Comments by "Fangroth" (@Fangroth) on "Traditional Marriage Is DEAD For Millenials And Gen Z" video.
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For me, the biggest turn-off from any woman is their disloyalty. I'm perfectly fine with divorce.
I'm not ok with adultery. In fact, my biggest fear is being cheated and never knowing that until the day I die, while everyone around you knows. Like my grandfather and my tutor (he's still alive, btw).
A man to cheat has to put effort into it and make the first move.
A woman to cheat only has to accept a man advance on her, and it only has to happen once.
After that, usually, the husband can't even look at his wife the same way.
Heard too many stories where the wife cheated because:
- Someone needed to take care of the kids. The husband stayed because the wife made more money.
- He wasn't being masculine enough.
- He fell into depression because someone important died.
- His business wasn't going well.
- He travelled for work
- She travelled for work.
- The AP was good-looking.
- She was drunk on a girls' night out.
- She got too close to a male family member like the brother or cousin.
- She was bored at home.
- The AP gave her attention and validation.
- She was chasing Chad, Tyrone, and Bad Boy validation.
- An ex came back into her life.
- The husband was the guy she settled for.
- The boss was chasing her.
- The husband got into an accident and was unable to provide, and she needed to look after herself.
- The husband wasn't able to give her kids.
- The husband shows weakness.
- Her pair bonding was damaged.
- Her girlfriends influenced her.
- Someone better showed up.
- She wanted a one night stand.
- It was just sex no feelings involved.
- She let someone get too close of her.
- Etc.
I had an uncle who got cheated on his first marriage after 2-3 months. He got cheated again on his second marriage despite having 3 daughters with his wife. His 3rd wife spent all his money while he was working abroad, my mother saw her with another man but my uncle still married her and has been with her since then.
The upstairs neighbours had kids I used to play with when I was a child. The wife cheated on the husband years later with her boss and got pregnant of him.
The husband ended up raising the kid until he was 18 years old. His wife wasn't even that good looking, she was short and fat.
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For me, the greatest loss in modern society is the traditional women I grew up with.
The ones that stayed at home, cooking, ckeaning, taking care of the kids, sewing, etc.
Women like these are irreplaceable in society, in my opinion. They are the ones that raise the kids, educate them, take care of the house while the husband is out there grinding. They were not pretty. Some were fat, but they were hard workers and loyal. Looking at my mother, she saved our family so much money by buying the best deals on the supermarket, making soup with leftover food, sewing cloth so we could reuse them, making sure my father was rested and well fed for the next day at work, making sure his clothes were ready and washed. Eventually, she had to work to provide extra income for my younger sister.
The way I see it, modern women are completely useless. They are just weak men.
They don't have the strength, the reflexes, the stamina, they can't be drafted, they can't work on physical jobs, they can't work in infrastructure, they don't want low paying jobs, they don't want to do any of the traditional roles, despite earning the same if not more than men they still want to be provided like a traditional woman, if they have kids they don't want more than 2, they might divorce and take everything because they aren't happy the list goes on.
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Personally, I never envied who had more because life is what each individual makes of it.
This is why some people are billionaires and others are bums.
However, a society isn't made of CEOs, entrepreneurs, millionaires, gold, and money.
Imagine if we live in a society where there's only wealth, but you couldn't buy anything with it.
No bread because there's no bakers.
There are no vegetables because there's no farmers.
No meat because there are no butchers and ranchers.
No fish because there's no fisherman.
There's no security because there's no policeman.
None to put fires out because there's no fireman.
No buildings because none wants to work on construction.
There is no infrastructure because none wants to work on it.
No army because none volunteers except for general or officer positions.
Everyone wants an office job, working with air conditioning with the bare minimum of hours.
In my opinion, each individual has his or her place in society. Everyone is important.
When women only look at the top percentage of men while ignoring the rest, they have zero morals to complain when they end up single and miserable.
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