Comments by "Goose" (@goose7574) on "ABC News"
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@donald johnson
Yup!
Unfortunately I did stuff like that for many years because of what happened to me. Also, because of NOT going to therapy and NOT sharing with my loved ones what happened to me, until I was 31, and 38 weeks pregnant with my one child (a daughter, which I firmly believe was a major trigger), I ended up dating a LOT of terrible and Abusive men (the last one finally being my daughter's father), until I opened up, and went to therapy.
It's true that victims of sexual assault and rape, can carry baggage from their past (and many will), but there's also the other side of the spectrum, where the girls turn into women, and because of there past and not opening up, they haven't learned healthy boundaries with men, and what they are allowed to actually say no too.
I say all this, because there seems to always be somebody who will say a comment like yours. I FIRMLY believe that anytime somebody is a victim of something TRAUMATIC (assault, abuse, rape, Domestic Abuse/violence, etc.), That we need to talk about it in a kind/caring way. Instead of making the victim/survivor feel awful about herself/himself, I think it's better to word it maybe that in order for the survivor to offer the very best life possible, and truly be able to enjoy the future and everybody in it, that seeking therapy is a great idea.
I'm sure that somebody will come after me because of this comment, and... Well, so be it!
If I have to be a voice for victims/survivors, and that in turn means getting shit back for just trying to maybe have people think about things a little bit more gently, than so whatever.
Bring on the hateful comments.
Until ANYONE walks even a quarter mile in the shoes that I had to wear for part of my life, I will NEVER back down, when it comes to sexual abuse/molestation and/or Domestic Violence/Abuse.
Not enough people have the courage to come forward, because it's ALWAYS a life changing event.
It's scary, it's TRAUMATIC, and it's something you want to run away from, but sometimes, you have to run into the fire to save other people. You end up scarred and battered because of it, but very few people will stand up and speakout, so until more people start talking about these horrific things, I'll continue to do what I can, to try to help the rest of the people who've had to walk this very same journey.
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Robert Swanson
Also, according to this "nice" statistic:
"Adults 65 and older account for 16% of the US population but 80% of COVID-19 deaths in the US, somewhat higher than their share of deaths from all causes (75%) over the same period."
We can give a BIG thank you, to TWO of the Democrat Governors/Mayors for those high numbers (New York & WA), since they decided to basically say "screw the elderly, let's just lock them all in assisted living facilities, NOT test people, and EVEN send workers back who were sick..."
F-ing ridiculous!
I live in WA, so I've been "dealing" with this since Feb, and it's been horrible. Plus, my Sweetie is a local Sergeant and long-time officer of over 25 years (hasn't ever shot anyone, nor has he been reprimanded, or had issues with abuse/overly aggressive/etc., but in fact, had actually fired officers for use of force issues and even testified in court), and so the current BS (ALL officers are bad), has also been real "fun" to deal with.
Sorry if you don't agree with this last point, but I personally appreciate how Trump DIDN'T try to create/cause mass hysteria (and I didn't even vote for the guy). There was enough of that going around. I lost my father when I was only 20 to a sudden massive heart attack (his first one actually), and my Mother is now 74 years old (and unfortunately is borderline for hypertension and type II diabetes, as well as recently being diagnosed with Dimentia- which her Mother had and older sister also has), so there was enough fear for me personally, with EVERYTHING. I didn't need/want more. It's honestly crazy what's going on right now.
People want a vaccine, now ones coming, but there's issues, bullshit, whatever... I get it's because of the election, but Geez Louise! Enough is enough already!
If you are scared, STAY HOME. If you want to wear a mask, WEAR A MASK, if you don't, DON'T (just don't complain if certain businesses refuse you service, because it's legally their right to refuse service to anyone), and if you want to get a vaccine, get one when you can, if you don't, don't...
(I'm not talking about YOU personally, so please don't think that, I'm talking about people in general, just to clarify).
Sorry for the long post, I'm just REALLY over all the "crap" that's going on... I mean, what ever happened to trying to live by the "Golden Rule" ???
Seems some don't even know what that is...
Anyways, sorry to get so heated.
Take Care wherever you are!
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