Youtube hearted comments of Michelle Lam (@michellelam5268).

  1. i like what u said about managing finances!! im 19 and have never been in a relationship, but when i have been on dates, many guys would flex their $$ and how much they would spend and thats a big no for me. my family is pretty middle class, but everyone in my family is incredibly great at investing and saving their $$. ofc, we still treat ourselves and enjoy luxuries here and there, but we are realistic and we dont go spending our $$ where it is not neccessary. i also learned something new today: yellow flags!! :)
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  2. when i become a teacher, im going to recommend my students to watch ur youtube channel <3 i just learned that i was using the term "jealous" incorrectly for the past 19 years of my life. now i can use envy XD
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  3. IM LIVING FOR THE WIGS HAHA
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  4. i like when ana gets on savage mode XD she kills ppl w her intelligence
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  5. i feel like im stuck between being passive aggressive and assertive. i get scared of how ppl will respond bc ive had ppl negatively respond to when i was speaking up for myself or when i felt uncomfortable. also guys are intimated by how i know what i want bc they’re use to girls being submissive 🤢
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  6. omg ana this is so irrelevant i watched the video BUT I JUST NOTICED U ARE VERIFIED!!!! congrats <3 i remember watching ur video on lana del ray's post XD u were one of the first youtubers i watched at the beginning of this pandemic. 2 years holy
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  7. awwwww i love ur kitty!! she looks like she wants attention🥺🥺🥺🥰
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  8. im from Toronto, Canada!! i think your precious video was so insightful btw. i agree 100% there is nothing controversial about women vocalizing what they need from men in order to be an ally and vice versa!! most of my closest friends are men and both parties have gained insight as to how the patriarchy negatively impacts both men and women. i also found it ironic that men (some not all) complain about how complex and passive women are and yet, when we state what we need, they resent us. it’s like a double standard and it doesn’t make sense. i think this conversation is very much needed ! as much as i love u alone Ana, I can’t wait for more future collabs (maybe u can do a video with ur bf about his opinions on certain topics, ofc if u don’t for professional reasons, i completely understand !!)
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  9. ana looks so festive!! she can literally pull of any look <3
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  10. i agree with u Ana!! i think disagreements and fights r two differently completely things. but i think a disagreement can escalate to a fight and cause the relationship to plumish, or in severe cases end. ive never been in a relationship (romantic one at least) but in terms of friendships, i would identify a fight to be when it reaches the point of ppl disrespecting each other. i think the moment someone starts to take their anger out on u instead of communicating what the issue is at hand is when a fight begins. i have a close friend i disagree with on many things but we always have open conversations!! we respectfully disagree (as you quoted) and we come to terms with the fact that we won’t always share the same opinions or outlook on everything but that doesn’t mean we can’t open our minds or hear the other person out. for fights, ive had past fights w my former friends in hs and i think a lot of our fights began when one person became petty and began holding resentment against the other person in fear of how it would affect the relationship or other person. lol those friendships didn’t last long for obvious reasons but i can definitely say ive learned a lot from those fights. ever since i started university, i learned to communicate instead of repressing my anger/negative emotions so things don’t ever escalate to a fight.
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  11. i love your grandma and grandpas relationship🥺that’s the type of love i aspire to have someday. something calm and comes naturally. like it doesn’t feel forced. it brings u a sense of peace. their love seemed extremely pure and genuine. it reminds me a lot of my parents relationship too. i also wanted to add that i agree with her advice: don’t date online. my friends have all got into online relationships and it always ends badly especially when u have never met the person irl.
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  12. i have really bad anxiety but it fluctuates. some days its rly bad and other days i dont even notice it. i love your take on it!! a lot of my friends say im really self aware and in tune with my emotions. i love ur presence its so calming and comforting. thank u ana for this channel <3
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  13. lol i wish you were my prof for my zoom classes
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  14. i sent this video my best friend:) she has seasonal depression and depression on top of that. since all university campuses are closed rn, she cant go outside as much and we're in Canada where the winter days are extremely long and dark. she told me she's gonna go invest in a happy lamp!! her university had one and that's where she use to go for her study sessions but now she cant for obvious reasons. thanks ana <3
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  15. i like how formal and concise dr todd's analysis was on the recent frenemies podcast. trisha and ethan should invite him instead...their relationship would be much more productive.
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  16. YAYYYY ANA!!! lol when u said day 1s I felt special🥰💓I am excited to see u thrive. Ur content is very comforting esp when I am stressed or have nothing to do😂😂
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