Hearted Youtube comments on Charisma on Command (@Charismaoncommand) channel.

  1. My charisma on command is like a cat: I give it commands and it does what it wants.
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  2. It's too bad youtube does not promote channels like this, it's clear that you care about your audience and want to add value to them, oppose to the other money grubbers on YouTube. If you ever want an animation done for you you, let me know :) Keep up the great work Charlie
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  3. Best piece of advice my therapist gave me as a young anxious man. Stop concentrating on how your feeling/thinking and pay attention to what the person is actually saying and THEIR body language. Takes a bit of practice but it pulls you out of your head and allows you to start being more relaxed, authentic and socially confident. You'll start noticing other people's little signals and it'll help connect you to them much quicker.
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  4. this is why your channel is great, instead of like a lot of other people dogpile on this debacle. you made a teachable moment out of it
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  5. The guy just looks like he's having a lot of fun! Everyone loves to be around people who are having a good time.
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  6. Hands up if you're still single
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  7. Will I become more charismatic/confident if I buy 30 black v-neck tee shirts and throw away the rest of my wardrobe?
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  8. 6. Tiege Hanl- Oh wait wrong channel
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  9. I think it would be really cool if you said what you would have done differently in each situation.
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  10. 1) Make everyone feel important and that they matter 2) Be a team player 3) Create lieutenants: encouragement 4) Solicit and accept feedback 5) Empathy 6) Celebrate other people’s wins 7) Create belief 8) Don’t deny reality
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  11. The problem isn't nerdiness: the problem is being one-sided. If the only thing you can talk about is nerdy stuff, that's cool but not very unique. If you're a total nerd, but you also have several other hobbies and a life full of interests that people don't often associate with the stereotypical nerd, now you're a rare and interesting person to be around. Even if you don't look like Henry Cavill / are not a famous actor. Point 3 in the video is absolutely fundamental.
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  12. loved chatting to you my friend - deeply moved me, deeply valuable, and I told so many people about our convo, I really can't relate to you saying something ..."went wrong" honestly. Thank you and I hope we can talk again sometime!
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  13. Whoa, super cool to see this pop up in the feed today. 💚 Love hearing this perspective. Thanks for the shout-out!!
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  14. "Your deepest confidence is not based in controlling the perceptions of others, but embracing the truth of who you are" This is amazing!
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  15. I can now tell with 85% certainty that my wife is attracted to me. Thank you
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  16. Years ago I realized how often I thought positive things about people but NEVER spoke them. I later made the New Year’s resolution to “never withhold a compliment”. If I thought something positive about anyone be it a stranger or someone I knew I would approach them, text them, whatever and tell them the compliment. It made a HUGE difference in my own life and hope in the lives of others.
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  17. What’s interesting having watched dozens of this channels vids is you don’t have to remember ONE specific thing from a video, just the general idea of a situation you’re in and these techniques just sort of come to the forefront naturally. I am consistently put in these situations and these are f*cking gems of ideas. Take heed fellow folks who have regular stranger interactions.This is an extremely well done series. Congrats on the fantastic work!
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  18. In my opinion, it is better not to try to win. Having a point of view that we are all on the same side helped me a lot when it comes to social skills.
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  19. Don't take your relationships for granted! They take work from both parties to last.
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  20. Physical humor is also really underrated. Being more expressive with your body language, making a goofy face, changing your intonation -- all can make a huge impact on your delivery.
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  21. My relationship with this channel can never go bad... right?
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  22. “Use your full vocal range...” Theatre kids: GOT IT😈🔥
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  23. Fundamental to any of these tips is to first understand that you're being wronged or mocked. There's a whole population of people out in this big bad world that don't even realise something is up in the first place, to even begin to consider standing up for themselves.
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  24. Never heard of the term “energy ducking” but I immediately recognized it as what a boring person does
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  25. You can obviously be happy by being single. It's being ALONE that leads to depression. Theres other ways to fulfill that need besides a romantic relationship, it's just the most practical given our societal structure.
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  26. Simple maxim: You cannot shame me for things which I do not feel ashamed.
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  27. Would love to see the Peterson v Harris breakdown man!!
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  28. Someone's been binging markiplier
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  29. For four years I had been waiting for you to make a video about Tom Hiddleston. Well done, as expected of you guys. Keep it up!
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  30. My best technique is the Socratic method aka just asking questions and letting them explore their own ideas. You can pick holes in their argument if you want by asking leading questions, but don't do this too much or they'll feel cornered, you need to make it clear that you're genuinely trying to learn their perspective.
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  31. I loved this video, it's very well made! Thank you so much! I never thought I could learn something from such a chaotic scenario.
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  32. Tom vocalises the inner nervous thought and let's it go. Then people agree with the natural reaction. It's the formula everyone with anxiety is looking for.
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  33. Your breakdowns are amazing Charlie! :) #Believe
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  34. I think meditation is great for reducing anxiety and depression levels in people.
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  35. Me being in a healthy relationship is a great ADDITION to my life. If it falls apart I have many other things in my life that are special and important. The only thing I leaned on my relationship for ( at least initially) was the fact that I had no friends just before it started and I missed companionship. Then I got a new job and finally made some work friends which I'm very happy to have in my life. But you are right. I've always said to people you need to love yourself before you get into relationship otherwise you'll bring your own issues into the fray and it could potentially mess things up. You don't have to be perfect but as long as you're working towards a happy medium you should be fine :)
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  36. Thank you! This literally came JUST IN TIME
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  37. I like how people leave comments considering Timothee's attractive awkwardness only because he has one of the most beautiful faces in the world. Strangely I used to think his face looks weird and he is so skinny, like a child. But after I saw the movie Dune, and starting to go over his interviews. Now I think he's the most beautiful human being I'd ever seen. So I assume that his talent to bring out all the roles he plays, and his passion and commitment towards his acting career do change how we see his apperance a little bit.
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  38. Often I feel it comes down to the fact that relationships stagnate. If you take it for granted, rather than having gratitude, then it won't last
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  39. I have applied storytelling advices which you guys suggested on Kevin Hart video starting from last year and I have seen so many changes since then! I could see how people are excited about spending time with me and I felt more confident and charismatic about myself because of that. Thank you guys! Best channel right here
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  40. These tips are life changing! Thank you for sharing Charlie! For me, a thing that has helped me achieve my goals this year is just starting the task, not thinking too much about it but just starting. I got the best results by just starting things I thought I could never do and never imagined I would come this far.
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  41. This a really good video
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  42. We all could use more laughter in our lives. Thanks 😊
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  43. Sociopaths come on a spectrum, not everyone is creepy, most are more "normal" than you'd think from watching films. They just have problems with certain human emotions or empathy.
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  44. That was too short of a video plz create like 15 or 20 minute videos of reactions 😗
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  45. Kindly do a video on Gordon Ramsay way of handling stubborn people
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  46. You C on C guys are amazing! This was an extremely informative upload using two controversial characters to illustrate the topic perfectly. Very well balanced. I've watched loads of your vids... first time I've commented.
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  47. Firstly, this is gold. The appearance comeback is a tricky one tho - if the other person is not sure how you feel about them it can make them feel shunned or rejected. With two confident personalities it’s prime but if your not sure - would advise against using it.
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  48. After watching several videos of charisma on command I've found little bits and pieces of the advice creeping into my conversations so I'm hooked going to keep watching and rewatching.
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  49. I swear this channel will make me a wonderful person one day.
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  50. As a former introvert that this channel helped a lot, I can say that 1) being authentic and 2) a great listener for more extroverted peers to bounce ideas off of has effortlessly made me more likeable to people. Can't thank this channel enough for the gems it's given me to use in my work/personal life!🤜🤜
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  51. Do or do not there is no try
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  52. I think without the cringe part this could be a good format where people can learn from others mistakes
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  53. I love your advice about being honest! I am seeing a lot of my friends relationships fall apart because they were not honest with their partner in regards to what they needed and wanted from a relationship. They were also not honest with themselves with what they needed and they tried to compromise with things they should not have.
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  54. I was a really shy person but after learning from these videos last week I have performed mimicking speeches of my countries politicians 😂 At my college Infront of more than 500 people and got a huge cheer. I would've not even thought of showcasing my talent like this just a couple of years ago. THANK YOU Charlie and Charisma on command team ♥️
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  55. Yoooo his shirt is navy and not black this time
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  56. Just want to say, I love myself more because of your videos and little things I changed in my behavior. When I am at work, with friends, girlfriend, with just one person or group of people, I am a more approachable and make better connections. Also I feel like I am respected more. It is hard to sum it up in one comment here. I never did any of your paid courses, but just from your free videos here on this channel I changed my life to better.
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  57. I always blame myself when I fail instead of others because it cause me to hold myself accountable. You can’t learn from your mistakes if you don’t take responsibility for you actions
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  58. I haven't joined the program but i must say, this channel has been a huge part of my growth in the past two years. I'd always been someone who was looking to learn and grow. Having grown up with crippling (and I mean Crippling) social anxiety, I was always forcing myself outside of my comfort zone with karaoke, door-to-door sales, public speaking and more so that by the time I was about 20 I'd gotten myself to a point of just being shy instead of completely incapable to speaking to anyone new and having constant panic attacks. Then I discovered this channel a couple years ago, met a supportive girl and worked my way up at my job and now I walk into parties and bars like I'm already everyones best friend 😅 it feels great to have this much progress and I can't express enough how amazing the free content alone is from you guys!
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  59. Stop working on your social skills and this is what happens!
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  60. This man must have mined hundreds of hours to find Joe Rogan talking about Chinpanzees. I respect these artistic decisions, pulls the piece together.
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  61. I hope this works also for girls! Don't assume we have it easy guys 😭
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  62. “Apple was the biggest; not sure if it’s the biggest today...” I assume you shot this video before the milestone headlines were printed
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  63. This applies to every type of relationship: friendship, family or romantic.
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  64. Used the echo technique and the "laugh at yourself" bit in a job interview today! Awesome stuff, thanks for the help!
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  65. after seeing this I realize that the reason I remained calm the other week in a big presentation over zoom where I had massive technical issues is because I thought the stakes weren't that high. Now I just need to apply that to other areas!
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  66. Ever since i started my new job I've been following Craig Ferguson's typical habits when he welcomes a new guest and even how he talks to his crew. Obviously he does things with much more ridiculously but it can still apply. For example, i work in clothing retail and the ladies have to come in a particular (but chosen) uniform, i compliment them on their appearance almost exactly like Craig does. "you look sensational!" or "you look absolutely stunning today, i love ..." I also genuinely mean it and i put a lot of umph in my voice to truly express that, i even do it with the men, I'll tell them that they look great or compliment their grooming if they can grow a thick beard or have a cool haircut. Then when it comes to conversation i always try to keep it light hearted and relaxed so that they can feel the same way, even if the conversation may be a little more serious. For example, my feet were hurting the other day and i was closing the store, i mentioned this to one of my managers and she replied that i should bring some sneakers or slides or thong sandals, i cut her off with "oh trust me you don't wanna see me in a thong" she burst out laughing and that made our night closing that much more fun.
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  67. Instead of the snap method, i tell myself to feel the bottom of my feet. Not literally touch them but just focus on the bottom of my feet and how they feel. It works because it takes me as far away from my head that I can get.
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  68. chris evans doesn't laugh. he gets fkin heart attacks
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  69. I literally just got Charisma Univerity few seconds ago and I can’t wait to try it out
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  70. This is so good. I always appreciate your perspective especially on stuff like relationships. This channel has been super helpful! It inspired me to vlog daily this month! Would love to hear more about non Romantic relationships.
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  71. I believe tip #4 is the most valuable tip. Even in the worst case scenario people can be forgiving if they see genuine effort on your side.
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  72. this video makes me looks forward to getting insulted lol
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  73. I have been watching your videos for about 4 years now, they've helped me a LOT, but i have never felt so touched on a personal level as when you said that recreating the past and making amends is not healing you, embracing the truth will, I am 22 years old, and I still feel like I need to grow so much. I really do apreciate your content but rarely coment, hope you have a great day and continue with the channel.
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  74. What I liked the most about this video is the examples during the interview! It takes some self-awareness and confidence to get to this level! Also, can’t wait to start my courses by Charisma University!
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  75. My favorite way to blow off a bad joke is "they can't all be winners" its got this weird level of self-awareness that you gotta try even if it fails, but youre not bothered if it does
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  76. Socratic Method ftw 🙌
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  77. Dad wasn’t very helpful in my “finding my self” period of my life… but I find your channel extremely helpful. Thank you for being who you are
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  78. That was just painful to watch. That interviewer just wanted to bring up Roberts past which is NOBODYS BUSINESS he’s obviously turned his life around! Move on
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  79. Killer vid boys!
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  80. What helped me a lot when telling a story to people is telling the story not just in events that happened but also what was going through my mind. Like instead of saying something like ''I jumped over the fence, saw a guard dog and started running'' which would be what happened, you say ''So I jump over this fence, not thinking much of it, you know easy done this since primary school, I land and I hear something. In my mind I was thinking about all the possibilities of what it could've been, then I see a dog walking towards me, and in my mind this the biggest more scary looking dog I've ever seen, So I have a quick second of realization and then I start running like my life depends on it'' Same story through events, but one is so much better to listen to because it makes you feel like you're there because the listener knows the emotions that were going on throughout the story.
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  81. I have a few comments for those watching. If you are using the "I don't think I should tell you this" hook, be sure to commit to the story you are telling afterward. Tell the story with confidence. Remember that people often rely on cues from you on how to feel about you, so use that hook before a story you are genuinely comfortable sharing. Otherwise, you are cueing them to feel a bit ashamed for listening. If you actually don't want to share something, people will sense that, and you will deliver the story in a way that does not convey confidence, making others uncomfortable because you seem uncomfortable.
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  82. I need this right now. He left me this morning. 😫😩😡
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  83. Besides the off topic comments in the beginning of this video, this is an excellent video
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  84. Great video. I love the tip about answering questions honestly where most people would lie. So simple yet so effective. I think you guys should do a breakdown on Jay-Z, he is an extremely charismatic, witty, and intelligent person. I feel like you guys would kill it. Thanks for all that you do!
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  85. It's always really uplifting when you watch a Charisma on Command video, and you already do some of the things in the video.
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  86. Everything they say in this video is true, if you're able to relax yourself and just have fun before going into a conversation it is absolutely going to do wonders for your conversational skills
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  87. Went from not sure about how I feel about Tom Hardy to loving and being a huge fan REAL quick. Excellent video.
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  88. i might not be first but im not last when i see charisma on command i click fast
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  89. Had to comment because this is a solid video with genuinely great advice. How to achieve comfort and an air of confidence as a quiet person…. Needed this.
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  90. Just saying, a video about enthusiasm and passion would be pretty cool (based around Steve Irwim). Love the video, keep up the great work!!!
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  91. This was so good. I was shocked at how many of these I actually do but saw clearly thru the examples. It was great to see the counter examples on the proper way to handle it. And the explanations and insight really helped me to understand. Great job!
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  92. When you put all your points in Intelligence and none in Charisma...
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  93. Legend has it matthew learned to be so charismatic by watching charisma on command
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  94. Tom and Andrew should have been given some sort of briefing on what to say in these interviews, it's not fair for them to be stuck not knowing what to say.
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  95. I laughed so hard when he said "no Roy signed that one" 😂 😂 😂 😂
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  96. Enjoyed this one. Loved how he was eating chocolate mid-interview. I continue to grow my tools of confidence thanks to your channel (and others). Honestly, thanks to the growth I have gone through, I am now happy to accept that I am a soft-hearted guy. However, I overcome that, and I openly admit to people that I am sensitive. If they think less of me cause I have a big heart but can be strong, that's their issue, not mine (anymore). :-)
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  97. I'm so happy you made a video about him!! Ever since I started watching the show, I've said, "Man, I want to be like that guy!" It's nice to see a breakdown
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  98. The small talk one was probably the first time watching this channel that I saw something I'd been naturally doing. That's oddly confidence boosting
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  99. 1:53 is the perfect example why you NEVER talk to the cops and ALWAYS should ask for a lawyer, innocent or otherwise.
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  100. So many of these political commentators live in the binary, the black and white. While reality usually lives in the grey, not the black and white.
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  101. There is only one caveat. You have conciously do these things until it becomes so normalized in you that you start doing it subconsciously.
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  102. I love this channel. I was always a charming and funny guy, but wanted to craft myself into something more inspiring such as Draper, Specter, or Bond. Using these videos over the past 5 years I have seen myself go from what I was to the person I have wanted to be and even this past weekend in a Batchelor party full of very confident and funny guys, I noticed that my attention, presence, and input was demanded the most out of everyone using things like these tips. Thanks for all you do
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  103. Well done on this video. Haven’t seen a breakdown as nuanced as this one on this whole mess of a topic.
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  104. Great video. Lex is the Man. Love him. Thanks.
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  105. What a great video! I loved how many different celebrities you covered. Great job with the editing, Andre and team!
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  106. Im going to have an entire conversation today using the mirror method.
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  107. love this video! can you do one in the future that explains looney tunes logic in more detail or maybe shows more examples?
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  108. I have never found a video that breaks down small tall this well! Definitely saving it!
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  109. This is one of the most practically applicable videos you've made. Bravo, gents!
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  110. Great video! Self awareness is key if you want to take control of your life and be better. It is also very good for mastering and controlling your emotions.
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  111. Gaaawd I wish this video was hours long. So helpful and relevant to me right now.
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  112. I started watching this channel so I could help my inverted friend talk to people and this has been very helpful in my own conversations
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  113. Dear lovely person that's reading this, we may not know each other but I wish you all the best in life! ✨ I believe in you! Love - Nat ❤️
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  114. I love this channel as it gives you examples of how you should better yourself and how not to overreact to situations.
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  115. Awesome breakdown! I can't wait til Friday to listen to the Charlie and Ben podcast!
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  116. It really doesn't take long to internalize the stuff you teach! I started watching your videos on Thursday, had a conversation at a new job that would have intimidated me on Monday, I crushed it instead! Literally only a few days!
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  117. Any of you guys see a scary face on the guitar at 2:39?
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  118. This video is so well made! I feel like usually these types of videos have a few interesting things and then spend a lot of time expanding that a little bit and giving lots of examples. But this one is so dense, and there were so many tips that I felt are actually practical and would make a big difference. Point 3 is weaker, somewhat of an interesting point, but maybe less immediately doable. But it's not negative, because the video is perfectly aware of this and only spends 26 seconds on it! Made its point, and moved on. Fantastic video!
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  119. As I understand, the pillars of charisma are having fun yourself.
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  120. Thank you,im gonna try to use these in future!
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  121. Really good points with a really good example, awesome stuff!
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  122. This is one of your best videos, Ben. Thanks so much.
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  123. One of the best episodes I’ve ever seen. Well done!
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  124. I don't know if you will ever read this Charisma on Command, but thank you so much!! :) I have used this recently to get myself heard. I am very polite, for the most part, and don't really like aggressive conversations. This has been such a wonderful video. I have been using these techniques to make my voice heard, and I don't have as much anxiety during conversations. Thank you so much!!
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  125. Alright this guy showed Andrew Garfield, Tobey Maguire, and Tom Holland in the same video!!!! All 3 spider-men are gonna be in NWH confirmed. lol i’m just kidding i’m just making fun of all the conspiracy theorist lol
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  126. holy fuk man, this channel is charming, i feel so confident watching this, he explains everythings so well, he must've helped a lot of people! love this channel!
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  127. Me realizing that CharismaonCommand brought me into the eager student stage as a 15-year-old kid
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  128. I love your videos man. Thanks alot . Some of them, especially this type of videos really help. I really fill more connected to people than before, to the extent some do share some really good secret with me. Thanks alot once again This is a really good video.
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  129. This was a "Zero phone-checks" video. So good!!
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  130. This is really one of the best Channels I've subscribed to, it has helped me alot to grow as a person and is still helping me alot, thank you 👏✨
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  131. I absolutely love how you disclose all your persuasion tactics at the end of the video
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  132. This video was extremely insightful, definitely gonna come into use and help with self awareness
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  133. Gotta say if some dude used the "Nordstrom Rack Mechanic" burn on me, I'd legit laugh. That was gold, love it!
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  134. When i was in high school, i said that i didn't like this guy because i was so used to Charlie. But I've grown to love this guy and i retrack my previous sentiment
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  135. I'd suggest Bill Hader as another person who embodies Charisma on Command because of how instantly likeable and relatable he is, and would do well to illustrate what it takes to be a good storyteller.
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  136. Interviewer: Xbox or Playstation? Henry Cavill: PC Gamers: He is the one!
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  137. Tried the priming method by watching a comedian I find funny. Andrew Dice Clay was a bad choice before a job interview. Oh!
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  138. This may have been the most influential video I've seen in a long while, as far as my personal development goes.
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  139. This is a great video and commentary on Ted Lasso. The biggest takeaway for me was the part about being selfish. I found myself way too selfish in almost everything. Just being interested in others more will go a long way. I need to work on that for sure.
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  140. Hey Ben ! Awesome video as always !
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  141. perfect example to use for this. Tom teaches us about many things without him being aware of it. the manner of speaking and confidence is but one of them. thank you for this video! 👍👍
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  142. This was awesome Ben I am glad you are making videos again. Love your structure
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  143. As an MMA fan in the minority of being okay with Brendan Schaub, it was plesantly surprising for someone to finally compliment him lol
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  144. these tips are super helpful, thank you!
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  145. very well made thank you for this
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  146. Binge watching this channel for almost two weeks..learned that "its never too late to reinvent yourself" i truly believe that now
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  147. Damn I loved this video. The trio of Chris is also one of my favorite parts in the MCU
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  148. This channel keeps improving and improving. And the content has been top notch for a long time. Keep it up guys
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  149. Just read "Never Split the Difference" by Chris Voss. Don't believe me, read the Amazon reviews.
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  150. I was very surprised by how good this video was!! looking forward to more gems from the channel. of course all this great advice is easier said than done, but so seemingly obvious and yet, so easy to forget. really proves like you said, that charisma is a skill that can be learned and practiced.
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  151. I've gained alot of knowledge just from the videos posted here I can just imagine what charisma university would do. It will be Epic
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  152. The editing for the video is spot on, keep up the incredible work
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  153. After watching this I feel a lot better about myself cause I do these things without realizing it just cause it makes me feel better knowing I'm being myself and not coming off as rude towards other people to the best of my ability even if they feel that way I have my life they have theirs and neither of us can say we know why something was said the way it was said to each other (no assumptions) unless we, in a healthy way ask straight up and until that happens imma do me
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  154. 2:50 Best one ever was “ You look like a 50 year old retired skateboarder”. By Conor Mcgregor
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  155. A 60 day money back for a 30 day course!? What!? That's brilliant. I was thinking about post poning getting it while listening to the video and this point blew my mind. I'm enrolling immediately and I'm pretty sure I won't be using the money back. the thought you've put into providing something like that is amazing. The video is great as usual btw.
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  156. Very nicely put together video Ben 👍🏼 :)
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  157. What does the body of a Dutch woman look like? 😂
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  158. Your channel is a JEWEL. My compliments!!!!
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  159. i have to say just by watching charisma on command for about a year ive dramatically improved my ability to not only communicate but form lasting connections . thank you for all your content and amazing ability to convey info !
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  160. I LOVE the shoutout to your editors! That typa thing really means the world to us. People don't ever see the production process of videos!
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  161. This channel and vanessa van edwards are the reason I'm not socially awkward anymore
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  162. I love hereing about other people's careers benefiting from these videos as I've used these skills to improve myself as a manager and a leader
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  163. i literally thought in my mind "well i would say 'its like looking at the sun' but he probably wouldn't say something like that"
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  164. This is a very important video, especially for a person trying develop spiritually.
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  165. There are medicines that you have to take a pill per day and there're medicines that you have to take in small doses, this video is definitively the seond one.
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  166. First
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  167. Is it just me or do your videos just get better and better!?
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  168. These videos are SO GOOD. Completely packed with golden nuggets
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  169. consistently good content -- never stop guys
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  170. I'm not all that sociable personally IRL, have been looking to change that (somewhat because introvert), and had the odd thought that maybe this channel would have something useful. Wouldn't you know it, less than 5 minutes in, I have to take a break to process all this useful information. Thanks OP.
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  171. I'm 18 this year. Head boy at my school, captain of my cricket team & vice of football and I've been with this channel for almost 4 years from the very first video I found. I believe everyone needs Charisma on Command in their life. Regardless of how perfect you feel or believe you are. There's just something about it.
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  172. I'm sure a course called "CU" will be very successful in Brazil.
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  173. I LOVE Special Books by Special Kids! Def check out their channel!
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  174. Damn these videos keep on getting better
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  175. Stunned by the video... It's seriously amazing man Nice work Ben ❤️👍👍
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  176. Thanks for sharing and adding value to my day.
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  177. Dang, y’all came so far!
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  178. amazing video!! I'm gonna be completely honest with you though I'm probably not gonna remember half of this so I will probably rewatch a number of times.
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  179. Does anyone else just learn one at a time until it becomes second nature? I find it hard to remember all of them so I was wondering if anyone does this like with the plenty of times we have been told to do friendly physical contact like a hand shake etc?
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  180. This video has such great advice and is very helpful in my own personal growth! Thank you very much for the info and making this video!
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  181. Phenomenal video!!! 🙌
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  182. I don't know why, but I think this is one of the best videos made by Ben.
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  183. That's a very good video on the topic. Thanks!
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  184. I love these videos! The best thing is you show the examples.
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  185. 4:05 bruh I immediately thought of that interview with Jonah Hill and a few seconds later that was the example they used. 🤯
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  186. Gorgeous analysis. Thank you for your editing and work you put here.
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  187. Great breakdown. Your videos just get better and better.
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  188. Thank you CoC for picking such a great charity to give to.
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  189. My big mental check on myself when I am getting in those moods...when I get water from the fridge. As I watch my glass fill with pure, crystal clear, and near ice cold water I think to myself "There are literally millions of people in the world who don't even know what it's like to be able to do this whenever they want. They likely have never had ice cold and completely pure water before. They don't even know they want this ability......"
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  190. Very good video, really informative unlike most of the videos and channels online
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  191. Such REALLY great & actionable advice in this content! Thanks so much!
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  192. Nail on the head. I watch clips of Ryan before filming 🥲
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  193. Great video. Solid points made, very well explained, with easy to understand examples.
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  194. I’m currently studying acting at University and I think the first minute of this video just changed my life.
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  195. All these people screwed up by not calling a lawyer
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  196. Ryan Reynolds and Chris Pratt! Legendary!
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  197. imma pull a ted lasso here and thank you, sincerely, for all of these videos. They really do help, and I'm learning so much!!!!
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  198. didn't expect this video to be this good. good job CoC.
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  199. The best video since Ben started doing videos again.
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  200. Your analysis and decryption of behaviors and how they can improve social skills are so on point. Thanks for the tips.
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  201. I AM the one who CHARMS
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  202. Mann I soo needed this video rn. Thanks alot
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  203. I learn a lot from these videos, thank you
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  204. Such an important video, going through topics I sensed should be during an argument, but could never pinpoint and define them. And beyond that, the last two points about self reflection and improvement, and even more important, about per-existing bias. Which I have seen on both sides of the spectrum. Well done on this vid, will take away all of what you presented.
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  205. I had a hard time watching this video. Not because of you Ben but because those people were bottom of the barrel and I wanted to "smack" them to knock some sense into them. Side note: It's incredible to see how much the channel has grown over the last couple of years. I just noticed the 3.8M subs, congratulations to you and Charlie. I think I started watching your channel before you hit a meg.
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  206. One of my freind asked me what is consistency i showed him your channel ✨
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  207. Is there a better, more consistently informative channel on the entire Youtube platform? If so, I haven't found it - Charisma On Command you continue to lift the bar 👏
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  208. Joining this university on January first on 2023! Hold me accountable.
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  209. I noticed the host started talking more like McConaughey as the video progressed ... just as Anne Hathaway foretold!
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  210. I sincerely value the videos y'all make so please understand this comes from a place of love. It makes me sad when you have a typo in the video. Please don't get get defensive. I just WANT to feel heard and understood.
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  211. This is an incredible breakdown
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  212. This channel is the most legit channel of this kind.
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  213. i kinda do greet only the person i have work with... so that tip of yours actually very helpful for me.... can i get a heart 💜
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  214. Funny, I came here to learn what NOT to do and ended up taking a long look at myself and learning what I can do, great channel, I'm learning a lot.
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  215. I've been doing these tips my whole life and didn't know it; I didn't know it was a thing. Now I have even more insight on this. I'm happy these videos exist.
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  216. I am classified as a Non-Violent Psychopath. SO If anyone would like to actually speak or ask anything to someone with psychopathy ask away. I am an open book. seriously ASK ME ANYTHING.
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  217. Lol, great channel, but in the cartoon he says “ToRANto”, it’s Toronto👍
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  218. Ben this was one of y’all channels best videos
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  219. Thanks for your content. your videos are genius.
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  220. Bruh, after watching some your videos, I've learned a thing or two and I'm grateful btw. I see a lot of resemblance of your vids on Stoic teachings, especially on this one. "Choose not to be harmed, and you won't feel harmed. Don't feel harmed, and you haven't been" Or is it just me 🤔🤣
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  221. Watching charisma on command after a few months, its always a pleasure
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  222. LOVE This - glad I found this channel. Thanks! ❤😂
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  223. Did the first impressions course and it was pretty dope. Excited to start the full course! Also, really enjoying the podcast
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  224. „Oh doubling down on jokes, sounds a lot like improv!” Mentions improv in the next second <3
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  225. New favorite channel. Very helpful.
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  226. Why didn't you just use video of....every politician ever. I see all of these when any one of them talk. In any case, this is great stuff
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  227. Hey bro, you makes most useful videos on YouTube and I sincerely appreciate it. I saw a change around me but one request, can you provide summary of your videos 🙏🙏
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  228. OMG when did the soundtrack on this channel became so good ?
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  229. I'm so gonna try this!
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  230. Been waiting for you to make a vid about this guy. Thank you :)
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  231. Thanks a lot man........I never thought I needed to build my charisma before watching this channel and I almost gave up meeting people in fear of rejection. God bless the youtube algorithm to suggest me such a wonderful channel.
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  232. "...im ben... except say your name" made me laugh HARD.
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  233. I love this video
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  234. I'm very glad of being sub to that channel 😁👍👍👍 i learn very critic awesome stuff here.
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  235. Thank you charisma nerd. Love your videos.
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  236. This is seriously the greatest video i have ever seen in my 28 years of life. Thank you, i needed it ❤
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  237. The aging backwards because of Satan is just facts
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  238. Invaluable tips. Thank you very much
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  239. This is like IRL cheatcodes.
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  240. Is anyone here for a second round?
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  241. Ben out here making his army of sexy surfing nerds.
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  242. 7:20 I Thank You and the Algorithm for sending you to my YT Feed on the time I mostly need. ❤
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  243. I used to have panic attacks to a point where I would start crying when I had to leave the house. Over the past few years, I became very confident and I have actually used most of the strategies from the video. This is an incredibly helpful compilation and I'll save this as a reminder 😊
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  244. Judging by the thumbnail I thought the answer was to have an axe.
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  245. The state of nervousness I was in before clicking on this video, haha. Brought back memories of opening up the results of exams I hadn't been confident about (but I appreciate the content and chance to better myself).
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  246. He was a farmer but never simple.
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  247. Great advice. Obviously you want to get comfortable using all these techniques as appropriate.
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  248. Your videos are so good!
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  249. Just found this channel and just created a new Playlist just for this! Boy do I have some people to share this with! Thank you.
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  250. Therapists should start using this program in tandem with their own program for recovery. Knowing better ways of connecting with human beings has been just as healing for my PTSD as the therapy.
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  251. Wait! What? 17 years for an implanted false memory of the facts?!
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  252. Always enjoy your videos. 👍🏼
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  253. I asked that interview question at the job interview and I got the job. Year later Im still here and doing great job
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  254. This one helped a lot because it's so relatable.
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  255. Not sure I remember what you were saying. I was laughing.
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  256. What an absolute banger
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  257. Stellar, indispensable as always
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  258. Ironically, but not seeking to win and instead seeking to learn - you are more likely to win. In fact, you are practically guaranteed to win, either through persuading the opponent (or at least members of their audience), or through learning new perspectives or information.
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  259. One of the best channels on YouTube
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  260. Great video 👊🥩
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  261. bold of you to assume anybody likes league of legends, we all hate it but we keep playing
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  262. Narrator: Now, obviously, we don’t want to be threatening to murder children. Me: already sold on the scene…erasing notes 👁👁 oh, ok.
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  263. Elizabeth from Theranos reminds me of that Disney cartoon snake that tries to hypnotise with its eyes. Think it may have been in the 'Bedknobs and Broomsticks' movie
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  264. comment for youtube algorithm
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  265. Bro this channel is gold. Kudos.
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  266. Imagine if two people that watched this video argued xD
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  267. Dude this was really helpful, thank you very much! :)))
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  268. My go-to is pets. If they have pets, they almost always get excited and want to tell you about them, maybe even show you pictures. If they don't, you might hear about the pets they wish they had, and if they just don't like animals, you can ask why.
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  269. Yeah, no one person can be all things to all men. So I hope people don't get too overwhelmed trying to follow all this advice and just pick one ... or two.. bits that do make sense for them. Enjoy!
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  270. A random video suggestion brought me to this channel. Then I see Bill Burr is the current example on subject matter. Umm you had me at hello - subscribed immediately 🤘🏻
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  271. Me trying to talk with my barber: "so, what do you do for a living?"
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  272. "The best way to cheer yourself up is to try to cheer somebody else up." That's exactly what this video is all about! Making people laugh and feel good. 😊
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  273. These videos are great and I always end up coming back to them when I fall back into depression or introversion your great
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  274. People pleasing is a curse. Thank you for this video.
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  275. This is one of the best videos you’ve made
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  276. I see Craig Ferguson I click
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  277. I've been watching you for almost 3 years. You always teach me a lot of new things. Thanks for all your work
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  278. I just find this channel and it’s Christmas again for me today!!
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  279. Turns out "why iroman is cooler" doesnt work that well so the title isnt that
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  280. I see coach pop as one
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  281. after seeing this I realize that the reason I remained calm the other week in a big presentation over zoom where I had massive technical issues is because I thought the stakes weren't that high. Now I just need to apply that to other areas!
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  282. More social interaction video breakdowns please!
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  283. Road to 5 million Subscribers ✨
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  284. Excellent choice of model and thumbnail
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  285. If you are tellung a story them follow the 3 second rule from Tom Holland to keep the group engage, but when somebody asks a question then follow Wolverine's rule, Lock It.
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  286. Am I the only one smiling the whole time while watching this video?
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  287. This video is so true! I remember one time I was at a party and started talking to this guy about the weather. But then I asked him how it made him feel, and suddenly we were having a deep conversation about his childhood memories of snow days. It was amazing how quickly we went from small talk to something really meaningful.
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  288. That’s so funny that a min in….
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  289. This is so good. I needed this.
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  290. The narrators of this channel DONTTTT MISSS
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  291. These videos are therapy :)) I watched Ryan Reynolds so many times that I'm afraid I'm gonna call my gf Ryan.
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  292. You really got me here just to say that between two ferns is satire, but then subverted my expectations. I just wanted to be mad, now I’m 13 minutes older and smiling. You jerk.
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  293. Don't fear silence! Dear god I love that! I used to struggle a lot with "uhm" and "uhhh" and it took me until I was 22 to realize I wasn't thinking fully before i began talking. It feels awkward at first just stopping mid sentence to contemplate on what you want to say or how to express your thoughts so the other person can understand better, but you get used to it and you realize nobody cares, in fact they usually hold your opinion to a higher degree simply because you put actual thought into it.
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  294. Don't apologize if you're not really sorry. - Sorry, but you just lost and confused the entire nation of Canada.
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  295. Despite being an empathetic person who does a lot of the positives here already, but only mentioning to say I found this video extremely well made and very informative regardless of what you already know! Very sincerely and intentionally made video on helpful subject matter! All the praise possible! You handled this tactfully and empathetically even when pointing out mistakes! Exceptional video!
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  296. This video is so helpful!
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  297. This video is fire ! Thank you so much !
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  298. Thank you for your work. For real. Can't find the exact words to show you my grattitude...
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  299. Great points! You guys are amazing!!
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  300. I introduced myself as Ben, but my name is Jeremy. She likes me. Now what?
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  301. Awesome video. Thank you!
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  302. Good work Ben!
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  303. There's a reason I watch these videos, because I want to be a better person Future me, if you see this...I'm doing this for you
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  304. You could say, "Tell me about..." instead.
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  305. they should teach this at school. or at least show this video.
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  306. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐Excellent video with superb advice. I am developing a homeschool curriculum &, fingers crossed, a private school & I have added this video to include in communication, mindfulness & social skills instruction. Liked, commented & subscribed.
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