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  63. Love and care for YOURSELF first. People with such compassion and empathy for others often find themselves giving their whole selves to others or a cause or many causes. It sounds like what you ended up with here was someone who definitely was broken who most likely has mental health issues and he was certainly taking advantage of you whether it was intentional or not. Sounds very similar to the situation that I had lived in for 19 years With someone. The love bombing and gaslighting over and over and over talk you up and treat you so well and then tear you down so easily. And, I still had love for him. The best thing I could’ve ever have done for myself was the day I ended it all. It had to stop it had to end it had to be over. And I made it happen. By the time I made it happen it was OK and I was able to make the break and not have any overwhelming lasting feelings, but that is also because I was in that situation for so many years, I was slowly dying along the way. Although I lived my life out loud With my friends and family and did things that I wanted to do my relationship was never what I wanted it to be. When I ended it all with him I still continue to live my life with my family and my friends, and I have a good life. No one needs to be treated the way this man treated you. And we can make all kinds of excuses for his behavior And try and try and try to figure it out and what it means. What means is the next round is going to be better with the next person. You’ve learned and have grown from this experience. Yes, you are correct. There is sometimes a very deep tie that is not understandable. My partner he used to say all the time I don’t know what it is, but there’s just something about you. So he knew all along that there were some strange connection between the two of us as well and if you can’t name what it is then it’s time to move on. Cut the ties And keep building yourself up and making yourself stronger. You are a beautiful woman with a soul full of light and love. Share it out like you have been sharing it and it will all keep coming back to you. Much love!💜 and, oh yes, I want to warn you that even after I had cut it off and had a few conversations off that major after that major cut him out of my life. He did reach out again about eight years later three different times. I did not return the calls, not opening that door again. I would recommend the same for you.
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  178. It's a whole different issue in the US/UK, but in the EU I feel like there's still an expectation to make the effort to get a degree in almost any area since it's free. E.g. my brother does programming (+economics), one of the areas people always put on the list of jobs you don't need a degree for and he's told me that in most major international companies that pay well, for entry positions you're expected to have an MA degree, work experience + knowledge way beyond what your education can offer. It's not that it's impossible to get the job without it, but it's going to be much harder. I studied Anglophone literatures and lang. and there's absolutely an expectation you'll have a degree+ a ton of experience to get any serious work as a translator. And now with everybody pushing AI and MT postediting, the whole area is going downhill. So now I'm close to finishing my second MA in psychology. I'm planning to become a clinical psychologist, so I'll need to pay for a five year of accredited psychotherapy training (almost 20k eur) + while also working under supervision in a hospital for 5 years at the same time to get to the final board exams. You're pretty much guaranteed to get a well payed job afterwards, but the process really does suck. My parents both work jobs payed directly by the state (public education and administration), and here a degree also authomatically qualifies you for a higher salary tier. So sure, there are great jobs you don't need a degree for, but there's still a surprising number of those where having one helps a ton 😅.
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  314. You said he is borderline or BPD, but then as you started to say things about him, how he was actually and how he changed, day and night senario, I actually think just based on what you said that he has manipulative tendencies and might be sociopath, only those people can act like that. And the thing about you leaving and finding a means for you to be self sufficient was a way how he couldn't manipulate with you so he wanted the right opposite and since he could be a sociopath he played it from the getgo, which is kinda scary to think of. Since you stayed and returned to him multiple times and almost lived with him in a polygamic relationship could have something to do with abandonment issues as you stated, but also it could be manipulation from his side, that he said over and over again that you are worth nothing and you can leave, he doesn't cared about you that are things normal people just don't say, and he acted this way when you wanted to leave him. Those people can be also egocentric and narcistic as many stated which he was and is. Simmilar people do attract each other, so he could have some autistic traits or an higher intelect. I wish you could find a way how you can trust men once again, that they are not thad bad of a kind, because you found a manipulator and a sociopath in one person.This video shows that you are still not absolutely ok, but its a good way at least to get it out and show us that you went a long way to delth with it and also this video has its part in it. Just saw this on psych2go https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BIRGoZBhRtI
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  903. Dear Ayşe, First of all thank you so much for taking your time sharing your story with us. Know this my dear Ayṣe, You’re a wonderful high value smart well educated woman that deserves all the best, and I send you much love and hugs, as a support to you, I also ask the universe and the Devine to fulfill your dreams and aspirations ♥️ I actually came across your video accidentally.. well I guess it’s the modern technology that reads our minds that suggested this specific video to me ( algorithms ), or maybe as you said, we’re connected energetically as spiritual beings.. who knows? Ayşe, let me tell you this, I went through a similar experience last year, except for that I didn’t attach myself to the person due to my secure attachment style, so I called him out for his bad behavior, and left him after the first spiteful message which was full of anger & pain from his part. Just like you, I did think my connection was a twin flame connection, I felt a tremendous familiarity with him, a feeling of home, felt like I knew him from a past life or something, and that made me believe that our connection was a Devine connection, and went through a hard time because of the turbulence of it. But let me tell you this, a while ago, I saw a video connecting between the twin flame dynamic, and a specific relationship typy between an avoidant attached person and an anxious attached person, a dynamic of a runner and a chaser, mouse and cat, push & pull dynamic, now me not being anxious, I didn’t chase, I left him and still trying to move on, I try to be rational and logical more than spiritual at times, especially when it comes to this type of a connection, or any other human connection, why? Because I am a spiritual person, I’m an empath, so I try to balance my emotions with my rational thinking.. meaning balancing heart and mind, trying to be more grounded and steady, this is important in order to let go of the guilt & remorse that we empaths have, and also to let go of the attachment to the so called twin flame connection or person. Just like you, I watched a ton of videos about avoidant attachment style, and how to help an avoidant, but guess what? By time I realized it’s not worth it! We empaths are not here to fix broken individuals who don’t care about healing themselves! We can help and nurture them only if they’re open to it, but we shouldn’t insist on it if they’re rejecting any help, let alone if they reject us to begin with. So my advice to you is to work on yourself ( self development ), work on healing ( just like you’re doing ), love and pamper yourself more.. and move on! You can do it, I see that in you and I trust you! 💪🏼👌🏼 Thanks again for this valuable video🥀👌🏼 Last note: Look up trauma bond, some people mistake twin flame connection with trauma bond.
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  955. Hi Sue, thanks for vlog share content today. Good luck with your Turkish channel collaboration enhancing and helping Turkish people to learn English. It is sad to hear that Turkey also does not appear to look after its own citizens sufficiently. I travel to Canary Islands a lot and refuse to stay in Airbnb apartments ( my chosen accommodation) as like yourself rents are now so high for local citizens they are sharing small apartments as cannot live on their own wages without sharing. So i boycott apartments and stay in hotels only and when i socialise i tip local employees in their pocket as much as i can. A question why not get a licence from Istanbul local council to be an official Tour Guide. That once you have gained approval of suitability from the council you then promote yourself to larger established hotels offering their Clientele ie people like me a tourist foreigner wheerby i can book along with some other people thtat you take us around the landmarks of the city. Im sure with your level of English language and grammar. Make an arrangement of for example Hotel gets 25% and you get 75% of the Tour Guide takings all official and accreditted. I would welcome someone like yourself taking me around Istanbul sights for a day. Just a thought. Loved hearing the prayer broadcast and you explain thi goes out 2 or 3 times per day. Maybe on a nice day go for a walk around Istanbul and use your phone to show us subscribers some of the sights you like around your wonderful historical city. It is allowed or is it frowned upon for a Turkish woman to be doing such a thing. ? Until the next vlog share. Gray.
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