedes. They think their mere presence in the house with you makes them worthy of it. Men want a boat for the enjoyment of the whole family. Women want THEIR bathroom remodeled. Men drive a 20YO pickup to work. Women must have a new vehicle every 2-3 years, a Lexus, NOT a Chevy. It goes on and on.
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  261. Raise your hand if you want marriage laws overhauled. ✋
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  262. Well said, Sara !!!
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  263. Sara spitting all fire!
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  264. Spot on! The key is to be unapologetically t0xc as a guy. Condition her while she's thinks and keeps trying to change you. At the end of it, you'll have a chick who now understand how the male brain operates. Works like a charm.
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  265. This chick can come to the bbq Whenever
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  266. THANK YOU from the dept of my Heart THANK YOU ❤
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  267. Absolutely. My ex-wife pulled this shit.
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  268. Chad will be there to get what she routinely denied to her husband. And somehow it will still either husband / ex husband's fault
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  269. 0:29 - the current boyfriend should walk for her talking to her ex. The ex is a simp for giving her the money.
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  270. They don't know who they are - and they don't know what they want. I don't know what I want but I want you to get it for me immediately ! Tell me that's not Psycho.
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  271. You speak truth you are correct about the 2 options but you fail to acknowledge option 3 !! It is self deletion!! Most male self deletion is caused by divorces and a biased family court system that rakes men and destroys them !!
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  272. I would rather continue leveling up in life than waste my energy and time when I could focus on my main priorities.
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  273. That is nice from you !
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  274. Eye roll
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  275. 2:25 🗣🔥
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  276. "He must have had hard with you if he didn't want to stay" 🤣🤣 so true , but it's allllllll my fault 😏🫣. The relationship she has had/now is her Karma! 🤣🤣
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  277. Good lord lol. All that anger and venom, and she will probably never consider or fathom that she might be the problem. No, she’d rather point the finger elsewhere and be consumed by negativity.
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  278. Oh no, 😪the nursing school, that hit home hard.
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  279. 💯Truth!
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  280. Classic example of thinking the grass is greener on the other side and now she is bitter inside. This could also be a case of marrying to get kids and not actually liking the guy.
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  281. The toxic relationship was the circle of friends outside the marriage, not the marriage itself.
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  282. when a woman (especially a married woman) says she's not happy it means she's become bored with the sex with her spouse and is looking to build a roster of guys to run her through...in her heart and her mind she left her hubby long before she articulated her "unhappiness" - good riddance I say
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  283. Seen that myself. You speak the truth.
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  284. Good words Sara. Many needed to hear this.
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  285. This is SO TRUE ! 🥰💚
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  286. Such is life. Not fair
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  287. That is actually a problem in the US. Other countries are not as ruthless, but it's still a valid point
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  288. I missed a lot!
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  289. Truer words have never been shared.
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  290. Sounds like my ex
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  291. K Bye.
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  292. Hey Sara, elderly single people on Social Security can not afford to get married since the benefits for being married are significantly less than staying single.
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  293. Wow. What an amazing lady. So refreshing to finally hear the truth.
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  294. Horizontal works better for long form YouTube content and vertical for YouTube shorts.
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  295. Niles Crane to Roze: "Have you looked underneath the nearest man?"
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  296. Men have to learn to just plain not give a fuck about what a therapist has to say they tell you anything to keep you coming back it's all about the money stop giving them your money if she's that bad just divorce her and deal with it
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  297. I love your work! Please do a part 2 for this video. Life DOES get rebuilt. The kids DO come around to knowing you were a good dad. And THERE IS joy in life beyond the lonely. Yes this chapter SUCKS but it is not the last chapter!!!
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  298. Life coach? More like delusion coach.
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  299. I love your example of a female Mechanic. I am a licensed agricultural equipment technician, I have worked with a couple women during my time in the trade. I worked with one women who to be fair was very intelligent, knew her shit when it came to the technical aspects of the trade but could not perform many of the longer, harder, heavier tasks. She ended up mainly doing PDI’s (pre-delivery inspections) and special installations. This is normally no big deal, however, we were paid a bonus based on personal technician efficiency. She would regularly get the largest bonus because PDI work pays well and does not take that long to do so her efficiency was around 120%. Meanwhile the rest of us did clutch, engine rebuilds, brake jobs. Things that do go sideways and take more time, but provide large value and $$. Our employer also received a tax credit for employing her so she got the job because she was cheaper cost to the company as well
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  300. Let’s Make Relationships Great Again.
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  301. I don't have kids, but you're spot on about everything you say, Sara. You're the Patron Saint of men's rights.
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  302. I never had TikTok so I don’t know much about it but I absolutely love watching your videos on YouTube. Okay bye.. 😎
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  303. Sara, thank you. to telling the two truths, I am sooo done with women and my peace is priceless
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  304. 🔥 🔥 🔥
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  305. Best tag line in the business "OK, bye." You get it, and are sharing, thanks
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  306. Sara is kicking butt...
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  307. Undiagnosed Default word: “narcissist”
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  308. Bravo! 👏👏👏👏
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  309. Spot on as per usual Sara!👍
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  310. i Went out tonight Dancing ( Salsa ) Meet all my mates had two beers The place was backed with single females Had my normal 3/4 dances Came home No Hints No Flirt No pickups Went home alone
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  311. Truth.
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  312. Sounds cheesy but you always must put yourself as number 1. Loving yourself the most makes all of this goofy behavior more detectable and sting far less.
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  313. 😐 SOOO SAD. 😐❤️🥰❤️
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  314. You're the GOAT, Sara! Don't stop. I can see your channel growing massively down the road. 😁😁😁
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  315. This may be one of the most important 2 min videos out there. The discussions generated in thread are SO relatable as well.. THANK YOU for this (again lol).
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  316. Give me a woman who knows how to cook clean etc and you will see a partnership of love and to be there to help each other and she can have whatever I have anytime but them days don't exist anymore
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  317. K Bye.
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  318. I hear a lot in therapy culture about how someone is not responsible for their behaviour because they are 'traumatised' or something; like, a LOT. A lot of journeys of self discovery to discover that fact that the woman is personally accountable for precisely nothing. Women literally take these theories and use them in their every day worldview.
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  319. Nobody is "letting" me do shit.
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  320. Comparison is the thief of joy. He's doing everything that can reasonably be expected of him but it's not enough. Why? Because she sees other people (supposedly) doing everything under the sun and all of a sudden, she wants to do everything under the sun too. And then they wonder why "good guys" have gone into hiding and/or sworn off dating and relationships.
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  321. This also leads into why there is a higher rate of tragic ends to the life of men (attempting to be straightforward without violating ridiculous guidelines set by Google/YouTube).
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  322. The one positive from this sermon is I never have to worry about a therapist manipulating my wife(soon to be ex), as she would never see one in the first place. But if she thought they would tell her she was perfect and I'm 100% of her problems, she couldn't get there fast enough. LOL
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  323. Soon as she asks me whats my zodiac sign i immediately ghost them. I dont care about astrology nor do i take it serious. Big red flag for me!
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  324. Who are you Sara Eaton...what's your story ?
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  325. Seeing this video reminds me of how thankful that I am that I did not marry a modern Western woman. I got married decades ago to a traditional non-Western woman.
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  326. Misery loves company. 1 woman gets divorced & is miserable, so she convinces more women to get divorced so they can be miserable together.
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  327. My daughter in law is exactly this. Social media junkie. How did she get the fix again? Overseas "Vow renewal" She's too narcissistic to ever have a child.
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  328. Im a 50 year old man and I love your videos and to me you speak the truth and for me its nice to have your videos as an life raft out here and you seem like a good person Sara keep going 🙂🙏
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  329. for a solid four months after separating, i met each and every demand or complaint from my ex with a smile and a calm quiet GFY. if you have an overbearing wife, you have a calamitous problem. if you have an overbearing ex, you have a WONDERFUL opportunity. its worth the price of divorce all by itself.
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  330. It takes two to tango. She does not admit her own part in that toxicity that she claims of him. She is not a saint.. nobody is. As for the 4 kids thing.. there is more likelihood of her being struck by lightning INSIDE of her house than finding a guy that will take on the responsibility of those 4 kids.. at least one she would be happy with and not later call toxic. She's gonna have to lower her standards in order to find anyone willing to rescue her from the hole she dug for herself.. and it's not going to be pretty. Most men are not looking to invest in raising another man's child. She is likely doomed to a series of short relationships.. each taking a further toll on her psyche and if she exposes the kids to that then she is effectively telling them that 'this is normal and acceptable behavior' so is in essence raising the next generation of toxic people (at best) or potentially exposing them to a predator (at worst)
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  331. Funny thing is we're in denial and for some weird reason we give them the benefit of the doubt that they're not being sly and deceitful...
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  332. That last line hits haaaaarrrrddd. Make sure that one keeps getting asked.
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  333. What you say are perfect👍
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  334. "What am i going to do with $200" Technically it's $400, but you're paying 50% for your kid
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  335. Not only this guys, if the therapist is a woman, she can and sometimes will go to court and testify. She is free to say things that aren't true, speaking from "authority". It doesn't matter if you only see this "therapist" or "counselor" a few times, if she is a feminist and biased to totally buy into your spouse's storyline....you're toast. APA certification means nothing, even though their rules say those who are certified under the APA cannot testify in family court if they have counseled a couple.
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  336. I don't blame you for being bitter but this is what the sisterhood demanded
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  337. As long as the nice guy is not desperate….all is O.K.
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  338. PREACH ❤❤
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  339. NO woman will ever leave unless she thinks or believes she has a soft place to land. This woman already has a man on the side. She'll be in for a big shock when she learns that her "lover man" isn't interested in a long term thing with her...not at her age and certainly not with her looks...she isn't that attractive...in less than 3 months she'll be begging her "nice guy" husband to forgive her and take her back...and if he has any sense of dignity and self worth he'll reject that idea.
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  340. Tell the truth but be calm and composed, dont use derogatory language or resort to name-calling and mockery. Just rise above it and move on and smile, works EVERY time😊 remember we are not enemies, at some point the war between men and women must end and we have to find back together again😊
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  341. This child is just reciting the exact same speach she heard another child spew...embarrassingly unoriginal. 😂🥱
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  342. AS I GREW UP I SAW THIS ALL AROUND ME 70'S. 80'S THANK YOU GOD . FOR NOT ALOWING THIS . FOR ME ... I WOULD HAVE LOVED TO HAVE HAD A FAMILY BUT NOT LIKE THIS FOR ME OR MY KIDS ... WE ALL LOVE YOU VERY MUCH SARA .. 😃❤️🥰❤️
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  343. TRUTH. We can start fixing this dating/mating mess by telling the truth. We've had 61m marriages on the books every year this century, while we only have 0.7m divorces every year. With that 50% divorce rate, why doesn't that 61m ever go down? This percentage comes from govt. When was last time govt told the truth?
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  344. My brain can't comprehend attention addiction.
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  345. Thanks a lot. This restores trust that mine actually really loves me.
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  346. Men have 2 choices, be annoyed or alone.
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  347. LOL, bummer, I am only 6’2”, but I wouldnt give that girl the time of day. I prefer rational thought and logic over emotion and inconsistency.
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  348. Toxic Bio Moms dig it
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  349. You hit the nail on the head!
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  350. Its not just a woman's husband that died that man is/was a son a brother maybe an uncle maybe a big brother to someone that man is a human being 🙏🙏
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  351. Part 2 👍🏻
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  352. Thanks, love. X
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  353. You really explained how men are so discriminated by societal norms and laws. One of the most devastating to men are how the courts handle divorces. Until it stops being so overly favorable to women more and more men will avoid marraige. Thanks again for such an informative post, Sara. Please keep up the good work that you're doing for men (and women if they would only listen to what you're saying).
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  354. Proper response Immediately talk with a lawyer then. Then when ducks in a row tell her with papers in hand. I hope you do, I wish you well, now get your shit and get out. If not married you can skip step one.
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  355. Thank you for speaking for us guys too!! Thanks a million my lady for real. Lots of us good guys with nothing but good intentions that just want some loyalty and effort not much.
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  356. you are so right. dealt with one recently
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  357. K Bye.
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  358. How in the hell do ya know if the person you're sleeping next is like this?? Damn🫤🫤
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  359. Imagine men giving the same advice, leave your woman even if she is a good wife, it only matters if you are fulfilled in your marriage, otherwise you can leave and get another one
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  360. Now add to that the current hiring practices.
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  361. yes...and yes...she stashed money with famiy, lover, friends, institution...for years......all break-away money....family bought houses...lol...she ended up filing a bakrupcy on my name....she then took my name to get loans and credit cards......i was srunned. i had so much faith
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  362. Preach Sara Preach 🙌
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  363. Strong men hardly exist anymore
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  364. You and Lady J are awesome Sara. Not many women like you two. Thanks.
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  365. Good to see the quotation fingers on women being oppressed in America. That shit never happened and if women who were taught that just tried to reason through that claim... Men have mothers, sisters, grandmothers etc that they love dearly, why in the hell would we desire to oppress our loved ones? Too much false history out there.
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  366. If so, i also bitter.
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  367. I think this video speaks for itself!!
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  368. Accurate! I've dealt with the counseling and psychology field for many years. Very few are actually worth much. Pandering is real and man hate us too.
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  369. my favorite word when dealing with all women is no. if they comprehend, great; if they dont, its time to move on. when a man looses his no ability, all is lost. now you have one of the most unstable creatures on the planet at the helm of your ship, and they will sink it.
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  370. Exxactally!
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  371. You have my mother's name. Great video BTW
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  372. Sheer common sense. A relationship needs work. It needs mutual respect. And honesty!!.
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  373. We have learned this lesson before countless times throughout history, but we humans love to keep failing. Approx 3000 years ago Moses (from the Christian bible) wrote about the seriousness of the joining of a man and a woman in marriage when God joined together Adam and Eve. Throughout the Bible you will find countless moments of human suffering, and the failure of the institution of marriage and its vows was part of the overall rot within any given historical downturn. But the people who take marriage and family seriously do eventually repopulate the earth.
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  374. Allegedly
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  375. Whamen: if im too much go find less Men: ok bye. Whamen: where did all the good men go? 😂😂😂 You cant make this stuff up.
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  376. Yeah, we were somehow brainwashed into thinking that empowering and viewing women as equals and taking affirmative action was the right thing. That could not be further from the truth and will definitely destroy any relationship.
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  377. We love you Sara. Thank you for what you are doing!
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  378. Men got tired of courting women when they realized it didn't have any influence on preventing the woman they were pursuing from dating other men. But it is entirely likely that a woman who isn't courted probably carries herself like a women who doesn't require that kind of investment in time and effort. If you are an adult and speak like a 16 year old, behave like a booty call, or appear to be the type of woman just looking for a man to employ you, that's not a women you try to woo. That's a woman you buy a drink or two for and that's it.
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  379. K Bye.
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  380. Why do you think we are looking out of the US for real women???? There may be good women here, but we are tired of looking for them here!!!
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  381. Oh My..😳😂
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  382. So very true
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  383. $200 or even $1,000 child support a month is a joke. That said, she is right that don't spread your legs for a guy who can only afford $200 a month in support. That's on you.
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  384. Social norms are crazy these days, humanity is losing its values. The young girls are trying to be competitive and the older women want to try and keep up. Any self respecting man doesn’t desire or need this, won’t date a female like this and will move on.
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  385. I'm not a struggling man but I can say when you guys get to the point where you realize what she's saying is true, you will then choose to say single.
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  386. Just wait until she finds out about the alpha Widow mindset
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  387. 😊👍, K-Bye!
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  388. 500 sq feet
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  389. I find it ironic that they call Sara bitter and then shave their heads as part of this 4B stuff, but I would rather that they do so they identify themselves so we don't date them. 😂 I just wish they didn't insult cancer patients and people with medical conditions at the same time but I am not going to stop them or tell them that they have something in common with skinheads who also shave their heads to communicate that they hate others. I'm just saying.. Anyway thanks Sara for being empathetic towards us. Everyone should try being empathetic with others and be understanding.
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  390. Simple solution to that problem.. make her get a job outside the home and use the extra funds to hire a maid service. Would fix that problem right up.
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  391. Amen. Too many people treat other people like they're throw aways.
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  392. Peace of mind is hard to achieve in a relationship nowadays. I find I’m happiest when I’m by myself and not worried about how someone else is going to feel on that particular day.
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  393. Ouch, some of that could surely trigger. But every bit of that segment was honest and truthful. Thank you so much for laying it out there.
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  394. Guys, did she miss anything???
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  395. You are really good Sara
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  396. Love it Sara, Ok Bye 🤠
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  397. A lot of really good points. liked
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  398. Let your actions speak for you you don't have to sacrifice yourself for a woman
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  399. SHE COULD OF ASKED FOR PRAYER TO HEAL HER MARRIAGE, BUT, DIDNT, WANTED SIMPATHY !
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  400. She was domed when she said a good guy and in the same sentence abuse?
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  401.  @saraeatononshorts  You're doing great! When we tell a story we don't just read the first and last chapters, we have to hear the entire story to understand and be aware of what is going on, you're just filling in chapters. Thank you! The double-standard on the net is real.
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  402. Let’s see how much debt they have automatically, how many kids from how many baby daddies, and their body count on their profiles.
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  403. I wondered off, forgot to come back!!!
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  404. Yes- thank you
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  405. And here is an example of why I believe the initiator of a no fault divorce should wave all rights to alimony and a share of marital resources. In the flip side, the initiator should be on the hook for alimony.
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  406. Speaking all facts.
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  407. Thanks! Men, develope standards and hold them. Lead and learn by example as a leader does.
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  408. Yes, that gal is so sweet, submissive, feminine and overall lovely that it's odd no man will approach her. Maybe moving to Montana or Alaska will work (you know, the whole bear routine).
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  409. This happens when you play the sex card first ....
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  410. We can eat pizza three times a day, the same pizza for a week, and not say "I had pizza yesterday"..
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  411. I'm a guy ; my therapist didn't allow me to fool myself by making me accept the reality of my problems . The person in therapy needs to tell the truth and be honest with themselves and open to constructive help .
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  412. All under 3 minutes. No ambiguity.
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  413. a nother great video👌
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  414. If woman starts going out with her single friends this is huge red flag. If she is attending to new places without you another red flag. If she is starting to get in shape she is doing it for someone else not for you if she was not doing it for before and now she flips the script. If she starts to hate you but at the same time when she is on the phone she seems happy she is doing something behind your back. If she puts her phone up side down it is also red flag. 11 years In relationship and she cheated on me. All of those red flags I ignored because I have seen them but did not think this is a red flag.
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  415. Preach on, sister.
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  416. How is an abuser a "good guy"? This camo lady is wacked out.
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  417. This woman is dialed in.
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  418. It takes two to tango...
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  419. Some women : 15 hours a day on Facebook The same women: why are you on that stupid game again?!
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  420. Getting a bunch of hate from people who are themselves unhappy and broken? Hmmm sounds like a day in the life of a man.
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  421. You're damn right
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  422. Get help, Gentlemen.
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  423. Women try to pull women away from their marriage if they are jealous of it. It’s not just dating.
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  424. Thanks for having the guts to tell like it is you described alot of my adult life never enuff
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  425. Thank you for the reminder, it's taken me most of my adult life to learn all that, basically don't be the fairy tale white knight simp rescuing victim drama queen damsels in distress, you'll only end up being used as a stepping stone enabler on her way to her next drama queen disaster that she won't take responsibility for either.   It's the quiet ones that know their worth... gems amid the endless gravel of life, hoping you've got what it takes to find them. Learn the difference between enabling parasitic people who live in victim mode and those are making an effort to get on down the road on their own.
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  426. They aren’t worth pursuing, we pursue purity
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  427. Thanks right back
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  428. Or you could just be like me, gross, broke, zero prospects. Winner
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  429. NEVER trust a women! just read about what Eve did to adam in the bible. Women are all the same!
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  430. This pays way too much to the thoughts, feelings and considerations of women. If you don't care what women think or feel and just live your life none of what you say here means much.
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  431. Excellent video. Wish more women would wake up to their responsibility within a relationship. Can't tell you how many times I have witnessed women hop back and forth between being the hero and being the victim the moment responsibility enters the conversation.
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  432. At least that woman gets NOTHING from that man.
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  433. It is difficult to get out of a purple patch, but my advice to everyone is the following... -be true to yourself -know that someone will care what happens to you -know you are here for a reason -understand what your purpose and what your values are I've been there and I have come out the other side, stay true! You are needed and have a valuable place in the world! ✊
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  434. If I was abusive my life would have went better.
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  435. She speaks the truth
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  436. She has issues. She needs to solve her issues. She can wait for a few hours. She shouldn't be posting pics because her husband has not replied.
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  437. K Bye.
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  438. Facts
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  439. This isn't just a diary, it's a new textbook. 👏 & 🙏
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  440. Sara is esther Vilar of 2025 ! Based af !
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  441. 😇😇😇😇🫡🌹
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  442. When men realised that high value women realised that - high value men have self respect and confidence to be single - that men will respect to genuine interest and attention - participation in starting a relationship is mandatory - men get victimised for approaching women - despite earning more a lot of women will use dates for free meals …
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  443. So true! Well said, that is the case for most women. Not all but most.
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  444. I’ve had enough of caregiving for another, years upon years, no more.
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  445. 1) automatic assumption the daughter stays with her 2) equating staying married mostly with financial support for her and the kid 3) no mention of being sad or hurt, clearly there’s no love lost on the husband but leaves that part out
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  446. It's funny how women want us to open up but get mad when we do, so we decide to not say anything at all and now we're not trying hard enough. At this point the only person failing to please you is yourself. Some women don't hate men, they hate themselves because they know they're losing arguments when their partners hold them accountable, so that's the justification for them to be abusive, what a waste. By the way, Sara, love your stuff thank you for having the balls to come out and look at things from more than just one angle like toxic women do. You're a real one.
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  447. Are any narcissistic women in here (aka demon possessed) please admit it if you are in here !!! And tell us what do you think about this amazing channel and how she is exposing your bs 😂
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  448. The hidden factor is one clinical Narcissist goes a long way on social media. That one can have 20 gaggles on the go including accounts in other names to check up on people they've already s*rewed over. Their life blood is your misery and failure which requires as much unnecessary drama as possible. They are also teching the younger women their interaction style because it looks fun and exciting when you are nieve and still trying to figure out who you are. I guarantee you there is at least one somewhere along the chain of misery in all these high divorce rate gaggles. Don't sign that contract dude's, there's a narc just waiting to destroy your life for a bit of fun, for them.
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  449. Isn’t it Sad that men get crushed in Divorce, I personally know that guys are not getting involved with women much,because the end result is eventually they will become unhappy and they will be devastated, emotionally and financially. I have friends where Police were involved, lost their home, children. A good part of their future earnings. Alimony in some States was and remains Permanent. I hate to say it, but Women today have absurd amounts of power . They can’t lose. So men allowed them to be themselves-by themselves. Now work Every Day until you’re 65 and retire to Florida and Re-Start the Golden Girls. The main change between the 50-60s is very few people learn Respect and Courtesy. Society is off the rails in so many fundamental ways.
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  450. If you're reliant on me pleasing you for holidays rather than just appreciating, you for who you are and respecting my pace in the relationship, you hate me. I'm glad the woman Sara is calling out isn't my girlfriend.
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  451. Good videos Sara
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  452. We don't pursue, we attract.
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  453. Your the greatest ❤❤
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  454. 🤘💚
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  455. they are taught how to treat men and its obvious social media and other women are teaching them
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  456. Lady you are spot on u got em all pegged
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  457. God bless you
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  458. Preach
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  459. Accuse the other of that which you are guilty . . . . . is rampant in today's world.
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  460. What is our kazoo noise in the background about? I can’t hear a word anyone is saying in any of the videos.
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  461. 💯🍻🌹✌🏾🇨🇦
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  462. I was single father to a pre-K for three years. I did that and worked at home, as a CPA, during that time. It's not hard. A stay at home parent has maximum of 2-hours of work a day. Most of which you'd do for yourself as singleton. The only thing that a child really adds is story-time at night, some play-time during the day and that is not a huge burden.
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  463. There is an old couple, whose old man is in a wheelchair that his wife has to push. Who is the victim here and who is the perpetrator? Exactly, none. In fact, they are both. Realise that in your life you are continuously both ' Stay in the middle of victim and perpetrator, as soon as you identify with one, you set yourself against the other. And that is choosing colour. Stay in the centre of alternate experiences in your life. No ego = no problem
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  464. while I am sure there are a few outliers, you dug deep and said what most are just too afraid to admit.
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  465. It’s going to get worse, the quality of the average woman (on values MEN are interested in) compared to 50 years ago is so bad.
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  466. ❤🙏🏽
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  467. She got divorced because her friends were doing the same thing. Women make and keep each other single. 🤡
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  468. Hey girl hey! It's Amy!
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  469. It’s just stuff. Can always get more stuff if she takes it all. Just stay single don’t try again. The effort for the non gratification. Is a unselfish dish
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  470. That love was an illusion. It was pure, but blind. We loved women despite how they are, not because of how they are. We've been idealizing women for millennia, now we're opening our eyes.
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  471. Men need other masculine men for therapists
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  472. Maybe because a 4 throwing a tantrum is hardly attractive?
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  473. Minus training, and deployments, I raised my, now 25-year-old, son by myself without any child support. This included my AA through PhD, E4 then retiring out at O4, GS9 then retiring out at GS12, and supporting his Eagle Scout through Bachelors and current career retraining efforts. Throughout the last 20 years, I've only dated four women spanning an average of three years each, separated by two years in between, three of whom were single parents. Of the three, two were divorced and one was widowed. All three managed to use my achievements, being a single parent, and my remaining goals against me, in one way or another. The most recent made me realize generationally learned patterns, that I'm working on breaking. I'm tired of digging through red flags in efforts to find green ones, I have zero interest in raising someone else's child(ren) nor accounting for predecessors mistakes, and now I have the added bit of assets and retirement protection efforts.
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  474. Keep up the good work.
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  475. Mmm sounds like an escort.
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  476. Unless they're tall chad
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  477. Thank you for sharing Truth
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  478. forgot to mention...even when she gets fat after childbirth the man will stay
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  479. It's the excuse to get out of the relationship to screw around
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  480. K Bye.
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  481. My wife had women she knows socially or online tell her after we got married I need to give up my comic collecting and video gaming. Both of which Ive been doing since childhood. She basically told them to eff off that she would never tell me that.
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  482. More good insights. Do try to limit your time with the truck drivers tho
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  483. Single Mothers aren't looking for love, they are looking for an ATM machine...!
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  484. I'll be heard... With a $5,000,000 net worth, no kids and never married, I will be heard. I won't be listening for a response but I'll be heard...😆😆😆😆😆FAFO
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  485. 2:25 I've seen that on the TV show, Gidget. It was a disaster.
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  486. Explains a lot why so many fellas don't want to marry
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  487. It’s the woman’s job to text first when she wants to say something first. How hard is that?
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  488. I always cut contact after a break up. She can't "play nice" if she can't contact me.
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  489. Narcissistic enmeshment.
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  490. K Bye.
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  491. Men just want to be appreciated. It’s that simple. We will give anything and everything to the woman who appreciates our efforts and intentions.
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  492. ??🤔??< …!! 😡!! ....When wE Got Tired Of Throwing Good Money....After Bad.
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  493. Amen
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  494. Its designed to destroy the Western family (by the usual suspects)
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  495. She is right 💯
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  496. there is no "Almost" promoting single motherhood. It's on display and celebrated if a woman is a single mother and forcing a man into alimony and child support slavery.
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  497. It's been going on for more than a decade.
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  498. Permanent decisions based on temporary feelings. Great insight.
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  499. Heres the thing... if you want us to be able to work it out w/ you, then you have to be WORTH THE EFFORT
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  500. I think you should sell shirts that say “Ok, Bye. “😂
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  501. Shrug it off. Never dig in, always advance. Without forward momentum, you'll bog out.
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  502. 100% correct
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  503. Yep - professional greedy liars. And why are guys staying away again?
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  504. A message I desperately needed in 2003, but there was no one to articulate it to me. I had to knuckle down and forge ahead all on my own. There was no way out but through the torment. Took over a decade before the last remnants of that torment finally subsided. What makes the difference? Whether you succeed or not is entirely dependent on whether you give up on yourself and the hope of a better future. One thing we humans do not do well at all is grieve our losses. Our otherwise natural empathy does not measure up to soul crushing losses.
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  505. Enter the boxed wine and all the attention and compassion for being an alcoholic on anti-depressants.
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  506. TIRED OF BEING A FREAKING ATM = THEY TAKE THE MONEY & RUN
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  507. Women today are unappreciative disrespectful deceitful and disloyal. And the worst ones say “I’m not like that”. Btw our government fits the same description.
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  508. I’ve got a nice little 3,4,5 combo atm
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  509. Target Destroyed!!
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  510. K bi
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  511. She says that while wearing make up the ultimate lie
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  512. Your a very wise and self aware lady you are also very contemplative but thats not a bad thing your deep yes we should bring back working it out
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  513. Well, I guess that’s that. 🤷🏻‍♂️
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  514. Yes, it's a smoke screen designed for self-protection. Nearly all modern women cannot withstand scrutiny because this would result in becoming accountable. Women use any criticism of themselves as an excuse for withholding intimacy, and then they blame the men for creating the situation in which intimacy is being withheld. "It's emotional abuse!"
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  515. Im miserable so you can be miserable like me.
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  516. You said it on behalf of men thank you 🙏🏻
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  517. "no fate but what we make."
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  518. Another excellent video, thank you Sara. Men have at least 3 options, the 2 that you stated, and another to remove the problem from existence. And it doesn’t necessarily have to be illegal either. Anything is possible, get creative.
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  519. So entitled and delusional. Off tap these days out of control. Anything to save face
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  520. Well, I'm gay and happy. Men are more accountable and loving and yet we are discriminated against. Well, look how great straight relationships are today...
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  521. Narcissistic personality disorder...wow!
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  522. ​@saraeatononshorts Thank you Sara. Men need to be heard. You are much appreciated.
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  523. I love the way Sara thinks . Much love canada 🇨🇦
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  524. Yes Part 2. Sadly I experienced many of these.
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  525. sara- it’s quite simple! the divorce laws cater to women because they are easy targets for manipulation based on their emotional decision making. thus the divorce attorneys can string it along for as long as they can to reap the ultimate fees. attorney abuse is a real thing but the law makers cash in so why would they kill the gravy train? in the meantime, families suffer.
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  526. When you are damned if you do, and damned if you don’t — just do whatever the fuck you want.
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  527. SE is Correct
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  528. Another reason to stay single. Only World War I, and World War II have a lower American population growth rate than the present (0.1%). The Great Depression doesn't come close. The birth rate is crashing. Fifty percent of men are foregoing relationships altogether. Twenty-five percent are going abroad.
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  529. We have a society that commits sexism against men, in the office, in the court room, in academia, government and the list goes on. It is wrong.
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  530. 🤩⚡
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  531. Well men are starting to break the cycle no weddings no more serious relationships till you prove your ready for one
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  532. I’m 72 and haven’t been an insider on the dating scene for a long time. Still, I can’t help but feel that the utter surrealistic level of these women’s complaints, especially in light of their wishing-well level of power and goodies already granted - it’s like, “These people have got to be trolling.” Don’t you think they are?
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  533. Abuse or blackmail or indefinitely....LEAVE.
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  534. you're correct. She is destroying his and her life.
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  535. I like to listen to you. You have diferent and fresh perspective. Thanks
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  536. True. Society is sick.
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  537. 1st Sarah. Much love. Please keep posting. Stay strong. Coming from a mentally stable emtionally mature male. You hit home 100%. What you are feeling is the pain from mentally and emotionally immature people. Too much internet makes people immature, keep that in mind. Especially people who's only social interaction is the internet. I work in customer service, i can tell how much a person is on the internet in under 5 minutes from just talking to them, its that obvious. Take some time to reflect. I have always found your content high brow. Stay the course. Wishing you Peace and Joy in your personal life.
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  538. 01:15 THAT is a GREAT POINT! In fact it is the only POINT that Matters when you think about it and look right at the PROBLEM. People Say 'L O V E' but do not even know it's Original Origin. and Where it comes from. But say they 'LOVE' a TRILLION Times Over!
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  539. You’re doing a public service.
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  540. Every other weekend is state enforced parental alienation. Feds need to stop reimbursing states for child support. Did you know that the feds match your child support payment to the state and every dime goes to state coffers? That's why they demand cs goes through the state A father's role before ANYTHING is to TEACH. not provide, babysit, discipline, but to TEACH. Masculinity forced out of parenting by the state is the main contributer to society going to shit
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  541. Preach it, sister
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  542. What is that God-awful music in the background?! Geez that's annoying! I could barely hear you...
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  543. And women wonder why men don't want to get married anymore. When you can be a good man and get abandoned when you do everything right. A lot of men aren't even considering getting involved with American women because of this. Because this is pervasive in the United States and similar countries specifically. Let's change one thing and see if this makes sense. It's OK to leave the good job. Even though the work is easy and the hours are good. Even though the pay is excellent and the benefits package is generous it's alright to quit and be unemployed instead. You need to follow your heart. If you want to leave a good job with everything ticked and hunt for work instead or go work at a worse job with terrible hours and no benefits and less pay, that's your right. You determine your worth. So just that one little adjustment and suddenly it seems so stupid right? Because it is. These women leaving good men are stupid. Their advice is stupid. We men don't leave good women. If we find a good woman we hold on and do whatever we need to to keep her happy. We adore good women and do the little things and go the extra mile for them. Because we understand THEIR worth.
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  544. It’s sometimes hard not to judge a book by its cover, but her make up is horrible.
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  545. This was my father's position. But what he failed to teach us is what to do when one mate refuses to Tango. IME, the vast majority of marital problems have control issues at the core, and that accounts for inflexibility, lack of apology, blame, and lack of empathy.
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  546. Never pay for respect or attention
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  547. Ya got that right.
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  548. Social media/social validation happened.
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  549. 👍👍👍👍👍🥰
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  550. So many grown Women act like children. Real men are done with that. Real men want a partner and mother of their children, not a brat that plays games.
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  551. I agree with all of this but i would consider cheating is deal breaker.
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  552. The funny thing is the few good Therapist that are out there that hold women accountable have come out and said that the second they did that the woman quit Therapy. This is what happens when women run things, its all about feelings instead of objective goals that can be measured. Thing is when its about feelings which is a woman's MO and everything is subjective nothing can be measured.
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  553. If you wanna be a winner then walk out that door for the last time.
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  554. 🙂👍🍀
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  555. I posted this on the last therapy related video, but as somebody who has had both good and bad experiences in therapy, I highly recommend trying to find a Psychologist (PhD) or Psychiatrist (MD). In my experience, they are much more likely to use objective standards to address your issues and genuinely care about the way you think and feel, without ideological bias interfering. The bar for becoming a licensed therapist/social worker is very low, and a lot of them have very skewed ideas about what it means to do their job correctly.
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  556. All my Army buddies are divorced: Or Married AND LIVING OVERSEAS ✈️ 🤷‍♂️
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  557. great !
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  558. It is said that women treat men the way men treat jobs. When an employee says "I need some space to go find myself", a competent employer sees this for what it is (a de facto resignation), accepts it, terminates, and pursues a more suitable applicant. A self-respecting employer would never re-engage with such a terminated employee.
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  559. Sara speaks nothing but facts. Avoid that friendzone guys. I cut all of mine off and you know what? It's not the loss I thought it would be which proves Sara right here.
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  560. My question is...WHERE DID SARA COME FROM. Is this just all observation and a chance to make some money online by jumping on a popular movement. Did she just describe herself? Did she grow up around a bunch of women and see all of this first hand?
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  561. After having spent the last 25 years in therapy for one reason or another, I've actually solved more of my own problems than the therapists ever did.
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  562. Translation: She wants to leave the good guy for a guy who treats her like 💩. And then she’s gonna wonder where all the good guys are and run to the good guy she left. Just wow :/
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  563. Some women are useless and some women aren't
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  564. Sara, you are a hero to many thousands of men!
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  565. Sara, you are spot-on! keep posting!
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  566. Men there is only one woman in your life that will ever love you unconditionally and that’s your mother
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  567. Great video. -- depressing but spot on, I'm afraid.
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  568. Hey queen you know everything 😂 I salute you
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  569. Give it a month, and it will be "dead dad is a deadbeat dad."
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  570. Ignore the insults. If people are insulting you, then you’re too close to the truth.
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  571. Boom roasted 😂😂
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  572. My divorce was 4 years long. My legal bill was $500,000 at the end of it. I got the kids, but by the skin of my teeth. My ex is a diagnosed psychopathic deviate, and despite she abandoning the kids, despite DUIs, etc etc, the judge was looking for any way possible to give her the kids. Through many legal maneuverings and knowing any decision of his I didn't like would be taken the my state's supreme court, he gave up and awarded me the kids. However, I had to pay her $800/mo in child support, for having the kids 85% of the time. A poor man will not have a chance in hell in family court unless the baby mom is a disaster. My ex is/was a dumpster fire/train wreck on top of a huge fire ant colony-- and I went through hell. Plus there was the usual abuse/rape allegations. My brothers-- never marry. If you want kids, get a surrogate. Never share a child with a woman. So many men I know have been destroyed in family court, and don't have any money left to go back when the ex withholds the kids.
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  573. She better be careful what unwanted attention she brings upon herself. 💯💥
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  574. Give this woman a trophy 🏆
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  575. Facts!
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  576. Good grief this ‘ I was abused’ or ‘ he was controlling’ is the easy get out for any woman out there. I’m married quite a long time but if I was going through the dating process nowadays I’m afraid I’d give it a total miss.
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  577. Thanks, Sara.❤️‍🩹🌞☮️
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  578. This is some JR high shit.
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  579. I've never heard a woman speak such truth. AI is truly amazing. She looks so real.
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  580. My ex tried this one. Telling me it must be nice to have free time and not having to worry about homework, extracurriculars, etc... I told her if it's too much to give me full custody. Let's just say that's the last time I got that tirade from the ex.
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  581. Another mic drop. Givem hell Sarah!!!❤❤
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  582. K, bye 🙂
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  583. Remember, it's still cheaper to keep 'er, once you have 'er
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  584. I just can't help but continue to be a nurturer. I'm lucky my wonderful wife of 25yrs contributes equally and never takes advantage of me.
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  585. Dehumanise, devalue, self-abase are ALL Orwellian practices. It’s pure occult. Women need to stop these practices under names “emergency contacts, change, Woke, etc.”
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  586. The "equity" won what they wanted splitting everything: races, gender, end of conservative family and population ❤
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  587. So many men are totally alone after the end of the World. They just have to struggle to survive from day to day. Usually the ex has turned all friends and relatives against the man and nobody is left of the old friends and other people. Sara gave good advice. It is critical to get new hobbies and new friends.
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  588. Amazing statements.
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  589. Hold onto to your money !
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  590. Well said.
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  591. Thanks, I needed that.
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  592. I'm a widower, my wife died last October, I still think of her everyday, but I'm moving on, started dating one gal. She understands she is no threat to her and not coming back, but knows I still think of her.
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  593. 👀☝️👊🏾✌🏾🌹
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  594. Bingo
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  595. Short n sweet
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  596. Let's go on a date if you ever visit Norway 😀Make it a 5 days date .. just to make it more interesting and content rich. Bring hiking boots and a good mood!
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  597. Kindness and loyalty are vastly underrated qualities in both sexes.
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  598. She won't have to worry about him very long, a nice beautiful lady, probably one of her friends has had her eyes on him for years. She has been thinking he deserved to be treated better than her friend was treating him and wants him herself.
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  599. I suppose women seriously disliking men would matter if I gave an f what any woman thought
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  600. No point courting as you're just 1 contact in her phone thats jammed packed with other guys contacts....watch out for the fresh creampies....
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  601. Got to find a way to follow 💫😅 I only post videos here
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  602. I can confirm everything she just said.
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  603. TRUTH
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  604. Yes women are rewarded and the courts 0:58 stand behind their ill gotten gains. "I put my career aside or gave up a lot to be a housewife and homemaker". Tell me why women can get lifetime alimony when she could go to school and get a degree in 4yrs. Some women want to start the Korean 4B movement in the US. Please do! Men would keep their resources, peace & sanity. Granted there are still good women out there but there are a lot of horrid women to dodge.
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  605. PLEASE SAY IT LOUD,NO ONE, BOYFRIEND OR HUSBAND IS RESPONSIBLE TO MAKE YOU HAPPY,If you're not happy when you meet them,I mean generally Happy with the life you have at that moment all your going to do is Put that Weight,on the New person BUT ITS NO ONES JOB TO MAKE YOU HAPPY, Women are happy Moment by Moment day by day Year by Year,So you wind up Draining the Other person till their Empty Financially and Emotionally and then Cry that,he was Emotionally unavailable, he's not doing what he used to do NO HE WAS EMOTIONALLY a FINANCIALLY DRAINED BY THE Female Succubus. Someone should go out in the Street with that Question.
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  606. She made her point 😅
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  607. Most absent fathers are likely absent because the mothers are so nasty hostile and abhorrent that they make life so horrible for the fathers to be in their childs lives. Its the mothers fault that they are absent from their childs lives.
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  608. My sister would borrow 1500 euros from her ex-boyfriend, and if she had a current one, he wouldn't need to worry. She broke up because she didn't love him anymore, but they still like each other and meet for journeys or at holidays. She told him that he is just her best friend and never will be her boyfriend again, and he is fine with that.
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  609. Sara, beautiful and wise as always
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  610. Yet millions of saps the world over will marry or co-habit.
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  611. Goshhhhh dayuuuuum! If I ever heard the truth!! Blunt force trauma truth! LOOOOOOOOVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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  612. Guess we need to go and live overseas cuz if you bring one back in 10yrs you get all that with an accent
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  613. And for all these mentioned bullying reasons is why I made the choice over 15 years ago to be single and live alone. Don't misunderstand me, I love the Ladies as long as they ain't mine. Hell Yeah! L.M.A.O.!
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  614. Feminism has won. Enjoy it, ladies.
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  615. Where have you been all this time...🔥💋👌, this is true
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  616. this is my Ex Wife. When i first knew her, she was outcast from the social circles in college. While i was not the high society guy, I had group of friend that all hung out. Friends that didnt care for her. once we started dating they accepted her and her status improved. she also matured (some) as a woman being in a serious relationship. She also was accepted as family with my mom even though she was not my wife yet. Years later, she dissed my mom and brother, unless she needed a baby sitter. Worshipped time with her family, and treated me as if i was a second rate parent and didnt know anything. I worked my ass off to get a house for our growing family, pay HER bills and mine, which were OUR bills, and yet she didnt do a damn thing to appreciate the home i bought. hardly cleaned, had to pursue her for sex and was basically an unwanted roommate.
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  617. Thank-you, Sara. That hit the spot 🙏✊
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  618. You really have a good insight in this, wow!
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  619. More accurately: Multiply and divide
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  620. I'm so happy I don't have children.
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  621. If a woman ever asks you what you look for in a woman. Tell her " I will know when i see it". If you actually give her a list, you have given her a script to mimic till she gets the ring. The worst are the fake religious ones. Too many feminists and 304s pretending to serve God.
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  622. They want their cake and to eat it too.
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  623. Let’s call it what it is? What it is, is the proof why they’re single moms!
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  624. That’s why YOU REBUKE AND EXPOSE THEM ... and lead them to walk according to God’s ways! Period ...
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  625. Perfect… times 50 years and we have today’s dating market.
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  626. That Part
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  627. 20% of men get noticed on dating apps. If 100% of the female pool is targeting 20% of the male pool, then the females are the chasers, and the men don't need to pay. In theory 80% of males are still the hunters, but given that they don't go on dates, they also never pay for them.
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  628. "social media bullshit"- gold!
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  629. You forgot one. You are TOO nice. The semi-attempt to friend zone you. You are nice, too nice, it feels weird, like dating my brother. So I have to lower myself and debase myself and treat you like trash, so you can feel like I'm edgy enough to lust after? No thanks.
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  630. My earned indifference to the plight of women offered me a freedom that I cherish and protect, every, damn, day.
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  631. I never trusted women that do that.
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  632. I feel bad for my married buddies. Sad life. Kids. Cranky miserable wife
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  633. Drop the mic! 🎤 #MensHealth #femalecoach
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  634.  @saraeatononshorts  I honestly think you can open a coaching company for men😉
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  635. For eleven years, virtually every problem we had was a result of one of HER decisions, but who was blamed? I was.
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  636. "Why are YOU single? What's wrong with you?" That's a great way to start a conversation. If you go into any situation expecting the absolute worst, then you're going to get the worst. You might push away the right person without realizing it. Don't let your emotional wounds bind you to a lifetime of loneliness. This is a great video, I agree completely with everything said. I don't wish to share my own personal history, but I do strongly advise that you follow Sara Eaton's advice and learn whatever lessons you can learn from her.
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  637. you are the TRUTH!
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  638. A study I recently read showed strong evidence that current therapy practices and related research is aimed at women and for the most part ignore the male perspective and needs. This results in men in their 30s and older are turning their back on therapy where as men in their teens and early 20s would mentally confirm to a more feminine outlook... and then people wonder why the male suicide rate is so high and also why there's male to female transgender bias.
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  639. Preach sistah ❤
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  640. Your sooo right 😉👏🏼👍🏼🇺🇸
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  641. people often ask me why I chose to never have children with any woman. I guess they haven't seen videos like this, or are deliberately blind to vv0men's behaviours.
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  642. Mass pictures seems sanctified, holy and wholesome... They are friends in christ! 😊
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  643. Yup, my ex of 20 yrs, had a single friend and she listened to her over me. Now they’re both in their 60’s, fat and single………….and miserable. One thing I’ve noticed about women, they no longer defend or will up hold the family unit, they’ve become the enemy of their own happiness.
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  644. When women say they were in a to×ic relationship or a DV (physically or psychologically). Remember they are right, they just aren't telling you who the real victim is, more often than not, women are; some men are, but not as many as women (psychologically speaking)
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  645. Why would this woman (the woman complaining about her husband) make a video like that and post it online? It's bizarre. It's also pretty clear that she's leaving out a whole lot of information. There must be a reason(s) the husband wants out.
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  646. This is correct but men are more visual, we accept more problems from a beautiful woman than a less attractive woman (its just my opinion i can be wrong but i have this impression)
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  647. Sara Easton - a person who, amazingly, knows all of our ex-wives. Scary how accurate this is and how I was one of those men who did not recognize it.
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  648. Drizzle drizzle 😂😂
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  649. 3 times the mother of my son quit therapy when she was held accountable.. When we split I fought tooth and nail for access At the age of 13 I pick him up from her front yard He is 21 now Speaks to her on her birthday and xmass He was 7 when we split
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  650. I knew it was insane to go to another person to ask if an action was right are wrong when I was like ten. Why women need other adults to tell them is beyond me. Simple advice, if you don’t know whether or not you’re doing a good thing, you’re not.
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  651. Very well said. Thank you.
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  652. Very good speech. 💪🏻
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  653. I love how women spent decades calling men toxic masculine. Now women are toxic that men walked away. Lmao.
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  654. Made ❤ of hormons
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  655. It's a very sad state both men and women have found themselves in. But hopefully, the natural organics underneath it all will sort it out to a healthy balance before the human race goes extinct.
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  656. I like you as your down to earth and can see through people's bull shit!
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  657. Sing it with me now....."Honesty, is such a lonely word. Everyone is so untrue"
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  658. ❤ I appreciate this PSA Sara Eaton. Unfortunately the women this message was intended for are deaf to your common sense and scorn your dignity as a version of female simping. That's more and more men avoid getting into committed relationships like they're a plague. Imagine being the guy that buys your wife or girlfriend sexy lingerie to find out itself for OnlyFans and having the thought of all those creeps perving over the woman you love🤮
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  659. Keeping it 💯.
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  660. Wow…Holidays? I guarantee this woman doesn’t take care of her man…ever. Ya know…cuz he hates her…which is why he’s out busting his ass all day and comes home after the sun goes down instead of going to the bar. “Till death do you part” was never meant to be a timeline.
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  661. Facts
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  662. You are the sweetest most kind woman I've ever met just like my wife that passed 3 yrs ago thanks for your help I've been thru 2 terrible divorces lost all my shit twice then I found this wonderful women and was able to have her for 15 years I thank God every god everyday
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  663. Yet some women still wonder why men have trust issues.
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  664. I concur Ma’am.
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  665. Hallelujah sister - finally someone telling it like it is.
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  666. No guy ever said "Lets go look at the sunset". EVER.
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  667. There's an old saying.....single women keep other women single, it's happened to me after a 40 plus yrs marriage, my financial situation and retirement ruined at 67years of age after owning our house and a good retirement plan worked very hard for, back where I started in 1980, renting and too old to start over, very hard to come to terms with, my wife was in a bad mental state and would not seek treatment but was listening to bad advice from people who were telling her what she wanted to hear, depression is a serious problem and nobody can be forced to be treated for it, the person giving the advice didn't even know me.
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  668. "Married single mom" wtf kind of toxic sh*t is this?
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  669. Preach!
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  670. Amen for this good woman. 🎉 God love & bless you!
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  671. Agree 100% except the disrespect or at least for me I’d be out in a hurry if a woman I was dating was disrespectful if they are before marriage it’ll only get worse. I’ve been with my wife for 20yrs married 13yrs of that we had and still have the same desire for how we want to live, raise children, faith, loyalty we started dating in high school so there wasn’t baggage to deal with. Especially in marriage there are struggles but work together get through it and keep going.
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  672. There are to many hunting accidents that involve men being taken advantage of so just stop looking for that perfect woman
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  673. So that's what happens if you put a three-year-olds mind into an adult body. It still will throw a tantrum.
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  674. In my area, I rarely encounter a woman I find attractive.
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  675. Goldiggers and users. This is why men walk away because of these locusts.
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  676. 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
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  677. Second video I've watched of yours and you literally are a love guru. Sub'd
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  678. https://youtu.be/Tq_MQVlefwE?si=SnDjFfC9ZKvnoer7
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  679. And that in a nutshell is dating in 2025
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  680. Just another reason to get a dog instead of woman
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  681. The double standard is that this is modern day slavery and debtors prison. The double standard is that men would gladly raise their own children without financial support but the state can't benefit from that so they automatically give custody to women when 50/50 should be the default standard.
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  682. Or if she gets remarried alimony continues.
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  683. haha, take a date to the cheesecake factory, You would be lucky if I would allow a woman the privlage of walking with my dog and I and you better have treats ready to go if I do allow you to walk with us.
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  684. Psychology and psychiatry are just scams that exploit valuable people for financial gain. Psychology is the easiest degree to get and there are over 30 different courses that can give you a psychology degree and allow you to do relationship counselling even when they have no relationship criteria.
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  685. Is this about “transactional” relationships, as opposed to any relationship based on shared interests and values?
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  686. I can help make it make sense for you. Women view child support as a career opportunity. End of story
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  687. Thanks!
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  688. They want you to “fall in love” with them so they can mess up your whole world. As soon as that word creeps up, I’m out. No explanation No nothing. Bye,
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  689. Hm. Sounds like my rules. I'm alone alot. No regrets... 😉
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  690. If women didn’t let themselves go then men might still find them attractive
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  691. How about, I make you feel special only on these so called holidays, or, I can make you feel special every other day…..you pick!
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  692. You chose the bear
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  693. Bye bye ladies. You’re on your own as far as I as I’m concerned.
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  694. That tantrum tells me everything I need to know about her.
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  695. she is talking directly to me. but I have taken said advice and have been single with no options or years (it's my fault I'm single and my fault for getting manipulated. I can't win)
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  696. I share her opinions on the steak. I disapprove of literally everything else.
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  697. Spot on. Full stop.
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  698. What a 💎
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  699. astrology is witchcraft FFS
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  700. Seems like we are fucked if we do, fucked if don't.
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  701. Thank you so much for seeing men. To see the number of your videos and the content is really on the point. The videos are quite dense of arguments. I‘m genuinely interested what your personal story is, meaning what you‘re doing for a living and how you came to that point that you see stuff that way and not getting captured by the stories so many woman tell.
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  702. maximizers and satisfizers is how its termed. maximizers always seek more and are eternally unhappy. satisfizers seek what makes them happy and KEEP it. i suspect God did this as a curse in female psychology. "you will never find happiness because your definition will always change"
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  703. This goes for father, daughter relationships also.
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  704. I pray for my sons to find loving wives someday. It scares me for them how the dating world is now.
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  705. Do Not Give Up If you are receiving " hate " , that means you have struck a cord and making some uncomfortable. The worst thing to do is to let them rule over you ...Never Give Up!! fight !... Fight !!... FIGHT !!!
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  706. Thank you SO MUCH for your voice.
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  707. I was raised by a single father and he started as a truck driver somehow managed to better his career and raise 2 kids and had enough money left over to retire to a gated community in Arizona.
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  708. YOU AS ALWAYS MY DEAREST ADORABLE SOLDIER ARE ON POINT AS IT GETZ❤😂😢💯☕💀AND HOW DARE ANYONE ESPECIALLY HER HUSBAND SHOULD EVER TRY TO MAKE HER AWARE OF THIS FACT!!!!I THINK IVE DODGED A COUPLE BULLETS BY TELLING THESE BROADS THAT IM SMART ENOUGH TO LEARN FROM OTHER MENS SCREWUPS AS WELL AS MY OWN AND THAT IF I REALLY LOVE A WOMAN ...THAN ID REFUSE TO RUIN OUR RELATIONSHIP BY GETTING MARRIED😂😂😮 !! IM NOT SIGNING ANYTHING !! EVER!! EXCEPT MAYBE JUST MAYBE A PRENUP AGREEMENT!💯☕🧠AND THE GIRL IS USUALLY( ROLLING HER EYES IN THE BACK OF HER HEAD BECAUSE SHE REALIZES THAT I REALLY WASNT BORN YESTERDAY🤨MOST WOMEN ( UNLESS THEYRE SIGMAS) DO WHATEVER MOST OF THEIR CACKLING HEN FRIENDS END UP DOING AND HER SUCKASS FRIENDS COACH HER IN WAYS THAT END UP SABOTAGING OUR RELATIONSHIP!!! AND NOT TO FORGET ... HER MOTHER!!! AAH YES... GOOD OL MAMMA HEN🐔SO THIS WELL OF VANITY AND CHILDISH SELFISH GREEDY ASS BULLSHIT JUST KEEPS CONTINUING DEEPER AND DEEPER. .... UUUH... HAVE WE REACHED THE CENTER OF THE EARTHS CORE YET??!!!
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  709. Glad to have you on yt. Never had tik tlok, never will.
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  710. Walked away this year it’s f-ing awesome!
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  711. A whole bunch of these social media girls, are going to end up alone. They better have their careers in order.
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  712. Well you got alot right BUT you missed a couple big things here. We may be content with the old sofa but if we had the chance we would update the xbox/Playstation and TV. If you can't be happy by yourself another person can never keep you happy.
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  713. Do you have any idea how badly a woman would freak out if her man came home one day with his head completely shaved?
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  714. Your father and brothers must be so proud of you. Keep on going. We love you. Stay 💪🏼 and keep spitting truth bombs. Okay bye.
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  715. You are not a man's responsibility once your behavior costs you that relationship. Doesn't matter who broke up.
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  716. Notice how there aren’t a lot of women commenting in here
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  717. At this point, the problem is systemic, generational. The girls today were raised by the last few generations where 'feminism' (led by ugly women) and which makes women LESS feminine, created dysfunctional homes. As the divorce rates climbed, the children suffered countless traumas and grew up with Authority defiance disorder and trust issues. Add to that the bombardment of social media and idiot programming on television and we have the problems we see today.
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  718. So just start talking to a guy you're interested in, you look like that, so we assume you're already taken.
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  719. Very suspicious isn't it!!!!
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  720. Just keep showing us why to stay away ladies.
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  721. She goes online to hate on men, then can't understand why we avoid her.
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  722. This is a sad thing to listen to. Having no respect of a person's death at all and treating them as if there life did not matter at all. What a sick and sad person she must be. Again shows you how hateful SOME not all females are.
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  723. It's the whole accountability and responsibility issue. Which we know is kryptonite for women.
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  724. Cant take a goth skeleton seriously
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  725. O gosh. You are so scary...
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  726. Thank you!
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  727. I have seen so many of your videos but never know who you were...I'm so glad I found you. Thank you for your words and support!
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  728. That is what i hear from every wahmon, i was abused. EVERY ONE! If everyone is getting the same treatment it is NORMAL!
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  729. Real talk 😂😂😂
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  730. Shes a 3
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  731. the woman in this post is a see you next tuesday: "me perfect, you try to pass muster." this is the kind of woman that cheats, and blames her man for it. pump and dump, my brothers. don't do therapy-- 11 years of univ here: it doesn't work. the field of psych is a clusterfuck of voodoo science.
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  732. only women and children are loved unconditionally, and thats a feeling you will never know, Sara you were and are both a woman and a child
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  733. Wow ! I will choose to stay as a resingled man. You nailed it.
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  734. We are ALL born with a "divine light", where it comes from, is the subject of debate of all the religionist upon this planet....over 1400 at last count. All realize that there is something greater than ourselves;we are born with it...We all walk differnt paths or trails to get to the same watering hole (a goal of a return to diety)....eventially realizing that from "dust thou are and dust thou shall become"....Personally,....I live by the 10 commandements, Golden Rule and points of the "Boy Scout Oath" it has served me very well...but reguardless, your lifes mission is greatly appreciated......NAMESTE'
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  735. Yeah , plenty of dudes would be interested , but like others here said , bad behavior and attitude and a desire for only the top ten percent of the most desirable men is probably the problem . Passport Bros exist for a reason .
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  736. Sadly, Every word was the truth of the way things are.
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  737. There is no I in team. You serve him. What a Goof woman. It's about DUTY for your husband and family. Not LOVE
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  738. This was really helpful. I was getting mixed signals from a woman and it was confusing. Now I know she just liked me.
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  739. As a woman, I have to admit that this describes the typical MODERN woman. However, there are plenty of women who want love and a strong and healthy relationship with a partner that lasts a lifetime. Unfortunately a lot of men have been burned by modern women and become almost misogynistic in response. Men, there are plenty of single women who do not fit the description of the narrative in this video. Not all women care about impressing other women with a carbon rock on their finger or the overpriced piece of satin lace draped over their body. Me, I would be happy with zinnia seeds so I can grow my own flowers and someone who buys me the fancy ingredients so I can prepare a gourmet meal at home instead of going out (but I live in a rural area of a Central American country, so my dining options are limited).
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  740. Listen to this one, subscribe. I have watch a few of her videos, she is spot on. I am 66 years old and learned all of her wisdom the phuc king hard way.
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  741. So true thanks of telling the truth about being men is like
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  742. Enjoy your feline companions
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  743. Killed me with all that baby whining no thanks let some sucker handle all that baggage
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  744. Thanks!
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  745. She’d be single AF if it was my GF after that
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  746. I did. You can't change them. She didn't give a rats ass that she destroyed the family. All about her happiness and "needs"
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  747. This has been going on for at least two decades.
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  748. Awesome 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 Great reminder and reality check
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  749. I totally agree coz these so called therapists and counselors for women brainwash them against men and teach all wrong things
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  750. Her: “You lied to me once; how do I know you won’t lie to me again.” Okay, how much do you weigh? “How dare you ask me that?” Well, you lied to me once so…
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  751. Women can be ruthless 😮
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  752. Toxic mothers are worse. Trust me. My childhood mental scars prove it
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  753. You call it 'comparison' but I call it hypergamy. Women don't discipline their social thirst. Women have relative moralism so their values change with the prevailing winds.
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  754. You might want to come up to the northeast and see how the construction sites are running these days. You are so far off on this. Only women who don’t want to do it and men that have never worked in construction think this is an issue. This is so far off base from facts and reality.
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  755. I'm a total misanthropist, don't ask me..
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  756. Work is for women. Fishing is for men.
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  757. In Poland we have a saying "Baba z wozu - koniom lżej!".
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  758. Lay LOW & LET'm GO 😃👍
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  759. When u got to d bear I was already done. But the the SIMP had me for reaal... Ffs
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  760. My wife would bring up a laundry list of issues that have already been resolved from 10, 15, 20 years ago every time I had a complaint about her that very day. I finally just gave up ever confronting her about anything. How can you complain about anything when she has a mile long list of grievances she can pull out of her rolodex anytime she feels like it.
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  761. She's good looking but 4 kids yep that's not going to go well. This happens in nature with the dodo bird, pre-made families rarely work.
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  762. They become cat ladies.
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  763. Congratulations with your new channel. Everyone of your videos are loaded with information that cut right in the jugular vein of a nasty and toxic behavior that is acting like a Mary-go-around that continues faster and faster without signs of slowing down in the near or far far future. It looks like women are keep drowning in some nasty issues and dragging men with them that women like yourself have the courage to speak out for the sake of salvaging or at least knock some sense in women mindset that they must get they act together and begin treating men the proper way. Best wishes.
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  764. A man will sacrifice his happiness for his family. A women will sacrifice her family for her happiness.
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  765. Sara, you are all over it as usual!
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  766. Women illegally weaponizing the courts with the illegal help of court workers, lawyers, and judges is coming to an end, while most women thought that it would never happen 😂 attempted murder is still attempted murder, your past is your power 😂 life will give us what we give in life and based on the actions many women are about to fall hard in American society because that's what they gave to others 😂
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  767. I stopped courting royalty.
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  768. no man is a "weekend parent". First, we work 2 weeks a month to pay her the child support money she spends on wine, parties, and make up. Then we spend nights wondering what our kids are doing. Of course, this says nothing about the toxic BS mom tells them all week. So yeah, if we get to see them on a weekend--and that is a big "if"--we have to maximize the time somehow. This woman is full of herself. She thinks dad is doing nothing because she does nothing.
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  769. especially if there is a kid. Men know they are mostly fcked financially if they have a kid together.
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  770. Men are rational, they don’t move towards divorce. It doesn’t even really occur to them. The toxicity must have been horrendous. My cute little X was NPD from early childhood trauma. All NPDs cheat, I could not focus on my suspicions because I had 2 young sons . It lasted 29 years before she told me to leave. I filed for divorce the next year. There was no reconciliation involved, she just wanted the ability date (Hmm) 1/2 the guys on the planet. The Universe extracts fairness, she got cervical cancer from HPV from one of her lovers. Women are treacherous.
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  771. "The world is indeed full of malice, but there are some pitfalls one can avoid as long as one knows of them. Ignorance is a sin, after all." Horo [Spice and Wolf]
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  772. Dam she says it like it is I'm dealing with someone I'm begging to get that feeling of only friends online matter
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  773. The pivotal moment where girls rate men on apearence and not from the inside.
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  774. Take Heed of what the system is doing to men! Rebuke and expose it. Stop 🛑 living in denial. Deniability is their weapon. Stable families and relationships is built on strong men rising up to defend the family, home and community; not betraying people.
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  775. In an alternate universe in which I'm allowed to look at women, I'd probably say hi to the chick making these vids
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  776. Men invest like when buying an used car hoping to be reliable for years, while women stick to a leasing waiting for the new model to come.
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  777. Facts
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  778. Maybe I'm old but who the hell pays a woman's bills? Nails? Hair?
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  779. couldn't said it any better
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  780. Wife divorced me after 16 years, never been happier. Thanks baby.
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  781. There’s a really old piece of solid employment advice that also applies here: “Don’t dress for the job you have, dress for the job you want”
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  782. Thanks!
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  783. Thing is. Is anyone that's reflexively like that, as a norm. Actually a good idea to risk... Forget risking anything with, just worth bothering with? Searching for a needle in a pile of needles sounds silly.
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  784. Fellows take care of yourselves. This woman is going to get ran through by all the Chads,Pookies & Rays-Rays. She will try to come back never ever take her back.
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  785. This is 💯 true.
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  786. Some women see anything and everything as an excuse to attack men. They think this makes them strong and brave, but it actually makes them predictable, tiresome, and boring.
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  787. I would bet the entire US national debt that it did not happen. He probably smiled at you, then went to his girlfriend and was talking shit to her about you. Because why do you have neon green bangs and nails 😅😅
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  788. I hope some men do pick better and chose to stay single for their sanity
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  789. Wow! Too much bullshit for me. Keep explaining to them about the reality they live in.
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  790. Emotional abuse does not exist.
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  791. Look in the mirror. That why
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  792. This true evidence
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  793. 👍♥️
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  794. Ladies need Jesus
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  795. Very true! good video
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  796. I don't need a silly superstition to explain bullshit for me.
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  797. Absent fathers are mostly absent due Family Court decisions. The grimmest evidence of male disposability is the Viet Nam Memorial in Arlington, and the lengthy Selective Service Act which reinforces the fact of male disposability as the law only applies to young men. Everyone should read it. There are provisions which effectively make illegal draft resistance in direct conflict with the Bill of Rights. I surmise that Congress and the military industrial complex a lesson from the draft resistance during that war.
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  798. Oh baby you, you got what I need, when you say he’s just a friend, when you say he’s just a friend
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  799. Hi Sara, I have enjoyed your content for about 6 Months and I Love it ❤. I love that’s it is Raw and to the point. I have hoped that women would see themselves more clearly because what you say about them is very true and this comes✅ from a man who loves Women. Not coming from a sexual place but a Sincere affection and adoration of where women are coming from in the World. But things have Gotten out of hand and part of that is that Men do not stand up for their Rights and Dignity and will eat shit from Women just to have a little Sex. 😢! We should All be more respectful of ourselves and know the difference between someone who loves you and someone who is using you and You help tremendously with that. I have thought about you and the hatred that must be aimed towards you by Women 🙏🤍 But you must remember liars hate the Truth. It is not You they hate really but that you are putting the light in their Eyes and many on both sides of Gender wish to stay Blind and blame everything on others. You are helping Others and even those who sling the most Hate towards you are the ones who need what you’re saying the Most. You are a Beautiful Woman in Heart , Soul and Physically beautiful. Moving forward thank them for the Hate and let them know you are glad you could help even if they do not see it that way. Keep it Real and you do make it make sense! 🤗🤍✅
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  800. If I met a good guy would I still be singlecnow? No
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  801. Sara Eaton is a real one. ☝️
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  802. Life's fairly easy for me. My children/grand children and Great grandchildren (as they get older) know who I am (disciplinary). I'm a kind generous loving man as long as no one becomes disrespectful. I made a comment about my great grandsons misbehavior. My granddaughter (18) looked over at me and smiled because she knew. I smiled back and said, "Once an ahole always an always an ahole." We both laughed.
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  803. Touche', sis. . .
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  804. And this is why we walked away from society it's full of lives
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  805. I am so glad I don’t face kids, so I don’t have to deal with things like this
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  806. Red flag Red flag Red flag… unless you’re blind run away as fast as possible.
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  807. A lot of women think that a man is supposed to provide for every financial need and want that they have. Hardly any are willing to at least give a 50-50 deal. And it’s also true that when, “Bill comes in the Front Door, ❤️Love goes 👋out the Backdoor!” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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  808. I suspect this might have to do with male $ui(ide and depression within marriage. Eventually, he figures out he's not really loved as a person. His wife only values him for the stuff he provides
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  809. Never would i let myself be exploited like that. My life, my energy, my body, my heart, my soul, my health!! And when law is against all that, law doesnt count for me. I am the judge and i will take care for justice.
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  810. since when do men have to do anything for you at all? what do you bring to the table besides nothing . and a bad attitude to go along with the nothing your bringing to the table. dont need you dont want you. go pull that on someone else😂😂😂
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  811. Without the douboe standard which she didn't mention was obligatory for men, I'd say she is right. Women who cohabitate often don't get married or have to wait a long time until they get a proposal. Honestly I would recommend no woman to do these things until she gets married likewise men don't do it until you're married.
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  812. "You do not listen to me!" Oh, the irony probably half of these ladies ain't listening, and I'm beginning to think they don't want to listen and try a hopeless shaming tactic! As they say in the Ukrainian Navy, "Pushoffski"
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  813. 100% .. and she will then bring in another guy to get him to pay for meals and her kids as well while playing victim to sucker him in.
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  814. I couldn't have said it that well.
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  815. Thanks Sara
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  816. Meanwhile happy and fulfilling gay relationships are booming.
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  817. They all think they are princesses. NOT
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  818. Your message is spot on the realities dudes need to be made aware of. 🙂
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  819. Why shouldn't a woman text first, pursue guys, and pay for dates? This isn't the 1950s anymore.
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  820. It’s all about the money boys!
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  821. Bless you.
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  822. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
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  823. Since you wanted “Equality” BYE
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  824. On point gal!
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  825. LOL, if you are waiting for a woman to care, your in for a long wait
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  826. Why the heck i never thought of this before
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  827. Like literally
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  828. Also, often these kids are being watched by the grandparents. Hence, why mom can still travel and date. It's a wicked one-sided system.
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  829. Those “husbands” or “partners” as she stated ( red flag right there),weren’t toxic. The truth is that those women got CNN bored.
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  830. Thankfully, I never downloaded TikTok, and I don't have Facebook, Snapchat, Twitter, Instagram or any of the other silly apps.
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  831. Life is transactional to women. Most men want nontransactional.
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  832. Thank you! Accurate analysis of the situation
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  833. im 59 , consider myself learning alot thru life and what you are on to has ALOT of value. I appreciate you! YOU SHOULD SHARE YOUR OWN experiences to minimize the judgement
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  834. I pay bare minimum child support only because I'm saving up for a lawyer to get custody because the sorry excuse for a mother won't even let me talk to our son. I'm more important than my paycheck. Any kid who's been the victim of parental alienation will tell you they would rather have their father than the child support $$$.
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  835. This is why marriage is a dead institution. I have three adult sons. None of them would even consider marriage. Sad.
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  836. Exactly. For me, I knew I was dedicated instantly, almost as if God himself decided to align me with my wife’s path. After that it is a partnership and it needs to be equal and fair, and we both need to know all about each other and support each other.
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  837. I love this woman. I've only known high-drama, selfish women. Imagine a woman this chilled, based, kind, fair and funny. Life would be great.
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  838. 4 kids nah man she trying to hit him with that child support
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  839. Well, the Western world hasn't fully realized the consequences of a queen being replaced by a king. Five years from now, tell me how those cushy women-only jobs are going. 🤣
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  840. Truth spoken
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  841. I don’t look for happiness. It ambushes me on occasion. That’s good enough.
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  842. It's called equal rights,you guys wanted it.
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  843. Single never looked so good.
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  844. Sometimes I think effective contraception has been one of the most destructive forces in society. It has enabled people slipping into the loop of casual instant-gratification sexual relationships which on the face of it have no consequences. Long term we're starting to see a lot of people that understand how to develop proper co-dependent relationships. The move towards transitional relationships are turning many women into socially acceptable self-pimping prostitutes. Finally, the apparent removal of consequences makes moves finding partners from being an intimate social and emotional process to one that's more like choosing a car or house.
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  845. God bless you!
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  846. Like it or not, it's the foundation of civilization.
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  847. This is why the only thing good for a man is being alone with GOD JESUS,Peace tranquility , and a hot meal…
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  848. because it ISN'T "Child Support" it is supplemental or primary income for the Women - Kids RARELY have the money actually going towards their upkeep.
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  849. That's ok. I'm sure that all that hate on men will not bring anything bad. Right? I'm 41 and I still remember my childhood when things were a bit diferent. But I pitty this new generations that experienced nothing but a society that absolutelly despises them. One day this guys will own the world. I wonder if they will forget the hell they were forced to live into. That really concerns me.
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  850. Very smart comments
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  851. This is exactly correct. The 'good guys' are never going to be able to look at other women without some measure of suspicion again. Even so, even knowing that there are good women out there, the problem is not that every woman does, the poblem is that any woman can choose to act this way, at any time, with zero consequences, all while receiving encouragement online and financial incentive in the courts. Is it any wonder that men are refusing to have any part in it any longer?
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  852. Most have moved towards opportunist culture long ago
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  853. Yup, THIS was part of my ex relationship but only after her doing nothing I wanted from her - keep fit, talk a bit less than 23 hours a day, don't snoop, leave my shit alone, work on yourself not me, don't devalue everything I do.
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  854. Astrology is right up there with the flat earthers but these women think that all opinions are equal esp theirs even when they spout off scientific garbage.
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  855. BAM
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  856. How about the pivotal moment when plastic surgery became a thing for women in their early 20s?
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  857. She literally describes what players do... then tries to apply it to all men... including those she won't give the time of day or are in the friendzone... SMH
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  858. 🙂‍↕️
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  859. Unfortunate but true.
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  860. This likely "strong,independent woman " sprang into unethical, "by any means necessary," survival mode. Let's not consider possible consequences. The current boyfriend should run far away from her. Let her have her ex. She already has him on speed dial. Shady relationship.
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  861. Let’s not forget our bro there, who handled it well, sounds like he’ll be fine! 😂
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  862. So, she has given others permission to do the wrong thing in order to make herself feel better. How thoughtful. She just got bored.
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  863. Great job
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  864. You are on the ball with your comments, the kind of shit that women are willing to pull, in order to keep all of their men friends available to her, are beyond belief. The fake criers are the worst.
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  865. You left out harassment accusations.
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  866. Woww. Literally crushing modern-day women.👏🏼
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  867. Sara must get so much hate from women. Definitely defecting from the sisterhood, unforgiveable betrayal, not validating other women is a cardinal sin and holding them accountable? That's like adjacent to literal violence. It's great to see a woman doing this. Some women have their act together, some women see themselves as participants in the world, not the center of it. And a few understand women well enough to speak to them this way and leave them blinking in silence. Well done.
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  868. There’s a free one that’s the best. All you have to do is pray.
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  869. Thank you Sara for your help and encouragement. I greatly appreciate your help.
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  870. All true. ❤
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  871. You're smart😊
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  872. I'll take "advice I wish I had when I was 19" for $700 Alex.
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  873. Woman giving advice to men.
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  874. If you are not happy with yourself . No one can make you happy. As the Old saying goes misery loves company
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  875. This is why not many men are getting married. The contract of marriage is controlled by the state. It's biased by design, because the state gets money for the divorce alimony and child support. The day of easy divorces must come to an end. Domestic violence or cheating yes, nothing else. Women are rewarded for divorcing too easily. This must stop.
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  876. Wars coming ladies....keep showing youre capable, aggressive and ready for viloence. You think the warhawks profiting off of war care you go a trad wife backup plan?
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  877. It became the women's job to pursue men when women decided they don't want men pursuing them , asking them out They don't want men staring at them or approaching them. Men face the risk of being falsely accused of something that could get them arrested or in the work place they could lose there job. So men are listening to what women are telling them and now women don't like it. They have no one but themselves to blame for this.
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  878. Sarah, thanks for your articulation on behalf of contemporary men. That said; I don’t know if it’s you or that poisonous thing featured who’s inserting the grinding, dominating music in the foreground, but it’s not helping. Lord knows, what she’s saying that’s audible is life negating enough.
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  879. I am sure if someone has conformed their needs to life in a household for many years, individual adventures of different kinds can seem attractive at some point. But like you said, the solution is not to go with the short term feelings. If they are that strong, more than likely, it is because she is so difficult to be with that she has run her relationship to the ground. People who are incapable of maintaining healthy relationships will go their own way eventually and choose themselves and money and the next short term gratification.
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  880. I blame the food network. Women got away with doing almost NOTHING in the kitchen for decades, with TV dinners, casseroles and other, lazy crap. Then we got food network. Looked around. Realized we got washing machines, extra cars and were still eating walmart box garbage instead of good food, from a woman that had NOTHING to do all day. Women couldnt keep up. The laziness was fully revealed. Gourmet was and is in every single persons grasp and it really shined a light on how lazy a MAJORITY of housewives really are.
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  881. You want the rich succesful man, the other 90% does not excist
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  882. Believe that!
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  883. Its a two way street.. OUR ATTITUDES TOWARDS EACH OTHER AS WOMEN AND MEN NEEDS TO BE PASSIONATR ABOUT LOVING SUPPORTING AND SHORING EACH OTHER UP AND LOVING EACH OTHER TO OUR UTMOST ABILITY!! I SORTA AGREE. BUT NOT MUCH.. NO MORE NEGATIVITY PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE!! IT MUST MUST MUST FFING STOP🕳️💯☕
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  884. The question she should be asking is, "Why did men stop courting ME?"
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  885. Heres how you lower the divorce and cheating rate: stop giving women automatic custody of the children when she cheats. If women were more afraid of losing their children, (mostly because they are her meal ticket,) then she is less likely to cheat or at least less likely to do anything to earn a diclvorce.
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  886. True!!!!! I learned this the hard way. She wants all this but does nothing in return.
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  887. Any woman ready to contradict her, other than with the ‘not all women’ trope? … (Just crickets)
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  888. Supply and demand. There is a low supply of the high value men you want and most women want them. The man is the prize. Welcome to the new dating market. Remember ladies, you did this.
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