Comments by "Goose" (@goose7574) on "" video.

After you've gone through an abusive situation, it's _EXTREMELY_. difficult to talk about things, because you feel like YOU'VE failed... As stupid as sounds.
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@pattimaeda6097 Chick? Really adult of you. You've obviously NEVER had it happen to you... Be glad! And don't judge others.
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@amyc394 Some people will never understand that the guilt and shame we hold within ourselves, is MUCH MUCH worse than, than what anybody else could say...
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26:45 Ughh... What this woman went through it truly horrific. And yes, you are so correct with Abuse and what is hidden behind closed doors.
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38:07 Well at least he knows he royally screwed up!
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41:56 I can so relate to what she's talking about... My heart really goes out to her. Thank God she survived. Edit: Ughh... That cycle of then taking care of you is a real Bitch. It really makes you think that things will actually be okay.
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@herretro Exactly! You already feel stupid enough for believing this person would FINALLY change, you don't need more crap on top of it.
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@kellyharris8976 Yes... Take Care ❤️
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@amyc394 Exactly! I actually had to devise a plan to get my daughter and I out safely. Even after going to court to get DVPO's that same day, the police had us wait in the basement of the courthouse, where the sheriff's department was, until he was served. Then, after all that, I stayed with my Mother, because she had a really good alarm system, until I had both an 8 camera surveillance system set up (for my home and property) and a seperate ADT home Monitoring system for the doors, windows along with motion detectors. Then, about 2 years later, I also decided to purchase a firearm and get my CWP (Concealed weapons permit). Until somebody goes through it, they'll NEVER understand. I used to be that person who would say, "if somebody ever abused me, I would leave in a heartbeat." Well... When it happened, it was VERY VERY different...
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@hitmanx200 When you're in a DV situation, especially with a little child, it's not as easy as you think. I had to actually devise a plan to get out the day I did. Until you actually go through, you just won't understand...
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48:40 PTSD Disassociation is one of the best and worst things after abuse... Sometimes you want to remember, so you can explain things, but other times it will actually protect you, because it's better to not remember.
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10:17 that was an epic fight! Very equally matched.
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