Comments by "Goose" (@goose7574) on "When A Killer Doesn't Realize She's Being Filmed" video.
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This hits so close to home for me.😢 My mother literally passed away yesterday at 3:59pm, at my home, after battling Alzheimers for years. As her only caregiver, 24/7, for over 2 years, I can understand not wanting somebody to suffer, but to do what they did is truly insane! ESPECIALLY, when their father didn't know, have any say in his care, etc. And for her to say that HOSPICE does it all the time and that she's seen it, that's not right and truly pisses me off!!
Sorry, not sorry!
Hospice helped me for the past 2 weeks (October 15th-29th) and I truly don't think they would ever do what she's claiming. Not only that, but they have you document the medications (like morphine), and the MAX dose that my mother was on, for the past 30 hours of her life, was MAX 1.0ml EVERY HOUR. Even when she almost past the day before, when they came to change her bedding (it was truly traumatic for me to do it at that point because it was very uncomfortable for my mom to be moved at all, even with the max dosage of liquid morphine- 1.0ml & liquid lorazapam- .50ml, so that's why I had them help me the last 2 times with it), they NEVER had me EVER give her more than the max dosage. THEY NEVER EVEN SUGGESTED OR IMPLIED to give her more when she was ACTIVELY DYING! And after she passed, THEY HAVE TO DISPOSE OF ANY EXTRA MEDICATION. They literally take an adult diaper and squirt/pour all meds into it and then have you either pour fingernail polish or something toxic on it, so there's no way somebody could try to abuse the extra medication. I'm sorry to: share so much and/or upset anybody with my comment, it just really angers me, because hospice is truly an amazing resource, that many need... THAT'S FREE!!! When my mother's doctor made the referral to hospice (originally for palliative care), it took like 2 weeks for the referral to go through and to get lined up with them. As soon as we were on the phone, though, their support with questions and supplies was so incredible. This was the first time I had ever cared for somebody like this, and needed Hospice. I didn't know how things worked, and honestly didn't even know it was free, which still blows my mind. Within 24 hours of talking to them, they had a hospital bed delivered AND SET UP in my bedroom (I wanted to keep her close to me). And within 48 hours they even had a PureWick system delivered for her to use, instead of her needing to get a traditional catheter. My mother, unfortunately, went downhill very fast (within a month) and so the palliative care switched to end of life care, at the first visit with them (October 15th). They made everything so much easier and even helped me with other supplies that I ended up needing that would've taken days to order. Like the Purewick "wicks" that are like $9-13 a piece (and you need usually 3 a day).
Ughhhh... this broad really angers me.
PLEASE!!! If you or anybody you know is caring for a loved one who's sick and whether you need guidance or actual help with your loved ones journey, PLEASE don't hesitate to contact your local Hospice. They were so incredibly kind and supportive AND helpful. Plus, you have access to a nurse 24/7 and they don't make you feel like a burden, EVER! I'm sure there are some bad apples, because there ALWAYS seems to be a few, but I really don't believe that it's the majority with hospice. Most of them donate their time and do it because it's a passion of theirs, and it really does show. The nurse that visited the most (Danielle) was uhhhhhmazing. She even helped me yesterday after my mother passed, with getting a thumb print for me (I plan to get a tattoo with my thumb print and hers, in the shape of a heart, since I already have a memorial tattoo for my father). When i was stressing afterwards and trying to figure out how to do it before the funeral home came to get her, she actually contacted her husband who was a police Sergeant, and he came to my home with supplies and they both worked together to do it for me.
I'm really sorry to write so much and I understand most won't read this and/or some might be upset with the length and personal aspect of my comment. I just really hate when people lie and badmouth a company/organization that truly does so much good for people going through one of the toughest times in their life.
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