Comments by "Fangroth" (@Fangroth) on "Legion Of Men"
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If modern women hadn't degraded themselves to the state of, sex being the only thing they have to offer, this wouldn't be even a talking point.
The generation of women, from my mother's time, were either virgins or very low body count, they were loyal, knew how to cook, clean, wash, take care of the house, take care of the kids and they worked as well.
My father was never the same after my mother divorced him (28 years of marriage), my uncle was afraid after that, her younger sister would leave him as well (they are married around 40 years now)
When a guy has a good wife and he loses her, it's the reverse situation of when he divorces a bad wife.
If you asked, my father or any of my uncles that married her sisters, or even the late husband of my former female co-worker, the same age of my mother, if any of them would trade their wives for robots, they would laugh at you.
Unfortunately modern women wanted to become men, without the struggles men go through like army draft, physical jobs or the duty to have to provide for the family.
Being traditional, is considered slavery.
They wanted all the benefits, without the effort, women from previous generations had to put up.
This is why they have become so easily replaced.
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I'm from Portugal.
I considered myself blessed to have witnessed the transition from my mother's generation (50s) to mine (70s).
Women in my mother's generation had the body count of 0-1. They all knew how to cook, clean, take care of kids, be a stay at home mother. They all had long lasting marriages.
However they had low education.
Now from my generation forward, girls had access to school, universities etc.
What I witnessed was, daughters refusing to learn from their mother's, how to cook, clean because in their minds, they were going to earn so much money they could hire a domestic to do it for them.
Fast forward to today, they work, most are not married, some quit or are on the verge of quitting their degrees because they want to do something easier.
They don't know how to cook, clean, they don't want kids or if they do, the parents need to help. Also none is good enough for them.
So, yes, it is the woman's fault.
If the same standards that women have today would be applied to my father's or even grandfather's generation, none of them would get married.
None had 6 feet tall, 6 figures income or 6 pack. All they had was a job and means to survive.
Also, should men be shamed for being: mechanics, lorry drivers, fisherman, fireman, policeman, Plummers, electricians or any other profession that doesn't make 6 figures income ?
Last time I check those are vital roles in our society.
The UK, currently where I work has a shortage of lorry drivers because they are treated like sh1t and with Brexit the Eastern European lorry drivers went to other EU countries.
Men have now to work 10 times as harder in order to be able to access a woman 10 times as worse than their mother's or grandmothers.
My personal opinion: Western countries (the ones with good economies) are only good to earn money. Marriage is better elsewhere.
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For me, the biggest turn-off from any woman is their disloyalty. I'm perfectly fine with divorce.
I'm not ok with adultery. In fact, my biggest fear is being cheated and never knowing that until the day I die, while everyone around you knows. Like my grandfather and my tutor (he's still alive, btw).
A man to cheat has to put effort into it and make the first move.
A woman to cheat only has to accept a man advance on her, and it only has to happen once.
After that, usually, the husband can't even look at his wife the same way.
Heard too many stories where the wife cheated because:
- Someone needed to take care of the kids. The husband stayed because the wife made more money.
- He wasn't being masculine enough.
- He fell into depression because someone important died.
- His business wasn't going well.
- He travelled for work
- She travelled for work.
- The AP was good-looking.
- She was drunk on a girls' night out.
- She got too close to a male family member like the brother or cousin.
- She was bored at home.
- The AP gave her attention and validation.
- She was chasing Chad, Tyrone, and Bad Boy validation.
- An ex came back into her life.
- The husband was the guy she settled for.
- The boss was chasing her.
- The husband got into an accident and was unable to provide, and she needed to look after herself.
- The husband wasn't able to give her kids.
- The husband shows weakness.
- Her pair bonding was damaged.
- Her girlfriends influenced her.
- Someone better showed up.
- She wanted a one night stand.
- It was just sex no feelings involved.
- She let someone get too close of her.
- Etc.
I had an uncle who got cheated on his first marriage after 2-3 months. He got cheated again on his second marriage despite having 3 daughters with his wife. His 3rd wife spent all his money while he was working abroad, my mother saw her with another man but my uncle still married her and has been with her since then.
The upstairs neighbours had kids I used to play with when I was a child. The wife cheated on the husband years later with her boss and got pregnant of him.
The husband ended up raising the kid until he was 18 years old. His wife wasn't even that good looking, she was short and fat.
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Me and my sister once checked a statistic, on women preferences:
1. Western Europeans
2. Africans
3. Asians
For men, it changed a bit:
1. Asians
2. Western Europeans
3. Africans
We laughed and put aside. But after watching these types of videos, now I know why ...
A good thing, about being an asian guy is: you know where you stand in women preferences, so you don't even bother to waste your time and focus on other more important things, like helping your family, in this case, my mother.
This is why I ignore when people say: "Not all women are like that." Regarding a negative trait.
Yeah, but they all share the same preferences ...
Just like men, women also want attractive guys.
Luckily for me, asians seem to have more tendencies towards solitude.
If I was born again, I would chose, to be asian again. After learning about female nature, I don't think I wanna get involved with one.
In fact my younger sister, who studies, things like astrology, once wondered after a conversation, where I explained to her, my history with women, if I didn't had a traumatic experience in a former life, with a woman.
When a woman asks a man: "Who hurt you ?"
She doesn't have any idea how heartless and cruel she's being. That shows the level of sympathy of the so called: kind, loving, nurturing gender.
Nope, all they do is bear babies. The rest, they can be just as cruel as men, if not worst.
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For me, the greatest loss in modern society is the traditional women I grew up with.
The ones that stayed at home, cooking, ckeaning, taking care of the kids, sewing, etc.
Women like these are irreplaceable in society, in my opinion. They are the ones that raise the kids, educate them, take care of the house while the husband is out there grinding. They were not pretty. Some were fat, but they were hard workers and loyal. Looking at my mother, she saved our family so much money by buying the best deals on the supermarket, making soup with leftover food, sewing cloth so we could reuse them, making sure my father was rested and well fed for the next day at work, making sure his clothes were ready and washed. Eventually, she had to work to provide extra income for my younger sister.
The way I see it, modern women are completely useless. They are just weak men.
They don't have the strength, the reflexes, the stamina, they can't be drafted, they can't work on physical jobs, they can't work in infrastructure, they don't want low paying jobs, they don't want to do any of the traditional roles, despite earning the same if not more than men they still want to be provided like a traditional woman, if they have kids they don't want more than 2, they might divorce and take everything because they aren't happy the list goes on.
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My co-workers say, I don't look like, I'm 47 years old. I explain to them: I don't smoke, I don't drink alcohol, not having a wife and kids to worry about, saved me from stress.
Also, having a physical job, helps me keep myself fit. Having a silent home, to rest after a hard day at work, is priceless.
I have colleagues with physical problems all the time. It's either the legs, the foot, the shoulder. People don't take care of themselves and that's what happens.
Thank you F3minism, for liberating us men, from the oppression of having to sacrifice ourselves for, women.
You are all, now strong, independent and need no man, you go Queens 👑
I heard the US, army needs more people.
Time to draft women perhaps ?
After all, we are all equal. Equal rights, means equal fights.
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When these women say they are the Queens 👑 they remind me off, the evil Queen from Snow White.
- She envied Snow White beauty, just like so many of them envy, younger girls.
- They are narcissists living off the attention and validation they get from the internet, just like the evil Queen, lived off the compliments of the magic mirror.
- They won't have a happy ending just like the evil Queen.
Snow White on the other hand, was a true Princess. Learned to do all the basic shores, the evil Queen punished her with, took care of the house, while the 7 Dwarves were working on the mines. Ended up marrying a Prince, after he woke up her up, after she was poisoned by the evil Queen.
Ironically Disney hired the witch Rachel Zegler to do the role of Snow White, when she was far more suited to do the evil Queen role.
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Years ago, I was chatting with an English elderly co-worker, he told me he met a Nigerian fellow, he had like 8 to 9 kids.
He asked to the Nigerian fellow, why he had so many kids.
He replied with: "There's nothing else to do."
We laughed and we talked about how much more entertainment England had, like football, parks, video games, traveling, etc. So many ways of enjoying life.
There was a documentary from Brasil.
In the document a Brazilian poor family was interviewed.
The husband was a sugar cane worker.
He had 4-5 children. His wife was pregnant.
She was 25 years old.
She told, she ran away from home and if she knew what was going to happen, she wouldn't have done it.
In poor countries, people are still having kids.
People in developed countries could do the same, but they want a better life thus they don't want to have kids or just 1-2.
I believe that television and internet are making people grow further apart.
Decades ago, there was already an ongoing debate about people wasting too much time in front of the television. The joke about the fat guy, sitting in the couch, drinking beer, eating pizza, while watching television.
Now, with the internet and smartphones, people can stand next to each other and nothing happens, because they are busy looking af their smartphones.
I believe in order to make people interact with each other, (because it's from interaction socialising happens, which than leads to guys meeting women and dating happening), the internet and if we want to go further, television needs to be removed.
Brainwashing, bad ideas, bad influence (TikToks for example) won't be spreading, as easily, without the internet.
This will never happen.
People want to live in more advanced countries, with better quality of life, more technology, not less.
When a country starts to be more technological advanced , people start getting more educated, more ambitious, marriages start being left for a later stage in life and the number of babies being born, starts shrinking.
I would say, you can't have a technological advanced country, with all it's benefits brought by technology, without the repercussions of it.
For example: my father was 4th grade, my mother was 6th grade. They had 2 kids.
I have 12 years of school and 10 years of university: single at 47 years old.
My younger sister is graduated and she's still studing in other fields: single at 37 years old.
My cousin, is graduated, works as a bank manager: single at around my age.
My female co-worker (secretary) and her late husband (IT technician) had more studies than my mother and father. They had 1 kid.
Their daughter is graduated, wants to change careers: single, she's on her 40s.
An elderly doctor, that owns a clinic near my house, has a daughter. She's graduated as nurse, 47 years old, single.
My generation had a better quality of life and studies than my parents generation. Most of us are single.
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To the girl talking about her grandparents, her grandfather chased her grandmother, probably because: she was a virtuous woman (meaning low body count 0-2), she behaved like a lady (no false acusations, she didn't told him he was creep, she probably was polite).
I find it highly hypocritical of these women who don't want to behave like their grandmothers, because that's being opressed by the patriarchy, telling men how their grandparent used to chase their grandmothers.
Take a look in the mirror sweetie: you are not your grandmother.
Also, I noticed how she kept saying: "The only one", she make it seems like she's frustrated by only one guy, approached her.
Also: why the hell she keeps waving her finger near her mouth ?
I'm curious to see in the next decades, how many thousands of western women (if not millions), need to die alone, till they understand that f-e-m-i-n-i-s-m doesn't work.
Here's a story of Strong Successful Male: which shows how women use men and than get used.
A guy, was in love with a high-school girl. For 3 years, she kept him waiting for her to lose her V card with him. College comes and she breaks up with him, not only that one week after he gets invited to go to a party where she is with another guy, he invited her to go to his room and she went with him.
He got used for 3 years for his attention and validation. He blocked her and never talked with her again. Meanwhile their mutual friends mocked him for being the guy who waited for her.
Years after, they meet at a bar, she's with one of their mutual girlfriends and she comes and wants to hug him, like nothing happens. He avoids her.
After many times this happened, for weeks, she finally forced the guy to talk to her outside his apartment.
She tells him, she was far away from home, that she let that guy, go too far with her and after he blocked her (the guy that waited 3 years for her) she was in a dark place and ended up sleeping with 15 guys at college, she only realised, what she was doing after the guys she slept with, didn't even remembered her name, because they didn't even bothered.
Now she was willing to have sex with him as many times as it was needed till he forgave her.
I call this karma: she used the guy in the story for his free attention and validation for 3 years. Afterwards she got used for sex, without getting a relationship by the guys at college.
Now she's reduced to a low value 304, willing to open her legs for forgiveness.
Had she kept being loyal to the guy in the story, she probably would be married by now.
SMHD 🤦♂️
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An elderly co-worker, which I used to live in the same shared house, told me this: people used to marry because they needed each other, to survive.
For me, women used to stay in marriages, because they needed the husband to provide for them.
In fact in ancient Muslim societies, my co-worker stated that men were allowed to marry 4 wives, because men died in battles and the widows, were left without a provisioner.
There's too much incentive to not marry in western countries. For both men and women.
For men, why marry one woman, if you can have easy access to multiple women, when you are established in life (Leonardo Di Caprio)?
For women, they can earn their own money, have as many sexual partners as they want. A man is only seen as a upgrade to their lifestyle.
This is why they all want high earners that make the same if not preferably more than them.
Why stay married, if they are rewarded for walking away and possible upgrade ?
In my case, I'm not interested in having kids and a woman, brings nothing in to my life.
I can cook, clean, take care of myself. Not only that, I save more money that way and I can help my mother financially. If I was married I would have to work more hours, spend more money and there's things, I would not be able to afford, like buying a new laptop, with cash ready.
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I was 30 years old, life wasn't going as I expected, when I told my younger sister I wanted to be single. My younger sister told me, my mother was very sad to hear that. Fast forward today after seeing all the divorces and relationship failures around us, she changed her opinion.
Well, my mother was the one who taught me it's better to be alone than in bad company.
Also, I send her money every month.
I have a co-worker from Macedonia who had to stop sending money to his parents because his wife was pregnant.
His parents weren't too happy about it.
Fast forward to the present day, he has a cute, adorable daughter. The little cutie once came to me out of nowhere and high-five me 😍
That day, her father looked exhausted. He had come to visit his wife. She had given birth to a son, but he didn't look happy at all.
Upon explaining this to my mother, she replied that my co-worker is exhausted from all the sacrifice he's been putting on his daughter, and now a newborn means: more expenses.
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As a gamer myself, I miss being young. Exchanging, Zx spectrum game tapes with my school friends, to play at home, going to arcades to play Street Fighter 2, Fatal Fury, etc.
One thing playing games, never brought me was: STDs, unwanted pregnancies and being stuck with someone, just because she got pregnant.
I've heard this happened several times, to guys that wanted to pump and dump, but the girl got pregnant and so they had to marry them.
Living a life of partying, drinking and casual sex like so many girls are doing in their college years, have nasty consequences: like aging fast and destroying their pair bonding, not to mention even after marrying, they still want to keep going to girls night out, getting drunk and cheat on their husbands.
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One of the things I love about this channel is that the truth is told without any sugarcoating.
If you want to date attractive women, you have to put in the work.
As Strong Successful Male said, female nature is the same all around the world. You have to build the best version of yourself and have an abundance mindset in order to have high self-esteem and not dating low value women, thinking that's the best you will ever get.
Once, I was in a supermarket, and this beautiful Eastern european blond girl was sitting waiting for her boyfriend to finish paying for groceries. In my opinion, she had too much make-up, and she looked like she was fishing for attention (men glancing at her).
I thought to myself: I better not enter this game as I don't want to get beat up by a jealous boyfriend. Instead, I started glancing at her boyfriend and looking for what he had that was attractive in her eyes. He looked like a soldier. Good muscles, shaved hair, perfect body, but not a bodybuilder, just on his 20s fit. Perfect skin, etc.
Suddenly, the girl comes and grabs her boyfriend and gives me an angry look 😠
I guess she thought I was after him 😂
This is why you need to be careful when walking outside. People do notice where you are looking at.
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The problem is: the amount of chameleons out there ...
I'm a subscriber of Strong Successful Male and I lost account on how many stories, the girl claimed, "she wasn't in to those things, wanted to take things slowly", just for the guy to find out, he was the one, who had to wait, while others got to sleep with her on the first night, because: she loved him and he was special ...
There was one guy, that was so I infuriated after finding out this about his GF, during their encounter at his house, that he didn't even wanted to sleep with her, she immediately broke off with her, the next day.
Now the most shocking part: all his female friends called him, on it because, according to them, that's what girls do ...
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I used to live with an elderly co-worker in the same house for 2 years. That was years ago.
I learned a lot from the old man.
We are both Portuguese, but while I'm asian 5,9 feet tall, he was Portuguese around 5,57 feet tall.
He used to tell stories.
- Respect is earned, not imposed.
That happened when he was a corporal in the army barracks. He was put in charge of a platoon of the worst conscripts of the army barracks.
He explained he gave them panflets to write, and upon checking and noticing 2 were missing, he ordered the whole platoon to redo it again.
From that point on, he earned their respect because they understood he wasn't fooling around.
- Couldn't be in a relationship for more than a couple of years.
He was addicted to sex and women.
His body count was 12.
He told me he once spent all time groping his assistant at the shop he owned despite her being married.
She was complaining all the time but did nothing because she enjoyed it.
Had an affair with a married woman. She told him she was getting revenge on her husband for forcing her to marry him or he would kill himself.
Tried to marry, had 2 daughters, but ended up divorcing his wife. He was just not meant to be married.
Women want experienced guys, not boys.
Women want guys who know what they are doing. They don't want inexperienced guys.
They also want: problem solvers.
What attracts women: confidence.
Unfortunately, to get experience, a guy has to get laid.
My 2 best friends (we were 3 nerds) started their sexual experiences with p-r-o-s-t-i-t-u-t-e-s.
However, they didn't progress from there. They didn't go to the gym and improved their careers or status in society.
One got married because his mother arranged a girl for him. They were religious.
However, the girl ended up running away with another guy and took the house furniture because my friend spent too much time playing games instead of paying attention to her. Eventually, his mother had to take him to the hospital as he wasn't coming to work and was on the verge of being fired, and he wasn't eating properly due to gaming addiction.
As for my other friend, he was a communist intellectual. He always had problems finding work and girls.
As for me, I'm basically screwed. Due to my religious beliefs sex outside marriage is a no-no.
So I won't get any experience.
Too many times, I heard guys being taken advantage of by former 304s that go to the Church searching for a sucker to marry them.
One story the guy was dating a girl he met at church. They went to her college meeting, and during the party, one of her male colleagues started joking about her wild period at college.
Upon confronting the guy in a private place, the guy telling the story is asked by her colleague if he really wants to know. The colleague then took him to a computer room, and they logged in to a p-hub account, and there it was: videos of her having sex with multiple guys.
Upon arguing with her while they were driving back, he ended the relationship.
He basically asked anyone reading his story where to find good women since the Church wasn't the place for it anymore.
Being an Asian myself, I find it easier to ignore women. Since they see no interest in me.
If society was more prude and women weren't as promiscuous as they are now, I would see value in chasing women. But the way they behave now, a guy feels like he got the participation trophy 🏆
As Legion of Men explained: Asian women go have fun during college with other guys and then marry with the guy, their family decides.
Who honestly wants to be that guy ?
I sure as hell don't.
Rather be single than with a woman who has been run through by an unknown number of guys during college 🤢
Edit: my older co-worker also told me something that matches Legion of Men information.
He told me if a guy is with a beautiful woman, the women will try to conquer that guy.
I think there was an American movie that described this exact situation.
In the movie, the hot blond girl took her mother white leather dress to the college party. Unfortunately, red wine is spilt on her dress, and that's impossible to remove even in the laundry.
Upon seeing it, her nerdy colleague takes advantage of the situation and offers to buy a new dress for her in exchange for her to go out with him in front of the other girls. So he could lure them to him.
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#1 Friends
I've stopped having them.
They are a waste of time.
I've seen it happen to me and other people around me.
#2 Social media
Never a problem for me. I hate it with a passion. Cesspool of stupidity. Society would be much better without it.
How do I know this ?
I was there, when it didn't exist.
#3 Video games
You can use them to learn more about yourself.
For example I learned in World of Warcraft that:
- I hate leading the way to other players (Tank role).
- I like helping others (Healer).
- I hate competition and confrontation (PVP)
- I'm a team player. I don't like playing alone.
- I hate grinding.
- I'm not good playing the Auction House. Which means, I'm not good at investing.
- I don't like guilds, even if I'm in one I don't like GM position or officer position. Which means, supervisor and manager are not roles, I should apply to in real life. Because you have to be a leader and a rough guy when time comes to remove someone both in game and real life.
- I'm not successful financially, both in game and real life.
- I don't like investing time in one character and end game content. Which means I don't like specialization. I noticed I don't like studying. Had I knew this when I was younger I would had avoided wasting years of my life in University and useless courses. I would had probably immigrated to the UK and started working at 18 years old. I could have a full paid house and a retirement by now
An elderly once asked, me after learning I played World of Warcraft.
He asked me: "Do you consider yourself a peaceful individual ?'
I answered: " Yes."
He laughed and said: "You are not peaceful, you are just shy."
Also, since this is the only thing I like to do on my free time besides watching YouTube that means I don't spend money in traveling, drinking, going out, socializing, etc.
This is all activities I tried in the past and they are a waste of time. I pretend I like them but that's it.
For example I work in the UK and I never visited London.
As for socializing, it's done at work and that's all I have patience for.
Finally: I just play a few hours during my days off. As for normal days probably 1 hour or most of the times none as I don't have time for it.
#4 Sleep
No problems in this section.
I love resting after an intense day of physical work. I don't need a gym because my work place is the gym.
#5 Lack of emotional control
No problems in this section.
#6 Blaming others
I hate doing that.
I'm completely the opposite. I blame myself for everything.
Now let's use this same rules on modern women.
#1 Friends.
Who wants to be around a GF whose friends are constantly poisoning her mind with bad ideas and sometimes if not most of the times, against you ?
#2 Social media.
Modern women are so addicted to social media that you wonder if they even have a functioning brain.
Sheep to the core.
#3 Video games.
Modern women hates them, so they don't have a problem here.
#4 Sleep.
Nothing to be said here.
#5 Lack of emotional control
I guess this summarised modern women.
They are all like that.
#6 Blaming others
Another fundamental characteristic of modern women.
So out of 6 issues Modern women has a problem is 4 areas.
What a prize. Can't wait to get married (sarcasm).
In the end it all boils down to: what you really want ?
To be successful ?
To be rich ?
To have multiple women ?
To be a graduate, like a doctor for example ?
Married and have kids ?
Something else ?
Find out this before starting.
I had a cousin, whose desire was to be rich.
He's now a bank manager.
I have another one that has graduated and it's happily married and has kids.
In my case I never knew what I wanted.
I just did what I was told: go to school, got to University, get a job, marry and make a family.
However if you lack ambition this will never come reality, just like a wish that doesn't materialize if you don't believe in it.
At my core all I wanted was to be at peace of mind and spirit. Just be an ordinary citizen.
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Same.
For each man that refuses to marry, doesn't matter his income, one woman will die alone. Because the vast majority of women are spenders. After they wasted their most fertile years, after they spent all their money, they are counting with a sucker to, allow them, to live in his house and take care of her kids.
Their safety needs, to be removed. Action should have consequences.
No man should settle for a woman that gave herself, for lust, pleasure, money etc.
Women need to learn the hard way, none wants a 304.
For me it's easy to not feel attracted to them. Too many of them already exhibit bad signs like: tattoos, Ill manners, having a child without the father present, etc.
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I'm not from the US, but honestly it's sad to see parents spending so much money, so their daughters can go to college and for what ?
To get indoctrinated, plowed by the guys at college and than get a degree, to go work on the corporate world and serve her boss in more ways than one.
This is the second time I hear that the quiet ones are the more wild ones. Strong Successful Male also told that Conservative girls in college are the wildest ones.
It's no wonder guys are either chosing to stay single and just build their careers and hookup or travel overseas to find a wife.
Of course there's still the rare ones, but they already have too many suitors.
I remember a story about a former virgin, now married, complaining that her husband chased her hard, when they were dating, just for her to find out, he had slept with 600 women, before her. She was worried, he was going to cheat on her.
The funny thing is: her husband got the prized virgin, while she got the guy, every woman was after.
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I'm 47 years old and I don't drink alcohol.
For me it's something that isn't good to my health. I don't go out at night, I prefer to stay at home.
My mother and younger sister are the same.
My sister may go to a restaurant, with some friends, but that's it.
Anyone, stupid enough to get themselves drunk in the middle of the night, has only themselves to blame for, what happens afterwards.
Society should tell everyone, to be responsible and not think we live in a safe world, where the cops are there after one minute. Especially to women.
As someone who has a younger sister, that's 10 years younger, I consider, modern F3minism a movement that doesn't benefit w0men at all. They want the freedom of choice, to do whatever they want, without the accountability that comes with it.
That's not how the world works.
Now we have women, who are pathological liars and professional victims, that ruin everything for the actual victims.
When a woman say, her ex was toxic and an abuser, I have a really hard time believing that, because: that's what they all say.
I was at a training course at my work. It was about conflicts at work. When questioned if we had a conflict situation, a woman on her 60s, stand up and told about her ex. I will leave to the people reading this, what she said about him ...
As the video told, the man that are abusers will continue to be abusers and the ones that actually care, are now avoiding women because they don't want to be falsely accused.
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Personally, I never envied who had more because life is what each individual makes of it.
This is why some people are billionaires and others are bums.
However, a society isn't made of CEOs, entrepreneurs, millionaires, gold, and money.
Imagine if we live in a society where there's only wealth, but you couldn't buy anything with it.
No bread because there's no bakers.
There are no vegetables because there's no farmers.
No meat because there are no butchers and ranchers.
No fish because there's no fisherman.
There's no security because there's no policeman.
None to put fires out because there's no fireman.
No buildings because none wants to work on construction.
There is no infrastructure because none wants to work on it.
No army because none volunteers except for general or officer positions.
Everyone wants an office job, working with air conditioning with the bare minimum of hours.
In my opinion, each individual has his or her place in society. Everyone is important.
When women only look at the top percentage of men while ignoring the rest, they have zero morals to complain when they end up single and miserable.
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In my opinion, I find it rich, when society tries to shame men, for not wanting to get married, when the same society offers, no support to married men, trying to keep their marriages, from falling apart.
If anything it seems society, motivates women to destroy their marriages and take everything from their husbands.
Starting with the single bitter girlfriends, poisoning her mind, to the lawyers advising them to press false dv charges, to the courts, favouring women over men all the time.
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24:24 "Ladies yall have created some monsters."
That girl is absolutely right.
Yesterday I watched a monster being made in one of Strong Successful Male stories.
A guy who have been in the military, found out that his wife was cheating on him, with her ex.
Not only that his daughter wasn't his.
For years, she was going to her ex house, while he was working, buying groceries, paying her ex expenses, with his money. While he was busting himself to provide and protect for her and the daughter from the ex.
The guy ended up disappearing with the daughter and his wife is now scared, because she knows her husband has skills that allow him to be anywhere as he had offers from military companies, that offer shelter to his family.
She now lost everything, she was a stay at home mother.
Her husband took the money, the daughter, left the apartment for the landlord, to rent to other people and none knows where he is.
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I was on holiday in Portugal 🇵🇹 visiting my mother and younger sister for a couple of weeks.
I came more depressed than watching any black pill video 😢
3 guys I looked up when I was growing up, meaning good students, went to university, got good paying jobs, married women with the same degrees as them, their wives also worked, bought houses, had children, 2 of them are now divorced, with a 3rd one risking divorce as well.
Reason: wives didn't loved them anymore.
Needless to say, one of them at least got taken to the cleaners.
Why are women so hard to please and so cruel 🥺 ?
P.s. Bo was right. Portugal is the number 1 country in divorce rates.
I now witnessed for myself ...
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I'm from Portugal, 46 years old.
All my life I struggled to achieve a good paying job.
Studied for 13 years, went to private Architecture university for 10 years and couldn't finish it because I had a full time job to pay for the university tuition fees. Sometimes I went to work almost asleep because during the night I was working on university projects.
Once I was so exhausted in the morning that even though I had opened the window to let the rain enter so I could be awaken, I ended up touching the bumper of the car that was in the front because I had fallen asleep. Luckily it was nothing. I lost account on how many times I slapped myself in order to not fall asleep on the wheel of my company car. Sometimes I would just skip a class during night because I was too exhausted.
In the end all for nothing.
I had to quit university because my family needed my income and after a couple of years the small architecture office, I was working went bankrupt.
Tried taking small courses, like Computer maintenance, Maya, 3D studio.
Nothing. Just jobless for 2 years.
I ended up immigrating to the UK and after a couple of months I got a steady minimal wage, that has allowed me to help my family and pay my expenses, for almost 8 years now.
You should try to be successful, but at some point it's time to just be happy with what you achieved.
“Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.” That witticism—I'll call it “Einstein Insanity”
I'm happy to be single. It means more peace and quietness for me and more resources to help my family.
I never had time or cared for women and now I don't think they were ever worth the effort.
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Not everything is bad.
I honestly prefer adult entertainment instead of sex workers. I don't spend money, and I don't risk catching something I don't want to.
For example, who is the worst ?
The guy that spends his time playing video games and watching adult entertainment.
Or
The wealthy,married CEO alpha male who spent his time taking power trips by sleeping with married women ?
From my analysis, this is the dark side of unlocking the power to seduce women: it doesn't stop.
Lust doesn't respect: marriages, family bounds, friendships, loyalty, or anything.
How many married men and women are in extra marital affairs currently ?
I've listened to so many cheating stories that involved people in the corporate world that it baffles me.
These people are well aware of company policies, yet they still do it because of the thrill and excitement.
In France, you can't dna test a kid unless both parents allow it. Even courts are involved.
So this is the answer to promiscuity: silence for the sake of society.
Pathetic.
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Being a traditional wife, isn't something, a woman can flip the switch and it's done.
It's something taught since childhood.
For these women, it's too late.
A lot of them, are old and are past their prime. They bring nothing to the table, a man would want.
What these women could do, is: learn from their mistakes and teach younger generations, to not follow their path. But they prefer, to cry in the internet, like that will bring them anything and sabotage younger generations because, they are competing for the same men they want.
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I'm not a Christian, but I do have Christian beliefs.
I used to have bible lessons with the Witnesses of Jehovah when I was a kid. However, I disagree on their stance of no blood transfusion in no circumstances.
I also disagree with the Catholic stance against divorce. Divorce should be granted if adultery happens. It's in the bible.
My aunt is Mormon, and my cousins used to have lessons with them.
My aunt and my late uncle were Catholics, and their children are baptised .
I couldn't believe what I was seeing in this interview. It's like those Whatever podcasts where the 304s refuse to give a straight answer to Andrew because they want to be right.
Pearl wasn't getting any straight answers from this guy at all.
I believe modern Church and F-e-m-i-n-i-s-m are 2 sides of the same coin.
F-e-m-i-n-i-s-t-s profit from the divorce courts and the Church keeps pushing good men into marriages in which their wives bring nothing to the table, and all they do is take advantage.
Strong Successful Male said: the Conservative girls are the most wild in college because their parents are away.
If we look from the perspective of a man who believes in the bible, he's completely screwed.
- No sex before marriage.
Perfect for a 304 who doesn't want to have sex with the man she's going to marry because she's only after his money. While he waits for marriage, she's having fun with Ch4d, Tyrone, and Bad boy.
- Marriage happens and the 304 gives the bare minimum because "she's not that kind of girl. " Meanwhile she did everything during her college years with other guys.
- Kids are born (might not be his) and no more sex because she's not attracted to her husband. She only wanted the kids. Now the poor guy is stuck in a sexless marriage.
- The 304 gets bored leaves the marriage after 10 years, gets the house, the kids, child support, alimony. The courts are on her side.
Meanwhile what's the Church doing ?
Modern Church is too complacent. There's even women saying on TikTok they are going on to their 304 phase and than go to the Church to become a reborn virgin and marry a good guy.
I'm 47 years old single. Never touched a woman because I believe in no sex before marriage and I wanted to set an example to my younger sister.
I help financially my mother.
I have no interest in chasing money because money won't buy my youth back.
I have no interest in marriage the way the government rewards women for breaking it.
I'm a simple man. When I don't like something I cut it off my life completely.
My father always pushed me to help him fix his cars. I learned to drive and for almost 2 decades I drove in the architecture office I used to work for: opel Corsa, BMW, Mercedes, Jeep Mercedes, Mitsubishi Jeep, amongst other cars.
I always disliked cars 👎
I work in the UK for around almost a decade now and I have no car. I walk to work for 15 minutes, the supermarket is 30 minutes walking.
In fact I can't stand being in public transports anymore. I lost the habit of being in motorised vehicles.
Women are the same thing for me. Too much hassle for litle reward. I don't deal with them.
I dealt with my younger sister girlfriends for over a decade watched them grow get married (one of them). Wasn't interested on them.
I was just putting a mask most of times pretending to be someone I wasn't: social.
I still pretend today at work but that is as far as I can go.
So yes, you can be happy living on your own.
I got tired of noise (arguing and shouting) during the 28 years of marriage of my parents.
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This is what happens when materialism is valued over morals.
Moral values have been an essential part of the reason why I don't like greed, lying, selfishness, lust, betrayal, and vanity, amongst many other things.
In a society where people only think about themselves, marriages are not respected, for example. They are just a title people carry because none respect it.
The husband is only respected if he's the best option the wife has at the moment. The moment he stops being the strong leader, that's when she will probably cheat on him or leave him.
The wife is only with the husband until he gets tired of her and finds a younger, prettier, fertile version of her. She's just a commodity, nothing else.
Other women and men will be on the look to get between the married couple.
The men for a chance to have casual sex with the wife (sometimes married men) for lust and bragging rights or even steal her from the husband.
The women (sometimes married) will try to compete for the husband attention and validation if he's good-looking or even steal the husband for themselves.
A society with no morals is the perfect embodiment of the old say:
"No honour among thieves ."
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An elderly co-worker, that used to live with me in the same shared house, told me this: women want confident men. They don't want guys, that don't know, what to do.
They expect men to be problem solvers.
I guess, this is why older man and younger woman dynamic, work better. If the woman is more experienced, she'll be turned off as the guy isn't taking charge.
Rollo Tomassi and Michael Sartain , discussed on their podcast how much easier, was to deal with the 9s and 10s, who had hundreds of thousands of followers vs the 6s and 7s who only had dozens of thousands of followers.
The 9s and 10s were professional and aware, they had competition from other girls, because they were used to be in that environment, aka modeling.
The 6s and 7s thought, just because they had dozens of thousands of followers, they now deserved to be brought by plane, with all expenses paid.
As Legion of men stated, the ugly ones, are the worst.
I read some of them act like witches.
It's a sad case of: ugly on the outside, ugly in the inside.
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In my case sex outside marriage against my religious beliefs. I wouldn't want to be with a sex worker. I was once approached in the UK twice for sex and in both times, I was disgusted.
The first time, I was going back to the house where my room was, during the night and an Eastern European blonde woman approached me. She couldn't say a word in English, but she shacked my belt and put her tongue out. It was clear she wanted to sell sex, and my mother later clarified that those gestures meant oral sex. I left her behind, went home, and washed my mouth. While she was talking, a drop of her salive entered my mouth 🤢
The second time was when the chubby girlfriend of my Hungarian neighbour came in the middle of the night in shorts,knocking on my door telling me she couldn't, sleep, while he was working.
He kept knocking. I asked my mother what was going on (she was on video call), and she replied that probably the boyfriend wasn't giving her money, and now she wanted to trade sex for money.
This was a couple in their late 40s or early 50s.
I used to live with an elderly co-worker in the same shared house in the UK for 2 years.
He told me he could never pay for sex. He told me the number of women he was with, including his wife, was 12.
He told me once in Portugal he decided to do it.
He found a advertisement, called the woman and they met up at her apartment. After talking with her, he found out she had come to Portugal from Brazil looking for work. But once summer ended and the sunmer jobs were over, she was unemployed. Unable to pay to go back to her country, her girlfriends advised her to do sex work. Upon hearing this, my co-worker handed over 50 euros and left.
As Legion of Men stated, travelling for sex workers isn't worth it when you have it in your own country.
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As someone who's on his 40's here's something's I've observed:
Being an entrepreneur is not an easy path.
It's not like going to school, University and get the job you are qualified for.
You must like exploration, traveling and discovering new things, love socializing, knowing the right people, etc.
It's basically knowing your way on a sea of unknown.
Your success must come above your moral principles. There's a reason why people say:
"Everything is fair in love and war".
Here's a couple of examples:
The junior architect in the atelier I was working, told us a story about a guy he knew, who went to an interview and when asked if he knew how to work with a drawing program, he didn't knew, he answered: yes.
He was still working in that atelier years after. So the lie paid off.
An elderly colleague told me how Trump and Boris Johnson got where they are because they learned to lie from an early age from their mentors.
For example, I was told that the Trump tower had more floors than permitted. Trump, just omitted some floors on the plan submitted for approval and now when people go in the lift, there's some floors that take more time to reach because of the hidden floors.
I don't know if this is true but that's what he told me.
The senior Architect boss, I worked for almost 2 decades, was so used to lie he even lied in simple daily things that weren't necessary to lie.
He had a atelier with his associate and married 4 times. The divorce laws in Portugal are not as punishing as in the US.
All because he couldn't love the women he married, for a long period of time.
He was an Alpha type. He didn't say much but when he was angry you were going to have a rough time.
He graduated by showing in the final exam a project his friend made for him.
He established connections by inviting council Architects for a coffee and offering them gifts in return for work.
That's bribery for me.
My junior Architect was a Catholic. When I asked him what he wanted, he would answer: go to heaven.
Yet he lied to his clients when he couldn't make the deadlines, lied to my boss when he needed more time for his atelier projects.He would take time from the atelier he was working in order to answer calls for his atelier.
My colleagues all studied in the same University as I did, they had fees to pay as well. However they would use half the time to make their projects also the atelier materials to make their presentations.
That's stealing for me.
To the outside world they were successful working, full time, university students and none knew how they managed to do it.
In the end they graduated, I didn't.
I was always too exhausted and had deadlines I couldn't accomplish due to working a full time job.
There's a reason why builders think Architects are crazy and full of crap.
In my work (physical job) there's colleagues who always finish early. I get moaned at for taking too long. But when you go after their work the next day it's a dog's dinner.
I even had a colleague who swear in his daughters name that he had cleared everything to another one that was pissed off at him, for leaving too much work to do.
Hard work is not enough, it will provide you with a job but that's it.
In the end there's a price to pay for women and success.
It's no coincidence women only chase after the bad boys, Chads, Tyrone's and rich guys.
All people who care only about themselves.
The irony in this is: women complain all the time, men are trash, yet they chase after this guys.
Some people might disagree but I can only speak for my experience.
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There's lots of valuable information, in this video 👍
I will have to rewatch it, several times, in order to get everything.
I believe that, each generation of modern women, with the boss babe attitude, will be beating records of loneliness and depression.
Because the same society that empowers women, is the same that's destroying men masculinity.
The guys that remain masculine, are not interested on them. Except for bedroom fun.
So all of these "Queens" will be getting pumped and dumped by the guys, they want. The remaining men, are invisible to them.
In the end the "Queens", will end up sharing the same pool of men, because they were told to not settle for less.
Even the ones that do get married, after their 304 phase, won't be happy, because their pair bonding is ruined.
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Men are no saints either.
On my case, my father cheated on my mother, despite her being loyal to him.
In fact, before I got to know RP, I knew more cases of the husband/BF cheating on their wives/GF.
How many married guys, have children with other women, outside their marriages ?
For example: the neighbours that used to live on the upper floor of the building I used to live as a kid.
Years after, I learned that the wife had a baby with her boss.
While we can say, she cheated on her husband, we can also say, her boss, cheated on his wife.
Comparing modern women, with women of previous generations, is like comparing contaminated water, to spring water.
I don't plan on marrying, but if I ever have a daughter I would teach her to be loyal. I wouldn't just assume, she's going to cheat and commit paternity fraud, because: "That's what women do."
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@silentios7336 Indeed 👍.
Having a wife, in which a guy, can thrust to handle the house finances, is such a relief.
It's amazing how much less stress a guy has, when he has a responsible woman at home.
For example, the youngest sister of my mother, always managed, the finances at home. After 40 years of marriage, she still helps her husband at the small bar, they own. Her best years are gone, but she's still in shape and my uncle is happy to be by her side.
Modern women complain that men only see them, as sex objects. That's what happens, when that's the only thing they have to offer.
Because the rest, like traditional, roles they don't want to do it. Self made problem, in my opinion.
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@Peter-dr7hs Try to compare, second third generation of Philippinas, that grew up on the US. I wouldn't be surprised if the majority are chosing western guys.
Saying that Philippines prefer to date each other isn't anything new.
Ask in any country in the world, which nationality they prefer to date and they will answer their own.
Heck, ask any US woman which nationality they want to date and they will probably say: US.
Legion of Men talk about how to get to starting line, self-improvement, make money etc.
I'm watching what is happening in the finishing line, on Strong Successful Male.
So many marriages, destroyed because the woman, decided to settle down, with the stable provider, instead of the guy that she was really attracted to.
Just because you put the ring on her finger, doesn't mean, she loves you.
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Countries where women are more traditional, won't have problems with birthrates.
It's Western countries that are experiencing problems and that won't be reversed any time soon, because of F3minism and all the damage, inflicted to society.
Actors can pretend to be someone they aren't, but once the movie is done, so is their role.
A man has to behave in a certain way, otherwise his GF/wife will be turned off, for the rest of his life. Meanwhile, what's she doing, to keep her man around ?
What's she doing, to prove she's worthy of being with him ?
Spreading her legs in the bed and having sex ?
Is that all ?
As guys say all the time, in the comments section:
The juice, is not worth the squeeze.
It's no wonder p0rn and AI is replacing, modern women. That's how easy to replace, they have become. Because the only thing they have to offer is: sex.
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@myrevteam7061 good for you, man 👍
Unfortunately, it's not easy for men to stop in the middle of the act, and I highly suspect these women know that 😕
An elderly co-worker explained to me that when guys are aroused in the bed and kissing, they won't stop ✋️ even if the woman is saying so. Because when the hormones take over your mind, there's no going back.
I believe there's 2 types of guys:
1) The one that respects her boundaries, like in the first video. She asked him not to sleep with her, and he did what she said, and it turned her off.
2) The Alpha type. An experienced guy who won't take no for an answer because he's not used to stopping, and he dated multiple girls who played that game with him. The guy that turns women on.
Western women want to play stupid mind games all the time, and men are supposed to guess. It's no wonder guys are stepping out of this toxic dating environment.
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These people who look down on poor people don't deserve the bread, fish, meat they eat, the water they drink, the consumers goods they enjoy, clean streets, the protection they enjoy from the police, the help of firefighters, or even the beneficts that serviceman brings to the country while deployed overseas to protect the country economical interests.
These are all tasks done by people who aren't considered, "high value".
What these people deserve is a society where only wealth is produced, and only gold bars and money are available to use and consume. Wealth is worthless if none is selling anything to buy.
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One of the very few successful marriage stories I've heard from the Strong Successful Male channel came from a subscriber, a Mexican immigrant living in the US.
He wanted to be a professional football ⚽️ player. But he didn't make it, but he kept the good physique.
He was a Chad in college and dated several women.
One day, he got arrested for driving too fast. He called a female friend from College to pay his 150 dollars bail. She came and paid.
She was a blonde nerd from a conservative family of 8 kids. She was the youngest.
They started dating. 8 months into the relationship, and they finally got to 3rd base. She never told him, till they got married. That night, she went to her bedroom and cried because she thought he wasn't going to marry her anymore. I believe she was inexperienced and wanted to save herself for marriage.
After getting married, they had 3 kids. Life wasn't easy, but he worked overtime and never neglected his wife. He even told her to wake him up if she had the urge. There were no excuses for cheating.
The wife went back to college and got a medical degree.
He told her she could leave him if she wasn't happy with him.
She replied by saying: Yes, she could find a guy on her level, but she would never find a guy who loved her the way he did.
She also recognised she was older and had wrinkles. OP than put his hand on top of her hands and told her, for him, she was fine as she was.
They still live in the same old house despite having the money to buy a bigger one.
The wife loves to plant vegetables in their backyard.
He never neglected her.
They have intercourse 5 times a week, with weekends reserved for dating, mountain biking, etc.
Once a year, they go on a romantic week, holidays just the 2 of them, without the kids.
They have 2 sons and 1 daughter.
The wife is planning once they are retired to travel with him through Mexico to provide medical aid to the less fortunate.
I believe he's truly with a unicorn 🦄 💖
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@HollAnna
"There are actually more males than females,"
"As of July 1, 2022, there were 165.28 million males and 168 million females living in the United States."
"According to the Population estimates for the UK, England, Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland: mid-2021, released on 21 December 22 the total UK population was: Total pop: 67,026,292. Females: 34,214,835. Males: 32,811,457."
Thailand:
"34,772,561 males as of 31 December 2023. 35,997,931 females as of 31 December 2023."
Let's also consider the number of men that are dying in the Russian vs Ukrainian conflic.
That's a lot of widows left without a husband.
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This happened to me recently.
A girl who works at my workplace for moths comes and, out of curiosity, asks my name. I thought it was weird as she had never interacted with me before.
Upon asking for advice from my mother, she immediately goes off, saying if I want a woman like her (she married unexperienced), I will only find it in maternity. Because girls become experienced as soon as they have their 1st boyfriends. She also told me in the UK that the age they start is sixteen, and by the age of the girl I was talking about (20s), they are looking for a nice guy to marry.
I tried to argue: I earn minimum wage, she earns the same, and in other words, I'm not desirable. If the girl was a gold digger, she would be aiming for health care assistant, nurses, and doctors.
My mother replied it didn't matter, and told me: I was easily manipulated, gullible, and fool.
She also talked about how China is now as bad as in the West, how in Angola guys that marry country girls and bring them to the city, ruins them because they become like modern women.
She also told me about a Brazilian woman, 24 years old, who married a Portuguese guy who was earning well only for him to find out she had 3 kids in brazil. She had her first child at fourteen. Now he's stuck with her because she got pregnant twice from him. Now he has to take care of 5 kids. And people talk about depopulation ...
I was talking with a co-worker about what my mother told me, and he just laughed and told me she was right. Aside from his first wife, all women he was with are all bad.
His first wife was perfect. He had 2 kids with her.
Unfortunately, she only had intercourse once a week, and that was the reason for their breakup.
Recently, she contacted him. She's now unhappy in her second marriage to a narcissist and only now explained to him the reason she only had intercourse with him once a week: she was Sierra-Alpha at six by a uncle.
The second wife gave him everything he wanted on the bedroom and a kid. Unfortunately she was wild, a party girl, and a cheater but the sex was good so he stayed. He eventually divorced her after she took things too far with him.
All the other women that came after (he dated a LOT) were bad.
So it's not just the guys on the internet who are criticising women. People around me are doing the same, including women.
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@MeidoInHebun Fair enough.
Here's my story: my grandmother, was slapped on the face by another woman.
She was told by that woman to stop seeing her husband. My mother witnessed everything and told me grandfather. She got punished, after my grandmother said it was a lie.
My grandmother, even told my mother she should have never been born.
My mother married at 18 years old, with my father to escape that environment.
My father wasn't loyal to her and she waited until my younger sister was 18 years old to divorce my father.
After the divorce, my sister and I told her, she could date anyone she wanted.
She refused. She told us, she had enough of men.
At 67 years old, she has a spinal cord of a 90 years old woman. A lifelong of being a wife for 28 years, mother, working and doing overtime during the weekends (wedding ceremonies), resulted in her current state.
I've been helping her financially, since she divorced my father, because he was the biggest earner.
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The problem in societies like the US, in my opinion is the radical F3minism and the fact that Women are told they can have it all.
They are completely out of touch with reality.
I will give some positive examples of women who were not taught to hate men, not taught to approach sex like men and behave in a feminine way, despite having their own careers and money.
My cousin wife. Married with him for over 20 years. They met when they were studying in the same class, in the Architecture university.
She was around 18 years old. They dated, finished their degrees, found work, built a house in a property donated by her parents and married. They currently have two sons.
He works at the city council and brings projects for his wife, to work on. They are from Portugal.
The Romanian mechanical engineer, I used to live, in the same shared house, in the UK, for a couple of years, was building an apartment in Romania to live with his fiancée. They were planning to get, married. She had her own apartment and her own career, in Romania. She used to come by and spend some time with him. They used to go on holidays together, to other countries.
Life is made of choices. Just because a woman wants to focus on her career doesn't automatically means, she can't date and marry someone they love.
What destroys the women, in countries like the US, in my opinion, is: all the partying, hookups and debauchery done, when they are young. The 304 phase. The need to "explore themselves".
Than when they are on their 30s, completely ran through, body counts of dozens of guys, (if not hundreds), completely damaged, now they want to find the right guy, now they want to marry and have kids, in less than 2 years. Too late.
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I'm 47 years old, single. Never dated.
However, I was always curious about female nature, what they desire, how they think, and what's their true nature. What I ended up witnessing shed the rose tainted glasses I used to see them with.
As they say in RP community, women are the gatekeepers of sex. However, if all they do is spread their legs all the time for every Chad, Tyrone, bad boy they encounter, what does that tell about their nature ?
In these days, when a guy marries a woman, how many guys did she sleep with before him ?
How many more will she sleep with after him ?
Because even after marriage, women will always want that attention and validation from other men.
Just watched a story from a subscriber from Strong Successful Male. He and his wife were virgins. Unfortunately, he was told by one of her girlfriends that his wife was cheating on him for 12 years with his neighbour, and after he dumped her, she slept with her AP friend. His 3rd kid a daughter is from her AP. He went scorched earth on both his wife and AP. The AP got taken to the cleaners by his wife after OP told her everything. After hooking up with several women for a years his kids convince him to go back to his wife. They remarried, but things were never the same.
Was it worth it ?
All that sacrifice for that. The only saving grave was the 2 kids (biological his ) he got out of her.
For me, after all I learned in these channels and other channels like Strong Successful Male, I would probably have to literally kill my older self and reborn a new guy more fitting to a woman desires.
It's not worth it, in my opinion.
I had 2 acquaintances that married, and I thought they were going to be happy forever.
They both liked anime and gaming. They both were thin and weared glasses.
She's a programming engineer, and she's an IT hardware worker.
They were both diabetic so they had the exact same issues.
They both were their first ones.
The girl doesn't want to have kids with the guy and only wants cats as companionship.
Their dynamic is basically a buttler and his madame.
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I already posted this in one of Rollo Tomassi videos today:
I think in terms of sexual desire, the sad reality is: a boyfriend/husband cannot compete with variety.
I've been following a channel called: Strong Successful Male for years now and the stories I keep hearing the most are: girlfriend/wife got bored with the boyfriend/husband, still loves him but wants something new. So they decided to ask to open their relationship or they are cheating on their boyfriend/husband.
We can apply Jordan Peterson theory of hypergamy, when the girlfriend/wife is cheating with a better-looking/high earner, co-worker/boss.
But what about the cases where the girlfriend/wife cheated with good-looking guys they have no interest in being together ?
For example:
- The stripper(s) in the Bachelorette party.
- The AP that is married has no plans to leave his wife. She knows it, and when confronted by the boyfriend/husband, she says: "It was just sex, no feelings involved !"
- The brother or male family member of the boyfriend/husband.
- The ex(s) from college.
- Her male friend(s).
- The younger (insert the age) male student(s) she has in her class (she's a teacher).
- Etc.
Here's an example of a couple living an open marriage. This story was sent by a subscriber from Strong Successful Male.
He and his wife used to work in the adult entertainment industry. They are free to date whoever they want, but the rule is: no feelings or attachments. They have 2 kids that are already dna tested. They are from the subscriber.
They have a normal sex life together as well.
Here's an example of a guy who had it all, looks, money, and social status: Tom Brady. Still, he got cheated by his wife Gisele Bündchen. For a guy whose social status is nowhere near Tom Brady:Joaquim Valente, a professional jiu-jitsu instructor.
If this top percentage guy gets cheated on, what chance has the average Joe ?
If a guy is getting duty sex from his sex (if he's getting any), he's better off sleeping with sex workers. At least he gets better-looking women and more variety.
I believe cases like Rollo Tomassi marriage are the exception. Not the rule.
Here's 2 rare stories from Strong Successful Male, sent by 2 subscribers in happy marriages:
Story 1: Mexican chad used to play football when he was younger. Dated girls in college. Married his conservative blond nerdy wife. They met in college.
The day she lost her virginity to him, after 8 months of dating, she went to home cry because she thought he wasn't going to marry her. She only told him this after they got married.
They have 3 grown children. They have sex 5 times a week, with the weekends reserved to go out dating.
Story 2: US guy came from a house whose parents were alcoholic. Worked at bars. Hook up with multiple women to the point he made a name for himself. Travelled in countries like italy.
Married a beautiful UK girl from the army, he met at a bar he was working.
She also came from a broken home. All she wanted was a guy to take care of her. They're on their 40s/50s now. They met when he was 28 years old and she was 22 years old.
It's said that guys who want to be monogamous is because they can't get girls (maybe Michael Sartain said it).
I have to agree, unfortunately.
Even though I have Christian beliefs and I believe in no sex outside marriage. I understand that my brain wants variety. I've tried to see if there was an adult entertainment actress so beautiful that I couldn't look at any other woman. After a while, I crave for variety. It can be a woman who is not as sexually appealing as she is, but the need for a variety more than makes up for it.
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The biggest lies, told to these women was, that they could have it all and they were the prize 🏆
None wants a aged woman who spent her prime F*cking around with Ch4d, Tyrone and bad boys.
In my mother's time, a divorced woman with kids, was still a decent woman, who still brought a lot to the table: low body count (usually her husband only), cooking, cleaning, knew how to take care of the house, could still have kids, submissive, feminine, hard worker.
I know a female co-worker, with similar values as I described above.
She's on her 50s, she had a daughter with her Alpha drunken husband. Divorced him, married again and had a son with her current husband. She's still married.
Her daughter married recently and visited her broken, drunken father at the hospital, recently.
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@KIKONR66 "Life isn't fair."
For context, I'm from Portugal 🇵🇹
When growing up, I was told by my parents to graduate, get a good paying job, marry, and have kids. I didn't manage to graduate, and I'm working in a minimum paying job in the UK at 47 years old, financially helping my mother because, meanwhile, my parents divorced when I was 28 years old.
My younger sister graduated, but she's still single at 37 years old and changing careers presently.
Counting myself, my younger sister and my cousins, we are in total 13. Out of 13, only 2 managed to graduate and marry their university sweethearts and do what my parents advised.
2 others aren't graduated, they are married with an average life.
2 are divorced.
7 including myself are single and never married.
It seems that when education was something that only the wealthy families could afford, like in my parents' time, during the 70s, there was more societal pressure for people to get married young.
My mother married at 18 years old and my father had to sell his 2 cars in order to get married.
Her younger sister married at 25 years old, and she was considered old at the time.
Having a job and being able to provide was good enough in those days. My father was a welder. My uncle was a bartender.
Things have changed during my generation.
Girls could now go to university, marry later, have multiple boyfriends, have their own careers, etc.
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@lambdacode1503 I'm going to have to disagree on that one.
People who grew on their country, obviously prefer, what they are used to.
But what happens, when someone grows up in a multicultural society as the US for example ?
Where a woman can chose, from all races ?
She probably will chose, the most handsome, tall, guy that can provide her, with the best genes.
Lastly, I have my entire female family to prove it.
They all dated western guys.
Out of 8 female members, of my generation: all of them dated western men.
2 are divorced of western men.
2 are married to western men.
I know another woman, that is planning to divorce her husband. They are both asians. She married him because that's what her parents wanted. She was dating a western man.
Her older sister, was also dating a western guy, before her parents put a stop to it.
The older sister of my mother, ran away with a western man, that later became her husband, until he passed away recently. Her first BF was a western man.
The younger sister of my mother dated a western man, before marrying a asian.
The sister of my father, was married to a western man, dated western man and is now married to a western man in the UK.
Asian men are simply seen as less masculine, shorter and more submissive, from my experience, hearing women talking.
Legion of Men also, commentated about it and he's a lot more experienced than I do.
Western Europeans, Africans are simply more attractive, both physically and masculine.
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Your story is a testimony of what's to come in the future.
Men are not known, for being stupid, otherwise, we would still be living in caves.
Women think they can pull this stunt over and over again.
In my opinion: they are for a rude awakening.
There's a lot of men's movements right now. Something that didn't existed before.
The way I see men going forward is: some like me, will not want to have to do anything with women at all. Others, will learn to use women for what they are worth and once they are done with them, discard them as a used condom.
Of course many will still fall for women, however, I believe they will be less and less. Because women, particularly Western women are burning good men, through a very fast rate.
As the old say goes: he who plants, winds, harvest thunderstorms and some older women are starting to realize that.
Being single may be unimportant for people like Sharon Stone and Kim Kardashian but the average women, particularly the one that betrayed your friend, will realise how cruel men can be, once women are old and undesirable.
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As a 47 years old guy, that never dated or had intercourse with a woman, should I feel bad because society tells me, that I should date a woman, marry her, have kids with her and pretend that makes me happy ?
Despite modern f3minism teaching women to not be traditional like my mother and be empowered, hypergamous 304s ?
Should I have intercourse with other women and learn to be sexually experienced, despite the bible telling me, I should only have intercourse, inside a marriage and divorce is not an option, even if I happen to marry the wrong woman ?
I read lots of stories of men that got burned in the divorce courts by heartless women. They took their house, their kids were turned against them, they lost half of their pension, had to pay child support and alimony.
Should I ignore them, because, there's still good women out there , that miraculously never happened to be taken by other men (sarcasm) ?
“'Only a fool learns from his own mistakes. The wise man learns from the mistakes of others. '” - Otto Von Bismarck
When my parents married, they hardly had anything and in order for my sister to come in to this world, my mother had to go and work a full time job, on top of everything she was doing around the house. when my mother divorced my father (he cheated), she never married again.
Can I find such a woman these days ?
For me F3minism already won.
Everyone is so brainwashed into accepting this is what women are, that they seem to not know, that women used to be different.
In a society where women don't want to marry "broke guys", I ask this:
Who's going to marry, these guys ?
- Soldier.
- Sailor.
- Farmer.
- Butcher.
- Retail clerks
- Fisherman.
- Lorry driver.
- Mechanic
- Police officer.
- Fireman.
- Postman.
- Factory worker.
- Construction Worker
- Etc.
Answer: none.
I guess in the future:
- There won't be an army, because there's none volunteering to fight.
- We won't eat vegetables, because there's no farmers.
- We won't eat meat, because there's no butchers.
- We won't be able to buy groceries because there's no Retail clerks.
- We won't be able to eat fish, because there's no fisherman.
- Nothing will be delivered, because there's no lorry drivers.
- Cars won't be fixed, because there's no mechanics.
- None will stop crime, because there's no Police officers.
- None will put out fires, because there's no Firemen.
- We won't get any letters because there's no Postman,
- Factories will cease production, because there's no factory workers.
- Nothing will be built, because there's no construction workers.
But worry not, there will be plenty of money and gold bars to solve everyone's problems, because everyone is busy making money (sarcasm).
Finally the double standards.
Women are allowed to live their best lives, but men are supposed to not be able to do the same ?
I know a woman, the same age as I do, graduated as a nurse, her father is a doctor, owns a clinic, doesn't want to get married or have children. She has a boyfriend and wants to live her best life.
The solution is quite simple, f3minism needs to be put on the category of, hate movement and everyone following their doctrine should be treated accordingly.
A movement set on destroying traditional families should have never been allowed to exist in the first place.
But the truth is, it's easier for society to, please the women and keep saying it's all men fault and they are innocent victims.
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Legion of men makes a very good point: women give bad advice, to other women.
It's amazing how much different men and women work as a collective.
I've seen many types of advices, in men's channels:
- Being successful, showing the best version of yourself and attract women, as a result.
- Learn female nature and know how to tell the difference between bad women and good women.
- Going your own way and avoid women all together, because of the gynocentric society that is dominant in Western countries.
All good advices. A guy only has to chose, what he wants.
When we compare Manosphere and F3minism, it's day and night.
F3minism is full of stupid advices like:
- Sleeping with tons of men, because that's what guys do and anyone that judges a woman for her body count is a misogynist.
While ignoring that men, not women are the ones that chose, the women who gets married and guys don't like wh0res.
- Telling women that they should focus on their careers, being strong and independent.
While ignoring that in the process, women are wasting their most fertile years and guys are not attracted with women, just because they have a degree, and a well paid job.
Also ignoring, that the more money a woman makes, the more demanding she will become, regarding her future husband income, making her dating options shrink as a result.
- Considering the traditional roles of a woman, outdated and wanting to eliminate gender roles, when it's already proven by thousands of years of evolution that women are the ones best suited to stay at home, look after the children while the man goes out and fights for his family.
Ironically, guys like Legion Men are more suited to advise young women in to becoming successful in life than other women.
- Want to date a woman ? Ask advice to men
- Want to get that guy, every girl wants ? Don't ask other girls, they will sabotage you. Ask men.
- Wanna know how to keep a woman ? Ask men.
- Wanna know how to keep a husband ? Ask men.
"Keep his belly full and his balls empty." - Kevin Samuels
Another good point, from Legion of men: women are the ones that let themselves be treated the way they are now. Telling guys that chivalry is patriarchy, allowing themselves to be pumped and dumped by Ch4ds, Tyrones, bad boys, Pookies, etc.
Hybristophilia, is a trait found in women, but not in men. The attraction for criminals.
"It's estimated that 45% of women ages 25–44 will be single by 2030, according to a study by Morgan Stanley. With the modern dating market, nearly half of women in their “childbearing” years will be without a male counterpart." - Google
Better let, natural selection do it's job and let these women, die stubborn. While the more traditional ones, will have 2-5 kids, thriving and multiplying.
I saw a couple of cute videos from twin kids. A boy and a girl, from Australia (I think). Their mother has 3 more kids. You don't see bitterness or anger on that woman's eyes. Her best years are long gone, but who cares. She's a respectable mother, posting cute videos from her twins and everyone loves them. Videos, full of cuteness and motherly love
Now compare that to all the bitterness anger and vitriolic hate, on these videos, posted by, women, who thought they were too good to settle for an average guy, be a stay at home mother and raise her children.
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Lets imagine a guy, that has the standards so high for a woman, that only a small percentage of women, qualifies for him.
Now, he's also, average and doesn't qualify for what he wants. Now let's multiply that, by millions of men. I'm sure that society would immediately call out these men and tell them, how they should lower down, their expectations and settle for an average woman.
Yet none can say anything to these women.
Whenever something happens, it's men fault.
I used to think, some countries were too harsh on their women, but western societies showed me, why it needs to be that way.
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In a society used to tell women they are amazing, just because they exist it's logical that channels like this aren't welcomed. They drop too many truth bombs.
Simps are what moves the economy unfortunately.
Without them there's no OFs, marriages, divorces and funds transfer, from men to women, courts and government. Again this channel teaches men to not be simps and that's not good for them.
Modern women main characteristics:
Envy: alway looking on social media, what other women have.
Ungratefulness: never happy with what they have.
Selfishness: lovers of themselves above anyone else.
Narcissistic: the world revolves around them.
Hateful: they don't like good men or family oriented women.
It's no wonder, these modern women are always bitter, resentful, need to constantly drink alcohol, do drugs and sleep with several guys, just to be in a constant state of inebriation.
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For me what modern women really want but will never admit is:
- Sleep with whoever they want, when they are young.
- Marry a guy, that they feel attracted to, they can respect, protects them, provides for them, is faithful to them.
- Go on his back and have sex with, as many guys as they want. It can be girls night out, girls hot summer, co-worker, boss, etc.
- Have her husband taking care of her children regardless if they are from another man. It can be from previous relationships or cheating.
- Being able to walk away from marriage, get the house, child support, alimony and still claim to be the victim, even if the husband did everything right.
- Show they are, strong ,independent, women that needs no man, despite, the fact, society infrastructure was built by men, many women live on child support and alimony, others are married and even the ones that are single some are living with their BFs or got their degrees thanks to their fathers money.
In summary, a society where they are allowed to do whatever they want, without any repercussions or consequences to their actions.
Realistically, this is, impossible, since these women live in constant delusional and this is why they are never happy and need to constantly blame men and the patriarchy.
Yes, men are responsible for the world not revolving around these women (sarcasm).
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There's too many questions regarding female nature.
Perhaps in the future, scientists and psychologists can answer:
- Why Kaka wife (Brazilian football player that won everything), despite being: raised in a good family, having known him since childhood, filled for divorce on the basis: he was too perfect ?
What makes a woman that has everything a woman can dream off, like Gisele Bündchen betray her husband Tom Brady for her jiu-jitsu professor ?
What makes married female teachers or engaged teachers go after younger students ?
They are not 6 feet tall, 6 figures income, definitely not 6 inches, not wealthy, not Ch4d Tyrone, Bad boy type.
People like Jordan Peterson already talked about women hypergamy nature.
But what about the wives that leave stable marriages for broke losers ?
Finally why more women want open marriages/relationships ?
They want the security of a provider, while having non commited sex outside of marriage.
Many claim to love their husbands and it's just sex.
Here's my opinion: it's all about lust and the inability to control their primordial instincts.
It doesn’t matter if it's survival (money), pleasure or the better dna.
I believe a rich society where people let themselves be lead by their primordial instincts is worse than a poor society where there's still moral values and people are taught to restrain themselves because in the end that's what differentiate us from the animals.
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I agree with Legion of Men.
Traditionalism is what holds a marriage.
Leftist ideology is what destroyed it.
For example: I lived for more than a year with a Indian doctor in the UK.
He was a graduate, with a visa study. He was working on his specialization.
He was a nice person. Polite, educated, humble, came from a good family (economically and socially).
He wouldn't be a prospect under modern women standards. Because he wasn't: 6 feet tall, 6 figures income and 6 pack.
He was scheduled to marry his fiancée. She too was a doctor but she wasn't studying as he was. She was just working, as a doctor.
She looked older than him and wasn't very pretty.
This was an arranged marriage by their families.
His marriage was postponed twice due to COVID and not having flights to India.
Currently they are married, have a small toddler and I believe this marriage will last.
I know a Chinese couple. They married a couple of years ago. They have 2 daughters.
She's not happy and wants to divorce.
However her parents are against it.
This was a arranged marriage also.
From what they discussed in the video, the divorce is initiated most of the times by women, because men stay in unhappy marriages, while not getting the hints women give to them.
Sounds to me, more like women are the ones not putting the effort in to bring better communicators and expect men to read their minds.
The way I see it: men suffer the consequences for their decision making all the time, but that doesn't work that way on women and until they start suffering like men do for their decisions without society protecting all the time, they will never learn.
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I agree. Corporate society is killing families. All they seek is profits, at all costs.
This creates a society where people only think about money.
Several times, I heard men complaining, women in the US only think about money.
Here's a contrasting example: A subscriber from Strong Successful Male, was describing his wife of 40 years.
When he offered her the engagement ring, his former fiancée didn't liked (he didn't had much money), she put it on her finger and was happy about it.
When he took her on her birthday to buy a jewel, she told the store female staff, that she didn't want anything as her husband had already bought her so much jewellery, that she couldn't use it all.
In my opinion, based on my life experiences, there's a price to pay for success. You can't achieve success, by being a good person. The opposite is more true.
A guy that lost his moral values to achieve success is also a guy that won't stay faithful to one woman.
Why would he ?
He paid a high price to be where he is.
This idea of women that they are the chosen one that is going to tame the alpha successful male that is, in a high position in society is pure fantasy. Just like the book of Fifty Shades of Grey.
The same thought process, for women who think
their past doesn't matter. Pretty woman is a movie, not reality.
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A good side of games are: you can do things in a game that would grant you prison time in real life.
I love wielding weapons and spells in the world of warcraft. Good luck pulling that stunt in real life.
It is better to fight a war in a virtual world than in real life. I don't want what people went through during World War 1 and 2.
You kill domeone in a game, and everyone has a laugh at the idiot. In real life, you get ptsd no matter how much justified you felt when you pressed that trigger.
I've learned to cook onion burgers in water with a youtube channel called Guga Foods.
I watch RP content thanks to YouTube and the Internet.
I watch free adult entertainment on the Internet. Meanwhile, my co-worker spends money on sex workers. I work in a place full of women. I need a pacified mind in order to prevent my hormones from making me make a mistakes that can cost my job. You only need to look at a woman the wrong way.
Finally, what chances do we have against a certain women movement that was born during the 60s when every generation before us failed to stop it ?
P.s. anime can be instructive so long as you understand the right lessons present in there like: training hard, working hard, loving others, fight for what you believe, never give up, protect others, etc.
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I think this story may be similar to the story of Celine Dion and René Angélil. It may happen that a younger woman falls in love with an older man. It's a win-win situation for her because:
- She still gets married and can get children from the older man.
- If he has resources, she inherits them after his death, unless he's like deceased portuguese actor Camilo Oliveira that left nothing to his widow Paula Marcelo. Despite living with her for 35 years, they were never married as he was still married to his first wife, Maria Luísa Reis Oliveira.
- After the husband dies, the wife is still respected as a widow. Paula Marcelo married in 2019 with her long life friend Jorge Lopes.
To answer Legion of Men question: I wouldn't want my daughter to marry an older guy who had my age. However, worse things may happen: like the co-worker of my mother. His daughter married a guy, and he didn't approve. He has 4 kids with her and runs away. She ended up in the hospital with a nervous breakdown, and the poor father had now to take care of the 4 kids.
He told my mother: "1 left the house, 5 came back."
There's no reward for being a modern woman and living a life of partying, drinking, hookups, except cat and wine.
I believe that for each Western man who marries overseas or quits dating, one Western woman will die alone. The Western countries will be a burial ground for thousands if not millions of single old women in the upcoming decades.
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Whenever I watch men's channels, it's always good information regarding, how to deal with women.
Stuff like: work on yourself, go to the gym, make more money, understand female nature, avoid women with red flags, etc.
On the other side, I see women constantly attacking men, insulting them, belittling them, telling how they are the Queens and deserve it all, how they shouldn't settle for less, 6 feet tall, 6 figures income, 6 pack, etc.
Western men, can marry any woman on the world, because they know how to treat them well, provide and protect.
Western women are restricted to western men, because the men on the rest of the world, won't put up with their BS.
For example: Tierra Allen, from Houston.
Detained in Dubai, after a heated exchange with a rental car agent in April.
A traditional woman, that knows how to cook, clean, take care of the kids, save money, be loyal and caring can help build a man's life.
I know that, because that was: my mother, my aunts, my female co-worker of more than 15 years.
Modern women are the ruin of any man that is foolish enough to marry them.
They don't know/don't want to cook, clean, take care of kids.
They waste money.
They are disloyal.
Modern women scare men away, not because they are "intimidated by their, independence and success", but because, those men don't want to be destroyed, by their insatiable appetite for attention, validation, resources, time, energy and the divorce courts.
It's common knowledge that being stubborn and obnoxious are traits none wants, on someone they are dealing with. Yet Western women consider this a flex 💪
Unbelievable, the most clueless women in the entire world, live in the most developed countries, who would have thought ...
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I believe that if there's a perfect society structure, where people are allowed to thrive and technological advanced, that hasn't been invented yet.
In order to be part of the current industrialised societies, you need to spend at least 12 years in school. That's what I was required in my current position. If you want better positions, you have to get degrees and specialisations. That's a lot of time of your life spent studying.
An elderly co-worker I used to live in the same house for 2 years told me this: societies need consumers in order to generate profit, but machines are taking over, making workers redundant. Who's going to consume products if people don't have jobs ?
Let's take the example of the US.
Most of what they produce can be made cheaper by manufacturing it in China. Even if they bring back production back in the US, it's because corporations found a cheaper way to produce their products through machinery in mass production scale.
Everything has a price.
Modern societies wanted women in the workforce, and now they are paying it in the form of population decline. The sad thing is that even though Western societies are on the decline, they are still seen as role model to the rest of the world because there's no better examples to follow.
I honestly don't think any future society can be built so long as materialism, consumerism, hedonism, and corporatism, amongst other stuff. Legion of men, usually mentions, are part of societies.
Till then, a human society similar to Star Trek is nothing but a distant dream.
For context: I remember a movie where a Borg ship travels to Earth in the past to prevent the first earth ship, created by a post nuclear war inventor to be successful and thus meeting the Vulcans and starting the whole earth Federation story
The Enterprise followed them, and upon rescuing the inventor, there was a part where he asked the Star Trek crew which country built the current Enterprise ship. He's replied by the crew that the Enterprise ship was built by the Earth Federation, and in the future, food, clothing, and shelter are all provided. Giving humans time to dedicate themselves to be part of the Earth Federation. (IRC)
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This is why, I believe, that guys, should build their fortune, preferably retire early on his 40s or early 50d, go to a foreign country, settle there and then find a wife.
I have a co-worker that used to be a landlord, his father is living in Thailand, married to a local woman, has children, with her. They are my co-worker half-siblings.
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"Qui totum vult totum perdit"
He who wants everything loses everything.
Western women were told they deserved everything and they will lose everything in the process.
Their most fertile years: gone. Chasing after careers, partying, having fun with Ch4ds, Tyrones, bad boys, chasing after high value men, that never committed to them.
Their suitors: gone. Western men are going overseas to marry more traditional wives. Others are choosing to stay alone.
"It's estimated that 45% of women ages 25–44 will be single by 2030, according to a study by Morgan Stanley. " - Google
Their money: gone. Paying student loan debt and spending in stupid sh1t.
There will be exceptions to the rule, however, I think the majority will end up with cats and wine, because they were told to not settle for less.
A selfish culture results on a disastrous outcome.
Who could see that coming ? (Sarcasm)
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Great video from Filipina Pea and Bo.
Great information 👍
I agree with everything.
For me as 47 years old, who grew without the internet, I believe it has done more harm than good.
We have more information availability, but now the companies demand more knowledge from their employees. I'm sick of having to do online courses, that have nothing to do with my daily work.
People are constantly glued to their phones. I see it everywhere, even at work.
Women complain about men watching spicy content, but they are always sharing themselves with other men online, for their attention and validation, through texting, images like Instagram and spicy content like OFs. But they claim is only innocent: "male friends" they say, "followers" they say, yeah right ...
Women social media, attention and validation is the equivalent of spicy content for men.
Women want to have infinite options but they forget it works both ways:
1) Why would a success Alpha male who achieved success in life, settle for one woman, when he has multiple begging for his attention ?
2) A man had to marry a woman in order to see her naked and have sex with her.
Today, you go to the internet and you have millions of naked pictures of women, spicy content and women willing to sleep with you for money in a distancd of a click.
In fact better bachelor and Jeremy from the Quartering discussed recently that the vast majority of consumers (80%) of things like OFs are: married men.
Sexless marriages, is the cause of this.
Why marry ?
I used to have friends, when I was younger, because I wanted people to play.
I used to have 2 best friends.
When online games came like World of Warcraft, back in 2005 one of our friends got addicted and he was no longer meeting with us. He didn't have to, he had all online players of World of Warcraft available.
I tried to reach to him by playing the same game and in the end, we just played a couple of times, we were too busy with other players and I got addicted too.
Apps like Facebook also works as an infinite supply of friends online. I remember that same friend who was addicted to World of Warcraft having dozens of friends on Facebook also.
You just can't compete with the internet.
It's an uphill battle where you are never going to win.
Probably the best place to raise a family these days is a place where there's no smartphones and internet.
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In my opinion, the best girls you can date are: the ones you know for years.
Strong Successful Male advocates for: 6 years of dating, no cohabitation and hire a PI to find about her past.
I was blessed to have a younger sister 10 years younger than me. She liked gaming and anime, just like I did. So when she grew up, I got to know several girls in her friends group.
No tattoos, good families, good students, good grades, graduated by the end of university.
We spent a lot of nights, with her friends and girlfriends eating at restaurants, going to one friend house to play games, watch anime, eat pizza and drink coke. No alcohol was ever involved and the girls were constantly messaging their parents.
- One of my sister girlfriends married one of her friends. They like anime, gaming and don't drink alcohol to this day.
- A Catholic architect, I used to work with has 4 sons and 2 daughters with his Catholic wife. She was pregnant last time, I heard about him almost 10 years ago. There's no alcohol consumption, no contraception, no abortion or even the possibility of divorce in that relationship.
One of the greatest victories achieved by modern women was: lowering men standards to the bottom barrel. Now a girl that has a few tattoos, got pumped and dumped a couple of times by Ch4d, Tyrone, Bad boys in college a few times (not dozens or hundreds), likes to go to girls nights out once in a while (not all the time), is considered girlfriend material.
Unbelievable 😒
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This is why f-e-m-i-n-i-s-m will never win: they advocate for strong independent women who need no man, yet these women are completely useless at dealing with lifes struggles.
When you want to create a strong man, you need a strong father to raise the kid to be a better person with discipline, not spoiling him.
The same thought process goes to women.
The daughters shouldn't be raised to be spoiled princesses.
My aunt used to work in a bank. She also did all the domestic shores at home.
She divorced my uncle because of DV and drinking too much.
She took my 4 cousins and managed to rebuild her life. She earned more than my uncle.
Today, she owns 2 houses and a wealthy retirement.
My mother used to work as a chef. She also did the domestic shores at home, but better.
She divorced my father due to infidelity, disagreements, and arguing.
Me and my younger sister went with her, and she managed to rebuild her life with my help.
The harsh childhood in which she grew up made her a resilient woman who always knew how to get things done.
To have an idea how hard was her childhood, when she was 12 years old she had to get up and buy bread for breakfast and open the store.
There's no excuse for these women crying on TikTok. They are simply: worthless.
Too dependent on their ex-husbands' money and support, too busy playing the victims instead of acting like adults.
Women in the US are spoiled rotten.
They are not strong independent or need no man as they say.
It's no wonder they lose their men to foreign women so easily.
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Yup, addictions are never good.
Once you start, you can't stop.
I was mesmerised by computer games when I was 11 years old. The sight of seeing a character moving on a screen without me pushing it manually was something out of this world for me at the time. It started with my second-hand Zx Spectrum +3. However, there was something better outside: arcades. As soon as I turned 16 years old, that was my addiction.
You could be a street fighter (SF2), a samurai, a pilot, a fighter with a gun shooting at everything it moves, without nothing happening to you in real life. Actions without consequences 😌
That only stopped once the personal computers I had at home started catching up to the Arcade graphics and the introduction of PlayStation, which basically emulated the arcade experience.
I still play World of Warcraft until today.
Perhaps society should go back to the traditional way of arranged marriages and no divorce except when there's cheating involved. Like in India.
When people are left to decide what they want, too many are incapable of choosing what they want, especially women. 🙄
I know my mother used to tell me that her uncles married through arranged marriages, and they weren't happy about it. Imagine marrying an asian girl, short with no physical attributes, not even a pretty face.
They ended up cheating on them with p-r-o-s-t-i-t-u-t-e-s. But their wives still got their provision, protection, and kids.
When f-e-m-i-n-i-s-t-s complain about the patriarchy, they conveniently forget about the good parts: every woman would get a man to marry. In modern society, the less attractive women may get hot guys to sleep with them, but none want them for marriage. Everyone is chasing the hot girls just like the girls are chasing after the hot guys.
In the end, a lot are left out because they all think they can do better.
Women will keep sleeping with Ch4ds, Tyrones, bad boys, hoping they will get commitment from them. So they ended up getting pumped and dumped over and over again.
Men will keep chasing after hot girls, hoping they will notice them eventually. Look at how much money the OFs models are getting from thirsty men just as an example.
Also, even if these guys eventually managed to finally get the girl they were chasing after, she just settled with him because Ch4d, Tyrone, bad boy didn't want to commit to them. She either ends up cheating on him or 10 years down the road she divorces him, taking the kids, the house, child support, and alimony. To go back chasing after Ch4d, Tyrone and bad boys.
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I think most men would be happy if they had a wife that would be (listing priorities):
1. Loyal.
2. Loving
3. Pleasant to be around
4. Reciprocate
5. Cooperative
For example my cousin is an Architect and is married to his university sweetheart. She's an Architect as well. They have 2 sons, they are happily married for around 2 decades now, and they are on their 50s.
He works at the town council and brings project home for her to work on. She's the stay at home parent and as Legion of Men said, these days you have microwaves, washing machines, vacuum cleaners, etc.
I remember when they were dating, she used to lean her head on his shoulder. It was obvious by her body language that my cousin was the leader in the relationship.
I think it's the disloyalty, selfishness, combative, entitlement, wanting to go out party and drinking all the time, hookup culture, girl boss attitude that's turning off western men.
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I'm currently 47 years old. I'm supporting my mother, and my 37 yesrs old younger sister is living with her.
I was around my 30s when I've decided not to marry and have kids. Life wasn't going as I've planned. I was hoping to be graduated by 26 years old (that didn't happen), be established in a good job, have a house by 28 years old, and be married with kids before my 30s.
As a co-worker that I used to work, with on my 30s (he was also around that age) told me, it's when you are young that you want to have kids because you still have the stamina to play with them. He married a female co-worker and had a son but divorced her after a couple of years due to differences. He was a saver. She was a spender. From what I've heard from a former female co-worker of the same age as my mother, he remarried with another girl, and I think he had another kid with her.
My younger sister, despite being graduated in programming engineering, decided to change career paths and is planning to be single as well.
She dated 3 times after she graduated and started working before giving up.
Of the 8 female cousins I have:
- 1 is a doctor and is married to another doctor. They dated for 10 years, married 1-2 yesrs ago, and his family is established. She's around the same age as my younger sister.
- 1 is married to an average guy and has 1 daughter.
- 2 are divorced. 1 has a kid (son), and she got the house from the husband. The other is a spender and likes to travel.
- 4 are single. 1 is on her 50s (party girl), 1 is on her 40s (party girl), 1 is on her 30s, and 1 is on her 20s (party girl).
Of the 3 male cousins I have:
- 1 is an architect and is married to another architect. They have 2 sons almost grown up.
- 1 is married to a teacher and has a kid (son) with her. She's the one supporting him. Her father owns properties. He likes to work as a DJ at night.
- 1 is a bank manager in the UK but doesn't want to get married. Ironically, he's probably the one who has the higher income amongst all of us. But he likes to travel a lot, like his sister.
In Portugal, fathers are allowed to take parental leave. I remember my female engineer boss complaining, the architect that works for her, taking too many parental leaves. For context, he was Catholic and had 4 sons, 2 daughters, and 1 baby. The female engineer had 1 son only.
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No High value man, will waste his time, listening to what a single mother has to say, on the internet.
These women are just talking to other women at this point, while providing free content for men channels, so the audience can have a good laugh at them.
There's more women than men and for each man that refuses to marry, one woman will die alone. Being shared, by a minority of attractive guys and being pumped and dumped, is not a relationship.
These women are completely delusional.
They think they can waste, their prime years, having fun, chasing careers, sleep with multiple guys, have children with them and than when they hit the wall, no money, have nothing to offer, a sucker with resources, will come and provide for her and her children, for nothing in exchange. To add insult to injury, she probably will divorce him after her kids are grown up, take his house, half of his pension, alimony, etc.
A good woman, doesn't wait at the finishing line to pick her husband. She choses someone with a good future, with a similar age from the beginning.
At least, that's what I witnessed in the stable marriages, I witnessed.
My cousin wife, married him after they graduated from the Architecture course.
They have 2 kids, a house, stable careers. But all of that was built by them.
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@HenrySimmons1225 my comments is directly related to the video.
The fact that you haven't disputed this argument, makes me believe you just commenting.
Why comments, without watching ?
To clarify, I don't date.
It doesn't matter if she's a 10, 9, 8, 7, 6, 5, 4, 3, 2, 1 or if it's a man.
They are all treated the same way by me, because I have 0 interest in women.
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Women unlike men can have sex with the guys they are attracted to. However, while men can have sex with a woman, they dated and forget about her the next day, women operate differently.
Aa Marquett said in Fresh&Fit women lie on their dating profiles. They are always looking for something serious. But they have been hurt so many times, they've been disappointed, they've been lied to, they've been cheated on, they've had to have abortions, they had all these things, so they have a veneer saying they don't want anything serious or just wanna hookup when in reality, women are always on the same program: secure long term mate.
In the end many men may end up lonely but many women also end up loneny with the aggravating factor of knowing they've been used for sex by men that were out of their league and in the longterm that creates hatred towards all men. Because these women only see the top percentage of men. They don't acknowledge the others.
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I think it depends on the person.
My younger sister and I are completely different.
I used to have 2 close friends who I shared hobbies like comics, gaming, anime, etc.
Our friendship started in an arcade house when I was 18 years old and they were 16 years old.
It ended when I was 31 years old.
One of them had developed feelings for my younger sister, and it was starting to make her unconformable. The 2 friends were best friends when I met them. So stopping to talk with one meant stopping to talk with the other.
I hang out with my younger sister friends after that, for a couple of years. They shared the same passions as I did. But after I turned 37 years old and came to the UK, I don't feel the need to have friends anymore.
My mother and younger sister are the company I need when I go to Portugal to spend holidays.
I don't have social media as I dislike it.
The only type of social media I have is: World of Warcraft. I loggin to the game, provided me with players to play with, and that's all I want.
For chatting, I have my co-workers.
My younger sister, on the other hand, loves social media and hanging out with friends and people she meets everywhere. She loves to be surrounded by people.
I'm 48 years old, my younger sister is 38 years old, and we are both single with no intentions of getting married.
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It's quite ironic that the global market that modern women use to profit from to get free attention and validation (Instagram for example) money also (OFs) to bolster their egos, with thousands of followers is also working against them in the form of foreign women competing for the men they want to marry (usually called the good man).
No man wants leftovers given the choice. No matter how much modern society tries to brainwash men into thinking:
- Women are the prize, and men are so lucky to have them.
- Women past doesn't matter.
- Her income, college degrees, and status matter.
- Not bringing anything to the table is fine because women are the table.
- Men should pay for everything despite women earning as much as men nowadays.
- Women being masculine and disrespectful is ok.
- Men should submit to women because "Happy wife happy life."
- The list goes on.
As the video shows, the future will probably be:
- Western women are competing for the top 20% of guys (the most attractive), and since they have options, they won't settle.
- Marriage material guys either marrying the few unicorns on the west or going abroad. Which results in fewer men marrying in the West.
- With the advent of AI a scenario like in Blade Runner 2 can now become possible in the future: Joi an artificially intelligent hologram who serves as K's domestic partner, can become real.
There will be no competition between a AI programmed to serve a man and the real-life f-e-m-i-n-i-s-t indoctrinated woman programmed to hate men.
- A lot of single post wall women with cats and whine as company.
In my opinion, the power is on the side that holds the vast majority of resources.
As old wise Kevin Samuels once said if we had a Marvel scenario where Thanos snaps his fingers and all women are gone, there would be an abundance because men produce more resources than they consume.
The opposite scenario would be chaos because women don't work on critical jobs like infrastructure, and society would collapse in less than a month.
"Women are strong independent and need no man. " - Modern woman
“What goes around comes around”
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Great video Legion of Men 👍
I saved this on the life advice playlist.
One thing, I love about the manosphere are, the shared experience, knowledge and stories.
Coach Gred Adams - Got divorced by his wife and she took everything he had.
Strong Successful Male - got the the girl he was in love with, coming after him, after she got pregnant of her bad boy BF.
Richard Cooper - Got divorced but he had a good lawyer.
In conclusion: knowledge can only be acquired through bad experiences. You have to walk through the hot coals and get burned, till you are numb ...
It's true that man have to have a backbone.
My younger sister, had a childhood girlfriend.
She was a religious girl. They both graduated as programming engineers.
We liked, gaming, anime, comics and our friends shared the same hobbies.
One of my sister friends, a computer technician fell in love for her girlfriend and they ended up marrying. I though this was a perfect marriage.
They were both nerds, with glasses, he was older than her.
I was wrong ...
Looking back now, with the knowledge I acquired in these videos:
- He's a nice guy. He was always trying to buy her affection, with gifts. Usually computer parts, he didn't needed anymore, but she really needed. He was always trying to find new games to play with her.
- She was attracted to me, when I asked my sister why, she said it was my height. I'm 5.9 (1,8 meters). The guy she married is shorter.
- She married him, because he has a house. She wanted to leave her parents house.
- She doesn't want to have kids with him, only cats.
- Even though she's graduated, he makes more money than she does.
- He had to sell his house, that was in his name to his mother in law, because she needed a house on the ground floor, due to an accident she had. Now he had to buy a house, more distant of his parents house, with her.
- They were at my mother house, during new year eve. My mother described what she witnessed: her sitting in the couch, while he was bringing the food to her.
- Unfortunately this guy father, was the same.
He also worked in the programming area, he's also a nerd with glasses.
The mother was a blue eyes blond that worked in selling houses business.
They have 2 sons. The one I mentioned above is the oldest.
I heard from my mother, that the mother cheated on the father, with her boss.
I remember writing in the Fresh and Fit comments section, an explanation of what a high value man was, according to old Kevin Samuels:
6 feet tall, 6 figures income, 6 pack.
I was replied by another commentator:
"Good luck with that formula. If you don't have frame, girls won't look at you. HVM here."
Honestly that was a good information. It matched, exactly what I always suspected: looks, attractiveness matter first.
This was more solidified after a female commentator explained, the reason, she fell in love with her husband, (I think she described herself as blond) was because he had dark hair, blue eyes and he was also tall. Of course he was working on the same company as she was and was making good money, but that came as an afterthought.
Women regarding first impressions are not that different of men.
My cousin described that the main feature, that made him fell in love for his wife was her big "chest".
The junior architect, Catholic, I used to work with, said he always wanted a blond wife. That's what he's married to. Last time I see him 10 years ago, he had 6 children.
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An elderly Portuguese co-worker whom I used to live with in the UK for 2 years told me this:
"The worst of the UK is still better than the worst of Portugal. "
I believe he was right.
If people think Brits talk bad about their country, they haven't seen the Portuguese talking about Portugal.
One co-worker doesn't even want to be acknowledged as Portuguese but as Lusitan.
"The Lusitanians[1] were an Indo-European-speaking people living in the far west of the Iberian Peninsula, in present-day central Portugal and ExtremaduraCastilla y Leon of Spain. After its conquest by the Romans, the land was subsequently incorporated as a Roman province named after them (Lusitania). Wikipedia
Back when I still had a job in Portugal before 2014, I talked via World of Warcraft chat message with a friend of a friend of mine.
He was in the UK complaining how bad living there was. He ended up going back to Portugal to be with his wife and kids and got himself another job at a transport company. However, my experience coming out of unemployment for 2 years in 2014 was different. For me, the UK was an oasis from the desert of employment I experienced in Portugal. I've been here since 2014, and there's no reason to go back.
I believe that no matter how bad the US economy is at the moment it's still better for the UK citizens, just like the UK is better for people like me who come from European countries that have high unemployment rate or very low wages. Portugal has become a destination for people who are coming from Brazil, Pakistan, etc.
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Modern women talk about the oldest profession in the world as if suddenly they discovered powder.
Yes, it gives easy access to money and things a normal average wife wouldn't have access to, but on the long run, they will be miserable, alone and hating on men for using them. When the irony is: they chose this lifestyle.
Honestly, it's all about getting thousands of dollars, with the minimum effort:
- Sugar babes;
- "Sex workers";
- OFs "model";
- Divorcing their husbands and taking everything they can, so they can go back, living the single lifestyle;
- The list goes on.
The laziest generation of women ever.
I remember my mother telling me about a girl, working for an agency, in her kitchen canteen.
She complained to the other women, the money she was making there was a joke. "Spreading" her legs at the central part of the city, would grant her, 250 euros easily, she said.
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1st woman: Chivalry is dead 💀 because of F3minism.
2nd woman: If a man approaches a woman in the gym, he can be labelled a creep, face complains of sexual harassment, have a woman that is looking for attention and validation on the internet, posting a video of him, approaching her and being labelled a stalker, losing his job, friends and family in the process.
On dating apps, women are making themselves available to be approached. It's not the same, as in the gym.
She should stop pretending that she doesn't know 😒
3rd woman: got told why the guy wasn't interested in her, the honest truth btw, not the lies she's used to, got bitter and had to make a video about it, to feel good about herself.
Now she knows, how's it feels to be rejected in a cruel way as so many men, do every time.
Men age like fine wine, women age like milk.
Old men are still desired by younger women because they can still: provide, protect and get them pregnant.
Old women are not desired by men of their age, because, their bodies are old, they are not as fertile as younger women, they come with baggage and trauma, from previous relationships.
I have no sympathy for these women.
When they were younger, they discriminated men, left and right. Now that they are older, they are bitter, that those same men are looking for younger women.
The tables have turned.
They had their chance and they blew it.
These women are too stubborn to admit their wrong doings, will drag younger women in to their same lifestyle, that caused them to be single and will die bitter and angry.
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19:27 💯
This reminds me of a story with a happy ending in Strong Successful Male, sent by a subscriber.
He came from a house whose parents were drunk all the time.
He worked at bars and nightclubs, and that's how he got women. The married women only wanted one night stands. He made a name for himself. He travelled (irc) around Europe, and he was working on a military base in the UK. He was working as a bartender. Also, he had the reputation here as well. One day, this beautiful military girl comes with her superior. He tried everything to see her nameplate on her uniform despite not being designated to her table. He didn't get her name. However the next day she was there again with her girlfriends. He engaged in talks with her and told her he didn't mind being part of her rotation, but if they were going to be engaged, they had to be exclusive.
One year later, in Saint Patrick's day, she asks him to marry her.
He immediately answered yes.
Later that night, he took her outside and decided to tell her about all his past. How he came from a house of drunk parents, etc.
Surprisingly, instead of rejecting him, she returned the favour and told him she also came from a broken house, and all she wanted was someone to care about her.
Decades of marriage after, she Surprisingly kept her word. She supported him while he was unemployed, and he supported her when she was unemployed as well. Her looks faded, but they are still happily married, exchanging jokes with each other.
She jokes about his reputation with women.
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Thanks for the valuable information, shared today, Legion of Men 👍
To be honest, I'm not in to dating but more in to stories of relationships, like the ones shared, in Strong Successful Male channel.
Don't get me wrong. In that channel, similar values are shared, amongst the viewers, like:
- Improving yourself.
- Going to the Gym.
- Be on your grind.
- Don't fall in love with women.
- Never show weakness.
- Be masculine.
- Be experienced with Women (get burned 🔥)
- Watch for red flags.
- Never tolerate disrespect.
- Be a leader.
- Be ready to walk away.
- Etc.
However what I learned today, was another nail on the coffin ⚰️ of what used to be once, the ideal image of women, for me.
So if a man knows how to run a certain program (game), they all (almost all) fall for it.
Disappointing to say the least.
Ironically women, have been the ones saying: men are all the same. It seems women are not that much different either.
No wonder they fall, for the same guys all the time: Ch4ds, Tyrones and Bad boys.
The more I Iearn about women, the more happier I am, for never got myself involved, with one.
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To the woman ranting about body count, it's not men fault that she and others like her, couldn't keep their legs closed and ruined, their most valuable asset, for men, who are looking to get married: their body.
If I can keep it in my pants, for 47 years, so can women like her, until they get married.
But that's the mindset. Asking for a 666 man, while being a washed up 304, with nothing except a pain on the rear to offer.
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I honestly could never put up with jobs in the sales department. For me, it's scamming people to buy something they don't need.
I like to work with my hands. One of the reasons I love being single is: I don't have a nagging wife complaining she wants me to have a better paid position so she can have more money to spend and show off to her girlfriends.
If people have potential, then I say it's a waste not thriving for more. Recently, I had a 23 years old UK co-worker who loved programming and was leaving to work on the field. I told him to get a degree if he could so he could achieve more.
In my case, it seems I lack practical sense. This leads me to always want to do things the right way, while others manage to get things done in a shorter time.
Finding work was always a pain in the a s s.
Wanting to work when you are young, but not getting a job, except through referrals, and spending 2 years unemployed was an eye opener. Worse than having a low salary is not having a salary at all. In my case immigrating wasn't an option it was the only thing I could do.
I'm currently working in the UK, and I see people from every part of the world here. These people have probably much less than I do. Heck, I have a Indian co-worker living off the same paycheck as I do, and he has a wife and 3 kids.
"The world has enough for everyone's need, but not enough for everyone's greed." - Mahatma Gandhi
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My younger sister had a best female best friend, she knew since kindergarten.
They finished university together in the same area of work: computer programming.
They liked: anime, gaming, playing with boys (tomboys), and fun to be around.
She was also: from a two parents household, religious, never dated, nerdy looks and thin.
This was probably the girl with the most green flags I've ever witnessed in my whole life, and she was interested in me.
However, there was another guy in my younger sister friends groups who also liked her.
He worked as a computer hardware technician and a nerdy appearance (like all of us).
The girl wanted to leave her parents' house because they were too old and relied too much on her help (she was a late pregnancy, her mother had her on her 40s, only daughter).
Knowing this I decided to step aside because she was going to have a much better chance with that guy (he earned around 2000 euros back in 2014, owned a house, came from a 2 parents household).
If people asked me, at the time I would guarantee, this couple was set to be the happy for life.
I was wrong ...
After they got married, the girl didn't want to have kids, she didn't cook, she only wanted to be with her cats (lots of them, some picked on the streets).
Last time they were at my mother house in the new year back in 2023, my mother described their relationship as Lady and a butler. The guy was bringing food while she was sitting on the couch.
They are both fat as well now ☹️
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On Babylon 5 Tv series from 1994. There were 2 very advanced races that made humans look like very primitive: the Vorlons and the Shadows.
The Vorlons would ask: "Who are you ?"
The Shadows would ask: "What do you want ?"
I think Vorlons represented light while the Shadows represented darkness.
I believe we are not all the same, neither we want all the same things.
As Legion of Men stated once, if you come from a broken family, then you already have one of the 3 main problems that rules you out of being a stable partner.
Honestly, I would prefer certain people to never get married, then to create broken families, which then originates broken children afterwards. I'm talking about the guys who can't settle with just one woman and need to be constantly dating multiple women and the women that can't seem to stay in a healthy marriage before destroying it, because they keep self sabotaging themselves, due to their pair bonding being destroyed.
In my case, work fills much of my life. When I get home, I've already spoken with several people during the day, and the last thing I want is: to put up with more people and noise at home. For example today, it was raining so I've decided to start a little morning exercise by running to my work before my clothes tennis shoes would be soaked. That was my 10 minutes of morning exercise, followed by 8.5 hours of physical labour. So that was all of my exercise for the day.
I only talk through video calls with my family once a week because that's all I have patience for.
One thing I've noticed watching videos and reading comments is: men usually have hobbies that keep their minds busy.
Women seem to only have fun when they hang out together, drink, gossip all the time, and need constant attention and validation.
Curiously, it seems it's divorced men who usually seem to deal better with being alone. The 57 years old guy, was still married and living a sexless unhappy marriage, the 27 years old virgin never had a girlfriend despite wanting one, the 36 years old guy in this video wants friends and a family.
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Happiness comes from within yourself. At least you are humble to admit your flaws.
That's how I started.
I'm not a person that goes to church but I like to cross examine reality with the bible.
In one of the 10 commandments it says:
“You shall not covet your neighbor’s house; you shall not covet your neighbor’s wife, nor his male servant, nor his female servant, nor his ox, nor his donkey, nor anything that is your neighbor’s.”
It's said that breaking this rule might make you break all the other rules. Like adoring other things above God, killing, stealing, commiting adultery, etc.
For me this also means: you will never be happy if you keep desiring what others have.
We are not born with the same gifts. Some men are more gifted than others in many different areas like: looks, intelligence, physically, etc.
The biggest lie society keeps telling us, in my opinion is: if you try hard enough you will make it there.
Truth is: not all men are born equal or under the same circumstances.
Yes we should try our best but at some point you need to realise when it's turning in to insanity.
F3minism for example is for me a religion that teaches women all the wrong ways.
For example teaching them to not be happy with what they have because they are the Queen's and deserve it all.
Envy, hate, debauchery are predominant in this movement.
No wonder they are always miserable.
I'm grateful for what I have. A lot of people around the world struggle just to have something to eat until next day.
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From every Traditional woman that existed in the past came the women that existes today.
The fact that modern society has so many single mothers is a testament of the failure of their mothers and grandmothers.
When women decided to start divorcing their husbands, just because they could and was profitability, society helped them.
I have no sympathy for what will happen to these women. Everything is their own wrong doing, their own choices. They are given options women in third world countries, can only dream of and still they decide to blow it up because they are bored.
When a man is considered boring, just because he's not Ch4d, Tyrone bad boy, women lose any morals to complain when they are pumped and dumped.
Women live on easy mode, men have to struggle just to find a decent woman that hasn't been ran through by dozens of guys.
When a woman is single is because of her choices in life.
When a man is single is because he couldn't find a suitable partner or he got rejected so many times, he gave up.
Men don't have to do anything for women who expect to be given everything, just because they exist.
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I'm 47 years old and a virgin also.
I've seen too many guys, including my former 2 friends losing it to sex workers. One of them married, because his mother set him up, he still wanted to play pc games, like I do, his wife had enough, ran away with another guy and took the furniture.
Another acquaintance, who also liked games and anime, married a girlfriend of my sister, that was just like him.
The problems are: she doesn't want to have kids, with him, only wants to have cats, the house is full of them. Last time they were at my mother house for new year eve, my mother described their dynamic basically as a butler and his Lady.
Turns out, she only married him, because she was desperate to get out of her parents house and this guy owned a house.
He's a computer technician and she's graduated as a programming engineer.
Still, he earns more than her.
She's not hot at all, her body is almost like a guy.
Aa you can see: 1 marriage that resulted in divorce and another one that isn't going anywhere.
People put too much emphasis in losing your V card these days. Look how that is turning out for women ...
Better to be alone, than in bad company. - George Washington
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On the other hand, you have a society made of women that are ruined for marriage, even at young ages like in their 20s.
I think Legion of Men posted a reddit with a girl on her 20s claiming she had 26 guys, but she told her Conservative boyfriend, it was 2.
Who wants to marry that ?
What motivation has a guy to do anything these days ?
You work hard, but you see people around you, not caring, not doing their jobs, still getting paid the same as you and when you talk to them, they reply, it's not worth it because companies are exploiting people, by paying low wages.
Men are treated like crap by women.
They are covered in tattoos, Ill manners and dress like men.
In my opinion: western women, deserve the weak men they complain about.
A woman that does nothing to be feminine attractive and traditional, deserves a guy that does nothing for himself.
Why should he ?
When she doesn't deserve it.
Isn't it amazing how in countries where women are traditional, guys are still masculine ?
What we don't find there ?
F-e-m-i-n-i-s-m.
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47 years old never dated a woman.
During my entire life, I was always busy. School, university, work, family, friends, hobbies, etc.
I believe in no sex before marriage, and if I ever dated, it was solely with the purpose of finding a wife.
Strong Successful Male once told in one of his videos that if you marry and divorce in your 40s or 50s, you can still make a comeback in your life if you work hard. However, if you marry in your 40s like my case and divorce on your 60s, it's over. By that time, you will be too old to do anyway.
The guy in the video cares too much about women.
"Care about what other people think, and you will always be their prisoner." Lao Tzu.
One of many lessons I've learned in Strong Successful Male is that there's no such thing as the one. Have an abundance mindset. If a woman dumps you find another one, there's billions of women on the planet.
What this guy should do is focus on himself and improve his life, especially making more money.
Why is he worrying about having a girlfriend when he can't afford one ?
From what he says, he was already at risk of becoming homeless.
As Legion of Men stated, women only care about 2 things: how much money you make and how big your package is, and this guy has neither of them.
Despite not dating women, I was always curious about their nature. How they think, how they behave, how they chose men, what are they attracted to, etc.
What I found on channels like this and Strong Successful Male completely shatered the image I had of them.
Porsuing women is, in my opinion, a vain endeavour. Relations are transactional, sex becomes meaningless once that tool men have between their legs ceases to function and kids are usually ungrateful towards all the sacrifices parents do for them.
Women often say that men only care about sex, beauty, they objectify women etc. They say men should be more open about their feelings towards women.
Well it seems I found 2 perfect women for that: my mother and my younger sister.
If I can't be myself towards the person I'm with, I would rather be alone as I have no desire to wear a mask and become something I'm not just to please someone that would drop me in a heartbeat.
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My mother divorce my father, when she was 48 years old.
She waited until my younger sister was 18 years old, so she didn't share custody with my father.
For context, my father wasn't faithful and my mother married at 18 years old virgin.
She never wanted to have anything to do with men again. Me and my younger sister told her, we were fine, if she met someone she liked. But she never wanted to. She always prioritised us.
Some people are just born to be parents, like my mother.
Today at 67 years old, she enjoys the company of my younger sister and I sent her money to help her out. She's happy to be alone.
I'm also happy to live on my own.
My aunt, sister of my father, after she divorced her husband (he was drunk and beat her), went dating. The problem was, she did not pay any attention to my 4 cousins.
She's currently married to a retired English guy.
He's tall, just like her husband. She always liked tall guys.
Even though she's retired from the bank, she still cooks, cleans and take care of the house.
None of my cousins care about her.
She said, she wish her children were as caring as the ones my mother has.
Actions have consequences.
The 1st female cousin, is single at 50+ years old. She dated a lot, when she was younger and loved partying all the time.
The 4th female cousin, was married, but is now divorced. Her husband got tired of her laziness.
She worked, but never did anything around the house. They always had to eat outside.
They were constantly travelling during holidays and had nothing, except debt when they divorced.
The 2nd male cousin, was the only one that married. He married his University sweetheart and they have 2 sons.
The 3rd male cousin is the more successful one. He's a bank manager and has no desire to marry.
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I don't miss having friends.
My mother likes to be left alone. My father couldn't stay quiet at home he always needed to go out and talk to friends.
I'm more like my mother. My younger sister is more like my father. She constantly needs to speak to people and make new friends and connections.
It depends on the person.
My sister graduated. I didn't.
However, she gave up on her field of work, which was computer engineering, to work on the field more dedicated to helping people with depression in our country, Portugal.
I work on a minimum wage job in the UK.
From the 2 of us, it's me who's helping financially my mother. My younger sister doesn't earn enough. It barely covers her expenses.
Having studies, friends, and connections doesn't automatically translate into financial success.
I used to have 2 best friends.
One believed in communism and was always depressed. Me and the other friend were the ones who always had to cheer him up.
I had enough of him after he started developing feelings for my younger sister and started bashing her with emails for not paying enough attention to him.
The other friend ceased to talk with me over time.
The online games provided the company he needed.
I tried hanging out with my younger sister group of friends. They were 10 years younger than me.
We went out to cinemas, hung out, and went to birthday parties.
I don't miss it.
I feel like I always have to put a mask when I'm with others. Be the socially acceptable version of myself. Say the right things, pretend I'm having fun, pretend I'm laughing at something when in reality I don't find it funny at all.
Unfortunately, the reality is that some people are just normally charismatic while others are naturally introverted and tend not to be as interesting as others. Women sense that.
More than a decade ago me and my younger sister and I were with a group of acquaintances, and on that table, it was clear who was the guy who was drawing more female interest during that conversation.
It is what it is.
These days, my co-workers provide me with all the social interaction I need. Honestly, by the end of the day, I just want to go home and be alone.
Unfortunately the internet provides too much from the comfort of your home.
In my case, if I need people to play a game, I just need to login a online game like World of Warcraft, and there's thousands of players available 24/7. If I need life advice there's the men channels like this one. You learn, and you can comment with other people.
I don't need a television like I used to when I was a kid. Youtube provides everything I want without being subjected to having to watch programs I don't want until the one I want comes.
In other people case they have social media and online friends. If they want to date there's the dating apps.
What's happening at the moment is a direct result of societal changes caused by technology.
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In my case, having a job and being able to afford a place to live is already better than what I had in Portugal.
The architecture office, I was in, went bankrupt in 2012, along with the construction sector. I was living on unemployment benefits for 2 years.
I had been in the Architecture university but never graduated as the fees were expensive and I had to work a full time job to pay for them.
Studied, while I was working: AutoCAD, 3D studio Max, Maya, with the hopes of landing a designer apprentice job: nothing.
While I was unemployed, I took a year course of computer technician, several programming course in the hopes of getting a job in the field: nothing.
Applied for car washing jobs and market place jobs, that didn't required skills: nothing.
In end I got a job interview to work in the UK as a airport cleaner. That was the only job offer, I had in 2 years of sending CVs. Working abroad.
Worked there for 3 months, went for Amazon but they only hired from October to January and than, I was jobless again.
Worked on agencies, with long periods of having no work and finally landed the job I got. It's minimum wage but it's better than what I had before.
I still need to send money to my family because my mother is struggling to pay for her house mortgage.
People may complain about not living comfortable on the country they live in, like the US, but there's worst: not having a job at all.
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Body count matters.
More to women than men. Because women are ones that get pregnant.
I wouldn't want to generate a child, inside of a womb, where dozens of guys have dropped their seed before 🤮
Women that say: "Body count doesn't matter", "My past shouldn't matter", "It was just sex, no feelings involved", are involved in hookup culture, defend other women bad behaviour or claim to be "reborn virgins" are for entertainment purposes, only.
There's a difference between:
- Dating, going out, having kisses, but nothing happened and having sex.
- Dating with the purpose of getting married and going to bed with a guy because he was hot, "it was just sex, no feelings involved", a fling, getting pumped and dumped by guys who didn't commit to her (this shows, she doesn't know, how to vet guys properly).
As Legion of men stated, when a woman is damaged, there's nothing a man can do.
Strong Successful Male channel, is flooded of stories of guys, that: dated/married, damaged women, because they were either, deceived or though they could change them. The results were, disastrous. From never ending drama, sexless relationship to cheating. Sometimes with: multiple guys. In some of these stories, the woman is a career woman. Lawyer, working on an investment firm, nurse(s), the list goes on.
Fresh and Fit have been recently analysing the incident involving Jonathan Majors and his GF. How he was convicted and dropped, from Marvel studios.
He tried to put his drunken GF on the car, take away his phone from her, which caused her a bruise on her finger, but than he had to run away from her, because things escalated and he didn't want to get in to trouble. He still did. They analysed his text messages, on his phone and apparently he was considered: controlling.
Fresh and Fit stated, that you can't tell anything that is considered controlling to a woman now, by text. Because that can be used, for prosecution.
In my opinion, as a guy that lives outside of the US, that country, regarding men's rights is doomed. The women are the majority of voters and politicians know that. That's why the law (courts, judges, police) is on their side.
It's a good country to make money. But one of the worst ones, if not the worst in the world to find a woman and be married.
As soon as the guy gets married is a ticking clock ⏰, the wife has a gun 🔫 pointed at his head and the day she decides she's not happy (CGA usually say: "I'm not happy."), that's when the trigger is pulled and the husband life is destroyed.
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For me it all starts, with sleeping with too many guys. Being promiscuous. Being empowered.
How many guys, had Riley Reid, slept before, p0rn caught her attention ?
Doing p0rn was just another step. Monetize her body, instead of giving it for free to hot guys, she dated. In my opinion.
I would argue, a lot of girls in whatever podcast (for example), would put people like Riley Reed, Lana Rhoades or Mia Khalifa, to shame, with their body count. Like one girl that was so addicted to hookups, she had guys lining up, during the night, to sleep with her. She even had backups, in case one guy, wouldn't come.
Another girl in whatever podcast, that was talking with Candace Owens, was said to be a sex worker, that had sex with 10 guys per night.
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It used to be standard knowledge amongst women, that a woman should only sleep with a man AFTER they got married and her reward to her now husband was: her V card and long life commitment.
F3minists thought they could have it all.
They got what they deserved.
They will now learn the hard way, why things were done the way they were done generations ago.
Why fathers were the best, to chose their husbands: because they knew who were the guys who only wanted to have fun with their daughters, who weren't good providers, etc.
Why a woman had to marry at young age and be a virgin. Because that's what men want to marry.
Why women stayed at home taking care of her kids and her husband went to work.
So she could stay on her feminine energy and nurture the kids.
It wasn't perfect, because the guy could cheat on his wife and she would be left with nothing.
But it was way better than what we have now.
A society with lots of single older women, single mothers, 304 inflation.
A society where the number of children born are way below replacement values.
A society made out of irresponsible women, that will never admit their wrong choices in life, thinking they can change the world because somehow, the world should revolve around them.
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There was a story sent by a subscriber to Strong Successful Male. His parents were alcoholic. He ended up working in bars and hooking up with women. Some were married. He made a name for himself. He lived in the US
When he met his now wife at a bar, he was working in the UK. He was so in love with her that he even told her that he didn't mind being part of her rotation. She was 21 years old in the military. He was 28 years old, bartender. So right from the beginning, he accepted she wasn't going to be exclusive to him. However, he did tell her that once they were engaged, they had to become exclusive. She proposed to OP a year after in Saint Patrick's day, and he immediately said yes. Afterwards, at night, he walked with her outside the bar and told her about his past. She replied by saying she also came from a broken house, and all she wanted was someone to care about her. They moved in together, married a year later, and been together since then. He lost his job, and she supported him. She lost her job as he supported her. Her looks faded over time, but they still love each other. They throw jokes at each other, like when she asks him to wear condoms (irc), when he goes to work, reminding him about his past.
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I'm working 9 hours a day, 5 days a week, in the UK. Minimum wage.
The wage allows me to pay for my room, equipped with a small kitchen and my own toilet, send 500 pounds to help my mother each month, buy groceries, pay for my world of warcraft subscription and save some money. My biggest expense so far was my Acer laptop for gaming. It cost me around 1150 pounds. Bought it last year to replace my Dell laptop, I bought in 2019 and it cost me 899 pounds.
It's amazing the amount of money you save when:
- Your workplace is 15 minutes from where you live.
- You don't need a car.
- You are single without children.
- You enjoy gaming instead of travelling abroad. In fact the only hollidays I take is, to spend time with my younger sister and mother in Portugal. That's another advantage of being single: more money and time to spend with your relatives.
Having gaming has another advantage: it doesn't matter if the country you are living in is: cold, rainy, cloudy, etc. You are at home all the time so it doesn't matter.
In Portugal the minimum wage is €5.43 per hour.
In the UK the minimum wage is £11.44 per hour.
So yes I'm happy living in the UK. People here are more polite and there's more regulations at work 😁
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There's always new viewers needing to learn this knowledge.
I remember a Strong Successful Male subscriber who had his story viewed by his daughter after her friends viewed the series of videos in which he was telling his story and they went to his daughter and asked her if this was her story. We are talking about adolescents.
The names were changed, but he was still found out.
This subscriber takes, in my opinion, the prize for the most unfortunate guy I ever witnessed writing these stories.
In his wedding night after he woke up, he found his now recently wife on the bed with his brother and her best friend. He jumped on his brother and beat the hell out of him. He was pressured by his parents and in-laws to forgive the wife, but he wouldn't have it, and he cancelled the marriage and kicked her out of his apartment.
He also found out years later that:
- His brother was dying of cancer, but he didn't forgive him despite his brother pleas to forgive him and help his ex-wife take care of her daughter and only went to his funeral.
- His ex-wife had a daughter conceived around the wedding weeks.
- After doing a DNA test, he found out the daughter was his, and he wasn't the biological son of his father. His mother had cheated on his father and covered his ex-wife affair with her brother for years.
- On top of everything he got a call from his daughter asking him if he was her father after she watched the videos in Strong Successful Male channel. To which he replied yes. There was a lot of shouting and drama with the ex-wife, the daughter, and the rest of the family afterwards.
There were no more updates. After that, for obvious reasons, unfortunately ☹️
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The greatest irony here is that f3minism actually liberated men, not women.
Until my parents generation, arranged marriages were still a thing. I'm from Portugal btw.
A lot of guys ended up being paired with women that they didn't liked and when I say didn't liked, I mean: ugly.
However at least every woman was assured to get a guy and society was guaranteed to have kids popping up left and right.
Now with f3minism and the destruction of the nuclear families, not only women showed that they only care for the top percentage of guys, men are walking away because there's more things to do in modern life than to care for a woman that's not worth the effort anymore.
Women might be happy for doing, saying everything they want.
However men are not looking at society as something they respect anymore.
That means a lot of men don't feel obligated to marry, provide, have kids anymore.
For each man that decides to stay single one woman won't get married, which is perfectly ok.
There's too many people on planet Earth and it's time to lower down the numbers because the planet isn't growing to accommodate more people and space colonies are a distant future, for now.
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I was sitting today at table, ready to eat a dominos pizza 🍕 with 2 cans of Coke, after a hard day of work, when I realised, how sweet is freedom. None telling me what to eat, none telling me how to spend my money, none spending my money in useless crap, I don't need, none waiting me at home to tell me how awful her day was, none wasting my time with her useless requests, no noise, just peace and quiet.
No stress, no concerns, I can do whatever I want, at any time I want, without caring for someone, who most likely never cared about me, the same way.
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Many people in these spaces have already been married:
- Hammerhand: his wife took him to the cleaners and while he still has a relationship with his son, that's not the case with his daughter.
- Coach Greg Adams: his wife took him to the cleaners, he had to sleep in his truck, couldn't even eat at restaurants . He rebuild his life but now he's advocating for the free agent lifestyle.
- Richard Cooper: got divorced, but he has a good lawyer.
- Kevin Samuels (rip): got divorced twice.
"It's better to be alone than to surround yourself with people who make you feel lonely."
Yesterday there was a story in Strong Successful Male sent by a subscriber.
He was doing well for himself in the Tech field, Christian and was dating this Christian Conservative girl named Jessica.
She had finished college recently and was a girl that went to Church, her family was Conservative as well. She was a virgin.
One day one of his co-workers named Drew, recognised her picture and told OP he knew her from College and he should think twice about dating her. He than calls Steve and this guy basically rells OP his girlfriend was named "Wild Cherry" and she had been with him and did things to him. She was wild in college.
However she did everything except allowing guys to pop her cheery. He than sent him pictures of her.
Upon confronting her, she denied, denied until she finally admitted it was in her past and it shouldn't matter. Despite doing all that debauchery at college, she was fully convinced she was still untouched and pure.
These days when women want to find good guys, it's easier than stealing a candy from a baby.
They just chose to be with the boring guys instead of Ch4d, Tyrone, bad boys. They do it when they are in their 30s. So they knew all along who to chose for marriage. They just didn't want to.
When a guy wants to find a goid wife that's loyal and wishes to build a life with him, like in our grandparents generations, that's like finding a needle in a haystack.
That's how easy women have it today.
In fact they have it so easy, they need to make it hard for themselves so they can cry on the internet how dating is hard ...
Finally just because you are married doesn't mean your life will be happy.
My father and grandfather lived lives far from what I would consider happy and when they past away it wasn't the happy ending we see in the movies.
“'Only a fool learns from his own mistakes. The wise man learns from the mistakes of others. '” - Otto Von Bismarck
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They got what they deserved and I have no sympathy for these women.
Life as a woman is like the athletes of the: NBA, NFL, football, or any kind of other sports.
From 18 to 30 years old, they have the chance to make it there. To be successful. Some will be winners, others will be elite, professionals or just be in minor leagues.
Unfortunately a good chunk doesn't have the mentality to stay focus and work hard.
Women that wasted their prime without securing a man, have only themselves to blame for.
For men it's a different scenario. It's like being a coach. They only get better with age.
Usually after 30 years old and forward.
They are leaders, they need to impose respect and everyone is counting on them, they are supposed to have the answers to the problems and if the team fails, they are the first ones to be blamed and sacked.
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The fact men like Legion of men are the ones trying to actually give good advice to women, shows that, modern women are utterly useless. The only good advice they can give is: how to destroy yourself.
Want to destroy yourself as a man ?
Do what this women tell you.
Be the nice guy, captain save a 304, listen to what her friends are telling you, listen to her mother, give everything you have, accept open relationships and if she leaves you, it was your fault because you didn't make her happy
Want to destroy yourself as a woman ?
Do what they advised: sleep around with multiple guys, leave the guys who would commit to you in friend zone, prioritize your career, wait until 30s to get married, go for open relationships and divorce your husband when you find a better guy or even bey, after 10 years go with the bad boy and claim alimony.
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Let's imagine a men movement, that blames every shortcomings on women.
It tells men the following things:
- All men, deserve the best, never settle for less.
- Men are beautiful as they are.
- Body positivity movement. No need to go to the gym, it's not men fault, it's something they can't control. Women should accept men as they are, otherwise, they are misandrist creatures.
- Men only want women with certain measurements and age. All other women are invisible to them.
- Men are the table.
- Women standards are discrimination and they should be embarrassed. Heightism, Gold digging and body discrimination, shouldn't be allowed.
- The right woman will show up eventually, because every man deserves to be loved.
- Women that don't date non traditional guys are intimidated by them.
- Don't do anything for women, make them work to get you. Play hard to get, use mind games and let her guess what you want.
- Men are the prize, women should be grateful, just to be with these Kings.
- Men should pick everything they desire on a woman and become that, because women should love: young, fertile submissive men, that can cook, take care of the kids, be a stay at home father, while the woman goes out to work and brings the money and she needs to do more around the house because men have been oppressed for decades (sarcasm).
- Men have been dying on the battlefields for thousands of years, it's time to dismantle the system and make women share their burdens on the battlefield. Women have been spoiled and protected for far too long.
I'm sure society wouldn't take this movement seriously, however the other gender, has been getting away with this for decades and now that things didn't work out (no surprise) they blame men (of course, what else right ?).
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@SoloRenegade what is more infuriating is: now that women have all the liberty to do whatever they want they still blame men, for their own choices.
For example it's no secret men always desired women with very low body count, preferably virgins. This is why fathers were very strict with who their daughters hang out with, and raised them with proper morals, values and ethics.
Now modern women, participate in hookup culture, then say that men should ignore their past, and men are to be blamed for taking advantage of them when they realised they spent their prime with the wrong guys and destroyed their value.
That's like the athletes that wasted their prime fooling around instead of focusing playing at the highest level, (NBA, NFL, football, etc.) now on their 30s thinking they still can compete with the younger generation and blames professional teams for hiring young talents instead of them.
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Remember this: life isn't over at 30.
It goes beyond that, till 70s and further than that if you lived a life without abusing your body.
I've read girls saying, that life for them might as well end at 30, because that's when they hit the wall.
Actions have consequences, no matter how much women want to ignore them.
Women are designed to be attractive in their most fertile years, because they need to attract a suitor, that will marry them, protect and provide for her and her future children, till she's too old to do anything.
That's how things should work and it's no surprise so many old women are crying on TikTok now, no guy wants them. Every single one of them failed to understand that: they are limited to what they attract and once they are no longer attractive, no guy wants them.
Also: for each gold medalist, there's dozens that couldn't make it.
Success is not for everyone.
In ancient times only one guy could be king, only a few could be nobles and the vast majority were peasants.
There's nothing wrong with being an average person. Life isn't made of roads paved with gold and bills falling from the skies.
This is where men win and women lose: we don't live in delusion.
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There was a recent story in Strong Successful Male, where the wife knew the gym influencer with 20k followers in Instagram, had a crush on her husband, but instead of being cautious about her, she decided to be friends with her Then, with no surprise, the gym influencer comes with fake text messages showing her husband wanted to hook up with the gym influencer. The wife then breaks up with the husband, kicks him out of the house, and tells him he will never see his 2 kids. But after catching the gym influencer in a lie, the gym influencer finally breaks down and confesses she wants the husband for herself. Now, the wife was throwing a pity party asking in reddit for advice to get her husband back as he stopped loving her. He only came home to see the kids. Everyone was tearing her appart for her stupidity.
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The stories, I hear in Strong Successful Male usually goes like this:
1) Guy was really in love in his teenager years for a girl.
2) She choses other guy(s), or she cheats on him, he than goes numb.
3) He starts improving his life as years go by, not caring about girls.
4) Because he doesn't care, girls start throwing themselves at him despite hes now an a-h-o-l-e.
5) He uses them, doesn’t give them a relationship and they stay as friends with beneficts.
6) Some try to play him, but they fall on their face, because he never loved them, because he's now numb to women.
7) Even if he gets married, his wife knows as soon as she pulls BS on him, she's out the door.
The path to learn to deal with women, is full of pain and hard lessons.
Women create the monsters they later cry about. Instead of looking what's best for them in the long term, they look for the short term gratification and when they hit 30s, they wonder, why they keep being used for sex and no commitment. Because the good guys, meanwhile learned the hard way to deal with them and now just see them as a one night stand.
A good example of how women punish nice guys can be found in the movie "The Last American Virgin" 1982.
Gary, falls in love for Karen but she gets pregnant of Rick. Ricks doesn't stay to be with her.
Gary helps her with the abortion, hoping to be with her. In the end Gary finds out that Karen still loves Rick.
In Strong Successful Male there was story about a guy who loved a girl but she friend zoned him.
She than got pregnant of a guy in college and than they went to live together. Years down the road and after a couple of failed marriages and kids, she's now back chasing him. He on the other hand is now established in life, has house, car etc.
Despite he telling her, he wasn't interested in her, she kept porsuing him.
The story ends with him, pumping and dumping her, while she throws a fit on social media, saying he's a guy who took advantage of her.
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I fully agree with everything said in this video 👍
I heard this in Strong Successful Male: women have this concept of "Frenemies," something men don't have.
From Google: " is an oxymoron and a portmanteau of "friend" and "enemy" that refers to "a person with whom one is friendly, despite a fundamental dislike or rivalry" or "a person who combines the characteristics of a friend and an enemy"."
There's countless stories in Strong Successful Male channel of marriages that got sabotaged by girlfriends. The most sad one was a marriage that was destroyed by a BFF who wanted the husband of her girlfriend for herself. She convinced the wife that the husband was cheating with her. The wife filed for divorce and took everything from the husband, including the kids. She didn't listen to him, and she got a new boyfriend. After everything was done the BFF was drunk at a party and laughed at the now ex-wife and told her she made it all up and how easily fouled she had been compared to her husband who stayed faithful despite her attempts to sabotage the marriage.
The BFF got assaulted by the now ex-wife.
The ex-wife was now trying to get back to the husband she even cried to his parents to convince him to go back to her
The father told her she was responsible for destroying the family. The mother tried to ask the son to go back to his wife, but after everything the husband went through in the divorce, he considered her dead to him. He only cared about the kids now.
My mother, who used to work as a chef on a canteen full of women, once told me regarding a new female staff at my workplace, heavily male dominated: "Where women go troubles follow."
One of the worst times I had at my current workplace was when I had a female assistant manager a few years ago She had no clue of how hard was our work so she decided to increase the volume of work until my elderly co-worker went to the office had a word with her and explained we had our schedule and we couldn't take more work.
After watching so many stories in Strong Successful Male I realised that women have this destructive nature I will never understand.
- They self sabotage good relationships because of low self-esteem.
- They sabotage their girlfriends. Crabs in a bucket mentality.
- They steal boyfriend's from their girlfriends.
- They chose F boys instead of good guys than complain all men want is: sex.
- They get pregnant of guys that can't provide but expect a good man to step over and take the responsibility.
- They can't take rejection and go to social media trying to destroy the reputation of the man who rejected her.
- They gossip all the time.
- They like drama.
- They can't work as a collective like men do.
- You can't believe a word they say: "Watch for her actions, not her words."
- Etc.
Any doubts, just look at the results of modern feminism and what has done to society and the nuclear families. It basically puts women worst traits on steroids: envy, selfishness, hatred, disloyalty, lust, combative, disrespectful, etc.
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@MDE_never_dies Well played. But if you don't mind, I will use your tale, to exemplify, why even if you get involved with a virgin, you are not safe in this modern society, with this story from Strong Successful Male:
A guy and his wife, lost their V cards, together. They were dating in high-school. When time came to go to college, the guy had a much better offer, to go to a better college. He would make more money. They both agree, the better option was to go to different colleges, but remain in touch.
They still kept meeting, after both graduated, they married and had kids.
Sounds great right ?
Here's the horror story ...
After 20 years of marriage, during a reunion with former college students, from his wife, the guy overheards, a female friend of his wife telling her, she was wild back in college. His wife immediately, gave her the looks.
Upon returning home, the husband demanded the truth, from his wife or he would ask her female friend. She started crying and finally told him, during her time at college, she took part in parties and hookups at college, while they were in separate colleges.
He demanded to know how many guys and how many times.
Her final number between guys she met multiple times and one night stands was: 26.
He than demanded to be given the same privilege and sleep with 26 women. She started crying and told him she wouldn't accept it.
The story ended there. There was no further updates.
As you can see, even if you get the a good girl, you never know, what this corrupted society can do to her. From single women, aka "Female friends", trying to destroy her marriage, to guys wanting a piece of her ...
What modern society does about all of this ?
It encourages it ...
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Due to the nature of how men and women operate:
- For a woman it's really easy to pretend to be atracted to a man. All she has to do is: lay down on the bed and let him go through with her. This is why, these women only want missionary position and say, they are not that kind of girl. As soon as the marriage is sealed, she wants immediately to stop sleeping with the guy and the excuses start popping out.
One of the worst things, I heard a wife saying to her husband after they got married, in Strong Successful Male stories was: she was asexual and going to bed with her husband felt like a forced act. Of course before the marriage, that problem didn't existed ...
- For men it's difficult to have intercourse with a woman they aren't attracted to, because that thing isn't going to get up if the attraction isn't there. Some men can, like the gigolos.
This is why, when female teachers get involved with younger male students, it's hard to prove, it wasn't consented. Also the law is nowhere near as harsh with these female teachers as it is with male teachers offenders.
Edit: this is why, when a woman say, she's religious, she's not that type of girl, she wants to be a stay at home mother, a guy should be on alert mode. Too many times, chameleons used this narrative to conveniently hide they are in reality: 304s wanting to settle down with a nice guy, that will be a good provider for her and her future children that might not be his.
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The reason why she's now complaining, is because things didn't turned out the way she expected. There was no knight wearing a shining armour at the end of the tunnel, waiting to save her.
She doesn't regret her actions, she doesn't like the consequences.
That's natural selection.
The women that saves themselves for their husbands, stay loyal, will thrive.
Even if things don't turn out well on their first marriage, there's plenty of men that will still marry her, because of her low body count (assuming her husband was her first).
I know a female co-worker, on her 50s, that married a husband, that made good money in the factory he worked, but he was always drunk. Had a daughter with him, divorced him. Married a second time, had a son, with her current husband.
There was a story, told by my mother, about a guy who married his wife. She had kids from a previous marriage. He didn't want more kids.
However she loved kids and wanted, his kids.
She got pregnant of him and gave birth, to twins. She than told her husband, he could divorce her, if he didn't like it.
My mother told me, he became very attached to the twins. In the end, he stayed with his wife.
Women who date, with the purpose of getting married, have kids, are feminine, want to stay at home, will always have guys wanting them.
Even my 67 years old mother, has retired men wanting to be with her, because she can take care of the house, cook, clean and do all the traditional roles. However she had enough, with my father and she doesn't want to do anything with men, ever.
The women, that can't keep their legs closed, because they need to "find themselves", will be left in the cold streets, after being pumped and dumped by multiple guys.
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When I'm on my hollidays at my mother's house, I usually spend the entire time resting and playing World of Warcraft. Even though I'm at home, that doesn't mean I'm available 24/7.
If I'm doing a dungeon or Raid, it pisses me off to no end when my mother wants to talk to me 😤
I mean, the entire time I wasn't at the laptop, she could have said what she wanted.
I had to explain to her that when I'm playing with other players online, it is considered rude and disrespectful to leave a party of 5 players when you are inside a dungeon. Not only that, people might start adding your character to their block list, which makes it longer to get groups next time.
To the women complaining their husbands play video games, I ask this:
Would they prefer their husbands hanging outside on bars with their male friends, and they don't know if they are screwing around with other women ?
That's what my father did.
Having a strong father is important for both the son and the daughter.
My mother was raised in a very harsh environment. She had to open the store by 12 years old and buy bread for the family to eat breakfast. She had to walk in the rain with cloth tennis to school. She also got beaten up when she was a kid.
The results: a traditional woman who knew everything regarding household. Married at 18 years old, and my father was her first one.
People talk a lot about how men are weak.
However, women are also weak. They can't do anything around the house, they constantly get in to relationships with the wrong guys, they have daddy issues, they act like men, they aren't feminine, they have no discipline or self control regarding sexual partners the list goes on.
Fathers need to be present in the kids life and be allowed to discipline them, including beating them up. I got beaten up when I was a kid, and I have no problems saying I deserved it. Every single one of them. People tell me these days my parents must have been good parents since I'm so polite and this is the UK we are talking about.
If you don't say "thank you" to someone for opening a door for you, they will remind you by telling you: "You are welcome." (Sacastic way)
Wives need to stop being rewarded for leaving their marriages because: "They aren't happy."
The only exceptions should be: adultery and DV.
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Marriages that used to last a life long time are gone, and so is the structure that kept them that way.
- Women are encouraged to leave their marriages by modern society, resulting in the vast majority of divorces being filled by women.
- Adultery isn't punished in no fault divorce states.
- People who destroy marriages are not punished by society: single toxic girlfriends, guys who thrive in sleeping with married women and women who thrive in sleeping with married men.
- There's no justice regarding divorce. The men often lose the kids, the house to the wife, alongside having to pay child support and alimony.
Women don't act like ladies anymore.
- They are indoctrinated by feminism into hating men.
- They prioritize their careers. Climbing the corporate ladder over building a family.
- They don't value purity anymore. Sex is no longer an intimate act they share only with their husbands but something they explore with multiple guys on their 20s, which is their most fertile years.
- The guys who want to marry and do the right thing often get women on their 30s who have been passed around by Chads, Tyrones, and bad boys, aka leftovers.
- They often have no problems sacrificing their families for their happiness. Divorcing the husbands because they think they will find better.
In summary, the juice isn't worth the squeeze.
304 inflation: a man has to work 5 times harder for a woman that is 20 times worse than his grandmother.
Women in more traditional countries where corporations and feminism are not predominant yet, have no problems marrying guys who are invisible to modern Western women.
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My mother is also traditional.
A life of hard work as a mother, wife and chef, left her with a spinal cord of a 90 years old, even though she's only 67 years old. But I still see in her the will to do things, clean the house, cook, go shopping for groceries, take care of the house, etc.
Modern F3minism is for me, a hate movement towards men and a destructive movement for women. It's also destroying society, by dividing men and women.
"A woman needs a man, as a fish needs a bicycle."
What a idiotic thing to say.
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It's quite interesting that even though we are in the most advanced period, regarding science and technology.
Women and men seem to drift further apart.
Women seem, to not wanting to understand men. In fact they seem more prone, to trying to reinvent them, the way they feel men should be.
Probably the perfect man for them, is a Frankenstein composed of the different parts and aspects of every man, they dated throughout their lives.
It's harder and harder for men to understand women, these days, because they play games, they use reverse psychology, almost like they take pleasure in to making something that should be simple, in to something extremely complicated and than, they wonder, why they end up alone ...
"Don't try to understand women, women understand women and they hate each other." – Al Bundy
Women, when they are young, have so many men to chose, from. Instead of being logical and choosing their best choice, they keep exploring, until there's nothing left for, them, until it's too late. Just like the woman, in the husband store joke, that reached the 6th floor and there was no men there, just a sign telling her that she, like so many like her, waa impossible to please.
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In Portugal Catholicism is still prevalent.
I used to work with a junior Architect in the Architecture office. He was a devout Catholic. He didn't believe in divorce or contraception.
He was a very charismatic guy and was 6 feet tall. He didn't go to the gym but he lwss fit and loved to play football on his free time (when he had it).
He married a kindergarten worker. She was blond and fit. I think she was Catholic too.
They had: 4 sons, 2 daughters and a baby and his wife was still on her late 30s.
So she could still have more. Also, she was still: beautiful, fit, fertile. She wasn't lazy, she worked hard in the house for her husband and kids. She loved kids, that's why she used to work with them.
The junior Architect used to work with us for 37.5 hours a week, after that he worked as a teacher and he had his own Architecture office, as part time, with associates.
His wife was a stay at home mother.
My boss used to joke with the junior Architect and tell him, with guys like him the white race would never decline.
This is just an example on how much better traditional families are compared to societies where F3minism tells women it's wrong to stay at home and be a housewife, the damage done by contraception and abortion and how much damage debauchery and divorce laws in favour of women have done to society.
My boss married: 4 times and had 2 sons and a daughter.
In the US his finances, would be ruined by the time he divorced a 2nd time.
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Strong Successful Male usually say:
"No good deed, goes unpunished."
Also:
"Sodom and Gomorrah 2.0."
It's no surprise men are walking from society.
Who wants to fight for a society, where men are treated like dogs ?
Sacrifice so much for women, who never recognise that, while seeing them rewarding guys, who did nothing, for them, with everything, because these women want these guys attention and validation.
There's no reward for doing the right thing anymore.
When I hear stories like this:
"A 99-year-old Italian man filed for divorce from his 96-year-old wife of 77 years after he found letters from an affair she had 60 years ago."
I conclude that: marriage is like a Russian roulette, where there's 5 chambers loaded and only one is empty. Even if you die, of old age, after decades of being married, there's no guarantee, your wife didn't cheat on you, during your marriage and never told you about it.
When women get divorced, they get their hearts 💔 broken.
When men get divorced, they lose the kids, the house, they have to pay child support, they have to pay alimony, etc.
What a great deal, for men ...
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Women are allowed to say anything, but men aren't allowed to say anything, because women feelings get hurt.
To the "funny" girls, stating only 10% of men should be kept and the rest tossed away, remember those words. When they are on the position of the woman on the red dress, none will step up to clean up their mess.
Remember: what is on the Internet, stays there forever.
Ask that poor guy caught, by that "OF model", portrayed as a pervert, when he was not even in to women at all, he liked men.
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Yup, women drive cultures. Since Legion of Men is mentioning Sparta, the whole Trojan war, started because of Helen of Sparta.
From Wikipedia:
"The war was waged by the Achaeans (Greeks) against the city of Troy after Paris of Troy took Helen from her husband Menelaus, king of Sparta. "
Men are used to fight over women, since the dawn of manking.
That woman with glasses, is dumb as F.
Since when Alpha goes together with i-n-c-el ?
If anything she probably, already got pumped and dumped by a few alphas and now has become a f-e-m-c-e-l.
Women create the monsters they later complain about.
Guys are not dumb. Why work so hard to be a beta provider, when the bad boy gets everything for free ?
There was a story in Strong Successful Male about a militar guy, that found out, that his wife was cheating on him with her high-school or College BF. His daughter wasn't even his, it was from the ex-BF.
While he was at work, she was going to her ex-BF house, buy him groceries, with his money, and she even slept with the guy, her ex-BF owned money.
Another story in the same channel, a guy waited 3 years to sleep with his high-school sweetheart, just for her to sleep with a random guy she met for a week at a party in college and afterwards 15 others, some of them, didn't even remembered her name, because they didn't bothered learning it.
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Modern society loves the narrative that's all men's fault, because they play video games and watch p0rn, instead of working as slaves for a gynocentric society that despises them.
I play World of Warcraft and I watch p0rn.
I work 37.5 hours a week, in the UK. I had to leave Portugal because I was unemployed, for 2 years after the Construction section went downhill in 2012.
Spent 10 years on the Architecture office, without getting the degree. Working during the day to pay for the private university and studying during the night, that didn't worked out as I expected.
Took courses in: 3D studio, Maya, Computer technician, programming, for nothing.
In the end I couldn't get a job. The only job offer, I got was from a Portuguese cleaning company, operating in the UK.
Not everyone is meant for success. That's why only 20% are on the top.
I don't live with my parents, in fact I'm the one supporting my mother. 1/3 of my monthly income, goes to her.
I'm far from an obese person and the physical job, I do, keeps me healthy.
On weekend, I almost had a 24 hours, because none came to work on the afternoon shift and there was so much work to be done between the morning and the afternoon shift that I had to stay for a third shift, in order to get it done.
People want to get paid, but they don't want to work.
Women avoid my section as the plague, guys say they are sick, when they are called to work in my section.
In my opinion there's nothing wrong with video games or p0rn, as long as they are not addictions.
- Video games, are a good distraction and allow to relief some stress.
- The alternative to p0rn is: pr0stitutes. That's what men, in my grandfathers generation and before them, used and still use. That's why it's called; the oldest profession in the world.
Pr0stitution helps, spread STDs and unwanted pregnancies.
Here's other things that, can also be talked about:
- Tobacco: creates pollution and lung cancer, yet people still smoke.
- Alcohol: what good comes from it ?
Too much consumption of it destroys, the body overtime. Yet society loves it.
It's even forbidden in Islam.
- Hookup culture: responsible for unwanted pregnancies, STDs, abortions, divorces, etc.
Yet it's promoted by F3minists as: empowering.
- Adultery: all three one God religions (Christianity, Islam and Jewish) are clear about, the punishment for it: death.
Yet it's not forbidden or punishable by law.
It's rampart in Western countries, to the point marriage as an institution is seen, just as a social contract in which the government is involved and where men are screwed over.
- Abortion: the killing of a human being inside of a woman. But women say: their body their choice. So killing is ok, if society allows it.
- Gender discrimination. Women are treated like innocent beings, that can't do no wrong and men are treated like dog crap.
Even Monkeys know, when they are being treated unfairly (scientific experiment,in which one monkey protested angrily, after receiving cucumber 🥒 all the time, while the other was receiving grapes 🍇).
- Women in Western countries, being incentivized to divorce their husbands, creating single parents households, depriving the kids, from a father figure. Creating conditions for girls with daddy issues, that become 304s and weak boys that become, simps, betas, unable to stand for themselves.
The list goes on.
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It all boils down to each individual.
My father remarried with an older single mother after divorce, while my mother stayed single till today. She was done with men after my father.
My younger sister is just like my father. She can't fathom the idea of being alone, and that's why she lives with my mother in Portugal.
I, on the other hand, am just like my mother. I've been living in the UK for 10 years now, and life is great. None to tell me what to do, can do whatever I want and buy anything I want.
Marriage is a better deal for women than men.
My father second wife had children of her own. They were grown up, but they were bums.
She didn't cook or did any cleaning around the house, according to my aunt. All she was was a warm body on the bed and a company. She took care of my father till he died, but the funeral had to be handled by my sister because she knew nothing about paperwork. She got my father pension. Not bad for a 20-year marriage in which she didn't do anything around the house, got provided and protected and she wasn't good looking either. Neither in a bare minimum. When my mother showed her older sister the picture of my father second wife she was genuinely disgusted. She asked: "He married this ??"
The current 3rd wife of my uncle spent all his money while he was abroad working, and was dating another guy as well. My mother saw her on the train with that guy. Before that she made him leave a flat he had in his name for a house with their name, in which he had to give it up because he couldn't afford it. Now, they are living in her grandmother basement. His 3 daughters don't care about him. 2 are single, and one is married to the brother of my uncle wife. For context, my uncle met his wife through his son in law.
Needless to say, my uncle is paying for his wife expenses. Because she doesn't do anything.
Well, at least he won't die alone, right ?
"A smart person learns from his mistakes, but a truly wise person learns from the mistakes of others." - Ken Schramm
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Women who sleep around and think guys are so lucky to have their leftovers, at 28-30 years old, deserve F boys, who did nothing for their lifes.
Women who constantly need attention and validation from social media, like Instagram or OFs, deserve guys who share their attention and money, with Instagram and OFs models.
Women who cheat, deserve guys who cheat and now they can happily live an open relationships where they cheat on each other.
Women who have nothing to offer, deserve guys who have nothing to offer.
Women who lie about their age, weight, body count etc. Deserve guys who lie about how much money they make, how much money they have, how many women they've been with, etc.
Wonen who are ball busting boss babes, deserve feminine guys that leaves them dry as the sahara desert.
Ungrateful women deserve Sh4d Tyrone and bad boys, men that treat women like crap.
Women who don't value the men they have, deserve to see them, travelling to other countries, while they die alone.
Women who say: "I'm strong independently and need no man." Should marry other women or get cats and boxes of wine.
Traditional women deserve Traditional men.
Modern women deserves modern men.
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In my opinion all of this delusion, created by a wealthy society isn't healthy.
It creates a vicious cicle. These women end up wasting their best years, going from guy to guy, never settling down, because of their insane standards and the guys they want, constantly pumping and dumping them (because that's what guys with options do), hit the wall in their 30s, even more delusional, because now, they know their worth, give bad advice to younger women and than as they grow older and lose their looks they become bitter and angry at men. When in reality their downfall was caused by their own selfish decisions and delusions.
A society made out of broken women is not a healthy society.
I don't live in the US. However if I lived there and had to deal with these type of women, I would choose to work hard on getting my retirement as early as possible, before my 50s and once that was assured, go and live in a foreign country, where it's easier to find traditional women and the divorce laws are not as punishing.
In Portugal, we have a lot of retired English people. I think Spain is the same. They love the food, the weather and the beaches.
Guys can do the same, in this case, to look for wives.
In my case, I'm not looking for a wife and I'm not interested in dating, so it's easier, for me to save money and also use it, to help my mother.
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"It's a privilege to able to be as stay at home mother. "
Exactly 👍
I'm from Portugal.
My mother had to work as a chef on top of what, she already had to do in the house.
A female co-worker, the same age as my mother, I used to work with, for more than 15 years, had the same lifestyle.
She worked as a secretary and after finishing, she still had to go home, prepare dinner and everything for her daughter and her husband.
Most women, I know married average guys, than they had to work and take care of the husband and children as well. The husbands were already busy, with working overtime and do the physical work around the house.
Modern women, are completely delusional, about what married life is.
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Honestly, after hearing so many stories of girlfriends giving bad advice to others or just plain out backstabbing them because they were jealous of them, I think this girl is fine being alone. Whenever I hear the word "cool gang," I cringe.
List of bad advice I keep hearing on these stories:
- Explore multiple experiences in college, aka hookup with multiple guys in college, before marriage, thus destroying their value.
- Friend zoning guys that are marriage material, to go hookup with hot guys, just to find later on those guys have moved on with their lives and are now dating/married another woman.
- Single girls advising other girls in stable committed relationships to ditch their boyfriend/fiancé/husband because they can do better.
- Deliberately sabotaging another girl relationship because she wanted her man.
- Crab bucket mentality, keeping other women single so just they can feel good about themselves.
- The list goes on and on.
In my case, I had 2 friends for 10 years, and I hung out with my younger sister friends from university a couple of years.
I don't miss it. I was also tired of putting in a mask and pretending to be nice all the time.
I get better advice and experiences from strangers in the comments sections and videos from men channels.
Co-workers fill in all my necessities for interaction on a daily basis.
My mother used to tell me this: "Friends, I never knew what good they were for. They are never around when you need them. Family is there for you."
Also, she said this as well: "I will never understand this need people have for company. Why can't they be alone ? For me the best place I like to be is at home. Why do people need to constantly go out ?"
It took me years to understand what she told me. But she was right. Maybe it's because we share the same dna.
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I hope in the future these laws will discourage women who just want to get married, to divorce their husbands 10 years after, taking the kids, the house, child support, alimony etc.
Either they marry to be together for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death us do part, or simply: don't.
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12:01 Sadly, what this woman is saying is true.
I was speaking to a female work colleague today.
I was explaining to her that more than a decade ago, I was earning 714 euros, while my co-worker was earning 1250 euros as an architecture designer. I told him I wish I had his salary, but he then proceeded to explain to me that earning more is meaningless since the more you earn, the more you spend. He was right. I'm earning more than he did back then, in the UK 🇬🇧 and it still feels like the same. Before I lived with my mother so I didn't have housing expenses as I have now and I have to buy food while before I had home cooked meals.
She agreed with me.
I then explained the case of my female cousin.
She had a degree in journalism and was married to a successful photographer. They were always travelling and eating outside. She didn't want to do anything on the house. Eventually, the husband got fed up with her laziness and divorced her. They had nothing by the end of the marriage. She even had to pay some of his debts.
The female work colleague then proceeded to tell me the story of the sister of her husband.
She was married to an engineer.
She worked enough time, so she could then stay on unemployment benefits. That's all she did.
She also never did anything around the house.
Her husband loved her so much that he even took extra shifts so she could stay at home.
She spent so much money that they had their credit cards maxed out. Despite struggling to feed their 2 kids, she showed once the 100 euros boots she had bought. She also insisted on buying a new car, and eventually, the husband caved in. More expenses with loans related to car payments.
Even so, with all what her husband was doing for her, she filled for divorce 🤦♂️ even though my female work colleague told her she wouldn't find a husband like the one she had.
I had to ask my female work colleague, again, who asked for divorce because I couldn't believe what I had just heard 🤦♂️
Eventually, she remarried with an Indian guy who was probably interested in Portuguese nationality. Now she was the one complaining he did nothing around the house. They travelled to India to meet his family and divorced a couple of months after.
Now she has to work, her mother isn't helping her with anything as she got fed up with working in the UK and sending money for her. My female work colleague eventually agreed to leave some groceries at her house.
41 years old, divorced twice 🤦♂️
Her husband, meanwhile, remarried and is happy with his new wife.
The perfect embodiment of: 12:29 Women leave happy relationships because they are bored.🤦♂️
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Smart women (small minority) save themselves for marriage, and if the marriage fails, they lower their expectations because they understand they are not as attractive as when they were younger.
They don't waste their time with guys who only want to go to bed with them.
Dumb women (the vast majority) think they can go and have fun with Ch4d, Tyrones, Bad boy, destroy their value, destroy their pair bonding ability and have higher expectations as they get older, removing themselves out of the dating market and that's a good thing, for smart women who can now capitalise by getting all the men the dumb women ignore.
This is why I believe: only dumb women are single.
Exception made to the ones that prefer to be single. I respect that.
Here's a proof that even with 4 kids a woman can still get married, so long as she's feminine and submissive: in Strong Successful Male there was a guy who wrote telling his story. He had lost his wife and was left with 2 boys. He remarried to a single mother of 4 kids. The father of her children left her.
The story was more about how his parents ruined him financially by trying to take his kids away from him, with the help of the in-laws and all the money he lost in court. But I will focus on his new wife.
He describes his new wife as:
- Someone that helped him financially when he lost all of his savings in court fighting for his kids.
He lost 40k she put her 41k on the line.
- Treated his kids as her own and even making a separated special Christmas tree dedicated to his 2 boys and their deceased mother. His boys now call her: mom.
- Allowed him to discipline her kids. Now her kids call him father and tell him how much better he is compared to their biological father.
Good women will always have suitors. They aren't stupid to have ludicrous expectations regarding their future husbands.
Also: they know how to keep a marriage and aren't on TikTok complaining about men. They are with their husbands and kids living happy.
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