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  21. ​ @dashl8880  You know I find it telling that when women initiating divorce more often than men is brought up as a problem your immediate reaction is that this must somehow be being caused by something the men are doing wrong - as tho women couldnt possibly be doing something which was negative or had a negative impact without men being the ultimate authors behind it. Which is in itself a sexist outdated attitude even if it does favour women. I doubt if men (more educated or otherwise) were initiating divorce at far higher rates than women - and they were also the ones who supported divorce laws which either favored them or were for non fault asset and custody splits (which also favors them seeing as they want the split) you would ask - well what have these women done wrong? How have their attitudes or actions caused the men to divorce them? As tho the men weren't capable of being the ones in the wrong. More likely you would be asking - how can we change the law to protect these women better when these selfish men divorce them? But of course its inconceivable to ask this on behalf of the men - because being men they must be the cause of all problems caused by either sex and bear responsibility for them. Now the reasons you say some women divorce may well apply in SOME cases - but to suggest this is the reason why the discrepancy in divorce initiation between the sexes is so great is far from the reality seeing as women who ARENT making more money also divorce more. And "emotional labour" is such a meaningless term it can be used to justify pretty much anything. Let me ask you - what if the divorce initiation rate never evens out? What if women are simply more likely to grow tired of their partner and want a change at rates far greater than men? What if men are simply more easily satisfied in a relationship? What if the things that cause this aren't caused by the bad beahviour of men but are either inherent to women or are caused by womens attitudes which may be changeable (attitudes which Im sure if applied to men would be called toxic)? Why is this not possible? It seems far more likely to be the truth to me. And if it is the truth - then there's no doubt that the current situation surrounding divorce and custody law is unsustainable seeing as these laws which are supposedly equal, are utilized and initiatied in such unequal ratio by one of the sexes (women) - which makes them inherently unequal and unfair to men. You would do well to examine some of your outdated attitudes surrounding men and women and think about why the conclusion you've reached on this matter casts men as the ones who must surely be responsible for the problem.
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