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@lillyCfields How has this comment not got more likes? A lot of these problems would have been solved if we just come together to admit we have our faults we need to work on and not expect others to give when we in turn don’t do our part. At the end we are looking for a common goal to have that one person we can trust to live the rest of our lives with. Would be nice if this aspect is something that people can remember. I think we’re in a time when people find it easier to blame others cause it’s hard to be vulnerable to self evaluate if we didn’t do more. In many ways I think we lost thing cause we took those we care about for granted and have not let them feel appreciated. Most of this could have been avoided if we recenter ourselves of what our values are and to make sure we reflect that.
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@keithsmith5310 An adult has the self aware to work on themselves to bring something better to society. Go ahead and kick that can down the road and wonder why there’s a lack of good people when there is little done to foster society to think about implementing wise decisions. There’s two types of people, the type that folds when things go awry expecting others to pick them up and wails when no one rescues them from the pit they put themselves in, then there’s the ones who understand we all have our issues yet aims for the ones who can be depended on to carry through those tough times that in turn builds character. An adult has that responsibility to understand they cannot sit and wallow forever, an adult understands others depend on them. That in itself creates a society. I see less adults today and more overgrown children that are hesitant to face the idea of being vulnerable and honest with themselves. All while wanting that life to spend with someone they trust, an insightful person recognizes it starts with them, they have to build trust with others to bring forth other trustworthy people. Not chase them out with accusations and anger of needs not being met, but learn product ways to communicate what is needed in a relationship to keep it strong. It’s easier if someone has the mindset to be honest of their own shortcomings and making ways to compromise what needs to be compromised. A lack of just a few of these virtues, like self responsibility, will break down trust in any relationship.
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