Comments by "Viktor\x27 vonthe Rhaefnhyrst, I" (@Viktor_vonthe_Rhaefnhyrst) on "PsycHacks" channel.

  1. You're one of the select few American vets who made good relationship decisions. Thank you for your service to your Kameraden in Afghanistan and, my condolences for futility that strife ultimately proved politi-strategically. It was a doomed mission from the start, all to profit America's geopolitical hegemony and the corporate and private interests above our politicians but, the act of stepping into crucible and being there for one's brothers in arms must always be lauded and I admire you for it. May civilian life be kind to you, soldier.
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  2. BluePilled as its conclusions ultimately are, I recommend the film What Love Is. This reminded me of a scene where the player of the guy group concludes that his callousness towards female concerns emerged from his having trusted that one girl who broke his heart. It's a great movie.
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  3. You're still paying through taxes. Planned Parenthood subsidies, welfare, low-income housing, the salaries of public servants like judges who arbitrate divorce, politicians' paychecks, etc. You're just not paying directly but, suffer no delusion, they're still making you pay.
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  4.  @Cindy-ee5ou  Are you worthy of a Fortune 500 company?
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  5. Assuming that is indeed true, I commend you for keeping command, sir.
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  6. ​ @tinycha0s  Sl,uh't incapable of landing herself a decent guy who needs to gaslight men into feeling bad about themselves for not giving her attention detected!
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  7. This is why you need a good group of brutally honest, dependable friends with whom you can share most things and a priest or male, [And row cent Rick] shrink. With those men, you can vent your frustrations and process your fears and vulnerabilities so you can remain mysterious and silent around your girl, who depends on you not disrupting her fantasy of you as the Übermensch.
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  8.  @marcuschauvin7039  Have you considered divorce?
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  9. That's why you don't marry them AND lawfare-proof yourself so that if she doesn't act right, you show her the door, and she only leaves with what she came in with, leaving the kids and your resources behind with you. If you make that all clear BEFOREHAND, she'll be FAR more amenable than a gal with The State that you entered a three-way polyamorous marriage with. That, and if she tries to argue with you, you remind her that (1) you told her exactly what she was getting into from the start, (2) she chose you and those conditions anyway, and (3) she's welcome to leave at ANY time for ANY reason and try rebuild everything she build with you with another guy who IS willing to put up with her nonsense. She reserves the right to leave at any time for any reason, you reserve the right to withdraw commitment and privileges and retain the kids and assets. Require that she, her family, and friends sign some NDAs, then her a few other things, and they can't even gossip about you negatively after, lest you crush them in court.
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  10.  @Tzizenorec  "The young are naive, the old have wisdom..." Sure, if you're a man, who's compelled to live in reality as the builder, designer, maintainer, and defender of civilization who's forced to contend with the world as it is. It doesn't apply to infantilized females who're rescued from the consequences of their poor decisions by society and sheltered against truth.
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  11. Externally, unless with men close to him? Yes. The stoic façade is essential. As a philosophy? No. Nietzchean Vitalism is the way to go; suffering must be embraced as an evitable part of life, loved, and channeled to elevate ourselves. You know who LOVES stoicism? Corporations and governments, who want their men to suffer well so they can extract even MORE from them without their respective workers and taxpayers breaking under the load. Stoicism is GREAT for those in servitude to merchants and empires, but it's a symptomatic suppressant and a rejection of life in favor of illusory peace and relief. Embrace Samsara, man; might as well enjoy the meat grinder before it's chewed you up.
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  12. This is assuming she's a virgin who's legitimately courting multiple men in a platonic matter to determine their compatibility for marriage and family-rearing they want to work. If she's sleeping around, I don't accept it as courtship and I'm not tolerating wandering because I'm not making a sch-luh't the mother of my future children.
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  13. If you don't have any kids and are willing to risk the financial ramifications, I'd be considering divorce were I in your shoes. At the very least, I'd close any joint accounts and cut off any privileges beyond the necessities of life as you determine it then give her the silent treatment. Furthermore, I'd suggest you start finding and spending time with female friends, and openly confessing how much more attention and kindness they're yielding within earshot of your wife. She needs to be reminded that you don't need her; that the relationship is only possible because you TOLERATE her and that there's the possibility you might stop. You'll catch hell for it, no doubt, but if you refuse to give in and just keep ignoring her and not getting into arguments (which she'll win), she's going to have to contemplate losing you. I've never been married but, such steps have worked in my relationships and they might work in yours. I don't know but, don't just "suck it up"; you're the patriarch of the household, the protector, and the provider. You're better than that, sir, and she should be made to realize it.
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  14.  @ladybug3380  Good luck getting any of those things with THAT approach, ma'am. Oh yeah, implying men are insecure, coddled, demanding respect without what knowing what it means to us, esteeming your kind and our kind as = and deserving of anything "mutual", then playing hapless Vik Them after YEARS of alleging y'all are Amazonians... ...yeah, that's gonna win you our hearts and minds and make us amenable to your demands. 🤣
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  15.  @Tzizenorec  You're not a eunuch or a female, are you?
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  16. After huMAN, I'm reluctant to give figures I derive wisdom from that kind of congratulations; I recommend you temper your excitement and wait to see how things shake out.
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  17.  @GeniDeka  You chose all those men, honey; doesn't sound like you stopped after the first one, re-evaluated the guy you chose and how to do better, then improved...kinda sounds like you KEPT ON failing to vet bad apples then bit into them anyway. The common denominator in all those failed relationships was YOU, sister...and it's our fault? 🤣
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  18.  @ZackLongdick  Sure, I don't care. I'm just saying, wait to see if the people whose beliefs and observations you respect are able to maintain their lives with those insights.
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  19. Screw dignity; I prefer blunt honesty, and it got me my last couple of jobs because the hiring parties appreciated my ability to cut the crap and get to the point.
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  20.  @fallen546  The silliness is thinking females can really change and trusting them unreservedly when they claim they have. I'm all for the concept of redemption but, I've rarely, if ever, witnessed it. Just being realistic.
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  21.  @GeniDeka  "They couldn't keep me" 🤣 Sure, Cleopatra, keep chugging that copium; but at least you admitted to be an emotional sadist. And no, honey, you're not young enough to be my mom. I bet they dug you out with the pharaohs.
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  22.  @Tzizenorec  Whatever you want to believe, man; I'm not the one in denial of your own limp-wristed nature and a penchant for buggery. "To thine own self be true!" Polonius, character from Shakespeare's Hamlet
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  23. Friends can also yield third party perspectives that can help you to see things you might otherwise not. For example, if you become infatuated with a girl but, she's toxic and destroying your mental health but, enthralled by hormones, you're not able to see it. Friends can help rouse you to your senses.
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  24. You compromised with your breedress? Brother, you've mistaken that walking uterus life support system, maid, cook, and governess for your equal...like one of the bros, or something. Glad things seem to be working for you but, I have a simpler approach. "Either we're having sex or I'm having sex."
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  25.  @calltyshon  Narrative? I only expressed facts. You pay taxes and the State employs them in the support of women at the expense of men. What about that is subject to interpretation?
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  26.  @calltyshon  You say that like women are just as economically productive and debt ridden as men, contributing equal taxes and possessing equal obligations... You wanna cut the shit and tell us all what you really have to say, ma'am?
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  27. ​ @mehmedii7594  Used to? How'd it turn out?
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  28. No, it means that you shouldn't trouble yourself with a relationship unless you know that you're struggling to improve yourself and your lot in life...and get with a girl who herself is doing the same. If you're not BOTH on upward trajectories and supportive of one another's success, you should just focus on yourself or find a better girl.
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  29.  @Altair-El-Haddad  Yup.
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  30.  @GerardoDelValle.  My condolences for your loss, sir; did you happen to marry a Russian "mail-order" or go there as a "passport bro" of sorts, the intent being to find a traditional woman outside of America that'd like you more given your nationality and resources than her fellow countrymen?
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  31.  @jayedwards7768  I preface all responses to extraordinary--'cause most men are dispossessed of the frame and strength you claim to've manifested--recounts because there are guys out there who make fallacious ones and I cannot verify them as a stranger on YouTube. It's not personal, it's just how I qualify my responses so I don't end up looking the fool for latching onto something that could be contrary to the truth. That's not important for most people but, it is for me, because I value truth and adherence thereto.
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  32. @GeniDeka  Keep lying and coping, granny; you've proven we can't expect much more from you beyond that. 🤣
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  33.  @robicelus  Spoke too soon. Also, my compliments to your workout routine, brother.
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  34.  @GeniDeka  Lying to us doesn't work anymore than lying to yourself, Tomb Honey.
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  35. ​ @michaeljmyers1995  They're not complicated; they're ruthlessly simple in their pursuit of having it all. The complication comes from the convoluted rationalizations and smoke screen they throw up to obfuscate that personal longing for more. By creating a facade, they give themselves deniability and us the impression they're more sophisticated than they really are.
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  36. Loose women can't demand this kind of treatment; men won't pay full price for what was given to others for free.
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  37. "Sounds like something a p3do would say!" Say the single "moms" who raise most 🍇ists, perverts, and sociopaths while taking on scumbag boyfriends who neglects and/or "use" their kids because they're not their kids.
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  38. I have a better idea: Seizure-Insulated Guesthouse and No Cohabitation Policy. She sleeps in a guesthouse on the property that's legally owned by someone you trust and is guest in the main house; she acts up, you send her to guesthouse to think about her behavior. You don't leave, SHE does; put THEM on the figurative couch.
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  39. I owe no duties to a female who fails to honor my authority yet happily accepts my responsibility. Responsibility without authority equals slavery. Until females are women raised by patriarchal fathers and willingly submissive moms and respect these figures as natural and just, there will be few, if any, women worthy of our providership, patriarchy, and protection.
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  40. Incorrect, honor cannot exist independent of a group with a common moral paradigm. It is bestowed horizontally through belonging ALL members of a group possess and vertically through commonly recognized manifestations of honor-worthy actions. One cannot give oneself honor just as one cannot make oneself a hero; it demands others.
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  41.  @GeniDeka  Oh you're definitely "full to the brim" with something, grandma; the fishy ammonia proves that much. 🤣
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  42.  @GeniDeka  How would a streets slinker like you even KNOW what a good gal is? Do you play the George Costanza game and just figure whoever does the OPPOSITE of what you have should fit the bill? 🤣
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  43.  @GeniDeka  Actually experienced it twice, once in high school and once in college; which is probably two times more than you have, Granny Streets Slinker. Getting your guts rearranged by hundreds of men over your lengthy lifetime isn't love; it's Man's Oldest Profession. They ever comment about the creaking of your cartilage-free joints? I imagine that'd be a turn off... 🤢
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  44.  @GeniDeka  Don't tell people to be real when you spend gods only know how much time applying fakeup in the mirror every day, Granny Ghoul. There's nothing real on you 'cept the cobwebs and mummy linen. 🤣
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  45.  @GeniDeka  I guess if you're blind you're only half wrong.
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  46. @SecretSquirrel33  Not my experience but, if you want to be esteemed as intelligent then, all power to you.
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  47. Got trained and have already fashioned silver rings with ruby center stones that just need fittings and engravings. That being said, I'm NOT proposing. If she's "passed the interview" and is fit to be my helpmeet (unions are not for secular authorities to make, regulate, and break), I'll have my ring delivered via courier with a note. "You know my purpose, mission, & course. The honor of joining me and being protected, provided for, and presided over by me is yours, if you but kneel, ask the privilege, and put it on my finger. 𝕿𝖍𝖊 𝕲𝖔𝖘𝖕𝖊𝖑 𝖔𝖋 𝕾𝖙. 𝕷𝖚𝖐𝖊, 𝕮𝖍. 1: 𝖛𝖘. 42
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  48. Why should we be patient when most of you have already given it up for virtually free to other guys? Only virtuous gals can demand what you are and they're unicorns in this day and age.
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  49. How can you marry someone you don't feel that desire toward? As I see it, allowing for the possibility is crucial in eventually forming a Christian union; there can be no virtue and self-control without the temptation.
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  50. Years and years ago when I was dating a high school senior as a working but directionless 19 year old, I found myself in the pathetic position of negotiating for a single ROOM of our future, hypothetical house before the two of us were even ENGAGED (we Mormons move fast). Fortunately, I broke things off and am devoting my life to career/academic advancement and self-improvement but...by the Gods, do I resent my past self for being so freaking weak. I've since adopted a more "medieval & patriarchal" mindset, and I've never been happier.
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