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Lewis, thank you for bringing Esther back on “School of Greatness”, she’s one of my favorites. 🙏
I just love Esther’s way teaching the ABC’s of a healthy conscious love relationship, especially the difference between love and desire, they have different frequencies. ❤️💜
I agree with her that unconditional love is just a myth in an adult romantic relationship.
This kind of love is possible just between a parent and her child to raise, protect and teach the child in a safe environment.
Between 2 responsible adults we should have a reciprocal, give and receive, conscious love relationship.
There’s too much abuse in the name of love in lots of current relationships due to old conditioning beliefs “we’re together forever till death will draw us apart”.
I mean who came up with this drama trauma kind of unhealthy relationship that opens the possibility for lots of suffering and misery?
Have you heard about that saying “ Happy wife, happy life” that’s stemming from pretzeling people pleaser behavior and eradicates any kind of autonomy and growth, hence “I lost myself in that relationship ”.
Or the old belief “we’re not happy but we’re staying together because what people would say” or “we’ve already invested so much in this marriage and going on separate ways is too scary because it’s the unknown”. Human mind has been programmed to assume the worst case scenario to keep us in survival so mitigating the reality for a different possibility has not been taught in school. 😁
And that’s how our kids model our relationships and perpetuate generational emotional trauma.
We’ve got to unlearn, discard and delete old conditioning view regarding drama trauma bond kind of relationships and be willing to learn, grow and evolve within a healthy conscious partnership through openness, honesty, transparency, curiosity, vulnerability, playfulness, compassion, kindness, peace and joy while maintaining autonomy and freedom in an interdependent relationship.
You know how good mental and emotional health feels like?
Joy, inner peace and satisfaction.
The ultimate question to ask ourselves is: “What’s actually truly important to me ?” and listen.
What we’re doing afterwards is solely our choice. 💜🙏
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