Comments by "Z P" (@zachman5150) on "A Trans \"Mother\" Debates Matt Walsh On Womanhood" video.
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There is no internal feeling that is exclusive to men or women (or boys/girls), what makes anyone a man or a woman is being either male or female and reaching adulthood. Their sex and stage of physical maturity makes them men or women, not some "feeling" they have.
Believing there is some "essence" specific to males or female as far as feelings go, that can manifest "in the wrong body", is akin to a religious belief, having faith in something that is impossible to prove or disprove. The thing is though, that no one on the "trans" side can actually even explain what this "essence" is, they can't even explain it to themselves yet have convinced themselves that the feeling they have means they "are in the wrong body" - without realising that their discomfort simply stems from not realising that they view conforming to sexist stereotypes as legitimate measures of manhood or womanhood. That is why every explanation given of WHY a male "can't be a man, but is instead woman" etc. relies upon listing stereotypical stuff, or, in some cases is completely abstract and refuses to actually provide any explanation of what they mean, simply stating they "know" that what they feel means what they say it does, even though they can't actually provide a definition of it. "It's hard to explain but I know I'm right" is an attitude one constantly comes up against - a religious faith in something they can't define.
This idea that the terms "man" and "woman" carry all this baggage, sexist stereotypes, that people need to live up to or feel comfortable with is a complete fabrication coming from the "trans" side. You lot want a term to reflect aspects of your personality as well, you want to create more boxes to put people in, as you won't accept simply just being a man or a woman based on being born male or female (and reaching adulthood, obviously people are boys and girls before becoming men or women), but believe you need this "freedom of expression" to broadcast what sexist stereotypes you feel more comfortable with - thinking the world needs to adopt the sexist view you lot have (you fail to see just how much you have in common with Conservatives).
Replacing objective definitions which are based in physical reality, with entirely subjective metaphysical claims, is not logical in any way, is not morally superior, and is demonstrably harmful, not least to female rights and protections, but also to practically anyone that buys into it as it warps people's perception of the underlying issues. It hinders people in their quest for individuation, creating this false narrative of them becoming more "authentic" when the total opposite is true, they believe they need validation from others in order to be happy etc. instead of being encouraged to find more inner strength and resilience with less reliance on how people see them. Demanding to be legally recognised as the opposite sex of what one is, is in no way shape or form more authentic than accepting the physical reality one is born into.
To believe we as individuals can have 100% control over our identity in society, what we are seen as by others, in interaction with, and in relation to, society/the world/physical existence is a fool's errand, it is a delusional understanding of reality and existence.
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There is no trans. There are males and females... That's it. They've gotten it totally wrong on gender. Gender, (there are 2 male, and female... that's it), refers to the sex assigned at birth and the social aspects of being male or female, respectively. Male and female are biological categories which are fixed and permanent.
Then, they conflate gender and personality. Then, they conflate gender and gender roles. Then they conflate gender with sexual preference. Then, they conflate males with females, fact with fiction and men with women.
A woman isn't a personality, a social construct, a feeling, or a costume-- She's an adult, human, female. As it turns out, there's a prerequisite to being a woman and that's being born female. Now you know better
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And surgery does nothing to alleviate the reality that people will recognize those who present as something they're not, because they're observant and live in an objective reality.
If your identity requires that everyone in society affirm your sense of self, contrary to objective reality, and their participation in your LARP or cosplay is required to massage your feelings, then you better develop some better coping mechanisms to deal with the fact that the world doesn't owe you anything, and the vast majority of people reject the trans-activist ideological narrative, and that isn't going to change--
So-- considering that they're more accepted now than at any other time in history, yet continue to have a self-delete rate significantly higher than the general population-- the insinuation and claims of the efficacy of a surgical approach, doesn't appear to be the cure-all solution which curbs that... and moving forward with the notion that if only, everyone would just play along for their sake-- then I predict you're going to be severely disappointed.
The world isn't going to reorganize itself for your benefit, and to suggest it ought to-- is the height of arrogance and self-entitlement. You better learn to cope much harder
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No dear... There is only 1 kind of woman, and they're ALL born females-- making the cis distinction entirely useless, redundant and entirely irrelevant.
A woman isn't a social construct, a feeling, a personality stereotype, nor a costume. As it turns out-- there's a prerequisite to being a woman, and that's being born a female. The same applies for men; The prerequisite is being born male.
They conflate gender with personality, fact with fiction, and objective reality with delusion and imagination.
Sorry, if your identity is predicated upon the notion that all of society must participate by denying objective reality, and going along with your LARPing and cosplay-- Then your identity isn't valid.
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