Comments by "Manifest" (@manifest2203) on "WOMEN need GAME too: understanding how women get commitment" video.

@thelucariamonarchs4889 dude that’s not it at all. The thing is most men want to play the field as much as they can. Most men want to be players and then want to find a good girl (unlike they themselves were) to get married. And after marriage, most men want to shortchange the wife and sleep around with other women by being sneaky. It is ridiculous that you mention that men have responsibilities and that’s why they don’t want to marry. But most men want to marry after playing the field because they want the free maid which comes with marriage.
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@thelucariamonarchs4889 I didn’t assume anything. You are missing the point I am making that when most men are only interested in hanging out with a lot of women, that means that men are afraid of commitment. So you are contradicting yourself when you say that it is because of responsibilities. It is not. The reason is because of the desire to play the field, not the responsibilities. And yes I am a woman. And it is not only men who want to play the field and settle down. Women want that too. Most women don’t marry early now either. The average age of first marriage for men and women is around 30 and 29.
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@Wilky_27 the question is whether you will make sure your daughter has her own money or not? Lmao it is an awful ideology to gamble away your daughter’s financial security over a misplaced sense of pleasing your son in law 😂
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But most men aren’t relationship worthy. Most women waste a lot of time and money in bad relationships. Only children matter for women. It is better to invest in herself, save up for children and have one or two children in early 30s or late 30s. That is a better strategy than wasting time with one man. Professional success is much more rewarding.
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⁠ @keylanoslokj1806 but most men are flaky in all their endeavours. So many men aren’t working anymore it seems because they prefer to be unemployed over working a low status job, they don’t want to pay child support to support their children, they don’t show up as the father and do any real parenting, they run away from responsibilities. Even most of the vio*lent crimes are committed by men, most of the addictions are indulged by men. So yes, women are right that “men did it all”. Facts don’t care about your feelings.
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That is not true. Religion, cultural traditions and HW are totally in favour of men. Religion practically teaches women to put up with BS. Religion is what first started this “submission” BS. Even in a horrible marriage where the husband be*ats the wife, the Church people come to “pray together” where they brain wash the woman to stay in the marriage. In HW it is always older men who are projected as handsome and shown as the male beauty ideal over younger, more virile men. They always put younger women with older men. That is changing now, but I truly wish they cast more handsome hunks instead of these ugly older men. And culture is nothing but against women. She is supposed to be the good little wife taking care of the kids 24*7 but hubby can go to golfing, boys night out and what not. Most men aren’t accountable in anything including parenting his kids.
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⁠ @marktapley7571 that is what women are saying and doing too. Most men aren’t relationship worthy. Most women waste a lot of time and money in bad relationships. Only children matter for women. It is better to invest in herself, save up for children and have one or two children in early 30s or late 30s. That is a better strategy than wasting time with one man. Professional success is much more rewarding.
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But most men aren’t relationship worthy. Most women waste a lot of time and money in bad relationships. Only children matter for women. It is better to invest in herself, save up for children and have one or two children in early 30s or late 30s. That is a better strategy than wasting time with one man. Professional success is much more rewarding.
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@thelucariamonarchs4889 again, you are illogical and make no sense. Looks like you can’t process logical thinking and resorted to emotion.
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But most men aren’t relationship worthy. Most women waste a lot of time and money in bad relationships. Only children matter for women. It is better to invest in herself, save up for children and have one or two children in early 30s or late 30s. That is a better strategy than wasting time with one man. Professional success is much more rewarding.
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But most men aren’t relationship worthy. Most women waste a lot of time and money in bad relationships. Only children matter for women. It is better to invest in herself, save up for children and have one or two children in early 30s or late 30s. That is a better strategy than wasting time with one man. Professional success is much more rewarding.
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Exactly. That is what the women are saying too. Most men aren’t relationship worthy. Most women waste a lot of time and money in bad relationships. Only children matter for women. It is better to invest in herself, save up for children and have one or two children in early 30s or late 30s. That is a better strategy than wasting time with one man. Professional success is much more rewarding.
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@cosmictreason2242 without having s3x before marriage, how can women know if he is good in s3x and has good equipment? Not all men are good in pleasing women in bed.
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@THX5000 men don’t value love. Any girl would be ok for them. Most men will sleep with multiple women if they had that option.
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But most men aren’t relationship worthy. Most women waste a lot of time and money in bad relationships. Only children matter for women. It is better to invest in herself, save up for children and have one or two children in early 30s or late 30s. That is a better strategy than wasting time with one man. Professional success is much more rewarding.
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@Wilky_27 yes trad wives were the norm because women didn’t have any choice. But modern men aren’t trad men in any way. Most of them cannot support the household with a single income. And most men have s3x before marriage.
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