Comments by "Fangroth" (@Fangroth) on "Why Nice Guys Turn Into Bad Boys" video.
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Great video Legion of Men 👍
I saved this on the life advice playlist.
One thing, I love about the manosphere are, the shared experience, knowledge and stories.
Coach Gred Adams - Got divorced by his wife and she took everything he had.
Strong Successful Male - got the the girl he was in love with, coming after him, after she got pregnant of her bad boy BF.
Richard Cooper - Got divorced but he had a good lawyer.
In conclusion: knowledge can only be acquired through bad experiences. You have to walk through the hot coals and get burned, till you are numb ...
It's true that man have to have a backbone.
My younger sister, had a childhood girlfriend.
She was a religious girl. They both graduated as programming engineers.
We liked, gaming, anime, comics and our friends shared the same hobbies.
One of my sister friends, a computer technician fell in love for her girlfriend and they ended up marrying. I though this was a perfect marriage.
They were both nerds, with glasses, he was older than her.
I was wrong ...
Looking back now, with the knowledge I acquired in these videos:
- He's a nice guy. He was always trying to buy her affection, with gifts. Usually computer parts, he didn't needed anymore, but she really needed. He was always trying to find new games to play with her.
- She was attracted to me, when I asked my sister why, she said it was my height. I'm 5.9 (1,8 meters). The guy she married is shorter.
- She married him, because he has a house. She wanted to leave her parents house.
- She doesn't want to have kids with him, only cats.
- Even though she's graduated, he makes more money than she does.
- He had to sell his house, that was in his name to his mother in law, because she needed a house on the ground floor, due to an accident she had. Now he had to buy a house, more distant of his parents house, with her.
- They were at my mother house, during new year eve. My mother described what she witnessed: her sitting in the couch, while he was bringing the food to her.
- Unfortunately this guy father, was the same.
He also worked in the programming area, he's also a nerd with glasses.
The mother was a blue eyes blond that worked in selling houses business.
They have 2 sons. The one I mentioned above is the oldest.
I heard from my mother, that the mother cheated on the father, with her boss.
I remember writing in the Fresh and Fit comments section, an explanation of what a high value man was, according to old Kevin Samuels:
6 feet tall, 6 figures income, 6 pack.
I was replied by another commentator:
"Good luck with that formula. If you don't have frame, girls won't look at you. HVM here."
Honestly that was a good information. It matched, exactly what I always suspected: looks, attractiveness matter first.
This was more solidified after a female commentator explained, the reason, she fell in love with her husband, (I think she described herself as blond) was because he had dark hair, blue eyes and he was also tall. Of course he was working on the same company as she was and was making good money, but that came as an afterthought.
Women regarding first impressions are not that different of men.
My cousin described that the main feature, that made him fell in love for his wife was her big "chest".
The junior architect, Catholic, I used to work with, said he always wanted a blond wife. That's what he's married to. Last time I see him 10 years ago, he had 6 children.
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