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  1. They reduce us to height, income, looks.
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  2. It should be called "GOLD DIGGERS convention, suckers welcome"
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  3. Paternity test should be mandatory at the day the woman gives birth.
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  4. The second girl looks like menopause Dora the explorer
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  5. "if they don't want you in her prime, don't provide for her in her decline "
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  6. They are not sorry. If they found a husband now, they'd mistreat him.
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  7. I heard it’s very expensive for men to attend these events while ladies are for free
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  8. She should be sued and thrown in jail. 5 years per child.
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  9. "My standards aren't high at all!" "All available men are either short or have a bad financial status." Absolutely delusional.
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  10. I don’t want to attend matchmaking events. They make no sense. It feels like shopping for a product.
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  11. Forcing the groom to drink foot water for the dowry makes this marriage not worth pursuing. It’s an insult to a man's dignity!
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  12. His wife should be punished for adultery.
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  13. Women: I want a handsome, 6 ft tall, make $500,000 a year, own a house and 2 car, college degree, nice personality and very faithful. Men: I just want a young beautiful woman. Women: Why are men soooo picky?!!
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  14. This proves that those woman on the show are looking for $, not love.
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  15. Why should men pay for entry when women get in free? It shows that men are still seen as "providers" and women as the "prize." Until that changes, I doubt the attendance will improve.
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  16. Good for him!!! None of those women were looking for love, just a bank account! He dodged a bullet!
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  17. Got arrested for gold digging? That should be the law in every nation.
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  18. If a man is really tall, handsome, and rich, would he choose an 'older single woman'?
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  19. I’d rather stay single than participate in this kind of matchmaking game.
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  20. Men have finally realized the truth: being good to yourself is what really matters. Simps end up with nothing.
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  21. This is happening in the US A as well. No men are showing up at singles events and even the clubs have seen a large decline in men.
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  22. The wife actually said it doesn’t matter whose children they are? Then why did she even get married?
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  23. get married for 500k > get divorced > repeat . wow nice business!
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  24. Our Chinese brothers are teaching the ladies a very hard lesson.
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  25. To be honest, age is a huge factor. No matter how capable you are, men are naturally attracted to youth.
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  26. If he made 30,000 a month, they'd say he's ambitious; if he makes 3,000, they'd call him delusional.
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  27. Who says women don’t care about men’s money? The moment the law changes, they start emphasizing ‘uterus value’—such a double standard.
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  28. IF she is NOT your wife do NOT spend any money on her at all. NO wife, NO spending. Ever.
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  29. It’s not that we don’t want to date beautiful women, but the maintenance costs are simply too high.
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  30. I feel like her begging for reconciliation is only about the money, not love. This kind of behavior is really disappointing.
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  31. To sum it up...women want all sorts of guarantees while men are expected not to ask for any.
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  32. I dont need a castle anymore, i only require a mansion now. I lowered my standards.
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  33. Women waiting at the finish line. Too bad they're all waiting at the wrong racetrack. Leftover women
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  34. So you want me to buy something other men got for free?
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  35. One good thing about valentine's day - I can buy those chocolates at discount price afterward, for myself 😅
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  36. I was getting to know a very beautiful woman in her mid 30's. We connected really well. When marriage subject came up. She made it clear she was a modern mindset woman. But wanted the old-fashioned relationship in the marriage. Meaning she wanted the man to pay all the bills, pay her expenses, and things like that. Which is fine at one point in her life. She wants to put all her money in her savings she earns. She has two older kids and can't have any more children. When I asked her what she brings to the table in marriage. She said herself. That should be good enough. Well, I kindly distance myself from her. When she asked why I no longer called or took her out. I told her we had two different ideas of marriage. I wanted a partner, not someone to pamper. She didn't take it well and used words not lady like.
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  37. One-sided romance is NOT romantic.
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  38. How the hell is she allowed to assault him like that?
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  39. The men these women want don't need matchmaking events. They are like top percentage of men. The other men not in this top group know they would be humiliated at the event, so it is best to not go.
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  40. When she was 21 and I was 21. I proposed, she denied. When I was 31 and she was 31. She proposed, I denied. She ask why did I change? I said: "Nothing has changed. She still love money and I still love 21 years old girl"
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  41. I find that this new marriage law is fair and clear. Individuals that are furious over this law are obviously gold diggers
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  42. ...im convinced that most women have lost their minds at this point.
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  43. The guy is finally free, marrying someone who doesn’t pressure him. That’s true happiness.
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  44. If the bride price is for protecting women, what about men’s rights? Why does no one care about the pressure men face in marriage?
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  45. You cant feel sorry for them....imagine how many good men they have rejected in their dirty past.
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  46. This mindset is toxic that mom is CRAZY
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  47. This new law will make men more willing to marry and women less likely to marry. I wish the US would implement such a law.
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  48. Notice that the law is completely gender neutral. If women believe its unfair that the men gets to work and pay for everything, then they can be the ones working and paying for everything. Also the changes apply almost exclusively in cases of divorce, if there is no divorce this law wont change a married couple life at all.
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  49. Let’s be real. A man can work hard his whole life, but if he doesn’t have money, women won’t even look at him. Is that how society really values us?
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  50. As a man 👨… I’m looking for a Super Model GF who is a Billionaire but I will settle for Millionaire … IS MY STANDARD TOO LOW ?? 🧐🤨
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  51. If there wasn’t the 3 million demolition compensation, would she still want to reconcile? This kind of love is unreliable.
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  52. My uncle was a carpenter in Malaysia. He struggled to find a wife till his 30s. He married a 20yo Vietnamese girl who was my age and she was the most hardworking person in the entire family. She took care of 3 kids,cooked and cleaned and help looked after my grandmother in her house. How many chinese women who grew up being pampered can do the same.
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  53. They aren't looking for love. They are looking for a paycheck.
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  54. Why do Chinese men choose foreign women? Many people say it's an 'overseas study' fantasy, but that's not the case. What Chinese men value is not just foreign women's looks, but their sincere attitude toward family and marriage.
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  55. Those who were not beside me supporting me during my point of struggle has no right to my fruits of success
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  56. Over thirty and still demanding 'tall, rich, and handsome'—isn't that a bit unrealistic?
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  57. Watching these vids warms my heart, knowing that these women mistreated or used men for a free meal/drinks. Now they know how we feel when we were young.
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  58. They ALL say "they tell me I don't have high standards, but I don't think my standards are high at alll", but then go on to recite a list of high standards.
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  59. I want a women whose age is less than 25. Owns a private jet Gives me millions to spend Is my request unreasonable?
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  60. As a single man, I wouldn't attend these matchmaking events.
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  61. They don't understand what men want.
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  62. The reason she kept declining him 8 TIMES is to motivate the guy to “make more money”??? What a gold digger. That dude dodged a nuke. Though the guy is such a simp for proposing 8 times.
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  63. Wow, the moment the law changed, women immediately started asking for tall, handsome, and emotionally intelligent men. Hilarious!
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  64. She thinks her looks give her the right to spend other people’s money? This mindset is truly scary.
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  65. Why is it "reasonable" when women make high demands, but when men set conditions, they are accused of "dreaming big"? Isn't marriage supposed to be a two-way choice?
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  66. The ex-husband needs to do a DNA test on the child...it probably isn't even his child !!
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  67. Yes. Filters should be banned. It's dishonest
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  68. sooo... i get to pay 88k RNB, help you pay for your house, live with/take care of your parents, and IF you decide to have kids, they'll take your name. OMG WHAT A DEAL!!
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  69. These events just pressure men to choose between leftovers and outdated food.
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  70. It’s clear that Ms. Li never valued Mr. Wang. After the divorce, she only wants to remarry because she sees him with someone better. A woman like this doesn’t deserve another chance!
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  71. Old single women can all group together and grow old.
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  72. A man asking for a premarital checkup isn't distrust, it's about protecting himself!
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  73. The guy already gave 8 chances to this utterly ungrateful woman. Other men should just find someone else immediately after the first rejection.
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  74. They scammed him, he ended their family line.
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  75. refusing to settle is like being unemployed and refusing to accept any job that pays less than your previous one
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  76. "JUST GIVE ME THE MONEY!" is all I need to know.
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  77. Her name is Lulu....short for delulu 😭😭😭
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  78. Giving all your money to your wife is really foolish. Even for the sake of the family, you can't completely lose yourself.
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  79. Chinese women took Gold Digging to a whole new level.
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  80. She doesn't have "cancer" she has Karma!
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  81. Smart men know that beautiful women are for sale, the women will leave them the first opportunity that they can for someone who they perceive as better.
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  82. If you want traditional marriage then you have to be a traditional woman.
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  83. If the law doesn’t protect deceived men, will impulsive crimes become more common?
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  84. Some older leftover women’s "confidence" is just because no one dares to criticize them. Men’s awakening is a backlash against this blind confidence.
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  85. Modern women always talk about equality, but when faced with challenges in the workplace, they demand special treatment. Isn't this a double standard?
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  86. If she wants expensive gifts on a blind date, she’s clearly not looking for love, just a sponsor.
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  87. I’ve seen older women reject perfectly good men because they weren’t 'ideal.' Now those men are happily married, and the women are still waiting.
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  88. Lies. Yall dont get it. He ran cause he knows the girl's family will demand 1 million bride price and a house and car etc. Avoid that at all cost
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  89. Man dodged her poetry for his lifetime😂😂
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  90. The man is called "irresponsible" for not paying, but isn’t the woman even worse for bringing a freeloading squad?
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  91. With women like that ... who needs any enemies, you are married to one.
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  92. These ladies don't want a peer with whom to build a long term relationship. They want a wealthy prince. However, what they fail to recognize is the wealthy prince does not want them.
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  93. I think Chinese men need to start asking bride price instead giving it 🤔
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  94. This is amazing. It ABSOLUTELY should be a mandatory thing if the woman is demanding a bride price. It’s the LEAST she can do. If a woman scoffs at this you already have your answer of whether or not she’s suitable to be your wife.
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  95. In Spain we have a joke about this kind of women: A man arrives at a dating centre and is immediately approached by a woman who first tells him her demands: Demanding woman: "You have to have a house on the Costa Brava, a Ferrari and a 20 centimetre masculine 'attribute''!" Male candidate: "I have several houses on the Costa Brava, two Ferraris... but I'm not going to cut 10 centimetres off my masculine 'attribute' for you or anyone else"
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  96. If a woman does not want you when you are poor, she does not deserve you when you become rich. If she does not want you in her early 20-s, you do not have to marry her when she is 30+.
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  97. Remember guys, if women didn't give you a chance during their prime years 18-24, don't give them your prime years
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  98. Even though she has cancer, I don’t think she deserves to ask her kids to care for her. How can 16 years of abandonment be easily forgiven?
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  99. Scammers living off blind dates, calling the men scammers! What an irony.
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  100. 30,000 yuan = US$4,130 For ONE dinner?
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  101. I’ve seen too many men in their 50s and 60s regret getting married. It’s not that they couldn’t make it work, but they realize they gave up too much.
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  102. Rejecting a marriage proposal eight times? She was playing games. He did the right thing moving on.
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  103. They hate when men are relaxing, happy, have a hobby that doesn't involve them and most importantly, not grinding or working for them.
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  104. Looks like the guy passed the test with flying colors.
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  105. Imagine paying for a brand new car and found out that it was a used car with high mileage. Previous owner ram the car like no tomorrow and the repair bill is on you.
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  106. It’s a worldwide phenomenon. China isn’t special in this regard… 😂😂😂
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  107. LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL 🤣🤣🤣 This channel is pure comedy gold. Chinese women are hilarious 👏🏻😂
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  108. We don’t play games because we’re immature; we play because it’s the only time we feel in control of our lives.
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  109. If 30,000 isn't much... why is she complaining?
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  110. Nice to see a woman who doesn’t demand private jet and a mega yacht as a bridal gift. She saw a good man and went after him.
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  111. Let's interview her again when she's 80, single and childless
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  112. Logically. If the marriage not gone thru. The women should return the dowry.
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  113. Men work hard for years to save money, only to spend it all on bride prices. How long can this unequal system last?
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  114. What do you expect? If he has been living on his own, he can do all his own chores, he can cook. He can clean. what advantage is there for him to marry you?
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  115. She ordered all expensive dishes, wanted a takeout for her friends and younger brother. This is the height of shamelessness. I unanimously declare this woman as the Queen of Golddiggers. If anybody has objection on this crowning, please express your disagreement in the replies. 😂
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  116. If Chinese women don’t want these Chinese men, why are they angry when these men look for women from other countries? 😂
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  117. There was a lady who demanded of any future husband, that he buy homes for both her brother and another home for her parents.
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  118. This is how a nice guy becomes a villain. 👺
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  119. Why does marriage feel like a transaction now? The bride price makes me feel like I’m buying someone, not marrying a loved one.
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  120. Raising the bride price as you get older is an excellent strategy ladies. Keep it up.
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  121. Many women had unrealistically high standards when they were younger, thinking they could wait for something better. Now they regret it—who's to blame?
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  122. Some people don't understand what "attractive" means. Hint: if nobody feels attraction, if you don't attract anybody, you are not attractive.
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  123. Who needs enemies when you have besties
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  124. She abandoned him seven years ago, and now she’s pouncing on him like a starving wolf. This isn’t love, it’s greed!
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  125. Campus beauty? The bar was really low.
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  126. This mother's behavior is so selfish. She abandoned her kids for 16 years and now wants them to take care of her. It's not that simple!
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  127. They try to convince us that bar girls only want your wallet. But regular women also want only man's wallet, so what's difference?)
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  128. She's out of her freaking mind. She'd be lucky to find a man who's breathing.
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  129. My wife never understands how much pressure I face at work. The game is the only thing that lets me relax.
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  130. It’s funny how my wife thinks gaming is ruining our relationship, but she’s always on her phone too.
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  131. facing prison is nothing when a man has lost a large amount of money that cause a huge life setback. Bride price is a stupid idea and should not be legal.
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  132. I dated one of these women that wanted to control my money. She said that after we got married, she would manage my money. I refused. She would even get angry at me when I bought stuff without telling her. This was while we were dating lol.
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  133. Pursuing women means spending money. They keep "teasing" you, best to use that money for snacks, games, accessories, bills, take care of yourself 1st. Best return for the money
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  134. That Russian girl calling herself chubby was gorgeous.
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  135. Excellent. Chinese Men have learned their equivalent to: No Hyman, NO DIAMOND..
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  136. Its about time to filter out all these gold diggers. Being too good to women is what got us to this mess in the first place.
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  137. Gaming is cheaper than dating, especially in China. Never simp, gamer bros.🤘
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  138. A woman isn't worth your time and money. Too much work for a second, third hand wife or gf. And to keep her loyal? no way
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  139. She looked down on him when he was poor, and now that he's rich, she wants a share? Marriage shouldn’t work like this.
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  140. The men in China just need to look for foreign women. No bride price needed.
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  141. This video hits home so bad, My marriage of 5 years, ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her. I mean, how can i forget about her, when the 5 years of us being married was the best of life
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  142. The "mediator" is just as evil as the cheater. She kept pestering this guy and his kids until he decided to visit her. Truly evil.
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  143. They just don't get it, do they? And they never will.
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  144. Why do they always make it about their gender. ALL men are constantly fighting for good jobs.
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  145. Marriage is the end of happiness for men.
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  146. Second woman thinks 8000 yuan is not too much. But she's crying when she was made to pay 😂😂😂😂
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  147. "by 40, she knew her chances were even slimmer." Bruh... that's like if I was getting destroyed by 40 pts in the NBA and I'm still holding onto hope that I can come back in the next 5 minutes. She ran out of time a decade ago.
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  148. once again this proven that the majority of modern women around the world are disposable since they never invest but only waiting at the finish line to pick the winner and delusionally expecting their return of investment.
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  149. This woman clearly saw me as an ATM. Ordering such expensive food on the first date? It's a scam!
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  150. Changing the deal on the day of the wedding is extortion and absolutely destroys trust. If this keeps happening, men are going to start refusing bride price altogether.
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  151. Greedy woman- she is not entitled to anything. She’s lucky he gave her something. Her actions speaks volume of her character
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  152. Matchmaking agencies are businesses, not miracle workers. If a woman at 40 is still dreaming of a prince, isn’t that her own issue?
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  153. Mr. Wang should not even waste his time going on a show with this woman, the divorce was the right thing to do for Mr. Wang.
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  154. Beauty fades but dumb is forever.
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  155. The second 40yo woman with her realistic requirements - let me put it into Western stats: + wants a top tier good-looking man in good age + has to be 1.9-2.0 m tall - 1.7-1.8 in China is similar in percentage + has to give 200k betrothal gift and 500k house in 50% of her name - in US terms that is more like 500k gift and 2 mio. $ house + and he has to kick out his children unless they are daughters Lady - no wonder that matchmaker walked away - maybe a top-tier 20yo virgin model could demand that, but not a 40yo post-wall frumpy mid 5.
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  156. i love how they have so many analogies and epiphets, while in english we just call them "gold diggers" and "crazy spinsters".
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  157. If a man brought 23 relatives to a blind date, would the woman be willing to pay?
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  158. At 8 mins I was literally waiting for that woman to say 'my bride price is 4 billion yuan'
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  159. Totally agree! Handing over money to your wife to manage is risky, once something goes wrong, you have nothing left. Men should maintain their independence.
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  160. A 43-year-old woman with all these expectations? She’s living in a dream world.
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  161. At 40, still fantasizing about finding a rich, handsome guy, completely out of touch with reality.
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  162. I find Asian women attractive. My late wife was one. Why wouldn't a western woman find a Chinese man attractive? Kudos to her for learning a difficult language and embracing her husband's village.
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  163. At no point in his marriage he thought he shouldn't do a paternity test? No matter how much you love your wife, paternity test should be done.
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  164. Marriage is supposed to be Mutually Beneficial.....he is using his head. Good
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  165. I am pretty certain that the netizens condemning the man for leaving without paying were all women.
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  166. Bring 23 relatives? That's not a "Blind Date" but robbery 😂
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  167. The family of the woman should blame their daughter and themselves for scamming the man. There was no marriage so give the bride price back. But they were greedy. Now the heir to their household and family line has been crippled and destroyed. The man knew who to take revenge on for maximum effect. The ordeal had drove him insane, brought humiliation to his family. At that point, he didn’t care if he gets executed for it. Bride price is not a tradition, it’s a scam.
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  168. Why do people assume single men are lonely? I've got everything I need—money, health, and independence. I don't need a wife to complete me.
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  169. Girl 1 when she said 1 million My mind: OMG she’s gonna die single.
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  170. If you're a young, tall, handsome billionaire and need to show off to girls, then sure, attend matchmaking events. If you're not but want to see your pride get squash and humiliated in front of everyone like the guy at 16:45 , then attend. If you're none of the above, it's better to spend your free time playing video games or other hobbies. Women these days think of themselves as princesses so unless you're a prince, they wouldn't give you the time of day.
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  171. She’s “High Value” because she works in a collapsing real estate market? 😂
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  172. When a woman views a man as her partner and NOT a cash machine. Beautiful
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  173. She was smart and had an eye to see a quality man not because of his status or wealth but because of his wealth as a human being, the only wealth that matters in a life long partner.
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  174. Buying a $6,818.77 bag on a blind date is insane, especially if she keep canceling dates at late second. This is exactly what gold diggers do.
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  175. When a woman says she hasn't found anyone suitable, it means she hasn't found a man who can pay a million yuan bride price, tall, fair skinned, handsome, have 2 houses 2 cars fully paid off, rich and makes 6 figures a month.
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  176. Here in the US, alimony needs to be scrapped and the same needs to be done regarding property ownership; more and more men are avoiding divorce in the surest way by not marrying in the first place.
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  177. Would you pay full price for a used car?
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  178. Whenever you hear money come out of a woman's mouth, just know, she's not interested in spending time with you - only wants to enjoy your money. Just walk away
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  179. anytime they start with “i don’t have any specific standards” , you know a 10 minute list of requirements is coming
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  180. 19 years of marriage is truly not easy, especially in a cross-cultural relationship. Their story proves that true love conquers all.
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  181. That first vid was absolutely 🔥. His vocals and his passion in that song he sung was truly devine. Some women don't know how blessed they are to have a man that's willing to give up his life just so they can have a life. Truly Ironic if you ask me.
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  182. He's right. She was way to beautiful and youthful to be in need of a blind date. Bro was like "get me outta here!!"
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  183. The couple are old enough to get married, but all the relatives want to extort them for their own fanicial gain. A very sick society.
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  184. If you want to attract a 'tall, rich, and handsome' guy, shouldn’t you face your true self in the mirror first?
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  185. Finding the Winner Effect Girlfriend Game by Kyrie Dotts book should be your top priority, even if it's the last thing you do in life
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  186. That last girl is completely insane.
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  187. Greed of women is sky rocketing.
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  188. I bet she doesn't try that again.
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  189. no hymen, no diamond
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  190. My brother's wife complained to me one time, "He's downstairs, playing computer games with the boys...again" (they had sons (9, 5, and 2)) I reminded her, that my brother COULD be out gambling, or womanizing, or drinking...but instead he's teaching his boys computers and good sportsmanship, and being a "good dad"... She never complained again.
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  191. If he said yes she would've accepted the money. Of course when he calls off the wedding it was all just a "test". Pure greed and delusion.
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  192. Model gets old and no longer gets booked...welcome to the world love, happens to us all.
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  193. Shes not a victim she should be arrested. Stop standing up for bad people
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  194. i still feel sorry for this man. he had no men, no friends, that could give him solid advice to avoid this soul sucking vampire.
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  195. This new marriage law is a win for men! Finally, we won't get robbed in a divorce.
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  196. Man these women are PISSED! This really NEEDS to happen in America!!
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  197. So exceptional she has to wear a mask during her entire video 😂
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  198. This is how woman make money . That's why the richest women are the divorced
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  199. C'mon, a guy can't even get into his own house for 1/2 an hour, while the wife enjoys some privacy, drinking with another man, then denies any wrong doing and divorces her husband. How shameless.
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  200. The "confessions" in the video feel like self-comfort to me. Many older women don’t realize their emotional neglect.
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  201. The new wife looks so much better than the old
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  202. Flight attendant here in Qatar is so wild and sleeping around with high value men....
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  203. 如果中国男人每天加班都不能满足中国女人的要求，那找个外国老婆对中国男人跟中国女人都好。我不知道为什么有的中国女人会生气😂
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  204. This law weeds out those desiring to use marriage to get rich from their spouse. Married for the wrong reasons! Good job!
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  205. She is still being selfish! Even said herself, she returned to her home so her daughters could care for after her cancer diagnosis, not because she wanted to make peace or apologize, if she never got a cancer diagnosis, she would still be MIA. And although I feel bad she had a hard upbringing being an orphan, the fact that knowing this and she still chose to abandon her child is infuriating.
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  206. Watching this video as a mother of three children three boys I raise three boys in America all by myself work hard pay all the bills pay rent by myself. I wanna tell those men be strong. Do not take those women back if a woman cannot be there for you at the lowest point in your life, she is not the right one for you do not accept her. You can do it on your own. You don’t need her.
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  207. Marriage is not a joke, it’s not a effing test either. Want to test me with foot washing water? I’m out. Also the Second Lady saying the man can’t have his own parents living with him in the marital home but the wife’s parents must live there and the son in law and married daughter must both pass their monthly wages to her (the mother in law) for “safe keeping”? Bro what planet are these people even on! I would laugh in this mother in laws face so fast.
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  208. 03:14 "Women are not commodities". No? Why do you sell yourselves with the "bride price" then??
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  209. Another Gold Miner. She just either wanted the money for herself or her family.
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  210. Generally, women don't marry men in worse financial status than theirs. And if a man is better financially it's because he manages finances better. It does NOT make sense to put the person less qualified in charge of a task if there is someone better at it.
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  211. I knew one local female model. At first she was hostile to me, because I took a leader role in our group. Four years later she texted me, apologizing for a rough start between us, invited me to come to her place. I rejected, because I just got married month before that conversation. Women.
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  212. The one thing I know about Chinese traditions is back in the day before a woman marry she’s a virgin..so it wasn’t a issue to pay the bride price at least the man knows he’s getting a pure woman
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  213. How can anyone respect a family that sees their daughter as a commodity to be sold? It’s one thing to show respect, but demanding an astronomical bride price is just exploitation.
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  214. At the start that women doesn't care about relationships. She thinks of it as a business. I have noticed many women thinks that being married is a job where they should get paid. Even though she doesn't do hard labor like the actual corporate jobs. Stay home and cook any dishes for herself. While man does the hard work. She enjoys easy life yet arrogant.
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  215. Why in the world would any man let his woman manage his money, its pure slavery.
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  216. A financially independent woman should understand that when a man hands over all his salary, he loses respect.
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  217. This man started off buying her gifts without even a date ..... he wasted his time ....
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  218. NO seal NO deal👍
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  219. What is this stupid obsession with these expensive bags ?
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  220. A man at 40 with money can still date a 20-year-old girl. Who can a woman at 40 date? Reality is harsh, accept it.
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  221. 40 years old is already a parent's age. You may ne beautiful but remember that more younger, more beautiful flowers will bloom everyday
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  222. Because men know that the only reason why someone will be a flight attendant is to eventually meet someone who can support them. I mean, why enter a profession that does not pay well and has an age ceiling?
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  223. So who else here is rooting for the husband?! 😅
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  224. Are we sure she is 24? She looks like a 37-year old auntie.
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  225. Perhaps giving your money to a hostess offers better returns than paying a high bride price for an ungrateful wife
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  226. A matchmaker contacted my parents to set up a date at a restaurant where I trained the 5 star staff. I met her and we ordered. She told me her family was invited. I said this was our date, not with her family. She went to the restroom so the head waitress told me her family had done this before. I signed our tab so it was paid. Her family and relatives arrived and we did the formalities. We finished and I suggested we leave but she wanted to stay with the family. "Are you going to pay the bill?" I told her I already signed it. An hour later she called with a lot of screaming...well... ha, ha.
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  227. She's cute, let's give her that. He's not so handsome, let's also set that for the records. But he's way too good for her. She'll only be a constant headache and keeping out with her will be overwhelming.
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  228. If you jack up the price of something by 200% and then lower the price by 50%, you still heavily overpriced that item. Life is about people/relationshps not Iphones...
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  229. If you don’t act like a mother, can’t expect your children to act like your children
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  230. I'm Chinese American and went with my parents visiting their village. We were called "金 山 客", so we were expected to give everybody money. They invited us to several banquets, but we made excuses we had other plans. I made friends with the village cabbie and he quickly drove us away from the crazy mess. Villagers were yelling at us for losing face. We invited the cabbie to dinner at our hotel. He never had food like this before so we order extra food for him to take back to his family and gave him extra money for the cab ride. We were surprised he came back the next day offering to be our tour guide.
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  231. The man proposed 8 times and she rejected him 8 times, did she honestly think the guy is going to seriously stay? Every person have their limits and if you unrealistically set unreasonable goals, especially when the guy didn't agree to them, dude it's going to find someone else that values him.
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  232. You meant materialistic, not realistic.
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  233. Don't ever make the mistake of getting married, guys. Do whatever you want.
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  234. The Chinese guy got a one in a million good western woman. But he deserved it.
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  235. I really love this first guy analysis of that lady statements. He broke everything down piece by piece and with that understanding, I don't think she will get anyone. I give him two thumbs up.
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  236. Most wealthy men didn’t get wealthy by wasting their money. I am lucky to have married my wife I knew she was the one when she suggested the restaurant I chose was too expensive and we should go to a local restaurant for our first date before this I had many dates with other girls who will try to make me buy them gifts etc. my wife is frugal and very nice to me I now own multiple investment properties and have a successful business but huge part of it is because of my wife. It important decision who to marry.
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  237. If it weren’t for the high bride price, I would have married already. Now it feels like the marriage system is ‘robbing’ me.
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  238. That old woman at 6:24 says, "I'm actually a very easy to please person." He just needs to be a CEO with a net worth of millions that is handsome, tall, cool, drives a luxury car, cooks delicious meals and can take me on expensive trips. That's very easy to please, right? 😂😂😂😂
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  239. Some women over 40 have lost their sense of self-worth and always think they’re forever young.
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  240. This is not just a love story, but a powerful testament to the courage of pursuing happiness.
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  241. With all that business experience…. He can’t tell a bad deal 😂?
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  242. I need a Tiffany in my life 😢
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  243. What guy making tons of money and is good looking would pick the old stale piece of cake lol
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  244. She uninstalled his games, and wonders why he escape into games.
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  245. Westernization has went global,, Women Globally have adopted the unrealistic expectation just like the West😢
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  246. Make a million/month and buy her a helicopter and own 5 properties with 10M in savings? That would even make Bezos run 🤣🤣
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  247. She tarnished her own reputation, but she blames the "back up"😂
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  248. Men marry into love Women marry into business.
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  249. Invent an app that effectively removes filters from all women's photos and videos and you will be rich.
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  250. Funny how these women start with how much money do you make. I would not go whether I made 50.000 or a million.
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  251. Communication: she yaps he obeys.
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  252. I don't know why YouTube recommended me this video but thank you this is wildly hilarious 😂😂😂😂
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  253. The US has the same system, except that here, you pay the price AFTER, rather than before the marriage.
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  254. The biggest problem for older leftover women is their mindset. On one hand, they want love, but on the other, they are unwilling to let go of past prejudices and fantasies.
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  255. I don't blame anyone for rejecting the character he played. the life of his character was a trainwreck. Not just the low salary, but having so much debt on such a low salary alone is enough for me to say I wouldn't want to be involved with someone so financially irresponsible and/or with so many real problems. I do blame them for being disgusting in their rejection of him. What horrible people these women are. You don't want to marry this person with obvious issues, but you don't have to kick them while they're down. They've done you no harm.
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  256. That man did the right thing.
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  257. Guys, remember this: 'A good woman is nurtured, a bad woman is bought.
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  258. Almost $7 million USD? That's what she's demanding? Imagine spending Lamborghini money, and you get a Fiat.
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  259. This case makes me question marriage. Marriage should be a commitment between two people, not a transaction.
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  260. That's completely wrong dude! They want over a million a year, and also he needs to earn all that and have lots of time to take her on vacations
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  261. If it were me, I wouldn’t attend either. After all, I know it would just be a waste of money, and those women wouldn’t be interested in me. Why should I go and humiliate myself?
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  262. "Wise don't easily fall in love, fools are attracted"😎
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  263. Ditched them for 16yrs and went into radio silence, and now she wants them to take care of her because she was sick? NOPE. Agree with the daughter. Nope nope nope! When it comes to women like that, they end up believing their lies and cope so much that they think it's true. It's the very reason why everything she said doesn't match with reality. Only thing to do is meeting, chat, say goodbye and do nothing more. No taking care of her, no nothing.
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  264. Mr Cai is actually a good-looking man! Best wishes to the lovely couple.
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  265. Im a woman in my 80s. These videos make me just laugh. They think they are just soo much? Any man with a lick of sense, won't give these women the time of day. Beautiful? Stunning? I don't think so. They are average and some a bit above average, but not that exceptional. Such arrogance. Its just laughable.
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  266. Women always say men love to watch beauties, but if you keep deceiving with filters, what can we trust?
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  267. Hell nah "i believe in holding grudges, I'll heal in hell"
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  268. Bride prices are completely incompatible with modern reality.
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  269. Just few years ago our community started matrimony, there were 30 women vs 300 mens, its more then 7 years now still these 30 give & take ladies are single.
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  270. Paying to be rejected. You can do that for free 😂
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  271. Rejected by Chinese for being poor, pursued and married by an American. Chinese lost their way.
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  272. Average men age like water meaning no difference, top tier men who work hard and smart age like wine, All women age like milk regardless
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  273. I think the woman blaming capital's (capitalism?) is wrong. It's not capitalism, it's feminism that's ruining women.
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  274. Damn, that's 4100 USD in food. She think she's in one of those online novel, dating someone with a cashback system?
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  275. haha she is a scammer hired by the restaurant
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  276. If your date brings just one extra person (in a date orginally for two people), immediately bail. No discussion.
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  277. Seeing their happy family of four makes me feel that the meaning of love and family truly transcends borders.
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  278. He just doesnt want her, he was coerced into marrying her.
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  279. Never ever simp too many golddiggers nowadays. Bride price is one way of golddiggers keep your money and enjoy your life.
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  280. I suggest to these leftover women that they prepare themselves for old age alone. That they co habit in small apartment blocks,learn investment strategies and form mutual interest clubs. If they can overcome historical and cultural angst,their Japanese sisters have been doing this for decades.
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  281. The level of entitlement. Ordering food to-go, to give to her brother at home? Are you freaking kidding me? The nerve to think he is at fault? I thought Chinese women had more manners and culture than Western women.. Oh I thought wrong!
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  282. You say you don't want marriage, yet you envy young girls for being popular. Isn't that contradictory?
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  283. Having been around many Chinese women over the years, she's actually "not all that" as they say. She looks quite ordinary so I'm not surprised men are rejecting her. Her high regard of herself will just lead to a cat having a comfortable home with her in future. That'll be the only company she'll get.
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  284. Nice to hear a story like this ever once in a while. Sadly this is super rare tho. Most women in first world countries are Entitled brats
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  285. 1 million yuan = US$138k She wants a man that makes US$138k PER MONTH
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  286. There is a saying, "little drops of water make a mighty ocean". If a man is earning 3,000 yuan/mth, he may end up earning 100,000 yuan/mth or more tomorrow. Never look down on any man because of his low salary now, his future maybe brighter than you know. 😊
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  287. Actually in Japan girls gift boys on Valentine’s Day. The boys give gifts back on 14 march
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  288. Yeah she's cute and all,,but "Super model.??? .. come on!😊
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  289. never meet your idols has taken a whole other meaning
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  290. So her husband takes all his savings and help her to pay her debts. I wonder, if he was the one in bankrupt would she take her saving to help him to pay his debts. I think we all know the answer..........NOOOOO!!!!!.
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  291. When I was broke in my 20's, no woman wanted to date me.. Now i am rich in my 30's, many women no matter what age, are into me. Even those 18-21 year olds. So all the guys out there who are sad because they can't get a girlfriend when you're in your 20's: Don't be sad, your best time is still to come.
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  292. Marriage is women's insurance and Divorce is them cashing out that insurance. Red Pill SAVES wallets, minds, and lives.
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  293. The guy is a victim of his own stupidity and spinelessness
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  294. Jobless, struggling to pay rent, living with a roomate, start a bussiness, slave their time for a company that gives zero f's abotu them, crying on the internet, getting mocked by interviewers, dying alone, etc. They will do everything, literally EVERYTHING but submit to a man. Are we all that bad?
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  295. Those women on the show, represent over 80% of modern day women in China today. 😊
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  296. Wait… so when women finesse men for meals and help pay their phone bills it’s “okay”? But now that the shoe is on the other foot where the females are getting taken to the bank.. it’s despicable behavior? Ouch, the double standards.
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  297. Is this the most delusional woman on this channel thus far? “Buy a dog…Die alone.” -KS(RIP)
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  298. I love how they're determined to work hard for the wrong reasons now 😂
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  299. 04:30 Comparing men's opinions of their mother to a potential wife is utterly stupid.
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  300. I don't feel bad for this one guy. To fork over 180k to someone he met 3 days ago is insane, simp behavior.
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  301. For all the guys who think their girl loves them the quickest way to test that is to say you lost your job, WATCH how you get treated then. Guys just don't want to accept the truth that RELATIONSHIPS ARE TRANSACTIONAL
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  302. no offense. Russian women are more good looking
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  303. 1 Russian women are marrying Chinese men because not only their values maybe in line with one another , but also there are not alot of Russian men left to marry . Anyone wanna guess why? 2 Chinese women seem to perceive marriage as more of business deal than finding someone to share their life with.
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  304. I like these "older single left-over women" series. It makes me feel wanted.
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  305. I support their struggle. Meanwhile, women go around, saying I just need me a real man!…😂
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  306. Her son is so handsome. He can be a actor in China
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  307. Sounds reasonable to me
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  308. Regardless of one’s income or status, I believe that most men desire to have a deep emotional connection with one woman who is willing to work as a team to build a life together.
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  309. Demanding houses and cars from Chinese men while being moved by small gestures from foreigners—this double standard cuts deep.
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  310. The wind has changed Ladies
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  311. She married a undercover dude. Sucks for her. Sucks for his family, they think their son is straight and he is to much of a coward to tell them.
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  312. Another story of a man giving his all and ending up with nothing. Love or money—which one matters more?
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  313. It's so simple. If she doesn't reciprocate what you put in on a regular basis, you leave.
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  314. Adultery has long-term consequences in this story. Moral of this video: "Never abandon your family for a fun life, karma will come back to you in the later future." If you don't take good care of your offspring, they won't take care of you when you are in old age.
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  315. This story is absolutely true. Women control finances in a marriage. That's why I'm divorced.
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  316. Most women only wait at the finishing line, they rarely support you during the journey
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  317. Apparently there is a reason why they are single at this age
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  318. She was probably the type to have multiple men around her before she got married. Once a cheater, always a cheater. He made the right decision and moved on with his life even though be begged her before. It was his love for his child that he had to beg her but she still refused. Now he found a more loving person to build a family with.
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  319. She will remain single
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  320. Married for 3 hours and the bride ran away? This isn’t marriage, it’s legalized robbery!”
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  321. I was actually in a similar situation, and it’s not just embarrassing, it’s infuriating. You think you're being polite, but in reality, you're just being scammed. The worst part is, you feel like an idiot afterward.
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  322. let this be a lesson - meet your women in real life, without makeup.
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  323. So they bought in another scam artist as a lawyer... 40,000 compensation for looting his millions, what a joke... this is called a scam, he deserves justice and she deserves severe punishment.
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  324. Grown ass men do not care why 90% of any demographic of women face workplace unfairness. Ladies: you get to either 1. be a wife or 2. deal with workplace BS like the rest of us adults.
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  325. These women need to stop having unrealistic expectations for men.
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  326. Amazing all these homegirls complain about having to work so hard and they want their future husband to carry the load for them so they can have an easy life! Never did one even mention what's in it for the men!!! Would men get emotional support? Hot cooked meals after they come home from working their 996 schedue? How about being submissive to all the husband's wishes? How about helping him by doing all household chores? How about keeping a clean and neat house for him to come home to? How about taking care of herself and being a hot sex partner for him? No. It's all about what she wants!!!!
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  327. He is not a failure. He found many things precious along the way.
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  328. She already has a side dude 😅 if they don’t get it from u they getting somewhere else
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  329. She abandoned her, she forfeited the rights of parents.
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  330. A woman scams a man and her brother suffers the consequences.
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  331. Great advises I should have heard when I were 20 years old. Women all over the world have this behaviour. Blessed are those few that have a good, loving and kind hearted woman.
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  332. "I'm just naturally beautiful" (Next sentence;) "I'm not going to turn off my beauty filters" ... Umm yeah. So a guy who is "naturally tall" wears high heel lifts shoes? A guy who has "naturally great hair" wears a hairpiece? A guy who is "naturally rich" wears a fake rolex?
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  333. Dude shouldn't have sent her an invitation.
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  334. I am blessed. I have a husband who tells me he loves me everyday. I can talk to him about anything. He is equal parts stubborn and kind. He has been disabled for 8 years (aortic dissection and heart failure) and I am now the bread winner. We have always struggled with finances but never fight over money. Usually fight over what to eat for supper. He married me when I was a single 36 year old mother of 4 and he is 7 years younger. We have been married 26 years. I would never trade him for anyone else. He is the love of my life.
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  335. I got two helicopters in the garage. Lets get married
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  336. I’m from the USA, and I was talking to a Chinese woman who mentioned that her family requires a ¥200,000 bride price, even from a foreigner. I told her this seemed like an outdated practice in a modern society and pointed out that it’s not common in other countries. She gave me a lengthy explanation about why it’s necessary, but let’s just say we’re no longer in touch. It’s interesting to note how many Chinese men are opting out of marriage entirely, which is pushing Chinese women to look abroad—only to face challenges connecting with Western men as well.
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  337. Filter has deluded them
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  338. They should have a comedy show 😁
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  339. The top percentage of men don't want these women. Generally speaking men with options will prefer younger agreeable family oriented women over high earning older women
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  340. "I didn't order much - just a few steaks, lobster. . ." Talk about hallucinating.
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  341. If getting a high paying job takes away your freedom, what makes you think running a small bussiness will give it to you? You have to be on top of everything if you start a business.
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  342. When the wife withholds sex it’s normal but when a man does it there’s something wrong with him? I understand 5yrs is crazy but he doesn’t want it from her, then that’s his choice.
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  343. Chinese need to do away with this bride price crap. Its extortion! If it’s not done away with, more incidents like this will happen.
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  344. They can find a younger husband, pay for his college and house and a Porsche. He will accept the mistreatment. It’s a deal.
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  345. Doesn't matter what "you" feel. It's what the other person feels. It is not all about you. Like a contract, there is an "offer" and "acceptance". You may "offer", but no one is "accepting". That's on you.
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  346. There's also another saying. Women keep other women single. Misery loves company.
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  347. I make more than my husband! And I wouldn’t trade him for anything. We both don’t have student loans, we drive old cars, we both paid off our home. I’m short 5’ 1” and he is 6’3”. We both work in the same industry. He’s better in finances. We share pretty much anything. We pay large items in cash like our vacations and home renovations. But we love love each other, we do for each other especially when we are ill or injured.
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  348. She rejected that man who was chasing her back then. Looking back now, it’s such a pity.
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  349. She puts in alot of energy into her education and career, but i cant say the same thing for her relationships.
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  350. For those women, money equates to love. They love his money not him. Their expression of love is to spend his money. Yet he gets nothing in return.
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  351. Its so ridiculous that im actually suspecting some hidden agenda, like making claims so outrageous that its picked up by media, giving her free publicity, making her famous and then she starts a business profiting from the free publicity and business relations she made of this
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  352. No man wants an older woman. How would women Believe that in their mid 30s or 40s are attactive to men who want a family...
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  353. Overbearing woman. I had this type of woman before. The worst experience you can ever hope for. Make sure she's not secretly taking drugs
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  354. Why a high value man will go to that event?. I mean, come on, the tall, handsome and rich man is always pursued by women. He doesnt even need to look for women, women look for him all the time. Those events should be for average people, so average women and average men, not for models or rich men.
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  355. The woman gave a decent guy a chance. What a great story.
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  356. People have totally forgotten and stopped appreciating the value of a simple life. Honestly, humanity has lived a life of simplicity before and still thrived. Appreciating the beauty of a simple life has CURED my loneliness. Women are depressed because they feel like they have to keep up with all these trends on social media just to get quick attention from SIMPS, and now that they're leftover women, simps don't go after them anymore. So why not stop using social media and just enjoy a simple life of being with yourself? Just because technology has made our lives comfortable doesn't mean that we have to conform to society's expectations. Some of us are happy just living a simple life. I, for one, am happy just relaxing at home, playing video games after a hard day's work. I never listened to all those influencers that say "You HAVE to be successful and rich in order to be happy or else you're a loser". Really, huh? Then what about those countless number of celebrities who committed suicide despite the fact that they have all the money and fame in the world? Just who are you to tell me what makes me happy?! The only person that knows how to make me happy is MYSELF. Loser, huh? Then that's fine. Atleast I'm a loser who's ENJOYING his life and I have no regrets. What about you? Have you found it is that truly makes you happy? Is it starting a family? Traveling? Is it being successful? Is it just living a life of solitude without anyone to bother you? FIND IT! I already found my happiness. If I can find it, so will YOU!
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  357. They should get arrested. Anyone who asks for additional money means it's a scam. This is blackmail. The Bride price was already paid. This is ridiculous.
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  358. When the cheese is on the table the rats come out!
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  359. Guys Remember this thing "she is not yours it just your turn"
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  360. The delusion meter broke and exploded when got close to her.
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  361. If you've spent your entire life saving to buy a house, car, pension, then find a girl, she's going to keep all that AND a bridal price. Once married, everything will be in her name.
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  362. Let's see. Didn't call him a creep for stalking her at the school but instead saw it for what it was genuine interest. When interacting with him was pleasant and nice. Showed appreciation and empathy for his effort on teaching and making dumplings. Didn't turn up her nose about not spending any money on her. Kept the relationship alive by being the one to show interest and wanting to be together. Gave up a career in modeling to stay together and instead found another career which is just as rewarding that also allowed her to stay in his life. These are all things modern women won't do or never do. The improbable thing is not meeting bridging the cultural differences it is finding a woman who naturally does all of the above.
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  363. As a black American… I feel terrible for Chinese men… they do everything right, yet get shitted on terribly
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  364. The 1st lady talking about her possession is her is after the fact that she got a divorce and probably took assets from that marriage that was not hers.. Also, women should not equate working in the job market to housework.. 2-3 hours chores at the convenience of home to 8 hours in a work that most people do not like are not the same.. Is that really equivalent? The demand to pay you for the chore work.. What about you pay for rent, cost of living, etc... That is would be a fair equivalent and this is why the comparison and equivalence is being a bit narrow... Consider the total cost and obligation involved... Not just what you perceive as a given (living under a roof is not a given)...
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  365. Lots of Chinese men say filters should be banned. I agree 100000%. Do you realize how many simps get suckered into buying “applause” for streamers with fake faces?
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  366. Why would a 35 year old men marry a 35 year old women? If he is earning handsome amount then he will go for a younger girl who is sweet and caring
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  367. Best advice I can ever provide, Life is a Mirror not a Window.
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  368. Men are told to be the provider, but if we don’t have money, we’re nothing. Is this the reality women want?
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  369. That first video was heartbreaking to watch. You could clearly see this woman really wanted to marry the dude. To make a good man drink foot water?
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  370. Being a gold digger is becoming an international flex… sad
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  371. Older men are happier being single. Older women, well, that's another story...
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  372. This guy has a very strong work ethic.
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  373. Correct... In China, lots of women to picky... even when they are above 30. Having a high standard, but not seeing about their lacking. Girl... you are above 30 for God sake.
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  374. That’s why USA men going to other countries.. they have better attitudes.. western women/feminism countries need to start learning and changing their ways
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  375. 😂 this tells you more about the morality of the women..
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  376. Many young people spend every penny they earned when times were good. They expect the inflow of money or salary to continue. They won't listen when you advise them to save for rainy days or be prepared for retirement. I have seen my fair share of people around me falling into this trap.
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  377. if a man does this, he goes to jail. Double standards.
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  378. You're already 40, and you're still being picky? Be realistic.
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  379. lol troll bait -- everyone is being laid off in the tech sector. It's not exclusive to China.
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  380. If she think 30k for meal is ordinary then why she need to max out her credit cards to pay for it? lol
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  381. I’m tired of being the provider for someone who brings nothing to the table. If you want luxury, get a job, don’t expect men to foot the bill.
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  382. A man who is not married at a certain age,I suggest you look at the propespects he has to choose from first be judging him.
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  383. This poor guy never had a chance, it's like feeding chum to a shark.
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  384. Whats next 75 year old women saying they are "High quality elderly single women"? Men can get high quality dried fish at the market, why would they go to a matchmaker for it?
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  385. The hollow empty eyes seems to be a trait they all share. Sometimes they can put on a fake smile but it never reaches those cold dead eyes.
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  386. Crossing borders and cultures just to be with each other, this kind of love is so beautiful.
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  387. Chinese wahmen want to run house, control money. There is no role for him at home. She has become the husband/man. You created this problem. Out of role
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  388. She ignored her responsibilities as a mother for 30 years, and now she demands her children take care of her? Motherly love isn’t automatic, and neither is responsibility!
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  389. No refunds is her motto 😂
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  390. That women in the beginning is so two faced. Wow, unbelievable.
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  391. 27, last call. 30, half price. 35, clearance. 40, yard sale. 50, goodwill salvation army.
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  392. Just don't show up. If people want to host a bunch of banquets, they shouldn't always expect others to pay for it.
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  393. 38 yet she feels she's owed around $80k U.S. dollars and a man who hasn't been married? Just insane. It's not all looks btw. Youth also brings the possibilities of him being able to create a large family. At 38 what will she bring? Maybe one child who could be autisitc due to her advanced age! Men like younger women and women like wealthy men, and nothing is gonna change that!
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  394. lol, women are strong boss babes, yet working is hard, so they need a rich man to take care of them.
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  395. Marrying someone you've known for 3 days, what could possibly go wrong
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  396. This happen last year. And she was previously married to another guy in china. Not sure if all of this is true but the story ends with her losing her friends and boyfriend. What she got from her X-husband was around 600000yuan
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  397. Judging by her actions, responsibility seems to have nothing to do with her. Even in the late stages of cancer, she still wants to avoid responsibility.
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  398. It's not the age, it's the attitude
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  399. She wanted to eat free, not blind date. He should have stopped the blind date when he Saw 23 relatives
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  400. Without beauty filters, would these streamers still have an audience?
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  401. It's rare for a girlfriend to stick around, but a man has to be able to support a family. Can this kind of life truly make her happy?
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  402. Insists on 50 Million Yuan ..... That's almost $7 million USD
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  403. This is not gold digger, these are sick people.
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  404. The most vile thing about this is the "make more money" line. Men should just stay single and free.
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  405. and she didnt ask for some BS bride price
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  406. 11:55 they hate seeing you relax. Anytime a woman sees you relax, they think "he should be earning more money for me" lol.
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  407. Stop the Filters 😡
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  408. She says, the 100 times she stayed at hotels was with her ex-boyfriend. But, what ex-boyfriend will stay with her in an hotel over 100 times during his visits to her and not propose marriage to her? Obviously she must have had so many boyfriends and not just one.
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  409. The crazy lady demanding 1 M RMB in dowry can continue to wait for a man willing to give. She will be waiting for another 33 yrs.
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  410. Rural banquet culture is all about saving face, but why is no one willing to be the first to break it?
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  411. A "REAL" MAN thinking and working for the family and the kids. A "FAKE" WOMAN thinking about herself. I agree with his anger and his decision about moving on and legally handling the situation 100%. I disagree with hitting a woman (easier said than done for many) and thinking about suicide. His life is worth living. This is a VERY HARD thing to deal with. I hope he (Mr. Chen) finds peace and many others in similar experiences/positions. This makes me angry and sad.
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  412. Their requirements are: red envelopes, Gold jewelry, hundred of thousands of yuans, car and house given to future Mother in law.
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  413. Holy the guys are not even Chads.... just mr average bald head dude.... Just imagine the couples are talking about bride price and the future son in law showed her parents this... >.<. What an embarrassment.
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  414. Used goods others got for free, you pay the maintenence fee.
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  415. I bet she doesn't care. It only affected her brother.
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  416. 1:53 "when i was in school" and there you have it folks...she peaked in high school and still thinks she is in that moment.
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  417. These dishes will MAKE YOU SICK.
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  418. From what the one lady said about post-2000 young people, they're not listening to the insane nonsense that middle aged single women are speaking. They're setting realistic standards and willing to jump in and grow a relationship. All of the leftover women are just talking to themselves.
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  419. GREAT JOB MY ASIAN BROTHERS>>>ITS GOOD TO SEE WE ARE ALL ON THE SAME PAGE>>>>>ITS GLOBAL NOW>>>>LET THE BIRTH RATE DECLINE>>>>>>>WE FEEL THE SAME IN AMERICA>>>>NO MORE WASTING TIME ON WOMEN THAT COULD NEVER LOVE YOU>>>>NO MORE UNREALISTIC EXPECTATION>>>>>>NO MORE DINNER DATES>>>>NO CLUBS>>>NO TALKING>>>>>>>>NOW LEAVE US ALONE WOMEN>>>>>>THIS WHAT WOMEN GET FOR THINKING THEY ARE THE PRIZE>>>>>>YOU CAN ONLY BE THE PRIZE IF SOMEONE WANTS YOU>>>>>>SAVE YOUR TIME AND ENERGY MY BROTHER>>>>>>>>DONT SIMP >>>>IT IS THEM WITH A CLOCK TICKING INSIDE THEM>>>>>ITS COLD THIS WINTER
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  420. I have A LOT of Chinese male friends and majority of them are divorced because of precisely this! It is really wild how Chinese women are about money in the marriages/relationships. Smdh hard!
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  421. The fact that instead arresting the moron brother and letting the boy and girl continue with their wedding day, the police decided to instead call them for discussing shows what absolutely ridiculous things are tolerated and even promoted...
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  422. The idea that women are naturally better at managing finances is outdated. Managing money requires trust, communication, and mutual respect, not outdated gender stereotypes dictating who should control the finances.
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  423. Good on him for finding a new partner! you can tell just by how chilled out she is she will be an amazing mother & wife.
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  424. This marriage is dead.
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  425. Age discrimination is also very, very strong in Canada. Employers will rather hire a 20 year old illeterate person barely speaking English than a fully qualified 40 year old.
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  426. I am in suspense "words not lady like" 😂 like her time spent grooming you was wasted but she was essentially a scammer and mad at you for not falling for it 🤣
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  427. Valentine's Day like a lot of other holidays have become commercialized and people have lost the true meaning of that day now it's just another day for the corporations to make money 💰🤑💰
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  428. I would rather have a gaming controller in my hand than a woman around my arms
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  429. Life's hard. Life's harder when you're a simp
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  430. now I get it, my Chinese friend once told me, Chinese girls aren't wanted, and I asked why but she didn't elaborate, now I know. This is sad. lower your standards ladies, not every loving husband is a high earner but he will give his best. You can't blame those who come up with marketing ideas, you can just NOT consume. Create an environment where you can't disclose what you do for a living or whether you went to school or not. Make the environment about character. Would you stand by me if I got sick and couldn't work for a year, but after that year, I'm better and I go back to work, would you stick by me if I lost my job due to the economy.....instead of how many zeros are in your paycheck.
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  431. It is not so much the fact that she is 43, but it is rather her arrogant and mediocre personality!
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  432. I'm a European man, and the older i get, I know that women are women and men are men, no matter where we are in the world. Listening to these Chinese men, I really understand them. Who wants to be with a woman, that only wants the man's resources. Women needs to step up, for to long, they had been put on pedestal, with few expectations and no accountability for there actions. Relationship will be great again, the day woman learning about accountability and humility
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  433. It took a half an hour to get into the house😲 we all know what she was doing!!! She for the STREETS!!! Let that ish go!!! We know what the younger more handsome man was doing!!Clap clap clap!!😂😂😂😂
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  434. The man isn't shameless, he is one with bravery to stand up so publicly to such an unscrupulous woman
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  435. If they want to manage my money, they need to print their bank statement for the past year and convince me that they are good at managing money. From my experience with women I know. most of them arent good with handling money. and will spare no money to pamper themselves.
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  436. This is the first video where I've sided with the girls. Not one mentioned their requirements of the guy, but they seemed more modest and reasonable than 100% of the women in past videos. And the guys mentioned here, disregarding women for their job, they need to grow up.
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  437. Women spend men produce. Just look at consumer spending.
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  438. Shе is so beautiful that background behind her is melting and warping under the beauty's radiation.
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  439. Yes the prince charming will come on your gravestone and offer a rose🌹 & pray thanks for meeting me afterlife 🤫
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  440. Increasing the bride price on the wedding day is extortion.
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  441. I think the guy who tried to meet the girl who works in the psychiatric hospital should have reversed the mind-game and told her that he was standing outside at the flowerpot but actually wait at a different location. He might have gotten her to reveal herself first by convincing her come down to the lobby to find him. But he was smart to no longer pursue her. He was more than reasonable in trying to accommodate her wishes, but her reactions proved that she is a wacko. Maybe she is not actually a nurse but a patient at the psychiatric hospital and is not allowed to leave her room. Regardless, I think he dodged a bullet.
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  442. Delulu strikes again.
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  443. Geez…what happened to being in love?! I married a “poor” man and didn’t expect anything, never got any dowry or anything. He gave me lots of kids- my most precious treasures. Married 40 years- has to be love after that long lol! He gives me all he has and I don’t take advantage of it. We take care of our finances together- he even says I give you all my paycheck which I take care of! It is sad the Chinese have become like this, but Asian cultures are like this even long before it is just worse. I know….
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  444. If a couple has come to the point where they are arguing over every penny like this, it really doesn't make any sense.
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  445. I live in the US, and i dated these. They only date Chinese guys that are above average, like men who are tall, look really handsome, have money, and have a good career. I was going to get married to a blonde, but I didn't get married after she said I only like you because you have money. If it wasn't fir that, you can be alone. That was enough for me to break that relationship.
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  446. Older women struggle to find jobs because younger people adapt to new tech more easily. Companies obviously choose them.
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  447. lmao, want 50 million guy but don't even have basic manners like wait and eat together
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  448. Dude should have sent some photos from the honeymoon 😂
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  449. wow those people all about the money, no love, no honesty, no humanity, no shame, just the money, She deserves nothing.
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  450. The modern woman = I want it all and I want it now.
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  451. No wonder guys are marrying outside their country. They can slowly wait .
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  452. Men ofc, whom else would they blame? Themselves? Nah. It's all like "Where are all the good men?" Well, either grabbed by good women or staying single.
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  453. Getting married now is like gambling. It’s not about love, it’s about whether you can be scammed.
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  454. I have already seen more than 100 videos on your channel and I can only say, you are right.
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  455. I had a business partner who filed for divorce just before we started out company (literally like months before). So he was still going through divorce court as we were starting up our company. Since we both left our regular jobs to start the company his income dropped to almost nothing, so she started accusing him of deliberately quitting his job to lower his income and that the company was just a front to avoid paying her alimony. Two years later our company takes off and it's worth millions, so now she comes back with her lawyer to claim that the company was marital property.
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  456. I really feel for the chinese people. There are some really lovely, kind chinese people. They have it really tough. Many feel bitter dur to how hard their lives are in China.
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  457. There is a Racial Dating Preference. Which shows Asian women response to a white men more than Asian men.
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  458. Marriage without sex, like soup without salt😢
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  459. Chinese men, do not let your woman verbally abuse you. She better show you respect or dump her. She needs you, not you need her.
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  460. Imagine paying $1M RMB to listen to her 😂head would explode. Insanity.
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  461. I'm a Western man in my senior years as a widower just viewing the world through these videos. I'm sorry to see these Asian men getting tricked by other selfish Asian women. It seems these Asian women have learned their attitude from the Western culture, but I'm proud of these guys that have learned to stand up for themselves. Good for them. I have no advice because this dance is something all men apparently must endure before finding companionship. It's not looking good for families in either of our futures but Im sure the species will survive. Sadly, we'll both just be a little more lonely than we need to be. Life is hard enough for men without dealing with selfish women. At my age even my girlfriend is happy to receive flowers I pickup from the grocery store before I arrive for a date. I hope these Men find companions for themselves one day. There is rarely a day goes by in America that I don't hear from women how they "Don't need no Man". Good for them too, check please!
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  462. Why is society so hard on middle-aged men? We provide for families, work hard, and yet as soon as we hit a certain age, we’re marginalized. When will society and companies treat us more fairly?
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  463.  @tukahimata1416  I worked 6 years in China. Many of my male colleagues didn't have any intention of ever getting married. Bride price, being given a few yuans as pocket money by the wife controlling everything, and not being tall enough were the 3 most common reasons.
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  464. The purpose of dating is to get to know each other and connect on common ground. If you behave like a hungry beggar, why someone pursue for your greediness.
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  465. Good luck for them both 😊
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  466. Now the men have to have helicopters just because she managed to squirrel away a few nuts for winter. This channel just gets more comical every time I watch it.
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  467. Sexual indifference and emotional issues can be resolved, but if neither side tries, the marriage is hopeless.
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  468. Its crazy how China discriminates against a late 30 year old....
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  469. Marrying into a wealthy family isn’t just about material enjoyment; there’s also invisible pressure.
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  470. Nobody is willing to pay a new lambo price for a used Honda 🤷🏿
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  471. If these companies are so loyal, then maybe they should be paying for the home and children
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  472. High mileage
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  473. "Give me money. Money me. Money now. Me a money. Needing a lot now."
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  474. What look ? She is basic. Don't let the make up fool you.
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  475. It is possible those men are just their to VIEW. It is possible, not many men actual registar to be match making.
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  476. The gov is already freaking out because marriage and birthrate have gone down dramatically! Now the gov is starting to shame men for not marrying and harassing women into having children that they can't afford. Employment is precarious right now and they don't feel secure enough to invest into lifelong obligations such as housing, education and healthcare. Some of these women waited to long to marry or think too much of themselves to be a faithful, loyal partner. Many of the men are waking up to ridiculous standard many young women have in regards to height, attractiveness and employment.😢 Good luck to finding someone passable!
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  477. Jesus that guy talks about the whole animal kingdom spiel, then proceeds to use ALL the WRONG examples.
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  478. Bankruptcy isn’t the worst; the worst is how people start looking at you, like you’re the embodiment of failure.
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  479. Women require time, money and typically wait at the finish line to pick the winner. Most require to be constantly entertained rather than contributing ... now you know why video games are preferred.
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  480. This video really opened my eyes. I’ve been to places where the bill was ridiculously high, but I didn’t realize it was a scam. I guess I was just too embarrassed to leave. It’s messed up that men are expected to pay for everything, but now I know better.
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  481. when young she could be a beauty.
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  482. Good for them. Definitely not the most common road travelled.
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  483. Both the Chinese bridal price and western spousal maintenance systems are flawed. The former means the woman gets the payout as soon as they marry: the latter, when they divorce. So where is the incentive for women to stay with men and build a family? They get their big payout either way.
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  484.  @nickcarroll8565  Men who can afford to take care of all the bills are happy to do so for a woman he loves. The thing is the woman has to be worth it in terms of what he wants which many women don't care to find out. What many woman fail to realize is the more a man earns the less he cares how much women earn or is able to
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  485. What goes around, comes around. I have zero sympathy for either of them.
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  486. I think it was Cai’s positive attitude and cheerful nature that caught the attention of Tiffany. Despite being just a a security guard, considered to be a lowly job, he gave everyone he met an endearing smile.
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  487. 500€ for entering the event, what the actual F. How delusional you have to be to expect someone to join that 🤣
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  488. The battle is intense
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  489. She should've told the man about her culture especially the bride price culture and made him to understand that is something he has to do if he decides to marry her. She is a phd holder and in another country that doesn't know about bride price. She embarrassed her family and herself. Thanks for sharing.
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  490. No sympathy. 16 years are 5840 days that are 140.000 thousand hours. You had so many opportunities to contact your family, but never did.
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  491. Money is good when you are young and healthy. But when you are old, sick and alone, unable to fight back, and especially women ... there will be bad people who will empty your bank account quickly.
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  492. Love is that simple—two people in love, no matter how far apart, will find their way together.
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  493. I think this is the first time I've heard something like this😅 His wife is not ugly I don't understand
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  494. Seeing others in debt because of high bride prices makes me hesitant about marriage.
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  495. When a Simp gives everything, he ends up with nothing. It’s time for men to wake up.
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  496. work is work; wife is work; kids are cool but also work; house stuff is work. only fun time is games. actually, when i was young, in elementary, i was playing a game on the computer. my mom watches me for a bit and i try to explain to her what i'm doing. she goes, "oh, can you take that money out and use it?" i fall silent, because obviously i can't. it wasn't said in malice as far as i can tell. and to this day, about twenty years later, i don't tell her a damn thing about my hobbies.
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  497. 1500 rmb laughable why doesn’t the government agree to support a married couples parents so that burden is off their backs….
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  498. Well, who do you call? Not the Ghostbusters and also not an Exorcist, you have to call Van Helsing, that creature is a damn vampire! That modern woman needs a reality check - over 40, average looking, not giving a single thought about her future husband except how much money she can drain from him.
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  499. Is this why my phone has so much bugs and loopholes and susceptible to hackers?
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  500. I do think 30 is a career ‘bottleneck’ for women, but it's not something that can’t be changed.
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  501. These women need to stop putting filters.
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  502. So true 🎉 never give financial authority to your wife 😂 You’ll lose it all. Never leave yourself without a backup plan. Better yet, don’t marry unless she agrees to your absolute control ❤
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  503. In a world where hatred and racist views are spreading, it's amazing to see such stories where two brave souls spread love.... hats off to Tiffany's parents...
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  504. These women need to stop having unrealistic expectations for men.
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  505. Once u get that divorce........move out .......never divorce and live in the same house........always turn out bad.........
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  506. This man is foolish. Never give your money to a girlfriend. You're not even married to her.
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  507. This man did the right thing.
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  508. DAMMMMMMM...that first one is so Delusional.
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  509. It's frustrating when women demand the world but have nothing to offer in return. I’m done being a ‘simp’ for anyone.
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  510. Calling her plain would be kind. She is out of her freaking mind.
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  511. This is what happens when you get married to please your parents and not yourself
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  512. Self responsibility matter "Your uterus,your responsibility" But the women didn't think so.
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  513. A man’s greatest awakening isn’t giving up on women—it’s learning to respect himself.
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  514. crappy ancient bride price customs.. finally government stepped in... lol...
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  515. What do you know 2 scumbags getting together just makes an even bigger mess...
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  516. If rooster didn't eat, it would be a dead rooster. Rooster eats to be big and strong, while hens spend their energy and nutrients to lay eggs.
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  517. Old women in china are hilarious. The one at 13:08 had me LMAO
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  518. 1500 only???
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  519. Delusional doesn’t even begin to describe the first Auntie demanding a bride price at 40 years 😂😂 Even if she was half decent looking, what man would be desperate enough to take on that challenge with little to gain in the long run? 6:07 😮😮 those filters are absolutely deceptive
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  520. It's disgusting tbh.
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  521. There's no end to her demanding, even after if giving her the 500,000 she will come back again, no end...
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  522. All the sudden all relative that you never knew appear on your front door asking for money
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  523. She seems completely soulless. She checks her phone all the time.
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  524. Put the blame on the simps. They want the kitty so bad they turn into literal wallets
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  525. It’s the same in Australia. It seems that changes on the world stage seem to have diverted attention away from trivia.
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  526. Enjoy your cat, that's all you will have. Her confidence is brain damage.
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  527. These women need to stop having arrogance.
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  528. Dinner for just around 4000 dollars. How nice of her. :)
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  529. If you had focused on marriage and children when you were younger, maybe you wouldn't be struggling now.
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  530. No one will control my money that I've worked so hard for. Especially not my wife..... handing over your money to your wife is the dumbest thing that you can ever do. Giving your money to a woman to control is like handing over your life
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  531. Now I know why the population in China is at a standstill
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  532. Even though she betrayed him, he’s also a irresponsible jerk.
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  533. The $20,000 yuan meal is enough for 100 fast food outings at $200 yuan per meal.
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  534. The scammers get kick backs from the restaurants.
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  535. He's going to win that lawsuit and should. I didn't even finish this clip, its ruining my inner peace knowing that there are some women over there solely for money and to use the man. She tricked him to believe they were going to build a future with each other. Makes me think twice about trying to court a Chinese woman now.
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  536. They haven't consummated their marriage? Isn't that grounds for annulment? If he is that repulsed that he can't even hold her hand or hug her than divorce him (even undercover gay husbands will give their wives some affection)
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  537. She'll spread her attitude to younger women. That's why ladies and gentlemen, be very very careful with these people.
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  538. Don't let the corporations take your money
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  539. As you can see the differences between 19 years ago and today.
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  540. Many ppl here talk rubbish about men’s and male animals’ instinct to hunt for the females, and someone said male lions hunt food for their females ! The truth is male lions don’t hunt for female lions - it’s the lionesses that hunt, the male lion sleeps most of the time but has priority over whatever food there is! Natural selection works differently for different species.
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  541. How about basic office work, in a hospital, real estate office or paralegal in a law office. Food delivery has its own problems, very hectic long hours.
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  542. No! They were divorced! He owes nothing! If he hadn't received that money from the demolition co. She would not have bothered him! But, $$$$$ and she was there like lightning!
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  543. She pursued so-called "freedom" when she was young, and now she expects others to pay for her choices? The real world isn’t a fairy tale!
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  544. I would like to say thank you for this. I mean we always cover different topics but this is a wholesome feel good one. We all would love the good old days.
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  545. In the end the father suffers again. Marriage became a curse.
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  546. And we western men think we got it bad in America(and God knows we DO), I REALLY feel for my Chinese bros...they have to try and find a wife in this mess unless they get a foreign wife, and I'm seeing more and more Chinese men getting Russian wives lately
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  547. She never helped the husband fight for the money, yet she thinks she deserves it.
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  548. 43 years old, she's grandma lol
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  549. He said he felt safe behind the gate? Tiger's can leap 15ft. to 20ft. this old man is naive... I wouldn't trust him to stand guard and protect!
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  550. I knew about "beauty filters", but...now I'm speachless...
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  551. even evil/devil should take a lesson from this woman
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  552. Its so expensive getting married. First, you have to pay the cost of parents selling their daughters, the price of the wedding, the price for taking care of the woman and the family, and then when she decides to divorce, you have to slice equally whatever the man has left of his humanity.
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  553. This video is so hilarious, I have to comment again. High bride prices, unrealistic demands, and “Cinderella complexes”…Does “Poisonous Chicken Soup” taste that damn good in China?
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  554. I have the perfect example. My uncle did exactly that and trust my aunt whole heartedly letting her manage 100% of the money. Later on my Uncle needed to use money to renovate the house that when he realize he had no money. My aunt lost money of the money gambling.
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  555. What kind of man doesn’t touch his wife for five years? What is he thinking?
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  556. The man won big meal 😂😂😂
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  557. Just got back from the store myself. Discount gourmet chocolates! Enjoy life my brothers 🍫
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  558. Most companies practice favoritism or nepotism. You might be the best employee, but your boss will only work you to death instead of advancing your career. I can only imagine how worse it is in 🇨🇳
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  559. 4:11 so China has become as crazy as the western countries,and people wonder why men would rather be single,well,she lives a few years with you and all of a sudden you need to split your appartment with her?!🤣
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  560. Don't be a Simp, it's bad for your health 🙏
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  561. If Huang Yan really wants to get married, she should lower her standards instead of staying on her high pedestal.
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  562. The scam is that she works for that establishment and she's responsible for bringing in customers and ordering indiscriminately to rack up the bill and trap the customer into paying. Then she gets a cut of the money.
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  563. Marriage has changed, wives are no longer family members. They are more like employees.
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  564. Tiffany and Cai Xiaohua's story made me believe that true love has nothing to do with age or appearance.
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  565. You know, we are all the same in death. In our last moments no one ever asks for their money, their big houses, their titles or accolades. They ask for their loved ones. It is so tragic that it is only in our deathbed we realise what really matters in life and these women are well on their way to make the mistake of learning this lesson all too late.
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  566. Many years ago, I had a workmates who got a layoff notice and his wife said you are out of the house. He later found a position he could transfer to, she said he could come back to the house.
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  567. Lol simppppp
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  568. Her independence and success should be advantages, but in the marriage market, they’ve become her burden.
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  569. And here i am sad because im alone when i should really be happy im not stupid enough to ever do this!
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  570. I would rather fishing 🎣
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  571. alien vs predator :)
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  572. Ordering food for friends and brother, very low class. I cannot believe she contacted a journalist, no shame.
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  573. Dream on... They don't want to pay even for their own meal. 🤣
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  574. I do think it is excessive, they will be a new couple so of course the burden of married couple should be borned by both of them regardless their high incomes.
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  575. These young people may seem aimless, but they support the foundation of society. Do we have the right to criticize them?
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  576. Foreign women are happy that her husband teyes really hard for their life and children.. and husbands are happy that no dowry and wifes are appreciate the husband … win win
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  577. This story is a bit too familiar. I know a guy who got scammed the same way. He spent hundreds on a meal, only to find out it was all a setup. The sad part is, he still hasn’t learned his lesson.
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  578. Pretty obvious the young guy is pretty clueless. Just looking at her I can tell they are incompatible.
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  579. A woman's domestic labor and raising the kids is overrated and the man going to work everyday to support the family is highly underrated. In mostly all situations, the woman is not raising the kids by herself nor keeping the house clean solo. At the end of the day, the court system is the problem for penalizing the man for being a man and not updating the laws because a lot of work outside the house,
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  580. More modern women buying houses they can't afford cause they need to compete socially. Doing something that historical was accomplished as a couple. Now all these women are folding in China and the USA. Women think a house gives you clout. It does but men want one for their families to live in as it's main purpose while women do it to feel independent. So both choose to live in debt. While one is doing it for his family. The other for selfish reasons. That's why it slaps them so hard. Men will lower their life standards to maintain a home for their families while women will sell their homes to maintain the lifestyle they have become accustomed to. Living alone in your own place is a luxury in modern times. the older generations understood that. The current one feels eentitled to one.
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  581. 12:13 poor guy😢 his wife doesn't deserve sick a hard working man. He does everything in his power to make life good but he gets no recognition or appreciation.
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  582. This situation may have occurred in China, but the truth is, this can and does happen worldwide.
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  583. This is what you call love and marriage. Over coming difficulties together. My husband had nothing when I married him. I earn more than my spouse and my education is slightly higher than my husband. That has not affected our relationship at all. We’ve been married almost 30 years. Don’t look down on someone because their social economical standard is not the same as you. You will miss out the person you are fated to be with.
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  584. The only good decision this person can make at this time, is to never return. Stop re-opening the wounds for this family. The dad did a great job raising these daughters.
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  585. No wonder when my son was posted to China, my wife was in constant fear of him getting married over there. Yes, he was paid some RMB 3.5 million a year. Now he got himself transferred home, she seemed to be relieved.
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  586. some women and bars tried this in India, and the police registered cases against those bars.
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  587. Dont like your supervisor, LEAVE. Leave the job, leave the bs, leave the bully. Get a job that deserve respect!
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  588. Forget it, it's best for the man to let go. There's no need for him to hold onto memories of this woman anymore.
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  589. Yeah it's not too much, so she shouldn't complain about paying it.
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  590. So damn true,not enough tall,handsome,rich men 😂
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  591. Chinese women and culture are having the same attitudes and materialistic nature as American feminist, women in far west like Russia, Ukraine, Germany have more realistic outlooks towards relationships more like Philippines, Thailand, Malaysia, Cambodia. Chinese women are too much like American women and their both are having the same problems
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  592. Sounds like Hostess bar girls here in Hawaii.
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  593. The looks and tactics of nightlife girls are indeed captivating, but it’s all just surface-level.
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  594. In America you'd be locked up for not being rich enough and then charged with harassment and assault...oh, and now let's talk about the charges for talking to and kissing the girls...
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  595. ​ @canthandlethetruth-dji  the mediators are like lawyers. They take the clients side regardles of right and wrong. Theyr salery depends on it.
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  596. I love watching these videos. It makes more and more sense for MGTOW.
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  597. I feel bad for a guy but that how a lot of women are now days better to stay single and live your life
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  598. The man’s family is also at fault; their obsession with the bride price encouraged this imbalance.
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  599. You're not always beautiful & Young thats the disadvantage if beauty & body is your only Asset & Being a Woman
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  600. The bride should pay the groom, since the groom is taking on the burden of supporting her, relieving her and her parents from that burden. All the more so if the is a single mother - ugh, avoid at all costs.
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  601. I thought american women were hella bad but this beats them in a high mile
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  602. This is ignorant as heck. First, from multiple sources - China is in a major unemployment rush. Not programmers, not female programmers. EVERYONE. And not only China - but one also has to be ignorant as heck not to realize that MOST countries have a SERIOUS employment issue over all fields. Btw., starting a business is not a solution - not when everyone tries. Right now, it is "want a job, apply in Russia". Second, AI is coming - programmers soon will talk to AI to write programs. Now, not now, not next year. But right in time when the recession is over. And again, it is not robots.
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  603. No, because women never do anything wrong. What a woman says is word of God, and full stop.
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  604. I was popular in high school! Where’s my billionaire? 😄
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  605. Get a new wife or stay single. It’s way better.
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  606. I. WILL. MARRY. THE FIRST. GIRL. AS. LONG. SHE. HAVE. A. GOOD. HART AND. NICE BI. DON'T. CARE. WHAT. SHE. DOING. FOR. A. LIVING
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  607. Ladies, you continue getting it all wrong. When you will understand? WE DON´T CARE FOR YOUR EDUCATION OR YOUR MONEY, DAMNIT! Only for list three, we want know if you´re someone pleasant and peaceful for have at our side, and someone we can count for make your part! Only these three criteria already disqualify eight in ten of you all!
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  608. what marriage? they were divorced.
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  609. if you use money as bait, dont complain at what you catch
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  610. Chinese man it's time to pasport bross like US man 😀
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  611. She shamelessly dares to say he did things willingly, the truth she's a shameless con artist who needs. to pay for her crimes...
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  612. she said 30k yuan 'wasnt too much' so she should have no issues paying right?
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  613. Sexless marriage is painful.
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  614. That poor guy at the end was right to be furious. That nurse was playing him AND she was inconsiderate of his time by requesting him to stop what he's doing and come see her. I mean reall?! Who the hell does she think she is?! I'm a woman and I'm furious with her poor behavior i can't imagine how he felt when she refused to come down. She'll be complaining there are no good men soon.
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  615. Yeah, I noticed to not eat while watching this channel, cause I may choke incidentally 🤣
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  616. I've learnt a massive lot from this channel about Chinese women nature and it's a blessing for me to know
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  617. she ordered for her friends and brother, she should pay for all of it.
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  618. Never marry. If you find a woman who wants you for your values and character, she will have children with you without the marriage contract. Pay for her, pay for your children, but only if she is aligned with your values.
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  619. The man @ 2:01 is speaking true wisdom, you do not need a marriage certificate for true love and commitment, do not tie yourselves down with this nonsense and refuse it altogether.
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  620. No foreign guy in his right mind is going to fork over ¥300k bride price, have her parents move in with them, and give up his salary card every month. Those are impossible standards everywhere
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  621. He should let his lawyers handle it and take back "ALL" the property he paid for.
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  622. Without a bride price he got a real woman and a loving family. So to all the single women trying to get your pockets full and get a man you plan to divorce....they all about to head to other countries to find love and not a gold digger.
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  623. Criminals wouldn't want you to look at their past😅
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  624. For those still buying houses, they should think hard about this story. Buying a house is not speculation, let alone gambling.
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  625. This is absolutely true. A woman's love is conditional towards men.
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  626. [If the government of Chaina can enforce law that states a couple's 3-year cohabitation means legal marriage and financial intertwinement! Then, the gov't can lawfully demand the return of a dutiful man's stolen bride-price, when the marriage doesn't occur with a couple! More terrible incidents like this will have to happen, and to high-ranking officials, before the governing laws are amended to repair trust in marriage!🤔💭]
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  627. Grandma used to have a saying "Wish in one hand...and shit in the other. See which one fills up first." (Grandma was a very earthy girl...)
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  628. The real question is why would a high quality man, with good income, stable home and future, consider being with her, when he has OPTIONS?
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  629. This story has almost everything. Pride, Greed, Wrath, Envy, Lust, add Sloth. All we’re missing is Gluttony. 🤷🏻‍♂️ 😂✌🏻
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  630. Lets make Valentines Day the new: 304 Day, if women want our money they'll need to be in 4 like a dog for one hour, then we go with our brothers to enjoy the evening. <3
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  631. The words high quality and leftover are an oxymoron.
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  632. Once a woman takes you for granted it's all over. It doesn't matter whether it was because she didn't really like you and you had to work to "earn" her love or because she lost respect for you after marriage, the end result is always the same. Taking you for granted > Losing respect for you > Cheating
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  633. These women would never realize that choosing to have a career then get married is a futile endeavor.
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  634. What’s the point of such a marriage? Why not just divorce sooner?
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  635. WOW :face-blue-smiling: That 2nd women wanted the Moon & Stars :face-blue-wide-eyes: Run away as fast as you can. :face-fuchsia-poop-shape: 880,000.00 Bride Prize :hand-orange-covering-eyes:
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  636. Even after 20 years of marriage, my wife would never ask for a bag that expensive. That crazy chick is asking for it on the first date.
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  637. Why, of course……………..not.
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  638. Its a dream she is chasing she is so smart that she thinks disney is real life
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  639. What a close call
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  640. imagine selling your stocks, then demanding to be paid 7 years later when the price goes up
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  641. LoL too damn funny...that dude who had to meet his blind date at the hospital. Reminds me of the Korean film My Sassy Girl 😂🤣
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  642. No matter how hard women work, many job positions still exclude them because of their ‘age’ and ‘marital status,’ something that’s unimaginable for men.
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  643. why tf dont they go and make money themself instead of complaining that the dude lost his job . look you dont like things? shut up and do better! never worked in their life but beeing so entitled
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  644. First lady is very lucky to have a supportive husband. She was very smart to not be a leftover. Life is a team game.
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  645. Excellent video. This is a video that every man must watch. Surprised that this kind of topic is not mentioned much. My ex does this to gaslight me alot.
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  646. @1:16 Hmmmm, the following became dads - Al Pacino at 83, Robert De Niro at 79, Mick Jagger at 73, Richard Gere at 70, George Lucas at 69, Ronnie Wood at 68, Steve Martin at 67, Rod Stewart at 66 and etc, etc, etc. Show me just one woman that has managed that with her own eggs.
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  647. These women do not care what the man wants, only what they want.
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  648. Adrenaline kicks in Oldman run like Teenager.
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  649. I would sympathise but he stupidly got her pregnant. They then started to talk about marriage on that alone. Bride price aside, that is not a good foundation for marriage. If there was no baby, marriage would not have even been mentioned. And I would not use the US as an example of it being better in terms of fairness. One word - alimony. It was a just concept once upon a time when women were housewives but men are getting shredded by it nowadays. Also, "No, I do not agree to that price. Good luck, babe!"
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  650. She thought she was just ordinary, but to him, she was the whole world.
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  651. The 33 year old sales woman just wanted to continue to tell the world her looks are great. Her requirements for a boyfriend aren't high and then she lists significantly above average requirements by Chinese standards. She's 33 and hasn't found a man yet. She can't make it work with any man.
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  652. Money buys compliance not loyalty!
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  653. I'm glad women use makeup and filters. It lets me know which ones to avoid.
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  654. Women must have a good past, and Men must have a good future
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  655. @5:25 homegirl is dumping all responsibilities on the husband as he is expected to bring home the big bucks AND she wants to 'share' the responsibilities at home such as cooking, cleaning and more than likely, homegirl doesn't put out and is like a sack of potatoes in bed!!! Homegirls from eastern Europe, SE Asia who have tradtional values don't think like this and they don't have a bride price either!!! 😂😂😂
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  656. Many of you might not have much perspective on earning money in China. I revently got to know a lady who worked as a nurse from Guangxi. I was close enough to ask her how much she made and she said less than 7000 yuan. That's less than $1K USD per month. How are these women asking for $500K yuan as bride price?
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  657. He was perfectly justified in being suspicious. To use terms the Chinese seem to like, she lacked sincerely and emotional value.
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  658. He looks like a really nice guy 😊. They both have the same smile.
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  659. I endured the first 3 only, the cringe is too high to continue.
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  660. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂is this man looking for a nanny? People always want to date their opposite apparently. Make up your mind!!!!
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  661. This is a serious issue. Men should aware.😔😔😔
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  662. this is why there's a saying. Be careful what you wish for and also you never know how good you got it till its gone. Just be glad man around the world isn't doing what modern women are doing saying stuff like i don't need no women i can survive on my own. Because men can live okay being alone even though its sad and man can admit it thus why we make friendship with women. Sadly modern women today aren't seeing that. Than again i do blame them for not going for the good guys that will treat them good but sadly don't get paid attention to till the women gets older.
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  663. I eat leftovers but not this one 😂🤣👍🏽!
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  664. Yea, it's alright for men to stay single forever, they can survive well. It's different for females. Being a single female in this world is hard and it's really lonely.
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  665. Hence the rise of love dolls.
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  666. If the Law doesn´t do anything for you then TAKE THE LAW INTO YOUR OWN HANDS!
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  667. I am so proud of my Asian brothers. Hold the line 💪😮.
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  668. I never understood the asset splitting logic. One have to give actual hard earned value and other one can assign arbitary value like uterus which is also used and someone got it for free. Meanwhile current person has to pay overprice.
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  669. Some people treat going abroad as an escape, not an opportunity. What you need to realize is that going abroad could also mean starting over.
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  670. And yet she makes less than a $ 1000😅
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  671. This is what you call a modern day gold digger and if I was him I really would use every last one of my lawyers and sue her and get every last dime back she knew exactly what she was doing then when he had no more money she decided to go to the next person even had a person living in his house that he paid that's what heartless gold digging women do young women only want older men for their money
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  672. I absolutely love this story. But love did not conquer all. If he did not have money this would never had been. But still I love the story.
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  673. Would today's Chinese be willing to give up the gains that are possible for only a few and return to Chairman Mao's Iron Rice Bowl paradigm? At least there was a solid floor underneath for all; even though there was also a ceiling to prevent exploitation. To spend massive amounts on a stuupit wedding is just madness and she will divorce you anyway.
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  674. It was a scam
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  675. A couple who once loved each other deeply are now like strangers. It's really speechless.
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  676. Even a close friend, like my beloved dog, will only cost me for 15 years.
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  677. Oh, ain’t this truth!!! I had a best friend that handed all his hard worked for money to his wife. Long story short, he lost 2 houses, 1 car and were homeless for more than 2 years. Until I and another friend helped him getting a job that pays well. What did he do? He hadn’t learnt a thing from the past history. 🤦🏻‍♂️
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  678. Wish them all the best in there marrige ❤❤ this is love should be all about ❤❤❤ lov this story looking forward to have update more on there recent years❤❤
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  679. The job pressure in china is heavy.
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  680. The only ex-wife wants her ex-husband back , not because trying to rekindle their past love (I doubt there were any love to begin with in her part) Now she know she couldn't find a man with ex-husband's high earning potential and a walking ATM, she will be regretting rest of her life. Icing on the cake, new wife at least 100% prettier and younger, story is better than movie, Brove !
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  681. Totally true my friend. It is amazing how women dont want to deal with their mistakes and admit them. They just want to find excuses and to make their current situation "beautiful" in some way.
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  682. She doesn't know that she has 6 months. As far as she knows she might be asking her daughters to take care of her for a couple of decades.
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  683. At 4:47, that girl may find that type of man easily in the movies, dreams or cemetery than a grain of rice in the sea😂😂😂
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  684. Right, how can they be so clueless, hence why they are still single
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  685. Women!!!
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  686. This sounds very stupid, in the end the solution would be for women to make own buisnesses. If there is still the same problem, then it is their own fault. Moreover I have not seen male HR people in my life, I was allways hired by women in my life, maybe that is different in china, but that would immedeatly make it womens own fault.
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  687. Its a good thing to know, women need guidance everywhere, and its not just a western thing
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  688. Its biggest joke that women thinks men as atm
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  689. That was a good compilation of useful advice. Thanks to the ladies for spilling the beans on their sisters. Women are much better at interpersonal/emotional manipulation than men are, and men are often two steps behind in decoding what is going on. It's helpful to review this information. I know what it's like to be on the receiving end of some of that. It can really put your head and heart in turmoil sometimes. It's pretty heartless behavior, but some women are just cold. I imagine some of them do it automatically, without realizing exactly what they're doing, like they're just unconsciously running a program. In any event, thanks for the reminders, ladies.
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  690. Hi couple; All the best for your future. Love from India. 🇮🇳❤️🇷🇺❤🇨🇳.
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  691. One question. Why would a rich man want even a real socialite? I mean for a long term, not just for fun and aesthetics.
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  692. I’m actually understanding men opinions are in vocabulary related to honesty, kindness towards happiness, ways including having children togetherness families together as well. I totally understand about people opinions too within direction towards lifestyle. Some Chinese women needs more helping others in needs, vocabulary can’t take advantage/demanding others people on getting things that they need, being marrying is about working togetherness 50/50 level including ups and downs lifetime but working as teammates. Choose wisely around with anything male friends and find partners togetherness. The curriculum’s and career's important but women in development in planning become mothers to roles to help men out too.
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  693. Like left over women, now you know how they feel.
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  694. The pride of Lulu is quite staggering.
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  695. There will always be simps. Which is why these types of vvomen will never listen, learn or realize anything. They don't have to. Some clown simp will come along and try to save her sooner or later 😂
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  696. 4:02 lots of men happily didnt meet her requirements Thats crazy Handsome, tall, rich 880k yuan for bride price Minimum 30k yuan salary/month and hand it all to her, for skincare, household needs and saving, but how about her own salary as department manager with stable high income ? She dont want step son because she knows the father needs to pay high bride price some day in the future LOL
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  697. I dont know why the guy is arguing with a lady like this.. some people are not worth the effort or energy..any wife who runs her mouth like this.. doesnt deserve to be dealt with.. 😂
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  698. Salute to both of them. Seriously both kept everything 100.
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  699. In my opinion there's nothing wrong in this. Our Indians are also following the same method for getting a wife.
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  700. Not at all, these scams are to bring revenue to the business, not just for a meal
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  701. Logically? What has logic to do with this? It's a moral and ethical issue. And a legal one too. If there is no law to curb the immoral and unethical practice of stealing the bride price money, then it's only natural for an immoral and unethical family to proceed with the theft. The logic of the fraudster's mind is that "the money that is given to me is forever mine" if you wish to appeal to logic.
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  702. a premarital checkup is no different to a financial background check before a loan is given to you. It is called due diligence*
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  703. Failed with money but get much live experience and the win in that who most fail, find a good woman.. That alone makes this man a winner and is in top 10% of all the men. What is better good woman and no money vs much money no good woman.. Woman is more important. How many men have killed them self's thanks to bad woman.. How many men have try to find good woman in there live time.. This man is a winner and found what matters. He just don't understand it yet. I hope long and healthy live to both of them and 3-4 kids :) It is nice to see kids growing up whit nice parents.
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  704. All these ladies complaining. The government is getting out of the marriage business. Revealing themselves as transactional only.
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  705. I thought women were naturally beautiful? Turns out men are the beautiful and loving ones
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  706. Creepy I pictured this 20 years ago ...with there being more women than men in Russia and so many Chinese men ( 1 child boy policy)
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  707. Very good video. The man with frugality stuck out to me the most. I disagree about him buying an expensive car but his life style paved the path to what he wanted.
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  708. The sad reality is that you have leverage and women only respect leverage and most have no morality.
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  709. If she thinks she’s a 9 or 10 either she is lying to herself or those around her are
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  710. Makes less than 2,000 yuan monthly and demands a man making 100,000 yuan a month. Not going to happen.
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  711. I'm glad that our Chinese brothers are finally waking up! In the past it was only tradition to pay a bride price for the VERY BEST Women, the most beautiful, with the best bodies, and of course they must be virgin. If modern women want a bride price, then the GPA test is a MUST beforehand. And it is also beneficial in detecting any health problems. Remember brothers! No Hymen, No Diamond!!
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  712. This is the first generation who read princess like book in their early life.
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  713. Dude, I'm a Southeast Asian specifically Vietnamese, you shouldn't think that Asian women are different from the West, they all act the same.
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  714. Many of these testimonies really resonate with me.
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  715. These women are finally improving their mindset.
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  716. No man should be paying to get a woman that he then has to take care of financially.
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  717.  @penguinvic9892  On another trip to China, we hired a tour guide rather than go with the bus group tour. He knew the schedules so we would eat at restaurants not on the bus route, then go to visit the sites before the buses to avoid the crowds. We had him eat with us. On the last day at the airport, we tipped him 1000 yuan plus the loose change we had. He started crying - apparently he had never been treat like this before. We corresponded with him for a few years.
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  718. It really is so funny, my mother was born in India. She was unlike any American woman I have ever met. She put up with so much and really worked on raising her children. My dad had a woman who looked better than Elizibeth Taylor , her American equivalent... after 5 kids she still had an 18 inch waist and wore a 4 inch wide belt around her waist to enhance that... her hair curled up at the floor about 4 inches. ALL the women always complimented my mother on her figure and age 5 ~ I saw a car wreck when the following car guy couldn't keep his eyes off my mom. My mom was so low maintenance that I had unrealistic expectations growing up about women in America. It took me decades to figure it out. American women are ruined. Some of the Chinese women are unbelievably beautiful. They were weaponized long ago and helped several kingdoms to fall as their rulers couldn't keep their eyes off the women at all and did whatever they wanted Just to please them. The Koreans have sayings about it... "Pretty enough to destroy a house" and "Pretty enough to destroy a castle" and "pretty enough to destroy a nation" THAT"S HOW BEAUTIFUL THESE WOMEN ARE ~ NO KIDDING !!! I want one ~ LOL !! Even the Chinese men can't handle them... They are that tempting.
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  719. She made a decision which she is regretting. Not anybody's fault other than that women.
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  720. And i bought a gift for my boyfriend on valentine day ^^ Because I'm happy when he is happy.
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  721. Also, a woman wearing makeup is a filter. Men need to stop giving these women that use filters or wear makeup attention until you see what they look like without it. Guys have to take some of the blame for this problem. If you desperate men stop falling for the fake beauty, it will stop.
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  722. "Unwritten rules", but she tells a complete catalogue, and of course ALL OF THEM are a disadvantage for the man. Keep acting like that.
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  723. Have experienced the same trick in the Philippines! These women are so kind and beautiful when they invite you to an evening with them. You are not aware that all the happy people around you are her family and friends, total 50 people ! You do know when the owner of the establishment hands to you the bill ! This is Normal practice in the Philippines ! I Just said thank you so very much but first I must Relieve myself and escaped out the back window and ran as fast as I could for at least one hour ! Others were not so lucky !! Beware of the Philippines !!!
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  724. You're doing a great job spreading awareness :yougotthis:
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  725. this woman not wanting to take accountability..(no responsibility whatsoever) and blame everyone but herself the idea that even after doing all of the shit that she did to this man that he should take her back is absolutely astounding...wow.
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  726. That's exactly why she wouldn't take it to court.
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  727. Women can reject a man for whatever reason you know. It’s not normal to settle because if it was there would be no divorces or far less than we have. My opinion. I will say the women need not complain if they constantly reject. Just be alone and be happy. Also men will date a tree if it cooks and put out so there is that. Single is not some sickness.
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  728. What about that women and original biologycal father he should come out to take responsibility.that women is cheater
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  729. Money is for women to SEE NOT SPEND!! 😂🎉 ❤ Love it!!! 🥰
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  730. No hope only cope
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  731. The woman at 5:00s visiting the high-end retirement home doesn't understand that in old age, she may not be in any condition or state of mind to exercise, or even read.
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  732. she didn't come across as aggressive or wanting high standards... shame she left it too late at 37. if was her i just get a doner then at least you have a child if not a partner.
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  733. Technology is truly amazing... and frightening!
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  734. The bride price shakedown is the most popular dance in China!
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  735. Just meet women in the real world. The problem is people live in the virtual world where people misrepresent themselves.
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  736. He is an honest man, perhaps a touch more “honest” than what she was really looking for
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  737. Communication technician in the United States I'm very lucky that my employer alows me to sleep in my car in the company parking lot..
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  738. I had this happen to me once at a "wine bar" in Nanning, Guangxi province. This was about April or May 2015. I arranged to meet a woman on a dating site, I d been in China for several years, I should have known better. Two bottles of wine came out, I just wanted a bottle of beer and one glass of wine. Then a fruit platter came out. I was presented with a bill for 3000 RMB, I said, I only pay for one bottle of beer and a glass of wine. Two Chinese "men" came out, they said "you must pay".I said I will not pay. I think my large size, Chinese speaking, and muscled body intimidated them to some extent. By coincidence, another Australian guy and his Chinese wife lived in an apartment complex across the road. I called him after, he came down ( another big Aussie guy) He said, "if you don't cut out this scamming shit, I will call the local PSB". That "coffee shop and bar" was not there a few weeks later.
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  739. What kind of social values are reflected in the tolerance for foreigners and harshness toward Chinese men?
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  740. Smart man! Greedy shameless women need such lessons😅. Wealthy men are not fools.
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  741. When you call your future husband "the other party", you make it clear that this is purely a business transaction.
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  742. Wow. these men are wisdom incarnate.
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  743.  @franzhulk2947  And I know guys who have been betrayed by ugly women too. Beauty is not an indicator of who the person is, beauty just makes a person more desirable but for different reasons. For men we want beautiful women because they're beautiful and regarding the women's side of attraction, they want beautiful men because other women will want him. Nonetheless whether a woman looks average or beautiful, you should never marry her if her attitude is not pure.
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  744. Men who are so obsessed with marriage partners in such a hurry, should learn the hard lesson from their stupidity attitude. No one forcing you but you have to be careful and wise, using your instincts.
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  745. Honestly, they should get a divorce if there is no sex in marriage
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  746. Women love money. They really really love money.
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  747. Thank you for bring us this nice story , I hope all the best to Mr Cai and Thiffany . This is a real love story to pass through though times together .
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  748. 15:20 ma'am. The whole point of your career was to fund your life. You have the cart before the horse.
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  749. Would be called " The freak show "
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  750. I feel sympathy for him and a lot of man who failed. Your advise is right. We need to focus on our learning and business.
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  751. We should have options to remove filters when watching videos.
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  752. Wife & I had kids. She was 33 for the 1st, 36 for the 2nd. The second time was much harder than the 1st. Also, we got married at the beginning of our careers & grown sucessfull together, wasn't all smooth sailing but still together.
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  753. That lawyer seemed strangly bias and opinionated... Stick to the law lady! Im glad he laughed at her claims, and has his own professionals on the job. Still a sucker though lol
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  754. No, it's THEY who have underestimated. Nothing for Men has changed. We have the same pressures, expectations and responsibilities for the past 100 years. How much time do you have to waste warning them about the reality of older age?
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  755. There’s a simp born everyday…The “simp economy” may become dormant for awhile, but it won’t disappear entirely.
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  756. Sounds like everyday is a Banquet!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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  757. The women that are mad with this new law is basically gold diggers the reason to get married is for a heart-to-heart connection not a wallet to money transaction a lot of these women looking to marriage as a financial gain or financial come up and if a divorce is initiated it is normally the woman that gets most of it not anymore it is putting a lot of these gold diggers action into the light so that the honest Chinese women can step up and marry for love not for financial gain how many videos have you seen about wives getting divorced and want to take the husband's hard-earned money and assets that he worked for not anymore if the man paid for it it is his to own if the wife come in with nothing she leaves with nothing you're going to have more and more Chinese women not getting married because they are in it for financial gain not in it for love this new law stops them and put their actions into the light
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  758. 中国工厂里的年轻女孩工作时间长、工资低、待遇不公，生活艰难。虽然取得了一些进步，但仍有许多问题需要解决。❤❤❤
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  759. Buying a house costs millions, what is 1,500 yuan? Am I too poor, or is this policy a joke?
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  760. Boys be careful
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  761. Nice video. One takeaway here is that it seems like men want a life partner (for better or worse, richer or poorer, through sickness and through health, etc.) but women want assets. It's bad enough that there are more men than women but when the pool of women pool is this polluted, it doesn't look good for men. Men, good luck finding love, and don't settle for less. Real love is worth it.
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  762. Foodie calls are to eat for free. Not the same thing.
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  763. If ONLY women could understand that men, the good men, demonstrate love through SACRIFICE... This one is a FOREVER keeper because she understood him and not about him.
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  764. In the US, only thing i could think is this was the old ways of showing trust. Trust the woman would not be without. But once social structures changed, this was a mans undoing. Bank accounts cleaned out. Loss of vehicles, stolen vehicles yet they weren't stolen because they were in the woman's name. Pure Ignorance!
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  765. What ended up happening? Did she get anything? You can’t end the story without telling us!!
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  766. The person I feel for is the father. It is clear that he was holding out hope for her. As stupid and naive as that might be I can only admire that kind of devotion something most of us will never know or have. Now all that hope gone and now you have to see your 2 daughters who you brought up alone with your blood sweat and tears get stabbed with an emotional stake through the heart.
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  767. I feel sorry for this man. But what he reaps is what he has sown.
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  768. Delusion is the biggest problem people deal with nowadays they don't want to face reality and that's sad
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  769. Having a son in China is a major financial burden. The parents are the ones who have to suffer by paying for these expenses.
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  770. This must be a once-in-a-lifetime experience! The old man is so composed!
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  771. Strong independent women welcome this new law.
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  772. She was supermodel in Krasnoyarsk Krai Russia
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  773. It's so sickening how women like to use the word "suitable", as if they meant a hard working decent honest man. They do not, suitable for them is tall handsome and wealthy and even then there are a laundry list of other things the man must bring, have and do to win their cold hearts.
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  774. True love always ends with happiness. ❤❤❤
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  775. As a man, you must pursue the best opportunities for you. It may be working abroad, gaining a higher degree in a useful field or learn a simple trade such as being an electrician, a plumber or skillful carpenter. I wish all of these men the best.
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  776. And if she doesn't look like her profile pictures, you are not obligated to pay for anything.
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  777. This is like that one guy that won the lottery after she divorced him for being s bum. 😂😂 He won $273 million dollars, so he was asked if he would give any to her? He was like Hell Na, the wife responded the same. But this woman is begging a little too hard, after he gave her 250000yuan and a settlement house. How much more do you want to suck out of his wallet? 😂😂
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  778. Models are in many types, still photo shoot, walking on ramps, doing for ads agencies, going for test in modelling. I use to go for modelling, whenever the demands comes & also be asst for agencies who cordinate with ads agencies, many jobs are there, you have to choose, either get married coz your age is catching up, take few days prioritize what is more important
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  779. Those 11 rules are nothing more than give a woman everything, and you get nothing from her. Then older women trying to tell men how to date, but she is lonely. They want men to spend money but how about women pay for first date because then we find out who they choose.
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  780. How long before the women, instead of approaching us with a list of "demands" or "criteria" now approach us with a list of "benefits" or "offerings"? That will be a nice change.
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  781. 0:01-2:23 I support this100% get married with foreign women If Chinese girls do not want to get married and let Chinese girls keep working in the services sector and to serve your wife
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  782. I'll tell you why the guy is in the wrong. Because he should have fled once there was more than the woman he was taking out. Did he think they were all going to drink a glass of water? He should have left the moment she walked in with 20 some people
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  783. In 20 years she i crying as she discovers she belong to the leftovers.
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  784. They are advantages if you are in pursuit of materialism. They are disadvantages if you want relationships.
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  785. 😏 LOL you dont need their permission, just run away together, just like in the movies
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  786. [That dude was so lucky to escape unharmed! He was warned but still needing to verify, risked imminent demise! Foolish methods!🤷🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️]
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  787. I feel so sorry for the man's daughter's! This woman only cares about herself! Do not take care of this woman! She has no love for her daughter's! Please make her go back to her lazy gambling husband! Please leave this man and his two daughters alone! She has scared this family for a lifetime!
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  788. In China, love has nothing to do with marriage. It is a transaction only. I like watching these videos to see how ridiculous women's demands are. 😅
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  789. what's the point of remembering the past. bad media, bad reporter and bad younger sister. 30 years being left..... if that's me, I'd probably already won't remember her face especially since the kids was still at age 2 to 8 at that time. think of her as stranger. and don't forget she ran away from home taking al arge sum of money. his ex husband should sue the ex wife of stealing the money. ask her to return the money she had stolen.
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  790. These women are kinda right. Women need to get jobs to earn for themselves. And Men would need to share all the responsibilities of house chores, not just the woman alone. Traditional Marriages are no longer in practice. Both need to have jobs and both need to do chores together.
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  791. He gave her 7 more chances than i would have , after the 1st rejection he should have bailed then .
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  792. I can understand the delay of the deposit on the 4.5m rmb. But wouldn't anyone with two brain cells be suspicious of the rich guy not having money for meals, transport and "accommodations"? That's only 6K over three days.
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  793. It looks like the guy at 6:10 is going through hell, and I hope he gets through it, but stories like this should be shown to all young potential investors as a warning as to what can happen if you invest too much too soon. I guess guys like this saw the success stories of others during the boom and assumed the same was going to happen to them, and now they'll have to learn the hard way.
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  794. The more you tell women to lower her standards the more she refuses.
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  795. Absolutly hearthbreaking envirment for mens in china.
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  796. Wondering how much it actually costs an individual to maintain a "relationship" on an ongoing basis? Is it more economical and perhaps even less stressful to maintain a relationship on a "transactional" basis?
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  797. I want my prince.charming or i will stay single do not go for second best
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  798. LOL first guy's dreams crushed of being a male gold digger.
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  799. It's like guys and nice watches. I'd say cars, but those have real practical value. Let's be honest, fancy bags and watches are just jewelry that have a "practical" use only on a technicality.
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  800. don't tell her that she will flip out emotionally and take it as you saying she doesn't help you relax and make it all about her and that your mean for saying a video game relaxes you more than being with her lol. Just add in "its the only other thing babe besides you being with me that helps me relax" and you'll be good.
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  801. Here's a thought. Get out for the day or have a night with a no phone/pc on policy. Don't get me wrong, i'm a former gaming addict and love playing ff14 a few hours here and there, but both of you need to unplug and spend time together. Otherwise what's the point of having a wife?
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  802. This guy would have been better off just getting a factory job instead of doing all these various get rich quick schemes. He should have realized that early on after repeated failures instead of keep taking out bigger and more risky loans. It is sad that it took 20+ years to develop self awareness of the problem,.
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  803. why does this sound like a nature themed documentry about animal behavior 💀
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  804. My friend meet chinese girls they start goin out for couple of month and then he propose to her she said yes they went to the restauran celebrating and then she told him i need 95000 euro for you to mary me he laugh thinking she just crack a joke but she became angry telling him you disrespected me after he realise she is so seriouse he left in the restaurant and never want to see her again
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  805. And then the mother falsely got him arrested no justice for him all because they want money and when the police found out the truth they should have went and locked her mother up for falsely accusing that's why he should always be recording his actions off camera means off guard these Chinese women will try anything and everything to try to get money that they think that's owed to them and it's not and she had a bad gambling habit and the mother and father knew completely her gambling habit was bad and still tried to defend her is families like that that need to be disgraced and shamed then she had the nerve to say her gambling problems are not that bad but you keep spending his money to gamble turning around writing him letters about not gambling again and then go right back to gambling she knows she's wrong of course she's going to use his money to go gamble the mother father and her the entire family is completely wrong you cannot force a man to give what he doesn't want to you have no entitlement to that money so you and your family will have to deal with it and this is going to go nowhere as long as he stays firm and don't give her a dime she thinks she deserves something that she doesn't own has nothing to do with her or her family the only person he's obligated to take care of is his daughter and they might use her against him weaponize his own child like most women do that don't get their way
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  806. The government and developers keep passing the buck, but it's the ordinary people who suffer in the end. How much longer can this model continue?
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  807. I met a girl on a first date and I asked her to buy me a $10,000 motorcycle... Guess what happened.. ?
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  808. Who would eat food that costs $100,000 even though it's leftovers? Even after eating, I'm a nag and don't do anything at home, but I still have to go shopping. Freshly made McDonald's food tastes better.
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  809. Sorry but I don’t feel any empathy for him 😢
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  810. A great story of two extraordinary people from different cultures.
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  811. she study medicine that kind of thing is very busy no time too date.
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  812. How about everyone bring something to eat? One or two dishes from a guest and several dishes from a host. P.S. And an alcohol at the expence of those who drink.
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  813. A man will sacrifice his happiness for his family. A woman will sacrifice her family for her happiness. This video is yet another proof of this.
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  814. Guys, I'm holding a banquet for my cat birthday.. everyone is invited. So please do come and don't forget to bring me my gifts suckers. I don't forgive and I don't forget so it's important for everyone to understand my terms.
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  815. My ex wife wanted the same. Then she divorced me after failing to pay bills for 6 months and tried to take my mother's car.
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  816. He thought that they came to watch and "make her feel safe" and he could handle that... but 20K bill brought him back to reality. 🤣
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  817. Reason 999 why older and single men always go for women in their early 20's.
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  818. She thinks of herself as Cinderella, even Cinderella has to endure hardship before meeting her Prince charming.
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  819. How many times do we have to teach you this lesson, Old man? 🐟
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  820. Oh that explains many things about the Chinese leftover women I see online now!
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  821. From an emotional and ethical standpoint, she is reaping what she sowed. From a cultural standpoint, while filial piety is strong in Asian cultures, so is the concept of family duty and honor— Which she completely ignored for three decades. Traditionally, she would be expected to rely on her second husband and his family, not on the family she walked away from. In the end, it would be up to the father and children whether they want to extend compassion. But if they choose not to, they are justified. Actions have consequences. Every family has difficulties and debts if some kind. Mortgage, raising a family, etc. If your husband is a good man to you and you leave him, your second, third, etc. husband will NEVER be as good as your first. Statistics verify this. Just a thought.
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  822. Yeah she was strangely opinionated for a lawyer. What a joke 😂
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  823. I’m commenting a lot here. Sorry! Should be the last one. 😅 I believe it's less about men pushing the narrative of being providers and more about women naturally seeking that trait. Women are inherently attracted to men who can provide for them, which explains why one of the red flags in a marriage can be when the wife starts earning more than her husband. Successful unmarried women often struggle to find partners not because men are overly selective—men generally aren't—but because these women seek partners who earn more than they do, unwilling to settle for less. Feminism, leads to widespread dissatisfaction. The innate biological drive for women to seek providers crosses cultural boundaries. If a society elevates women at the expense of men, essentially diminishing male roles for female advancement, consequences like declining birth rates, soaring divorce rates, and pervasive depression will follow. Women, historically and biologically, are not inclined to be the saviors in relationships. Even a woman with significant wealth might still daydream about a man with greater resources coming to her rescue. In a societal framework where men are breadwinners—out earning women, they take pride in supporting and rescuing women, and everyone benefits. This perspective demonstrates that feminism is detrimental, arguing that traditional roles where men proudly provide lead to greater overall happiness and stability in a community.
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  824. Such a beautiful love story ❤ thank you for sharing!
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  825. I spend a week with my girlfriend in Shang hai and did eat in restaurants all the time. We hardly spended over 150 yuan per meal.
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  826. It is all about the looks. Carrying an expensive bag will show she is “rich”.
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  827. if she was upfront about it, at least she would be honest. But she doesn't even have the decency to be honest.
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  828. Some people will sacrifice their happiness for their family, she sacrificed her family for her happiness. She doesn't deserve any care from her family.
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  829. Please let's take this bride price a bit further, shall we? The bride price should have conditions and be bracketed. Conditions like: 1- GPA test. 2- The marriage should be a normal marriage, living together, sex, etc. 3- If the woman is unfaithful during marriage, the woman should be legally obligated to return the bride's price. 4- If the woman unreasonably requests a divorce, the bride should be legally obligated to return the bride's price. 5- The bride price, plus ownership of the house and car, should be put in an escrow account and be paid out over let's say a 5 year period. If the woman follows the above rules she could withdraw 1/5 of the money per year. This would shop the woman marrying a man and walking out soon after or like in a previous vlog in this channel, the woman married a man and the woman never had sex with the man and only lived with him for a few days and after 3 years of living apart she still asks him for money. To my western mind the bride price is like buying a piece of meat. pardon me for being so realistic and raw, but who would buy an expensive piece of meat without being able to check it out and just pay and take the butcher's word for the quality of the meat. Also anytime a person pays for something a sense of ownership comes with it. The man on some level will feel that he owns the woman because he paid for her. This is not a good beginning for an equal and respectful relationship.
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  830. what about the amount men have to give for marriage, its in millions. a few 1000 rmb wont compensate.
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  831. This man is so pitiful; he lived in a lie for 16 years! But the children are innocent!
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  832. My sister told me an older woman from a nearby town wanted to date me and that when she was younger she had been homecoming queen and she still thought she was the same caliber because back then she could have any man she wanted even though she wasnt that anymore.
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  833. Geez... that woman with glasses is LAZY. She admits that she hasn't worked in a while... and gets past the first interview. Then she complains to her husband that she's not happy in that field, and wants to switch to teaching. Of which, she has zero interest in pursuing... other than the exam is year away, which means another year of doing nothing. She also admits she's unsure she's able to pass the teaching exam, even though it sound very very easy to pass like a driving exam.
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  834.  @grayghost7216 Actually the high bride price was for when the brother gets married and has to pay the dowry.
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  835. Yeah , the system is like that. Even the marrige isnt valid if not paid the money in advance. Difeerence is brides didnt vanish after taking the money before but now they do.
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  836. The rebuff of these women are brutal.
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  837. Can pay rent for 1 year and still have leftover.
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  838. It's amazing how everyone is completely ignoring the fact that the real estate company was surely involved in using her and probably more scammers like her to dupe more victims....
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  839. I really enjoyed this video
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  840. Hey my brothers in China , is absolutely foolish to let your wife manage the financial aspects ,with all fairness a certain portion is acceptable provided you are fully aware of the household expense and a little bit of buffer would suffice , the rest is up to you to GROW your savings as long as you are are financially literate, if you are not do pick up fast
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  841. Good lady. Speak up so others can learn from her experience. Honest.
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  842. Same in the west but its due to mass immigration which is used to push growth which lowers wages and raises land and property prices exponentially. Add in HR departments which like to get rid of staff age 40 to 50 so they dont have to pay pensions. Add in Ai which will destroy 1.6 billion jobs in the next 3 years its already hitting banking warehousing administration and retail shopping. Make people poorer with mass immigration why bother to work when the rewards are simply not there and the competition has increased 10 fold. All this just so the already rich become even richer at everyone else expense. Its not just China its now most of Europe.
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  843. I would much rather be alone and happy than settle for a miserable marriage. These women don't need to settle and be miserable they seem to be doing just fine on their own.
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  844. For women, 30 is the ‘death line’ in the workplace, but for men, careers are just beginning. Have we underestimated the difficulty women face in the workplace?
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  845. He is so creative.
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  846. 15:25 Her and her dad spent over $142 for the two of them to eat for one day! I'm glad she had a nice time and her family can apparently afford this, but that would be insane even in the US!
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  847. What the hell!!
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  848. Nothing to do with rural banquets but cab drivers and tour guides. Some years ago when in China I hired a student tour guide. Like most students they were not wealthy and for lunch she took me to a down market basic café and at first declined to eat anything. I found out that quite wealthy foreigners would hire tour guides but would demand any food they bought for them be taken out of the hiring fee (hence the down market café). I was appalled my fellow tourist could be so mean and penny pinching. I assured her that I never ate in front of anyone and considered her my guest, so I would happily pay for her meal and not expect anything in return. At 5.00 pm the allotted hire time was up and I told her she was free to leave but if she could recommend a nice restaurant I’d be grateful. She had the choice to join me for a meal (I’d pay) or return home. She opted for the meal. After the meal I expected her to leave but she decided to hang about because she found me interesting and generous. We were to stay in touch for some years. The point of this story is just how mean tourists can be with their money. I had the same thing happen with a male cab driver who at first wouldn’t come into the café with me for morning tea. I wouldn’t have it and pointed out I’d pay because I never eat in front of anyone without offering them something. After that the cab driver was one the most cooperative people on the planet.
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  849. [I thought a dowry was given to the husband-to-be by the father as an investment to the new couple! All this concern for a bride-price is why many of those wombmen will remain single and unmarried! Smh. Different cultures, different customs, I guess!🤔💭]
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  850. I feel like every man should get a course in understanding relationships and establishing barriers
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  851. Women around the globe do one thing very well. They keep moving the goal posts. No matter what a man does, it's never enough.
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  852. 40-50K compensation? I laughed so much... It's nothing. This girl was intentionally scamming him from beginning. It was premeditated criminal behavior. He should get EVERYTHING, that she own and she should go to jail or hard labor camp for long time. That would teach her proper values and maybe some ethics.
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  853. It is good that he escaped with the bride😂. He loves her that much
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  854. Love this Channel, Glad these men are waking up! Ladies invest in a Cat.
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  855. Filters in asia go so far that men can "disguise" as beautiful woman. There is even a big case of a motorcyclce rider beauty whomturned out to be a guy who used filters.
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  856. Yes, nowadays women are different. Women are realistic and Money talk.
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  857. There is simpler explanation. Say you are a police officer who has been called tp deal with this situation. How will you know which side is telling the truth? If so, what is the best case scenario given that your job is to maintain public order, not to take sides.
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  858. Only 23 relatives? Why not invite the town? Free food for all!!
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  859. The woman and her family are so terrible. The woman left her children with the money. Her family cut tie with the ex and family refused to even attend her son's wedding.
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  860. Western countries don’t have bride prices, but women receive spousal support after divorce. I wish China had similar legal protections.
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  861. Skewers are sharp wooden sticks. The customers will just throw them in the snow and will pose a safety hazard to the skiiers and a lawsuit to the resort.
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  862. Valentine 2025 - Love for yourself because you have your own freedom to go.
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  863. At one time I'm sure this guy thought he could have it all now he has nothing. He ran a nightclub and didn't see predatory women fleecing guys of their money? Did he think he was so special that it wouldn't happen to him? I wish they would have talked more about the first wife, was she a good wife and mother? Would she have taken care of him when he got sick? Zero sympathy for this guy, as men we need to make better choices in life.
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  864. Is called destiny, fate bringing them together. They must have met past life. Beautiful heart story.
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  865.  @talos1279  This I agree fully!!! League is deathly..
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  866. He’s too young to even realize how much danger he was in.
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  867. This happens to married men all the time but no one cares about men. The second that this happens to women, people care.
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  868. Understandable. I, as a 50 year old man, play games. I got over 3000 physical games, arcades and toys. I go to work too. 50+ hours. Many of these women are doing it wrong. Women should go to work is the 1st step. Split the chores. Don't hog all the chores. Someone need to take care of necessary things in the house. Cook, clean, laundry, sweep, mop, tend the garden, mow the yard, take care child(ren), fix things and etc. I am not a cooker but able to cook simple meal/fool. It's not the greatest but edible enough to be full. So i clean. When my wife is at home, she ask me to help out like washing vegetables, cutting food and prepare necessary things like an assistant chef. ASK NICELY FOR HELP. The husband will help. Be mean and picky and he will leave. Or you can tell the husband that the sink/plumbing is leaking and need to be fix. Or ask if he can take kid to see a doctor's appointment. Don't NAG, be mean, and etc. Maybe ask the husband where to learn a simple game and or join him in one. That way, you get to experience with him. Sit with him. My wife doesn't like video games like most of these ladies but she let me vent off to neverland once in a while. She annoy me by blocking the tv and push my games down. There are times where she feed me while I play game and touch on private spot. That really stop me and off to bed we go. 😅😅😅. So ladies. Ask nicely for help in the kitchen. He will help out like a Prince rescuing a princess in distress. Compliment him. Give him a REWARD. He do it more. Or ask him to cook his well known dish. Compliment it (even if you don't like it). It's a way to get him off that video game.
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  869. She need to tell her potential husband how many men she slept with. If she don't, it's fraud. He has to pay dowry and provide for her for the rest of his life. He should know what he's buying and decide for himself if her body count is acceptable.
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  870. FAFO! If my neighbor told me that a tiger is out running around, I'm not going to argue with him about it. Was that gate made out of aluminum foil? Respect to the first old man, he so lucky! He did all of the right things.
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  871. Makes me think about how people made profit selling shovels to the prospectors in the California gold rush. Honestly he lacks self awareness in a way-caring for living creatures wasn't his forte and he should have accepted it after the pig farming...
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  872. That's true. People try to place blame wherever they can during desperate times, though. I was thinking to myself, after having read the title for video,"One of those intelligent, cute and unfortunate women can stay with me as long as we are both happy." Is that sexist? Maybe to an independent minded woman who doesn't want to rely on a man. Still, men and women in China might find the best opportunity now in finding union. Sharing worries, dreams, etc. Not to mention bills. I saw a tiny and nerdy Chinese girl in a mall by me a couple of days ago and said hello as I walked by. She said hello back to me. She was shopping at a kiosk in a Philippines mall, so I didn't stop....especially after the clerk also said hello. A rarity. I will stop next time. Good luck to you all! Times are tough everywhere.
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  873. Bargain for a high quality woman 😂
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  874.  @ericastier1646  Visitors from America are considered "RICH" so are expected to give money (red envelopes) to the relatives and some villagers. Then of course attending banquets, red envelopes would have to be given out again!! My mother gave some money to a couple of aunties that helped her family when the Japanese invaded China in 1937. While my parents were with the relatives, i sneaked off met the cabbie and bought him coffee. Going back to the courtyard, there was screaming and yelling. The cabbie said: "Let's get out of here"!!
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  875. Now I am just happy that the guy didn't end up in jail over harassment charges. The guy has courage.
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  876. Little Round Eyeglasses Man Is spot on.. Excellent Explanation 👍💯🎯
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  877. "If u want to continue eating ur bowl of noodles then don't throw trash into it" 😂
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  878. The fact that Chinese companies can directly fire or reject your application due to age is wild. The worker protections there are even worse than the US.
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  879. Badluck man. I was like this before I discovered my real purpose in life. This man is just a little late to discover why he's here
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  880. They bought a house and lost their heart—too expensive a price.
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  881. I think the first rural/countryside girl was cute and sensible when it came to the bride price of herself. I really don't understand why is a hot commodity when it comes to have a Bride price ; i know its a union between the two family's but at what costs...
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  882. Why should the courts be concerned about the best interests of the children, in divorce cases. The courts did not bring these children into the world, the parents brought these children into the world. So, it shouldn't be the decision of the courts to decide what is best for the child/children. Leave that to the parents concerned. The courts should simply focus on assets sharing and which parent deserves to have more than the other. Both parents can decide what is best for their children after divorce. If they cannot after a certain period of time, they both should be prosecuted/fined.
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  883. if they only discovered a gaming console.
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  884. I love your content 👏🏾
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  885. Wedding vows: in health and sickness, in poverty or richness, till death do you part.
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  886. I don't understand why these educated, financially secure "older" women feel the need to marry a young, successful and handsome man. Their self-evaluation and their requirements are so unrealistic. With so many people, the competition is stacked against them even before revealing their unrealistic wish list. I guess it's a cultural thing that age plays such an important role: age of marriage, difference of age between spouses, child bearing age. And why women need and see marriage and children as the pinnacle of their achievement. I feel sad for them.
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  887. A nursing home is a miserable place to live the remaining days of your life. Aside from possibility getting terrible roommate, or housing unit... those who don't have family visit often are likely to be the most neglected, or possible abuse. I would disagree that having money won't solve the problem. If someone has enough money, they can pay for a dedicated licensed nurse or two to live in a home. Or even if one was to go to a nursing home, you can pay someone to check on your every week or two, and talk to you on a regular basis. Is this cheap... no, but if you have money, you can buy attention and better care. Lastly, I would say 98% of residents of long-term care facilities are women. Most men die before they make it to a nursing home, or they don't live long after entering. That is another thing to consider.
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  888. I see nothing wrong with this. It's a free market. These women can ask for anything they want, the only thing that will happen is they priced themselves out of the market and end up dying alone.
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  889. Er, 3 days then married? Even with a matchmaker that's a kinda stupid move but know doubt he lead with is money in an attempt to make themselves a better potential match on paper but instead turned themselves into a piece of meat awaiting a hungry animal.
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  890. A drunk father, a helpless child, and a group of warm-hearted young people—what a contrast.
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  891. As a neutral perspective and as a man, the girl loses a lot here. 5 yrs wasted sure both their lives has been destroyed but a woman has expiration everyone knows this. I just dont know why they ignore this mess for so long
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  892. [Probably thru a hardware or suppliers dealing with farming stuff!🤔💭]
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  893. In the marriage photo, his face is turned toward her slightly downward while hers is facing the camera. He's simping and she's gloating she got a male to destroy his marriage for her. She automatically lost any respect left for him and therefore no attraction.
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  894. Something is off with the man. She speaks openly and without blurring their identity and he doesn't even speak, the narrator speaks for him. I feel bad for their parents because they are wanting the best for their kids, however, they forced 2 incompatible people to get married, and are keeping them bound by not letting the relationship fall apart as it needs to. Once the parents pass, they will have nothing left to hold on to, and will be much more older and miserable.
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  895. This is like a Cinderella story. Almost too good to be true
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  896. Her children don’t even know her. I doubt if they even remember her face.
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  897. HUMANITY RESTORED
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  898. I’m really happy for Tiffany and Cai Xiaohua. This channel in general makes so many people lose hope for women in general and how feminism has infected China in such a negative way that hearing stories like this is definitely a nice change of place. Especially considering so many western women act as bad as these leftover women
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  899. Is she a scammer, or just smarter at playing the game?
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  900. Moral lesson of this story: Beauty and money destroys everything including a person's character. Final sufferers are big brother's 1st wife and children. 🤭🤭🤭
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  901. If the legal system can't bring justice people will seek their own
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  902. I can only hope that the helicopter woman was a comedian. I had to listen twice to confirm that she ALSO wanted 50,000 yuan in monthly "pocket money" after admitting that she only makes 30,000 a month herself. I want that deal too ... and I will learn to fly the helicopter myself!
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  903. It’s really not easy
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  904. Marriage without sex is like a teapot without tea inside.
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  905. Spot on commentary at the end. Those women respect the bad boys.
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  906. The root cause of ghost cities lies in the disconnect between policy and the market. Isn't anyone reflecting on this issue?
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  907. @JasonLesko. True. However Chinese men have a deeper understanding of women. They are eloquent in describing this without personal criticism.
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  908. I think it is 88,000 euro. Which is 666,000 yuan. The bride price for locals in China is now at 300,000 and above. Ccp guidelines is only a guideline. Wasn’t it introduced only recently?
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  909. You are a smart man and should be proud of yourself, bravo
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  910.  @Catherine.Dorian.  I'm assuming it originally spread word of mouth style but later came from celebrity memoirs and finally social media posts. Women see other women having multiple kids with multiple men. However, while some women have a legit reason (like the men were physically and/or emotionally abusive and they had to leave them to protect themselves and their children) others leave for mundane or selfish reasons (man becomes ill, or loses job, or she plainly lost interest). Then, this phenomenon became a giant scam for narcissists. "I'm so fabulous you want to pay just to be in a fake relationship/marriage with me. Shower me with attention and lavish gifts." that mindset is pretty ridiculous to me. That's not a husband that's a Sugar Daddy. (Men are also guilty of the reverse - leaving their late 30's or 40's aged wife for an early 20-something. Sometimes leaving the wife with the kids and little or no financial support.) However, I don't want to see children stuck in loveless marriages with parents who are constantly fighting either. So I do think divorce, for any reason, should be allowed. Ideally, people should be honest going into their next relationship regarding how their previous one ended. (But scammers won't be honest so you have to be able to look for the red flags.) Prenuptial agreements, and medical check-ups, should be recommended before marriage for BOTH people, IMHO. No one, male or female, should have to accept "don't you trust me"? ...and then end up with an STD or a statistically riskier chance of a child with a terrible genetic illness (if it is found in both people's family histories). Yes - the medical check-ups are going to be invasive. Yes - I'm saying the man has to get the same level of scrutiny as the female. Has he fathered any children already? If yes, are they healthy? Does he have any worrisome genetic abnormalities going back up his family tree? Does he presently have any STDs, illnesses, or unexplained symptoms? Does he work in an industry that could affect his health or fertility in the future? (Like exposure to carcinogens or radiation materials.) Science and reason have hopefully evolved enough that some of these questions can be answered. It won't 100% guarantee healthy children and a long happy marriage, but maybe it can help avoid a few train wrecks!
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  911. The girlfriend is looking so over both their shyt. She is younger than both and she got the most maturity. 😂😂😂😂i just can't this is too dayum good!!
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  912. These WOMEN don't understand .... it's NOT discrimination... MEN and WOMEN are completely different. You can't use the standard that men get, for women, or vice versa. Women must compare themselves to OTHER women, not men. You can't compare apples to oranges. Women have limited time to achieve certain results, after that physical and hormonal changes will deeply affect them.
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  913. I feel them. When you invest so much time, money, energy into life, u expect to gain some positive ROI, employable exp and skills but instead u get disappointed and get replaced. Kind of like investing in stocks just to lose money = gambling.
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  914. social media and the constant bombardement of luxury lifestyles has fried their brains, now they all think theyre angelina jolie make them property again
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  915. These scams aren't isolated to blind dates. When traveling in SE Asia, the tour guide/cab driver will take you to restaurants and hotels that have a deal with the tour guide. The deal is: He gets money for every person he brings to their establishment. Also in SE Asia such as Thailand and Laos, if you're a foreigner, you'll have to pay more. For example, right at the ticket counter to tourist sites, they will have a sign listing entry prices. Locals: $1, foreigners: $2. Same with shopping. They have no price tags so if a local buys a shirt, the price would be $5. But if they think you're a foreigner, they'll say $10. This is why my relatives there would tell me to let them buy stuff for me or I'll get scam.
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  916. Logically, it should have been a proper contract with the responsibilities of the both parties, the modern version of what has been ensured earlier by the tradition. Without it it is a fraud. Logically there wasn't a dowry as one-sided payment, so in modern times it is an outrageous fraud, under excuse of something that didn't exist in the first turn.
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  917. 13:25 lmao she's taking it as an attack😂😂 how about you just don't divorce!
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  918. Wow. 😅 That sad. I love my bf more than anything. I give him presents he give me back too. Now i am studying really hard to get a good job to get close to him for me memories are matter alot. We always take videos everywhere we go cuz when i old i want to rewatch them. My bf is alot older than me. ❤ We love at first sight lol. I pay some lunch 😊 this time i am planning to get a cake for him 😂
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  919. I agree with the woman who tell the story about her "bestie".
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  920. If they are legally divorced it should mean that the woman gets nothing, and cannot claim anything.
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  921. The old lady trying to marry off her daughter is delusional!!
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  922. I really need to get round to booking a flight there 😂
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  923. in america we just buy a gift of a small box chocolate for 21 chinese yuan for a woman on and that is all for ❤ valentine's day❤
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  924. Seeing the delivery guy working so hard to save up, I wonder—can those who look down on service jobs work this hard?
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  925. Dream on, future sheng nu, dream on...
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  926. The fool and his money.
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  927. That men condition on the second panel have the fairest deal.
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  928. Just FYI American singles events are also devoid of men so it seems woman from industrialized countries have priced themselves out of the dating/marriage market
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  929. The funniest part is no matter how you can explain this even to the ones on their early 30's, you can show them this examples, if she went to college and the man is not one of the 1% top tier then they still prefer to remain single and child less, the worst part is cats and wine are no allowed in nursery homes.
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  930. Very nice, very rational change,,thumbs up for Chinese judiciary 😂😂😂
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  931. Sounds like life sucks in China for men and there family 😢😢😢 bride price way to highj😂😂😂
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  932. If these women think they can demand all of this because there’s an overwhelming majority of men, I think they’re sadly mistaken, because men are not gonna put up with it as demonstrated by these videos
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  933. My Chinese wife and I - I am Caucasian American male - have been married 51 years. Married back in 1973. We met at an American university. I talked her into forgetting the university degree, but to get her MRS. Degree with me! We now have grown children and granddaughters in high school. Throughout the years, my experience has been my wife's Chinese relations are very materialistic and have little or no interest in religion. Before she married me and in our marriage she has been ridiculed by her relations because she is careful with money, and because she is a COMMIITED Catholic (and so am I). Her relations are always spending money beyond their income, always in debt, mostly credit card debt. In my experience, most Chinese I have known are very materialistic people, and this results in an unbalanced life. They seem, since the end of World War II, to follow the United States example, and I tell them the U.S. is not a good example to follow, also too materialistic. But at least many Americans have Christianity in their lives, although it is usually a Protestant Christianity that mixes, Calvinistically, materialism as a proof of personal salvation. My wife and I as Catholics believe not to be so materialistic. In our marriage we have had disagreements between us and her family and my family. I believe the problems, social and economic, in China, and in Japan and Korea, are because of their materialistic philosophy. They must rethink this philosophy. Also, the United States needs to rethink things.
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  934. Yeah this happen to me also, when i lost my bussines and in the most lowest point of my financial struggles, she disrespect, rejected intimacy and cheat leave the family. Dog is more loyal then a woman, never ever invest to a woman. Invest own your self keep financial power for your self, never beg a woman love, is better you alone, than have shit woman beside you, man be strong 💪😡👍 Thanks for the video and great advice we man/father/husband very appreciate it, 🙏😊
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  935. This kind of videos just summarize why back in the days the parents used to vet the candidate and make the decision for them, because if you let them dream and dream away from reality this is what happen to them, China now will have to import women from south Asia in order to maintain their demographics at optimal numbers.
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  936. 天哪！有笑死了 😂😂😂
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  937. Then when the Men are successful The Man looks for A younger beautiful woman better Cry in a Ferrari Than cry on foot😅😅😅😅
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  938. Actually these banquets food in this video look quite impressive and good. I think it's a good tradition that needs new rules. Since everybody wants a zero end game, and nobody wants to loose face by refusing an invitation, there should be rules that make it possible to refuse invitation.
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  939. It is not a girl!
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  940. Really refreshing t hear a good story for once
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  941. if not 1 mln. yuan... a man is useless? is she a robot being?
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  942. This is the case of a simp that didn't understand his true value you should have known something was wrong when she asked him for money to see her divorce records everything is asking her to do she's charging him for it he should have been knew that she was in it for money and she was a gold digger gold diggers of the type of woman that wants you to pay them just for breathing no thank you and it took a man to commit suicide to actually bring this woman to Justice they've been raised is all about money money money money money money and totally disregard the good men and go after the bad boys if she would have been with a bad boy it would have been a different story the story would have been about he's scamming her out of millions and she's taking her life
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  943. If that guy wants to encourage them he should try more pay instead of a party.
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  944. Your wife understands that's the key word for long relationships because she cares about you...
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  945. Well, that man was lucky to see his "girl friend" with the other guy before he bought the necklace (about 03:30min of the clip); that saved him money and enriched his experience, he may have be given a valuable lesson at a cheap price. And he saw her with one other guy (about he must have known somehow!?) - but does he know how many "the other guy" are there?
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  946. 14:30 is the best part :) She is asking WOMEN to take responsibility. We in the western world have long given up expecting any responsibility from women or even to understand the meaning of this word if it is not used for us.
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  947. She's still going looks like 20s..
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  948. That tiger is probably 3-400 pounds running at full speed. Tigers attack elephants and creatures 2-3 times its size. You do the math.
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  949. Grass is always greener on the other side. It’s not easy for us entrepreneurs too
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  950. There has to be a part 2 to this sad story. A part 2 video of, how he met his girlfriend and why she chose to stay with him despite his failures in business. I want to know why, she didn't leave him like any other woman will do knowing his terrible situation. I hope "china unvarnished" is reading this comment and may do so.
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  951. We cant blame the kids, bud big no. Bud blaming her and letting the kids know what she did and what he went through!
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  952. <<The first guy had it right, marriage is a union of two people coming together to continue life. Without that, there's no reason to get married.>> If that's really what you want to do ---fine. Have at it. But men have no obligation to get married, and in the United States getting married and having children exposes men to huge risks of social and financial disaster. In 1969, at age 19, I decided never to get married or have children. That gave me the freedom to decide to live frugally, save and invest my money in stocks and rental real estate. That enabled me to retire at age 57 and now, at age 74, I have a net worth of several million dollars. My conclusion is that marriage is a mistake for many men, and there are better ways for us to live our lives.
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  953. The second, third women is just bullshitting and gaslighting. All those rules and almost none favorable to the guy. She is giving "How to breed cash cow 101" lessons
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  954. If we are going to compare her to a car, that was a very overly used car.
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  955. The first problem is graduating at 24yo! They should be graduating with undergraduate at 21yo... maybe a master's degree at 23-24yo. If they are 24yo with an undergraduate degree in film, dance, art history, or underwater basket weaving... they get what they deserve.
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  956. Yes, besides those two things you've mentioned above . They also demand to be at least 6feet tall, handsome, making 200k or at least triple more than what they make a year, lots of savings in banking account, putting their names on the house deed, higher education, can cook, do dishes, wash clothes, cleaning the house.
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  957. lessons of life 🧘🏻‍♂️;
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  958. “Are you still planning to bring more trouble to the male population?” That is Fcking Hilarious 🤣🤣🤣
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  959. Some guys will fall for a beautiful woman especially if she can convince him her former life is over and now she wants to settle down.
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  960. Westerner here, I know such a couple for real too (from Asia)... a gorgeous beautiful woman, an average guy... they share the same interest - biking. But no further for many ages - no kids woman is entering 42 years old now and would like to have children.... We recommended her to split ... not sure it seems like the shared love to/with the bikes is stronger.
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  961. [Woe be unto Chaina's birthrate! With government legally recognising common-law marital arrangements, they've unilaterally decided that couples are now effectively married! Pointedly thru assets and finances! Way to instill further division in conjugal living; for both bachelors and spinstuhhs! Copying Western Soy-ciety and Laws doesn't inspire re-growth of flagging population fyi. Smh🤷🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️]
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  962. If a man not looking for a new job, but sitting all day playing video games, it's understandable why their wifes are pissed. If I was in their shoes, I would've been pissed too. And I am a lazy man who loves video games lol.
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  963. SIMPING have ruined marriage market here by putting this chicks on to pedestal. Now everyone think them selves as Miss World.
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  964. Luckily he was surrounded by angels... Hope his dad doesn't behave like a moron again..
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  965. Looking forward to future videos from this channel since this new law! Wanna see how women deal with this
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  966. People can be BEAUTIFUL. Thanks for the video!
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  967.  @LeslieBurke8  When you have a family, you have to be selective what kind of game you can play. Competitive games that do not allow you to stop midway shouldn't be played. PvP elements can make you very toxic because of the adrenaline rush and desire to win. It also demands a lot of attention, making you unaware of the surroundings. It's very important to be aware of the surroundings when playing game because your wife and children can demand your attention at any moment. You must be available at all times to deal with the situation.
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  968. Does she even know what a Nuclear weapon is? Analogy makes no sense.
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  969. Let me fix it for you, a man in love and a woman in business are strangers now.
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  970. China was growing too rapidly and didn't have real recession for decades, cause government just piled debt when there was an economic problem. If they grew 5+% per year - debt was no issue. Everything worked until 2020 when they overspent big this time on anti-virus measures and it looks bad since then.
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  971. That would never happen to me. Any young pretty ladies out there want to give it a try. It wont work with me. 😊
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  972. Male lions hunt just fine. The actual difference is that lions usually hunt alone or maybe in groups of 2 when they are young while lionesses hunt in larger packs.
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  973. It's not about love. Only your parents and children will unconditionally love you. Zhou Huijia did nothing wrong seeking a provider that's female nature. Xu Wen, with a beta mentality, mismanaged the relationship.
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  974. She ain't ugly she is average at best but nothing a few beers can't fix.
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  975. Seriously....did that woman really say Why don't we loose love to our mothers when they get older? Because darling... We don't want to f*** our mothers...they gave us their best when they were young we respect them forever when they are old...
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  976. In this video there are some ladies that are forty, and single. And here I am Single looking for a lady in her 40, I am older, I will gladly get together with one of these ladies. Life is not just about working, please understand that ladies. if you work all your life. who will you leave your hard earned money to? if you have no children? Ladies must understand that men are not perfect. The best thing in life is to have partner that respects you. A university degree means nothing to me, that is something I do not look into a lady. I want sincerity respect and honesty.
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  977. It's a bit infuriating seeing their parents interviewed, dictating how their son and his wife should be acting and even feeling in their relationship, while there are clear signs that both of them have issues that need addressing that they just seem to completely ignore or disregard.
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  978. That's the thing: she didn't nothing to help earn it. That's what many women are like now: expect huge rewards but put in zero effort.
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  979. Here's my view: I don't have a problem with that. Most marriages throughout history and throughout many different cultures were about interests, and often not based on love. The problem happens when one or both parties involved in the marriage don't do what they're supposed to do. This video is a perfect example. If the woman went ahead with the marriage, there would be no problems. If she returned the full dowry amount, the problem would not be a big deal
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  980. It is an all-important question. you give a girl money, can you get it back? ..................
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  981. Just look at Ubisoft and Assassin's Creed Shadows. Half the Dev team has no experience.
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  982. Ill get notification for this channel now. Its a good one.
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  983. @loetoletswhiti7902.. that is bs. Bride price should be given back to the groom if the bride parents really care about their daughter
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  984. What an amazing love story.😊
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  985. There’s no “your money” in marriage.
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  986. Asian Women: All you guys have to pay the bride price and buy me a house and a car and a diamond ring and stop playing video games and stop hanging out with your friends. Asian Women to Foreign Men: Immediately opens their legs and act like cringe animu girls.
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  987. Well it's not ! Just stop listening and following their bs. Eventually they will have to make a choice whether to stay single with their own low income or get married with what's available to them.
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  988. I think the biggest problem here is that housework is just looked down upon or as seen as being of no value. I personally like cleanliness so having a clean place is inviting and less stressful. I can relate to this. I had a short stint after graduating college and I got laid off after working for a year. At the time I was still living with my parents and BOY did I get bitched out every day. This went on for 3 months till I landed another job. Probably one of the worst moments of my life.
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  989. [Money has it's place in a marriage! But, when it's demanded by families for dowry or bride-price, yet the couple don't get access to that money to build-up their new life?! That is madness! Bethrotals and arranged marriages among friends of family is no longer good enough today, but forgetting love-matching, those families lasted their whole lives! Love is not all that's needed for a good match either! The truth is, balance is the key!🙏🏼😊]
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  990. She had a look of distain towards the man??... so true, so true. 😂😂🤣🤣
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  991. That's a real man, in crisis it's mostly men who step up to save strangers. Hope he gets appropriately monetarily rewarded and just empty praises and awards.
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  992. At this point she should just be happy as a single person. Seems like she’s too old for marriage in China. If she lived in the USA, she’d probably be able to get married fairly easily.
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  993. Shame on these women! They have rules only for them. Their rules don't matter anymore. Don't be their ATM! 50/50 from the start. Both of you want to meet each other.
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  994. Simple, yet great video exposing the whole charade. I live in Shanghai, and the filterless shots are indeed a more accurate reflection of what you actually see on the streets here. Sure there are a few hotties around, but they are far outnumbered by plain Janes (or should I say 'Jiangs') and uggos.
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  995. The nerves, unbelievable. Absolutely shocking. She never bothered about them. She abscond for 16 long years. She totally ignored her family and even remarried. Now she thinks she can just walk in and expect them to take care of her. Such an advantage taker. She is vile,she has no moral compass. Never take her back. Does it mean she is a bigamist. She married the second man illegally. Such nasty selfish women. I will not call her a mother. She deserves zero sympathy. If she didn't have Cancer or a nasty husband. Will she even bother to look for her first family?
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  996. to simplify it, just imagine you're a late stage cancer patient and the doctor give you two treatment options, either you treat it conservatively with medicine and you can live 10years longer which referring to being a laborer or do surgery to totally remove it but there is less than 20% of success rate just like how you plan to start your business.
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  997. Perhaps but he got two good daughters who love him. It sucks and this shouldn't have happened but that is a nice silver lining.
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  998. These are kids. They have goals for themselves, too. Dont beat them down for not beatung themselves down with fret and toil, which only brings to fruition an uncertain future in this global economy where less people find higher attainment. What do you want tnem to do, print money?
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  999. If the other way round, the wife would have ran
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  1000.  @caseydulgar7058  For reals bro. High quality vegetables, beef, and fish are all bought immediately in order to use them before they spoil.
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  1001. This young man is so smart and brave—absolutely admirable!
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  1002. Good video, he won my support. Sorry her family is just the jerk about money and controlling, they destroy their daughter. She can leave her family for her freedom to make her own decisions. Her brother is totally jerky crappy guy, he thought he can get into physical fight to control groom. I hope people should learn from him, he did right things to leave her and her family for freedom from boundary in the future. I hope he marry a woman who loves him not his money.
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  1003. 1. Put the bride price in escrow. 2. If the marriage is dissolved less than one year, 95% of the bride price is returned to the groom. 3. If the marriage is dissolved between the first and second year of marriage , 75% of the bride price is returned to the groom. 4. If the marriage is dissolved between the second and third year of marriage , 50% of the bride price is returned to the groom. 5. If the marriage goes beyond 3 years, the bride gets the entire bride price. With 3 years of marriage, hopefully that is adequate time for the bride and groom to have learned that they are compatible.
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  1004. I'd like to say, and I know many won't agree, that a woman with an attractive personality can find a husband, regardless of her age. But she has to have female qualities, which means, that's she's agreeable, kind, understanding and non- judgemental. She shouldn't be materialistic and compare herself to others. The high standards are not, what men are looking for.
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  1005. [The only way that 'fairy-girl' is a good description is if it refers to diminutive stature! Nothing else adds up!☕😅]
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  1006. @DavidBerger-g2h plus you need to buy gold jewelries, a house in the city and a comfortable car
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  1007. I will tell you the situation in the US, because I live here. A lot of people that worked very good jobs had lost their jobs in the past 2 years; however, there are a lot of low paying jobs. If you are a regular person, you could take one of these jobs, like working as a ride share driver, delivery man, working at a restaurant, working at a warehouse, painting houses, working as a construction worker, etc. The problem is finding a decent place to live, because the cost of living is very expensive. It is very common thing these days for 3 people to share a studio or a one bedroom apartment. If you don't have much skills or education, your standard of living will be very low. You will be working more than 70 hours a week, and you will be living in a small room. Even though wages are lower in China, basic things are cheaper in China, like food, rent, utilities, etc. You are better off living in China in my opinion.
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  1008. Kevin Samuels, RIP, once said to w0men: "27 yrs, time to sell; 30, 50% off; 35, clearance; 40, outlet; 50, Good Will, Salvation Army." Lesson: If she pass 30, let it go! 18 yrs and up comes up everyday.
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  1009. I misread the thumbnail and mistakenly thought she wanted 50KG bag of wheat or flour or something!
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  1010. Hilarious, universally women say men don't try to understand their qualities and accomplishments. Never try to know our wants n desires.
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  1011. She raised a good point. Women think because there are more men than women in China, marrying should be easy. Wrong, because the truth is there are less rich men than there are women in China so it’s really a small market
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  1012. I’d rather marry a simple, genuine woman than one of these “persona princesses” who only pose for photos.
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  1013. Required viewing by all men, regardless of relationship status.
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  1014. Dear Lord let someone cross my path too.😥
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  1015. The woman who is 35yo, and who's mother wants to set her up with the neighbor should really take time out to meet that man. First off, she's 35yo and will only get much much harder to meet a man as she get's closer to 40yo. Second, her mother knows this person, and already preliminary approves of him, which means he's prob not a bad person. She is still decent looking, so why not take a few days off to visit? Also, if she is serious about finding a man, she may want to invest in seeing a dentist to get her teeth straighten, and veneers. It looks like her teeth may have been impacted by poor nutrition while growing up.
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  1016. Older women switch from wanting to be submissive to being dominant to a parter clearly, looking for a slave and not leader. What year do you reckon they do this? Maybe 25? Definitely 30.
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  1017. Hey hey don't say anything about his poor girls, hope they get a husband and stay at home😥😥they never had high standards they know harsh truth about life
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  1018. This woman is just traumatizing those poor girls 😢💔
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  1019. its actually a marketing mindset tho, like you'd think if you live in a really expensive estates, your neighbor must be good and rich.
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  1020. I think the guy wanted to attack the girl. But since she cowardly avoided him, he attacked the brother instead.
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  1021. My requirements for a woman are not that high: 1. I don't need Miss Universe, Miss Brazil would be pretty OK. 2. Also she has to have at least 3rd breast size 3. Tight arse. 4 Low fat percentage. 5. Cheaf-level cooking skills. 6. Massage skills. 7. Singing skills. 8. Gardening skills. 9. Also she must love video games. 10. And has no bad habits. Do my requirements really that high?
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  1022. Ladies... take note. This is a real high value man. Not a millionaire that would leave to die in a similar situation.
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  1023. Because he already buy. He need his right
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  1024. Male lions do hunt. Mind you the sex lasts about 20 seconds. Which explains why the lioness always looks grumpy.😂🤣😂
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  1025.  @squiggs1002  LOL let me clue you in. Its possible for a girl to get an order of protection against her so-called bf, often the only man who doesn't have the courage to just tell her what's wrong with her and why she isn't a catch. Men should be able to communicate all this effectively without fear of how it can sound. So couples do this often and then as soon as the man doesn't buy her something she wants or objects to how she is acting with other horny men, then boom she goes to the cops and gets him prosecuted by people who dont want to go after REAL crimes and instead prosecute the man for being in violation of the order of protection which was itself created with lies. This is both her fault and also the mans fault for getting back with her instead of spreading the word about who she actually is.
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  1026.  @ChinaUnvarnished  First, Thank you for your channel. I truly appreciate your content. Second, thank you for replying and adding to my comment. I completely agree! Objectively speaking as a "50 something" American guy, ALL of these women are young, beautiful, and VERY desirable to me as well ... no question about that! However, IMO and as many of the other comments point out, they have also "lost" their femininity by always "leading" with "how much" they have ... like they were one of my guy friends. Have you ever interviewed or posted a woman saying that she NOW wishes to have a more traditional life like HER mother? That is the "leftover" woman that I would like to meet ..
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  1027. Next time he'll learn to trust people. Lots of people have problem with trust and end up pay dearly, things like this happens everyday, and they later blame it on every other person apart from them.
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  1028. It's an eye opening video. So decision making is really important in our life. 🙂🙂🙂
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  1029.  @TheRelen222 the point is. You have a family. Why cant u just play game for 2 hours and help with your family? Your kid? Your wife? You must be immature to not be able to be more responsible even if you have gaming as a hobby. If you prioritize gaming over your work, family or even irl. You are the problem.
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  1030. She was selfish enough to leave them. She’s definitely selfish enough to use every trick in the book to get their money for treatment, whether it’s guilt trips or appealing to marriage and motherhood entitlements that may or may not still exist
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  1031. Nothing to do with wealth either. This is the purest love.
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  1032. Exactly I’m glad that elderly lady tells the truth about nursing homes
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  1033. That Man in the white hat is so insightful. He is like a modern "Ancient Chinese Philosopher" I hope we could have more interviews from that Man.
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  1034. 😂 man rock out of her 😅
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  1035. He may be a good businessman, but he allowed his heart to overrule his intellect. Ultimately, he should admit that he was played and walk away. The gifts he gave were paid for by sexual favors. If he had not given her money he would have never gotten a sexual relationship.
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  1036. this is one of the funniest videos i have seen recently the ladies claiming to be 39 loooooooool i am curious if these ladies are 'representative' of the leftover women and what % of the femaile population they represent
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  1037. The age discrimination seems crazy. I could understand if it was just an excuse for failing companies to make layoffs, but what good does it do to turn away experienced people who can still do a job during the application process?
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  1038. They are paying for the choices their ancestors made in past. they use to believe that there were too much girls ( everywhere in the world normal there are more women then men ) but they are paying for choices made in past.
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  1039. The one who is crying.is very pretty and still looksgood
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  1040. If 36 men were fooled, is she really the only problem here?
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  1041. Where did the tiger come from?
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  1042. Gents, you cannot teach a new trick to an old dog, what that means? they don't "lower" their standards, they just need to take the last train leaving the station, don't make that mistake, eventually she will show you her true colors and imagine if you got with one like the first one, that's a next level but not in a nice way.
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  1043. As a business owner, I don't see the mistakes he is repeating. The only thing He seems to lack, is a proper approach to selling thing plus a seems to have a poor network. When He mentioned He started delivering food before the App, I understood He wasn't techwise. He need two things: - learn how to sell starting a little business - be techwise as there is a lot to do with AI, Blockchain. Be patient and build one brick at a time !
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  1044. This girl is very crazy. No way she can find man like that. Keep dreaming!
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  1045. ❤ i like a challenge. I would still pick a chinese woman. 😉
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  1046. This is not love, it's strategic harvesting
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  1047. Aaaaw, such a beautiful story 🎉❤
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  1048. Watching these woman, is like watching someone trying to dictate terms, while standing on a sinking ship (Titanic)🛳️. Man is like”, are going to get on the damn rescue boat or not?” Woman ”,Well I need at least a $500K dowry, blah,blah,blah as the water starts to cover their face.”😅 Que Queen song ”,another one bites dust…”
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  1049. to be honest, the foundation of society is in creating cheap, low quality crap, which is fundamentally bad. Not to criticize these people, since this is just how current society works, but would be much better if they were part of a factory or company that is producing either high tech stuff, or high quality items. Kind of like how Japanese artisans create clothes or whatever (not necessarily that specialized though)
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  1050. In this one video I have heard two different interpretations of the same law--I see a fun time ahead!
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  1051. I would have told the manager "separate bills"! when her entourage came in.
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  1052. Is someone like Xiao Yu shaped by harsh realities, or has she never found the motivation to change her path?
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  1053. those final message were so wholesome and true. You highlighted something very basic but important which slips through everyones mind.
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  1054. Well said to the voice at the end of the video.
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  1055. This girls are harsh 😅 good video
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  1056. But she doesn't want to let go. She wants his properties, which she contributed nothing to. That is what he is fighting for.
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  1057. 10:32 Haha! This man said he jumped out the second floor window.
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  1058. Good Heavens! My eyes! I think i just sprained my eyes!
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  1059. Do not sacrifice yourself and wealth. So long as you hold the money, she will respect you.
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  1060. The more I see these videos the more I see how complicated it actually is. Many women are forced to play the comparison game with their friends or with social media. That creates the constant 1 upping of superficial wants. While asking for a base line amount is understandable, it seems many women get caught up in the game and demand absurd amounts. Men seem to be pretty extreme that if the woman isn’t child rearing, they would rather remain single. Seems that men that are unable to meet the superficial demands become defeatist really quick and immediately eject themselves out of the dating scene, either out of shame, self pity, self loathing, or anger. Chinese parents also on average seemingly do not raise children with confidence to embrace themselves and their life, but play the comparison game even more hardcore. Women who are not raised with confidence will blindly fall in love with the first person that shows them any affection and or resort to permanent alterations to their bodies to feel apart of society. Men raised without confidence grow depressed without meaning in life and or going to criminal lengths to feel apart of a group.
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  1061. [The light-hearted side is the innocent and fortunate kiddo! The darker side is a drunkard parent that lost his own childe in transit, leading one to worry about that kiddo's future!😅😅]
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  1062. Sulphuric acid is just battery acid or plumber unclogging acid . Not that hard to buy
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  1063. Gold digger fainted - best part of this video.
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  1064. love the voice
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  1065. What a lovely story. I hope my one comes to me similar to this someday.
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  1066. I wonder how many of those events are going on , the population of China is so high, they prolly have thousands of said events going on at the same time or in the same week at least.
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  1067. Life is already hard. Let us treat each other with a little bit of compassion and kindness.
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  1068. Saving, saving, saving. What a man need is lot and lot of savings, not relationship or marriage. Life is unpredictable. You need saving when you are down.
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  1069. Lets be completely honest here, no bs. People that chose to live l ke that are not sorry they chose wrong, they're sorry because their live is incredibly difficult now and they want someone to leech off of. 11:03 And here we have an example of someone who buys copium straight from the manufacturer and in bulk so she gets the cheapest prices and biggest savings.
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  1070. Beautiful story, hope I end up like these two ❤
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  1071. The "mediators" are usually members of the press or, adjudicators.
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  1072. Awesome love story! ❤❤❤
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  1073. This inconsiderate gold digger was using that man as an ATM machine to treat her family. Amazing she tried to sue him.
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  1074. Skin so smooth, so white, background glitching but they target their anger to women. LOL at least women are honest
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  1075. Wow I think of western women being pretty ruthless but Chinese women seem to take it to another level. Being old and alone seems to be a good outcome for guys like me.
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  1076. Right? A uterus is completely useless without any seed. They still both contribute equal value. Now should the wife be pampered while she is pregnant? Reasonable argument. But these women want pampering without her having to do any work.
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  1077. it is a very uber-rare one-in-million moment when a woman can think beyond her biology, ego, and societal mindset and see what best for her. instead of always seeking a golden man at least at her level or above her grade. she chooses a man who can be her life companion if she already has the means to live a comfy life.
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  1078. I was chasing a girl and rejected. She chose handsome chef. Of course, she made a correct decision since I was poor and ugly. Actually I am still poor and ugly. No matter if you have the greatest love, You are the who truly love her the most in this entire world, She will not choose you because of your love. She will choose the one she loves the most. My advice, don't bother yourself by chasing a girl like I did. If she rejects you or shows uninterest, Stop hoping her. Move on, Find another girl.
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  1079. finally a good video, good ending❤
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  1080. Modern Chinese women are addicted to just handsome guys. Take bride price from the beta simp but probably has feelings for some other dude. Raw deal.
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  1081. Only a few people in this world will find true love.I belive that to find it,you ha e to love beyond the physical and financial status of a person. Many people focus to .much on what someone represents to society rather that who they truly are. This is one reason we see so .a y divorces don't I don't think nationality and financial status matters as long as he's a smart man. You could help him achieve whatever he wants to do.when you truly love someone,you support one a other instead of competing against each other. This allows you to grow together,rather than apart you sharing each other's strengths without negative judgments, I think she made the right choice, I would have done the same. _no doubt about it, In my eyes, she is Courageous woman. She did not allow allow anyone to influence her decision you don't need the approval of others. is your life and your responsibility 😊
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  1082. is your channel only talking about marrige,divorce, and relationships? why you dont talk about something else like tech,tourisim,etc
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  1083.  @ChinaUnvarnished  you are welcome i didnt mean anything bad about this i was only asking
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  1084. I was going to mention this being 7 million US. I've seen the kinds of ladies that men with real money hang out with. She isn't the kind they marry, and she is not the kind they buy.
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  1085. You got to do a contract before marrying her! In case it falls out & the damage is limited! We live in a money world 😊
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  1086. This is horrible! In America, if the engagement is off, the woman must return the wedding ring, or reimburse him for the money he spent on the ring!! China must implement laws to protect people from fraudulent activities! People are evil!
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  1087. All those girls look so tall and I'm a 5"4 guy It's over for me they all have Height requirement.
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  1088. Kudos to them, but I wouldn't exactly call her "rich and beautiful". She's mid in every aspect at best. Also, the way you're using "female master's degree holder" as if it's to show Chinese women that master's degree holders marry down, is stupid. You're making it sound like that's her only attribute.
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  1089.  @ChinaUnvarnished  Yes, thank you. I found it was in Heilongjiang. I worked 6 years in China and have been to Harbin and Qiqihar many times. I did not know about wild tigers.
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  1090. 16:30 I absolutely 💯 agree with you...playgirl and scammers.
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  1091. These women are really saying why are you not making more money for me!? These same women would not hesitate to spend exhorbant amounts of money to travel and shop. As a side note, smashing other people's stuff is a divorcable event. Many PCs cost thousands of dollars. Our phones are now our personal databases with our software and data for work and banking. These women best watch their temper.
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  1092. WOW!! This is really a weird story. 3 dates and no physical contact? Definitely a non-compatible death signal. Meeting a girl for dinner, afterwards I helped with her coat and she took my right arm. We walked to her car, I opened the door - she put her arms around me and kissed me. That's a positive sign things may work out.
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  1093. She was sold to her ex husband.her relation was not based on love so she broke it and ran away with some man whom she found interesting.but becoz of this,her daughters' lives got ruined.
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  1094. I’m touched… Who would’ve thought a fishing rod could save a life?
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  1095. Probably part of Chinese tradition, NEVER EVER lower standard. Like a Chinese supermarket, have you EVER seen they have sale items??? NEVER EVER. They will keep same price until it expired. No doubt that these women will grow old alone.
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  1096. Imagine to interact with your parents in law after they pulled this sh*t. I would be disgusted and loose all respect for them.
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  1097. Sigh life is more and more difficult
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  1098. There is an African Youtuber who lives in China who gets into regular conversations with female TikTok users, who always uses filters, which everyone is fully aware of. As long as people are understood what is going on, they will learn to come to terms with it, because it is not going away. We might not like it, but this is what technology is going to do, it is going to come up with things like this.
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  1099. Thanks!
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  1100. This was wonderful, the pity is that alot of people that love to help don't try for being afraid of being accused of causing the injury.😢❤️🇵🇷🇺🇲
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  1101. Calling this “female empowerment” is laughable—it’s just a gold-digging game.
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  1102. you young smart ladies need to marry into America, we don't age discriminate, you can work forever.
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  1103. Well a bit funny but this once happened to me. When I report something wrong in the workshop, my supervisor calls it I am complaining about a mistake. So next time I stopped complaining and marked it on spread sheet instead. Then next day boss find me ask me why not reporting to supervisor 😅 fired soon after. I and the supervisor mock each other back and forth couple times, finally boss had enough I guess. Tbh things just better the moment u stop caring when u get bad treatment
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  1104. Pray for a lifetime lasting love and happiness for this lovely couple❤❤❤
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  1105. 33,333 yuan per day of relation.
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  1106. Very useful and informative video.
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  1107. I guess now we see why they are called leftovers. The demands so high and ridiculous. And people wonder why men date younger. It’s mostly the older women that have high demands and they mostly get them after being played by Chads and Tyrones in their 20s. Or in this case the Chiangs which are the Chinese Chads. Or likely their careers as well. Although I wouldn’t be surprised if the Chiangs played a role in this.
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  1108. I truly hope this law gets adopted in Europe as well.
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  1109. 3:50 Stupid rules. Just be honest and keep open communications. There is no need for stupid games, nuance and guessing. When you play hard to get, you may quickly become hard to be wanted.
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  1110. that couple's contract makes no sense, but they are young.
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  1111. Leave sorry out, I don't feel any sympathy for him either. He betrayed his 1st wife and his child. He's deserves the bad luck that is visiting him. Karma will have its revenge.
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  1112. I been a gamer since before age 10 an affluent neighbor had an Atari 2600 and my favorite game was Pole Position a racing games, Games has helped broaden my world & make me a better person, In high school my exposure to darkness, bad company & gangs etc was limtied or balanced by video games, cause many of my friends were nerds or rich smart kids with whom i borrowed & traded games, Germans/Chinese, so it made me sympathetic when thought about becoming a bully, something I did once and never did again, in my 20's my girl bought me a PS2 and it was never an issue for the 4 years we were together, & she never got upset even once, I played with my friends at home , all day when she's at work , long in between making music, & go studios & network in the night, Infact she was more jealous of music & feared the trajectory of fame & groupies/easy women etc. I would only play at her house when she is sleeping, like after sex or gone to church, but she never played with me, I never knew girls like games, until I started seeing cosplay & gamer girls and fantasized what it would be like having a gamer girl, whereby in my 20's I wanted gangster girls & a 30's christian girls, in my 40's i bought a PS4 & still mulled the idea of a gamer girl thought i found the jackpot when i saw a girl in the bus engrossed in a game on her phone. so I approached, she wasn;r a skilled gamer in terms of using a controller, so I bought games she would like that we could play together ;like quiz games n based on US TV game shows wheel of fortune jeopardy, cross word, scrabble, monopoly & only played the car games I love when she's not around, she had no issues nor complaints caus ei spend time with her enrolled in online courses that she helped pay so i could earn more money to give us a better life. Only once in Gran Turismo I was taking part in a scheduled world series so I couldn't quit to accommodate her & she understood that weekly at such time I;d have go home to race. Infact she got to love games so much when i broke up with her in anger & smash the game wheel of fortune she liked she started crying, which i downloaded once we got back together. Games to me are a have many purposes not to escape reality but supplement it, entertainment & lessons I play car games cause i love cars In real life sometimes I put on music & go on a long country drive for no reason other than I just love driving If i was rich & could collect all the cars I love it would be almost impossible & time consuming to drive them all so I love driving simulators, I don't play shooters or war games as I did in my 20's cause I'm no longer obsessed with guns or killing, infact un les it has a story I can learn from & contrast to life & apply real lessons I don't do so at all so much or at all, no senseless violence's, sometimes I play games just to marvel at the creative Masterpiece that the developers made video games to me are like interactive movies , so its not immature cause many of the themes and situation cannot be processed fully by a child and are made by ppl facing issues and have stress who make games as an outlet to vent their pain therapuetically , I can see the vision of the creators & learn from then, some have hidden or over agenda toi currupt and mold youth into certain wa y of life which is why companies funded as a front by Secret corporations like Sweet Baby are forcing game companies to put pro LGBT values into thier games or face backlash & financial sanctions Likwe the Gay black japanese Samauri in Assasins Creed or killing of the Male heroes, Nathan Drake in Uncharted and replacing them with female& sometimes Lesbians in the Last of Us. Gaming was the last untouched or untainted sphere of influence for the youth & they finally got it, of i have kids I'd supervise & curate what games they play cause unlike my days it not just all fun
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  1113. I would like to ask the narrator. How is she the victim herself? She is never and will never, ever be the victim. She is the woman who use emotion and sex to seduce a rich man and conn his money and dump him after she got what she wanted from him. Please don't use the term victim in this case. The rich man is just trying to get his money back after he regain his conscience. You are sugar coating for this lady and it's not right. She deserve a whole lot worse since he once own a lot of ktv bar. But this is just a story you guys write and it's not well written. Hope a better written story in the coming attraction.🧛‍♀
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  1114. why did the groom transfer the bride price to the bride's account ?? it means he wants to marry her for free, because he will just use the money in household expenses later on while they are in the marital home... i see why the brother and sister wanted him to pay before leaving with the bride...they saw through his trick
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  1115. This is just millions case around the world....life is too short....why hanging without love..... don't lie to each other...if you're partner doesn't respect you GOOOOOO......find another that know your value....
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  1116. Ladies, there are far more single men than women in China. Yet, you are still having trouble attracting men. You are clearly doing something wrong. To start with, do not ask for a "bride price." Secondly, you need to communicate to men what you have to offer them. This would be a good place to start.
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  1117. Pair this with the fact that the vast majority of women are only looking for RICH men, and you have a global problem. They'd rather stay single and have no family, than to pair with a good but not rich man and build together in modesty.
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  1118. This is a legit game changer. IF this catches on like wildfire in China, it could be a win win scenario for guys.
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  1119. 😅 to the woman that is worried about people calling her racist, why are you worried about it if you're mentioning it? To the woman who is 49 you're exactly my age. And you're going through the same things I was thinking. However you haven't gotten married because you don't know your place. Support and provide is your role and when you don't do it. You cannot expect your life to change. Women are protectors the women are not aggressors. Denying your god-given role as a woman hurts nobody but yourself in the end. You can live for yourself continue to seek acceptable life. But if you continue on this path. You have nobody to have your back and you will have to suffer your own difference. But you still have a chance. Don't give up on relationships just because you're looking for some ideal person to fix all what you missed. Instead enjoy someone's companionship enjoy the companionship that you were meant to have you don't need to be married to be in a relationship. But you do understand that if you do not learn your support and protection role. That you will never fully understand what you missed in life.
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  1120. excellent video to listen to gain perspective on the issues of marriage market. I am from Australia and have benefited a lot of insight into the issues by watching your videos. . Thank you for making these videos. How do I make some monetary contributions to your channel ???? Can you contact me ??
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  1121. do you guys really think the government has that much money to give? multiply 1500 by 4 million and you will get it.
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  1122. So when you poor your whife deforce and keep an eye on you the time she find out you doing well she want some of the money what a sick sociatie
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  1123. My Whatsapp is filled with cold call messages from women (usually Asian) with huge eyes, pale faces, and provocative poses. Same with Facebook friend requests. My general rule is to ignore any profiles with thirst trap profile pics. Heck, my general rule is to ignore any profiles belonging to strangers. You avoid losing money to 100% of the profiles you ignore.
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  1124. What a beautiful story
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  1125. These women need to stop having a bride price in marriage.
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  1126. Not the least bit surprised!!!
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  1127. No individuals ever should require any financial forms of all cost and at all time as it absolute will create permanent negative attitude and behavioral problems. Money is just only a tool for living needs and legitimate improvements, and actually was NEVER structured to fill for greedy wants and to waste. The only way achieve permanent long-term success without any fear is by attitude and behavior, each individual’s decisions, and cooperation with each respectful surroundings.
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  1128. I’ll take her, she’s probably one of the most kindest people on earth 🌍
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  1129. First lady looks ok even the 2nd one look ok
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  1130. Have a happy new year China Unvarnished
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  1131. 😂😂😂😂😂 toxic femininity He already gave her 250, that's plenty, he shouldn't even give her that
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  1132. [If there's demand for bride-price from the start, there's little question of the bride and family only being in it for money! It's much the same as a Western wombman refusing to sign a prenuptial agreement before marriage! It's all about the money for hohhs and gole-digguhs! Wise man to keep a long memory; never reward betrayal!🙏🏼😉]
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  1133. Something that was brought up below. If I were to marry in China and require to pay say 600,000 rmb for a bride price, should I be allowed to set out the bride to earn that money back. I have bought her for that amount, and that is what she costs... should I not be able to use her to recoup that loss. I'm not in China so this is a hypothetical question.
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  1134. 0:31 What about actively searching for a partner instead of waiting for him to find you? 1:48 Basically she might deserve the roast but "grandmother's age" in her 30s and 40s? This is hilarious. 3:19 Marriage is about compromise and you do have more free choices at a single life, but marriage might bring other qualities like security. 4:18 Both too extremely spoken: most people aren't grandmothers in their 30s. Men are looking for 18 year olds as wifes? I hear a lot of (as it seems reasonable) complaint about womens childish behaviour and then men are looking for nearly children? That is the peak delusion of modern men. To me her mindset and demeanor are way bigger turn-offs than her age. 7:29 Speaking of delusion: age gracefully. I don't see any age based issue on her face. What about losing some weight instead? That will improve your health the long run. 10:19 What has living your best life to do with grey hair? 12:14 I don't see an issue with expecting a better life in marriage. The issue I see is, that these expectations often seem to be bonded mainly or even solely on financial stability. A better life can also mean having someone to reflect your day with, who triggers you to personal growth every day, who listens to you and provides advice or understanding (depending on the situation), or whatever truely matters to you. 14:06 To me it seems that men and women are so captivated in their gender-war, that both lack the ambition to meet the other half way and find constructive solutions. It might also be hard for the parents: you won't let your child down, but should not pamper it too much. Especially nowadays this must feel like walking on eggshells. 15:00 Comparing wifes to nuclear weapons especially like this is wild. 16:13 So she can easily get a man, but fails at keeping him. Seems like the men she attracts are superficial and she is shady. 16:46 No one blames women for being realistic, mam. 19:33 Authenticity is crucial in finding a suitable partner. Also am I the only one who even prefers the looks of women around 40 over those of women in their 20s?
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  1135. Watching these Gold diggers in china, We shall atleast appreciate our silver diggers.:face-blue-smiling::face-blue-smiling:
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  1136. The Switch is an amazing console
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  1137. You should know an old Chinese proverb, is call poor marry couple will have whining of thousand night.
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  1138. My heart warms watching this🙂 I love this
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  1139. I hope after seeing this video some Hopeless Simps can wake up from their dreams and invest in themselves :fish-orange-wide-eyes:
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  1140. Merci
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  1141.  @BaDik_Jacob  am not demanding i was only asking and suggesting coz the channel description says it brings the audience news and insights about China, but when I checked the video list, I saw that it's only about relationships. If it's solely focused on relationships, it might be better to mention that in the channel description
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  1142.  @hahayessir400  Didn't you even watch the video? The woman threw the child over to the husband, he was holding the baby while playing game with the other. Playing video games with your child is also bonding. I still remember playing video games when I was a kid. Sometimes the husband needs an escape from reality. Some go camping or hanging out with the guys and this guy chose the least expensive way which was to play video games. Maybe the wife should learn to play the game with the husband.
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  1143. This woman is expired 😅😂
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  1144. Actually, I am with women on this one. If a person is playing video games until 1 AM, that is definitely too much...
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  1145. I don't think it's a government job. They're people from private "agencies" that work on commission
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  1146. They are usually members of the press or, judiciary arbitrators that are called upon by both parties to intervene and help bring about a settlement before the situation gets so bad, it ends up in court.
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  1147.  @LordMellington1668  Love it :face-green-smiling: Chinese woman are really manipulative.
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  1148. if you have to dream to own it, brother, you are setting yourself up for failure. live frugally, you will be happier.
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  1149. Too good to be true 😅 nice story.....36
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  1150. What if some people decided to take advantage of this? i.e. Married one day, then divorce, and repeating this cycle?
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  1151. Am assuming it's because Men still have influence in China and the Men want taller children - hence females use their height for marketing.
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  1152. Time to spread our Chinese seed around the world. 😂
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  1153. I love how unified and compassionate the mainland Chinese are towards each other this type of humanity is somewhat missing in Hong Kong
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  1154. 2:01-2:47 Girls who give birth to children without a father or do not want the children to carry the father name and family name must register and add her name and then her family name.. for example, on ID: the Child Name then the Mother Name then the father mother name and then her family name... the difference is that the mother becomes like the father. Some girls do not register their name when they give birth to children without a father or do not want the children to carry the father name and family name.. for example she register her children like this on ID: the Child Name then Her Father Name.. without adding her name 🤦
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  1155. Good video.
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  1156. I find these videos amazing. It's like a shopping list for "love "😂😂
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  1157. To be fair, the woman that asked "are you looking for a girl friend or youre looking for someone who takes care of his parents" has a point. Highly doubt even the ancient women back then would like this. Also, you cant request a woman to stay at home and be a housewife with that income, i believe he mentioned that, if not, i am sorry. But when youre rich, yes. So based on that, it wasnt really fair to them. Otherwise, the rest are just not attractive to gold diggers.
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  1158. Nice lecture at the end, Simp
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  1159. So this is the downside to arranged marriages; not bad, not bad at all.
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  1160. [As I understand it, in the West, real-estate is riddled with similar scams as well! Bc of gray-area weaving around the existing laws and documentation, most real-estate agents get away scott-free with theft! One simple example would be false advertising in a property's dimensions in cubic feet! A smarter potential-buyer carried with him a measuring-tape to verify, and on an aside recording, managed to get the agent to admit that's how the game is played within the industry! Smh🎃👀]
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  1161. I actually married a Waitress!!
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  1162. The show is evidence of how hard it is for any man to find a woman of substance whose primary pursuit is not monetary/material gain. One contestant boasted of earning substantial commission on 2 property sales per month. The women in the show know only what they want and not what the needs of most men are.
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  1163. well to be 100% honest here, a lot of men do not want to marry or have kids' now !!! so that does limit women that are young enough to have kids safely to which man that would even be willing to get them pregnant or even marry them now !!! so good luck on that ladies, you are going to need it !!! :)
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  1164. I mean, he’s making up for it
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  1165. I play video games all my life since 6 years old. I witness my father abusive nature upon my mom. He beats her up. My wife does not like me playing game but acknowledge that I play games. She sometime does distract me but I do not do anything but look awkward upon the screen. Sometime, she feed me fruits, bring water, kiss me, touch me on special places while I play game. I know when to stop. I DO NOT HIT MY WIFE BECAUSE OF VIDEO GAMES. That is material and not rank above my wife. Do your chores and duties as a man and not a child. Clearly all these men have not grown up yet. When wife/gf is at home, do things with them. That's like grinding in a video game. It's to build up relationship. When they are not at home, one can play countless hours but be wary of duties/chores at home. I am 50 years old and does play games but have at least 30 minutes to 1 hour gameplay.
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  1166. Very, Very TRUE.As a woman, I heartily agree. Thank You for sharing.
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  1167. LOL
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  1168. 2:18 So his parents adopted a sister for their adult son, or what is this relationship? 3:52 Due to the lack of any feelings less than that. 4:14 Sure an arranged marriage. Your relationship choice should not be your parents decision. 7:40 The order is not that you get married and try to develop feelings for each other afterwards. I don't buy a car, because in the future I might or might not need one. See how stupid this is? 10:33 Right. Age should not be a factor for marriage. Some marry at 18, others at 70 or anything in between or even not at all. Don't rush into draining marriages you will leave later on anyways and waste each others time, energy and probably mental health. Marriage should be a decision, not a necessity. 12:54 I guess for many it is and it is backed up by psychological research, but the amount might vary. Maybe it is because of my own health shortcomings, but I'm 32 now and never missed a sexual relationship. I much rather miss some deep talks and genuine affection on other levels. 13:42 I would disagree on the connection between love and sexual relations. There are many ways of love without any sexuality involved: your parents, siblings, friends, pet, children, ...
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  1169. this channel should have more subscribers, these stories are the truth about chinese marriage culture and men have suffer the most!!!! good job!! please help spread these stories so that most men become aware of these toxic marriages!!!
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  1170. I'm 1.85, white, an 8 out of 10, a millionaire, retired, and I turn 59 tomorrow. What do you think the first woman would say to me? Oops, I forgot...I want you to be "age appropriate" too... Too bad you can't name ALL your requirements...maybe you'd see they ARE too demanding. EDIT: Punctuation.
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  1171. I'd like to say to this type of bestie, "with friend like you who need enemy" or should I called it frienemy.
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  1172. [I can see this being an absolute godsend for people who are newbies that have surely misjudged their own stamina levels! Homie of mine hikes regularly but my query of his energy-bars took him aback; I assumed with all that experience he would have some basics in for emergencies! Also, on a steep hill, slope or mountain, a hot toddy is always a treat! Even black coffee can make a grand difference! That's damn'd smart!😎👍🏼]
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  1173. She was talking to the Chinese Men to look for a suitable Chinese Woman first, before the men went for a foreign woman.
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  1174. For any normal heterosexual guy , one month without doing it with a wife is already consider abnormal and if I love ❤️ my wife dearly , I do everyday if she request b cos I love her ❤
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  1175. Superb story ❤❤❤❤
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  1176. Bro it’s cause they all got that fairytale brain.. they all want it
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  1177. It's because as you get older you have less and less time to actually meet up with anybody so before when you could build a relationship from hanging out with somebody like three or four times a week now you only have like one day a week to hang out because the other day you have off you have to handle all your responsibilities so you become someone who can hang out like a hundred days out of the year to 50 days out of the Year till like 12 days out of the year now if you only have like once a month to hang out with somebody how are they ever going to become your friend you're going to have to go make friends at work
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  1178. Just imagine what could’ve happened without him…
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  1179. This tradition exists everywhere. We only stopped demanding dowry here in the west after the sexual revolution of the 60’s, and that was solely because the vast majority of the women were no longer virgins when they married. This bride price tradition largely doesn’t happen anymore in China. Only in more rural areas, and even so, i gotta be honest that most of these stories sound kind of absurd because the values demanded are off the charts. 100k yuan is on the low end of the bride prices in most of the stories from this channel, and that is around 3 years of wages for the average chinese worker. The family in this story was not innocent at all, including the brother. The whole family coordinated together to scam the guys money.
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  1180. A man's intrinsic soul is to push against rules and roadblocks. That's how we advance as a society. An aggression that is directed. When a woman puts rules against the relationship he will pick inner peace apart from the rule giver. Set all that aside, ladies. And spend time only discovering the activities, choices of the men. See how he treats you and others and divide in yourself if this a person you want to grow with. Not control by rules and regulations. Build a life together. Face hardship. Have growth, together. I promise, you will be much more happy and successful.
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  1181. Being an independent single man is a thousand times better than being a pathetic Simp.
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  1182. Thank You! Good People still exist. 🙏🙏
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  1183. Government thought wisefully 👍👍👍
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  1184. Everyone should stop watching this type of video. This a another way of earning money just creating story mixing with fake and real story. Total waste of time.
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  1185. If she has nothing to hide, why not answer his standards that concerns about health matters? She is getting a sweet deal along with a free medical check-up. Who knows she might discover an unknown illness, no?
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  1186. This video is brutally honest. Many women (young or old) are over-valuing themselves and pricing themselves out of the market. They are simply delusional. There is nothing we can do about it.
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  1187. He is handsome and charming but he chose to play a loser character, not an average guy. Almost all attractive women would reject such a man for a long term relationship and I don't blame them. There is no need to be rude though.
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  1188. I feel like these women have watched too much Kdrama 😂. Delusional much? I remember seeing a Kdrama where the handsome young man rented out a theme park to have date with an average girl from a poor background. AND 2 handsome rich guys were fighting for her love 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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  1189. I agree. The meltdowns will be epic 🤣🤣
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  1190. Married in China is not bout love it's about transaction.divorce is high becuz absence of oath of in richer or poor in sickness and health til death do us part
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  1191. good for them.
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  1192. The main thing that is required is a planned economy that provides housing and guaranteed high-productivity, rewarding interesting work in your own region. China has all the technology and infrastructure to lift society to a new unselfish harmious social life. 95% of people should be married and the divorce rate should be very very low. The DPRK which has less technical capability due to vicious economic war by US imperialism and also having smaller population has given this stability to all people in the DPRK. They don't have the flashy cities that China does but everyone has a good standard of living and it is constantly rising. The people are happy. 96% of adults over 30 are married. The divorce rate is 1%. The children have great education in maths, science, music and arts and you can see how happy they are. China has the ability to provide this moral and emotional stability to its people with an even higher standard of living. To do this will require a new revolution in China.
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  1193. Of course the real estate company is aware of her actions and her whereabouts. She must have been transferred to another branch of the company in another city. The men involved can find her if they do a search of all branches of the company or, check other real estate companies within the same city. I believe she is still working within the industry because she can't be this good at scamming men to sell real estate if she hasn't been doing it for a long time. When they eventually find her, let anyone of them (or all of them) treat her to a horrible lesson she will never forget.
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  1194. The guy should make a police complain & also tell them he would print it out on news paper along with pic's of the lady stating about her not returning the money & for fraud
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  1195. ​ @thomasauslander3757 I also want to marry a live streamer 😂
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  1196. Thanks! How can I watch your videos in original Mandarin language rather than in English ?
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  1197. Need an update for this man.
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  1198. Thank you for your excellent work.
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  1199. I like the history lesson provided towards the end of the video.
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  1200. @emperorfaiz  The point is Chinese & Russian women are primarily motivated by financial security. Russian women aren't as delusional as the Chinese, but they're looking for a sponsor with means as well.
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  1201. Thanks!
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  1202. I am glad to see that the first two leftovers are already friends 😂😂😂 Seriously, they need each other coz nobody wants them
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  1203. If you look in the Chinese government websites they tell you the retirement ages for white collar workers, blue collar workers male or female. These are normal practices in the western countries. Though in the people's republic of China you cannot work without the correct identification cards. In the US it's been found that the undocumented workers are being taken advantage of, as they have no rights and cannot report any abuse by the employers😊😅😮😢
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  1204. Everyone should have the right to divorce just don't take a person stuff you're not entitled to it
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  1205. I was an 18-year-old Black American virgin when I married my 27-year-old Indo-Fijian American husband. It's rare, but it can happen. You just have to look for conservative-raised girls. I went for a checkup to have proof on file, and we took photos of the stained sheets after the wedding night. I'm glad to see people going back to their traditional roots🥰 I received a bride price in the 5 digits and my family paid the dowry of our marital home. I remain submissive unto my husband and treat him as my Master💝 Now we're 21 and 30 and have an amazing 2 year old son together
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  1206. You're wrong. It's not 90% (that's cute). It's 99%.
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  1207. "Women don't run the race, they simply wait at the finish line to celebrate with the winners." Once I learned this, everything came into focus. As human nature was revealed, and I had to rethink all of my previous opinions that had been based on spoon fed propaganda since birth.
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  1208. Cant see her beauty but her mindset can really knock many unconcious
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  1209. It's because it robs you of true happiness. My mother ran by ideals that caused her to completely miss actually ideal partners. She was more focused on superficial looks over characteristics. I have standards, but they aren't superficial. My man didn't have to be super handsome, tall, or rich. I met a lot of women who were married to wealthy men and they said they didn't find a successful man, they found a man with good character and became successful together, so the idea that you can find a wealthy successful man later in life is a low probability. For my standards he did need to be honest even if it made him look bad and loyal to me, and love me for my personality rather than my looks. I found my partner actually incredibly fast everyone was shocked. And many years later I am incredibly happy with him and our children. He is still honest and loyal to me. He has the capacity to truly love me. I wouldn't trade him for any other man even for one who was ridiculously wealthy and the handsomest man in the world. Looks will fade, but you can't buy happiness and loyalty, and true love. True love isn't lucking out being the one in a million girl who ends up with an extremely handsome wealthy man. It's finding a man you can vibe together, and who you love for the good person he is and who loves you for who you are on the inside, and would still love you even if you lost your good looks, which I was in an accident that ruined my face, but thankfully I was able to fully heal my face. Regardless during that time of looking hideous my husband still loved me...
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  1210. Does the woman in white from 1:45 speak English? Wow.
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  1211. 9:59 - 12:26 I completely understand the man's logic. Makes perfect sense to me. Good job.
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  1212. that psychiatric nurse dont have manner , no matter how old she is, she cant do that to him , make someone come to her to meet than treat him like that , thats crazy ,she looks like a scammer.
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  1213. there is no such thing as unfairness. it's very obvious that with age people production aka coeficcient of useful action drops, despite experience, despite diplomas, it's just a fact. And unless you're are a professional with a very rare and unique skill, you will be replaced by some who who is younger and who naturally can produce more, meanwhile being paid less. i'll reply with a very common story in USA, which very well explains how companies think.
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  1214. Overall men's requirements: WAY BELOW 29 years old, feminine, preferably VIRGIN or less than 2 partners, wife and future mother material, mentally and physically fit, good relationship with her father, NO DEBTS, religious but NOT FANATIC, NO CHILDREN, NO male friends. "Is that too much to ask?" Let's hear misandries now...
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  1215. its unfortunate we live in a materialistic world.... true love is very hard to find🤔
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  1216. What is a dowry, what is a brideprice? Are they both not the same thing? I need this channel to explain both to me.
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  1217. Great video!
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  1218. Thanks!
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  1219. I feel like all wedding cars should park backwards, so when they try to block them, you can back out and gtfo
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  1220. True Money is needed, however ppl have potential and a good woman will support and help a man to reach that potential faster so they can reap the benefits together. Furthermore seeing how she will still live and survive singles without his money, it is not really essential to the relationship of 2 ppl love each other other, and probably postpone a family until they can maintain 2. Tho some women may be pressed for time, women are like fine wine, they age gracefully and look beautiful to me right up until the feeble, almost comatose age 90 to centurian stage.. infact older women 40-60;look more beautiful than young women 20-40 to me,.. but I'm just weird or uniquely designed that way by God for the woman he hand picked and Designed for me
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  1221. Seems to me that women have more to offer than their male counterparts so rather than the males marrying up & being grateful they expect her to marry down & potentially be hurt. I hope the good men find these catches
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  1222. Bit cheese ain't shit but holes and yeast 🧀
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  1223. Goes with flow mindset... If u happy someone love u is a 2 way street. money can't buy..... Of course financial and lead a reasonable life for 2. Baby if u can effort.. Life do not stress self . U live once only...
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  1224. Dowry scammed and it pays a costly price. Put that woman to jail because it wasn’t for her it’s not gonna happened like that.
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  1225. 3:34 i love how that host's face is literally telling them to shut up
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  1226. Thank GOD theres no bride price in American because they're would be more people NOT married. Bride price is weird and ahould be abolish — The yuan could go to each of their families and whatever their needs.. i think some Chinese woman are very beautiful and despite their age but.. paying the money isnt right at all.
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  1227. normal women to marry into avg rich family will not have an easy life. Richer ones esp 2nd gen, the parents will usually be more strict as to earn such money is not easy so they should know the tricks. The women without background will be like an object or child bearing slave in their eyes. I think people who do not like the burden of family , kids those, are perfectly alright to be by themselves. single or without kids, it is silly society stick to old thinking of people must marry and have kids or be laughed at. afterall a person's life is just themselves, other people who behave good to you is only because you have money to give them or they can earn from you.
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  1228. Thanks! Keep up the good work. Please explain, the difference between US, Chinese money…it could better explain the gap.
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  1229. Stop the tradition. It's ridiculous.
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  1230. There is saying. When love strikes, logic is out of the window. Dont laugh. Cuz it might be your turn
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  1231. God bless these good young men.
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  1232. hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha =)))))))))))))) omg i did not laughed that hard in a very long time
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  1233. And this is why most women will not have a successful man. You want a successful man, you need to meet them before they are successful and help them become successful. Sadly men who are successful with $ before love will always have a hard time finding a truly worthy woman unless you conceal your wealth.
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  1234. ​ @map3384  Love was and is never the foundation. It's the desired side affect. Compatibility is the foundation.
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  1235. Look at those narcissistic eyes the most selfish eyes ever.
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  1236. old man survived by luck, he really has zero survival instincts
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  1237. Well, now at the age of 72 I feel the bite of loneliness, but I will rather die alone than hook up with a woman who all her life (until 40) has wasted her youth and has wasted her life following futile targets. I feel young enough for a new family, not to be the daddy of an old wife; the delusions she had in her youth will never leave her, the brain is wired to confirm its past and the wirings which evolved over 30 years unless falling into the pitfall of self-destruction - a form of self-destruction like "feeling like super-woman and falling into utter despair". The brain wirings are collapsing; I wish her well and to find a new identity for her next lonely years, maybe 50 or more.
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  1238. Exactly! She’s a liar.
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  1239. As appalling as it is, there are many men who are dumber than a monkey. My own brother is one of them. These tricks will work on him over and over.
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  1240. Thanks!
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  1241. i'm not surprise at all. this is exactly similar to most modern women not knowing their looks or value are actually below average but delusionally thinking that they're all above 6 or 10 and look down on average men who pursue them in their early 20s. if you view these broken asian modern women in a cultural perspective then they despicably want to take advantage of traditional benefit of traditional woman to demand more from men and take it as granted and they themselves aren't traditional at all. i'm not saying every women should be noble and accept every men who pursue them but modern women who live in delusion just don't know where they actually stand and do not know what they can/should offer to deserve what they demand from their partner.
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  1242. I gotta admit guys! As a black American man… this only makes me love black women that much more…
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  1243. This has more to do with being white then being a foreigner. Other races of men couldn’t do this and not have the police called on them
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  1244. Guess that with a population of 1.4b, every weird thing imaginable can happen in China 😅. But I really don't understand the role of a "mediator" here. It's somehow similar to a social service worker in some Western countries but also is quite different. I've seen some vids in which the mediators act as if they're civil police, juror and state official all at the same time. Maybe it's the way Chinese society is organized, but in some cases the mediators seem to have too much power it's really both strange and annoying. The way they accuse and interrogate the husband is very aggressive and biased.
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  1245. This kind of women is crazy my blood is boiling. No wonder, if they got trouble for their life, I won’t be surprise.
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  1246. Cheap prices move wealth away from these young people in China and make it a waste of time for them to work. It works for the factory owner and those further down the supply chain. But it is cancer for Chinese society.
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  1247. A fool and his gold are easily parted.... These Chinese men never seem to learn.
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  1248. [Stretching coins and holding out until payday is not foreign issues alone! Homeless in America is becoming a norm for citizens while undocc'ed immigrants flood the country! They get bonuses, debit and housing, while the natural population has to foot the bills! Stuck in a low-pay rut!😒💸]
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  1249. This goes to show that it doesn't matter how good looking you are, if you're poor, women don't want you. But if you're rich, women will chase you even if you look like Jabba the Hutt.
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  1250. That only $200 US
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  1251. Marriage in China is the most one sided business arrangement on the entire planet. Name anywhere else that one person in a agreement gets everything and the other person get nothing and they are supposed to be happy about it too.
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  1252. Bride price is that for real.
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  1253. And we thought men in the West had it bad. 😂
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  1254. Reality is a harsh teacher.
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  1255. 7 ft tall millionaire mansion Yadda Yadda Yadda. That's real crazy talk..
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  1256. That’s what he gets for playing with a young woman. She is as young as his daughter. How can there be true love 😂😂😂😂 no sympathy
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  1257. Who cares about Valentine. It is forced romantism dictated by a date. The main profiteers are the commercial organisations. Unnecessary falling out between couples if a man forgets.
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  1258. Sorry for you, but your bf isn't wrong, it's your own fault. Funny that the man was so patient waiting agreement from a materialistic person like you for eight years. You are a greedy person.
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  1259. Guys..anyone want leftovers?😂😂😂
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  1260. Love & Lust should never supersede contracts. He had no contracts or guarantees. Legally, he doesn’t have any recourse… and apparently common sense.
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  1261. Yes, yes, yes... Chinese women are exactly like this. I was In a long term relationship, and I even paid for overseas travel, I had a Chinese gf who never paid for meals or given me small tokens as gifts. Finally I said " goodbye, you are just too greedy for me ".. oh. Did I mention she was 39, plain looking, and wanted 200 ks RMB bride price and a big, new apartment in the middle of Guangzhou.
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  1262. This marriage law is tailor-made for men! Whether it’s property protection or post-marriage rights, now no woman can easily take advantage of us.
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  1263. I hope men don't fall for the lie that these older left over women will change, and will accept someone because they have lowered their standard. The reality is that they lowered their standards to catch a man... but over time, it might be a while, or it might be soon after marriage... she will revert back to her baseline nature, of being demanding, and condescending. These older women are set in their ways... and will be extremely difficult to change. Eventually, she will get angrier and more unhappy because in her mind, she had to "settle"... and will eventually divorce.
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  1264. This is the legitimate relationship for many people definitely needed. With legitimate true love and support of each other, it really will help to improve living lifestyle and to earn good (or great) quality of everything throughout the whole life a lot sooner rather than later or never.
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  1265. You get one offer of marriage in America and the f you say no it’s automatically over. Who did she think she was? He should have been left
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  1266. The bride price 500000 lol so these ladies cough cough are asking 30+ years of wages up front HAHAHAHA. How many of the 64 arts do they possess? The 64 Arts Of The Kama Sutra are: 1. Singing 2. Playing a musical instrument 3. Dancing 4. A combination of singing, using musical instruments and dancing 5. Writing and drawing 6.The Art of Tattooing 7.Adorning an idol with flowers 8. The art of spreading flowers on a bed or on the ground 9. Coloring fabrics, nail and body with colors from plants 10. Fixing colored glass tiles on floor 11.The art of making a bed 12.Producing music by striking glasses of water 13. The art of storing water in reservoirs 14. The art of picture making and decorating 15. Making rosaries, necklaces, garlands 16. Tying turbans 17. Stage playing 18. The art of making ear ornaments 19. The art of making perfumes 20. Proper care of jewels, decorations and ornaments 21. Magic (sorcery) 22. Manual skills 23. Cooking (culinary skills) 24. Making combination drinks and flavored drinks i.e.– lemonades, sherbet etc 25. Tailoring and sewing 26. Making handicrafts e.g.– parrots, flowers etc. from thread 27. Skilsl to solve riddles, puzzles and covert speeches 28. The skill of Antakshari (a singing game were one must start with the letter with which other person’s song ended) 29. The skill of imitating natural sounds 30. Reading, chanting and intoning 31. Mastering tongue twisters 32. Skills at martial arts (the skills to use sword, stick, bow and arrow) 33. Skill to reach logical conclusions based on given facts 34. Carpentry 35. Architecture 36. Knowledge about gold, silver and gems 37. Chemistry (knowledge of properties of materials) 38. The art of coloring jewels or beads 39. Knowledge of mines 40. Gardening 41.The art of cock fighting (getting cocks, quail or rams to fight and make the fowl/animal victorious) 42.Teaching parrots or starlings to talk 43.Applying perfumes on body and hair 44. Understanding of code language 45. Spoonerism (purposefully interchanging position of letters of words while speaking) 46. Knowledge of languages 47. Knowledge of making flower chariots 48. Knowledge of making mystical graphics, spells and charms and ways to avoid spells 49.Mental exercises 50. Composing poems 51. Knowledge of dictionaries and vocabulary 52. The art of impersonation 53. Impersonation of materials i.e.– make common things appear fine rare substances (make cotton appear to be silk) 54. Knowledge of gambling 55. Using mantras (enchantments) to take away others’ possession 56.Skills in sports and games 57.The art of social conduct, paying respect and sending compliments 58. Knowledge of war, arms and army deployment 59. Knowledge of gymnastics 60. The skills of knowing a person’s real character from his conduct 61. The skill of reading and composing verses 62. The skills of enjoying arithmetic puzzles 63. Making artificial flowers 64. Making images with clay Also, one needs to consider the social classes and all need to remember their places in society (unfortunately lacking in today's societies as everybody thinks they are kings and queens). Price should be based on reality not on imagined purity all represent Mother Earth all Pure. Please no more pure/impure talk everybody knows ladies' family needs to be cared for they are now man's family too.
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  1267. Great video
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  1268. This is so unhinged..
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  1269. A mulher tinha um diamante em casa tratou com uma pedra comum e jogou fora, outra pegou e descobriu o valor.
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  1270. Thanks for sharing today...from the gym ⛹
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  1271. Let's be real this new law couldn't have came at a better time it should have made it law sooner when you think about it who is initiating most of the divorces women and they're taking men hard-earned money their house and everything they work for this new law will stop them from doing that so now marriage will have to be solely based on love and not for financial gain like marriages are supposed to be no more scams no more tricks now it's going to be a lot more older single gold digging women and they can't do anything about the new law marriage is based on each other's hearts not each other's wallets❤
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  1272. The audacity of these INSUFFICIENT FUNDS women coming into the marriage DEMANDING EVERYTHING material and financial while bringing NOTHING of value both present and long-lasting. Good that these new law changes bring a fighting chance to combat marital scams and shams.
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  1273. They're only different until the power shuts down, and the water stops flowing. Don't forget that their easy lifestyle is only possible because of men.
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  1274. Why does the man have to financially compensate this woman? Was the mediator brought in by the woman? Was it to negotiate a financial settlement? Could the man have brought in a mediator to request that the woman pay him a financial settlement? "Marriage" appears so transactional in China. It is about how women could milk the men into financially take care of them. I am laughing at this woman for her dramatics by reciting poems by the water. I am quite certain the rest of the world is laughing at her too!
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  1275. I feel sorry for these Chinese men. And we thought we had it bad in the West. Lol.
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  1276. What about men's virginity? Can women price?
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