Comments by "Manifest" (@manifest2203) on "PsycHacks" channel.

  1. This is such a wrong take. When women are young, they get lots of options but most of those options will be trash. Women who marry early (in early 20s) the first husband doesn’t work out at all. Mostly second marriages are the ones which last for those women. But if women married around late 20s or early 30s, they can choose better options cos they will know what they want in a man better, the woman will be financially stable and also the younger men in their age range (which is what most women desire) will be well settled and also financially stable and have the mindset for building a family too. Women who want a good life should marry later (early 30s) and have fewer children later. The average age for marriage for men and women is 31 and 29. And average age of first time mothers in US is 31. In countries like Korea average age of first time motherhood is 34.5.
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  2.  @maxdudomite  yes she chose poorly because younger women aren’t going to make the smart moves that women a little older will make. This is why most women should not marry young.
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  3. This is why women shouldn’t be prioritising men at all. Decentering men is the best thing any woman can do. Even getting with high value men is rarely worth it. It brings its own set of headaches, problems and control. But the competition for these men is so high and not worth the effort when the chance of success is low and after getting him, he is even more insufferable. Investing in herself with all her time and effort will give her far more rewards later on. Nothing is worth more than freedom. If a woman wants marriage and kids, she should play the field and then get with an average man when she wants to settle, but still be cautious about everything while in the relationship and not baby him. If a woman wants only a child, there are options for that too. In any case, the woman should have fewer kids later in life. But always, always prioritise lifetime financial stability and security above all else. Ofcourse being child free by choice and single is the best thing if she wants the best quality of life.
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  4. Sounds like terrible advice to young m4n to set them up for failure. Is this a strategy old m4n employ to get young women so that younger men won’t compete? 😂
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  5.  @maxdudomite  choosing women based on the superficial also makes women choose men based on the superficial. That harms a lot of men since most men fall short in that regard. According to studies women rate men 85% less attractive than average.
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  6.  @pnwlady  a good life is important to women. For most women being with a man is what brings them down. Resources for herself and her children (if she has any) are the most important thing.
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  7. This is why women shouldn’t be prioritising men at all. Decentering men is the best thing any woman can do. Even getting with high value men is rarely worth it. It brings its own set of headaches, problems and control. But the competition for these men is so high and not worth the effort when the chance of success is low and after getting him, he is even more insufferable. Investing in herself with all her time and effort will give her far more rewards later on. Nothing is worth more than freedom. If a woman wants marriage and kids, she should play the field and then get with an average man when she wants to settle, but still be cautious about everything while in the relationship and not baby him. If a woman wants only a child, there are options for that too. In any case, the woman should have fewer kids later in life. But always, always prioritise lifetime financial stability and security above all else. Ofcourse being child free by choice and single is the best thing if she wants the best quality of life.
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  8.  @maxdudomite  here I was thinking you asked a rhetorical question since that is a silly question. I only pointed out the problem when men judge women for superficial reasons hoping you can think for yourself for once. Anyways, let me help you a little since you seem to have issues. Men absolutely judge a woman based on the superficial. Most men reduce a woman to her age and looks. But every woman should be judged for her humanity. Men should see what type of woman she is- what sort of partner that woman makes, her value systems, what her life goals are, what her profession is, what her likes and dislikes are and so on because all of these have an impact on their lifestyle together and to see if they can go the distance. Only looking at superficial is the reason most men don’t make good partners for women. No woman respects a man who can’t make sane choices for himself. But sensible men don’t do that at all.
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  9.  @grantwithers  so what? Women should enjoy their time with Chads if that is what women want. Men want to play the field and settle down later too. So what if women want to do the same? There is nothing wrong in women enjoying s3x and then settling down later with someone more suitable for a marriage. I am actually interested in demographics. I have spent some time just self learning on this topic. Yes men can opt out of relationships if they don’t want relationships. It is not like women are lining up for marriage and motherhood either. Globally marriage rates and birth rates have gone down because women aren’t interested either. Europe is the first place on Earth where birth rates fell down below population replacement level. Education and healthcare is free there. Some governments even give free money to have children. Still women aren’t having many children there. In countries like China, Japan, Korea the birth rates are even lower. Korea for example has women’s movements like 4B (no to dating, no to s3x, no to marriage, no to child bearing and rearing). Korea has the lowest birth rate in the world. There is nothing new about opting out of marriages. Young men should also be allowed to choose just like young women do so. Young women should also let go of the lies sold about marriage and motherhood and learn to contribute to society and enjoy life for other things. If they find someone good and genuinely want to marry, they should. But otherwise, nope. Getting married young and having children young is the worst thing that can happen to most women. It causes a lot of problems and traps those women.
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  10.  @burnerjack01 it is about women. Facts don’t care about your feelings.
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  11. Also, what’s with the older women shaming? Not all older m4n are still thinking about s4x. They want companionship. That is why even the richest m4n like Bezos and King Charles are with older women. It’s ridiculous to say women don’t have time. Women outlive men. Women can even have casual relationships with younger men if they want (but most don’t). Older men do not have the same options in older women or younger women.
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  12.  @inconnu4961  that is why for thousands of years so much suffering happened. Men had horrible lives before Feminism.
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  13.  @TRINITY-ks6nw  why can’t men choose better then? It’s impossible not to hear the constant whining and complaining from men 🤦‍♀️
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  14. Lol modern mn discover the cat lady lifestyle and find it to be cool 😂
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  15.  @dmzflightmedic  the same talking points 🤣 No originality. And not even rooted in reality. Most older w5m5n live better lives than older m4n as all data shows. Time is definitely on the side of w4m4n in all aspects- all forms of relationships.
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  16. Bcoz most mn get caregiving from their wives in their later lives. Most hus6bands get end of life care from the wives. But most wives don’t. That’s why more wmn are there in nursing homes and the chdrn and grandchdrn visit. The wives get caregiving from the chdrn. Mn who don’t have wives usually have shorter life spans. Almost all unidentified bodies are mn. Mn are more likely to di5e what is called as “dea6ths of desp6air”. Having a family reduces that risk. Do mn really think their smex drive will be the same? Nope. Libdo goes down for mn too. Most mn won’t be thinking abt smex in later years when their health is declnng. Fun fact: 40% mn have ED at age 40. Lol mn talk as if they never a6ge 😂
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  17.  @maxdudomite  yes women anyway make superficial choices too. But there is a lot of BS that only men can judge women for superficial choices. But blatantly saying we should go with superficial choices means that will be the norm in society and women will judge men based on looks and money, even more than they currently do. The irony is everyman wants to be Chad, but only very few men can be Chads.
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  18. Yes older men should do what they want. If they leave, that becomes even better for older women. Older women can date younger men for s3x without spending any money. Most older women lose attraction for older men and don’t even want to sleep with them anymore because older men have issues with virility and performance. Younger men are better. And older women who want relationships have options in older men. Many older men want older women for their domestic life skills to run his home and be with him. But even feminine presence and companionship is valuable even if women those older women don’t do any work. That is why men like Jeff Bezos or King Charles who have money to hire endless help married older women with children from previous marriages. The ex husband leaving frees up their time so much after raising kids and being the caregiver of the family. That is why many older women remain single. It’s very freeing. Whether the ex husband was rich or poor, these older women are lucky because they don’t have to be the ones who give more caregiving for him. And younger women will eventually want more fertile, virile men. Older men who have money can hire help and then go to old age homes. Everyone wins.
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  19. Believe it or not, a lot of women achieve a lot in work. That is one of the reasons that many m3n are crying everyday about independent women.
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  20.  @Hollowed2wiz it is delusional to think you don’t have friendship with your wife or gf.
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  21.  @theonpointheavy4401  you are proving the point. Single women live longer because not having a man increases the longevity of women. You think they are spiteful because you cannot think of that woman without any use for any male. Ofcourse old people have needs too and that makes you think those women are bitter. But she is only living longer because she has a good emotional state and her inner self is happy and content. Most men will perish when left alone sooner because they are bitter, don’t have the lifeskills to take care of themselves, don’t know to build meaningful networks and they don’t have the temperament to regulate their emotions. If you think old women are bitter, you should see how th*isrty, needy and cre*epy old men are. You will never meet a group of needier people. It’s hilarious 🤣
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  22. Only people who can’t understand cooperation talk about expecting someone else to “submt” to them. And the ones who expect it, aren’t even worthy to submt to in the first place.
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  23.  @maxdudomite  I am not saying that at all.
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  24.  @johnstrawb3521  a lot of older people get married too. You have no clue what you are talking about. But in general it is older women aren’t interested in relationships because most men don’t add value to a woman.
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  25. You are so right. But imo women shouldn’t be prioritising men at all. Decentering men is the best thing any woman can do. Even getting with high value men is rarely worth it. It brings its own set of headaches, problems and control. But the competition for these men is so high and not worth the effort when the chance of success is low and after getting him, he is even more insufferable. Investing in herself with all her time and effort will give her far more rewards later on. Nothing is worth more than freedom. If a woman wants marriage and kids, she should play the field and then get with an average man when she wants to settle, but still be cautious about everything while in the relationship and not baby him. If a woman wants only a child, there are options for that too. In any case, the woman should have fewer kids later in life. But always, always prioritise lifetime financial stability and security above all else. Ofcourse being child free by choice and single is the best thing if she wants the best quality of life.
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  26.  @jdsartre9520  if a woman has resources of her own she doesn’t have to bother about how valuable men think she is. Besides, even older women are far more valuable for younger men and older men, rather than the other way around.
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  27.  @maxdudomite  dude there is no coping involved. Cats are an upgrade to most men. And don’t men claim to be happier single without women? Women have even more advantages of being single. The only reason so many women get pushed to financial hardships is because of having to support dependents (children and husbands). Not having those drastically reduces stress, and makes life so much more easier for women. Europe is the first place on Earth where women started having lesser children or no children. Education and healthcare is free there. Quality of life is higher. It goes to show that women aren’t as interested in men and kids as everyone thinks. And look at China and Japan. There are birth rates are low. Most women find cats far more interesting than men because cats truly are far more interesting. Don’t make fun of women who live the same lifestyle as what you males (allegedly) aspire for- which is the single life. Stop being delusional.
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  28. Boring people call other people boring 😂
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  29. She didn’t realise that there was no perfect man. That was her mistake.
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  30. Yes older men should do what they want. If they leave, that becomes even better for older women. Older women can date younger men for s3x without spending any money. Most older women lose attraction for older men and don’t even want to sleep with them anymore because older men have issues with virility and performance. Younger men are better. And older women who want relationships have options in older men. Many older men want older women for their domestic life skills to run his home and be with him. But even feminine presence and companionship is valuable even if women those older women don’t do any work. That is why men like Jeff Bezos or King Charles who have money to hire endless help married older women with children from previous marriages. The ex husband leaving frees up their time so much after raising kids and being the caregiver of the family. That is why many older women remain single. It’s very freeing. Whether the ex husband was rich or poor, these older women are lucky because they don’t have to be the ones who give more caregiving for him. And younger women will eventually want more fertile, virile men. Older men who have money can hire help and then go to old age homes. Everyone wins.
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  31.  @JustASuscriber  no one is saying it doesnt matter at all. But what men do is blow it out of proportion for women whereas for men they downplay aging. Yes, if men or women want children they should settle young. It is not just women who should have children early but it is men too. Old sperm causes birth defects in children. Even sperm banks take sperm only until age 34 and some maximum up to age 39. That coincides with the egg quality of women also. Most of humanity has come from young seed only because for most of history men married young too. If more older men had children there will be more genetic issues in children. No where in the world, older men are preferred for marriage when younger men are available in huge numbers. Male competition for women is also a reality. In most countries average age gap between couples is very less. Only in stupid Manosphere circles they will be delusional. When it comes to aging, women have the advantage. Older women have go for younger, virile men if they want s3x and fun. No woman has to spend a dime for this. If older women want relationships they can go for older men. Older women are also valued because of their domestic skills, feminine presence and companionship. There is no shortage of older men looking for hospice care wives. But it is older women who don’t want relationships- 71% according to a survey. At their age what use is a man going to be for them? Most men are dependents who whine for everything from food, laundry and so much more and can’t do anything for themselves. And as they become older they become even more dependent and the woman has to manage everything- medication, hospital visits and so much more. Why would any older woman take on a man who is on his decline when he wasn’t useful to them until then and will be even less useful from then on? It is much more sensible for older women to stay single. Even high value men like King Charles, Jeff Bezos got married to older women. They have money to hire endless help. But they married older women for companionship and understanding. They don’t prefer 20 year virgins. You don’t understand high value men or any man who matters. Which older, low value man gets married to a high value woman in this way? No one. Because most men are useless for most women at any age. Aging negatively impacts men far more than women. All this stupidity to shame older women is not rooted in reality. Men don’t do better over women when it comes to aging from any angle.
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  32.  @shaunrogers219  most mn don’t have the finances. Outsourcing the same wrk that a wife does is not possible for most mn. I hope mn keep the same energy when the oldr wife goes for a yngr dude who is more v4ir 6ile and can “perform” better 😂 Oldr mn are less v5r 6ile and have lost “it” ☺️
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  33. ⁠ thedalillama  exactly. No point in simply serving others with no enjoyment of our own. This is what women are saying too. Women who live the single, child free life have even more fun and live longer.
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  34. Yes mn still look for mommy from a w6ma5n who is yngr than them. That’s the prblem.
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  35. He should have chosen better.
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  36.  @thepunisherxxx6804  that’s one of the reasons marrge is not worth it. Esp for wmn. Weight fluctuations are a big part of pregnancy and the subsequent chld rearing.
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  37.  @Pawdee ​​⁠ most men aren’t at peak attractiveness around 40. Some men maybe. Not most men. Even sperm banks won’t take sperm from 40 yo men, even if he looks decent for his age. 50% men have ED at age 40 and it is only downhill from there. T levels and all fertility markers go down for men as men age. Balding, gout happens to men too.
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  38. Isn’t that true for women also? All relationships are costly for women.
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  39. This is why women shouldn’t be prioritising men at all. Decentering men is the best thing any woman can do. Even getting with high value men is rarely worth it. It brings its own set of headaches, problems and control. But the competition for these men is so high and not worth the effort when the chance of success is low and after getting him, he is even more insufferable. Investing in herself with all her time and effort will give her far more rewards later on. Nothing is worth more than freedom. If a woman wants marriage and kids, she should play the field and then get with an average man when she wants to settle, but still be cautious about everything while in the relationship and not baby him. If a woman wants only a child, there are options for that too. In any case, the woman should have fewer kids later in life. But always, always prioritise lifetime financial stability and security above all else. Ofcourse being child free by choice and single is the best thing if she wants the best quality of life.
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  40.  @theonpointheavy4401  going to a job and making money is not at all hard. I should know because I make money myself. And yet you males keep crying your heart out that it is hard 🤣
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  41.  @thelucariamonarchs4889  dude that’s not it at all. The thing is most men want to play the field as much as they can. Most men want to be players and then want to find a good girl (unlike they themselves were) to get married. And after marriage, most men want to shortchange the wife and sleep around with other women by being sneaky. It is ridiculous that you mention that men have responsibilities and that’s why they don’t want to marry. But most men want to marry after playing the field because they want the free maid which comes with marriage.
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  42.  @strangerdanger8462 isn’t that true for women as well?
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  43.  @hectorzero8545  lol that’s a delulu take. Looks like you gaslght yourselves 🤣 Mn don’t even love their chldrn, leave alone anyone else. Also, mn lose their v8ir 6lity and still expect yngr wmn 🤣 Its giving thirsty and cr55py 🤦‍♀️
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  44.  @viggotannhauser7251  most men aren’t at peak attractiveness around 40. Some men maybe. Not most men. Even sperm banks won’t take sperm from 40 yo men, even if he looks decent for his age.
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  45. Yes older men should do what they want. If they leave, that becomes even better for older women. Older women can date younger men for s3x without spending any money. Most older women lose attraction for older men and don’t even want to sleep with them anymore because older men have issues with virility and performance. Younger men are better. And older women who want relationships have options in older men. Many older men want older women for their domestic life skills to run his home and be with him. But even feminine presence and companionship is valuable even if women those older women don’t do any work. That is why men like Jeff Bezos or King Charles who have money to hire endless help married older women with children from previous marriages. The ex husband leaving frees up their time so much after raising kids and being the caregiver of the family. That is why many older women remain single. It’s very freeing. Whether the ex husband was rich or poor, these older women are lucky because they don’t have to be the ones who give more caregiving for him.
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  46.  @brigandboy1425  but men say that women’s value only decreases as they age. You are contradicting what most men say.
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  47.  @niggaflies  those numbers are few and far in between. Even back then, only fewer marriages were good marriages. Women had to star because it was literally a hostage situation for her. It’s so funny to me that a lot of men say that marriage is oppressive to men and men get nothing in marriage while at the same time so many men vehemently want women to marry young and be stuck. No one has to be married if they don’t want to be. Just because things were done a certain way back then, doesn’t mean it has to be done that way right now. If you know anything about the past, things were anything but easy or good. There were periods of good and things were easy now and then. But we only hear from the good voices. History is a story written by survives. But there was a lot of suffering and lot of hardships too. Especially men were running around being used as to*ols by even more powerful and ruthless men. Even now Putin and Zelensky have done what men always do. Can you think of a country invading another in these modern times? Now those two clowns wil sit at the top comfortably. Now Ukraine has gone into billions of dollars of debt. It is the average common people, low level men who are suffering. So many people have l*st their lives, gotten displaced and lost their homes, they have to pay the debt of their governments once things get back to normal. This was a way of life for most of the human population. In 1800s life expectancy for both men and women were under 35. For most of history men had much, much lower life expectancy. Things were that hard back then. The only time world was relatively peaceful was post WW2.
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  48.  @theonpointheavy4401  they live longer to a multitude of reasons. Yes pregnancy and child birth is taxing on the body. But not doing caregiving is also a big reason. You obviously don’t understand how difficult caregiving is.
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  49. Yes mn these days are la5zy. Mn of previous generations were extremely hard working and will go the distance. Mn today have low sprm counts, less test6osterone than mn of previous generations. It figures in da5ting too. All the addctns affect mn today (prn, social media, sports, video games, gambling, alcohol, substances and so on). So wmn are ch8osing the wiser option of get their own education, m8ney, chldrn, etc. Wmn can have it all without having one ma4n.
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  50. Actually Eastern countries like China, Japan, Korea have the lowest marriage and birth rates. Korea for example has women’s movements like 4B (no to dating, no to s3x, no to marriage, no to child bearing and rearing).
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