Comments by "Goose" (@goose7574) on "'Blue-Eyed Butcher' Stabbed Husband 193 Times; Now She's Out On Parole | COURT TV" video.

Talk about awkward...
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It was definitely fear driven, after the fact... It's not that difficult to understand.
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Until somebody deals with actual Domestic Violence, they won't understand this case at all... It's really not humanly possible unless you've been through it.
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@trick351 I completely understand. Dec 10th was the 6 year anniversary from when I got out with my barely 2 year old daughter. I still have a DVPO, and even ended up even getting my Concealed carry permit, an 8 camera surveillance system and a seperate ADT surveillance system... Just so you know I wasn't saying that at you, I was saying that to people who haven't been through it, and don't understand. Yes, getting out is the best thing, but in some circumstances it's very difficult, and in others, even when they do get out, bad things happen... Hope that clarifies things. I'm so glad you're safe and happy now. Take Care! ❤️
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@thresagraham8181 She could've definitely gone into a second phase of "fight or flight," afterwards... I would bet money that that's how she was able to clean up and bury him. Yes it was "overkill," but until someone's gone through moments of near death, followed by threats of death, they'll never understand what can happen. I would bet she was terrified after it all happened (why what had happened) and so that's why she buried him. She likely thought nobody would believe her. It's not uncommon for a victim of DV to think those very thoughts.
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@ThrifterPickerShipper I will say though, that the mounting was a VERY shocking moment. It was okay when she was be side, but when she actually mounted him, I was like whoa!!!
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@thresagraham8181 I think she likely DID think that afterwards and that's why I said she went through a second "fight or flight," panicked and buried him, because she didn't think people would believe her. I know after going through severe abuse, that because you DON'T tell people what's going on (because you're EXTREMELY embarrassed,) so when you need help, want out, etc., it's very difficult to finally tell people what was ACTUALLY going on. Not to mention when you do finally get out, and your ex is EXTREMELY Narcissistic and likely a Sociopath as well (according to my daughter's therapist), they are VERY good at acting like they are the BEST person, friend, father, employer, etc., and acting like it was either made up, or the victim is actually the Perp (all things my ex did, plus more). I never could've imagined what I had to go through in court, with custody. Thank God I didn't marry him, or put him on my house, or anything financially, but it was pure Hell... In fact, we ended up in Superior Court (above family court), having a trial for 8 days, and having a judge make the decisions. Picture having your ABUSIVE Ex representing himself, so when you're on the stand, your ABUSIVE Ex is the one questioning you... It was horrible! So... in the end, I really think that she panicked after it happened, and then went through a second "fight or flight," thinking... "Oh my God!!!" "Nobody's going to believe me!!!" "What do I do???" "I CAN'T CALL THE COPS" "F******CK!!!!" And then she did what she thought she had to do... It's not easy for many people to understand, but I do believe that she feared for her life and Psychologically snapped. The majority of people aren't good actresses, so that's why I don't think she was "faking" it on the stand. I've seen a lot of terrible "acting" on the news, with interviews of parents, boyfriends, spouses, etc., who ended up being the Perp's and I don't think this woman was the abuser, nor do I think she did this because she WASN'T terrified. Was it OVERKILL ??? YES... but, when somebody snaps after being abused for a long time, they literally have a psycholigical break and aren't thinking about things when they happen. They just Go and Go and Go, until their brain finally clicks and says... "It's over... You're safe... They AREN'T going to hurt you again." I hope that helps a bit more.
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I guess they wanted to get a point across... And didn't think about using a doll. I mean, a live human being versus a doll kind of gets the point across more...
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@ThrifterPickerShipper Call me crazy, but All I kept thinking about, was if that were my Spouse
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@trick351 Fortunately my Sweetie that I met almost 5 years ago, is the local Sergeant and has been on the force for almost 30 years, so that helps. I'm in a small town, and eventhough my ex is as well, about 1-2 miles from me, people know him, because of his behavior, so it's not easy for him to sneak around.
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@astrialindah2773 Right?
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@ThrifterPickerShipper I didn't say a doll would be better... I said they maybe didn't think about it, but, they very likely could've and realized that a live human shows things better than a stuffed doll.
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