Comments by "Viktor\x27 vonthe Rhaefnhyrst, I" (@Viktor_vonthe_Rhaefnhyrst) on ""My needs AREN'T BEING MET": why this is one of my least favorite phrases" video.

  1. If you don't have any kids and are willing to risk the financial ramifications, I'd be considering divorce were I in your shoes. At the very least, I'd close any joint accounts and cut off any privileges beyond the necessities of life as you determine it then give her the silent treatment. Furthermore, I'd suggest you start finding and spending time with female friends, and openly confessing how much more attention and kindness they're yielding within earshot of your wife. She needs to be reminded that you don't need her; that the relationship is only possible because you TOLERATE her and that there's the possibility you might stop. You'll catch hell for it, no doubt, but if you refuse to give in and just keep ignoring her and not getting into arguments (which she'll win), she's going to have to contemplate losing you. I've never been married but, such steps have worked in my relationships and they might work in yours. I don't know but, don't just "suck it up"; you're the patriarch of the household, the protector, and the provider. You're better than that, sir, and she should be made to realize it.
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  2. @ruxandrabadarau2654  It's not okay for them, but it is okay for us. If you don't like it, you're welcome to: 🎶 "Cry me a riveeeeeer..." 🎵
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  3.  @ruxandrabadarau2654  Sounds to me like you need to calm down.
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